@@Farfetch_ They didn't HAVE to do it. They chose to. To help their child succeed. Probably spending most of their money on it. She has a chance to pay them back and doesn't? That's some selfish ass shit. Now you can say that's based, or that shes a bad kid. That is irrelevant to the point it is a selfish move to make the money she makes and NOT pay her parents back, when they don't make that kind of money and they spent nearly 200k on her education
@Medusas_Barber You have no idea what there relationship is like, you have no idea if they are actually broke. The problem is none of us should know about any of this and the fact you have an opinion about it means you need to go outside for a bit.
Folks, this ain't complicated. ExtraEmily is a great entertaining streamer, but she is also an only child who has repeatedly shown extremely self centered behavior. From voting for herself on every award to not thinking rules of businesses apply to her (specifically about filming) to ignoring traffic laws and never expecting consequences. From trying to weasel her way out of bets she lost to practically ruining her friends pool and backyard and not offering to help clean until he forced the issue... stuff like that over and over again.
I dunno why people are so surprised, most streamer are like that. You have to have a somewhat self serving/self centered personality to get into the big levels of streaming. Just look at most big streamers, they're all about themselves most of the time, with some exception, but it's rare.
@@goglux2 they're just normal ass people who do normal ass people stuff. I'm kinda tired of people putting them on some kind of pedastal of morality or something. no one should worship another human being they've never met.
@@stephenmason9527 Don't even get me started with the list of people she slept with and she ranked them in multiple things, absolutely disgusting, people will think "men do that all the time" but no, no man made an entire list solely about how good a woman made you feel, how big their parts were and what bad they did
@@BeyondParasocialthey're expensive schools known for high level academia. Harvard, Princeton, Yale ect. They are basically schools for the elite. The wealthy elite and the scholarly elite.
1. Poor hygiene 2. Fake personality 3. Is rich but does not pay her parents back 4. Has a spreadsheet of everyone she sleeps with, detailing their size , how it was , etc . 5. Cries when she gets caught being a terrible person Etc. What a wonderful person she is
@@SlevinCCX I see someone is already triggered within the first 5 seconds of reading this comment. Maybe you should take your own advice before you start crying snowflake.
@scpWyatt should she pay 18 years of rent aswell? Should she pay back diapers? She did what was expected of her. If I take a loan out in your name for private middle school, when you're around 10 to 13, should I hand you a bill for it? Was she supposed to get bad grades and not go to college? Or better yet, she should have known the future before going to college. Oh rats...
She didn’t want to pay nicks train fair which couldn’t have been more than what 7$? After all the things he’s done and paid for for her. I saw it than myself.
They legit were handing her lay up to get out of looking at and everytime acted entitled. to say they wouldn’t be proud to pay them back you say no right away yeah daddy paid for everything and I think the mom probably wasn’t as fully ok with it. Acting like that someone has showed her to act that way 😊
@ look… even I as the last generation of middle class boomer did took a loan from my mom and of course I paid it back. It’s very simple. Just a general question. The debt money was generated after she turned 18 right?
As an asian, watching the interaction between her and mom, I can tell her mom feels scammed and it’s sad emily doesn’t care about her family. Typical women, all feelings, 0 logic
@@HipHopTheme When women are faced with the accountability of their actions. They will either run away, cry or play victim to avoid dealing with the repercussions.
See this is why it's best to keep shit off stream cause people like you just believe everything you see or hear on the Internet. Literally all the time they joke around about it. If they were really serious about wanting the money they would've done something about it by now it's been like 5 going on 6 years
emily doesn't understand the safety net she had in place to even begin streaming. she knew if she failed her parents would pick her up. they probably paid for all the equipment and was paying her rent so she could have the free time to stream.
Also the safety net that her education gave her, that if ever she doesn't want to stream or if something goes bad in her streaming career she still has a fall back because she already have a college degree.
@@chah5001I’m getting even more mad. SHE PROBABLY WOULDNT HAVE WORKED AT THE BANK IF NOT FOR HER EDUCATION AT COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY IN NYC. Screw her terrible human being
You were smart enough to see through the facade while everyone was buying into her "I'm klutzy but I'm also a good person" act. What bothers me is that even though she's a shitty human being, simps are still going to white knight her because she's a girl.
@@mack720p This is why zoomers are constantly crying or acting entitled on the internet. Gen Z has been coddled their entire lives, they've never been called out or held accountable for their actions so they think this type of degenerate behavior is normal.
@@reedg2571😂WHAT? Mate it’s a 170k and they want it back after their daughter is a millionaire who got famous by streaming in NYC after they sent her to an expensive elite college in NYC and working an elite job at NYC that she got entirely paid for by her parents. She can pay it back
Agreed. If they would be 'broke' after giving her that money that's on them having a loan is not the end of the world. Clearly they put her through a life where she's expected to do everything perfectly. So I get her being over it.
The majority of streamers (99%) make less than 1k a year. The top 1% of streamers make less than 5k a year on average (accounting for outliers.) The Top 0.1% of streamers make less than 10k a year on average from streaming. Only the top 0.01% of streamers are making over 100k a year from streaming (around what a somewhat intelligent and competent college grad in an employable major will make right out of college or within the first few years.) Only the top 0.001% of streamers are making over 1 million a year from streaming. Only the top 25 streamers on Twitch are making over 10k a day, total, from all revenue sources, before taxes. They almost all know each other. After taxes, maybe 15 of them bring home 10k a day. Streamers who can't live on their streaming salary exist, they are the vast majority of streamers, almost all streamers are barely surviving, and they all either live with their generous parents, or more likely, have a day job. The rare few, the 0.01% (yes, you are more likely to get into a good medical school than to become a successful streamer), make as much as a plumber, actually plumbers have more job security and earn more over a lifetime than those top 0.01% of streamers. The ones that make millions can all be fit into one decent sized backyard. Out of the millions across the world. Have some perspective before you generalize. Also, Emily takes care of her parents financially, so she might not be "paying them back" at the moment (she has been for years now), but she takes care of anything they want or need anyways.
@@ciscoak9074 Either my autistic ass is missing the sarcasm here, or you have been brainwashed by media narratives. The homeless are not making 1k panhandling a week. That is not a reality. It is a fact that 99% of Twitch streamers make under 1k a year from their Twitch career, that is something that can be supported by data. That is why they are usually students or have full-time jobs (or many that live with their parents even in their 20s.)
The look of pure disgust on Emily's face when her mum said it's necessary that she pays them back because they're almost broke, should tell you just how scummy she truly is.
@MK_2023. she said they were broke, not they are broke (she in literal terms said 'we almost broke' in broken english, leaving ambiguity). And in this same video Emily points out they are financially doing fine. This is a personal issue between them and they don't really need the money. It's spite to make her pay back when they aren't broke now. Emily doesn't deserve condemnation for this, it's her personal relationship and complicated issue. My asian parents also went almost broke paying for my brother but they would never ever ask him to pay back even if he can afford it. In asian culture it's understood that parents don't need to be paid back. And in asian families. Parents push for ivy leagues to and willingly pay for college. They wouldn't have asked her money back if she did STEM job. It's pure asian parent nonsense and Emily is in her right within that cultural framework to push back on this bullshit.
"I don't want to" and "I'm over it" and is a crazy reason for not wanting to pay back your own parents after you agreed to it. She doesn't even give a compelling reason. And now she's throwing a tantrum and fishing for reassurance from her offline chat? Hoenstly she shouldn't have said anything about it if we're suspecting there's deep trauma attached to her decision, she's been streaming long enough to expect the pushback.
@@GatedCaffeine lmfao she's a millionaire, she could write them a half million dollar check and recoup it in 1 day with a sponsored stream, she's trash
i mean to be fair, extremely might appear to be a grown woman but mentally she’s still a preteen. i’d never expect anything less then child-like behavior from her. could u imagine dating a “woman” like that yikes
As an Asian American forced to attend college (Community college, then CSU), I'm grateful for it. Good & Bad. I paid my parent back even though they didn't ask to. Simply because I love them & was the right thing to do. Wtf
Right? There are people who are defending her cause her parents may have forced her to go to college. Like wtf? It's bad that they care about her future?
@@expmech3377 Her parents just wanted her to have some form of education so that she could have a sustainable career in the real world. Emily was the one who decided to pursue a useless degree at an expensive Ivy League School. To add insult to injury she doesn't even feel any sort of guilt or remorse towards the sacrifices that her parents made to ensure that she has a bright future.
