forgetting to take a pill is one thing, but hiding the fact that she was pregnant was totally wrong. She just blew one one of the most important things in a relationship all to hell. That would be trust.
She had to forget to take those pills for at least a month not 2 or 3 days so she planned this to try to trap him I know a girl did that many many years ago and she end up raising a baby by herself.
@@Sashagable Is more like she said her on step up if the man say no then she wait until he's ready I know girls tried to do that one time and she literary rand. The man off at she raise the baby by herself. She should have been planning a wedding instead of planning a child now the child is going to be born with no daddy that's crazy I would have left to
If he doesn't want a baby, he doesn't want a baby. Should've just either accepted that or leave him. Times are tough rn, so I don't blame him. She shouldn't pressure him. Neither should D and Yami.
U cant force someone to have a baby it's a mutual thing they're obviously not on the same page mentally they should just go their own ways if they cant compromise that's just my opinion having a child is a big responsibility
@Dominic Tse yes. I would be so pissed if some woman were to do that to me. some guys will actually resent the innocent child because of the mothers selfish actions. have you noticed how she planned everything? as soon as they bought the brand new house and he received his promotion then she stopped taking her pills so that she could have her baby.
@Dominic Tse well she is not the only woman throughout history that has pulled that stunt. I am so glad that nothing like that has ever happened to me.
Dude has every right to not want a kid outside of marriage. Shoot, im MARRIED and im on the same wavelength as him. He's not ready so she needs to respect that. He doesn't need a "reason" cause anything he comes up with she would find an excuse to rebut. If you're not ready, you're not ready. Some people are NEVER ready their whole lives.
Finished the video, he shouldn't have walked out on her. Thats some horrible nonsense. Man up and be a dad. But at the same time, she really shouldnt have done that.
John Lauderbaugh I think he'll man up but in this moment I completely understand his actions. I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't respect my feelings and undermines my clear decision. With such an important decision at that.
John Lauderbaugh yeah she sorta trapped him with that responsibility. “Man up” means just take the L 🤣. That’s like you fucking a girl and right before you’re about to bust she wraps her legs around you then lie to you saying “I forgot to take the anti baby pills for two months” Yeah she shouldn’t had lied to him for two months. I don’t blame the guy he has every right to feel the type of way he feels.
@@johnlauderbaugh4641 He said he'd do child support in the video so he can walk out on her. As long as he takes care of the kid he doesn't NEED to be with her
@@johnlauderbaugh4641 walking out on her and walking out on the baby are 2 different things you don't have to be in a relationship to care for a child but he did say child support so as long as he's helping in some form then he doesn't have to be with her
Ariel A Villanueva he needs to go his own way and be with a woman who doesn’t want kids then. I mean 5 years is a long time to live and consider if you want to have a family or not. That decision is considered at least 2-3 years into the relationship along with wanting to marry someone. Frankly no person is ready to be parents even with all the planning and stuff you’ll never know how predictable it is coming to a child.
@@stephenwhitakerii3206 Or she can just leave and be with someone who does... If he's saying no and they haven't had for years, he doesn't need to leave. If she really wants, she'd leave lol.
@@stephenwhitakerii3206 I dont agree on your statement. You can be with someone for longer than 5 and still not sure. He wanted focus on getting married and his career. Make sure the home is good, she more focused on her desire not it being mutal
@@kwestpearson4040 so would I. I would pay child support because its not the kids fault that they were bought into the world but I would leave her in a heart beat and sell that house.
I do not blame him at all she basically trick him to have a child she did not respect his opinion I think he should leave her because the trust is gone
i thought the same thing, she forcing a kid, "forget" her pill, like really? seriously? that's not really somthing u can forget, respect his choice to not be ready even if they look like they are.
He needs to leave. Screw him. Women r strong she will b just fine without him. He is cheating on her. He is a phoney n doesnt love her. So he can go b strong somewhere else n she will b a good momma n do just fine without him. I was 10 weeks preg b4 i knew, i have fam that were 5 months n didnt know. So who knows when she found out.
@@ThatBritishGuy Women do forget to take the pills all the time though and whether she did it intentionally or not, that is a different matter. It's also men's responsibility to protect themselves at all times because the pills are not even 100 percent reliable
I had a feeling she was going to say she was pregnant but to really here her say it WOW. And its say he stayed with her this whole time knowing she wants a baby and he does not want any kids. She could of moved on with her life and had a few kids by now.
I really don’t think Dude wanted to be with her. 5 years with no engagement, ok I get it sometimes marriage can sometimes get skipped in a long term relationship, but to not want to start a family with your mate says Dude didn’t want to take it any farther with her. She probably should have instead give him an ultimatum before she decided to get pregnant.
Firstly i think ultimatums are the most Fd up thing to do. If you're going to leave because you don't see it going further thats one thing, but pressuring someone emotionally to do your bidding? Theres no way you can move in with someone, establish a life over 5 years and not want to be with them. not proposing doesn't mean you don't want to be with your partner. I know people whove been together for 15+ years before marriage. Thats nothing but a bunch of old school rubbish lol
@@Darrytheprince The only couple you know who dated over 15 yrs without an engagement and no Kids are old folks who can’t have kids or 2 young people who started date in grade school.
