breaking free: why I’m done being a people-pleaser!

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

Комментарии • 33

  • @anitadeckard1216
    @anitadeckard1216 28 дней назад +5

    I feel you💕

  • @RollOnBusin
    @RollOnBusin 28 дней назад +5

    Such wise words. I needed to hear this!

  • @plants4thewin
    @plants4thewin 28 дней назад +4

    I absolutely do not worry about what others think. I barely tell anyone anything. I just do what I do. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @GreenSlothJello
    @GreenSlothJello 28 дней назад +4

    yes! agreed live your life and let them live their lives!

  • @Leanin3282-q4q
    @Leanin3282-q4q 4 дня назад +2

    I'm glad you made this video because I feel the same way. Sometimes I sing that Bon Jovi song, "It's my life, it's now or never." People twist my reality giving their opinion. I want to play hut in my ride and travel. back in the day people loaded up the kids and traveled to find better lives and just see the USA in your Chevrolet. We have became like the old days how we talked about Chinese working them self to death, it's that way now in America. I lost my partner she passed away in 2022 of heart attack after 25 years on that job. She got up before daylight worked till after dark and her sisters would guilt tip her so she would after working all that time go perform service for family, we never got to see each other and I loved her so much, she worked herself to death and loved to ride in the car and see places, I'll never get over that. I want to live for both of us.

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  3 дня назад

      So sorry to hear that,im sure she would want you to enjoy life now,it’s like we’re working 60 hours per week to keep up in this world,so hit the road in memory of her and enjoy life to the fullest!

  • @anitadeckard1216
    @anitadeckard1216 28 дней назад +3

    You only need to worry about what is yours, never ever put others first before you💕

  • @Locd4life707
    @Locd4life707 28 дней назад +5

    You have to do what makes you happiest! The only person you have to answer to other than yourself is your husband. Forget what others think or say. Period!

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  28 дней назад +2

      Thank you! That’s how I’m living now, peace and happiness are my only focus!

    • @Locd4life707
      @Locd4life707 28 дней назад +1

      @@vanmilyoffour I can relate. I'm solo and I have lived in my van for two and a half years now. I love it and family is still trying to put me back in sticks and bricks. I'm living according to my terms and what makes me happiest.

  • @fredlawson9394
    @fredlawson9394 7 дней назад +2

    Well said 👍

  • @Wolf-Pack-for-life
    @Wolf-Pack-for-life 27 дней назад +1

    Adventure and creating memories❤

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  27 дней назад +1

      @@Wolf-Pack-for-life That’s it!!🫶🏽

  • @kimberlym.3643
    @kimberlym.3643 28 дней назад +4

    Amen! You should put in all your titles #familyvanlifegoal

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  28 дней назад +2

      Will definitely use that for tag words! Thanks!

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  28 дней назад +1

      👍🏽

    • @kimberlym.3643
      @kimberlym.3643 28 дней назад +1

      @@vanmilyoffour I forgot to put an s at the end of goal. I think it's so wonderful that you and your family want to make memories. Like you said down the street at the park or a 2 hr drive away. I pray God's blessings for you and your family.

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  27 дней назад +1

      @ 💕💕

  • @Trippledna
    @Trippledna 17 дней назад +1

    I feel you too💯🙌🏾🥰

  • @caseypersonally
    @caseypersonally 27 дней назад +3

    I'm going through this now. I'm 49. My sons are old enough for me to take my trips. Momma gotta have a life too.😂

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  27 дней назад +1

      @@caseypersonally yes momma gotta have a life too🤗 Love it!!

  • @kjstarr2893
    @kjstarr2893 28 дней назад +1

    Sis, you are giving too much energy to the haters. If you feed them your business, they will feast on try to bring you down! Do you and your family and just GO, GO, GO! Use your time and energy and video space to share your passion and follow your destiny! God bless you and yours, no matter what you choose to do. ❤❤❤

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  28 дней назад +2

      Thank you so much for the encouragement!!🫶🏽

  • @eudoralondon3218
    @eudoralondon3218 12 дней назад +1

    🙌🏾

  • @cat58732
    @cat58732 28 дней назад +3

    We shouldn't worry about what others think of us and only be concerned with what God thinks. The beauty supply and Maybelline won't be waiting for us in heaven so just let it go here...

    • @vanmilyoffour
      @vanmilyoffour  28 дней назад +1

      Amen!! You are exactly right!!❤️