*Emotional* Changes in 2022 | Asad Sisters Episode 8
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Seeing Amanda cry broke my heart. Take a breath, sis. This year is a huge life change but you have an amazing support system to help with the transition. You've got this!
I’m Amanda right now ! I don’t feel alone now
Sis? Since when do white people use the word "sis"? Stealing people's word usage and culture again.
@@alnajjar2726 They are Muslim, and Muslims call each other sister brother all the time, even if not related. They are all brothers and sister in religion and humanity.
@@greenhomestead6305 Clearly thet aren't Muslim. They obviously are American.
@@alnajjar2726 that is their religion. Just cos they’re American doesn’t mean they’re not Muslim
One of the most interesting topics to me is if you could talk about how your parents were able to raise you in a society that is completely different from your culture,but still they managed to keep you in touch with your culture and religion! I admire that and respect it
I'm not Muslim but Christian and I love all your girls content. Its like having more sisters and I learn so much about your faith as well. I like it when you explain things about your culture/faith as well as I did not grow up knowing these things. I'd love to hear a podcast.
When Amanda cried, I almost cried to! Its hard to leave family, your hometown, and all your childhood memories and close that door. Its the end of a chapter and can be sad, but the next chapter is full of good things.
Just think of how long you have waited to be married to your fiancé. You wont have to say goodbye at the end of the day or the weekend. That this was the time you had been dreaming of.
You will wake up one day, sun shining, with your husband next to you, kids down the hall healthy and happy, your career where you want it, in your own home, family only a weekend trip away and realise you are happy - really happy - and this is what you prayed for.
I loved reading your comment ❤ hope she has a happy ending
Just so you know Amanda, most of us ladies went through the same thing before we married. Knowing how much our families love us, its difficult to leave for the unknown, its scary. Allah swt is always you. Ask for n tell him everything; he's listening, always.
I'm not Muslim and I love watching their videos 🥰
@@maharimitchell3169 Hi Mahari. That is bc they are truly loving, caring people. Mashallah alayhoum.
This was so beautiful to read my heart also broke seeing Amanda cry she deserves a break from the problems and stresses in her life
You guys remind me of my sisters and I we are also 3, and having the close bond we have, like you girls has been my saving grace my entire life. Funny how “home” is considered four walls, but I think when you’re with family you’re really home. I really like this podcast style! Sending love!
Oh Amanda, I cried with you hunny. You are not alone, and your feelings are totally valid. I left my family in Australia and came to US and its been 4 years now and I'm just healing from the move. It's going to take time, and be sure to keep yourself busy and talk to your family/husband about how you are (actually) going and what you're feeling. Its so important to get it off your chest, I cant stress that enough. If I had to change something it would have been to set personal/development goals like reading more, and being more active in our community. Maybe this is your time to focus on your inner self and growth. You got this girl. Chin up!
How often do you visit home? Is it really hard day to day? I ask because I’ve gotten to know a guy and I’ll end up having to make the opposite move from you (US to Aus) and I worry about it :(
You 3 were so respectful of one another especially in letting each sister have enough time to share their thoughts without interruption. Looking forward to some more Ramadan content, not just food wise but spiritual betterment. :)
Omg amanda you made me cry because I'm also a people pleaser and hearing you cry about your parents and marriage life made me so sad that I literally shed tears and am honestly scared of marriage because of that. But because Leena said that it's like a normal part of life, I really felt that and think it'll all be okay. Thank you ladies so much!❤😘😘
Awww Amanda! I cried with you. It’s so sad when you have to leave your parents 😭😭😭alhamdulillah I love your sister channel and all of your individual channels ❤️
Love the podcast format! Aside from regular life updates, I would love to hear your perspectives on how you cope with the regular struggles of adulthood, and how you handle any possible moments of doubt or struggle with your faith, much love!
Amanda need a hugeeee bear hug. Your doin absolutely amazing girl and you’ve been so patient for so long. Ilysm from the Uk 🇬🇧 ❤️ xxx
Amanda, I’m a middle child also, and I experience the same pressures and desire to “people please” as you do. Maybe it’s a middle child thing? Sending ❤️
Amanda make me cry. I remember myself when i was in same situation .. don't worry Amanda ♡
Hi girls❤ I'm really happy to have found you !! You are fantastic and wonderful! I have never been bored with you! I only want the best for you ❤
I totally agree with you girls that Ramadan is the best time for your goals and even for your spirit and body to refresh..