@@mallucnoel4427 Marriage is man made and not everyone finds it necessary or financially smart. Which it isn't really. Alot of guys marry to make the girl happy as girls always have these dreams. But don't like to act in a way that deserves it. If the man isn't giving what you want, you leave and find someone else. You don't pull underminded tricks into forcing him to be a father. Yes, she definitely schemed and did that. She'd have told them about it when hiring and she'd have denied his suggestion that she schemed. She won't say she didn't, she just keeps saying she forgot to take the pill. That's signs 101, if your trying to curve it instead of deny it. You likely were caught
That was a shocker ! But sometimes when a man says he doesn’t want a child right now it might really be because he’s not ready or he just doesn’t want a child with you 🤷🏽♀️
No way do I believe she forgot to take her pills. I believe that she thought when she told him he would be " awww baby it's gonna be ok" and " I'll be there for you and the baby" and reality smacked her in the face. You can't force a man who doesn't want kids to knuckle under and just accept it. And D needs to give her a lie detector test about forgetting to take her pills.
yeah this aint it chief. U can make the same episode about someone not wanting a baby and the other person trying to force a baby on them. Then the mediators being like yo chill give him time.
The fact D and yami both came onto him after they found out that he’s been forced into being a father is sickening he has every right to leave her in my opinion
She disgusts me. She didn't take them on purpose to force a baby in their relationship and had the mediation just to try and change his mind and ease him into it. She did it on purpose without his consent to firce him into a decision which is wrong. HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO LEAVE HER. She seriously thought trapping him, whether SHE thought they were OK or not, was gonna end well when he has been expressing so much doubt. And he said he'd do child support so why you guys kept harping on him to stay with her after this is gross. As long as he takes care of the kid its fine but she lied and intentionally put him in this situation, and I think at least a break would be good
I agree with you she assumed that he will stay because a baby is coming, all my life I have been told a man is going to be a man, never could figure that out, but I know now, this man doesn't trust her anymore she has comment the sin of all sins in a relationship she broke that trust with him now he doesn't want anything to do with now she is on her own now. And the man hasn't married her yet and it been five years if he hasn't ask her to married him in two years he is not going to married her, he sees something wrong in that relationship that is why he keep telling her but she is not listening too him. He is being straight forward in telling her he is not ready for a baby. That is important to him but she is not listening to him, now she just push him on out of his life for good he will pay his child support and that is all he is going to do for the child. He will not have anything to do with the child because he is not ready.
She even said it and then tried to play it off. She said I saw that you got your promotion and everything and she felt..... And she was cut off. But that proved it
5 years together either way. A life is in her so he can leave her n she will b just fine. She said his mom wants that baby so she can b in its life wheather he is or not.
That would depend, if he is going to bounce, then its none of his business. He could have wore a condom or had a snip, if he wants to b involed then go for dna.
Idc who you are or what scenario we are in, not a damn person on this planet is about to ultimatum me and win. This Man chose child support over her lying to his face
Wow that was some big news to drop on him like that. I dint think he will leave her tho. 5 yrs is a long time to throw away. Great video Yami. Love ya guys. Stay safe.
I don't blame the dude for walking out like that because he was surpise & shocked at the same time. He didn't know what to do about it so he went by himself for awhile. She can't make him to want to have a child when he not ready to be a father. He told her many times he wasn't ready. There's no time when a person is ready. It don't matter if been together for 5 years or 10. If she can't accept that then she should leave......Wait i guess can't because she lied & is already having his child without even telling him for 8 weeks. Smh........I'm sure he'll accept the responsibility.
I had a kid too early and I love my kids but I wish I had them later in life: I completely agree with the male here. He shouldn’t be forced to have a kid before he’s ready.
She looked pregnant from the moment I saw her. She can do it on her own. Ending the pregnancy would be something they would NEVER forget. Go their separate ways and they got what they want.
When this started I swore she was going to do some kind of ultimatum to him. And I felt it, and I just said yo he is about to leave her because of it. But best believe I will be here 7 months later with D again to prove if that kid is mine or not.
Children are a lot of responsibility and it may greatly affect their relationship later. Both of them should be ready. The folks who want it is not coming over to baby sit at nights and all the other responsibilities that come with a baby. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love kids. Not everyone wants to have kids.
Why try to have a baby with someone who doesn't want one. I understand it means a lot to her but the way she did it was so uncalled for. Babies won't make a person stay in your life.. romantically that is
That is true, she has lost him, he will pay his child support and have nothing too do with the child at all. Because he kept telling her he is not ready to be a father yet I respect him for saying it, most men want say it, but she played a bad trick on him and now he doesn't trust her now, she will be a single mother now.
What she should have been doing is instead of playing house with him is to move on, if a man hasn't ask you to married him within 2 years he is not going to married you at all, she stay because she wanted someone, but I understand where he is coming from, he wants to be financial prepared, he wants too get married next if that is on his list to do things, pay off the house, two cars, money in the bank in case of emergency, if he is telling her he is not ready yet and he doesn't want to be a father yet, chances are there is something else wrong in that house, he may not wanted to be with her anymore now, he wants to move on, now she just commented the sin of all sins no trust now and he is going too leave her because he can't trust her now.
MOTHER: MY CHILD, YOUR FATHER DIDN'T WANT YOU. CHILD: WHY? MOTHER: HE SAID HE WAS NOT READY. CHILD: HOW DID YOU THEN GET ME? MOTHER: I INTENTIONALLY DIDN'T TAKE MY PILLS. CHILD: WHAT A FRAUD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MOM!!!!
he should have been upfront from the beginning that he didn't want kids instead of leading her on for 5 years. I would've just left him but I can see her side considering she probably thinks she's getting to old to just leave him and start over with a new guy.
He never said he didn't want kids he just doesn't want kids right now that's not leading someone one leading someone on is being with someone you have no intention of actually continuing a relationship with
@@CadeTheReaper you could tell he was just saying that to keep her, he was talking about how hes happy with just his dog and he didn't show any commitment at all for 5 years so he pretty much is leading her on
@@CadeTheReaper Look how fast he walked out... he never really loved her & he did in fact led her on. He spoke about getting married but this whole time (within 5 years) he didn't even proposed so that tells me he never took her seriously. She should have known & left him.
