How to deal with someone who is interested in you but already has a girlfriend/boyfriend!
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- The question you have to ask is why doesn't he/she break up with his significant other to be with me? If he really likes me, that is what he would do! Sure, unless he is a player. How to handle a guy/girl like this!
Never be The Other Woman. Just wait. My sister in law met my brother when he was with his second gf, and she thought he was cute but didn’t pursue him at all. A few months later he broke up with that girl, and they got together and four months later were married. Things always work out when they’re supposed to. Don’t worry, make good choices.
Thank you.
You ignore them and walk away. If they'll cheat on them. They'll cheat on you. Bad character.
such bad advice that you can be friends.. no ofcourse not. you should not settle for less. you are worth more than that. It will only hurt that you cannot have them. leave.
The side girl shouldn't even be asking what should I do. She needs to have more integrity than the player.
She shouldn't be the side chick.
yea, you're right, and that's what I did, no more flirting, no more smiling sweetly at him. I'm done until he makes his decision.
Yep
Me too i started to be MYSELF AROUND HIM
Emotionless is my real self
Take it from me, you can't even be friends with a guy who is already in a relationship or married. If you have the slightest interest in him, and you have the slightest crack in your will, he will breach your boundaries- and you might just let him. Save yourself the trouble.
how I wish I could saw this earlier, now I am trapped in this situation and suffered a lot trying really hard to forget him, and the saddest thing is we can't even be normal friends now. god bless me
brightbite its a waste of time to see a man thats fornicating anyways she's only his girlfriend and not a legally married wife. There is no real commitment within, a boyfriend girlfriend relationship Anyways.
Talking with a man that has a girlfriend there's no big deal at all not in a legal Marriage.
WHAT if he is lying abouth being Single. Guys do this a lot..?
@@tjasarotman3690 yes what does it mean nd why he do that???
....Establishing and having boundaries is very important in any type of relationship....dont cheat, stay out of any triangulation situation, and be prepared to be alone if possible....
is actually better to be single than to have a bf. :-(
TimeWithViluKhan _Covers_ I agree I am a wife and not a girlfriend I made it clear that I am not willing to fornicate with him ever so by.
teresahen. 😔😮
Well actually having a husband can be worse !
It's better to be single then have a crappy boyfriend. There are good men out there. Don't lose hope. Pray for the right one to come. And pray to make you the right one for somebody ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great advice ladies!! This can happen at any age too. Set yourself "free" of this player. He is not worth you giving him the time of day. I learned this late in life. He is not worth it(you)!
SS, have nothing to do with him!!! He is not worth it. If he is not willing to leave his partner for you, he is not worth it! Your self esteem will be affected. And honestly, I would leave your boyfriend too. Start fresh. It can't be a good relationship, if you feel the need to cheat. Get rid of all the emotional baggage, and you will meet someone really great, and be glad you got out of the situation you are in now.
Don't date someone who is GOING to break up with someone because you could be the someone next that they are going to break up with for someone else. Just saying!
I disagree. People make mistakes in dating, and that would be the right thing to do in that case. The red flag is when he tries to have you on the side. The first is being honest and straightforward when you realize you’re not with the right person, the second is lying and being deceitful and playing with women’s feelings. BIG difference.
This was such a hard pill to swallow. =,/ But, thank you Marie for speaking the truth!
Marie I think this can happen in the workplace especially amongst shift workers. Someone that is attached can be spending more time with you at work and in social situations if your partner is always on conflicting timetables to you. One thing leads to another and it becomes like an interested crush thing.
Marie you are so amazing honestly you're like a life coach for relationships 100% and you must be really good with people :)
Tori Skyy thank you, you made my day!
@@mariedubuque i am in love with my guy best friend James that his name is he know how I feels about him why het jealous and heartbroken over I spend time with his brother ???.
Kawaii, let her have him!! You can do much better!! Remember, demand to be number one in someone's life, always.
💯💯💯👏👏👍I'am with you!
Really needed to hear this. Have a crush on an unavailable girl who has been giving me some signals on one end but not doing anything about on the other end (she’s engaged to one of my best buds of course).
So what should I do? Like she said, nothing. Nothing at all. Truth is she is playing some games to make herself feel better and I won’t be some pawn in that, and that gives me a lot of clarity. And I’m not going to give it any more of my time and energy.
