When the father took off the posters and said 'hes lost too much' about his son, my heart broke into a million pieces. He is as strong as a lion, a real father.
Not all homeless people are scumbags. I worked for 30 years until I got sick and lost everything I worked so hard for and became homeless. Nobody knows what's around the corner. it's been 2 years and my son and I are still in emergency accommodation waiting for housing. Never in a million years did I think I would be in this situation. It really can happen to anyone so don't be so judgemental people because one day it may be you.
Aussie Chic Agree. People think that their life will be picture perfect for the rest of their lives....but thats far from true. You could get into an accident or suffer a heart attack.
What did you learn? What would you have done differently? Would you have bought a long-term disability policy? Maybe a healthy fear of being homeless when you were not homeless would have resulted in a different outcome.
People do not realize until they go through it themselves. Some people will never realize but think they realize by watching. I feel for the families. Some life situations can land you in the cracks of life and screw your life up and feel like no way out.
This comment is the most honest and empathetic I’ve seen so far❤️life can change dramatically without warning.walk a mile in my shoes and then judge!👌🏻
Aussie Chic very true statement my dear I couldn't say it better myself I live in America and rent is very high I'm in a good place right now but before it gets worse I'm thinking of getting the van and making that my home and then that will save me you should try to get the van and living it live off the grid
And as an American, this documentary is an amazing and foreign concept: that a homeless shelter/center can take the counsel to court for letting a family with children be homeless for a night...That’s so far from what we have here IDK if I should be happy for these families or nauseous with envy, or resentful of Mr Columbus..or all 3... this reminds me of when I was pregnant with my son and worked FT right up 3 days up until his birth (not at a desk, either-I was a bartender) and returned 3.5 weeks later due to the whole “if I don’t work I don’t get paid” thing ). I was told that in the UK the Mother AND Father (?!) are given several weeks paid leave(?!) regardless of what type of work they do to be able to acclimate to being parents(?!) and actually Bond (?!?!) with their children(?!) as a family (?!?!). I’d like to thank this documentary for Reminding me to renew my passport this yr...
All that being said: my heart aches for Charlotte-being barely a teenager and suffering from constant fear of being punished by CPS for hitting hard times. THAT seems like a very unfortunate thing that we have in common..hearing her and her father’s fears have MY heart racing..
hmmm...interesting POV. I think REAL dads (and mums) get a freakin' job and pay their rent/mortgage. What is this dude doing all day? Comforting the emotional wreak of a mum. How about look for a job in the meantime?
If he worked while his wife was mentally unwell and couldn’t cope, the children would’ve most certainly have gone into foster care eventually and as someone abused in that system myself, I can attest to the fact it’s a terrible place to be. As a psychotherapist, I’m sad to see such a lack of empathy or understanding from you both, it must be wonderful to be perfect!
Gold School Thank you for taking my reply in the right frame of mind my friend. In this day and age and the hardships a lot of the population is feeling just now it would be easy to kick a man when he is down but I feel you have a good heart. Take care and be safe 👍
Bless the dad... he's trying so hard to keep his family together. Perhaps the hard choice would be to put the younger ones into care and then go from there. Get his wife that help and then go forward. Once he can find a home they can get those kids back. Surely there is a way. I hope it works out for them , I really do.
@@leenliannewalker3517 your an amazing man and i have so Much respect for how you kept strong and kept fighting for your family. The way you took care of your partner when she was unwell was touching even though you yourself were going through a rough time you stayed strong and was a rock for everyone in your family. Your awesome!
I find the young man who is the father of the five kids (whose partner and mother to their children is so heart-breakingly ill with depression) positively extraordinary in his commitment to his family. What a remarkable man.
One can be depressed or in despair in a difficult life situation without the symptoms of clinical depression. Respect, people in the world nowadays especially the western world are so naive and probably will not miss the water before the well is suddenly dry.
I love that dad. Especially when he keeps saying one more bite like 7 times. Total parent move. He got her to eat so much more with that clever trick. He’s definitely holding that whole family together. Just hope they get everything they need and deserve.
All of these people through no fault of their own, have found themselves homeless, seem to be such solid, decent people. The problem is the system, and the way the authorities lack real purpose to rectify the situation. You would expect that they would take a real look at the situation; the determination of the father to support his ff mily
40 years ago, these families would have a council house...... but of course they've all been sold off. One of the worst of Thatchers policies which still has an impact now.
Charlotte's father is a REAL DAD. He hasn't given up on his very sick wife, he did everything he could to keep his family together and hid children out of "care." And finally, after what? almost 2 years? He did it - he got his family back into a house. I would be proud to have a friend like him. Bad things happen to people, and the measure of a decent society is how we care for our most vulnerable members. Unfortunately social services are not oriented towards keeping men with their wives and children! And WHAT ON EARTH does it mean to call people "intentionally homeless?" That is just crude and nasty.
Unfortunately there are a small amount of people that do not pay rent intentionally, get evicted and then try and claim a house of the council. If it can be proven that they had the means, did something illegal (in this case the family s friend housed them illegally) or that they had no intention of trying to sort it out (by avoiding all contact and not replying to letters etc) it is deemed they are intentionally homeless and even with children, are not eligible for housing benefits. And that sadly spoils it for the rest of them that are in genuine need.
It’s amazing and quite sickening some of these comments on here wow!! My mum is a beautiful strong amazing woman. She has over come her illness and is doing amazing. Bet half of these vile comments are off people that have never been in a desperate situation not noting were your going to sleep at night. Let’s all just remember this documentary was filmed 11 years ago I’m now 25 years old
Most people do not understand what post natal depression and mental illness is. I Can't believe that people on here have labelled you're mum as useless etc. That does not help the situation at all. I am very happy that your Mother is doing well. I am sure she will go from strength to strength which will allow her to enjoy precious family time.
That man is truly the definition of what a father should be. What an incredible human being. I truly hope their family are doing better and are happy. It’s atrocious there are people going through times like this in first world countries.
That man with 5 kids is my hero. What an amazing man. How do you I become even a fraction of a father that, that man is. Hold your head up mate and if I could do anything to help you I would.
Yes he is a "good dad/husband" but many are praising him as a " Saint" which is fine but in my mind that's what a husband/father is SUPPOSED to do....I mean marriage vows are for better/ worse, richer/poorer, etc....he should be THE NORM...but being praised for being what he is supposed to be by following his roles with Integrity. Sad Society has come to praising a man for doing what men are supposed to just DO...
@@lumilabonte3980 it SHOULD be the norm, but it's not. That's why people make comments like that and praise him for doing everything he did. Most people would have said screw it and leave the situation. Unfortunately, people are very selfish and they don't care about how they treat others. I understand exactly what you mean, but sadly, this isn't the norm, so when people see it, they are pleasantly surprised.
@@22ergie You have no idea ,5 kids is more work than any job, as for smoking Thank God he s not an alcoholic and the Mam on drugs. I know as I have seen it so have some compassion.Read some of the comments and see how wrong you are , this is so sad.
@@garymccann5079 They ALWAYS have money for cigarettes.THAT'S SAD! Do the math: 9 BPS a day times two, as both smoke, 16 BPS per day x 365= 5,840 BPS per year: THAT'S SAD! So no, YOU'RE WRONG.
Me too. Although I am not sure, if I could really say, this could never happen in my ccountry. Homeless people here are always elder single men. Never heard of families being homeless.
I worked for a hotel that would take in women and their children from the women's shelter when they were full. I would always buy snacks for the kids from the vending machines and even a lot of our guests would. I worked night shift so a lot of the times the mother's would sit in the lobby and talk to me. I hugged many women and cried with them. But always told them how proud I was of them for leaving their abusers and would give them a list of resources in the town that could help them. People need to have more compassion. I will never tell someone how to handle a situation I have never been in myself because I do not know how I would handle it if I were in it. It doesn't take much to be nice to people ❤️
This man is amazing. What a fantastic father and husband he is. The way he’s supporting his wife through her depression is so admirable. I hope this family are doing ok now 💔
The father is a GREAT man. I feel the mother needs to get some help so that she can overcome her illness. God bless that family. I hope they are doing better in year 2020.
I read that the daughter had run away and was gone. I hope she came back and they are doing better. Al the families fir that matter. I've watched so many of these docs so far that my heart is just hurting!!!
This is one of the saddest documentaries I’ve ever seen. Seeing the little boy cry in his dads arms absolutely broke me. I pray to god they find their way,
Sometimes I feel despair for the state our world (I live in New Zealand) is in. Covid only made homelessness worse. When I was well I was a foster Mum and school teacher so I felt like I made a difference but being bedridden I feel useless in terms of helping others in this way.
@@amyrivers4093 You did your bit well done, if everybody did their bit we wouldn't be in such a bad housing situation like we're in. This 'housing crisis' is no accident, it's an artificial crisis that could be solved by, building enough housing for the population.
The other day I was complaining that it was cold in the house so I just went and turned the heat up, then I watched this. Seeing that girl with chattering teeth sitting in the cold with her family, having no where to go, made me burst into tears. I take so very much for granted. It’s so sad and heartbreaking for these families.
😮 THAT man is literally carrying his entire family (children and wife 5ppl) on his shoulders. Kids aged 3-16, with a mother that is not mentally available to help out. This man needs an platinum award. Father
What a fantastic father that man is looking after his wife who obviously needs help and keeping so strong for those children absolutely heartbreaking to watch what has happened to this country 😢
When the Dad said he had to take his little boys picture because he already lost so much and broke down it broke my heart into a million pieces. I wish I could just reach through the internet and help these people. God bless him for being there for his wife and taking care of his children and not walking out like so many do. I just ask that God bless this family somehow.