@@zraj3433 my teachers daughter has been with same guy for 20 years and didn't even get married so with that being said you don't have to be married after 5 years and plus she didn't care that he didn't feel ready but literally lied to him. He was honest with her from the start about everything so how is that leading her on
He should’ve let her be with a man who wants a child then and leave her be. If it’s gonna take 5 years to determine if he wants a baby but ready to settle down then idk what to say. Majority of women get married and want to have a family with a little one than just a dog you know? The only wants to dump her because he seeing another woman on the side and don’t want to be tied down with a baby and responsibility
Javel Elestin no i don’t but she has probably told him down the road that she wanted kids and marriage. That’s just my opinion on why he probably don’t want kids but he should’ve been up front from the get go and told her instead of dragging it along for some time
And its fucked up. Girls have a choice to keep or abort but the guy has no choice. Especially when she dileberatly tricked him. Its her choice to have the kid, in these situations the court should definitely not have to force him to pay child support.
👩🏻 I think he's upset bc he feels like she tricked him, and she did in my opinion. Five years together, and she never forgot to take her birth control pill. She purposely did not take the pill, and used this meeting to tell him. You do not strengthen a committed relationship with lies. That's not right, but abandoning his woman and child is not what a man and father does. He will be fine. My Congratulations to them both. 👶🏽🍼💕
What I know is when you date someone for 2years and above know that she/he not marry you because he/she will be getting bored with you and seeing someone else better
This is crazy. But as an aside your house is beautiful. and I'm home from rehab recovering. My hip is killing me. lol But you and bounty Hunter D always keep me on the fround being able to watch your content. thank you.
Usually takes a while of "forgetting to take the pill" before pregnancy occurs. She did him wrong. She should have let him know how important it was to her to have a baby and split with him instead of forcing him the way she did. If he loved her enough, he probably would have come to decision of having a baby in order to get her back. Instead now if he stays with her he will always have hanging over his head that he can't trust her.
On another note this girl forgot to take her pills!!!!!! Yeah ok.. Now the guy is not ready to be a father n there is nothing wrong with that... n she should of been honest now she is pregnant ( n it's an accident!!!) she lied to him.. And now the pressure of having a baby without him being on board he is gonna leave her n it's all on her. She should of been honest with YAMI ..this girl went there so YAMI could help her tell her man that she is having a baby
He's a man of strong values and integrity, qualities many women like to destroy in a man. There is something deeper into his reasoning for not wanting a child 'now'... It needed discovering. Nice how you understood both sides. She was deceitful and paid the price. I hope he let's her suffer a bit to touch her conscience for a few days but come to his senses and feel the Joy of fatherhood right after.
I for one respect his integrity. What I realise is that when a man speak, women tend to not listen especially when it is something they do not want to hear then they say men don't communicate.
This is my opinion. Between a man and woman: If a man doesn't want kids and a woman wants kids then they shouldn't be together then . Plain and simple. If a man wants kids and a woman doesn't want kids then they shouldn't be together also. Plain and simple. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Nah this whole thing is messed up And you know what I'm against Yami on this one Imagine if the roles were reversed and a dude said he wanted a kid when she didn't want to,and he kept pushing Then one day found a way to get her pregnant
Im tired of some other womens always pressure guys to be a father or having baby. If they don't want to then they don't want to! Because they do realize thats not going to make them happy and having problems. Its not an excuse to be forgetting taking your pills if you knew that this is going to happen. 🤦🏻♀️hes not the "one" dude
It's not the fact that he isn't ready to have kids ..wake up people! He isn't ready to take on his biggest responsibility of his life...trust me in a few moments he will regret the day and be the happiest man in the world
I am disgusted how they didn’t see his side of the story. This liar ass woman didn’t tell him about being pregnant for 2 months?! HOW DO THEY NOT SEE HES RIGHT HERE?! They’re trying to force him to be a father! D said himself forcing someone to do something will make them do it worse! I don’t think he should’ve left, but still he was 100% in the right! Shame on D and Yami, honestly.
He wants nothing to do with the baby, he made that clear. Thats his chouce, that baby will b just fine with its mom, n from what she said the babies grandma will b happy to help her.
@@beautybandit3071 if my mom clearly trapped my dad with me and he wanted nothing to do with her, I would understand his feelings, i wouldn't like not having a 2 parent home but I'd get it and be upset at my mom, THE PERSON WHO HAD THE WHOLE THING HAPPEN. He said, if you listened, that he wanted nothing to do with HER and wouldn't raise the kid with HER, but he did say he'd pay child support, which isn't doing nothing for the kid. And we don't know whether he is even not gonna be in the kid's life. Not being in her life doesn't mean not being in the kid's btw
@@lisaramsey That wasn't made clear. What was clear is that he wanted nothing to do with HER for what she did and wouldn't continue their relationship. His thoughts on the child weren't clear other than he said he wasn't ready for a kid and wasn't sure what to do. He was in shock and emotional so we can't say we even know what he really plans to do. In such a state do you really expect people to just know exactly how they should move forward? Im sorry but your lying if you say yes because not everyone can recover from shocking news the same and shouldn't be expected to
how is he a jerk for not being ready to have a kid. all he did was be honest with her. she could have left him if it was that much of a big deal, but no she didnt just want to have a kid she wanted his child. She liked his upbringing and lifestyle and she wanted that so she basically defrauded him into a child. This should be against the law
Looking for somebody to be a parent if they don’t want to be a parent if he wants to walk away that’s his choice at this point I don’t even blame him she tricked him
The guy's a jerk because he knew FROM THE BEGINNING that he didn't want to have children. He also knew that she DID want children from the beginning. Why date her for FIVE YEARS and pretend to want children later - kicking the can down the road? Having said that, the woman is a jerk too! She STAYED with him anyway, KNOWING he didn't want children early on. Yet "accidentally" becoming pregnant as her biological clock started ticking louder. They both tried to force their wills on each other. And they both backfired on each other.