Im gonna listen to this alll day all night
Thank you, Marie. I've left my boyfriend already, couldn't handle it anymore. And I'll try to stop thinking about the friend too (I haven't even heard from him since me and my boyfriend broke up, so I guess your'e right about him)... I'm gonna let go of everything now! Thank you, you truly are my mentor in life
Two time him. Get a boyfriend and don't cheat on your boyfriend. Raise everyones ego! 😃
TheKatalicious17, yes definitely! Get your career going first, absolutely. Otherwise you might end up resenting your spouse for squashing your dreams. You don't know if you will end up having to move, or go back to school. Once you're more settled, then you can commit to someone and feel good about it. And it's OK not to know what you want to do. Talk to different people,research your options. Often, spending many years in school does not lead to a better job. Ex:Medical tech training is great.
I found out today my crush has a boyfriend. Not once has she said that she has a boyfriend. Then today I saw her with him walking, she saw me got nervous and started to fidget again and moved away from her guy. I acted as if I did not see her, then left the area. I bet she comes by tomorrow, to see what is up with me. I have seen her do that a few times, check and see if I was at work, but I was in the office, on,y last week did she see me, when I was asked to ring her and another guy up. Being that she is shy around me, I was shocked that she actually talked, I did not look up at her much, mostly just did my job. Then took care of the guy who was in the store.
Yeah its not fair .... Don't let yourself be a side chick
Damn him
What if he has liked you for a while and you've really liked him for a while but he has a girlfriend
Raquel, wait until he breaks up with her..but don't hold your breath. Meaning, he needs to know that he is with the wrong person. And if he doesn't see that, it is his loss!
How do I let him know he's with the wrong girl?
0:30 your facial expressions here perfectly describes my frustrations.
This feels like an SNL skit lol
I found out from a mutual friend that he HAD a crush on me but never acted on it... and now has a girlfriend. He's not flirting with me at all, it just hurts to know that he liked me but never did anything about it and now it's too late
1. Your mutual friend sucks because they could’ve told you sooner.
2. A guy can like you just a little. This means even if you got with him he’d probably leave you for a girl he liked more anyway. But that’s no reflection on you, it’s more a matter of personal taste.
Hi Marie! Do you think it's important to know what you want to do in life (like a career/job) before you marry someone? I'm in my early 20's and still struggling what I want to do in life, so should I figure that out before I get into a relationship with someone, or is it not so important?
I hate it when someone who has a guy or girl yet they start to hit on or become interested in someone else to me that says they're trying to inflate their ego. Who wants drama? I don't, & even if they did break up I still wouldn't want to be with them cause chances are they're going to do the same to me take your shitty ego elsewhere.
That's exactly what they do over and over.
How do I catch if a guy likes me but is afraid to tell?
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I just met this guy at my job about a month ago and we've gotten really close. We hangout a lot but never at night and he never crosses the line. He doesn't flirt excessively or touch me, but he compliments me about my talents and personality. He hasn't mentioned her and as far as I know she doesn't live here. I wouldn't know because I've never seen any sign that he's got one. I can tell he's interested and I really am. I'm not sure what he wants?
He jus wants to fuck
Thanks for the advice Marie, seriously, I really needed to hear this! :)
Yeah ive seen how its like
She forgot about me as if i treated her like complete shit but i did no such thing
Then she faults me saying that because i was NOT around , that it was driving her away from me and she lost all feelings for me so she tells me to stop messaging her and to delete her number oh and she blocked me on Instagram after i just asked how she really felt
Oh and the last thing she said to me was
Im done being friends
Yeah she just suddenly turn against me after she said that they were talking about marriage with her boyfriend whom she originally tells me he didn't even want in the first place
She also said that her smile mean nothing
So because she finally got what she wanted from her boyfriend of 5 years
And im tossed aside like as if we never knew each other to begin with
As soon as we leave, memories slowly fade, and new flirtations arise. That should tell you I have little faith that even women can be loyal.
Sterling Lowery uh...what? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here
The one I like is engaged 😂…. But I respect other people so much I’m letting it go.
