I'm with the guy on this even tho he talks a lot and she has to meet him half way because the way she's putting it is it's either her way or no way and that's just not right
@em ! you are the one who doesn’t get his point and are just rushing to create an argument. U can read about anything on google and news but u can’t talk much about shit without experience. Yes he’s being ignorant and l agree with @wangechination Cause life can be hard anywhere in this world, not only in African but people like u always like to make everyone think Africa is the worst and that’s the reason why u have a problem with his comment and that’s clearly what wangechi is responding to. So l don’t get why u here attacking him. You are actually being ignorant and u really don’t make sense at all. Your comment wasn’t necessary sis🥴
@em ! and u now telling him he’s “not intelligent” Really? Says people like u right🥴🤔 Well....Tell me sis!!!! Is that what google and the news say about Africans? That they are unintelligent? Well that there is what we call ignorant and actually selfish
@@AshleyMarieMommy he was just saying here they have a stable job and in africa he said “you know it’s hard to find a job it’ll take months” so his point is saying that life is better here. He was willing to compromise and go with her to visit but she doesn’t want to compromise she wants him to go and stay
" My family is more important than you" Run mate..run... That would be problematic if they were to get married. She telling him where her priorities will always be. Besides that, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be there for family, WITHOUT making your partner feel like they don't matter though. Also, that attitude about " Listen to me, I am the man" attitude isn't going to be of any help for him either.
Family will always come first. They raised you and took care of you for 18+ years. Yes. You would need to talk to your partner and reassure him/her (if needed) that they are important to you. I was raised that loved ones come first. (Family most likely)
@@jenna9595 And the rest of you: Then don't get married or even engaged. When you get married, you're not meant to be still be cleaving to your parents/families , to that degree.
She's saying things like "if you love me we'll move there" and then says "my family is more important than you", well then if family is more important then why bother trying to get him to go with?
She is selfish man why she says that him her family is more important wow that’s hurt but if he doesn’t wants to go she cannot force him he agreed to go visits
Wow, my ears are burning 🔥🔥. That's a really tough call and I see both sides but they need to learn to stay calm and talk to each other in a civil tongue. He also needs to allow her to talk because alot of her frustration is because he doesn't listen. I really hope you guys manage another mediation and resolve this matter because they otherwise seem like a really good couple. Another great video Yami, bravo 👏👌👍💕
Awww this is a very difficult situation! He doesn’t want to go back to Africa because he sees a better life and future in the USA. He loves her and she loves him but she wants to go back and live in Africa and help her sister. I dunno this is a sad situation and in life there’s so many people going through so many difficult predicaments.
@@yabeast1239 not a kool thing to say...have u ever seen africa? I mean really see the beautiful skyscrapers and wild lions n hyenas? No. You only see what media portrays and wants you to see...they show the worst of every country..media is awful
@@kyle-mykalstone I do agree but the media can also be good. There’s a bad side of everything. But the guy didn’t want to leave his life behind and start over totally understandable it would be hard.
i see what's going on now>> she wants to go back home to live there for good and he doesn't...but, he said they can go and vist family there and that's NOO GOOD for her ass!! it's like>> HER WAY or NOOO WAY!!
yes but did you hear her say her sister is the only family she has and her sister is sick and she wants to be there to assist her sister and take care of her? whats wrong with that he should go with her and when her sister is better they can come back to the US if they want to she just wants to be with her sister
Her sister is also her only family and she’s needing to be there, if you ain’t got much family left you never forgive yourself when you aren’t there to help them as they have you especially if they’ve no one else to support them.
@@lolalifetv2910 we know that already. He’s willing to visit her sister repeatedly but not move down there permanently. She’s not willing to compromise. If she’s not willing to follow his lead then she’s not ready to marry and submit, point blank period. She wants him to leave everything that they built and that’s completely wrong
The way i see it aswell, she wants him to ditch his life and move to africa, u can't force that upon a person female or male, just like u can't force her to stay in america that's just the way it is, asking somone to leave there life and stable job behind to go to africa is a silly idea sick sister or not, how u going to pay for your sick sisters medical stuff if your ass got 0 money? the dude is thinking with his brain not his heart, family is everything but think logically you're going there with nothing, u can visit bring money with you offer her help, money, stable living but moving there entirely is a 50/50 chance of screwing you, your husband AND the sister over. Ontop of all this, how u going to move to africa and meet your sister during these lockdown messures? you'll be stuck there with nothing for 2-6 weeks isolating away from your sister like most places... silly silly.