What a guy! Charlotte's dad is an incredible human being. What a role model to those kids. Wow - I am humbled by his dignity and strength. And I am floored by the injustice that can cripple a decent family.
I 100% agree!!!I guess I'm NOT the only Lara in this vast world,and one that feels like I do!My husband is alot like this incredible man and I adore him for it.I have suffered clinical depression and he takes care of me. I am always terrified something will happen to him cause of all the strength he shows but I know he must feel like crying like this poor dad at 10:30.We are only a couple paycheques away from homelessness at any time.Scares me to death but I am trying to be a strong partner for him too!
For the school to say “we are not responsible” about charlottes schoolwork being sent to her is absolutely repulsive. They are responsible. If a family is calling to ask to have it sent, they are taking responsibility on their end... for the school To say no is them NOT fulfilling their responsibilities. Horrific.
Yeah that’s common for houseless kids or not. I almost failed high school due to being put into independent study with my public school because I medically could not go. Just asking a teacher to send me a packet of the papers they regularly printed each week , FOR ME TO PICK UP, they wouldn’t. So I left and went to the continuation school in my town…. In which all my teachers from my previous school told me that no one would hire me and I wouldn’t get into school if I did that. Instead, I went and I graduated 8 months before my peers.
Because of the way schools are organized/funded they're legally mandated to only accept students with a fixed address within a given area. What they're really saying there is "we can't because that student no longer qualifies to be enrolled here." (but does qualify to be enrolled at a school where they currently live)
This is what a true man is. He stands through good and bad times and does not hide out..he goes through it all with them until the fight is over..love how he comforts the children and his woman..
Wow, this broke me 7 minutes in. Seeing the father having to explain to his kids they are going to become homeless again, having to move on AGAIN. I've been through a similar thing in the past 6 months, movinf from house share to house share, dodgy landlords, losing employment, losing benefits. It is an extremely difficult life to live, and that was only on my own. The thought of bringing 4 kids with me on such a journey, and a wife who is extremely mentally unwell, is unimaginable
I totally agree. I've got 2 kids, and though I'm poor, at least we've got a nice apartment to call home, a vehicle, food, clothes, internet and cable TV. I feel beyond blessed. My heart aches for these people, especially the kids. I feel very rich, and that certainly isn't the case!! I hate how unfair life can be. My heart goes out to them♡♡♡♡♡♡
I had hard situation too before , having no home and basic needs not met changed me. I got so desperate and no body would understand. I didn't want to die but didn't want to live at that time..but now I am ok, things did get better. No matter what what you are going through just remember that this is just temporary. And it will get better. Don't lose hope.
Charlotte's Dad is an absolutely amazing human being. To maintain such fortitude, supporting his family as he must be feeling the terrible despair. This is a very profound kind of courage which too often goes unnoticed.
This father is the literal glue holding this family together. I pray for this entire family and that things get easier for all of them. And that mental health gets better as well ❤️
I would like to tell charlotte s father that he is a real life hero for supporting his family the way he did. he showed a good example to his kids for sticking up for them, supporting them emotionnaly and help them to keep their head high through the devastating situation. hes a good man and he should be proud of himself and hope his wife gets better and start appreciating and being grateful for everything. may god lead you to the right path.
this has honestly given me a new perspective that I needed. How on earth is that poor father supposed to get work when he has to deal with EVERYTHING and how can the mother even attempt to get better with ZERO stability. it really is a vicious cycle
This is my life but much worse. Im a single mom of 3 sons, my middle son is disabled, he's has 19 brain surgeries and is like an 18 mo old. No one cares how we live or that we are about to becone homeless. All I want to do is work and take care of my family but I have no one to take care of my son and their are no services to help. No one cares.
Gina M - I don’t know how u can do it, but moving might be ur answer. That’s if ur in the US- Every State is different & in all my travels nothing compares 2 Massachusetts -absolute best healthcare! I’m so sorry & if u come my way ur welcome 2 get in touch. Hang in there- Mother’s r strong- u got this- it will get better
Gina M If you live in the UK, you need to contact SHELTER, go down to your local council and make a homeless application. If you have found your self intentionally homeless, they WONT house you and you will have to find private accommodation or they will be put into care , but because one of your children has a severe disability then maybe it’s different.
This father shows absolutely unbelievable strength, I don't have words and I hope the universe somehow sorts things out for this family. Heartbreaking.
That father deserves so much praise and respect, especially since due to the mother's mental health issues he's basically the only one who can parent/be an adult. He's got four kids and her to look after, not everyone would stick around.
I was homeless for most my teen years. It was more like move in move out, never had a stable house, neither did my parents have a stable job or income. Maybe around $300-400 a month. Though I have my business now and doing well in life, the thing that breaks my heart the most is remember my poor dad, he never let us sleep on a hungry stomach. He couldn't afford much medical care and his health kept worsening. By the time I could actually do something and afford the health care, it was too late, his heart was beyond repair and passed away two years ago. Two months after I got my first house. Sadly his health was too bad to enjoy the fruits of his last days. Sometimes it keeps me awake at nights and makes me weep. There is honestly nothing that I lack now, but the emotional trauma is still there and perhaps will always be there forever. At least in the West, humans still exist. Here in Africa, you're just an animal and nothing more. It's a really touching and relatable documentary. And I'm glad the family is doing well now. Thank you for the upload. Peace.
@The Poet I'm very sorry for your loss. Your dear dad was holding on for you and I believe he is resting in peace because he knew that you were in a better space and you would be ok. The one thing he would have like was for you to be happy so try and cherish his wonderful memory of strength and love and live life to the fullest. Smile whenever you think of him even as you allow yourself to miss him as that is ok. I hope you heal from your pain.
I hope you are still doing well and have survived all the horror our world has to offer lately! Please do me a favor..know you are a loved, special beautiful PERSON!!! zebras, chickens and cats are animals..not you!! That hit me hard..smiles and hugs from a friend in the west!
Awe it made me smile at the end to see Charlottes moms hair growing back and a huge smile on her face. I couldn’t imagine the mental toll it must have been on her and the whole family , so happy they got their home at the end. Such a beautiful family with parents that love them!
I'm glad I read your comment cos just 10 mins in I feel sadness and so much anger. Anger at government anger at do gooders. These are people living here already and they are homeless.
Should be illegal, if you pay the rent you can have whoever you want stay for a while, what harm does it do? Hope those self important landlords get their comeuppance.
I popped this on while doing my make up this morning and I honestly struggled not to cry my eyes out. Charlotte is/was the most amazing big sister to her little brothers, and the pain her family went through, and the strain on her as a teenager - she handled that absolutely amazingly, she was phenomenal. Charlotte's dad and mum are both LOVELY people and phenomenal parents, put a lot of people to shame. What an amazing man and family. it breaks my heart that GOOD, good, wholesome, pure hearted people are subject to circumstances like this in life.
It was sweet how Sarah became a big Sis to Chloe' and keeps her company. Heartwarming, really. I can feel the love between the two of them. Sarah's a kind, gentle soul.👍🏾❤️👏🏾
As someone who's been in homeless shelters there are a few things that need to be said. 1. Its not as simple as get a job and rent a place. You can have a job but with all your savings gone you have no way to afford a bond and ways to look in the first place. Plus you're probably in debt by this point. Also looking for work is hard and doesn't happen overnight. 2. You'd smoke if you're life has turned to shit so don't go on your moral high ground and act like you're better then them. 3. Mentally it's tasking and not everyone is up to it. I can't tell you how many people try to kill them selves in shelters but it got to a point where a girl tried hiding in my room so she could slit her wrists. It's the fucking pits of existence and unless you've been there you should never judge or hand out your shitty "advice".
Don't apologize for your comment. We need your personal experience and if more people were interviewed or could share their experience we would have a more humane response from the government and from regular folks. Hope your future is more secure as every day goes by.
I struggled with postpartum depression for two years after the birth of our daughter, and I would, quite frankly, rather feel physical pain than go through that again. My husband picked up so much slack while helping me care for our baby. I can't imagine having to parent other children and face poverty and homelessness as well. I hope that mother was able to get on medication and find some government-funded counseling program.
I am in tears the whole time I was watching this. Gosh! I salute Charlotte's Dad. Even they were homeless and was moving from one place to another, he made sure that his kids won't skip school. Even when it seemed like it was the dead end for them, he didn't stop looking for a decent home for his family. Most of all, he wanted his family to stay intact... no matter what. Also, his love for his wife is truly unconditional! This man deserves all the happiness in the world. This made me realize that I have NO right to complain for things that I don't have because I have a place to call my home. We should value all the little things that we have right now and be contented. May God bless all of these families and I pray that they're now in a better situation.
This is when I wish I had millions. I’d go get these families and surprise them with lovely homes. My God why is this happening. I’d love updates on them all. Charlotte really touched my heart. Her dad has so much pressure. Hope all these ppl are in a better place now!!
Diff between Heaven & Reincarnation Cowards choose Heaven, run away from REAL LIFE and hide in a fantasy - care no more about what is happening down on earth. Their OWN loved ones down on earth could be suffering, starving, sick, homeless but they care no more! Their country could be at war, like Ukraine, millions suffering, fleeing the country, women raped, children, old people dying cruel deaths - but they care no more! And these selfish, uncaring leeches are whom God keeps in comfort? Reincarnation is for the Warrior - come back and work for a better earth! Run TOWARDS pain & suffering! Work alongside God, for GOD IS WITH THE LIVING, NOT THE DEAD!