As a non Asian American who was pressured to take on loans I was always told my school would be paid for as a kid. When I wasn't I didn't make a big deal out of it I just pay my loans back. Its really not a big deal and when parents pull this shit it's a weird way to control their lives. There's 0 reason they needed to give her the loan and then make it an issue with her to pay them back. She would have been better off just taking loans even with all the interest because then her relationship with her parents wouldn't be hinged on it. Nobody needs to go to college that's just what our parents generation wants us to think.my partner and I each make 6 figures without a degree before 30 so it's definitely possible. Stop feeding into this bs that we need to be ok with helicopter parents who don't allow their child to be their own person.
@@Brandon-vj6zzwow you know so much about this person on the internet that you make dumb comments like this one. Who the fuck cares stop judging a random girl on the internet. Its weird AF
Arthur is actually a decent human being, he actually wants Emily to pay back her parents. He did try to reason with her multiple time during that short conversation, but maybe he doesn't want an argument with Emily, Nick and their fans after that. But Nick is debatable, not only did he agree with Emily but he went extra length to delete the LSF clip to protect her image.
Damn. Watching Extra Emily say that she's not paying her folks back just because she doesn't want to is disgusting. I thought her quirky and bubbly behavior was cute and amusing, but I'll absolutely never be able to look at her the same way again.
You know she was the same person who bragged about when she was in college creating an excel sheet of all the guys she had sex with with penis size and enjoyment of sex and would show it to her friends. It was on the podcast with qt and hasan lol. She has some serious problems
ExtraEmily has mentally abusive parents if you can't tell that you're clueless. Parents are just people and they deserve what they put in. If you treat people like an object don't be surprised if that happens to you. Her parents objectified her by forcing her to live the life they want her to live.
The bubbly stuff is her online persona. She also has a spreadsheet of each person shes slept with (seems like a shit ton if u have a spreadsheet) where she has dick size and how they performed on there. Really fucking weird to have that let alone sharing it publicly.
My parents struggled to send my brother and I to private school. We had days where we just didnt have food, debt collectors calling, sheriffs coming to value all our goods. It was a terrible struggle, if i had the ability to pay back that money i would 100%.
I get the attitude that you don't owe your parents anything, but the right thing to do would to at least compensate or make sure they are taken care of at least.
And instead of taking that on board, she's retreating into threads being deleted by Nick's pressuring and nuking her Twitter account and crying to offline chat about how mean everyone is
Idk why, but watching extra Emily when she was still in school with her roommate to where she is now, I mean good on her for making it work, but just the change in her is also so drastic. Not my cup of tea
In 10 years, when the internet has forgotten you, and you're no longer making tons of money from Twitch and social media. Your parents will remember that you chose partying and traveling over paying them back when you easily could. You'll still have that relationship to mend, when you're in your mid 30s working as a sales manager, making a fraction of what you make now.
@@tristan3028 what parents asked to be paid back for school. It’s something they have to do and pushed her into. I never heard on anyone paying back their parents
they literally paid 170k for a useless degree so their daughter could get run through by over 40 dudes I genuinely wouldn't be able to recover from that
Ya this and the texting/streaming while driving are big red flags as well as other things shows how ignorant and disconnected she is and just an overall disregard for there's.
I always thought sodapoppins dislike for Emily was just entertaining banter... But seeing that he's fairly close to her, I think it's genuine dislike because he knows how she actually is.
Yep, just look up extraemily excel spread sheet.. U will understand why Soda hates her with a passion. I've always known she was a bitch behind all that sweet voice persona she puts on.
apparently she wanted to go to IVY school instead of the free scholdarship in some other collage so she asked her parents to fund her. if thats the case then its on her, she made them pay for it
No. She could have gone to the uni of Nebraska for free. Nope little Emily has to go to Columbia bc it’s a dream school for her and NYC is the perfect place to meet guys and socialize. Begged her parents to pay 170k to go there . Screw her
Brace for the OTK and Emily simps defending the undefensible She has been a bad human being the whole time and she has shown many signs but everyone has been ignoring it all because she's pretty and puts a smile towards the camera 24/7 Not enough people have been telling her no and have been spoiling her her entire life like Nick was saying "You're a great daughter" when she's clearly not, for a reason she started crying like a baby when her chat didn't agree with what she did, no matter how "bad" your parents are, they raised you and they literally risked being homeless for your future, people defending this need a reality check
@@Head_Drone que? claiming that someone is an overall bad person and writing two paragraphs on your ignorant opinion is plain weird. just chill and realize you have no idea what kind of person someone is, or what some family drama is rly about, just because you saw some twitch vod clips..
Saw her Dr. K video a month ago, she definitely has some deep pain in there with her parents. It didn’t go TOO in depth, but she was constantly on the verge of tears whenever her parents were brought up, then she’d flip a switch and suppress it and be all bubbly to hide it. Basically the idea I got was she was always trying to be good enough for them, overachiever, wasn’t ever perfect enough, did very well in school, then she finally made it big as a streamer and now they want the money back. I can imagine for her she’s like “well at least give me something, like I was pushed to the limit, succeeded, all at the expense of my happiness, the least you could do is consider this the ONE thing I leave the nest with rather than it be transactional with a net 0 gain as if I was never your daughter to begin with.” Some big guesses, but like, I could see it.
Problem is that she A. Agreed to their terms. B. The terms are she uses the degree(her corporate finance job). She decided to -probably continually- stream instead of remote work at her job, and got caught and fired. She is highly irresponsible, everyone knows this, I can see this being just another facet of her personality. To many though this is a line you never cross to renege and screw over your parents, even if her parents have millions, it is a huge deal to screw them over.
Nah I think it's borderline abusive for a parent to give a loan like this to someone who doesn't really understand that yet. People judging her a losers because they don't know her family dynamic.
@@GatedCaffeine lol, its either the loan thru them or the school lmfao. They saved her actual debt and kept her credit clean. If she had the grades to get into a good school she could've choose somewhere cheaper. Also you're a simp
Okay 1:05 she went to an expensive ass college. She got a degree she never used and now she’s making a different amount of money pay them back. It makes sense. I don’t care about her tears pay them back because you owe them that! Much like let’s be real and her mom just said it we’re going broke or almost broke that money is necessary and it would be necessary for her as their daughter to pay them back because that’s kind of what she owes them, and she pissed it away without even using the degree logic
@ oh nah that’s crazy like I get it XQC, he said this there’s not many people you’re indebted to as an adult or as a child, there’s not many people you owe favors to her in general, but like if she’s got the money, she’s making the money back now or tenfold she can pay her parents back. Yeah, they try to push her to let’s say be educated and be knowledgeable and half the shit she don’t use it don’t really matter. She’s making up that time that she could have lived a little bit better and is doing what she’s doing now which is paid them back and call it a day you can still be in your family‘s lives. I feel like she’s dragging it because it’s more personal than just money which I could totally get.
@@1ndN2st but her mom did say the money is necessary, and she said they’re broke their kitchen don’t mean jack squat I do believe it’s roughly about the timing of situation’s
@@FATMANDD1 do people with no money own houses with kitchens the size of apartments? wdym that doesn't mean squat? Her "word" means more to you than what you see in front of you?
She should pay it back, and yes, she is obligated to. Her true character is starting to shine through, and it looks (disgusting). Take her to court and sue her. Literally snitching on herself.
Seeing your child as a investment is what alot of asian/chinese parents do. If she wasn't asian I would agree but I can see her PoV . I have asian parents . Nobody hates their parents as much as Asians. 😅
Meh she's her own person. She can do what she wants if they don't like that they should've made her get a bank loan. Nobody forced them and if they use that as a point of contention for their daughter it's shame on them
If we ignore every source of income outside of just subs. She is still getting a minimum of 20k a month. Even with "just" that, she can easily pay 10k a month no problem. Instead she can probably pay it all off with 3 sponsored streams..Of which she did like 12 last month.
it's obviously just spoiled mentality. She is self centred if you watch the stuff she does. She thinks she should get everything she wants. All her parents fault FYI so her not wanting to pay them back is their own doing.
Even if she does have a toxic relationship with her parents she would be better off to pay them back and put it behind her so they dont have that over her anymore. Especially given her income, 170k isn't all that much.
These comments are so misguided. College for their child was an investment. EE's education comes through in her wit, and her commitment to streaming and trying to raise the bar is a reflection of what hard work to get to an Ivey League school looks like. The parents should have taken out Parent Plus loans that had her name on it if they always intended for her to pay them back. If she paid them , it would just come back to her in inheritance.
What surprised me the most was how shocked she was when she read the chat and how Nick and Arther reacted to it. Her mood changed quickly when she realized that most people couldnt understand her decission not to pay her parents back. And she talked about it like its totally normal to act like that...
The thing with Emily is that she could pay them back AND give them gifts. Instead she enjoys letting them "wait" for gifts from time to time. Which is not very good. If you are able to make them "independent from you and your gifts" then make them. They also have rights. nick was on point, she said "they don'"t need it" he said "YOU don't need it"!