. That girl does not realize that if her fiance have a great job in the USA the chances of them making is greater than going back to Africa. I understand her family is important to her but if she get over there and he cannot find a job then she most likely will degrade him. If she cannot go to visit then she should go to state but he needs to keep working if he has a good job in the USA. She just said her family is more important to her than him then he need to kick rocks because she's basically saying when it comes to her family he is on the back burner and that's not a marriage
Her frustration is that he is not listening and not willing to let her talk but he is willing to compromise with her to visit and come back but she wants to go back permanently but have a good life in the U.S. with him but she is not willing to compromise with him and that’s not fair
That's what im talking!!! Loved it...i actually felt bad for that sweetness...omg the end is killing me, awwweeee this is a sad story! AWESOME THOUGH!!!
thats true but she has family there, it makes sense. Life can be very nice there too, the simplicity of life and innocence of the culture. Wish I knew which african country though. But she has to compromise, can't have it all her way. He wants to be successful in America
OK, it's VERY simple. She wants to go, he wants to stay and they both want the other to be with them. Now, she says that if he loved her, he'd go with her, BUT he can say the same thing- if she loved him, she'd stay SO THAT POINT IS NEGATED. Next point. HE is making a compromise, so if she refuses, the deal is over. They can write to each other or just move on. ONE thing for sure, each is NOT going to change the other's mind, so they need to quit and do what their heart tells them to do.
Why does it have to be her way or no way? This women wants the guy to leave everything behind. a good job, a good place to live, a good life. ect to move to Africa, now I understand the women sister is sick but come on finding a job is hard in America. And I would imagine finding a job in Africa would be harder. This would be a lot to drop on someone.i hope her sister gets well soon tho. God bless her.
ok he's annoying with all the interrupting and talking over. I would hate that in a partner, but whatever. That's a personality trait, but when it comes to the issue at hand...I kinda side with him. You got a life set up and ready. Who knows what your fam sacrificed to get you to the first world, and you're gonna leave it all behind just to go there blind? i get they got family there, and they wont be completely starting from scratch, but you're crazy if u think there's better employment opportunities for them there than here. My family is from venezuela and my parents left Everything behind to come here, my dad doesnt even speak english and struggles every single day here, but i know it's so i can have a better life. For me to move back bc i met some sexy venezuelan girl... that'd be a huge slap in the face to them for all they sacrificed. I'd totally go back to visit them and my family, i would go for months and if their family is sick then you know what... "babe go as long as it takes, i'll hold the fort down here till you come back". Compromise, not "Come or Come"
True. He should atleast go with her and leave her there for as long as it takes for her sister to get better. Maybe he’ll be going there often to visit them. Hopefully the sister will get better soon.
@@paschalm9849 yeah i agree, but he must really love her. If he didn't then that'd be the nice way to break up. Go and then say oh ima go back but you stay here - i'll return some day. and well... he wont. But she wont take a no for an answer. His point is valid, he's willing to go and stay as long as she wants (so long as they eventually return). But she's like NO! come live in Africa or come live in Africa. damn that's rough
Love you Yami, since the legit beginning before when reality strikes! You’re the best. Love your hair by the way! D, you’re alright 😉. Just playing you both are so entertaining yet down to earth and bad ass.
Love the intro it is lit I sing along with you but not as good as Bounty hunter D and I love Yami see is so cute I'm learning Spanish love both cultures you two are the best couple you complacent each other we need more role models in theworld I want Bounty hunter shood be America leader lol love your showsand love for Tico
Honestly one of the saddest mediations. This situation is hard. She’s really one of those lady’s that when it comes to family it is her first priority. I don’t blame her. Africa is in need. And I feel sorry for her family. I would also want to go back and live with them. But the situation is hard. Hopefully they get things together.
100% with the guy , what do you expect him to do after trying hard to leave his country then settle here for a better life and you ,woman ,want to use that emotional balckmail to take him back to poverty ? are you mad ? selfish woman told him " my family is more important than you " and you expect him to follow you ? get out of here woman !
Wheeeew Chile I know they were giving Yami & Bounty Hunter D a damn headache. 🤯🤯🤯They were loud as hell. That woman is crazy, she seem like she’ll Kill that man if he mess with her emotions the right way or even continues to stay with her as she screams out “You don’t love Me” 😧😧😧😧
D, you and Yami have been dealing with some ruff people lately, I fell sorry for Yami she seems really stressed dealing with the last couple of sessions. Love you guys. I couldn't do it I know, No Way. 😁
i understand where he coming from its hard living over there meanwhile in the u.s he doing good he stable i wouldn't want to give all of that up to go struggle again id rather visit then stay he right ...