I used to make my plan, Ramadan 2020 for example..
God bless you girls ❤️
Awwww Amanda don’t cry everything will be okay in the future!
In Shaa Allah
You guys are such role models with the most purists hears 💗💗💗
Yesss do a podcast! 🤍🤍🤍I loved this style so much as I can listen while doing something else! Also Amanda I feel you 🤍🤍 I also moved away after getting married and even though I’d lived by myself throughout college it was still not an easy transition. But my husband and I go for long visits and we just cherish those times together that much more 🤍
This was such a great podcast! I'm really looking forward to the upcoming surprises! I think a podcast idea could be how to prepare for marriage i.e. working on yourself, then looking for the right person, asking the right questions etc. etc.
Ooooh amanda please don't cry .. i love u and i know .. i just now that every thing is gonna be ok 🥰 love u girls and had such fun listening to this podcast so thank you for that 🥰
Slmz just luv u guys. Amanda is soooo sweet always, steals the show.
I completely understand her feeling almost it is 4 years I’m far away to my family and it hurts me alottttt 😭😭😭😭😭
GIRLS LOVED IT!!!!! MAKE THEM LONGER
Amanda is really sweet. Love watching your videos💕
The podcast is not bad but we need more of your vlgs; travels, and so on
I think podcast is a great idea for this channel . Bc it’s all about listening to what you have to say, not a video type content IMO.
Can you do a video with your mom talking about being a revert and entering into/starting a Muslim family?
You’ve got this Amanda, find your balance
Also podcast would make sense if the girls move to Dallas that way yall can do those from your own homes when that time comes
Love that you guys created this channel. Mashalalh. And aww Amanda def the change to marriage is hard but make sure to not lose yourself. I feel like you two complement each other well. Inshallah this year will be amazing and your future will be great. ❤️❤️ y’all are all so cute mashalalh. Love these chatting sitting down videos.
I feel for you Amanda, bless your heart 🥺❤️❤️❤️
I’d like to hear leena’s experience on marriage and how she transitioned through that
I like the podcast style more than than the normal content 👍
Assalamu alaikoum beautiful souls! Mashallah alaikoum. As your sister, I loved this podcast. It was just girls talk. Ilhumdulilah you're all doing well. I agree with you all. New year resolutions are overwhelming. My only goal is easy. Inshallah I'll be better, n closer to Allah each n everyday. As muslims we're just supposed to do our best. Allah swt knows we're not perfect. The best thing is that we are trying to be better people everyday. We are progressing to know our lord swt n rasool saas as much as we can. We must try to emulate him as much as possible. We are all, " works in progress" til we meet him. May Allah swt make us all steadfast to meet him. We love you ladies, youre all so sweet n supportive of one another. I love that. Ilhumdulilah you have one another. Inshallah you'll always be this way with one another. You have a beautiful family, mashallah. Amanda, sweetheart, you're not losing your family, you're gaining another beautiful family, inshallah. Ilhumdulilah you'll still be close to your family. You're not moving out of state or country. May Allah swt make your wedding n life go smoothly. Loren, you'll make a great nurse, inshallah. (This is coming from an old r.n.) N lovely Leena, I'll never forget what I think Loren said about you. "On utube you're exactly like you are in real life, sweet n gentle." I'm sure I'm forgetting the real words she said, but it was a great compliment; n it is soooo true. Subhan Allah. May Allah swt make all if you successful in this life n more important in the next life, inshallah. It's so obvious how hard you all work, mashallah alaikoum ew waafikoum, ya Allah.
Amada i am very relate to you in this situation i am like not accept any love request easily after being about 20 years single and if i loved someone try to keep it inside me it looks like difficult .however, i try these days to open myself to that world because since 2019 people always try to make me love and marry someone , our age is hard you must listen to your parents and people who love you wish you all the best .
Could you guys do a video of how you guys keep up with praying 5 times a day and also using nail polish would it be haram or what kind of polish you guys use, and how you guys keep on when doing your hair and then doing wudu ? Love you guys !!
YES PODCAST
Love everything about the video!
Would love a podcast!!
Leena please let Lorean speak!!!! Omg poor Lorean, Leena won’t stop
a podcast would be amazing
yes podcast 👍👍👍👍👍
Can you talk about your experience with study anxiety in a separate video
I would love to follow you girls if you start a podcast..