Just saw a video minutes about a young girl in SF named Sarah who is living in a one room with her mom & sis. They were in a shelter but got a subsidized room. I'll get the name of it, you'll love it. The child is precious and wise beyond her years. Actually she's brilliantly wise.
This family may be poor but they have a strong love for each other and that is hard to find. They are lucky to have each other and I hope their situation gets better
This absolutely devastated me. This man reminds me a lot of my husband and the weight he carried caring for me and our son. I really do wish this family all the love, health and blessings in the world. Heartbreaking and no one helping them. The system is so broken.
I couldn't believe a pro bono lawyer was going to take the council to court if it didn't put up funds to house people. Just incredible that the world has come to this. You think the developing countries suffer from corruption, but it's rife in developed countries now.
I've been in this situation myself luckily for only a short period of time but I can say it was the bleakest I've ever felt. It's so hard as a parent to feel like you're failing your children. There is so much wealth in this world and that no family should ever have to go through this.
That father...is a saint. This is so heartbreaking, and he's got it all on his shoulders and somehow stays strong for his family. A real, true father, a lovely man.
"the shelter they were in has been closed down and boarded up" so there's a perfectly good shelter sitting empty whilst these people are thrown onto the street?! well Bravo!!! bunch of useless...
I really hope these families are all doing well. We're now in temporary accommodation, a ground floor studio property, with a small kitchen & bathroom. I'm extremely grateful to my son's teacher, as this annexe is on her property, & she's let it to us xx
That would go against the government standard. It's a requirement to be inefficient and wasteful of time and money for every government program. When enough complaints happen they can then cut some waste as if they're doing something wonderful. Also remember governments are bureaucracies and any bureaucracy that isn't growing and need more workers gets their funding cut so they need to make sure there is more to do than they can get done.
@Abid Maybe 2% might help but the rest will be greedy. Before people became government they had normal lives and they wasn’t greedy but as soon as the become president they changed.
@@nunyabuisness7552 The reality is that our government is trying and is doing everything it can to ensure that working families get the care and support that they need! Housing prices have skyrocketed and Sadiq Khan has done nothing to stabilise the market. He has been economically reckless with London economy! We need a london mayor who will lower housing costs for working families!
This kind of thing sickens me to the core. I have two Children and a beautiful loving wife. We also own two very successful businesses. However, I was ill and unable to work a couple of months ago and unable to may the mortgage, and then the threatening letters started. We managed to get back on track, but it was so close to what these people are going through. It can happen in a heart beat to ANY OF US. I'm humbled by the plight of these people. We now sponsor a (Christian) group who helps families in this dreadful situation. We all have to try to help. It could be any one of us.
The banks work with numbers but when we the people can't pay up anymore they will come for your possessions, everything you have. So we get digital "money" and they take real valuables back..........sounds like theft to me.
“Intentionally homeless” yet it was the government who caused them to loose the house? Gosh I’m glad I live in Australia. While we do have a homeless problem, it is no where near to the scale of other countries and our homeless have much more options available. This made me so mad! I cannot believe people are treated this way in a country that’s royal family can hold a £25M royal wedding!!
@@kazania7653 yes in the recent months here unfortunately rent has gone through the roof after covid causing an issue, but there are many government funded housing projects in play and being built right now to try to combat it. Unfortunately covid has hit aus hard, just like everywhere else causing alot of people to have to sell their investment properties and so forth and demand is currently outweighing resource. Though homeless here are much better taken care of and even though some are living in tents, they are given free food, tents, blow-up or foam mattresses, bedding, clothes, shoes, personal care items amongst alot of other things for free. There shouldn't be a homeless crisis in ANY country in the first world at all. Though we tend to treat our homeless a lot differently to alot of other places in the world and even now with our "crisis" the percentages of homeless are far lower still than most other western countries.
I JUST finished watching like a 7 video series on how bad it is in Australia as well. That's actually how I came across this video. People living in sheds, IF they're lucky, or living in the bush...it's crazy! Huge families of 7 or more kids living in someones garage! It was really difficult to watch because those people had the same exact stories like the people in this video.
The council dont care.when my ex husband lost hes job and coudnt pay the rent our local council told us they coudnt help. We had to find private acco before we got evicted. At the time i had a child under two and another under 12.we did find a private home.my kids are up now. Am 62 and in private accom. Its finding the months rent in advance that is the problem.
I too worked hard for 30+ years and one spate of 7 mo. of illness took my home of 20 yrs. Moving in with family cost me my pets as they didn't want to take them. Now I am living in an apt. I don't mind that as I don't need much. It's more the way people treat you as if you are less due to the illness.
Sorry to hear you went through this but it's true that a serious illness or regular treatments can cost people their entire livelihoods. People better be careful not to judge. I'm also heartbroken to hear your family would not allow you to keep your pets, as they are family as well. I hope things are going better for you.
this is so heartbreaking. i admire the father and eldest daughter for being so strong, but in a perfect world, they wouldn't have to sacrifice their happiness like this.
But I think it is somehow good for the children, because they learned one thing in life: When you stick together, you can make it better in the end. I loved how the Dad made this clear.
May not be in the perfect family situation, but I have SOO much respect for the father. He has to go through the whole situation like the rest of his family, yet he holds the whole family together. He has to hold back the tears whilst he breaks the news to his children that they have to move yet again. He has to hold his wife together aswell. He is so strong, despite the crying (everyone does) he knows that he has to wake up everyone, get up off the floor and face another day.
I'm from The United States and live in the most liberal and generous of all the states, Massachusetts. I have to say, It amazes me how incredibly polite the British are. Even when you're being told that you and your children are being turned out on the street, through no fault of your own you still stay polite. It amazes me. I think it's a wonderful attribute because screaming and running your mouth never helps your case when your wrapped up in red tape. Just an observation, incredibly amazing.
"you are not gonna house us because you say we are intentionally homeless. ok thank you. bye ". Polite or just lost the will. And to think the council admitted they were wrongly evicted!!! Did anyone face responsibility for all the miatakes?
Growing up, my family and I were homeless 3 times. I’m now an adult and I still deal with PTSD from some of the situations we went through. Seeing the dad trying so hard to hold it together was absolutely heartbreaking to watch, I know how he felt. I remember getting into one house finally, we sat and ate pizza on the ground because we had no furniture, but we were just so happy to finally have somewhere to go that it didn’t matter. I’m curious to know how these people are doing now. I hope they’re good.
This is utterly heartbreaking. This was 16 years ago and nothing has changed. Housing should be a fundamental human right - the way these people are treated is so incredibly dehumanising and unfair. I hope their lives have improved as time has passed. These are all intelligent emotionally astute human beings, they're no different from anyone else yet they have to endure stress most of us luckily could never imagine.
That would be such a simple way to explain this away. I agree the situations depicted here are dehumanising and unfair, but how can housing be a fundamental human right? That notion is illogical. In modern times, there are simply too many people in the world and not enough habitable land, which is causing not only these problems, but climate problems, yet nobody wants to speak about it, because the real solution is so unspeakable. It doesn't make the reality any less true. People worldwide are choosing to have kids with either no or limited means to support them. They give no regard to the eventual consequences on either themselves, or the planet. Nothing is a human right, we are just animals, like all the others. "Human rights" are just made up by well meaning but misguided unrealistic people. The more the idea of human rights is pushed, the more poorly educated people suffer because they believe the narrative and think their acts are without consequence. The irony is, by promoting those ideas en masse in an uncontrolled way, it's creating more and more human suffering worldwide. Famine, lack of housing, lack of education, it's been a global issue for decades and despite countless billions thrown at the situation, it gets worse and worse. The next big (massive) thing is going to be water, not housing. There isn't enough to go around. Is water a human right too? Try telling that to the planet, which has a finite amount of it. I feel so entirely sorry for the kids in this equation, because all the made up human rights in the world don't give them a better actual existence. They didn't ask to be born. The can gets kicked down the road by so called "humanitarians". Nobody in power wants to tackle the actual root causes, they just want to pretend they care, win votes and bank the cash. A true humanitarian is looking 50-100 years from now, not at oil or petroleum products, but at water, or rather the lack of it.
@@vtrmcs That's sure a lot of words for a load of bullshit. You're not a good person, nor are you intelligent. you aren't misunderstood, you're just an embarrassment. This mortifying word salad being one indication.
I was also so heartbroken when I saw the first family's friend tell her pals they needed to leave. You could tell the lady was so distraught, and was only doing so to prevent her family from being homeless as well. Clearly she didn't have much, but was willing to share what little she did have. As is so often the case, individuals in poverty-stricken situations tend not to have friends with a great many resources. Sadly, we often mix with folks whose SES is similar to our own. So families like these seen in this documentary don't have the option of turning to a rich pal for assistance, whereas I can't even name the number of people who would allow me to stay in their chalet, beach house, country house, cabin..etc., for a weekend holiday.
You can just feel the pain everytime Sarah is smiling and giggling. Like you have nothing else left but hope and need to keep a positive mind. I hope she is in a better place right now ❤
I have cried from beginning to end. How courageous are these families. Charlotte's dad..a hero. All the children were so brave, so resilient, I wish I could change it. What a hard, harsh world .