If i was this guy i should run You reach in america the girl want to go back that is spirit of poverty if she know how my sister tried with 50000$to come and could not make it
It's not that he doesn't love you young lady but you have to compromise. So why did you come to America if there was a better life in Africa? Going to visit is good enough. He will be your husband and he comes first. Sorry. I understand the guy's point of view.
i totally agree with you on that.or better yet,why hasn't she spoke about it when they newly started dating ?it would'nt have gone this far if u ask me.
Mediations should not be confrontational. Mediations should be listening only! Mediations have rules! In order to mediate problems the mediator must lay out the ground rules before the session. We do mediations at middle school and high school when arguments arise between students . We send a team of students to training in mediation. The team then sits down with both parties involved and manage to lay out the ground rules and DISCUSS how the mediation will work. One of the most important things about mediation is allowing each person to be heard without interruption. I think you could do a great service and educate young people about mediation if you would investigate different ways of conducting mediations and show that on your videos. People coming to your house to yell and argue is not mediation, it is just yelling and arguing in a different place.
@@DaWild1DRCZambia you don’t have to be so rude about. Just bc someone’s chooses family first does not mean they should “go marry their family”. No matter how old you are in life. Family is one thing who will mainly be there for you and you should be there for them. And the girl in the video is not wrong for wanting to go back him to take care of her sister which she had stated is her only family left. I’m sure if you’re last family meme we was sick or whatever you would want to take care of them YALL need to stop being so heartless and saying she’s wrong bc she isn’t
I understand the girl... it's very difficult for her.. especially when she said that her sister is the only family she have... visiting her as possible you can it's not a bad deal... once both of you can team up... leaving y,all job and home...to stay with her is not a good idea...
I understand her alot because if her sis is very sick and she wants to take care of her there is no other way to do it but move maybe her sis is in her last months we dont know the whole situation if anyones mom was in critical condition I know everyone would move to just make sure they mom will be taken cared of its just the way it is
If y’all have that kind of money to relocate, since it seems to be an option. Why can’t you then use that money to get a helper to take care of your sister and y’all can just visit once in a while and be checking on her and that kind of stuff, and there..sis, you have saved your marriage and your sister’s life at the same time! Here’s the solution....use it!!!! How does she know that her sister isn’t gonna recover? What if she recovers, will she still wants to stay back home? And the sister is been alive all this time and she’s alive as we speak so what’s really the need of going all out to stay there permanently. Nah just visit and get a helper with all that money u gat!!!!
He seems really scared to go back to his home country for sum reason maybe sum happened to him out there before who knows or maybe he's just more comfortable where he's at now ,cause the loves there no doubt but idk thats just what I'm thinking ,I really hope she helps her sister
She stated her her 👪 is more important than him. This means if they married their kids and her family would be more important than him. Which means a sexless marriage and eventual infidelity. He should dump het and get a new woman
I’m with the guy, i left Sudan Africa when i was young cuz of war. I visit time to time but def would not want to stay. They need to part ways if there is no compromising and sis needs to get a grip and understand his point of view
Definitely agree with you. She doesn't want to meet him halfway at all. And when she said her family is more important than him then he doesn't matter to her at all unless he does what she wants. I hope he woke up and moved on because its either her way or the highway.
I'm glad people are on the guy's side because usually not trying to offend anybody they always side with the girl because people think she's the victim
Yo I just have to say I understand where she is coming from about family and stuff but it is a big thing to for anyone to just move away from what they already know I mean she can't expect him to just say yes at least give him a chance to think I hope everyone knows what I'm trying to say look long story short that is not an easy decision to make
I have read a lot of comments about Africa I got news for you Africa is equally beautiful and has great opportunities those who leave have their own agendas. From what I have seen with this pandemic each continent has it's own issues simple.
You can feel them both if you are not prejudiced. You can feel her love for her only Family, her sister and how much that means to her being to be with her and take care of her. Used to be that way with those of the diaspora until New values of devaluing Family set in. You can feel his aversion to want to experience again Something in Africa that was personally painful for him. The dilemma of intervention and keeping the Relationship going is to understand culture. He said it clearly that he is the man. A position in the West that has only value for giving the woman and children money but for him it still means lead his family and make decisions accordingly. You sense his distrust in the Potential counselors and mediators trained in the west to devalue and erode and dismiss that position and so he speaks not giving that Potential disease a moment's hearing. He also said she is lying. One must be in a position to explore what he means by that before simply siding with sympathy.