I think there also is a Muslim girls podcast here in the uk
Amandaaaa😭😢
Please still do vlogs aswell
Can you translate to arabic language pleaasss i am understanding a few and I love you soooo much ❤️because of that i want to understand what do you say i hope you replay to me❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️im a Palestinian too ❤️❤️
I would love for y’all to make a podcast but also have some content like vlogs, fashion videos, basically what y’all have already been making.
I can relate to Amanda. I have been married for 3 years and still find it hard that I’ve left my childhood home and parents. I’m pregnant and have been thinking a lot about the circle of life. It was only yesterday that we were kids, now having kids. Also seeing our parents age isn’t easier. I always worry about my parents I don’t want them to fee lonely at all
the podcast idea is so smart! it will def get u guys very far, because u guys are so open minded to talking about alot of muslim girl topics that are not always talked about.
I can totally relate to Amanda. We're 3 sisters as well and I'm the youngest. My sisters went to study abroad and then right after, both got married same year. So I was always the one at home responsible for everything at home especially my parents. And I used to cry just thinking about leaving them after the wedding. And it's been 2 years. I still cry every time I let myself think of them. I'm sure none of the other 5 siblings feel the way I do. *Hugs* for Amanda. Just remember you can ask Allah to take care of them the way they took care of you.
Aww sis meybe stay in contact with them by calling and texting them will make you feel better and for sure they will visit over. Hope education and friends gets you busy to avoid you to cry.
Once in a while a podcast is nice but I love you’re fashion and travel content so much!! 😍
Can y'all have guests? Like mama and baba and all the boys? That would be cute.
Amanda don't cry. Thankfully since I have been following you I know you do your best to visit your parents and them you when you were in Dallas and I loved that. You'll be fine. Can't wait for you to start your next chapter girls🥰
That’s an amazing idea!
I love how organized the conversation was this time and everybody had a chance to talk and express their thoughts and feelings. I love you all so much 🥰
yes would love to have a podcast hosted by you girls! Muslim/girls women definitely need one to help navigate faith in the modern world!
Love how Loren and Amanda constantly compliment Leena, its obvious they really look up to her. 💗 Amanda habibty, it is hard to move away but as Leena said you're not loosing anything instead you're gaining more family. It'll be an adjustment but you and Muhammad will have each other to lean on and that can really strengthen a relationship. Remember to communicate well, have patience with each other and give each other grace. Don't let issues build up rather work on them as they come. May Allah bless you with a happy and successful marriage full of mutual respect, strong eman, and loads of admiration, ameen!! So happy for you! Sending you virtual hugs!!
I’m not Muslim but I still LOVE all your guys’ content!! Y’all are so relatable and inspiring. It’s so REFRESHING to see and hear how you girls live your life with so much love, intention and grace. May God bless you and your family always!! Xoxo 💕💕
Right, I just love their aura. They are so genuine and authentic and I love that
Yeah they have amazing sisterhood and they feel like my sisters in Islam.
I think thats a great thing about Islam...to have the sisterhood and know you are safe and not judged
I love 💕 the podcast style video 🎙️ 📷 congrats Amanda hope the September 3rd preparations go well 💍!!!
I totally understand how you feel, Amanda. I love my husband so much but because I came from a close knit family, it freaked me out with ALL the changes. I moved an hr away, I couldn’t just go to my moms for a few nights and this was a biggie, change my emergency contact to my husband. Why isn’t that something people talk about more?! Growing pains are common and it will make you appreciate your family even more. Loved this video, ladies
Who else loves a podcast video?
All three sisters done a good job with the podcast video Mashallah!! 💖🥰💖
Amanda is so sweet and so relatable to us who get lost I love how she normalizes not knowing ❤️ wishing u success
I'd love to hear more about Loren's perspective of her life changes as she transitions into the real world. Also, what her thoughts on marriage (if any at all) in the near future might be as she enters this new chapter💗
24:41 Amanda it's totally acceptable to be emotional 😭 as a fellow people pleaser I agree it with you about the whole not living close by to family + being married. It's different when you move out for studying/a job but being married it is hard.
Just 1 min in and I hear "there's not really a podcast that exists for Muslim women, in general, to talk about relatable girly things".... Yes, there are. No intended hate whatsoever, and I wish you ladies well, but I think you should acknowledge instead of dismiss those that came before you.
maybe what she could have said instead is "there aren't enough..."