I have a guy friend. Who I know for 2 months. He has a girlfriend. But they don't get to talk much or meet each other. Because the girl's dad is a furious monster! We went to the same gym and became gym buddies. That's how we got closer. Recently I told him I have a crush on him. He said he does too. And he is so fucking sad because he doesn't wanna break his girlfriend's heart and leave her. He admits he & his girlfriend are drifting apart now. They both know that. And he had already lost a lot of feelings he had for her even before knowing i have a crush on him. he says he wants me more than anything. BUT he doesn't wanna hurt anyone. He cries everyday. He says he is in a mess. I don't know what to do. I'm so fucked up. I'm always telling him not to cheat on his girlfriend and end things if she wants to. Or not to end if she doesn't want to. But i need him too i love him. Am I doing the right thing by staying by his side? Is it gonna be ok if I let him be my boyfriend if they break up? HELP ME
PS: we haven't kissed or went on dates or done anything regarding cheating
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Honestly you have to be careful because he could be all talk and no action i.e PLAYER. At the end of the day if he is not happy, he needs to break up with HIS girlfriend & that's HIS responsibility in the mean time. Stay friends him, whatever but keep it STRICTLY professional until he breaks up his girlfriend and don't do anything otherwise, TELL him that too
Why shouldn't you flirt back? What is the downfall on that
Because if you do that there is no ultimatum for them to pursue you and they get exactly what they want. They get a secure relationship & a fling on the side
How to tell a friend you're busy in a way that'll leave the door open for future invitations?
I just found out today that this guy at work I've been flirting with (which he started) has a girlfriend and I'm devastated. It's been 3 months. He would look at me in that special way and always wave at me in the hall first. I really started to like him and now I'm hurt. I feel bad for his girlfriend. He's probably saying stuff to her like "I love you, I've only got eyes for you" and then comes to work and flirts with me. And he's not super flirty, I'm the only one he's been like this with. Nobody knew he had a gf. I feel like he's insecure and he definitely got that ego stroke from flirting with me. Now I don't even want to look at him because I'm afraid I'll cry or be too forgiving 😥😞
it happened to me but he denies being interested, however he seems unhappy with her... I did ask myself why didn't he break up if he's going to lie and cheat her... as well as lie and hurt me as well. She also knew that he was hitting on me, is she really that dumb to stay with him... can't she just find someone else if she knows there are signs he could cheat her. Doesn't really seem like a decent fellow..
Thank you it hurts even more because the 4th year anniversary we met is in 3 days...
I still befriend him, a close one but never flirt back. I used to play along and flirt back with him which i regret. But now i changed yes you're right i worth more and he doesn't love me that much. So to everyone in this same seat stay strong. You can be the one who choose. Stop being his pray playng along his game! Couldn't agree more
I once had an ex girlfriend, it was summer camp 2005, I ran into a former coworker I knew, his name's Jason. They used to be boyfriend and girlfriend! I was put through jealousy when they sat together, ate all 3 meals together, she chose to sit with him more, because she didn't her ex boyfriend to know we hooked up! 😥 I thought her and I were in this relationship! She met me in summer camp 2004. We hooked up. I went to her house and spent time with her the night before she left the US for Belize for 3 months. She came back to the USA just in time for the new year, 2005! On that New Year's day that year, she came over our house......only once! And never came over some more again! 😣💦 I was praying she would come visit us more often, but apparently, her mother wouldn't let her! I'll never go with another woman like that again! Out of the many ladies out there, someone better could've came into my life, and made me whole!
He’ll two time me eventually
I didn’t even know he had a girlfriend. In over a year same church. ?? Crazy
I love this video. I have a crush who is showing signs of interest in me but now has a girlfriend. What should I do!! I need help!! Please
And last night at dinner I was with my youth group and he was there and I was talking to another guy and my crush was feumming!!! What does this all mean!!!? I need help!! Please!!!
If he was truly interested he wouldn’t have a girlfriend, but every situation is different. Hope it’s worked out now.
My best friend and I have liked each other but I was the one to step up
and tell him and he told me he had a girlfriend and had been dating for a
little bit.I think he gets jealous when I say I find other guys
attractive.What should I do?
Alejandra, dump him! He only wants what he can't have. He has a girlfriend, but he gets jealous if you are interested in other guys? Huh? Forget him. You can do much better!
Am in the situation and I don’t no what to do
The girl Likes me aswell she's told her bf that it's over, it's complicated because they've got a house together. She says I make her nervous when she's around me. I'd really appreciate some replies. She said she can't be with me because of the situation. But she's broke up with him they just have a house together and sleep in separate beds. Help because I've fallen for this girl.
Everyone likes "the chase"....right? without chase comfort sets in...along with weight gain??? Right? Ask a marriage...???
No profession but his behavior talking to me often.
i have in my workplace a friend,who likes me and we know each other for more than 8 weeks,but she still likes me,and we talk almost always.
There is a guy that I absolutely like and I think he likes me too but he also likes another girl I think he likes me more because he has known me longer and only likes her for her looks. We used to date but my parents said I ws to young for a boyfriend but now that I older I can have one. The other girl he likes is one of my best friends and he is my best guy-friend and I don't want to ruin either of our friendships.