First of all neither of them is listening and continue to talk over each other. Secondly they attitude about loving each other is off base. Each of them thinks that if the other truly loved them they would do as they wanted. Ok, I understand the woman wanting to be there for her sickly sister, so why can't she go there alone? Does it need to be a permanent visit? Or does she want to move back to Africa to be with her family? It sounds like he doesn't like Africa and doesn't want to stay there indefinitely. His attitude about her loving him to fill all her needs is irrational. I believe he feels if she goes there she will not return. I think he is right. This relationship will probably won't work because although they love each other they have different wants, believes and needs that cannot be forced in a long-termed loving relationship.
I agree with the guy he would have to sell his house quit his job sounds like she been always going there where will she work at if she's the caregiver
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I'm with the guy on this even tho he talks a lot and she has to meet him half way because the way she's putting it is it's either her way or no way and that's just not right
I think this guy has had a bad experience in Africa. Staying in Africa without adequate planning isn't recommended. She can go alone.
bro it's not only in Africa. living any where in this world without adequate-successful planning is a terrible experience
What do you know about Africa shame on you for saying that ! You're being so ignorant !
People are moving to USA to live, not Africa.
@em ! you are the one who doesn’t get his point and are just rushing to create an argument. U can read about anything on google and news but u can’t talk much about shit without experience. Yes he’s being ignorant and l agree with @wangechination Cause life can be hard anywhere in this world, not only in African but people like u always like to make everyone think Africa is the worst and that’s the reason why u have a problem with his comment and that’s clearly what wangechi is responding to. So l don’t get why u here attacking him. You are actually being ignorant and u really don’t make sense at all. Your comment wasn’t necessary sis🥴
@em ! and u now telling him he’s “not intelligent”
Really?
Says people like u right🥴🤔
Well....Tell me sis!!!! Is that what google and the news say about Africans? That they are unintelligent?
Well that there is what we call ignorant and actually selfish
In Africa EVERYTHING is about money money money so he is right to be concerned
You're so ignorant man ! I'm Kenyan and I will defend my people to the last bit !
The fact that he’s willing to compromise should be enough...but she clearly wants him to go without the promise of them ever coming back.
Both of them are talking crazy, nonstop! But I agree with the guy.
Same💯💯
Ty
Yup
What was his point? I couldn’t understand what he’s saying. Why don’t he want to go?
@@AshleyMarieMommy he was just saying here they have a stable job and in africa he said “you know it’s hard to find a job it’ll take months” so his point is saying that life is better here. He was willing to compromise and go with her to visit but she doesn’t want to compromise she wants him to go and stay
" My family is more important than you" Run mate..run... That would be problematic if they were to get married. She telling him where her priorities will always be. Besides that, there's nothing wrong with wanting to be there for family, WITHOUT making your partner feel like they don't matter though.
Also, that attitude about " Listen to me, I am the man" attitude isn't going to be of any help for him either.
Family will always come first. They raised you and took care of you for 18+ years. Yes. You would need to talk to your partner and reassure him/her (if needed) that they are important to you. I was raised that loved ones come first. (Family most likely)
Family comes first homie😭😭
Looks like she'll choose her family over him in a heartbeat n what he says would'nt really matter to her .
@@davinad8290 Yes thats for sure n they will always be your family but once your lover is gone its forever gone
@@jenna9595 And the rest of you: Then don't get married or even engaged.
When you get married, you're not meant to be still be cleaving to your parents/families , to that degree.
They are both not listening and racing to talk, not healthy when your options differ.
She's saying things like "if you love me we'll move there" and then says "my family is more important than you", well then if family is more important then why bother trying to get him to go with?
She is selfish man why she says that him her family is more important wow that’s hurt but if he doesn’t wants to go she cannot force him he agreed to go visits
Wow, my ears are burning 🔥🔥.
That's a really tough call and I see both sides but they need to learn to stay calm and talk to each other in a civil tongue. He also needs to allow her to talk because alot of her frustration is because he doesn't listen.
I really hope you guys manage another mediation and resolve this matter because they otherwise seem like a really good couple.
Another great video Yami, bravo 👏👌👍💕
@OwnedByCats Yessir, These two wonderful people are the reason I still have faith in humanity :D
Awww this is a very difficult situation! He doesn’t want to go back to Africa because he sees a better life and future in the USA. He loves her and she loves him but she wants to go back and live in Africa and help her sister. I dunno this is a sad situation and in life there’s so many people going through so many difficult predicaments.