Charlotte’s father , one of the most amazing loving , courageous and responsible man i have ever seen. Thanks to film like this we get to understand the real people and will pay more attention to homeless . We who have more must learn to be generous , be thankful to God hence kindness must go forth to show gratitude .
Did you notice the tiny spark that returned to the first mum once they got put on the housing list and started speaking to the estate agent? All people need sometimes is a tiny bit of hope. I too suffer from mental health issues and it can be extremely overwhelming. I read on here that she’s doing better which is brilliant! The Dad is a star and Charlotte was very mature. God bless them all.
@@theojames7933 Maybe so but she started whining about not wanting to leave Minehead. If you're desperate you go wherever you need to go for a roof over your head.
When you have kids you cannot afford to let yourself get that deepening depression. I know its hard but youbhave to think of someone else and not just how bad you feel. And yes I've been homeless as a teen and multiple times as a kid. You don't know cold til you spend a winter in a pup tent so don't come at me.
I cannot express how much respect I have for the father, he is so strong and caring, he and his family deserves the world, the effort and support he gives, bless.
I am very proud of this man for putting in blood, sweat and tears to helping the family survive. Even during the most adverse circumstances, he kept going. People don't realize what they have until its gone.
@@Padraigpwhy does he get praise for being irresponsible and having kids he couldn't afford yet people who have kids they can afford are called privileged and snobs? Even when they give their kids the same love and affection?
@@NelsonMangandhi Because he's a great father even in a horrible situation. It's easy to be a good parent when money and housing aren't an issue. Many more better off 'fathers' are so much less with so much more available, if they even stick around.
@@jlp11889 give it a rest. He's brought kids into the world knowing full well he can't provide for them. Like I said people who work hard and actually give their kids a good life get looked down upon by people like you when really they deserve more praise
I am sitting here crying....its not the familys faults that there homeless...social work didn't help...I take my hat of to the dad trying to keep them all together, feeling so sorry for mum that had depression,I know what that's like.......Good luck to you all,and I hope life gets so much better for you...God bless xx
That father is so good and also as a husband. Four kids and a sick wife is a lot to handle for a person with a stable home. He keeps a calm sprit through it all.
Dear Charlotte, you're such an amazing young lady, you're brave, courageous, beautiful and strong!! Keep the faith, keep hoping for the best, keep your head high, just IGNORE all the negative comments because they don't know any better. Your dad is the bravest and strongest man who tried to keep his family together despite all the hardships, he is truly amazing! May your mom be healed and recovered from her illness. May God bless you and your family. Take good care love. xoxo
I see everyone saying charlottes dad is amazing but honestly all the family are such great people. Especially Charlotte herself. Imagine the stress on her as a teenage girl with all this. I wish the family the best. 💌💌
My heart goes out to Sarah. I know she is around 30 now, but throughout her entire time on screen she was smiling. She became friends with someone more than half her age to try and make it easier on her. But through all of that you could tell she wanted so much more, but she would never tell anyone that. It's heartbreaking that she missed her GCSEs and never made it back to school when she talked so much about liking to learn. To this day she probably remembers Chloe and their time together at the B&B a lot more than Chloe remembers her. I hope she has made it out of poverty, or at least has a more stable life than she did back then.
Omg!!! Seeing that boy crying to his dad broke my heart into a million pieces, I hope they’re living a wonderful comfortable life and are doing well ❤️
When the father took off the posters and said 'hes lost too much' about his son, my heart broke into a million pieces. He is as strong as a lion, a real father.
I'm bawling my eyes out. Any update? Omg. I feel sick.
I cried when he took those posters down too heart breaking stong man
Yes;/
Trust me this guy is really trying....he soooooo strong, and his hearts is sooo pure....mummy please be strong....
I just seen that part as I started into the comments. I think he is a strong man that has been beaten down by a broken system
Not all homeless people are scumbags. I worked for 30 years until I got sick and lost everything I worked so hard for and became homeless. Nobody knows what's around the corner. it's been 2 years and my son and I are still in emergency accommodation waiting for housing. Never in a million years did I think I would be in this situation. It really can happen to anyone so don't be so judgemental people because one day it may be you.
Aussie Chic Agree. People think that their life will be picture perfect for the rest of their lives....but thats far from true. You could get into an accident or suffer a heart attack.
What did you learn? What would you have done differently? Would you have bought a long-term disability policy? Maybe a healthy fear of being homeless when you were not homeless would have resulted in a different outcome.
People do not realize until they go through it themselves. Some people will never realize but think they realize by watching. I feel for the families. Some life situations can land you in the cracks of life and screw your life up and feel like no way out.
This comment is the most honest and empathetic I’ve seen so far❤️life can change dramatically without warning.walk a mile in my shoes and then judge!👌🏻
Aussie Chic very true statement my dear I couldn't say it better myself I live in America and rent is very high I'm in a good place right now but before it gets worse I'm thinking of getting the van and making that my home and then that will save me you should try to get the van and living it live off the grid
As a father myself, I respect Charlotte's dad so much. If I'm considered even a fraction of a man that he is, I would be happy.
My drunken rat of a father once walked off a job because there was a pub over the road.
Totally agree. He actually made me cry, such a lovely guy, wish I had one like him.
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And as an American, this documentary is an amazing and foreign concept: that a homeless shelter/center can take the counsel to court for letting a family with children be homeless for a night...That’s so far from what we have here IDK if I should be happy for these families or nauseous with envy, or resentful of Mr Columbus..or all 3... this reminds me of when I was pregnant with my son and worked FT right up 3 days up until his birth (not at a desk, either-I was a bartender) and returned 3.5 weeks later due to the whole “if I don’t work I don’t get paid” thing ). I was told that in the UK the Mother AND Father (?!) are given several weeks paid leave(?!) regardless of what type of work they do to be able to acclimate to being parents(?!) and actually Bond (?!?!) with their children(?!) as a family (?!?!). I’d like to thank this documentary for Reminding me to renew my passport this yr...
All that being said: my heart aches for Charlotte-being barely a teenager and suffering from constant fear of being punished by CPS for hitting hard times. THAT seems like a very unfortunate thing that we have in common..hearing her and her father’s fears have MY heart racing..
That dad is what REAL dad's are about. The support he gives his kids is unbelievable. My heart breaks for all of them.
hmmm...interesting POV. I think REAL dads (and mums) get a freakin' job and pay their rent/mortgage. What is this dude doing all day? Comforting the emotional wreak of a mum. How about look for a job in the meantime?
Real dads provide.
If he worked while his wife was mentally unwell and couldn’t cope, the children would’ve most certainly have gone into foster care eventually and as someone abused in that system myself, I can attest to the fact it’s a terrible place to be.
As a psychotherapist, I’m sad to see such a lack of empathy or understanding from you both, it must be wonderful to be perfect!
@@Charlie-bh3yk I do have empathy
@@milvertonmom50you know nothing, my dad &mum are the best. Please keep you’re negative comments to yourself!!!
If every man in the world had the courage and stamina of this father, we would be living in a perfect world.
lesser men would have just run away and abandoned the family, this man is trying his best.
Gold School If only everyone in the world was as blessed as your good self and able to look into the future.
Dave Grant I concede Brother. I am grateful this man was able to find a way out of poverty
Gold School Thank you for taking my reply in the right frame of mind my friend. In this day and age and the hardships a lot of the population is feeling just now it would be easy to kick a man when he is down but I feel you have a good heart. Take care and be safe 👍
Bless the dad... he's trying so hard to keep his family together. Perhaps the hard choice would be to put the younger ones into care and then go from there. Get his wife that help and then go forward. Once he can find a home they can get those kids back. Surely there is a way. I hope it works out for them , I really do.
Lee, the father of that family is a hero. He’s the glue that keeps that family together,
Thankyou.
@@leenliannewalker3517 your an amazing man and i have so Much respect for how you kept strong and kept fighting for your family. The way you took care of your partner when she was unwell was touching even though you yourself were going through a rough time you stayed strong and was a rock for everyone in your family. Your awesome!
Really?
@@blobbyblob2573 yes REALLY!
@@EI_24 they should have bought a house before kids 😂 😂. Now 🤐
I find the young man who is the father of the five kids (whose partner and mother to their children is so heart-breakingly ill with depression) positively extraordinary in his commitment to his family. What a remarkable man.
RoisinRegan Sheehan honestly that bit was so touching. He holds everybody together and to see him break down hurt my heart
not everyone is built to go through stressful, and depressing, situations. Stuff like this really shows what a person is made of.
RoisinRegan Sheehan exactly that is truly a real man !
One can be depressed or in despair in a difficult life situation without the symptoms of clinical depression. Respect, people in the world nowadays especially the western world are so naive and probably will not miss the water before the well is suddenly dry.
I love that dad. Especially when he keeps saying one more bite like 7 times. Total parent move. He got her to eat so much more with that clever trick. He’s definitely holding that whole family together. Just hope they get everything they need and deserve.
All of these people through no fault of their own, have found themselves homeless, seem to be such solid, decent people. The problem is the system, and the way the authorities lack real purpose to rectify the situation. You would expect that they would take a real look at the situation; the determination of the father to support his ff mily
family, and do everything possible to help an obviously, genuinely good family unit.
Why isnt it their fault? Their choices and decisions have consequences.
40 years ago, these families would have a council house...... but of course they've all been sold off. One of the worst of Thatchers policies which still has an impact now.
My dads our rock ❤
Charlotte's father is a REAL DAD.