I sort of get where her mind is - it seems like all of her life her parents envisioned her life as they saw fit and never took into consideration her thoughts on how it should go so she feels conflicted by the idea that yes, they provided everything for her, but never considered her thoughts on anything, which likely led to a lot conflict at home and a ton of resentment from being guilted into a life she felt powerless to direct. They pretty much spoiled her into their vision for her life in what they believed would bring success without considering her input simply because she’s the child and they believe “know better” being parents and adults. This is a common cultural issue regarding familial hierarchies and education in Chinese culture.
For me the only question I have is, are her parents independently wealthy? Is the 140k a matter of them literally gutting their retirement funds to send her to college. If not, then whatever, rich people problems. If it is the latter though; yeah thats screwed up. I've decided not to be super reactionary lately when it comes to controversy cause we're rarely ever getting all sides of a story.
They were not wealthy, middle class, and they did take all their savings to help her go to an Ivy league (she got accepted with 50% scholarship.) They still had retirement and had their own average midwestern home, but beyond that, the 140k was everything else they had at the time and they worked hard to get that money. However, Emily does take care of them financially and so they are no longer middle class, and so people acting as if she is failing her parents are ridiculous.
@@ghostbravo7127her mom looks worse than she does saying they almost went broke the home they have is easily over 750k. She has tons of designer bags and stuff. Also if you have no money Columbia pays for a lot of your financial aid. If they don’t you have money. Oh also they made her go to a catholic all girls high school that is 20-30k for high school.
It's very understandable how most Asian viewers and others would side with her parents on the matter. It's the culture. It's the morally right decision. She chose the expensive school. They struggled while trying to keep her in that school. They may never forgive her for it, however, repaying the agreed upon loan would set things back towards the right direction. They may still make fun of her for it, like most Asian parents do but at least she'll get to say I paid it back instead of not doing it out of spite.
Really feel sorry for Emily's parents to go through this. They worked hard to get Emily to an Ivy League school and she didn't even use it. Spoiled and ungrateful
@@79GlitchI wonder how she got the opportunity to get educated and raised to that point? she could have gone to school for free but decicded Columbia in NYC was her dream school so begged her parents to let her go to school there. I’d be a little miffed if she didn’t pay it back after becoming a millionaire
it’s crazy people are even defending her making excuses for how they treat her. she literally said she just doesn’t want to she said they’re great she just doesn’t want to pay.
I don’t know Emily or her personal situation with her parents. Speaking from personal experience though, my Chinese ex was the same way. Never worked a real job in her life. Her brother-in-law paid her whole way through college at Boston University. So the way she acted with money is like nothing I had ever seen before. Her parents were struggling so much and she didn’t want to help at all. Didn’t feel the need to pay her brother-in-law back when they were also having financial problems. All this and still her hard working mom was always putting money in the bank for her daughter’s savings account. Had no respect for her parents at all. Not saying that every Chinese girl is like this, but a lot of them are coddled like this from birth. Also before I get attacked I’m saying ANYONE can be like this when not taught the value of a dollar. or even taught how to actually care for your parents instead of thinking they should pay for everything and just use them as a stepping stone in life.
Absolutely disgusting. You have such loving parents who payed 170k for your education. You're not using your degree and most likely earn enough to pay them back easily in increments. Just very ungrateful and childish.
No sympathy for Emily OR her parents. I don't understand how you can afford a 140k tuition and then say you're almost broke, like did you forget how you made that money in the first place? Then you got Emily making top tier streamer money, 140k has to be a drop in the bucket to her, right? These people have clearly never actually been broke before since they have time to have this discussion rather than actively earning money. Her parents chose to put her through school and pay for it, Emily chose to accept that and throw it away. They're both in the wrong here.
Twitter is the real world, people are able to show their true self and Emily if she can't handle her fans and enemies then she cannot face the world when push comes to pull, she will live in that bubble where everyone comforts her and she gets her ways.
im sure if we all knew the real story behind the scenes we would (probably) completely understand why she doesn't want to pay them back but because we dont have any of the context or backstory (because she doesnt want to say it) she forsure is 100% wrong in this situation unless she goes into detail about it. In situations where you cant speak on it its better to just avoid the subject instead of making yourself look worse. People just straight up guessing about the situation like its a fanfic isnt helping either
Simp keep that bull shit to yourself. She went to the university it didn’t work out, she got rich off streaming and is in a position to pay them back she should it’s the principal.
She kind of makes it known that they only asked to be paid back after Emily started making big money from streaming. That shows you kind of that her parents were the typical asian parents forcing their kids to do things they don't want to do and claiming its all for their benefit. The contract she talks about was not before she went, if it were I would see how she would totally be in the wrong. Sending your kids off to expensive colleges because you can, because you can than tell everyone my daughter is going to Columbia, blablabla, than expecting them to pay it back after they quit and are successful in doing something they wanted to do in the first place is ridiculous. People keep saying if not for her parents she would never be a successful streamer, well I am sure they were not happy and told her she has to get a normal job, if she listened to them she wouldn't be a millionaire. I think a very large reason she has a childlike personality is a defense mechanism from her parents, not just a stream persona.
You are doing the same-- assuming she has a good reason to violate the agreement she made with her parents to pay 14k every year. No matter what could be going on that is the agreement she made and hasn't abided by. Are you just a fan using fake empathy to assume that she has to be right when the only information we have is that (1) she agreed to pay it back 14k/yr (2) she has the means to pay it back (3) She refuses to pay it back.
@@PotatoGunCamper I assumed she had an excuse because it makes 0 sense to act that way otherwise besides just being completely stupid which she isnt. even if you want to believe she is. also i dont follow her nor do I care about her or her stream lol. this world isnt just black and white, if you trust everything you see on a livestream without knowing any of the truth or context behind the scenes youl just look like a fool later. thats been proven 100% of the time for every issue
I was against Emily until that very last comment someone made about Emily’s situation. I grew up in an area with many Asians and their parents were often extremely harsh on them and the Asians I knew had a deep resentment towards their parents. I think the situation is a lot more complicated and we’d not tons of more info before we can really say but chances are we will never know what her relationship is with her parents.
It's a means to an end. She grew up in Alaska where she was one of the only Chinese kids and felt singled out. I guarantee she is one of those "why can't I be like those other white kids with a more carefree life?" Asian child. While we want to talk about harsh parents she was still able to go to an Ivy league school which btw will set their graduates for life with their connections. If she knew she was going to do this streaming gig why bother having her parents pay for all of it then?
But have u ever questioned why they act so harsh? Most of them are immigrants who sacrificed a lot so that their kids could be raised in a better place so their expectations for their kids are really high. I'm not saying these parents' actions are right but u have to understand their pov. It really just boils down to them wanting the best for their kids Just my 2 cents
This just goes to show how garbage a lot of streamers are. I mean come on, you make millions of dollars and you won't pay them back for the college you chose to go to and not use. It also shows the lack of morals in this generation. All around what a garbage human being.
Emily has always put on a Happy-Go-Lucky type of attitude on stream but with people who seem to always be happy, smiling and childish are usually terrible people on the inside and off-stream.
I feel like Emily did the thing, she graduated, unless they already had a previous agreement that she would pay it back, she did what she was supposed to do, her not using the degree shouldnt dictate weather you "wasted money", a lot of people cant even find a job in the field they study for so if they were given money from their parents to go to school they to should be forced to pay it back? She sends them on vacations buys them gifts shes doing the things a good daughter is supposed to do, unless there was an agreement from before she went to school that I missed somewhere along the lines her parents might be assholes, I dont care if shes rich, her parents do not look dirt poor to me at all quite the opposite actually, her mom said they were going broke because she knew it would put emily's audience on their side, borderline blackmail, pretty fucked thing for parents to do IMO.
cant speak for EE but i used to hold a grunge against paying my parents until i realized I didnt have to pay them. i was more upset that they demanded money lol sounds crazy but I ended up wanting to pay them with the understanding of what it takes to make it in life on your own.
I owed my mother 12k and worked myself to the bone to pay it off last year cuz i was so embarrassed about owing so much. If i owed that much, id pay it all at once and just budget till i was back to normal.
I'm a firm believer of never having to pay your parents back unless you are more than financially capable, which in this case, Emily can most definitely shell out. I personally dislike this whole witch hunt mentality, but im also not surprised. That's why you dont overshare unless youre ready for the backlash 😂
Probably had a bad experience with school due to strict parenting and expectations, hence she feels bitter. Maybe due to the fact that she made a career from something her parents didn't approve of and now they are expecting the money back. This is ultimately what tough parenting and conditional love brings. I myself experienced a similar upbringing with school, still I recognise that my parents did it out of love and desperation for me to have a good future. So I hope that I can repay them (even though they would never demand it).