I can totally relate to Amanda’s feelings. I never really thought about it prior to marriage, but it’s so good Amanda is and allowing herself to feel those emotions. I was born and raised in FL, the only life I ever knew (& weather 😂) and I moved to long island, NY which was such a major change for me. I appreciate her even bringing that topic up because I feel like it’s not spoken about a lot. ❤️
I love this podcast setup! Happy New Year and blessings to you, sisters!
Thats such a great idea for yall to start a podcast, can’t wait! Definitely much needed in our community. Leena youre such a good influencer , mom, wife and big sister, you can tell on this video how much Loren and Amanda look up to you 😍 Amanda youre such a sweetheart May Allah give you happiness and success in your future , you got me 😢 by the end of the video.
Loren love how ambitious and confident youve become! Yall keep doing what youre doing all three of you are great examples 💕
Please consider the podcast idea, it would be so fun listening to you girls! amanda you made me tear, i don't come from a close-together family but I can totally relate with you because change freaks me out, it's gonna be hard for sure, but it'll get better especially if you make it a habit to visit your fam every weekened or once in 2 weeks..whatever suits your schedule. God bless y'all can't wait for next video
I love that all sisters are at different stages in their life, almost making them all so relatable in a way. We love you ladies!
I would suggest looking up Dr. Brooke Goldner's diet for inflammatory/gut issues
I totally understand Amanda. I'm my parents' only daughter and they are my EVERYTHING. I've been trying to find a partner who lives close enough to my current home, so I can be there for my parents if they need me and it's hard. Mohammed seems like a great person, and you've got an amazing sister who will be near them. You can do this.
Amanda that's what I'm afraid of too,I'm engaged an my fiance has been talking about marriage not that I don't want to,I'm just a home person I'm afraid of leaving my things that I'm used to,I just feel like everything will change i get really emotional too wen thinking ❤️
Loren is a natural!! Great presence and she shifted gears so well with asking questions
I'm in nursing school as well, just started my hardest semester (and hoping to graduate in december iA) I'm right there with you on anxiety Loren! You got this!! It'll be so worth it
I really appreciate that you guys exist and are a really relatable and current channel that muslim girls can enjoy. I literally sit here with a cuppa and snacks and love watching you all xx
Ive watched you all separately, but this is the video that made me subscribe to this channel. I think that the honesty and vulnerability allowed me to connect with you guys more as women and people! i loved this❤️
I would love a podcast. Amanda you are such a sweetheart, you will settle into your married life and all these jitters will go away. You are blessed 😇 all the best so excited for this wedding it will be nothing short of elegant 🇨🇦🥰
Amanda!! Don’t worry. I moved out and live 4 hrs away from my family. It was hard at first, but like Leena said this is a part of life. It gets much easier, you can always travel and your parents/ home will always be your home. Your parents will be okay, marriage is the best thing ever, even if you don’t live near your home❤️ your relationships at home will become more quality over quantity
Another non-Muslim girl chiming in - I love this podcast style & definitely see myself being able to throw on some headphones and listen. I did a minor in world religions way back in university (I'm 30 now) and loved learning more about Islam and other religions/cultures so I love that take on content. I also love the sister/girl talk style. Only child marrying into a family with 3 girls (I'm getting married a week after you Amanda) and the wedding planning is stressful!
Can't wait for more content from you ladies!
I think you should do more podcasts stuff specially for Muslim girls...
Best wishes to all of you for the rest of the year.
Amanda best of luck and congratulations for your wedding... May Allah hold your heart Ameen summ Ameen ♥️♥️♥️
I enjoys this style a lot more! It felt like I was there with you all just chatting away. It also felt less staged and more natural than the vlogs, not that the vlogs were staged in anyway but felt like it took more energy to plan things for you all to do. Love you all!