He hasn't given up on his very sick wife, he did everything he could to keep his family together and hid children out of "care." And finally, after what? almost 2 years? He did it - he got his family back into a house. I would be proud to have a friend like him.
Bad things happen to people, and the measure of a decent society is how we care for our most vulnerable members. Unfortunately social services are not oriented towards keeping men with their wives and children!
And WHAT ON EARTH does it mean to call people "intentionally homeless?" That is just crude and nasty.
The 'intentionally homeless' label was invented by Thatcherite bureaucrats who themselves are 'intentionally' molly coddled by government largess
Tina being homeless causes mental health problems. You are so right. I wish more people were as decent as you are.
Unfortunately there are a small amount of people that do not pay rent intentionally, get evicted and then try and claim a house of the council. If it can be proven that they had the means, did something illegal (in this case the family s friend housed them illegally) or that they had no intention of trying to sort it out (by avoiding all contact and not replying to letters etc) it is deemed they are intentionally homeless and even with children, are not eligible for housing benefits.
And that sadly spoils it for the rest of them that are in genuine need.
29:23 where Charlotte's little Rosy baby sister is sleeping covered by her dads jacket! So sweet.
Well said Tina, all of it.
It’s amazing and quite sickening some of these comments on here wow!! My mum is a beautiful strong amazing woman. She has over come her illness and is doing amazing.
Bet half of these vile comments are off people that have never been in a desperate situation not noting were your going to sleep at night.
Let’s all just remember this documentary was filmed 11 years ago I’m now 25 years old
Thankyou x
Most people do not understand what post natal depression and mental illness is.
I Can't believe that people on here have labelled you're mum as useless etc. That does not help the situation at all.
I am very happy that your Mother is doing well. I am sure she will go from strength to strength which will allow her to enjoy precious family time.
I hope you your siblings and mom and dad are all well I love your family.May God bless you all!
Charlotte Walker what illness? Heroin addiction
Charlotte you have a beautiful and loving family, I hope everything worked out well for all of you.Sending love from the U.S.
Protect that father at all cost the world needs him, his family is so strong
That man is truly the definition of what a father should be. What an incredible human being. I truly hope their family are doing better and are happy. It’s atrocious there are people going through times like this in first world countries.
That man with 5 kids is my hero. What an amazing man. How do you I become even a fraction of a father that, that man is. Hold your head up mate and if I could do anything to help you I would.
Yes he is a "good dad/husband" but many are praising him as a " Saint" which is fine but in my mind that's what a husband/father is SUPPOSED to do....I mean marriage vows are for better/ worse, richer/poorer, etc....he should be THE NORM...but being praised for being what he is supposed to be by following his roles with Integrity. Sad Society has come to praising a man for doing what men are supposed to just DO...
crying and smoking and NOT WORKING-a hero? what a joke
@@lumilabonte3980 it SHOULD be the norm, but it's not. That's why people make comments like that and praise him for doing everything he did. Most people would have said screw it and leave the situation. Unfortunately, people are very selfish and they don't care about how they treat others. I understand exactly what you mean, but sadly, this isn't the norm, so when people see it, they are pleasantly surprised.
@@22ergie You have no idea ,5 kids is more work than any job, as for smoking Thank God he s not an alcoholic and the Mam on drugs. I know as I have seen it so have some compassion.Read some of the comments and see how wrong you are , this is so sad.
@@garymccann5079 They ALWAYS have money for cigarettes.THAT'S SAD! Do the math: 9 BPS a day times two, as both smoke, 16 BPS per day x 365= 5,840 BPS per year: THAT'S SAD! So no, YOU'RE WRONG.
After watching this video I realised how grateful I am
Finally a comment with reading
Me too 😔
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many space in my house...so many empty bedroom..and yet many more are homeless..
Me too. Although I am not sure, if I could really say, this could never happen in my ccountry. Homeless people here are always elder single men. Never heard of families being homeless.
Charlotte ‘ dad is amazing . He dearly loved his wife and his children and fought for them with the system.
Let’s all have loads of kids then we can fight the system. It’s the systems fault!
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I’ve rarely cried during a documentary but that father tracing down his son’s pictures just put me over the edge.
Yup that broke me
Too much grown ups crying instead of being strong.
eveytime that amazing dad broke down and cried, i cried too. what an amazing man
I've been homeless before and that is no place for young children, that council is a disgrace.
Same here. I was homelesss in seattle with my ex wife in seattle for 9 months. It was crazy
What's the answer then Gordon?
@@infernogamers168 defund police, use money to protect the community instead
@@sophie1706
sophie a complete buffoon > "DefUnD ThE pOliCe"
@@gallifreyanrefugee7982 how?
I worked for a hotel that would take in women and their children from the women's shelter when they were full. I would always buy snacks for the kids from the vending machines and even a lot of our guests would. I worked night shift so a lot of the times the mother's would sit in the lobby and talk to me. I hugged many women and cried with them. But always told them how proud I was of them for leaving their abusers and would give them a list of resources in the town that could help them. People need to have more compassion. I will never tell someone how to handle a situation I have never been in myself because I do not know how I would handle it if I were in it. It doesn't take much to be nice to people ❤️
Well done, Barbie! We need more kindhearted people like you, who actually do their best to comfort and help.
Well said.
Love it 👍
Thank you so much for being such a kind soul, the worlds needs you.
That is super nice of them to give you work. Ya some ppl think easy, just get a job and pay rent. But getting job is not easy.
This man is amazing. What a fantastic father and husband he is. The way he’s supporting his wife through her depression is so admirable. I hope this family are doing ok now 💔
@Donnell Okafor Because they can't afford it.
I wish my wife was like that she ended our 15 year relationship and now I feel utterly destroyed and lost.
@@KonohazFinest I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though she didn't pass it still a loss. Things will get better. Stay safe and merry Christmas.
@@vanessaarnell I appreciate the kind words. Your husband is a very lucky man to have someone like you.
Maybe he should provide
The father trying to take the boys' posters with him and crying at the beginning broke my heart
Sarah Pitcher Heartbreaking
Yes, I couldn't watch that.
Sarah Pitcher made me cry too
Truly heartbreaking. 😢
me too
The father is a GREAT man. I feel the mother needs to get some help so that she can overcome her illness. God bless that family. I hope they are doing better in year 2020.
Apparently they all doing well and are working on a farm and happy yay
@@jaderatzlaff8625 Is the a follow up documentary or article?
I read that the daughter had run away and was gone. I hope she came back and they are doing better. Al the families fir that matter. I've watched so many of these docs so far that my heart is just hurting!!!
I'm happy they doing better
I hope everyone is doing good in 2021
This is one of the saddest documentaries I’ve ever seen. Seeing the little boy cry in his dads arms absolutely broke me. I pray to god they find their way,
In Jesus name AMEN
Pretty hard to find your way when the government have the system set up for you to fail....
When there's even people with full time jobs now homeless because they cannot afford housing it's not the individuals fault it's the governments!
Sometimes I feel despair for the state our world (I live in New Zealand) is in. Covid only made homelessness worse. When I was well I was a foster Mum and school teacher so I felt like I made a difference but being bedridden I feel useless in terms of helping others in this way.
@@amyrivers4093 You did your bit well done, if everybody did their bit we wouldn't be in such a bad housing situation like we're in. This 'housing crisis' is no accident, it's an artificial crisis that could be solved by, building enough housing for the population.
The other day I was complaining that it was cold in the house so I just went and turned the heat up, then I watched this. Seeing that girl with chattering teeth sitting in the cold with her family, having no where to go, made me burst into tears. I take so very much for granted. It’s so sad and heartbreaking for these families.
Indeed we forget how lucky we are.
"Its hard because I want to learn" yall my heart literally broke in a million pieces 😭😭
It was nice of that family to take her into their new home 💕
😮 THAT man is literally carrying his entire family (children and wife 5ppl) on his shoulders. Kids aged 3-16, with a mother that is not mentally available to help out. This man needs an platinum award. Father
He also needs help... That wife needs help... Its so heartbreaking to watch...
That wife needs to pull her finger out instead of sitting around smoking and crying. She has four children she made and is letting them down
The mother needs mental health/ medications and then to get a job. Same as the 16 yr old. Family should work together.
Absolutely!
What a fantastic father that man is looking after his wife who obviously needs help and keeping so strong for those children absolutely heartbreaking to watch what has happened to this country 😢
“I’ve got too take my little boys pictures he’s lost too much” my hearts broken😫 that dad is such a soldier for his children 😫
Shame the mother is selfish and useless.
@@HaggisMuncher-69-420 She was ill. There's a difference.
Stop glorifying army... Hes a brilliant father. No reason to blend army into this.
@@morganablackwater2017 a soldier is someone who carries on through tough times, it's a figure of speech not literal
This doc deserves an update,not only for the families shown but also as a general update on the homeless crisis in the UK
When the Dad said he had to take his little boys picture because he already lost so much and broke down it broke my heart into a million pieces. I wish I could just reach through the internet and help these people. God bless him for being there for his wife and taking care of his children and not walking out like so many do. I just ask that God bless this family somehow.
Dorothy Brooks at that moment I cried
God Bless this family protect them 🙏🙏🙏
Chris M that's a very blunt thing to say?
What a guy! Charlotte's dad is an incredible human being. What a role model to those kids. Wow - I am humbled by his dignity and strength. And I am floored by the injustice that can cripple a decent family.