She didn't forget to take her pill she set him up and that is so wrong because she literally forced a baby into the relationship without the both of them being ready without the other's consent
I'm with the guy on this one. That's not right at all. She stole his choice in the matter. She manipulated you and D and her partner. I wouldn't take it out on the child, but I wouldn't stay with her either. She should have been upfront from the onset.
Just because he doesn't want a kid right now doesn't mean he doesn't love her. She is guilt tripping and pressuring him into it. He is 100% right that it is important and she is just "i want a baby so if you love me we will have one no matter what our life is like" and crying. Consent goes both ways. Some people have kids over 5 years after getting together. We don't even know how stable they actually are, a little, alot, but it just feels like everyone is pressuring him to say yes. She trapped him, plain and simple, and he has every right to leave her. He should take care of the kid but not be with her
@sharelle countz So you want him to be arrested and jailed instead of just taking care of the kid if they are his?🤨. Even if he leaves the US he will still be a criminal and could still face the consequences no matter where he is, that is if the kid is his
Girl. If you wanted a baby so bad, then you needed to just find someone else. You can't force someone to be a father and if he's not ready, he's not ready.
forgetting to take a pill is one thing, but hiding the fact that she was pregnant was totally wrong. She just blew one one of the most important things in a relationship all to hell. That would be trust.
But to leave her and her unborn child - come on, that is taking it way too far.
Sashagable has not gonna leave the child. He’s just leaving her. Women need to stop preaching that false narrative
She had to forget to take those pills for at least a month not 2 or 3 days so she planned this to try to trap him I know a girl did that many many years ago and she end up raising a baby by herself.
@@Sashagable
Is more like she said her on step up if the man say no then she wait until he's ready I know girls tried to do that one time and she literary rand. The man off at she raise the baby by herself. She should have been planning a wedding instead of planning a child now the child is going to be born with no daddy that's crazy I would have left to
i think that she trapped him big time.
If he doesn't want a baby, he doesn't want a baby. Should've just either accepted that or leave him. Times are tough rn, so I don't blame him.
She shouldn't pressure him. Neither should D and Yami.
Fr yo
Facts.
I do respect that D and Yami werent pressuring him. She just asked a question what would make you feel like you are ready.
Amen I just said that
frfr it’s his choice if he want a baby or not
Thank u someone said it
U cant force someone to have a baby it's a mutual thing they're obviously not on the same page mentally they should just go their own ways if they cant compromise that's just my opinion having a child is a big responsibility
facts
yes agreed.
@Dominic Tse yes. I would be so pissed if some woman were to do that to me. some guys will actually resent the innocent child because of the mothers selfish actions. have you noticed how she planned everything? as soon as they bought the brand new house and he received his promotion then she stopped taking her pills so that she could have her baby.
@Dominic Tse well she is not the only woman throughout history that has pulled that stunt. I am so glad that nothing like that has ever happened to me.
@Dominic Tse lol. same here. I would dump her in a heart beat. I would look after my child since i am the biological dad.
Dude has every right to not want a kid outside of marriage. Shoot, im MARRIED and im on the same wavelength as him. He's not ready so she needs to respect that. He doesn't need a "reason" cause anything he comes up with she would find an excuse to rebut. If you're not ready, you're not ready. Some people are NEVER ready their whole lives.
Finished the video, he shouldn't have walked out on her. Thats some horrible nonsense. Man up and be a dad. But at the same time, she really shouldnt have done that.
John Lauderbaugh I think he'll man up but in this moment I completely understand his actions. I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't respect my feelings and undermines my clear decision. With such an important decision at that.
John Lauderbaugh yeah she sorta trapped him with that responsibility. “Man up” means just take the L 🤣. That’s like you fucking a girl and right before you’re about to bust she wraps her legs around you then lie to you saying “I forgot to take the anti baby pills for two months” Yeah she shouldn’t had lied to him for two months. I don’t blame the guy he has every right to feel the type of way he feels.
@@johnlauderbaugh4641 He said he'd do child support in the video so he can walk out on her. As long as he takes care of the kid he doesn't NEED to be with her
@@johnlauderbaugh4641 walking out on her and walking out on the baby are 2 different things you don't have to be in a relationship to care for a child but he did say child support so as long as he's helping in some form then he doesn't have to be with her
I don’t agree with her, he simply told her he’s not ready to have a kid and if she can’t respect that that’s on her
Ariel A Villanueva he needs to go his own way and be with a woman who doesn’t want kids then. I mean 5 years is a long time to live and consider if you want to have a family or not. That decision is considered at least 2-3 years into the relationship along with wanting to marry someone. Frankly no person is ready to be parents even with all the planning and stuff you’ll never know how predictable it is coming to a child.
@@stephenwhitakerii3206 Or she can just leave and be with someone who does... If he's saying no and they haven't had for years, he doesn't need to leave. If she really wants, she'd leave lol.
Yep its on her alright she dont need him.
@@lisaramsey all she would need to do is to find another simp provider because there are plenty out there.
@@stephenwhitakerii3206 I dont agree on your statement. You can be with someone for longer than 5 and still not sure. He wanted focus on getting married and his career. Make sure the home is good, she more focused on her desire not it being mutal
Yami is too funny😂😂
Woman "I'm 2 months pregnant"
Yami "what?! How did that happen?"