I don't know the full story/relationship with her parents, all I know is that i, personally, would pay off any debts regardless of my relationship with that person once possible
most people buy their parents a nice big house and pay for their expenses once they become rich, and here’s extraemily who doesn’t want to pay back a debt despite her mom telling her they’re almost broke
My dumbass parents also kept saying there were “almost broke” too, back when I was with them Lol. Those Bastards act like they are a charity and I need to donate to them
@@SKBJTVconsidering they paid near 200k for her education, it’s very likely they’re actually almost broke. and if you’re living with them it’s expected to pay rent and groceries
I think some people are being too parasocial, considering we don't know the ins and outs of their lives at all. At the end of the day, it's her decision to do what she wants with her money--you can criticize her, but I wouldn't take her actions so personally so as to act like she HAS to do this or she HAS to do that because that's what you would and because she's not doing that she's a morally indecent person.
I don't know about other people, but if i had problems with someone, the last thing i'd want is to be indebted to that person (regardless of obligation).
She chose to go to the expensive school under the idea she would pay them back. I know she thinks she's paying them back in a sense by giving them experiences like vacations with her is the same but it isn't, especially when Emily turns vacation with them into content. In a way she's avoiding paying them but using them to make money. They're older parents by the looks of it and she might regret being content brained towards them when they're gone.
IF extraemily was not only FORCED to go to college, but ALSO forced to go to a GOOD college, i do believe she can come back from this. If she frames it that way and is then being PRESSURED to pay it back i could understand not wanting to. This is the ONLY way i could see it as somewhat excusable. X said it pretty well, if everyone had the financial means to pay back our "debt" to our parents we would.
Naw, if she signed soemthing she had to honor it. She's super selfish. There's no way she was controlled but allowed to start streaming. She's lying to get people to her side.
*Money* It can show the true greed of an individual. They sacrificed allot for her, and in return she says "They don't need it" I had a girlfriend like her once. She was wealthy, I spent what little I had on her to make happy. She spent NOTHING on me, and when I lost my job due to an issue at work, she wouldn't even get me a pack of socks. The greed was unreal. People like this don't have your back. They'll spend money, but only when it makes them look good. Their ego requires constant nourishment.
It's simple, She never wanted to do what her parents told her to do. It's the way they forced her to go to college, that's what she hates, not because she has to give them the money back, she just wanted to do her own thing.
This is completely incorrect. Her parents wanted her to go to University of Nebraska for free on scholarship. It was Emily who wanted to go to Columbia in NYC for 40k a year.
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Actually loving parents to pay that much for your child is rare. I'd love to give my parents money if i was a millionaire. She doesn't respect them
@@undeadmethods27 what loving parents will ask to pay them back for something they have to do and made her do it
@@Farfetch_ They didn't HAVE to do it. They chose to. To help their child succeed. Probably spending most of their money on it. She has a chance to pay them back and doesn't? That's some selfish ass shit.
Now you can say that's based, or that shes a bad kid. That is irrelevant to the point it is a selfish move to make the money she makes and NOT pay her parents back, when they don't make that kind of money and they spent nearly 200k on her education
respect is earned
@Medusas_Barber You have no idea what there relationship is like, you have no idea if they are actually broke. The problem is none of us should know about any of this and the fact you have an opinion about it means you need to go outside for a bit.
@@grimlie8782 she's the one broadcasting it to the world, but we're the ones at fault for that?
Its people dream to retire their parents.
Then there is Emily 😂
her parents love their jobs why should they retire
Its people dream to have parents that outwardly show love and appreciation LOL. get over it
@@GatedCaffeine cope harder
@@Toxic2Tcontribute less. Oh wait you can't.
@@GatedCaffeineyou’re in every reply defending her bruh you gotta put the phone down for a bit 💀 people like this are worth nobody’s energy
Folks, this ain't complicated. ExtraEmily is a great entertaining streamer, but she is also an only child who has repeatedly shown extremely self centered behavior. From voting for herself on every award to not thinking rules of businesses apply to her (specifically about filming) to ignoring traffic laws and never expecting consequences. From trying to weasel her way out of bets she lost to practically ruining her friends pool and backyard and not offering to help clean until he forced the issue... stuff like that over and over again.
Don't forget when she was texting streaming and drive at the same time she has no regard for other people.
@@swim444 lmao stay in safety of home, forever
I dunno why people are so surprised, most streamer are like that. You have to have a somewhat self serving/self centered personality to get into the big levels of streaming. Just look at most big streamers, they're all about themselves most of the time, with some exception, but it's rare.
@@goglux2 they're just normal ass people who do normal ass people stuff. I'm kinda tired of people putting them on some kind of pedastal of morality or something.
no one should worship another human being they've never met.
@@stephenmason9527 Don't even get me started with the list of people she slept with and she ranked them in multiple things, absolutely disgusting, people will think "men do that all the time" but no, no man made an entire list solely about how good a woman made you feel, how big their parts were and what bad they did
170k for a bachelors is crazy, thought that would be the price for med school or law school
She went to an Ivy League school
@@PotatoGunCamper Whats an ivy league school, whats particular
Ivies are expensive. She must have had a partial scholarship or it would be a lot higher.
@@BeyondParasocialthey're expensive schools known for high level academia. Harvard, Princeton, Yale ect. They are basically schools for the elite. The wealthy elite and the scholarly elite.
She did get an engineering degree, so that’s not far from that
1. Poor hygiene
2. Fake personality
3. Is rich but does not pay her parents back
4. Has a spreadsheet of everyone she sleeps with, detailing their size , how it was , etc .
5. Cries when she gets caught being a terrible person
Etc.
What a wonderful person she is
what do u expect from somebody who hangs out with Mizkif 24/7 lol
Also can’t drive
Wtf that spreadsheet one.. did she actually go thru that on stream? I dont watch streamers so im actually curious
@@bhopirl4552She admitted it on a podcast, and even the people on it were weirded out by it
@xXAscendingPhoenixXx yeah i looked up the clip of it lol. so wierd
Not even a week into 2025 and we’ve already got a contender for the biggest entitled streamer moment. This is gonna be a great year.
You base your experience on a year by what you see on Twitch? Get off the Internet.
@ brother calm down, it ain’t that deep lol
@@SlevinCCX I see someone is already triggered within the first 5 seconds of reading this comment. Maybe you should take your own advice before you start crying snowflake.
@scpWyatt should she pay 18 years of rent aswell? Should she pay back diapers? She did what was expected of her. If I take a loan out in your name for private middle school, when you're around 10 to 13, should I hand you a bill for it? Was she supposed to get bad grades and not go to college? Or better yet, she should have known the future before going to college. Oh rats...
@@SlevinCCX says the guy on a streamer clips channel.... the irony 😅
It was only a matter of time before her true self came out. All that happy bubbly shit Emily does is all a facade.
She didn’t want to pay nicks train fair which couldn’t have been more than what 7$? After all the things he’s done and paid for for her. I saw it than myself.
Well she has broken the law on stream....
@@Vamatt99218 multiple times and got away by just putting a smile and acting cute
nah she's always been like that with money. Even small things
Exactly
I like how nick and arthur are like.... whaaat? Just pay them back you can easily do it
They legit were handing her lay up to get out of looking at and everytime acted entitled. to say they wouldn’t be proud to pay them back you say no right away yeah daddy paid for everything and I think the mom probably wasn’t as fully ok with it. Acting like that someone has showed her to act that way 😊
Loved how they kept pressing her too....its like how dumb you gotta be?!?!?!
As The Tracker from John Wick Chapter 4 put it towards The Marquis du Gramont, "Why not? You can clearly afford it."
If you are capable of paying back, you pay back. Simple as that!
It’s not like she is working at a 7/11 or McDonalds.
She's definitely capable of paying, but the keyword is probably "Back"
@ look… even I as the last generation of middle class boomer did took a loan from my mom and of course I paid it back. It’s very simple.
Just a general question. The debt money was generated after she turned 18 right?
nah they are fine .
@@3self you mean the "situation" of "being forced to get a degree" ??
@@mindedchaos they stated that they’re almost broke. There’s anything but fine lmao
When her mom said they almost went broke, sending her to college. 😟😟
As an asian, watching the interaction between her and mom, I can tell her mom feels scammed and it’s sad emily doesn’t care about her family. Typical women, all feelings, 0 logic
@@HipHopTheme When women are faced with the accountability of their actions. They will either run away, cry or play victim to avoid dealing with the repercussions.
She was farming 😂 did you see that kitchen?
@@HipHopThemeAs an Asian you can also understand overcontrolling, pressuring, and guilt tripping. We don't know the whole story.