I 100% agree!!!I guess I'm NOT the only Lara in this vast world,and one that feels like I do!My husband is alot like this incredible man and I adore him for it.I have suffered clinical depression and he takes care of me. I am always terrified something will happen to him cause of all the strength he shows but I know he must feel like crying like this poor dad at 10:30.We are only a couple paycheques away from homelessness at any time.Scares me to death but I am trying to be a strong partner for him too!
Lara Monroe cute cat!!!!!
For the school to say “we are not responsible” about charlottes schoolwork being sent to her is absolutely repulsive. They are responsible. If a family is calling to ask to have it sent, they are taking responsibility on their end... for the school
To say no is them NOT fulfilling their responsibilities. Horrific.
Yeah that’s common for houseless kids or not. I almost failed high school due to being put into independent study with my public school because I medically could not go.
Just asking a teacher to send me a packet of the papers they regularly printed each week , FOR ME TO PICK UP, they wouldn’t.
So I left and went to the continuation school in my town…. In which all my teachers from my previous school told me that no one would hire me and I wouldn’t get into school if I did that. Instead, I went and I graduated 8 months before my peers.
Good for you 👏
@@pillowtalk1925 Well done.
Because of the way schools are organized/funded they're legally mandated to only accept students with a fixed address within a given area. What they're really saying there is "we can't because that student no longer qualifies to be enrolled here." (but does qualify to be enrolled at a school where they currently live)
Well it's not. It is the schools decision.
This is what a true man is. He stands through good and bad times and does not hide out..he goes through it all with them until the fight is over..love how he comforts the children and his woman..
What an amazing dad! The way he looks after his wife and children!
I hope he got a job and they are doing better.
A very rare man indeed. Blessings to all of the families.
I need one of those....
We put our beans in can on the radiator when we go out, and it's warmed when we come back. What a little angel ❤
To refuse a child their medicine is beyond cruel. I have asthma and I can't even imagine not having the medicine that helps keep me alive.😰
I understand that but the mother talking about the asthma her child suffers while her and her husband carry on smoking in the house with the kids
Wow, this broke me 7 minutes in. Seeing the father having to explain to his kids they are going to become homeless again, having to move on AGAIN. I've been through a similar thing in the past 6 months, movinf from house share to house share, dodgy landlords, losing employment, losing benefits. It is an extremely difficult life to live, and that was only on my own. The thought of bringing 4 kids with me on such a journey, and a wife who is extremely mentally unwell, is unimaginable
I totally agree. I've got 2 kids, and though I'm poor, at least we've got a nice apartment to call home, a vehicle, food, clothes, internet and cable TV. I feel beyond blessed. My heart aches for these people, especially the kids. I feel very rich, and that certainly isn't the case!! I hate how unfair life can be. My heart goes out to them♡♡♡♡♡♡
I had hard situation too before , having no home and basic needs not met changed me. I got so desperate and no body would understand. I didn't want to die but didn't want to live at that time..but now I am ok, things did get better. No matter what what you are going through just remember that this is just temporary. And it will get better. Don't lose hope.
Charlotte's Dad is an absolutely amazing human being. To maintain such fortitude, supporting his family as he must be feeling the terrible despair. This is a very profound kind of courage which too often goes unnoticed.
I don't know If it goes unnoticed because everyone is noticing it in comment section at least
No matter what any one thinks ever one needs help if had the money I would help you God bless you
@@susanna8612 that mother is not getting the help she needs...she needs to be institutionalized...she is Not Safe around the kids. Poor Dad
My dad is better. He had a job.
I felt so bad for the first families friend, she was so heartbroken that she had to make them leave.
They are scroungers who should never have put that poor woman in that situa\tion in the first place. What about erm...let me think...work?
@@mrsbee5056 all your comments are vile. Is everything okay at home? I'd suggest you get some therapy x
She was so upset..was heartbreaking
Super Mum you’re evil
Thats illegal, 7 days notice, they would have to give written notice for 28 days to leave,, Even without being on the tenacy agreement..
This father is the literal glue holding this family together. I pray for this entire family and that things get easier for all of them. And that mental health gets better as well ❤️
I would like to tell charlotte s father that he is a real life hero for supporting his family the way he did. he showed a good example to his kids for sticking up for them, supporting them emotionnaly and help them to keep their head high through the devastating situation. hes a good man and he should be proud of himself and hope his wife gets better and start appreciating and being grateful for everything. may god lead you to the right path.
I really don't think you would "appreciate and be grateful for everything" if you were in the same situation as them.
this has honestly given me a new perspective that I needed. How on earth is that poor father supposed to get work when he has to deal with EVERYTHING and how can the mother even attempt to get better with ZERO stability. it really is a vicious cycle
I pray for them and I believe they will.
This is my life but much worse. Im a single mom of 3 sons, my middle son is disabled, he's has 19 brain surgeries and is like an 18 mo old. No one cares how we live or that we are about to becone homeless. All I want to do is work and take care of my family but I have no one to take care of my son and their are no services to help. No one cares.
Gina M - I don’t know how u can do it, but moving might be ur answer. That’s if ur in the US- Every State is different & in all my travels nothing compares 2 Massachusetts -absolute best healthcare! I’m so sorry & if u come my way ur welcome 2 get in touch. Hang in there- Mother’s r strong- u got this- it will get better
Gina M If you live in the UK, you need to contact SHELTER, go down to your local council and make a homeless application. If you have found your self intentionally homeless, they WONT house you and you will have to find private accommodation or they will be put into care , but because one of your children has a severe disability then maybe it’s different.
@@ginam6691 Good job having 3 children ...
Sarah choked me up, she is a gentle girl and she literally has made a difference in the little kids life just by loving them 🙏🏻.
This father shows absolutely unbelievable strength, I don't have words and I hope the universe somehow sorts things out for this family. Heartbreaking.
That father deserves so much praise and respect, especially since due to the mother's mental health issues he's basically the only one who can parent/be an adult. He's got four kids and her to look after, not everyone would stick around.
I was homeless for most my teen years. It was more like move in move out, never had a stable house, neither did my parents have a stable job or income. Maybe around $300-400 a month. Though I have my business now and doing well in life, the thing that breaks my heart the most is remember my poor dad, he never let us sleep on a hungry stomach. He couldn't afford much medical care and his health kept worsening. By the time I could actually do something and afford the health care, it was too late, his heart was beyond repair and passed away two years ago. Two months after I got my first house. Sadly his health was too bad to enjoy the fruits of his last days. Sometimes it keeps me awake at nights and makes me weep. There is honestly nothing that I lack now, but the emotional trauma is still there and perhaps will always be there forever. At least in the West, humans still exist. Here in Africa, you're just an animal and nothing more.
It's a really touching and relatable documentary.
And I'm glad the family is doing well now. Thank you for the upload.
Peace.
@The Poet I'm very sorry for your loss. Your dear dad was holding on for you and I believe he is resting in peace because he knew that you were in a better space and you would be ok. The one thing he would have like was for you to be happy so try and cherish his wonderful memory of strength and love and live life to the fullest. Smile whenever you think of him even as you allow yourself to miss him as that is ok. I hope you heal from your pain.
I hope you are still doing well and have survived all the horror our world has to offer lately! Please do me a favor..know you are a loved, special beautiful PERSON!!! zebras, chickens and cats are animals..not you!! That hit me hard..smiles and hugs from a friend in the west!
So Poignant 💫
god bless you and your parents
Hugs
Awe it made me smile at the end to see Charlottes moms hair growing back and a huge smile on her face. I couldn’t imagine the mental toll it must have been on her and the whole family , so happy they got their home at the end. Such a beautiful family with parents that love them!
I'm glad I read your comment cos just 10 mins in I feel sadness and so much anger. Anger at government anger at do gooders. These are people living here already and they are homeless.
their friend is so pure. you can tell they dont have much either and the fact she had to put her friends out was heartbreaking for her
Should be illegal, if you pay the rent you can have whoever you want stay for a while, what harm does it do? Hope those self important landlords get their comeuppance.
I popped this on while doing my make up this morning and I honestly struggled not to cry my eyes out. Charlotte is/was the most amazing big sister to her little brothers, and the pain her family went through, and the strain on her as a teenager - she handled that absolutely amazingly, she was phenomenal. Charlotte's dad and mum are both LOVELY people and phenomenal parents, put a lot of people to shame. What an amazing man and family. it breaks my heart that GOOD, good, wholesome, pure hearted people are subject to circumstances like this in life.
It was sweet how Sarah became a big Sis to Chloe' and keeps her company. Heartwarming, really. I can feel the love between the two of them. Sarah's a kind, gentle soul.👍🏾❤️👏🏾
I nearly cried at the end when it said she was still in temporary accommodation.
The Laughing Knight does anyone know where she is now?
@@maudelladoesstuff7276 I have no idea, and I wouldn't even know where to start looking. I hope she's in a better situation.
As someone who's been in homeless shelters there are a few things that need to be said.
1. Its not as simple as get a job and rent a place. You can have a job but with all your savings gone you have no way to afford a bond and ways to look in the first place. Plus you're probably in debt by this point. Also looking for work is hard and doesn't happen overnight.
2. You'd smoke if you're life has turned to shit so don't go on your moral high ground and act like you're better then them.
3. Mentally it's tasking and not everyone is up to it. I can't tell you how many people try to kill them selves in shelters but it got to a point where a girl tried hiding in my room so she could slit her wrists.
It's the fucking pits of existence and unless you've been there you should never judge or hand out your shitty "advice".
lovelydia101 well said
lovelydia101 that is SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!! People need to stop being judgemental and just support!!!!