Yami "I mean NO! I know how that happeneds."
😂
😂😂
girl forgeting to take you pill is one thing but not telling him your 2 months pregant with a baby is another thing .
Facts like WTF you should of been up front with since the jump
@@kwestpearson4040 ik right ....
olive oil I would did the same thing cause you can clearly tell he wasn't ready
Most women dont know they r preg much b4 6 to 8 weeks.
@@kwestpearson4040 so would I. I would pay child support because its not the kids fault that they were bought into the world but I would leave her in a heart beat and sell that house.
We're in scary times right now to even think about bring any kids into this world tell this whole thing is all clean up and gone for good!!
People better wake up,we don't have much longer here!!
@@reginaldbourgeois107 you'll see ...
@@reginaldbourgeois107 i think you are right bro. I believe the 2nd coming of jesus is not too far off
@@mattyrock2467 amen
I do not blame him at all she basically trick him to have a child she did not respect his opinion I think he should leave her because the trust is gone
i thought the same thing, she forcing a kid, "forget" her pill, like really? seriously? that's not really somthing u can forget, respect his choice to not be ready even if they look like they are.
Yes their relationship is toxic
He needs to leave. Screw him. Women r strong she will b just fine without him. He is cheating on her. He is a phoney n doesnt love her. So he can go b strong somewhere else n she will b a good momma n do just fine without him. I was 10 weeks preg b4 i knew, i have fam that were 5 months n didnt know. So who knows when she found out.
@@lisaramsey men are strong as well and he doesn't need her
@@ThatBritishGuy Women do forget to take the pills all the time though and whether she did it intentionally or not, that is a different matter. It's also men's responsibility to protect themselves at all times because the pills are not even 100 percent reliable
I go with the man. His wife lied to her about pills and took him to a mediation. I would’ve done the same.
Lol right. I would've bounced and I'm a female
I had a feeling she was going to say she was pregnant but to really here her say it WOW. And its say he stayed with her this whole time knowing she wants a baby and he does not want any kids. She could of moved on with her life and had a few kids by now.
He never said he didn't want any kids. He said he wasn't sure if he was ready.
Never said he didn't want kids he said he wasn't ready
I really don’t think Dude wanted to be with her. 5 years with no engagement, ok I get it sometimes marriage can sometimes get skipped in a long term relationship, but to not want to start a family with your mate says Dude didn’t want to take it any farther with her. She probably should have instead give him an ultimatum before she decided to get pregnant.
Firstly i think ultimatums are the most Fd up thing to do. If you're going to leave because you don't see it going further thats one thing, but pressuring someone emotionally to do your bidding?
Theres no way you can move in with someone, establish a life over 5 years and not want to be with them. not proposing doesn't mean you don't want to be with your partner. I know people whove been together for 15+ years before marriage.
Thats nothing but a bunch of old school rubbish lol
@@Darrytheprince The only couple you know who dated over 15 yrs without an engagement and no Kids are old folks who can’t have kids or 2 young people who started date in grade school.
@@mallucnoel4427 or two people who genuinely just want to be together for no other reason than that
@@Darrytheprince Sure if you are talking about a Gay couple.
@@mallucnoel4427 Marriage is man made and not everyone finds it necessary or financially smart. Which it isn't really. Alot of guys marry to make the girl happy as girls always have these dreams. But don't like to act in a way that deserves it. If the man isn't giving what you want, you leave and find someone else. You don't pull underminded tricks into forcing him to be a father. Yes, she definitely schemed and did that. She'd have told them about it when hiring and she'd have denied his suggestion that she schemed. She won't say she didn't, she just keeps saying she forgot to take the pill. That's signs 101, if your trying to curve it instead of deny it. You likely were caught
That was a shocker ! But sometimes when a man says he doesn’t want a child right now it might really be because he’s not ready or he just doesn’t want a child with you 🤷🏽♀️
i think having kid when married is probably better, then before.
It depends on the person or couple
@@JordanDragonAs true
That's how it's suppose to be in the bible
@@captain425 true.
Been with my man for 14 years. Our son is 12 years old. Married for 8... Not always best, when people love each other... it works.
No way do I believe she forgot to take her pills. I believe that she thought when she told him he would be " awww baby it's gonna be ok" and " I'll be there for you and the baby" and reality smacked her in the face. You can't force a man who doesn't want kids to knuckle under and just accept it. And D needs to give her a lie detector test about forgetting to take her pills.
😂😂😂
Well, you can't force someone to be a father or be with you. That is what life is all about, making your own decisions.
14:09 "man, I'm bout to bounce"
Best part and sums up what I would do if she ever brung up having kids
I’ve been watching you guy’s for a few years now n I’m glad you a part of my daily relax time
Well like it or not, Here comes daddy. Parenthood is nice to plan. I think they are ready. Ready or not here baby comes.
Heck no. She literally tricked that dude into having a baby. Am I the only one seeing how crazy this whole situation is?
@@noir935 no i see it to
@@noir935 I see it and honestly that's just a terrible thing to do to someone
Imagine watching 15 min of someone pressuring another person to have a baby
right? tf
yeah this aint it chief. U can make the same episode about someone not wanting a baby and the other person trying to force a baby on them. Then the mediators being like yo chill give him time.
This is why I don't see women the same way, especially after watching all these videos
U tricked him she gotta gtfoh she lied n baby trapped
I hope pt2 with lie detector test if u lied to them y u wouldn't him she manipulates a ton of people
The fact D and yami both came onto him after they found out that he’s been forced into being a father is sickening he has every right to leave her in my opinion
She disgusts me. She didn't take them on purpose to force a baby in their relationship and had the mediation just to try and change his mind and ease him into it. She did it on purpose without his consent to firce him into a decision which is wrong. HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO LEAVE HER. She seriously thought trapping him, whether SHE thought they were OK or not, was gonna end well when he has been expressing so much doubt. And he said he'd do child support so why you guys kept harping on him to stay with her after this is gross. As long as he takes care of the kid its fine but she lied and intentionally put him in this situation, and I think at least a break would be good
agreed. I would dump any woman who does that to me. I would only take care of the child being the biological dad.
