Expectations & Reality when Dating a Dominican | Expats talk about their Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @bruce3360
    @bruce3360 Год назад +13

    Great video as usual.
    The DR is the next island over and I’d been visiting for years but found Sosua by accident. It’s not good in my opinion to find marriage material. However, I’ve had three serious girl friends there. The stumbling block was always the same, they either didn’t want to move to Puerto Rico or couldn’t. The worst was a very popular Canadian. She was always scheming to get money out of me. Even after I broke it off, she hit me up to provide capital for a real estate development. Another serious girl friend was a nurse anesthesiologist in Santo Domingo. She was by far the prettiest, an absolute 10. We communicated daily for about 6 months but would never commit to moving to PR.
    One thing most men don’t realize is how easy it is to meet professional women in the DR. Sosua isn’t a normal dating environment and a difficult place to find a wife. For serious relationships get out of Sosua, your odds go way up where it’s not a tourist area. Short term relationships are what Sosua is known for.

    • @jorgeduran7168
      @jorgeduran7168 Год назад +5

      I agree 100 %. To fino a good woman need to go to different area such like church,college or a professional environment. Not in puerto plata .
      ..

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад

      Thanks Bruce for your great comments, and for staying tuned! All the best in your neck of the woods! Brgds, Mr.T :)

  • @rickgray6718
    @rickgray6718 Год назад +5

    Great content sir, thanks, GOD BLESS you safe travels

  • @SteveR789
    @SteveR789 Год назад +4

    Good video with interesting comments. With deep pockets, you can find love anywhere.

  • @easyrawlins2392
    @easyrawlins2392 Год назад +3

    I love your musical selection

  • @Starknight00
    @Starknight00 Год назад +2

    Lovely vlog. Enjoyed every minute of it.. thanks to Tito.. Tyson. Bill.. n all great sharings.

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching and your comment :-)

  • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
    @user-ub8uc8gq7r Год назад +3

    We need more of these vetting videos pls!!

  • @ANGRY_BUS_DRIVER
    @ANGRY_BUS_DRIVER Год назад +5

    This video taught me alot

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад

      Many thanks for watching and commenting! :-) Cheers! Mr. T

  • @rodmh3658
    @rodmh3658 8 месяцев назад +2

    Bill, You SIR "Nailed it!!" Very well said!!

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  8 месяцев назад

      Many thanks for watching and commenting! :-)

  • @Dee-pj7hh
    @Dee-pj7hh Год назад +4

    Very interesting opinions. Common sense beats everything though. Great topic Mr T.

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад +1

      Many thanks, Dee, for watching and commenting! :-)

  • @rahnosimpson2470
    @rahnosimpson2470 Год назад +2

    This is great info! Thank you for all you do Mr T! ❤

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад

      Thanks Rahno!! Very glad you like my content :) Krgds, Mr.T

  • @anointedmusic624
    @anointedmusic624 Год назад +2

    Very good, I needed to hear this; thanks 👋

  • @ciromolina3684
    @ciromolina3684 Год назад +4

    Great job. I am thinking about going to black beard resort which is close to soshua for my first trip to meet women safely?

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад +2

      Thanks! Yes, that could work, however, if you're after a lot more natural and genuine experience / results,, then consider hiring me for an online call. If that sounds interesting, then e-mail me at info@educatedtraveler.info and I'll send you options and prices.
      Brgds, Mr.T

  • @GingerDaddy444
    @GingerDaddy444 5 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent advice! Thanks for making the video. I agree with the American that not having that jab is a legitimate quality to look for, I also am pure blood and gave up on that criteria but he gave me hope to keep it. Very hard to find especially there from what I've seen using Tinder's Passport feature, many people their gave in, not sure if the had much of a choice however.
    The Dominican culture is to move relationships pretty fast but look out for love bombing and insinuating that they need financial help, too early. Their troubles should be kept out of the dating relationship out of respect early on. You are viewed as the ticket so don't be surprised but also, don't be so "tacao" stingy lol. Understand that you're dealing with a third world country and money and jobs are somewhat difficult to obtain. :) Looking for my Dominican wife as we speak.
    Happy hunting, best of luck, gente hermosa!

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  5 месяцев назад +1

      Many thanks for watching and commenting! Cheers! :-)

  • @AstroKnight_Gaming
    @AstroKnight_Gaming Год назад +13

    I’ve been in DR for almost 3 years and haven’t found a decent Dominican woman. This is depressing for me because I am Dominican and it sucks knowing the woman of my country are whores. I’m not into the mangos so I guess I’m doomed to be but alone I’m okay with that. I remember back in the 90’s when I was a Soldier in Germany I came across a brothel where the entire 6 story building housed Dominican prostitutes. For me the best women I’ve encountered are Puerto Rican. Given a choice between a regular Puerto Rican women or a glamorous Dominican woman I’m going for the PR woman every time.They truly know how to take care of their men.

    • @jorgeduran7168
      @jorgeduran7168 Год назад +9

      Your opinión is very poor. There are good and bad women everywhere. If you want someone good has to look a woman that produce and selsufficient. Many men look for women under their level because are not capable or don't feel capable to conquer profesional women. They want to impress a lower level women. No selfsteem enough .

    • @AstroKnight_Gaming
      @AstroKnight_Gaming Год назад +1

      @@jorgeduran7168 how are you going to judge my lived experience? I’m a well traveled Veteran and the worse women I’ve ever encountered are Dominican but go ahead and tell me more about my 1st hand experience. I’ll wait.