Maureen Ndikum jh
lovelydia101 thank you, I worry about the human race sometimes but your comment has restored it
Don't apologize for your comment. We need your personal experience and if more people were interviewed or could share their experience we would have a more humane response from the government and from regular folks. Hope your future is more secure as every day goes by.
I struggled with postpartum depression for two years after the birth of our daughter, and I would, quite frankly, rather feel physical pain than go through that again. My husband picked up so much slack while helping me care for our baby. I can't imagine having to parent other children and face poverty and homelessness as well. I hope that mother was able to get on medication and find some government-funded counseling program.
I am in tears the whole time I was watching this. Gosh! I salute Charlotte's Dad. Even they were homeless and was moving from one place to another, he made sure that his kids won't skip school. Even when it seemed like it was the dead end for them, he didn't stop looking for a decent home for his family. Most of all, he wanted his family to stay intact... no matter what. Also, his love for his wife is truly unconditional! This man deserves all the happiness in the world.
This made me realize that I have NO right to complain for things that I don't have because I have a place to call my home. We should value all the little things that we have right now and be contented. May God bless all of these families and I pray that they're now in a better situation.
This is when I wish I had millions. I’d go get these families and surprise them with lovely homes. My God why is this happening. I’d love updates on them all. Charlotte really touched my heart. Her dad has so much pressure. Hope all these ppl are in a better place now!!
Charlotte is in the comments section a year ago. Stating at the time This was 11 years ago. She is now 25.
@@jaggirl I just hope they are all doing well. Was so sad to watch.
Diff between Heaven & Reincarnation
Cowards choose Heaven, run away from REAL LIFE and hide in a fantasy - care no more about what is happening down on earth. Their OWN loved ones down on earth could be suffering, starving, sick, homeless but they care no more!
Their country could be at war, like Ukraine, millions suffering, fleeing the country, women raped, children, old people dying cruel deaths - but they care no more!
And these selfish, uncaring leeches are whom God keeps in comfort?
Reincarnation is for the Warrior - come back and work for a better earth!
Run TOWARDS pain & suffering!
Work alongside God, for
GOD IS WITH THE LIVING, NOT THE DEAD!
@@suzeelewis718 100% agree with you. Absolutely heartbreaking
Just saw a video minutes about a young girl in SF named Sarah who is living in a one room with her mom & sis. They were in a shelter but got a subsidized room. I'll get the name of it, you'll love it. The child is precious and wise beyond her years. Actually she's brilliantly wise.
This family may be poor but they have a strong love for each other and that is hard to find. They are lucky to have each other and I hope their situation gets better
This absolutely devastated me. This man reminds me a lot of my husband and the weight he carried caring for me and our son. I really do wish this family all the love, health and blessings in the world. Heartbreaking and no one helping them. The system is so broken.
I couldn't believe a pro bono lawyer was going to take the council to court if it didn't put up funds to house people. Just incredible that the world has come to this. You think the developing countries suffer from corruption, but it's rife in developed countries now.
@@philtwowheelsthis was in 2006..
I've been in this situation myself luckily for only a short period of time but I can say it was the bleakest I've ever felt. It's so hard as a parent to feel like you're failing your children. There is so much wealth in this world and that no family should ever have to go through this.
That father...is a saint. This is so heartbreaking, and he's got it all on his shoulders and somehow stays strong for his family. A real, true father, a lovely man.
"the shelter they were in has been closed down and boarded up" so there's a perfectly good shelter sitting empty whilst these people are thrown onto the street?! well Bravo!!! bunch of useless...
I would imagine it would not be deemed to be "perfectly good" for some reason.
I really hope these families are all doing well. We're now in temporary accommodation, a ground floor studio property, with a small kitchen & bathroom. I'm extremely grateful to my son's teacher, as this annexe is on her property, & she's let it to us xx
Give that father a government position, hes totally what we need.
Kate money makes people greedy.
That would go against the government standard. It's a requirement to be inefficient and wasteful of time and money for every government program. When enough complaints happen they can then cut some waste as if they're doing something wonderful. Also remember governments are bureaucracies and any bureaucracy that isn't growing and need more workers gets their funding cut so they need to make sure there is more to do than they can get done.
@@bettybla2379 Not always
@Abid Maybe 2% might help but the rest will be greedy. Before people became government they had normal lives and they wasn’t greedy but as soon as the become president they changed.
@@nunyabuisness7552 The reality is that our government is trying and is doing everything it can to ensure that working families get the care and support that they need! Housing prices have skyrocketed and Sadiq Khan has done nothing to stabilise the market. He has been economically reckless with London economy! We need a london mayor who will lower housing costs for working families!
It was nice to see that even though Charlotte's mother was struggling with depression, she still had a sense of humor through it all. I liked her.
This kind of thing sickens me to the core. I have two Children and a beautiful loving wife. We also own two very successful businesses. However, I was ill and unable to work a couple of months ago and unable to may the mortgage, and then the threatening letters started. We managed to get back on track, but it was so close to what these people are going through. It can happen in a heart beat to ANY OF US. I'm humbled by the plight of these people. We now sponsor a (Christian) group who helps families in this dreadful situation. We all have to try to help. It could be any one of us.
Bryan Carr I wanted to know how we can help families in this situation, other than the obvious, taking them in. Thank you for that.
That's so awesome. God bless you!
@@coconutbarbelle There are all types of charities who work for the homeless community. Just google it!
It's modern day slavery.........
The banks work with numbers but when we the people can't pay up anymore they will come for your possessions, everything you have. So we get digital "money" and they take real valuables back..........sounds like theft to me.
“Intentionally homeless” yet it was the government who caused them to loose the house? Gosh I’m glad I live in Australia. While we do have a homeless problem, it is no where near to the scale of other countries and our homeless have much more options available. This made me so mad! I cannot believe people are treated this way in a country that’s royal family can hold a £25M royal wedding!!
I've recently just watched a documentary about the rental crisis in Australia and ppl living in tents
Ashlee Alyce you said it!!!
@@kazania7653 yes in the recent months here unfortunately rent has gone through the roof after covid causing an issue, but there are many government funded housing projects in play and being built right now to try to combat it. Unfortunately covid has hit aus hard, just like everywhere else causing alot of people to have to sell their investment properties and so forth and demand is currently outweighing resource. Though homeless here are much better taken care of and even though some are living in tents, they are given free food, tents, blow-up or foam mattresses, bedding, clothes, shoes, personal care items amongst alot of other things for free. There shouldn't be a homeless crisis in ANY country in the first world at all. Though we tend to treat our homeless a lot differently to alot of other places in the world and even now with our "crisis" the percentages of homeless are far lower still than most other western countries.
I JUST finished watching like a 7 video series on how bad it is in Australia as well. That's actually how I came across this video. People living in sheds, IF they're lucky, or living in the bush...it's crazy! Huge families of 7 or more kids living in someones garage! It was really difficult to watch because those people had the same exact stories like the people in this video.
@@ameliashostak4764 what were the documentaries called? Keen to watch!
Why do they bloody care who stays in the house? Broke my heart to see the friend cry as she told them they had to move on.
I am really annoyed with the landlord for that, that was so heartless of them
@@retardedthomasthetank1059 its nothing to do with a landlord it was the council it was a council property
@Cookie no one was paying for them they were staying in a friends whos house was a council house so it was being paid
Overcrowding
It's a safety hazard per square footage of house, cant have 10 people living in that small space
What a strong man Lee is, who’s there for him when he breaks, ?. The council should be ashamed of themselves.
I know; I really wanted to hug him when he was crying by himself.
Homelessness is so awful and unfair 💔💔
can't feed em dont breed em.
The council dont care.when my ex husband lost hes job and coudnt pay the rent our local council told us they coudnt help. We had to find private acco before we got evicted. At the time i had a child under two and another under 12.we did find a private home.my kids are up now. Am 62 and in private accom. Its finding the months rent in advance that is the problem.
I too worked hard for 30+ years and one spate of 7 mo. of illness took my home of 20 yrs. Moving in with family cost me my pets as they didn't want to take them. Now I am living in an apt. I don't mind that as I don't need much. It's more the way people treat you as if you are less due to the illness.
SuperMarbelle are you ok now? I am VERY sorry about you losing your pets...they're family...may God keep you...😔😞😢🙏.
Sorry to hear you went through this but it's true that a serious illness or regular treatments can cost people their entire livelihoods. People better be careful not to judge. I'm also heartbroken to hear your family would not allow you to keep your pets, as they are family as well. I hope things are going better for you.
I wish you all the best
Watched this year's ago. Wonder where they are today .The father is such a rock. He's a protector and such a strong man . Best of luck to you all .❤
this is so heartbreaking. i admire the father and eldest daughter for being so strong, but in a perfect world, they wouldn't have to sacrifice their happiness like this.
But I think it is somehow good for the children, because they learned one thing in life: When you stick together, you can make it better in the end. I loved how the Dad made this clear.
May not be in the perfect family situation, but I have SOO much respect for the father. He has to go through the whole situation like the rest of his family, yet he holds the whole family together. He has to hold back the tears whilst he breaks the news to his children that they have to move yet again. He has to hold his wife together aswell. He is so strong, despite the crying (everyone does) he knows that he has to wake up everyone, get up off the floor and face another day.
crying is ok even while we are doing God's will
Brendan Mather could not agree more. It really makes you comprehend most lifestyle choices
Barbara C jh
Good man... A keeper!