I would have dumped her so fast, sold that house and used her part of the sale to buy the similack and diapers.
I agree with you she assumed that he will stay because a baby is coming, all my life I have been told a man is going to be a man, never could figure that out, but I know now, this man doesn't trust her anymore she has comment the sin of all sins in a relationship she broke that trust with him now he doesn't want anything to do with now she is on her own now. And the man hasn't married her yet and it been five years if he hasn't ask her to married him in two years he is not going to married her, he sees something wrong in that relationship that is why he keep telling her but she is not listening too him. He is being straight forward in telling her he is not ready for a baby. That is important to him but she is not listening to him, now she just push him on out of his life for good he will pay his child support and that is all he is going to do for the child. He will not have anything to do with the child because he is not ready.
She forgot to take the pill on purpose because she saw his success.
I'd be mad too.
She even said it and then tried to play it off. She said I saw that you got your promotion and everything and she felt..... And she was cut off.
But that proved it
5 years together either way. A life is in her so he can leave her n she will b just fine. She said his mom wants that baby so she can b in its life wheather he is or not.
@@lisaramsey again, i'd be right back at D's 7 months later to confirm if thats my kid
That would depend, if he is going to bounce, then its none of his business. He could have wore a condom or had a snip, if he wants to b involed then go for dna.
i would be pissed. It would be over.
Idc who you are or what scenario we are in, not a damn person on this planet is about to ultimatum me and win.
This Man chose child support over her lying to his face
@Denise Eugene wtf....
I’m loving the intro, the lady should respect his wishes until they are both ready to have a child or is he hiding something erm 🤭. Great video Yami
Why do he have to be lying about something?
He shouldn't be forced. D should do a lie detector test for her
Wow that was some big news to drop on him like that. I dint think he will leave her tho. 5 yrs is a long time to throw away. Great video Yami. Love ya guys. Stay safe.
If I was her I wouldn’t make him have a baby that he doesn’t want or isn’t ready to have because that’s how kids end up without dads
I love the intro..... bounty hunter d❤️
if he isn’t ready, he isn’t ready...
I don't blame the dude for walking out like that because he was surpise & shocked at the same time. He didn't know what to do about it so he went by himself for awhile. She can't make him to want to have a child when he not ready to be a father. He told her many times he wasn't ready. There's no time when a person is ready. It don't matter if been together for 5 years or 10. If she can't accept that then she should leave......Wait i guess can't because she lied & is already having his child without even telling him for 8 weeks. Smh........I'm sure he'll accept the responsibility.
@Dominic Tseyou got many point
Mothers are heroes, keep your baby until you give birth. GOD WILL PAVE AWAY .
mothers are deceivers
@@mattyrock2467 Hmmmm!!!!Why baby boy
I had a kid too early and I love my kids but I wish I had them later in life: I completely agree with the male here. He shouldn’t be forced to have a kid before he’s ready.
She looked pregnant from the moment I saw her. She can do it on her own. Ending the pregnancy would be something they would NEVER forget. Go their separate ways and they got what they want.
"Man i'm bout to bounce" got me dead😭😭😭
I’m kind of glad the guy left, she was trying to force him to be a father. dude has responsibilities.
Fr yo i was thinking the same thing
She didn't forget long as they've been together and she waited two months to tell him she's pregnant. Wow🥴🤯
When this started I swore she was going to do some kind of ultimatum to him.
And I felt it, and I just said yo he is about to leave her because of it.
But best believe I will be here 7 months later with D again to prove if that kid is mine or not.
Children are a lot of responsibility and it may greatly affect their relationship later. Both of them should be ready. The folks who want it is not coming over to baby sit at nights and all the other responsibilities that come with a baby. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love kids. Not everyone wants to have kids.
Why try to have a baby with someone who doesn't want one. I understand it means a lot to her but the way she did it was so uncalled for. Babies won't make a person stay in your life.. romantically that is
That is true, she has lost him, he will pay his child support and have nothing too do with the child at all. Because he kept telling her he is not ready to be a father yet I respect him for saying it, most men want say it, but she played a bad trick on him and now he doesn't trust her now, she will be a single mother now.
She's talking about playing house but she aint married to him but trying to have his baby 😩😕🤔 I'm perplexed
What she should have been doing is instead of playing house with him is to move on, if a man hasn't ask you to married him within 2 years he is not going to married you at all, she stay because she wanted someone, but I understand where he is coming from, he wants to be financial prepared, he wants too get married next if that is on his list to do things, pay off the house, two cars, money in the bank in case of emergency, if he is telling her he is not ready yet and he doesn't want to be a father yet, chances are there is something else wrong in that house, he may not wanted to be with her anymore now, he wants to move on, now she just commented the sin of all sins no trust now and he is going too leave her because he can't trust her now.
MOTHER: MY CHILD, YOUR FATHER DIDN'T WANT YOU.
CHILD: WHY?
MOTHER: HE SAID HE WAS NOT READY.
CHILD: HOW DID YOU THEN GET ME?
MOTHER: I INTENTIONALLY DIDN'T TAKE MY PILLS.
CHILD: WHAT A FRAUD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MOM!!!!