See this is why it's best to keep shit off stream cause people like you just believe everything you see or hear on the Internet. Literally all the time they joke around about it. If they were really serious about wanting the money they would've done something about it by now it's been like 5 going on 6 years
Biggest mistake is telling the internet you dont wanna pay your parents back.
emily doesn't understand the safety net she had in place to even begin streaming. she knew if she failed her parents would pick her up. they probably paid for all the equipment and was paying her rent so she could have the free time to stream.
Also the safety net that her education gave her, that if ever she doesn't want to stream or if something goes bad in her streaming career she still has a fall back because she already have a college degree.
no she worked at bank in new york actually when she started streaming
@@chah5001I’m getting even more mad. SHE PROBABLY WOULDNT HAVE WORKED AT THE BANK IF NOT FOR HER EDUCATION AT COLUMBIA UNIVERSITY IN NYC. Screw her terrible human being
@@chah5001 As a SECRETARY.
@DeathNikkii lol no she was junior account advisor.
She's a greedy streamer behind that "klutzy" act that she puts on, and that's her parents. Always found her annoying fake and off putting
Yh she's toxic and acts all cutesy but is super childish
You were smart enough to see through the facade while everyone was buying into her "I'm klutzy but I'm also a good person" act. What bothers me is that even though she's a shitty human being, simps are still going to white knight her because she's a girl.
ExtraEmily is fake. Alot of streamers already pointed it out and we all act like we are just witnessing it now.
like your mom
@@ppokll8524Your mom jokes in 2025💔💔 Emily doesn't know you
"Noo Arthur what have you done". Why is Nick acting like any of this is Arthur's fault wtf.
Because it seems like a very deep personal issue but he kept pressing it
@@mack720p This is why zoomers are constantly crying or acting entitled on the internet. Gen Z has been coddled their entire lives, they've never been called out or held accountable for their actions so they think this type of degenerate behavior is normal.
@@mack720pthen don’t say it on stream
@@yeetpoo1475 i think he was just mocking the chat, cause they were blaming arthur
because modern women lack accountability and are extremely entitled.
emily is a millionaire. The fact that shes that greedy shows how those parents failed.
the voice of reason!
she down own them anything plus we dont know all the fact
I Don't think it's about the money, it's probably about her parents treating their relationship so transactionally that probably feels shitty.
@@GubiYoroiif you sign a contract then YEAH, you kinda need to pay them back or a court will make you if it goes that far lol
@@TheMadPickler01 it was not real contract was joke contract
Regardless of the circumstances, if she agreed to pay them back, then she should
wtf... I feel sorry for the parents.
Both wrong. What kind of parents force their kids to pay them back for college?
@@reedg2571if you have the money pay them back they are you're parents they raised you and they paid for everything you have
@@reedg2571😂WHAT? Mate it’s a 170k and they want it back after their daughter is a millionaire who got famous by streaming in NYC after they sent her to an expensive elite college in NYC and working an elite job at NYC that she got entirely paid for by her parents. She can pay it back
Agreed. If they would be 'broke' after giving her that money that's on them having a loan is not the end of the world. Clearly they put her through a life where she's expected to do everything perfectly. So I get her being over it.
@@reedg2571Lol she picked the college you tell me
From streamers saying they cannot survive on making $10k a day to Millionaires like this not paying their parents.
The majority of streamers (99%) make less than 1k a year. The top 1% of streamers make less than 5k a year on average (accounting for outliers.) The Top 0.1% of streamers make less than 10k a year on average from streaming.
Only the top 0.01% of streamers are making over 100k a year from streaming (around what a somewhat intelligent and competent college grad in an employable major will make right out of college or within the first few years.)
Only the top 0.001% of streamers are making over 1 million a year from streaming.
Only the top 25 streamers on Twitch are making over 10k a day, total, from all revenue sources, before taxes. They almost all know each other. After taxes, maybe 15 of them bring home 10k a day.
Streamers who can't live on their streaming salary exist, they are the vast majority of streamers, almost all streamers are barely surviving, and they all either live with their generous parents, or more likely, have a day job. The rare few, the 0.01% (yes, you are more likely to get into a good medical school than to become a successful streamer), make as much as a plumber, actually plumbers have more job security and earn more over a lifetime than those top 0.01% of streamers.
The ones that make millions can all be fit into one decent sized backyard. Out of the millions across the world.
Have some perspective before you generalize.
Also, Emily takes care of her parents financially, so she might not be "paying them back" at the moment (she has been for years now), but she takes care of anything they want or need anyways.
8:22 1k a year?? Wtf are goin on about? A homeless person can make 1k panhandling a week..
@@ciscoak9074 Either my autistic ass is missing the sarcasm here, or you have been brainwashed by media narratives.
The homeless are not making 1k panhandling a week. That is not a reality.
It is a fact that 99% of Twitch streamers make under 1k a year from their Twitch career, that is something that can be supported by data. That is why they are usually students or have full-time jobs (or many that live with their parents even in their 20s.)
@@ghostbravo7127 ad rev has been leaked. These people are making Well over $1k in a short 4 hour stream. Nick has shown his ad rev
@@ghostbravo7127That whole thing is so wrong it's actually hilarious
The look of pure disgust on Emily's face when her mum said it's necessary that she pays them back because they're almost broke, should tell you just how scummy she truly is.
they were almost broke back then, not now.
@hemantkarasala5767 she clearly said they're almost broke.
@MK_2023. she said they were broke, not they are broke (she in literal terms said 'we almost broke' in broken english, leaving ambiguity). And in this same video Emily points out they are financially doing fine. This is a personal issue between them and they don't really need the money. It's spite to make her pay back when they aren't broke now. Emily doesn't deserve condemnation for this, it's her personal relationship and complicated issue. My asian parents also went almost broke paying for my brother but they would never ever ask him to pay back even if he can afford it. In asian culture it's understood that parents don't need to be paid back. And in asian families. Parents push for ivy leagues to and willingly pay for college. They wouldn't have asked her money back if she did STEM job. It's pure asian parent nonsense and Emily is in her right within that cultural framework to push back on this bullshit.
They are NOT almost broke. It is a guilt trip.
@reedg2571 that 170K isn't her money, it's her parents money. She needs to give it back.
"I don't want to" and "I'm over it" and is a crazy reason for not wanting to pay back your own parents after you agreed to it. She doesn't even give a compelling reason. And now she's throwing a tantrum and fishing for reassurance from her offline chat?
Hoenstly she shouldn't have said anything about it if we're suspecting there's deep trauma attached to her decision, she's been streaming long enough to expect the pushback.
Crazy thing is that this subject has come up before on her stream and people sided with her parents then too.
Yea and those people probably don't know how toxic these kind of relationships can be. Stop judging without knowing the full picture.
@@GatedCaffeine lmfao she's a millionaire, she could write them a half million dollar check and recoup it in 1 day with a sponsored stream, she's trash
i mean to be fair, extremely might appear to be a grown woman but mentally she’s still a preteen. i’d never expect anything less then child-like behavior from her. could u imagine dating a “woman” like that yikes
She looks like under 20
@@Iamzanishe looks near 30 tf you mean
@@greychishe doesnt...
@SWOTHDRA she does.
70% streamers are mentally preteen
As an Asian American forced to attend college (Community college, then CSU), I'm grateful for it. Good & Bad. I paid my parent back even though they didn't ask to. Simply because I love them & was the right thing to do. Wtf
Right? There are people who are defending her cause her parents may have forced her to go to college. Like wtf? It's bad that they care about her future?
@@expmech3377 Her parents just wanted her to have some form of education so that she could have a sustainable career in the real world. Emily was the one who decided to pursue a useless degree at an expensive Ivy League School. To add insult to injury she doesn't even feel any sort of guilt or remorse towards the sacrifices that her parents made to ensure that she has a bright future.
As a non Asian American who was pressured to take on loans I was always told my school would be paid for as a kid. When I wasn't I didn't make a big deal out of it I just pay my loans back. Its really not a big deal and when parents pull this shit it's a weird way to control their lives. There's 0 reason they needed to give her the loan and then make it an issue with her to pay them back. She would have been better off just taking loans even with all the interest because then her relationship with her parents wouldn't be hinged on it.
Nobody needs to go to college that's just what our parents generation wants us to think.my partner and I each make 6 figures without a degree before 30 so it's definitely possible. Stop feeding into this bs that we need to be ok with helicopter parents who don't allow their child to be their own person.
@@Brandon-vj6zzwow you know so much about this person on the internet that you make dumb comments like this one. Who the fuck cares stop judging a random girl on the internet. Its weird AF
Should being forced into college really be normalised though? Getting a degree nowadays isn't as useful as it used to either.
Nick and Arthur are gonna realize who they really hang out with and what kind of people they think they are influencing also
Actual clueless take with how nmps relationship is with his mom
Acting like Nick is a saint is hilarious 🤣
@@Keyshawn13what did he do
Arthur is actually a decent human being, he actually wants Emily to pay back her parents. He did try to reason with her multiple time during that short conversation, but maybe he doesn't want an argument with Emily, Nick and their fans after that.