@@yabeast1239 not a kool thing to say...have u ever seen africa? I mean really see the beautiful skyscrapers and wild lions n hyenas? No. You only see what media portrays and wants you to see...they show the worst of every country..media is awful
@@kyle-mykalstone I do agree but the media can also be good. There’s a bad side of everything. But the guy didn’t want to leave his life behind and start over totally understandable it would be hard.
This reminds me of one of those African movies.
I swear u comment on every vid lol
But ur right I used to watch those movies all the time
BollyWood😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅I thought I am watching drama 😆😆😆😆
@@kyle-mykalstone I love their videos😂😂😂😂
i see what's going on now>> she wants to go back home to live there for good and he doesn't...but, he said they can go and vist family there and that's NOO GOOD for her ass!! it's like>> HER WAY or NOOO WAY!!
yes but did you hear her say her sister is the only family she has and her sister is sick and she wants to be there to assist her sister and take care of her? whats wrong with that he should go with her and when her sister is better they can come back to the US if they want to she just wants to be with her sister
She’s stupid
@@shyannedicenzo1836 we understand that she could stay with her sister and he can see her time to time ......simple .....
But she just wants her way
Her sister is also her only family and she’s needing to be there, if you ain’t got much family left you never forgive yourself when you aren’t there to help them as they have you especially if they’ve no one else to support them.
@@shyannedicenzo1836 i said the same thing (logical)
She just wants her way and only her way smh.
No her sister IS ILL 🤒 HE GOTTA UNDERSTAND THAT
@@lolalifetv2910 we know that already. He’s willing to visit her sister repeatedly but not move down there permanently. She’s not willing to compromise. If she’s not willing to follow his lead then she’s not ready to marry and submit, point blank period. She wants him to leave everything that they built and that’s completely wrong
Start back over is difficult and go to stay hell no
Lady are so selfish is crazy 😜
The way i see it aswell, she wants him to ditch his life and move to africa, u can't force that upon a person female or male, just like u can't force her to stay in america that's just the way it is, asking somone to leave there life and stable job behind to go to africa is a silly idea sick sister or not, how u going to pay for your sick sisters medical stuff if your ass got 0 money? the dude is thinking with his brain not his heart, family is everything but think logically you're going there with nothing, u can visit bring money with you offer her help, money, stable living but moving there entirely is a 50/50 chance of screwing you, your husband AND the sister over.
Ontop of all this, how u going to move to africa and meet your sister during these lockdown messures? you'll be stuck there with nothing for 2-6 weeks isolating away from your sister like most places... silly silly.
Having sessions with them individually is a good idea. Definitely follow up on this.
Omg he doesn’t give her a chance to talk lol 😂
Omg! This is too much drama i cant watch this all this screemin
The man is too mouthy
Both of you are killing it with the red colors it really does make your show look vibrant and pulls the n an audience. Love this Tammy
. That girl does not realize that if her fiance have a great job in the USA the chances of them making is greater than going back to Africa. I understand her family is important to her but if she get over there and he cannot find a job then she most likely will degrade him. If she cannot go to visit then she should go to state but he needs to keep working if he has a good job in the USA. She just said her family is more important to her than him then he need to kick rocks because she's basically saying when it comes to her family he is on the back burner and that's not a marriage
When he said “I’m tiiiide”, I felt that.
She’s in the wrong here, the guy is willing to compromise to meet her halfway but she only want her way
YES I Absolutely Agree I really feel so sorry for her husband
Her frustration is that he is not listening and not willing to let her talk but he is willing to compromise with her to visit and come back but she wants to go back permanently but have a good life in the U.S. with him but she is not willing to compromise with him and that’s not fair
I laughed my ass off thru most of this episode! Way to go, Yami. You and D are so incredibly caring and thoughtful.
That's what im talking!!! Loved it...i actually felt bad for that sweetness...omg the end is killing me, awwweeee this is a sad story! AWESOME THOUGH!!!