Solution: leave her on the spot
5 comments already and uploaded in 90 seconds wow😅💕
I hate how jami only listened too the woman’s prospective and how d saw it from a mans she should’ve listened to both sides
he should have been upfront from the beginning that he didn't want kids instead of leading her on for 5 years. I would've just left him but I can see her side considering she probably thinks she's getting to old to just leave him and start over with a new guy.
He never said he didn't want kids he just doesn't want kids right now that's not leading someone one leading someone on is being with someone you have no intention of actually continuing a relationship with
@@CadeTheReaper you could tell he was just saying that to keep her, he was talking about how hes happy with just his dog and he didn't show any commitment at all for 5 years so he pretty much is leading her on
@@CadeTheReaper Look how fast he walked out... he never really loved her & he did in fact led her on. He spoke about getting married but this whole time (within 5 years) he didn't even proposed so that tells me he never took her seriously. She should have known & left him.
@@dapperslapper6726 he doesn't have to be ready she needs to respect that instead of lying to him
@@zraj3433 my teachers daughter has been with same guy for 20 years and didn't even get married so with that being said you don't have to be married after 5 years and plus she didn't care that he didn't feel ready but literally lied to him. He was honest with her from the start about everything so how is that leading her on
He should’ve let her be with a man who wants a child then and leave her be. If it’s gonna take 5 years to determine if he wants a baby but ready to settle down then idk what to say. Majority of women get married and want to have a family with a little one than just a dog you know? The only wants to dump her because he seeing another woman on the side and don’t want to be tied down with a baby and responsibility
Javel Elestin no i don’t but she has probably told him down the road that she wanted kids and marriage. That’s just my opinion on why he probably don’t want kids but he should’ve been up front from the get go and told her instead of dragging it along for some time
It was also a shocker that someone kept their cool tone throughout the entire session
She ought to be grateful that he’s man enough to say , I’m not ready right now
d is right because once you become a father theres no going back & there is nothing that can be changed.
And its fucked up. Girls have a choice to keep or abort but the guy has no choice. Especially when she dileberatly tricked him. Its her choice to have the kid, in these situations the court should definitely not have to force him to pay child support.
Dam girl no is no 😂 can't force that man to have a baby
👩🏻 I think he's upset bc he feels like she tricked him, and she did in my opinion. Five years together, and she never forgot to take her birth control pill. She purposely did not take the pill, and used this meeting to tell him. You do not strengthen a committed relationship with lies.
That's not right, but abandoning his woman and child is not what a man and father does. He will be fine.
My Congratulations to them both. 👶🏽🍼💕
What I know is when you date someone for 2years and above know that she/he not marry you because he/she will be getting bored with you and seeing someone else better
Love the intro. Rapping D. Couple dancing. Don't give up hunting thou. 😁😁
This is crazy. But as an aside your house is beautiful. and I'm home from rehab recovering. My hip is killing me. lol But you and bounty Hunter D always keep me on the fround being able to watch your content. thank you.
Usually takes a while of "forgetting to take the pill" before pregnancy occurs. She did him wrong. She should have let him know how important it was to her to have a baby and split with him instead of forcing him the way she did. If he loved her enough, he probably would have come to decision of having a baby in order to get her back. Instead now if he stays with her he will always have hanging over his head that he can't trust her.
Wow! What a shocker for the video of the mediation!
On another note this girl forgot to take her pills!!!!!! Yeah ok.. Now the guy is not ready to be a father n there is nothing wrong with that... n she should of been honest now she is pregnant ( n it's an accident!!!) she lied to him.. And now the pressure of having a baby without him being on board he is gonna leave her n it's all on her. She should of been honest with YAMI ..this girl went there so YAMI could help her tell her man that she is having a baby
When D was walking around I’m thinking what is he going to say “you can leave but the law will get you and the on the butt”
yeah i don't necessarily agree with this one. I dated an ex for 5years, im GLAD AS HELL she didn't have my baby.
He's a man of strong values and integrity, qualities many women like to destroy in a man. There is something deeper into his reasoning for not wanting a child 'now'... It needed discovering. Nice how you understood both sides. She was deceitful and paid the price. I hope he let's her suffer a bit to touch her conscience for a few days but come to his senses and feel the Joy of fatherhood right after.
I for one respect his integrity. What I realise is that when a man speak, women tend to not listen especially when it is something they do not want to hear then they say men don't communicate.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah I like both your reasoning and your Strength to independently express it. Thank you for your Empathy as a woman.
Give her a lie detector cause I feel like she could be lying about forgetting to take pills while arguing with him about having kids for a long time
She shouldn't of done that to him but I feel bad for both them I hope things can be better for the both of them
Honestly the man is right tbh
Yami, love the bangs on you. Pops your eyes even more. Love your show, too.
DON'T end up a single parent .. The dude AIN'T READY
OMG I wasn’t expecting that 🤥
So she gets to be selfish in the relationship without considering how he feels about the situation and she pressuring him
If everyone waited for the PERFECT time to have a child, none of us would be here.
I believe the man had the right to not have a baby with her, i cant believe she lied tho.
Always on his side just saying "oh I forgot" lmao
love watching never STOP Yami and D
This is my opinion. Between a man and woman:
If a man doesn't want kids and a woman wants kids then they shouldn't be together then . Plain and simple.
If a man wants kids and a woman doesn't want kids then they shouldn't be together also. Plain and simple. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
I think he never really love her
@Denise Eugene wtf....
show is great...what's most beautiful is the love you guys share. God bless
Ima bounce got me dead 💀 🤣
What's the point of D waiting in the back when he just comes in the front every vid
looking for a moment to bully somebody so that it can be dramatic and draw views
@@its_just_me8476 DO YOU THINK SO?