Mollie McNally these are the kind of comments i wanna read. seeing the positive side in everything we see :) You go girl
I'm from The United States and live in the most liberal and generous of all the states, Massachusetts. I have to say, It amazes me how incredibly polite the British are. Even when you're being told that you and your children are being turned out on the street, through no fault of your own you still stay polite. It amazes me. I think it's a wonderful attribute because screaming and running your mouth never helps your case when your wrapped up in red tape. Just an observation, incredibly amazing.
Yeah giving big companies tax cuts while at the same time cutting back on welfare and education. Disgusting.
Thanks. Lol
"you are not gonna house us because you say we are intentionally homeless. ok thank you. bye ". Polite or just lost the will. And to think the council admitted they were wrongly evicted!!! Did anyone face responsibility for all the miatakes?
I was thinking the same thing
@@13alir I believe she was talking about British PEOPLE, not politics.
Growing up, my family and I were homeless 3 times. I’m now an adult and I still deal with PTSD from some of the situations we went through. Seeing the dad trying so hard to hold it together was absolutely heartbreaking to watch, I know how he felt. I remember getting into one house finally, we sat and ate pizza on the ground because we had no furniture, but we were just so happy to finally have somewhere to go that it didn’t matter. I’m curious to know how these people are doing now. I hope they’re good.
my god the dad is an amazing human being
Grace Peaches does he have a job?
The will blame the immigrants for sure.
@@MegaCaprice123 Do you think he has TIME for a bloody job?? Jeez......
That Dad is incredible. So much respect for him
Emily Shields has the dad got a job?
+Caprice123 what's that got to do with this film...my dad had three jobs and we still ended up in a hostel..
Dad of the century, what a man. Massive respect
This is utterly heartbreaking. This was 16 years ago and nothing has changed. Housing should be a fundamental human right - the way these people are treated is so incredibly dehumanising and unfair. I hope their lives have improved as time has passed. These are all intelligent emotionally astute human beings, they're no different from anyone else yet they have to endure stress most of us luckily could never imagine.
Your right nothing has changed
Nothing changes because the British public are cowards that refuse to fight back and also the rich boomer landlords need to be abolished
That would be such a simple way to explain this away. I agree the situations depicted here are dehumanising and unfair, but how can housing be a fundamental human right? That notion is illogical. In modern times, there are simply too many people in the world and not enough habitable land, which is causing not only these problems, but climate problems, yet nobody wants to speak about it, because the real solution is so unspeakable. It doesn't make the reality any less true.
People worldwide are choosing to have kids with either no or limited means to support them. They give no regard to the eventual consequences on either themselves, or the planet. Nothing is a human right, we are just animals, like all the others. "Human rights" are just made up by well meaning but misguided unrealistic people. The more the idea of human rights is pushed, the more poorly educated people suffer because they believe the narrative and think their acts are without consequence. The irony is, by promoting those ideas en masse in an uncontrolled way, it's creating more and more human suffering worldwide. Famine, lack of housing, lack of education, it's been a global issue for decades and despite countless billions thrown at the situation, it gets worse and worse. The next big (massive) thing is going to be water, not housing. There isn't enough to go around. Is water a human right too? Try telling that to the planet, which has a finite amount of it.
I feel so entirely sorry for the kids in this equation, because all the made up human rights in the world don't give them a better actual existence. They didn't ask to be born. The can gets kicked down the road by so called "humanitarians". Nobody in power wants to tackle the actual root causes, they just want to pretend they care, win votes and bank the cash.
A true humanitarian is looking 50-100 years from now, not at oil or petroleum products, but at water, or rather the lack of it.
@@vtrmcs That's sure a lot of words for a load of bullshit. You're not a good person, nor are you intelligent. you aren't misunderstood, you're just an embarrassment. This mortifying word salad being one indication.
Such an amazing dad 💕 he's a blessing
My heart goes out to Sarah. What a fantastic girl. I sincerely wish her the best!
I was also so heartbroken when I saw the first family's friend tell her pals they needed to leave. You could tell the lady was so distraught, and was only doing so to prevent her family from being homeless as well. Clearly she didn't have much, but was willing to share what little she did have.
As is so often the case, individuals in poverty-stricken situations tend not to have friends with a great many resources. Sadly, we often mix with folks whose SES is similar to our own. So families like these seen in this documentary don't have the option of turning to a rich pal for assistance, whereas I can't even name the number of people who would allow me to stay in their chalet, beach house, country house, cabin..etc., for a weekend holiday.
Me too. That moment set me off for the rest of the documentary.
You can just feel the pain everytime Sarah is smiling and giggling. Like you have nothing else left but hope and need to keep a positive mind. I hope she is in a better place right now ❤
22:53 this man is everything I could hope to find. He is so strong for his wife and children 💖
@HazardousPleb V An anchor holds something in place. If you were trying to be insulting, you failed. Asshat.
I have cried from beginning to end. How courageous are these families. Charlotte's dad..a hero. All the children were so brave, so resilient, I wish I could change it. What a hard, harsh world .
A big respect to the father of Charlotte. His courage & love for family is incredible. I hope every father or man in this world are like him.
Here two years later once again just amazed at this dad 💗. What a man, I pray they found somewhere safe and content x
Charlotte’s father , one of the most amazing loving , courageous and responsible man i have ever seen. Thanks to film like this we get to understand the real people and will pay more attention to homeless . We who have more must learn to be generous , be thankful to God hence kindness must go forth to show gratitude .
Did you notice the tiny spark that returned to the first mum once they got put on the housing list and started speaking to the estate agent?
All people need sometimes is a tiny bit of hope. I too suffer from mental health issues and it can be extremely overwhelming. I read on here that she’s doing better which is brilliant! The Dad is a star and Charlotte was very mature. God bless them all.
She needs to grow up! She has kids her kids lives are being ruined because them.
@@theojames7933 Maybe so but she started whining about not wanting to leave Minehead. If you're desperate you go wherever you need to go for a roof over your head.
When you have kids you cannot afford to let yourself get that deepening depression. I know its hard but youbhave to think of someone else and not just how bad you feel. And yes I've been homeless as a teen and multiple times as a kid. You don't know cold til you spend a winter in a pup tent so don't come at me.
G'day, Star Gazing! Yes, I did notice that the mum perked up when told they would be placed on a list.
I cannot express how much respect I have for the father, he is so strong and caring, he and his family deserves the world, the effort and support he gives, bless.
I am very proud of this man for putting in blood, sweat and tears to helping the family survive. Even during the most adverse circumstances, he kept going. People don't realize what they have until its gone.
That father is an absolute trooper. That man is working so incredibly hard to take care of his family and I hope they are happy and healthy today.
He is an absolute legend.
@@Padraigpwhy does he get praise for being irresponsible and having kids he couldn't afford yet people who have kids they can afford are called privileged and snobs? Even when they give their kids the same love and affection?
@@NelsonMangandhi Because he's a great father even in a horrible situation. It's easy to be a good parent when money and housing aren't an issue. Many more better off 'fathers' are so much less with so much more available, if they even stick around.
@@jlp11889 give it a rest. He's brought kids into the world knowing full well he can't provide for them. Like I said people who work hard and actually give their kids a good life get looked down upon by people like you when really they deserve more praise
I am sitting here crying....its not the familys faults that there homeless...social work didn't help...I take my hat of to the dad trying to keep them all together, feeling so sorry for mum that had depression,I know what that's like.......Good luck to you all,and I hope life gets so much better for you...God bless xx
Thankyou
Amazing to think that this documentary was made 13 years ago and things are now a million times worse instead of better.
That father is so good and also as a husband. Four kids and a sick wife is a lot to handle for a person with a stable home. He keeps a calm sprit through it all.
Wow the father of 4 is an angel,how he kept it together for so long is amazing
Dear Charlotte, you're such an amazing young lady, you're brave, courageous, beautiful and strong!! Keep the faith, keep hoping for the best, keep your head high, just IGNORE all the negative comments because they don't know any better. Your dad is the bravest and strongest man who tried to keep his family together despite all the hardships, he is truly amazing! May your mom be healed and recovered from her illness. May God bless you and your family. Take good care love. xoxo
I see everyone saying charlottes dad is amazing but honestly all the family are such great people. Especially Charlotte herself. Imagine the stress on her as a teenage girl with all this. I wish the family the best. 💌💌
My heart goes out to Sarah. I know she is around 30 now, but throughout her entire time on screen she was smiling. She became friends with someone more than half her age to try and make it easier on her. But through all of that you could tell she wanted so much more, but she would never tell anyone that. It's heartbreaking that she missed her GCSEs and never made it back to school when she talked so much about liking to learn. To this day she probably remembers Chloe and their time together at the B&B a lot more than Chloe remembers her. I hope she has made it out of poverty, or at least has a more stable life than she did back then.
This is one of the hardest documentary’s I’ve ever watched. I couldn’t imagine filming all of this.. I hope this family is doing well now.
I'm six minutes in and in tears. Idk how anyone could go through this. I pray everything works out for this family
I can't stop crying I broke down when the dad started crying I wish I could help
Where are they now Charlotte and the family hope they are doing well
Charlotte replied above. Basically, it's been 11 years; her mother has overcome her illness and she's 25 and doing well.
Did you help!?
Sam da Silva And how is she meant to?
Omg!!! Seeing that boy crying to his dad broke my heart into a million pieces, I hope they’re living a wonderful comfortable life and are doing well ❤️
We are all doing amazing now! Lovely home children of my own! Life is good 😊