This man fumbled the love of his life for fear of what his friends would think… and those “friends” faded away as soon as he moved on from school. Awful.
This scene shook me so much. He is a true gift to the acting world. He makes you feel every bit of his hurt ache pain frustration sadness happiness in this series. I cried smiled frowned felt his gut wrenching pain in the therapy Scene. I’m so upset they aren’t making a season 2
I agree with everything except I don’t share your disappointment over the fact that there will be no season 2. I am so glad they aren’t going forward with it. The one season was/is perfection. So many things in life are unclear and uncertain, so ending it where they did was, I think, pretty great. It’s not hard to imagine that they will always be a part of each other’s lives no matter what, so we don’t necessarily have to see them going back and forth for another entire season.
I totally understand his feelings here, and the guilt. Not that I have been there but imagine the love of your life not experiencing the HS ball bc you did not invite them, knowing it only happened once in your teenage life. It felt like he took it away from her.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the inclusion of the final song in this video? The scene is already so great, but the segue into the credits with Only You destroyed me.
Like Connell I fucked it up over and over again with someone I was clearly in love with. But I just couldn’t press the button and show my love for them like I know I can. This love story is so realistic. x
This scene hits home for me right now because the love of my life is on a break with me, because of something I did. Normal People was our show and I just rewatched this scene and I'm crying. I can't talk to anyone else like I talk to her and I'm devastated. I really hope things go on the positive side for us again.
@@anubhavsharma1057 i totally forgot about this comment, i wouldn't say we're fine, but we're at a much better place than we were at 11 months ago, but there's still a long way to go, i hope things turn around for you and your special one too !!
@@Ms.Yana83 Absolutely, and it was the first time Connell actually let his true feelings out and apologized to Marianne. Later on he apologized to her again even though I feel like this scene was far more impactful and meaningful. After he apologized to her in university, it would've been a nice moment for her to bring up this voicemail, but nope...it's almost like it never happened.
tbh in my mind marianne never heard this voicemail... 💔 she was avoiding his calls and texts so i imagine she never heard this confession or knew how broken and sorry he was, which was why she was hesitant to reach out and be friends again in Trinity i’m just breaking my own heart now hahaha 😭
While it would have been gratifying to see, I think it demonstrates the miscommunications that can happen between people in real life. It’s so damn accurate.
connell cries in the exact same manner as myself so this scene has always been really powerful to me. the sudden bursts of sobbing breaking through the effort to hold it all back, hiding your eyes almost out of shame, the spasms at the corner of the mouth which you are helpless to control. paul mescal is really something.
This is goes so beautifully with the Skype scene when you think about it. From her not picking up the phone to her staying there with him all night over call.
I've been through like this. I was scared to face my authentic self and push someone away who loved me more than everyone. The emotional breakdown wasn't one time after our breakup and still have. Every time I see this scene, I feel that I see myself again. I wanted to say sorry to cote my guilt but I didn't .I deserve to feel bad for my wrong doing .
God this was literally me a week ago, I messaged her last night, she said she might be moving away. I hope she doesn't and I hope we start talking again.
The reason this show is so damn is bc it is real. No relationship is perfect, no human being is perfect and the bs we see in most RomComs or on IG is really just BS. Try your best, make mistakes, be kind to yourselves and no matter what you deserve love.