Snackfish Pirkle bruh
@@its_just_me8476 right
He lied to her and wasted her time. He doesn't want her and he was just using her.
Nah this whole thing is messed up
And you know what I'm against Yami on this one
Imagine if the roles were reversed and a dude said he wanted a kid when she didn't want to,and he kept pushing
Then one day found a way to get her pregnant
It’s possible that she did forget and once she found out she was pregnant that’s when she started pressuring him
Im tired of some other womens always pressure guys to be a father or having baby. If they don't want to then they don't want to! Because they do realize thats not going to make them happy and having problems. Its not an excuse to be forgetting taking your pills if you knew that this is going to happen. 🤦🏻♀️hes not the "one" dude
Thank you for the post. Its educative.
WOW... Hope they worked out everything.
Yami Roxxxx !
Good vid, D !
Lol, partner in crime!
What a killer treat, two vids in a day !
Rock on !
Much love,
Ya'lls #1 Fan,
Wulfy
It's not the fact that he isn't ready to have kids ..wake up people!
He isn't ready to take on his biggest responsibility of his life...trust me in a few moments he will regret the day and be the happiest man in the world
I am disgusted how they didn’t see his side of the story. This liar ass woman didn’t tell him about being pregnant for 2 months?! HOW DO THEY NOT SEE HES RIGHT HERE?! They’re trying to force him to be a father! D said himself forcing someone to do something will make them do it worse! I don’t think he should’ve left, but still he was 100% in the right! Shame on D and Yami, honestly.
Mother and grandmother here. Don't force or trap the man... DON'T DO IT. I don't believe she forgot. I can only pray he'll be there for his blessing.
He doesn't love her damn...
How is that? Having kids isn't the only way to show love
That baby is rejected while in its mothers womb how sad😭😭😭
He said he'd do child support. Just cause he walked away from her and wanted nothing to do with her doesnt mean he won't care for the kid
He wants nothing to do with the baby, he made that clear. Thats his chouce, that baby will b just fine with its mom, n from what she said the babies grandma will b happy to help her.
@@SpectreBagels would you be ok if saw a vedio of your dad doing that to your mum
@@beautybandit3071 if my mom clearly trapped my dad with me and he wanted nothing to do with her, I would understand his feelings, i wouldn't like not having a 2 parent home but I'd get it and be upset at my mom, THE PERSON WHO HAD THE WHOLE THING HAPPEN. He said, if you listened, that he wanted nothing to do with HER and wouldn't raise the kid with HER, but he did say he'd pay child support, which isn't doing nothing for the kid. And we don't know whether he is even not gonna be in the kid's life. Not being in her life doesn't mean not being in the kid's btw
@@lisaramsey That wasn't made clear. What was clear is that he wanted nothing to do with HER for what she did and wouldn't continue their relationship. His thoughts on the child weren't clear other than he said he wasn't ready for a kid and wasn't sure what to do. He was in shock and emotional so we can't say we even know what he really plans to do. In such a state do you really expect people to just know exactly how they should move forward? Im sorry but your lying if you say yes because not everyone can recover from shocking news the same and shouldn't be expected to
This woman should've dumped this jerk 4 1/2 years ago. She has every right to want children. But he also has every right to NOT want children.
how is he a jerk for not being ready to have a kid. all he did was be honest with her. she could have left him if it was that much of a big deal, but no she didnt just want to have a kid she wanted his child. She liked his upbringing and lifestyle and she wanted that so she basically defrauded him into a child. This should be against the law
Looking for somebody to be a parent if they don’t want to be a parent if he wants to walk away that’s his choice at this point I don’t even blame him she tricked him
The guy's a jerk because he knew FROM THE BEGINNING that he didn't want to have children. He also knew that she DID want children from the beginning. Why date her for FIVE YEARS and pretend to want children later - kicking the can down the road? Having said that, the woman is a jerk too! She STAYED with him anyway, KNOWING he didn't want children early on. Yet "accidentally" becoming pregnant as her biological clock started ticking louder. They both tried to force their wills on each other. And they both backfired on each other.
One of the angles made D look like one of those killers in a horror movie standing in the back ground 😂
She didn't forget to take her pill she set him up and that is so wrong because she literally forced a baby into the relationship without the both of them being ready without the other's consent
Having babies is NOT what women do to demonstrate their love for a partner. This smacks of desperation.
I'm with the guy on this one. That's not right at all. She stole his choice in the matter.
She manipulated you and D and her partner. I wouldn't take it out on the child, but I wouldn't stay with her either.
She should have been upfront from the onset.
Just because he doesn't want a kid right now doesn't mean he doesn't love her. She is guilt tripping and pressuring him into it. He is 100% right that it is important and she is just "i want a baby so if you love me we will have one no matter what our life is like" and crying. Consent goes both ways. Some people have kids over 5 years after getting together. We don't even know how stable they actually are, a little, alot, but it just feels like everyone is pressuring him to say yes. She trapped him, plain and simple, and he has every right to leave her. He should take care of the kid but not be with her
@sharelle countz So you want him to be arrested and jailed instead of just taking care of the kid if they are his?🤨. Even if he leaves the US he will still be a criminal and could still face the consequences no matter where he is, that is if the kid is his
Girl. If you wanted a baby so bad, then you needed to just find someone else. You can't force someone to be a father and if he's not ready, he's not ready.
Yeah, I'm on the man's side for this one. He clearly told you he didn't want a kid yet and now you're just like "Surprise!" That's not fair.
I feel bad for her an she didn't forget to take her pills, she planned it because she always an really want a baby.
You should investigate him... Something up wit him
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When one isnt ready to have a baby and the other isn't...its time to turn down the heat on the relationship. You're both not on the same level.
If the man dont want than the man dont want