But Nick is debatable, not only did he agree with Emily but he went extra length to delete the LSF clip to protect her image.
Damn. Watching Extra Emily say that she's not paying her folks back just because she doesn't want to is disgusting. I thought her quirky and bubbly behavior was cute and amusing, but I'll absolutely never be able to look at her the same way again.
I haven't been able to since she talked about the spreadsheet ranking all the people she's slept with
You know she was the same person who bragged about when she was in college creating an excel sheet of all the guys she had sex with with penis size and enjoyment of sex and would show it to her friends. It was on the podcast with qt and hasan lol. She has some serious problems
ExtraEmily has mentally abusive parents if you can't tell that you're clueless. Parents are just people and they deserve what they put in. If you treat people like an object don't be surprised if that happens to you. Her parents objectified her by forcing her to live the life they want her to live.
The bubbly stuff is her online persona. She also has a spreadsheet of each person shes slept with (seems like a shit ton if u have a spreadsheet) where she has dick size and how they performed on there. Really fucking weird to have that let alone sharing it publicly.
Disgusting, what a terrible daughter no matter what bs toxicity or drama between them. Sometimes you just need to do whats right and move on.
Women are not wired like that, sadly
It's scary how women will prioritize their feelings over morality and rational thinking, regardless of how messed up the circumstances are.
Im not a part of these anti women comments I've seen sons do worse
@@Brandon-vj6zzanother dumb comment holy fuck go outside
@SWOTHDRAnah just sexist POS LOL. Anyone who lumps an entire gender together is fucking lowest of the lows.
My parents struggled to send my brother and I to private school. We had days where we just didnt have food, debt collectors calling, sheriffs coming to value all our goods. It was a terrible struggle, if i had the ability to pay back that money i would 100%.
what a disgusting person to not pay back the parents hard earn money to take her to college, shows what greed does to a person.
What a disgusting comment from some armchair idiot who must know her dynamic with her family based on some online clips. Get a life LUL
Nah you're just parasocial
Nah ur a moron pay ur parents back
Get Nick to pay it then repay him as his Girlfriend.
You mean like a prostitute?
He can do better than her.
@PotatoGunCamper crazy comment you gotta alot to say
Malena is preggo and having the kid in Norway while Nick makes as much bank before the birth. The finding a girlfriend thing is fake.
@@tyronemcbgPretty sure Nick also said he and Malena hadn’t had sex in a year before breaking up. Hard to get pregnant without sex.
I get the attitude that you don't owe your parents anything, but the right thing to do would to at least compensate or make sure they are taken care of at least.
Awful daughter. Crazy part is she's unaware how bad this is.
And instead of taking that on board, she's retreating into threads being deleted by Nick's pressuring and nuking her Twitter account and crying to offline chat about how mean everyone is
Another random account with the answers, thank you
@@ChonkBob "OTK all day" as the username not surprised by your comment lol
"they paid 170k for their daughter to be passed around in college"
@@stephenmason9527 she is a bad person like most big twitch streamers
Idk why, but watching extra Emily when she was still in school with her roommate to where she is now, I mean good on her for making it work, but just the change in her is also so drastic. Not my cup of tea
In 10 years, when the internet has forgotten you, and you're no longer making tons of money from Twitch and social media. Your parents will remember that you chose partying and traveling over paying them back when you easily could. You'll still have that relationship to mend, when you're in your mid 30s working as a sales manager, making a fraction of what you make now.
@@tristan3028 what parents asked to be paid back for school. It’s something they have to do and pushed her into.
I never heard on anyone paying back their parents
@Farfetch_ like what everyone says this dumbass decide to be a retard streamer
they literally paid 170k for a useless degree so their daughter could get run through by over 40 dudes
I genuinely wouldn't be able to recover from that
@@Farfetch_ Her parents clearly wanted a good education for her, if the parents agreed for her to pay it back she should.
Lmao When she's in her 30s she's a multi millionaire. No need to work
Going to colombia on your momma's dime with no intention to pay it back? WTF
Like most Colombia students 😂 who the fucked pays their parents back for college 😂
Didn't think I'd lose respect for Emily, this is fucking wild
gosh she’s annoying i can’t believe this
Man ive been saying emily is horrible since she got popular and people said i was crazy. Where yall at now, guess i was right eh.
Ya this and the texting/streaming while driving are big red flags as well as other things shows how ignorant and disconnected she is and just an overall disregard for there's.
I've never liked her. Never once believed that cringey, bubbly persona was 100% genuine
I learned everything I needed to know from that Hasanabi podcast.
@@KanyeSouthEast316 thats a huge L bud.
These dramatic ass comments are hilarious
I always thought sodapoppins dislike for Emily was just entertaining banter... But seeing that he's fairly close to her, I think it's genuine dislike because he knows how she actually is.
Yep, just look up extraemily excel spread sheet.. U will understand why Soda hates her with a passion. I've always known she was a bitch behind all that sweet voice persona she puts on.
Her parents may have treated her as some kind of investment rather than a daughter so if that's the case I can understand her spite towards them.
yeah this was me so i can get where she might be coming from. some parents only do things for themselves
Except they hangout on stream, so its clearly not that bad.
Well then why did Emily chose an expensive school if she wasn’t planning on graduating??
apparently she wanted to go to IVY school instead of the free scholdarship in some other collage so she asked her parents to fund her. if thats the case then its on her, she made them pay for it
No. She could have gone to the uni of Nebraska for free. Nope little Emily has to go to Columbia bc it’s a dream school for her and NYC is the perfect place to meet guys and socialize. Begged her parents to pay 170k to go there . Screw her
Brace for the OTK and Emily simps defending the undefensible
She has been a bad human being the whole time and she has shown many signs but everyone has been ignoring it all because she's pretty and puts a smile towards the camera 24/7
Not enough people have been telling her no and have been spoiling her her entire life like Nick was saying "You're a great daughter" when she's clearly not, for a reason she started crying like a baby when her chat didn't agree with what she did, no matter how "bad" your parents are, they raised you and they literally risked being homeless for your future, people defending this need a reality check
dude.. touch grass, it doesnt concern you at all.
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oh boy here they come
@@Head_Drone que? claiming that someone is an overall bad person and writing two paragraphs on your ignorant opinion is plain weird. just chill and realize you have no idea what kind of person someone is, or what some family drama is rly about, just because you saw some twitch vod clips..
@@Head_Drone go back to anime, your not even old enough to make decisions for your future children why are you caring for other people?
Saw her Dr. K video a month ago, she definitely has some deep pain in there with her parents. It didn’t go TOO in depth, but she was constantly on the verge of tears whenever her parents were brought up, then she’d flip a switch and suppress it and be all bubbly to hide it.
Basically the idea I got was she was always trying to be good enough for them, overachiever, wasn’t ever perfect enough, did very well in school, then she finally made it big as a streamer and now they want the money back. I can imagine for her she’s like “well at least give me something, like I was pushed to the limit, succeeded, all at the expense of my happiness, the least you could do is consider this the ONE thing I leave the nest with rather than it be transactional with a net 0 gain as if I was never your daughter to begin with.” Some big guesses, but like, I could see it.
she's a professional victim
I love how she says "I'm just a bad daughter" No you're a bad person Emily
Problem is that she A. Agreed to their terms. B. The terms are she uses the degree(her corporate finance job). She decided to -probably continually- stream instead of remote work at her job, and got caught and fired. She is highly irresponsible, everyone knows this, I can see this being just another facet of her personality. To many though this is a line you never cross to renege and screw over your parents, even if her parents have millions, it is a huge deal to screw them over.
Nah I think it's borderline abusive for a parent to give a loan like this to someone who doesn't really understand that yet. People judging her a losers because they don't know her family dynamic.
@@GatedCaffeine lol, its either the loan thru them or the school lmfao. They saved her actual debt and kept her credit clean. If she had the grades to get into a good school she could've choose somewhere cheaper.
Also you're a simp
@GatedCaffeine she's in her mid twenties. I'm sure she knows how that shit works
@@GatedCaffeine she's a multimillionaire nickel and diming her parents on the money she can make in like a day with a sponsorship, it's gross
Worst part is her dad used his 401K to pay to send her to Columbia and now is approaching his mid 60's and can not retire from his professor position.
aw man he's gonna keep getting paid for easy work aw maaan
Integrity matters and you should surround yourself with others that have integrity.
she'll feel so god damn good if she's paying it back.