şu diziyi yaklaşık 1.5 sene önce seninle tanıştığımız sıralarda keşfetmıştım. Gözümde öyle bir yere sahıptı ki bunu ne sensız ızlemeyle ne de uzaktan ızlemeye feda edebılırdım. Neden bılmıyorum ama ızlerken hem gülüceğimiz hem ağlayacağımız hem ilişkimize bir noktada katkıda bulunur dıye geçiriyordum aklımdan. Bunun gibi bir kaç dizi ve filmde de bunu dusunuyordum ve hala kafamdaki en güzelleri seninle izlemek ıcın bekletıyorum. Bir de seninle konustuğumuz sıralarda sana bır tweet atmıstım hatırlıyorsan ve şöyle yazıyordu 'Bir şeyi gerçekten isterseniz, bütün evren onu gerçekleştirmek için iş birliği yapar.'. Sen de bunun uzerıne daha ne kadar ıstıyebılırız özlemımızden kafayı yedık tarzı bır sey demıstın ve gulusmustuk.. diyiceğim şu ki ben gerçekten buna çok ınanıyorum. bu bır gun sonra olur bır hafta sonra olur ne zaman ve ne sekilde olur bılmıyorum ama hayatın bir noktasında yollarımız kesınlesınlıkle kesecek. bu kesiti de yenı gördüm ve o kadar cok ıcım sızladı kı gerçekten öylece kalakaldım ekranın basında. Çünkü defalarca telefonu şu şekılde ağlayarak elıme alıp tam arıyıcakken bıraktığımı bılıyorum. Mesela dün istanbulda deprem oldu ve kadar çok korktum kı kalbim yerınden çıkıcaktı sana bır sey oldu dıye ama gelıp de soramadım. Tam telefonu elıme aldım ve sonra bırden aklıma geldı.. Kısacası hala sana bır sey olmasından cok korkuyorum , hala hiç yokkken bile üzerine asırı tıtrıyorum çünkü üzülmenı ıstemıyorum. Ve yemın ederım ki şuan mesaj atmyıorsam bu asla gurur yaptığımdan değil, senı uzmemek ıcın . yoksa ben 2.gün sensiz uyandığımda gunaydın dıye mesaj atıcak bır vazıyeetteydım... kendımı gunluk dısında böyle yerlerde anlatmayı sevıyorum. gunluğumdekılerı bırgun ben ıstersem görebiliceksin ama burda bıraktığım şeylerı belki tesadüfle belki rastlantı sonucu bir şekilde görüceksın ve hangı gun saat kaçta ne hıssetmısım bunu bılıceksın. o yüzden böyle şeyler bana çok güzel geliyor. E bu kadar okuduysan da son minik bir şey daha diyim ve uçim. Sen hala benım ballı kadayıfımsın ve hala fotoğrafına her baktığımda ıstemsızce suratını öpüyorum. Aramızdakı bağın öylesine gelip geçici bir şey olmadığını da bılıyorum. Çok uzatmadan seni çok seviyorum minik civcivim benım. kendine iyi bak ve ORTADA BULUSALIM. hayır güvercinlerin olduğu yer değil.... (şimdilik değil*)
Please reach out for help if you feel you need to, please remember that you as a person are so valid and you have an amazing life ahead of you no matter how it may feel or look right now, there is help out there and it will always be available to you and you are so deserving of it. I hope with my whole heart you are feeling better and reach out if you need
I despise *THIS SCENE!* w/every ounce of my soul.😅 Laughing. . .but seriously - I truly hate how this man was treated half the series & this scene was a testament to how wrong Marianne & his mother were. Decent show, tho!
@@denisjohnson8198 he was a coward. He got himself into this situation. It was justified. Marianne has enough to deal with without him messing her around
What? He was awful to Marianne in this episode and throughout school, he was too worried about what other people thought that he was willing to humiliate and upset Marianne just to keep her a secret.
@@chloesmith5142 Nah - that didn’t happen. You were watching thru Marianne’s emotional eyes & w/the experience of being a female yourself. IN TRUTH: “They” decided not to tell everyone at school. “They” decided to keep ‘them’ a secret. You can’t change how you feel & be mad ‘cuz someone stuck w/the original plan. . .& let’s be clear: Marianna wasn’t shy, quiet or misunderstood. Connell was. Marianne was a MONSTER to every human being she interacted with at that school. She wasn’t an outcast ‘cuz she was poor or ugly - she was a complete (fillintheblank) to everyone, teachers included. No one did & no one should have wanted to be around her at school. That was her fault. Go back & watch the first episode again. Connell went out of his way to compliment Marianne in the discussion w/his mom about test scores. His mom caught that. Then, he waited behind to engage her (of his own volition). His mom caught that, as well, b/c she had to wait for him in the car. What does she launch into with zero provocation? ((talks about him rushing out, even though he stayed behind to chat with Marianne)) Her: “You could’ve said goodbye, you know?” Him: “I did.” Her: “She doesn’t exactly have an easy time of it, Connell. You could try being a bit nicer to her.” Him: “I am nice to her!” Her: “She’s actually a very sensitive person.” 🤣WTF?! So, just like many of you are doing - it’s just a “girl” thing cuz y’all are rooting on Marianne & this moron-of-a-mother who was more interested in “girl power” than being a parent. It was disgusting & shameful, but the shame fell on a male. . .& that’s why y’all adore it so much. It’s okay to admit. He still came out on top. #FeminismDestroysFemales
This scene still breaks my heart
I think about this scene randomly all the time
@@millennialstray4215 I watched this show around the start of the pandemic, and over a year later I still watch this scene and cry
What episode is this btw?