She wants to go back to struggling and he doesn’t want to cus he has a better life in America
thats true but she has family there, it makes sense. Life can be very nice there too, the simplicity of life and innocence of the culture. Wish I knew which african country though. But she has to compromise, can't have it all her way. He wants to be successful in America
@@ButMARZZ exactly they are making like Africa is dragon 🤨🤨 we live in Africa and we the best life Alhamdulilaah
OK, it's VERY simple. She wants to go, he wants to stay and they both want the other to be with them. Now, she says that if he loved her, he'd go with her, BUT he can say the same thing- if she loved him, she'd stay SO THAT POINT IS NEGATED. Next point. HE is making a compromise, so if she refuses, the deal is over. They can write to each other or just move on. ONE thing for sure, each is NOT going to change the other's mind, so they need to quit and do what their heart tells them to do.
This girl is in a world of her own.....I agree with the guy
Just wanna say you guys are one of my favorite parts of my day! I wait for your notifications, I love what you guys stand for ! Please stay safe !
Why does it have to be her way or no way?
This women wants the guy to leave everything behind. a good job, a good place to live, a good life. ect to move to Africa, now I understand the women sister is sick but come on finding a job is hard in America. And I would imagine finding a job in Africa would be harder. This would be a lot to drop on someone.i hope her sister gets well soon tho. God bless her.
three seconds in and i my brain was smoking the interruptions sheesh
ok he's annoying with all the interrupting and talking over. I would hate that in a partner, but whatever. That's a personality trait, but when it comes to the issue at hand...I kinda side with him. You got a life set up and ready. Who knows what your fam sacrificed to get you to the first world, and you're gonna leave it all behind just to go there blind? i get they got family there, and they wont be completely starting from scratch, but you're crazy if u think there's better employment opportunities for them there than here.
My family is from venezuela and my parents left Everything behind to come here, my dad doesnt even speak english and struggles every single day here, but i know it's so i can have a better life. For me to move back bc i met some sexy venezuelan girl... that'd be a huge slap in the face to them for all they sacrificed. I'd totally go back to visit them and my family, i would go for months and if their family is sick then you know what... "babe go as long as it takes, i'll hold the fort down here till you come back". Compromise, not "Come or Come"
True. He should atleast go with her and leave her there for as long as it takes for her sister to get better. Maybe he’ll be going there often to visit them. Hopefully the sister will get better soon.
@@paschalm9849 yeah i agree, but he must really love her. If he didn't then that'd be the nice way to break up. Go and then say oh ima go back but you stay here - i'll return some day. and well... he wont. But she wont take a no for an answer. His point is valid, he's willing to go and stay as long as she wants (so long as they eventually return). But she's like NO! come live in Africa or come live in Africa. damn that's rough
I feel privileged seeing your show first thank you👍
Love you Yami, since the legit beginning before when reality strikes! You’re the best. Love your hair by the way! D, you’re alright 😉. Just playing you both are so entertaining yet down to earth and bad ass.
Love the intro it is lit I sing along with you but not as good as Bounty hunter D and I love Yami see is so cute I'm learning Spanish love both cultures you two are the best couple you complacent each other we need more role models in theworld I want Bounty hunter shood be America leader lol love your showsand love for Tico
Honestly one of the saddest mediations. This situation is hard. She’s really one of those lady’s that when it comes to family it is her first priority. I don’t blame her. Africa is in need. And I feel sorry for her family. I would also want to go back and live with them. But the situation is hard. Hopefully they get things together.
Good luck with that
100% with the guy , what do you expect him to do after trying hard to leave his country then settle here for a better life and you ,woman ,want to use that emotional balckmail to take him back to poverty ? are you mad ? selfish woman told him " my family is more important than you " and you expect him to follow you ? get out of here woman !
Us Africans have a strong connect with family
You guys are so clever and entertaining!!!
Great call!!
Wheeeew Chile I know they were giving Yami & Bounty Hunter D a damn headache. 🤯🤯🤯They were loud as hell. That woman is crazy, she seem like she’ll Kill that man if he mess with her emotions the right way or even continues to stay with her as she screams out “You don’t love Me” 😧😧😧😧
This is T-HOXIC!!!
D, you and Yami have been dealing with some ruff people lately, I fell sorry for Yami she seems really stressed dealing with the last couple of sessions. Love you guys. I couldn't do it I know, No Way. 😁
i understand where he coming from its hard living over there meanwhile in the u.s he doing good he stable i wouldn't want to give all of that up to go struggle again id rather visit then stay he right ...
She only want things her way
If i was this guy i should run
You reach in america the girl want to go back that is spirit of poverty if she know how my sister tried with 50000$to come and could not make it
Well, that was heartbreaking. He isn't in the wrong.