I had to move from the uk to Canada its extremely hard leaving luv ones. At least you will be in the same country. Luv watching you all MashAllah alway interesting and original topics about life and family keep it up bless you all xx
Amanda I want to give you a big hug. I understand exactlyyy how you feel. That’s how I felt when I got married and it took me so long to adjust but eventually I did. I want you to know it will get better and you are doing nothing wrong putting yourself first. Your family is blessed to have you and that will never change. ❤️
Oh my God! Yes to a podcast. I recognized that gap in the podcasting space, so I started one myself to share my experiences as a Muslimah on a journey to building a healthy self esteem, body image and self love, and there's so much room for more. Will definitely listen to your podcast ☺️
i love this podcast style, I feel like because you all have your own channels we get that vlog content there, so having this style is nice and honestly love listening to you guys talk through things like life, marriage work etc 💓
I loved this video! And one thing I wanted to note that I observed THROUGHOUT this video is how sensitive, soft, and validating you guys are to each other and to each other’s feelings regardless of how big or small said concern is. It’s actually inspiring and affirming to witness. It makes me/reminds me to slow down while speaking and rest in kindness and softness more, something that seems very present in Leena when consoling Amanda and Loren Allahumma Barik. All of your personalities shine through and waltz together in a beautiful way and it’s so refreshing to witness. May Allah preserve you all Ameen!
Topics: Maybe invite Naeem on the podcast and have talk about that sister dynamic and his take on growing up amongst that feminine energy/having sisterhood
2) Ramadan is coming up so perhaps like Cooking with The Asad Sisters while you talk about a specific topic whether it’s a Q+A etc!
3) This isn’t a podcast style but would love to see a BTS “Content Day” when the three of you guys are together and what that looks like in terms of helping one another and content batching!
Love, Hanaan
I loved this video, mashaAllah! What Amanda said really hit home for me. I lived in a small town my entire life and I am the youngest of 5 in my family. I got married when I was 21 and moved four hours away (from the US to Canada actually!). It was really hard for me at first and although it’s been two years it is still hard for me some days. Living in a new place (and new country in my case), with a new person and not having any family or friends to support me was a really big shock to my mental health. So many of the fears Amanda mentioned were fears I had as well. I can’t say I’m fully used to it but there was also a time when I thought I’d never make it this far. I give myself tons of props now for getting to where I am mentally and emotionally and you will get there too. My advice is to make tons of duaa, talk to your family often, visit as often as you can, and maybe even talk to a licensed professional counselor! All of those things will ease your journey and before you know it you will be enjoying your new life more than you thought you could. Best of luck inshaAllah to all three of you wonderful ladies! ❤️
So relatable Amanda..I lost my mum earlier this year and now I spend all my time worrying and being upset about my dad 😢
So sorry to hear about your loss sending you warm hugs 💕
I love love loved this podcast vibe!!! I love watching and listening to podcasts when I work out, on my way to work and even when I’m cooking! ☺️
I feel for you Amanda. Once you adapt to your new life things will definitely get easier in that aspect of leaving your parents house. You will start a family with your husband and focus on your new home with him. It’s hard to think of the “unknown” because we don’t have full control over our future. Take everything one step at a time and focus on what you can control. Stay strong 🥰
Oh my sweet Amanda. You made me cry. You will do great as a married woman and Mohamed us a good man. Your parents will be always there for you. MY dad told me something: you are like a bird, you need to fly with your own wings but i will always keep looking after you from the family nest , where you can come back to rest. Just enjoy the life and how it flows
Loved this style, would love to see more :) great perspective on goal setting and how Ramadan is a nice time of year to take stock and start new rather than new year which can feel quite pressurising and rushed. Thanks for sharing! x
girls, I really miss your videos. They are useful and fun to watch too. I really consider you as my sisters. PLEASE keep vlogging.
I would love a podcast. As a non- muslin I want to learn more about. I grew up knowing my grandfather was a German-Turk who was Muslim, so I want to know more and learn about my heritage. Thank you ladies I love all three of you. I miss seeing your parents though ❤️
We want daily Ramadan blogs and Babas cooking
Love from IRELAND 🍀 aww I've missed all of you I'm so happy your back ☺️you all look so beautiful
Love you Amanda. 💖 I understand completely your emotions, it's really not easy leaving your family, but know that you won't be too far from them. May Allah bless you with much happiness in your married life. You're a real sweetie. Sending you all so much love and duas from the UK.🥰💕😘
Where do u guys live?! I am actually moving to Richardson in sha Allah by June!!
Ahhh omg Loren if you move out for your job your RUclips videos are going to be awesome! I can already see your healthy morning routines and what I eat in a days!! So excited 🥰
I love this video.. could you do video about your childhood and how is it like to be raised as muslims children in the USA .