My second one break heart one , the first one for me his therapy session
@@dhavibes8280 ep 3 or 4
Paul Mescal is a damn revelation in this show, this and the therapy scene are fantastic.
Have you seen him in Aftersun?
His breakdown is when I became officially hooked on the series. It was so unexpected that I had to rewatch that part multiple times. 😭
The book is so beautifully written
This man fumbled the love of his life for fear of what his friends would think… and those “friends” faded away as soon as he moved on from school. Awful.
yet it happens all the time. that's why this series is so good
Well he had anxiety problem, even in his 20s it got worse
This scene shook me so much. He is a true gift to the acting world. He makes you feel every bit of his hurt ache pain frustration sadness happiness in this series. I cried smiled frowned felt his gut wrenching pain in the therapy
Scene. I’m so upset they aren’t making a season 2
I agree with everything except I don’t share your disappointment over the fact that there will be no season 2. I am so glad they aren’t going forward with it. The one season was/is perfection. So many things in life are unclear and uncertain, so ending it where they did was, I think, pretty great. It’s not hard to imagine that they will always be a part of each other’s lives no matter what, so we don’t necessarily have to see them going back and forth for another entire season.
I mean, the director said there's a possibility of them doing a second season in 5 years time. But, I wouldn't hold out too much hope.
i mean the book finishes there, same as the series. i suppose that's why they don't make s2
" I can't really talk to anybody the way I talk to you" thats how I know I like and I love someone... damn
This scene, deserves an award alone
I totally understand his feelings here, and the guilt. Not that I have been there but imagine the love of your life not experiencing the HS ball bc you did not invite them, knowing it only happened once in your teenage life. It felt like he took it away from her.
Irish actors and actresses, in my humble opinion, has been always amazing. A true gift from this new generation.
I couldn’t tell how I felt watching this scene for the first time
I feel your pain, man. A lot of us have been there.
After all the secrets and lies and thought of what people would think and pain it was all for nothing.
Paul Mescal deserves all the awards ❤ what a talented man.
This entire show connected with me so much and it hit so many spots
"I really love you, Marianne" Paul Mescal is amazing.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the inclusion of the final song in this video? The scene is already so great, but the segue into the credits with Only You destroyed me.
Like Connell I fucked it up over and over again with someone I was clearly in love with. But I just couldn’t press the button and show my love for them like I know I can.
This love story is so realistic. x
This scene hits home for me right now because the love of my life is on a break with me, because of something I did. Normal People was our show and I just rewatched this scene and I'm crying. I can't talk to anyone else like I talk to her and I'm devastated. I really hope things go on the positive side for us again.
Same man i also did something which can be fixed but she wants space right now and am dying to talk to her as we used to
@@anubhavsharma1057 i totally forgot about this comment, i wouldn't say we're fine, but we're at a much better place than we were at 11 months ago, but there's still a long way to go, i hope things turn around for you and your special one too !!
@@SPAKASH I hope things gets better pal!! Love isnt simple, it takes time
@@SPAKASH damn dude, you must have done something really bad if she's still mad a year later
@@SPAKASH is it better now mate?
This scene is my kryptonite
Dexter calling Emma at the train station in ‘One Day’ reminded me so much of this scene. Both wonderfully heartbreaking 💔
Not even close
I hate how this was never addressed by either of them later...they could have at the very least shown Marianne listen to this voicemail.
so true !
Agreed because we know she probably saved it and listened to it 100 times. I know I would have lol
@@Ms.Yana83 Absolutely, and it was the first time Connell actually let his true feelings out and apologized to Marianne. Later on he apologized to her again even though I feel like this scene was far more impactful and meaningful. After he apologized to her in university, it would've been a nice moment for her to bring up this voicemail, but nope...it's almost like it never happened.
tbh in my mind marianne never heard this voicemail... 💔 she was avoiding his calls and texts so i imagine she never heard this confession or knew how broken and sorry he was, which was why she was hesitant to reach out and be friends again in Trinity
i’m just breaking my own heart now hahaha 😭
While it would have been gratifying to see, I think it demonstrates the miscommunications that can happen between people in real life. It’s so damn accurate.
you kept me like a secret but i kept you like an oath
when I heard "Only You", I started sobbing ever harder.
pov: you ruined the best relationship of your life
paul mescal cries, i cry
One of the best series i have ever seen. Top drawer. ❤😢😢
I've been there. I relate.
connell cries in the exact same manner as myself so this scene has always been really powerful to me. the sudden bursts of sobbing breaking through the effort to hold it all back, hiding your eyes almost out of shame, the spasms at the corner of the mouth which you are helpless to control. paul mescal is really something.