Savannah Sweeney don't compete for any guy! If he picks her, it is his loss.
He has a girlfriend, I'm pretty sure last time I heard. I'm treating it like he is married...I stay very far away from him at my place of worship. He thought I was starting at him and was looking at me like why are you staring at me months ago one time. Know it seems like he is interested in me maybe to stroke his own ego who knows. He was starring at me and stealing glances at me recently.I'm not interested in married men or men who have girlfriend's point-blank peridot!!!!
You should be the next president.
Mhm! I waited until she broke up with her gf and she flirted with me while I liked her but I waited and now we are dating! They broke up, they both lost interest! I am now in a happy, healthy 2 month relationship!
he never told me about the other person - he doesn’t know i found out
really fantastic
I really appreciate your videos!
You’re 100% right.
sara, good idea, thank you. I will do it Friday.
Please keep making videos. I love them so much :)
By the way, I've been leaving my boyfriend now, but I haven't heard from the friend and it's been 2 weeks now. He still lives with his girl. I feel really bad for what I've been doing to my boyfriend this past years :(
It is true. I really like that and that is the truth.
I love you so much ; but I have a request ; can You plz do a video about : how to know if you should go back to your ex or just move on ? ! my ex and I had so many problems and we fight a lot but I love him and he probably still I don't know ; he said that I was his true love and for me he was my first love / but sometimes I'm just sick of it and I don't know what to do :(
I need help please ! I met someone 3 years ago over an app. We went on 3 dates. In December 2018, I said to him” let’s keep in touch 3 years time I would be ready to commit “ I left it vague. I didn’t ask him to be in a long distance with him because I got the vibe he might not want that. 3 months in March 2019 later he told me “ he is not looking for a relationship with me or anyone else “ so I backed off and we stayed friends for 3 years. Just last week he called me to have a 2 hours long convo about marriage/ children and then he hit me with “ I am going to marry my gf in 2 years” ! I pulled the plug on him and told him I have very strong feelings for him and I can’t be his friend. What do I do? Do I go cold turkey and move on? We spoke everyday for 3 years, sent voice notes , pictures. I have a really really strong feelings for him. I am moving back for good in 1 month and would like to date him and be married to him...
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so, i met this boy on facebook awhile ago and we never really flirted that much until a couple of weeks ago when we started facetiming and really having conversation. he told me that he really likes me and that i should come see him (btw he lives just a state away) so we made a plan for me to come visit him..but then on night as we were talking over the phone i started looking through his pictures (just because i wanted to make sure he wasnt with anyone) and i see many pictures of him with a girl they were saying "i love you" an stuff like that so i messaged the girl asking if they were together and she said they were.. i really really like this guy and im not sure what to do. he told me he was single
lilHarley, run, run away. So glad you did not travel to see him.
This girl said she likes me but she still like her boy and now she is picking who she wants... It's pretty scary can you please help me?
This video was very helpful, but I have a question. what if he has a girlfriend and likes you (my homecoming is coming up so he asked me to go with him because his girlfriend is going with someone else) and what if there is another guy that likes you..but is single but you don't like him..and then them two guys start to fight over you? (I know its a lot to take in..) please help!!! 0-0 T.T
Just want to get this out of my system but man what a jerk this guy was! Let’s hang out at my place. Me: well are you single?
Him: crickets
Their players.
Its like im having heart burns but in a good way
Hi Marie, I'm having a major problem lately. I really really like a girl and i always glare at her at lunch and she is mad about it, I need to apologize. Is there anyway i can do it so that we can start from the beginning again?
back off. no one should be with a roving bee...he's just a flirt and nothing more.
You are so great
My classmates has a crush on me but he has a girlfriend, he still flirting with me but yeah I don't deal with him he's not my type and I'm not low kind
I have a crush but I haven't expressed my feelings to him. is that bad? and I'm in a relationship
A guy I liked lied saying he was single we were chatting and flirting and had a lot of heart to heart conversations for about 3 months so I’ve withdrawn he still lives with her an their two kids he was willing to flirt even tho they were in a relationship which he slipped up with by accident I fell inlove with him and now I’ve stopped messaging as much only 3 messages a (day good morning good night e.t.c) I’m really done with him I’ve even said I’m to bisey for him to visit which apparently made him sad I’m a idiot 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🥺🥺
How do u deal with it when u think your boring to people
i m stuck i had girlfriend. then the other girl come with her boyfriend and don't know what happened i was talking texting with that girl 2.3 years but we both of us had relationship in that way the girl i talked she was in love with me but still with her boyfriend.then i left the country where that girl was. before i left we text too much i promised ill come back as soon as possible now i'm single cos my girlfriend cheated on me.all thous 5 month i didn't text to that girl till i was away now i come back and we meet and still feel the same we like each other.we partying together. then more times she was worried about me when i was sleeping hows me and wanted to spend more time with me than with hers boyfriend.and i asked the girl why cant we try something out and hers answer was she don't want hurt boyfriend and now i know they going to married.we both of us spend night just for good talking with other friends. i was watching how she sleeps she holds my hand. she stays with me as much she could before she left back to hers boyfriend. that's what i'm stuck with
what should i do if the girlfriend is my friend.....
