@MegInASheathDress Thank you so much for the input. I understand it's...a dry remark. I maybe go on 1 date a year. I'm okay with this. I enjoy being the queen of my own castle 😆
Thank you Jonathon! This is an excellent subject. I've been dating a great man for a year. We both are 67. I have a high sex drive. He has low libido. Throw in off and on ED...and it's just as you said. This topic is brought up in our numerous discussions. It's challenging to say the least. Yet, we are working on how to press through it. Open and honest effective communication is critical to help a couple figure it out. A calm conversation is a great piece of advice. Being vulnerable and transparent is vital for any healthy relationship. Kindness matters!
I've dated older guys who used PDE5s and guys who didnt. Theres a specific physiological response they have to PDE5s, and i got so i could tell if they took the medication by how they were doing in bed. I never cared that they used the meds, all i care about is that their equipment works. If it doesnt, we need to be discussing it respectfully and maturely. Some guys wont tell you, but you can tell they use it. Others are are just open about it, i had one guy bring his PDE5 pill with him on a date and he told me to remind him to take it before we got back to my place. 😅😅 i really love men. ❤❤
I must be a demi, too. Never heard of this. I agree that a woman needs the slow boil most times. I do. I need the intellectual stimuli and not the 'how's your day' baloney. I also need space. Ideally for the sex to remain good is to have separate residences. JA, are you going to share your date with us?
Midlife women cant get pregnant. That probably has a lot to do with midlife women having a higher sex drive. I still require condoms in my partners for STIs, Im not taking any chances. A lot of men assume because youre in menopause you wont require a condom. Both get tested for STIs -- and use condoms unless you discussed monogamy and trust them on it.
Hi jonathon. I don't think the problem is that it didn't resonate but rather being a sensitive time to even discuss something like this with the state of the world. Is this an old video because I'm surprised you didn't address the LA fires at all🥺 . And you live there. I visit once a year and my heart is breaking for everyone there 💔. Literally in pieces. If this *is* a new video, then happy to see you're safe and ok. Just wanted to say why maybe you didn't get a bigger response to this one. I think this is last on people's minds. 🥺. Stay safe.
Being single almost 10 years, I've learned a lot. Celibate is absolutely amazing, cuz I am observing people. Myself too.
I've been single for 4 years and I'm right there with you on the observing people! My eyes 👀 are more open!
Celibacy isn't my thing for sure. To each her own.
@MegInASheathDress Thank you so much for the input. I understand it's...a dry remark. I maybe go on 1 date a year. I'm okay with this. I enjoy being the queen of my own castle 😆
Lisa…I have always appreciated quickies 💕🦋
Thank you Jonathon! This is an excellent subject. I've been dating a great man for a year. We both are 67. I have a high sex drive. He has low libido. Throw in off and on ED...and it's just as you said. This topic is brought up in our numerous discussions. It's challenging to say the least. Yet, we are working on how to press through it. Open and honest effective communication is critical to help a couple figure it out. A calm conversation is a great piece of advice. Being vulnerable and transparent is vital for any healthy relationship. Kindness matters!
It sounds like you're both on the right track.
@@JonathonAslay ED is a big deal. Any hope?
I've dated older guys who used PDE5s and guys who didnt. Theres a specific physiological response they have to PDE5s, and i got so i could tell if they took the medication by how they were doing in bed. I never cared that they used the meds, all i care about is that their equipment works. If it doesnt, we need to be discussing it respectfully and maturely. Some guys wont tell you, but you can tell they use it. Others are are just open about it, i had one guy bring his PDE5 pill with him on a date and he told me to remind him to take it before we got back to my place. 😅😅 i really love men. ❤❤
Yeah I failed in this department. So he strayed & had children everywhere. I over looked all that & stop being intimate. I didn't mind at all.
That's sad
Too funny…the person who doesn’t care for sex is the one who wins! 💕🦋
Thank you 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
To me demisexual is really getting to know the other person before you are sexually active
I must be a demi, too. Never heard of this. I agree that a woman needs the slow boil most times. I do. I need the intellectual stimuli and not the 'how's your day' baloney. I also need space. Ideally for the sex to remain good is to have separate residences. JA, are you going to share your date with us?
Midlife women cant get pregnant. That probably has a lot to do with midlife women having a higher sex drive. I still require condoms in my partners for STIs, Im not taking any chances. A lot of men assume because youre in menopause you wont require a condom. Both get tested for STIs -- and use condoms unless you discussed monogamy and trust them on it.
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Did you consider that women of this age can no longer become pregnant and become more relaxed about sex?
Yes...
I would love to be intimate with my friend.
And?
Darn, missed it. Need to be in there with chi & Gigi mixing it up. Next time, coach!!
I'm glad you want to join in!
I would love to be intimate with my husband
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@@JonathonAslayit's fun 😀
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Hi jonathon. I don't think the problem is that it didn't resonate but rather being a sensitive time to even discuss something like this with the state of the world. Is this an old video because I'm surprised you didn't address the LA fires at all🥺 . And you live there. I visit once a year and my heart is breaking for everyone there 💔. Literally in pieces. If this *is* a new video, then happy to see you're safe and ok. Just wanted to say why maybe you didn't get a bigger response to this one. I think this is last on people's minds. 🥺. Stay safe.
I have addressed it on other social media posts.
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