It's not that he doesn't love you young lady but you have to compromise. So why did you come to America if there was a better life in Africa? Going to visit is good enough. He will be your husband and he comes first. Sorry. I understand the guy's point of view.
That makes no sense... why do husbands come first?? It is about equal partnership and it should never be a one sided relationship.
i totally agree with you on that.or better yet,why hasn't she spoke about it when they newly started dating ?it would'nt have gone this far if u ask me.
Its not about that.He agreed to visit, its the least he could do.Its not like he refused to go with her
@@jokidasxm5288 Yes Jr's about both issues. And actually your wrong. Family must come first! But I agree a visit is better than nothing.
Like how yami speaks to her in the end.... I believe they should meet half way that's the most important thing in a relationship....
u r amazing i even watch reruns all the time i love u guys
They’re talking like Africa is a country. It’s a continent , Jesus!
Lmao thank you! 🤣
I depends what country they're going back to
@@kimberlydebayo1140 exactly
She has too much baggage that he does not want to carry. He needs to walk away from this drama and let her figure it out by herself.
Mediations should not be confrontational. Mediations should be listening only! Mediations have rules! In order to mediate problems the mediator must lay out the ground rules before the session. We do mediations at middle school and high school when arguments arise between students . We send a team of students to training in mediation. The team then sits down with both parties involved and manage to lay out the ground rules and DISCUSS how the mediation will work. One of the most important things about mediation is allowing each person to be heard without interruption. I think you could do a great service and educate young people about mediation if you would investigate different ways of conducting mediations and show that on your videos. People coming to your house to yell and argue is not mediation, it is just yelling and arguing in a different place.
GOD BLESS HER & HER FAMILY ❤️ 👑✨🙏🏽
One thing I do know is that family is first and foremost in Africa. Family bonds are strong. Respect to all countries in Africa
I agree so since family is first so it’s fuck your “husband” right? If family is first over your lover then go and marry your family.
@@DaWild1DRCZambia you don’t have to be so rude about. Just bc someone’s chooses family first does not mean they should “go marry their family”. No matter how old you are in life. Family is one thing who will mainly be there for you and you should be there for them. And the girl in the video is not wrong for wanting to go back him to take care of her sister which she had stated is her only family left. I’m sure if you’re last family meme we was sick or whatever you would want to take care of them YALL need to stop being so heartless and saying she’s wrong bc she isn’t
@@DaWild1DRCZambia I didn't say any if that shit. You did...so that's on you.
WOW!! This Very SAD'thou just Sad May Blessings be Upon them Both ❤️🙏✨
I agree with the guy he work hard to be here I feel him
You guys are very generous to mediate again even though they were being tough
She stubborn
I understand the girl... it's very difficult for her.. especially when she said that her sister is the only family she have... visiting her as possible you can it's not a bad deal... once both of you can team up... leaving y,all job and home...to stay with her is not a good idea...
I understand her alot because if her sis is very sick and she wants to take care of her there is no other way to do it but move maybe her sis is in her last months we dont know the whole situation if anyones mom was in critical condition I know everyone would move to just make sure they mom will be taken cared of its just the way it is
It's good to take little seconds to listen to each other. I think the lady's decision is so fixed, they can send finance
I want Yami to put out merch from your number one fan from Australia
Yoo I am heartbroken for herr I could hear the pain in her voice💔 on another side she soo beautifullll thooo
I love my roots accents.
They both need a snickers bar 😂
*You're not you when you're hungry*
This episode sounds like a nollywood movie we watched while getting our hair braided
If y’all have that kind of money to relocate, since it seems to be an option. Why can’t you then use that money to get a helper to take care of your sister and y’all can just visit once in a while and be checking on her and that kind of stuff, and there..sis, you have saved your marriage and your sister’s life at the same time! Here’s the solution....use it!!!!
How does she know that her sister isn’t gonna recover? What if she recovers, will she still wants to stay back home? And the sister is been alive all this time and she’s alive as we speak so what’s really the need of going all out to stay there permanently. Nah just visit and get a helper with all that money u gat!!!!
Yami show is complete fire...lol
9:17
I'm crying 🤣😂 look how Yami and d are just standing their like 😒🙄😒🙄omg
First time I check when a vid I watch is posted and it says a day ago :) glad to be caught up😌
He seems really scared to go back to his home country for sum reason maybe sum happened to him out there before who knows or maybe he's just more comfortable where he's at now ,cause the loves there no doubt but idk thats just what I'm thinking ,I really hope she helps her sister
Some parts of Africa are dangerous. Thats why living there permanently is a bad idea
@@yabeast1239 i agree that hadda be the most difficult unavoidable topics ever
I totally agree with you
It's a hard life at Africa so I can understand he doesn't want to stay forever.