Xqc said it perfectly
Okay 1:05 she went to an expensive ass college. She got a degree she never used and now she’s making a different amount of money pay them back. It makes sense. I don’t care about her tears pay them back because you owe them that! Much like let’s be real and her mom just said it we’re going broke or almost broke that money is necessary and it would be necessary for her as their daughter to pay them back because that’s kind of what she owes them, and she pissed it away without even using the degree logic
Exactly, Emily even got fired for streaming at work at the job she got with her college degree
@ oh nah that’s crazy like I get it XQC, he said this there’s not many people you’re indebted to as an adult or as a child, there’s not many people you owe favors to her in general, but like if she’s got the money, she’s making the money back now or tenfold she can pay her parents back. Yeah, they try to push her to let’s say be educated and be knowledgeable and half the shit she don’t use it don’t really matter. She’s making up that time that she could have lived a little bit better and is doing what she’s doing now which is paid them back and call it a day you can still be in your family‘s lives. I feel like she’s dragging it because it’s more personal than just money which I could totally get.
Did you see that kitchen? They're no where near broke LOL 😂
@@1ndN2st but her mom did say the money is necessary, and she said they’re broke their kitchen don’t mean jack squat I do believe it’s roughly about the timing of situation’s
@@FATMANDD1 do people with no money own houses with kitchens the size of apartments? wdym that doesn't mean squat? Her "word" means more to you than what you see in front of you?
Average austin TX streamer, ungrateful and absolutely entitled... good god folks
She should pay it back, and yes, she is obligated to. Her true character is starting to shine through, and it looks (disgusting). Take her to court and sue her. Literally snitching on herself.
then they shouldnt have paid for it?? would you buy your kid a fancy meal or something you could afford
@@dai6419 you're an idjit.
@dai6419 like you are so dense it hurts.
Seeing your child as a investment is what alot of asian/chinese parents do. If she wasn't asian I would agree but I can see her PoV . I have asian parents . Nobody hates their parents as much as Asians. 😅
Lol.. Obligated to... Says who? Was there a written contact?
"my parents are 'overall' really happy with me"
minus that 170k degree, they paid for that you don't use.
Weak act, Emily.
Meh she's her own person. She can do what she wants if they don't like that they should've made her get a bank loan. Nobody forced them and if they use that as a point of contention for their daughter it's shame on them
If we ignore every source of income outside of just subs. She is still getting a minimum of 20k a month. Even with "just" that, she can easily pay 10k a month no problem. Instead she can probably pay it all off with 3 sponsored streams..Of which she did like 12 last month.
it's obviously just spoiled mentality. She is self centred if you watch the stuff she does. She thinks she should get everything she wants. All her parents fault FYI so her not wanting to pay them back is their own doing.
Imagine if they didn’t wanna pay her college tuition she would have been all over the internet talking about how they are bad parents.
Even if she does have a toxic relationship with her parents she would be better off to pay them back and put it behind her so they dont have that over her anymore. Especially given her income, 170k isn't all that much.
She took 170k? The work your parents put in for you to be better? You better pay them
Took? Her parents chose to put her through school 😅 y'all love making up these random ass narratives
if she makes 100k a month and cant pay them back thats wild
u on crack if u think shes makes anything near 100k..at the most she makes 30k
Man ive heard so much about her behind the scenes. This all checks out. Theres a reason she doesn't hang out with people off stream
I never ever liked her ever. No wonder why.
These comments are so misguided. College for their child was an investment. EE's education comes through in her wit, and her commitment to streaming and trying to raise the bar is a reflection of what hard work to get to an Ivey League school looks like. The parents should have taken out Parent Plus loans that had her name on it if they always intended for her to pay them back. If she paid them , it would just come back to her in inheritance.
If Extra Emily is a wealthy streamer she SHOULD pay it back.
The money went to her head
@@Vamatt99218 Maybe she isn't as rich as people think and like most of OTK spends lots of money on holding onto relevancy IE botting .
@@xpelta6478 She's got enough money where she let a $2000 check void out after 3 months because she thought it was too much of a hassle to deposit it
What surprised me the most was how shocked she was when she read the chat and how Nick and Arther reacted to it.
Her mood changed quickly when she realized that most people couldnt understand her decission not to pay her parents back.
And she talked about it like its totally normal to act like that...
The thing with Emily is that she could pay them back AND give them gifts.
Instead she enjoys letting them "wait" for gifts from time to time. Which is not very good. If you are able to make them "independent from you and your gifts" then make them. They also have rights.
nick was on point, she said "they don'"t need it" he said "YOU don't need it"!
I sort of get where her mind is - it seems like all of her life her parents envisioned her life as they saw fit and never took into consideration her thoughts on how it should go so she feels conflicted by the idea that yes, they provided everything for her, but never considered her thoughts on anything, which likely led to a lot conflict at home and a ton of resentment from being guilted into a life she felt powerless to direct. They pretty much spoiled her into their vision for her life in what they believed would bring success without considering her input simply because she’s the child and they believe “know better” being parents and adults. This is a common cultural issue regarding familial hierarchies and education in Chinese culture.
For me the only question I have is, are her parents independently wealthy? Is the 140k a matter of them literally gutting their retirement funds to send her to college. If not, then whatever, rich people problems. If it is the latter though; yeah thats screwed up. I've decided not to be super reactionary lately when it comes to controversy cause we're rarely ever getting all sides of a story.
Her mom just bought a Tesla im not saying they’re rich but buying a tesla doesn’t give off poor vibes lol
They were not wealthy, middle class, and they did take all their savings to help her go to an Ivy league (she got accepted with 50% scholarship.) They still had retirement and had their own average midwestern home, but beyond that, the 140k was everything else they had at the time and they worked hard to get that money. However, Emily does take care of them financially and so they are no longer middle class, and so people acting as if she is failing her parents are ridiculous.
@@ghostbravo7127 please emily went to private school since a kid..thats 30k a year ..her parents rich af..dad a professor for decades
@@ghostbravo7127her mom looks worse than she does saying they almost went broke the home they have is easily over 750k. She has tons of designer bags and stuff.
Also if you have no money Columbia pays for a lot of your financial aid. If they don’t you have money. Oh also they made her go to a catholic all girls high school that is 20-30k for high school.
It's very understandable how most Asian viewers and others would side with her parents on the matter. It's the culture. It's the morally right decision. She chose the expensive school. They struggled while trying to keep her in that school. They may never forgive her for it, however, repaying the agreed upon loan would set things back towards the right direction. They may still make fun of her for it, like most Asian parents do but at least she'll get to say I paid it back instead of not doing it out of spite.
Really feel sorry for Emily's parents to go through this. They worked hard to get Emily to an Ivy League school and she didn't even use it. Spoiled and ungrateful
Her parents got her a 35 on the ACT test and a 4.0 average?
@@79Glitch Calm down simp, if not for her parents she wouldn't have any grades anywhere, and that's because they paid for it. You're slow.
@@79GlitchI wonder how she got the opportunity to get educated and raised to that point?
she could have gone to school for free but decicded Columbia in NYC was her dream school so begged her parents to let her go to school there. I’d be a little miffed if she didn’t pay it back after becoming a millionaire
it’s crazy people are even defending her making excuses for how they treat her. she literally said she just doesn’t want to she said they’re great she just doesn’t want to pay.
I don’t know Emily or her personal situation with her parents. Speaking from personal experience though, my Chinese ex was the same way. Never worked a real job in her life. Her brother-in-law paid her whole way through college at Boston University. So the way she acted with money is like nothing I had ever seen before. Her parents were struggling so much and she didn’t want to help at all. Didn’t feel the need to pay her brother-in-law back when they were also having financial problems. All this and still her hard working mom was always putting money in the bank for her daughter’s savings account. Had no respect for her parents at all. Not saying that every Chinese girl is like this, but a lot of them are coddled like this from birth. Also before I get attacked I’m saying ANYONE can be like this when not taught the value of a dollar. or even taught how to actually care for your parents instead of thinking they should pay for everything and just use them as a stepping stone in life.
Its typical of women, they are selfish, especially about money.
shes american not chinese..she cant even speak it
@@camlee2341I think they mean like her parents being Chinese and her maybe having a more Chinese family dynamic growing up
Absolutely disgusting. You have such loving parents who payed 170k for your education. You're not using your degree and most likely earn enough to pay them back easily in increments. Just very ungrateful and childish.
When the bubbly act falters and becomes overshadowed by the true callousness beneath.
On god
She worked so hard to work so you could go the sacrifices parents make , some of us weren’t that fortunate
No sympathy for Emily OR her parents. I don't understand how you can afford a 140k tuition and then say you're almost broke, like did you forget how you made that money in the first place? Then you got Emily making top tier streamer money, 140k has to be a drop in the bucket to her, right? These people have clearly never actually been broke before since they have time to have this discussion rather than actively earning money. Her parents chose to put her through school and pay for it, Emily chose to accept that and throw it away. They're both in the wrong here.