like ,i know i shouldnt do anything with him , but i have felling for him and he said to me that he loves me .....
but his gilfriend is my friend... im so confuced.
if they brokeup, i couldnt go out with him neither...
Kaori dont betray his girlfriend. (=Your friend. )
Don’t do that to your friend. I’m begging you don’t. You might lose both of them in the end, if it doesn’t work out with the guy its okay but it just leaves bad karma when you do that to a girlfriend. Edit: I know this is an old comment but I’m just worried when I see stuff like this.
Tell his girlfriend
The problem with my situation according to him the reason why you can't officially leave her yet is the living in a tent which that part is true cuz I seen the tent he doesn't want to leave somebody cares about before being with for 3 years but he's not in love with her anymore but he wants to be with me but he's not persuading it it's not leading me on we did do one passionate thing but he hasn't pushed the issue so do I just move on it's only been three and a half weeks she just told me she's going to her father's to live just give him time to let her get into a place what should I do
I have this friend who already have a girlfriend and theyre on a long distance relationship and always act like his interested in me, he keeps following me, he keeps insisting to hang out with me,he keeps comparing me with his gf and keeps saying im cute and always sit so close to me, sometimes he keeps talking about his gf with me and keeps praising her, is he just mad??? I wanna confront him cuz his getting closer to me.
Blah Bka same thing is happening to me, except him and I met a few weeks ago...
How to tell if he regrets braking up with you ... plz
there's this boy that I've been talking to for almost a year. in the beginning he used to call me cute & then like a week ago he called me perfect. but there was also this girl he liked from the beginning too. but he liked her more than me. we text literally everyday so I thought maybe I had a better chance with him because he barely ever spoke to her. but then a few days ago he asked her out and now they're going out ( she's liked him for a long time as well ). what do I do?
Kayla Mateo nothing! Seriously, let her have him. You can do much better. If he chose her, then he is not good enough for you. That is the attitude you need to stick with. Never, ever be anyone's second choice. And when you meet someone really great, which you will, you will wonder what you ever saw in him.
How do u deal with it when u feel like ur boring to peo
Why should he break up with one without knowing if the other one is a sure thing? He'll get lonely, horny and sleep so lousy that he'll go broke or worse!
hi what should I do this girl who already has a boyfriend says she likes me and I like her (she said that she liked me first) but whenever I bring up the question who she likes she says both of us which doesn't make sense to me I NEED HELP
BTW she normally isn't the type of girl who jumps from relationship to relationship and is normally quite shy
What do I do if the guy showed interest in me, but I rejected him and now he's talking to someone else, but he said that he still likes me, but he did he's not the type of guy that does that to girls. Should I still be friends with him if I like him now.
Capt. He said that he still likes me and he doesn't want the other girl he said that when I shut him down it Hurt him. We're talking again and he's 19 and I'm 17 and my dad doesn't approve already and he hasn't even met him. Idk what to do because we want to hang out
Micah Tyler forget about him, 4 ur own good
This just happened to me n i run for the hills lol
Help me! I know I'm an idiot but I've been cheating (sex and kisses) with my boyfriend's friend for 4 years, and he has a new girlfriend too. I'm crazy in love with him, and he tells me that he has feelings for me when we are drunk and cuddle, BUT when I text him afterwards and tries to talk about what we should do (leave our partners etc), then he just ignores me and doesn't want to talk about it. I've always been willing to leave my boyfriend for him, but not him. What should I do? :(
thanks
Well this women has a boyfriend but she kissed me on my intimate spot on my neck while hugging wen we was alone together
OMG this is really my pbs. ToT
Player
Mhmm
Ugh! I just told him that I like him, and he told me that he’s currently going out with someone else, but he said “oh, who knows what the future holds...”
Time to go on a hiatus!!