@@darkhunter3743 fr unfortunately love lost this battle..
Yami I love your hair color!
I started thinking of the movie baby boy “ he don’t love me no more 😭😭” 😂😂😂
Jesus Christ, Yami, I love you and D but I can't with these two. Speak one at a time.
The video was thrilling. Its good to have a change of type in these videos or else the audience would just get bored.
She stated her her 👪 is more important than him. This means if they married their kids and her family would be more important than him. Which means a sexless marriage and eventual infidelity. He should dump het and get a new woman
The start sounds like an auction with the accents..yikes
How do they know what they are even fighting about or saying to each other at that point. I mean Damn! Haha
@@emilylovestohavefun just watch d's face 😂
She needs to compromise.
I thought I was watchin da movie Baby Boy wen she started cryin 😂😂😂😂
We Africans are always hilarious
He wants to live the American dream.... ...And I totally understand that.......I hope all goes well...
👇agree
I’m with the guy, i left Sudan Africa when i was young cuz of war. I visit time to time but def would not want to stay. They need to part ways if there is no compromising and sis needs to get a grip and understand his point of view
Definitely agree with you. She doesn't want to meet him halfway at all. And when she said her family is more important than him then he doesn't matter to her at all unless he does what she wants. I hope he woke up and moved on because its either her way or the highway.
I'm glad people are on the guy's side because usually not trying to offend anybody they always side with the girl because people think she's the victim
Yo I just have to say I understand where she is coming from about family and stuff but it is a big thing to for anyone to just move away from what they already know I mean she can't expect him to just say yes at least give him a chance to think I hope everyone knows what I'm trying to say look long story short that is not an easy decision to make
Something which always kills me, is when a girl is trying to get an attention using her tears.
like if she cry gold or diamond😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow.....I dont even understand how things escalated so quickly.
I'm sorry but when they start talking I can't laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
basically he sayin that they should stay because they would have to restart again when they already have progressed (in life)
I have read a lot of comments about Africa I got news for you Africa is equally beautiful and has great opportunities those who leave have their own agendas. From what I have seen with this pandemic each continent has it's own issues simple.
He couldn't stop his mouth. He's a man without charm.
Talkative guy and girl relationship can never work out
Cuz both of them want to win an argument
You can feel them both if you are not prejudiced. You can feel her love for her only Family, her sister and how much that means to her being to be with her and take care of her. Used to be that way with those of the diaspora until New values of devaluing Family set in. You can feel his aversion to want to experience again Something in Africa that was personally painful for him. The dilemma of intervention and keeping the Relationship going is to understand culture. He said it clearly that he is the man. A position in the West that has only value for giving the woman and children money but for him it still means lead his family and make decisions accordingly. You sense his distrust in the Potential counselors and mediators trained in the west to devalue and erode and dismiss that position and so he speaks not giving that Potential disease a moment's hearing. He also said she is lying. One must be in a position to explore what he means by that before simply siding with sympathy.
Africans as always entertaining
God bless them
But she does need to meet him half way
First of all neither of them is listening and continue to talk over each other. Secondly they attitude about loving each other is off base. Each of them thinks that if the other truly loved them they would do as they wanted. Ok, I understand the woman wanting to be there for her sickly sister, so why can't she go there alone? Does it need to be a permanent visit? Or does she want to move back to Africa to be with her family? It sounds like he doesn't like Africa and doesn't want to stay there indefinitely. His attitude about her loving him to fill all her needs is irrational. I believe he feels if she goes there she will not return. I think he is right. This relationship will probably won't work because although they love each other they have different wants, believes and needs that cannot be forced in a long-termed loving relationship.
No lie she would be going back alone. Has nothing to do with love.
I agree with the guy he would have to sell his house quit his job sounds like she been always going there where will she work at if she's the caregiver
Oh, my, that was tough to watch. At the end when Bounty D says, I think we will have you one at a time for the next session 🤔
That guy is so annoying 😂
She’s crazy 🤯
That is one toxic relationship . They shouldnt be together . God knows what would happen if there were children involved
woman will leave his family to join his husband, but she say her family is more important than him, the boy got alarmed on that, Lol
Been waiting all night for you yami. It's 2:45 here in the UK lol
9:48 here in the east of the US
yami mommi you go girl.
Love you guys so much