My favorite scene. Absolutely perfect.
He is absolutely brilliant isn't he. So natural, so incredible.
He is really like me I am happy he found someone who could guide him and listen to him for him to understand his emotions
This is goes so beautifully with the Skype scene when you think about it. From her not picking up the phone to her staying there with him all night over call.
I've been through like this. I was scared to face my authentic self and push someone away who loved me more than everyone. The emotional breakdown wasn't one time after our breakup and still have. Every time I see this scene, I feel that I see myself again. I wanted to say sorry to cote my guilt but I didn't .I deserve to feel bad for my wrong doing .
Kalbimi bıraktığım yer
Serves him right.
This show.. got me.
This would never now break my heart
This scene broke me.
Had it coming
My heart 💔💔💔💔💔💔😔😔
God this was literally me a week ago, I messaged her last night, she said she might be moving away. I hope she doesn't and I hope we start talking again.
this fucking scene broke me
이 장면 존내 슬프자네...ㅠㅜ
Only you - Yazoo
this scene wow
The reason this show is so damn is bc it is real. No relationship is perfect, no human being is perfect and the bs we see in most RomComs or on IG is really just BS. Try your best, make mistakes, be kind to yourselves and no matter what you deserve love.
POV: you ruined your relationship
The song name is Only You it was in the soundtrack of 13 reasons why
Yeah Selena Gomez
This is a classic Yaz (or Yazoo) song from the 80s. Glad younger people are getting exposed to it, Yaz was great.
şu diziyi yaklaşık 1.5 sene önce seninle tanıştığımız sıralarda keşfetmıştım. Gözümde öyle bir yere sahıptı ki bunu ne sensız ızlemeyle ne de uzaktan ızlemeye feda edebılırdım. Neden bılmıyorum ama ızlerken hem gülüceğimiz hem ağlayacağımız hem ilişkimize bir noktada katkıda bulunur dıye geçiriyordum aklımdan. Bunun gibi bir kaç dizi ve filmde de bunu dusunuyordum ve hala kafamdaki en güzelleri seninle izlemek ıcın bekletıyorum. Bir de seninle konustuğumuz sıralarda sana bır tweet atmıstım hatırlıyorsan ve şöyle yazıyordu 'Bir şeyi gerçekten isterseniz, bütün evren onu gerçekleştirmek için iş birliği yapar.'. Sen de bunun uzerıne daha ne kadar ıstıyebılırız özlemımızden kafayı yedık tarzı bır sey demıstın ve gulusmustuk.. diyiceğim şu ki ben gerçekten buna çok ınanıyorum. bu bır gun sonra olur bır hafta sonra olur ne zaman ve ne sekilde olur bılmıyorum ama hayatın bir noktasında yollarımız kesınlesınlıkle kesecek. bu kesiti de yenı gördüm ve o kadar cok ıcım sızladı kı gerçekten öylece kalakaldım ekranın basında. Çünkü defalarca telefonu şu şekılde ağlayarak elıme alıp tam arıyıcakken bıraktığımı bılıyorum. Mesela dün istanbulda deprem oldu ve kadar çok korktum kı kalbim yerınden çıkıcaktı sana bır sey oldu dıye ama gelıp de soramadım. Tam telefonu elıme aldım ve sonra bırden aklıma geldı.. Kısacası hala sana bır sey olmasından cok korkuyorum , hala hiç yokkken bile üzerine asırı tıtrıyorum çünkü üzülmenı ıstemıyorum. Ve yemın ederım ki şuan mesaj atmyıorsam bu asla gurur yaptığımdan değil, senı uzmemek ıcın . yoksa ben 2.gün sensiz uyandığımda gunaydın dıye mesaj atıcak bır vazıyeetteydım... kendımı gunluk dısında böyle yerlerde anlatmayı sevıyorum. gunluğumdekılerı bırgun ben ıstersem görebiliceksin ama burda bıraktığım şeylerı belki tesadüfle belki rastlantı sonucu bir şekilde görüceksın ve hangı gun saat kaçta ne hıssetmısım bunu bılıceksın. o yüzden böyle şeyler bana çok güzel geliyor. E bu kadar okuduysan da son minik bir şey daha diyim ve uçim. Sen hala benım ballı kadayıfımsın ve hala fotoğrafına her baktığımda ıstemsızce suratını öpüyorum. Aramızdakı bağın öylesine gelip geçici bir şey olmadığını da bılıyorum. Çok uzatmadan seni çok seviyorum minik civcivim benım. kendine iyi bak ve ORTADA BULUSALIM. hayır güvercinlerin olduğu yer değil.... (şimdilik değil*)
aga.. same here..