    • @jorgeduran7168
      @jorgeduran7168 Год назад +1

      @@AstroKnight_Gaming i live in USA and for 28 years and i've seen worse than my country. I'm not judging your life but if the hat fit you put it on. If you don't know where to find good women i suggest to start searching in a church,college in dominican or any country.

    • @AstroKnight_Gaming
      @AstroKnight_Gaming Год назад

      @@jorgeduran7168 It’s my country too. Thank you for your suggestion. Now allow me to make a suggestion of my own. I suggest you move on. Your comments are vapid and you come off as a smug self righteous prick. Peace

    • @jorgeduran7168
      @jorgeduran7168 Год назад +5

      Te lo voy a decir en español que las mujeres que he tenido en republica dominicana ganan más que yo en USA y no tengo que jurarte porque no eres Dios pero yo he ido y han gastad de su dinero brindandome y han venido a USA a mi casa ellas pagando su ticket aéreo. Gerente de una zona franca en Santiago, otra ginecobstetra y una Maestra y todas viajan y tienen visa americana. Y hemos terminado porque no quieren ni necesitan vivir aquí en USA. Viven mil veces mejor que cualquier americano. Es es mi experiencia gracias a Dios. No enamoro mujeres ,yo espero ver a quien le caigo bien y entonces procedo a lanzarme pero mujeres como las que te nombré. No mujeres que tienen necesidades o están buscando una residencia.

  • @jimmiebazz2586
    @jimmiebazz2586 5 месяцев назад +1

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  • @djidosamo5507
    @djidosamo5507 Год назад +2

    Great content

  • @amgooder
    @amgooder Год назад +5

    First ask what's a "chapiadora" ?
    Or a hanky pank...if you come across one of them run!!!!!!!!!
    Ladies just want your💰💰💰💰🤷‍♂️

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад +2

      Chapiadora and sanky panky... Thanks for your comment :-)

  • @haroldsimpson8422
    @haroldsimpson8422 10 месяцев назад +1

    Great video, freind.

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  9 месяцев назад

      Many thanks, and for watching! Brgds, Mr.T

  • @bruce3360
    @bruce3360 Год назад +3

    How about a video regarding what guys need to do to attract the right kind of women.
    Three of my friends in Puerto Rico are married to Dominicans and very happy. Of course, their wives are beautiful even by Puerto Rican standards and they have cousins, sisters and friends that are often successful professionals that want to date Norte Americanos. Gentlemen, it’s a target rich environment.
    We socialize at least monthly with these couples. During my single years they were a great resource.
    What no one will tell you is they check us out closer than you may realize. From the shoes you are wearing to your haircut, it’s been a real eye opener.
    Their husbands are my fishing and diving buddies. They’ve been married to American women before. In their opinion, gringas aren’t that interested in intimacy and when it does happen they act like they are doing you a favor. It’s the opposite with Latinas. They like it more than once a day and seem to enjoy it so much they are begging for it a few hours later. You become the pursued, not the pursuer.

  • @AFocusedLiving
    @AFocusedLiving Год назад +2

    I'm going to share this video to mutual subsrcribers

  • @kisms8590
    @kisms8590 10 месяцев назад +1

    It's remarkable how a local mentions he will control everythibg his gf does and goes, and checks on her. Is that a reciprocal relationship, sounds one of obsessions. The only reason why woman would accept these conditions, is if they use the guy for upwards mobility.

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  9 месяцев назад

      Fair comments. Thanks for watching! Brgds, Mr.T

    • @GingerDaddy444
      @GingerDaddy444 5 месяцев назад

      Wrong, they have a very promiscuous culture. Keeping tabs is a little overboard but a woman that respects her man should have no problem with checking in and open communication, regardless of taking advantage. Trust is earned not given.

  • @Karma52
    @Karma52 Год назад +1

    necesito, necesito, necesito

  • @yb6139
    @yb6139 9 месяцев назад +1

    These same games are being played in the states.

    • @Lee-g8h
      @Lee-g8h 3 месяца назад

      Absolutely

  • @dvsdvs04
    @dvsdvs04 Год назад +3

    A very sad reality of the cultural minds on the island, even as late as 2023...could this level of mentality be washed out in the current or next generation?

  • @سکوتساحل
    @سکوتساحل 3 месяца назад +1

    John ❤❤❤

  • @markoramovic1093
    @markoramovic1093 Год назад +1

    What does he mean by "Campo"?

    • @BoredAndBrowsing
      @BoredAndBrowsing Год назад +2

      I think campo means country, like the countryside. You generally find better women who are more wife material in the countryside than the city. This is assuming what he meant by campo.

    • @EducatedTraveler
      @EducatedTraveler  Год назад +1

      countryside, village type of settlement... away from towns and cities

    • @rubencordoba8306
      @rubencordoba8306 9 месяцев назад

      country side

  • @kennethherring3894
    @kennethherring3894 Год назад +2

    Best advice never marry a Dominican! 😮it’s not a joke! 😅enjoy yourself and keep it moving!

    • @daniellewarren8198
      @daniellewarren8198 8 месяцев назад

      Why?

    • @GingerDaddy444
      @GingerDaddy444 5 месяцев назад

      Not good advice. Just heavily vet them. That's like saying don't marry any woman, because they all have the same inherent nature, and can cheat at the drop of a hat. DR has the most beautiful women in my opinion and they treat men very well if you find the right one. Not the same brainwashed feminist culture like the US.