Maybe they had to take loan themselves
Twitter is the real world, people are able to show their true self and Emily if she can't handle her fans and enemies then she cannot face the world when push comes to pull, she will live in that bubble where everyone comforts her and she gets her ways.
ExtraEmily has always seemed like a terrible person off camera. This just proves I was right.
I would give me parents 170k for no reason but she indebted them and doesn't want to
im sure if we all knew the real story behind the scenes we would (probably) completely understand why she doesn't want to pay them back but because we dont have any of the context or backstory (because she doesnt want to say it) she forsure is 100% wrong in this situation unless she goes into detail about it.
In situations where you cant speak on it its better to just avoid the subject instead of making yourself look worse.
People just straight up guessing about the situation like its a fanfic isnt helping either
Simp keep that bull shit to yourself. She went to the university it didn’t work out, she got rich off streaming and is in a position to pay them back she should it’s the principal.
She kind of makes it known that they only asked to be paid back after Emily started making big money from streaming. That shows you kind of that her parents were the typical asian parents forcing their kids to do things they don't want to do and claiming its all for their benefit. The contract she talks about was not before she went, if it were I would see how she would totally be in the wrong. Sending your kids off to expensive colleges because you can, because you can than tell everyone my daughter is going to Columbia, blablabla, than expecting them to pay it back after they quit and are successful in doing something they wanted to do in the first place is ridiculous. People keep saying if not for her parents she would never be a successful streamer, well I am sure they were not happy and told her she has to get a normal job, if she listened to them she wouldn't be a millionaire. I think a very large reason she has a childlike personality is a defense mechanism from her parents, not just a stream persona.
And here we have another SIMPathetic one.
You are doing the same-- assuming she has a good reason to violate the agreement she made with her parents to pay 14k every year. No matter what could be going on that is the agreement she made and hasn't abided by. Are you just a fan using fake empathy to assume that she has to be right when the only information we have is that (1) she agreed to pay it back 14k/yr (2) she has the means to pay it back (3) She refuses to pay it back.
@@PotatoGunCamper I assumed she had an excuse because it makes 0 sense to act that way otherwise besides just being completely stupid which she isnt. even if you want to believe she is. also i dont follow her nor do I care about her or her stream lol. this world isnt just black and white, if you trust everything you see on a livestream without knowing any of the truth or context behind the scenes youl just look like a fool later. thats been proven 100% of the time for every issue
If she’s capable of paying it back, then she should. If she’s earning millions. If she’s making 6000-11,000 a month then she’s is more than capable
I was against Emily until that very last comment someone made about Emily’s situation. I grew up in an area with many Asians and their parents were often extremely harsh on them and the Asians I knew had a deep resentment towards their parents. I think the situation is a lot more complicated and we’d not tons of more info before we can really say but chances are we will never know what her relationship is with her parents.
It's a means to an end. She grew up in Alaska where she was one of the only Chinese kids and felt singled out. I guarantee she is one of those "why can't I be like those other white kids with a more carefree life?" Asian child. While we want to talk about harsh parents she was still able to go to an Ivy league school which btw will set their graduates for life with their connections. If she knew she was going to do this streaming gig why bother having her parents pay for all of it then?
But have u ever questioned why they act so harsh? Most of them are immigrants who sacrificed a lot so that their kids could be raised in a better place so their expectations for their kids are really high. I'm not saying these parents' actions are right but u have to understand their pov. It really just boils down to them wanting the best for their kids
Just my 2 cents
Exactly I don't get why people are calling her entitled when they don't even know her personally
@@expmech3377that's not an excuse to be harsh to the point of causing resentment
@@briandong5293 alaska? bro shes from nebraska and she had asian friends growing up
people surprised shes unaware on how bad this is , its a typical only child behavior
This just goes to show how garbage a lot of streamers are. I mean come on, you make millions of dollars and you won't pay them back for the college you chose to go to and not use. It also shows the lack of morals in this generation. All around what a garbage human being.
She’s goofy as hell
Emily has always put on a Happy-Go-Lucky type of attitude on stream but with people who seem to always be happy, smiling and childish are usually terrible people on the inside and off-stream.
I feel like Emily did the thing, she graduated, unless they already had a previous agreement that she would pay it back, she did what she was supposed to do, her not using the degree shouldnt dictate weather you "wasted money", a lot of people cant even find a job in the field they study for so if they were given money from their parents to go to school they to should be forced to pay it back? She sends them on vacations buys them gifts shes doing the things a good daughter is supposed to do, unless there was an agreement from before she went to school that I missed somewhere along the lines her parents might be assholes, I dont care if shes rich, her parents do not look dirt poor to me at all quite the opposite actually, her mom said they were going broke because she knew it would put emily's audience on their side, borderline blackmail, pretty fucked thing for parents to do IMO.
cant speak for EE but i used to hold a grunge against paying my parents until i realized I didnt have to pay them. i was more upset that they demanded money lol sounds crazy but I ended up wanting to pay them with the understanding of what it takes to make it in life on your own.
I owed my mother 12k and worked myself to the bone to pay it off last year cuz i was so embarrassed about owing so much. If i owed that much, id pay it all at once and just budget till i was back to normal.
All i gotta say is asian parents trauma
I'm a firm believer of never having to pay your parents back unless you are more than financially capable, which in this case, Emily can most definitely shell out. I personally dislike this whole witch hunt mentality, but im also not surprised. That's why you dont overshare unless youre ready for the backlash 😂
Probably had a bad experience with school due to strict parenting and expectations, hence she feels bitter.
Maybe due to the fact that she made a career from something her parents didn't approve of and now they are expecting the money back.
This is ultimately what tough parenting and conditional love brings.
I myself experienced a similar upbringing with school, still I recognise that my parents did it out of love and desperation for me to have a good future. So I hope that I can repay them (even though they would never demand it).
So ExtraEmily is a terrible person, who could of guessed
I don't know the full story/relationship with her parents, all I know is that i, personally, would pay off any debts regardless of my relationship with that person once possible
most people buy their parents a nice big house and pay for their expenses once they become rich, and here’s extraemily who doesn’t want to pay back a debt despite her mom telling her they’re almost broke
My dumbass parents also kept saying there were “almost broke” too, back when I was with them Lol. Those Bastards act like they are a charity and I need to donate to them
@@SKBJTVconsidering they paid near 200k for her education, it’s very likely they’re actually almost broke. and if you’re living with them it’s expected to pay rent and groceries
@@SKBJTVIm sorry they raised a useless pos. Live and let learn or whatever that saying is
u know its a running joke...they rich af...dad a professor
@ professors aren’t rich…
I think some people are being too parasocial, considering we don't know the ins and outs of their lives at all. At the end of the day, it's her decision to do what she wants with her money--you can criticize her, but I wouldn't take her actions so personally so as to act like she HAS to do this or she HAS to do that because that's what you would and because she's not doing that she's a morally indecent person.
her parents literally begged her for months shes just entitled
I don't know about other people, but if i had problems with someone, the last thing i'd want is to be indebted to that person (regardless of obligation).
She chose to go to the expensive school under the idea she would pay them back. I know she thinks she's paying them back in a sense by giving them experiences like vacations with her is the same but it isn't, especially when Emily turns vacation with them into content. In a way she's avoiding paying them but using them to make money. They're older parents by the looks of it and she might regret being content brained towards them when they're gone.
IF extraemily was not only FORCED to go to college, but ALSO forced to go to a GOOD college, i do believe she can come back from this. If she frames it that way and is then being PRESSURED to pay it back i could understand not wanting to. This is the ONLY way i could see it as somewhat excusable. X said it pretty well, if everyone had the financial means to pay back our "debt" to our parents we would.
Naw, if she signed soemthing she had to honor it. She's super selfish. There's no way she was controlled but allowed to start streaming. She's lying to get people to her side.
*Money*
It can show the true greed of an individual.
They sacrificed allot for her, and in return she says "They don't need it"
I had a girlfriend like her once. She was wealthy, I spent what little I had on her to make happy.
She spent NOTHING on me, and when I lost my job due to an issue at work, she wouldn't even get me a pack of socks.
The greed was unreal.
People like this don't have your back. They'll spend money, but only when it makes them look good. Their ego requires constant nourishment.
Me in pikachu face "omg oh no another Twitch streamer who's a POS"
Imagine not giving back to your parents when they gave you all they have..
It's simple, She never wanted to do what her parents told her to do. It's the way they forced her to go to college, that's what she hates, not because she has to give them the money back, she just wanted to do her own thing.
This is completely incorrect. Her parents wanted her to go to University of Nebraska for free on scholarship. It was Emily who wanted to go to Columbia in NYC for 40k a year.
@stephenmason9527 Nice
@@davidindeednice???? Wtf?
@SWOTHDRA Cool