Also same bro...
❤
Everyone have been there Connell, please go home
That was sad ..
What was he crying over
@@michellerooney5607 he ruined his relationship
çok başka
😭
…❤
Noo😭😭😭
What's the song at the end? Cant find it
Only You by Yazoo
Just look up the lyrics you hear, like fx “looking from the window above”, if you can’t find a song.
13 reasons why have same song.its by selena gomez "only you"
@@mohammedshafiqulislam7334 That’s a cover of the original by Yazoo
In
So sad
Brother please tell me which episode?
Its episode 3
Qual o nome da música do final
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Only You by Yaz.
I can't be here anymore
Please reach out for help if you feel you need to, please remember that you as a person are so valid and you have an amazing life ahead of you no matter how it may feel or look right now, there is help out there and it will always be available to you and you are so deserving of it. I hope with my whole heart you are feeling better and reach out if you need
@@elizabourke3839 thank you Eliza❤️ means a lot and I'm felling better now❤️
@@farahmahmoud6655 No worries please never forget it, and I am so happy to hear that ! :)
@@elizabourke3839 thank you❤️❤️
What episode was this again
3
Ele percebendo o quão idiota foi com ela.
🥲🤧🥲
ERKEKLİĞİN ŞANINDADIR ŞÖYLE mentalbreakdownlar..
How can the English go to school
Fuck
She literally told him before they kissed that she didn’t mind their relationship being a secret ffs what was her problem
I despise *THIS SCENE!* w/every ounce of my soul.😅 Laughing. . .but seriously - I truly hate how this man was treated half the series & this scene was a testament to how wrong Marianne & his mother were.
Decent show, tho!
He was in the wrong and he deserves this
@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 nope.
@@denisjohnson8198 he was a coward. He got himself into this situation. It was justified. Marianne has enough to deal with without him messing her around
What? He was awful to Marianne in this episode and throughout school, he was too worried about what other people thought that he was willing to humiliate and upset Marianne just to keep her a secret.
@@chloesmith5142 Nah - that didn’t happen. You were watching thru Marianne’s emotional eyes & w/the experience of being a female yourself. IN TRUTH: “They” decided not to tell everyone at school. “They” decided to keep ‘them’ a secret. You can’t change how you feel & be mad ‘cuz someone stuck w/the original plan. . .& let’s be clear:
Marianna wasn’t shy, quiet or misunderstood. Connell was. Marianne was a MONSTER to every human being she interacted with at that school. She wasn’t an outcast ‘cuz she was poor or ugly - she was a complete (fillintheblank) to everyone, teachers included. No one did & no one should have wanted to be around her at school. That was her fault.
Go back & watch the first episode again. Connell went out of his way to compliment Marianne in the discussion w/his mom about test scores. His mom caught that. Then, he waited behind to engage her (of his own volition). His mom caught that, as well, b/c she had to wait for him in the car. What does she launch into with zero provocation?
((talks about him rushing out, even though he stayed behind to chat with Marianne))
Her: “You could’ve said goodbye, you know?”
Him: “I did.”
Her: “She doesn’t exactly have an easy time of it, Connell. You could try being a bit nicer to her.”
Him: “I am nice to her!”
Her: “She’s actually a very sensitive person.”
🤣WTF?! So, just like many of you are doing - it’s just a “girl” thing cuz y’all are rooting on Marianne & this moron-of-a-mother who was more interested in “girl power” than being a parent. It was disgusting & shameful, but the shame fell on a male. . .& that’s why y’all adore it so much. It’s okay to admit. He still came out on top. #FeminismDestroysFemales
😭