Professional Dating Coach Rates Our Online Dating Profiles | RATED Ep.5

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  • Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
  • Many of us have dabbled in online dating apps, but is there a way to improve your visibility and get quality matches?
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  • @TheSmartLocal
    @TheSmartLocal  2 года назад +34

    Hope you guys enjoyed the video! If you have your own advice, feel free to share in the comments below. As everyone has different opinions on relationships and dating, please keep this comment section a positive learning environment for everyone.

  • @beckham48
    @beckham48 2 года назад +156

    Jes is comfortable in her own skin and is very confident With herself

    • @joyced4691
      @joyced4691 2 года назад +1

      @@beckham48 not saying she isn't I'm just trying to joke around don't take it too seriously :)

  • @HuLittlemissbrenda
    @HuLittlemissbrenda 2 года назад +211

    The coach should totally try out the apps! Her advice doesn’t seem to address the main problems of dating apps. The ghosting culture is sooo real man. The way ppl connect these days are just so different. Relationships grow and end at an incredible pace. People are becoming disposable, because new ones are easier to find, and relationships are easier to build. It only takes a swipe, a match and a short chat.

    • @mkpehlaki
      @mkpehlaki 2 года назад +10

      'Relationships grow and end at at an incredible pace. People are becoming disposable, because new ones are easier to find and relationships are easier to build.'
      Best advices compared to whatever the coach have said. So true especially when you are using all these apps. Which is why success rate for dating apps is low. Go old school, walk up to a lady or wing man your buddy. These relationships are way different because you're working one at a time and not all at once.

    • @head0fmob
      @head0fmob 2 года назад +2

      It's all about your looks girl or boy, same as going out in real life. Better spend on plastic surgery for real return.

  • @awkwardsmile
    @awkwardsmile 2 года назад +37

    I think the lady raised a lot of good points. Very straight to the point and useful. I totally agree with the tip on meeting after texting a bit. The point of dating is to meet in person and connect. Not to connect over texting.. Modern dating has ruined a lot of good things.

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 2 года назад +75

    Also totally disagree with the dating coach on jes’s pics - I love all of Jess’s photos!!!! Shows her style

  • @hamburger_milkshake1585
    @hamburger_milkshake1585 2 года назад +147

    Actually everyone in the video had very nice photos. Even rainer who only have 2 pictures. You should see the photos of some guys on dating apps… it’s either pics from like 7-8 years ago when they were in army, blurry pix, group photos where you don’t know who to look at, or just bad unflattering photos

    • @Serperi0r
      @Serperi0r 2 года назад +6

      I think because they are content creators, that's why the photos are better and more on the artsy side

  • @LittleMiss0926
    @LittleMiss0926 2 года назад +52

    She has some good points but some I don’t agree. If Rainer is not looking for a serious relationship and his character is not serious or sexy than portraying himself that way would be catch fish and attracting the type of girls that are not compatible with him.

  • @meluvcats
    @meluvcats 2 года назад +159

    I would totally wanna hang out with Sangeeta if I were a straight man. She seems like a ball of fun and I don't care if she seemed like she talks too much. I'd rather meet someone who's spontaneous than an orchestra of crickets.

  • @spiltmatchaa
    @spiltmatchaa 2 года назад +49

    rainier WHAT ABOUT RENAE?

  • @eitherway_8r9
    @eitherway_8r9 2 года назад +13

    disagree from the start when she said girls shouldn't put they're looking for a serious relationship because they'll scare away guys. that's literally the point of putting that???

  • @mkpehlaki
    @mkpehlaki 2 года назад +48

    Never was a fan of this dating coach in all the videos she was featured in. Don't mean to be rude but I don't think her advices fits us (29 here). Her advices would fit those really traditional formal match making kind of thing. Also pretty sure most people use these apps just for casual fun and interactions (especially with these lockdowns and WFH) so don't put your hopes too high that you'll find the love of your life there.

    • @fearlighte
      @fearlighte 2 года назад +6

      i'm 23 and i agree that a portion of her advice does not reflect the reality of online dating, although there were also a few valid pointers here and there :^) alsooo a lot of people use these for casual fun but from experience there actually is a lot of potential for serious relationships on dating apps like tinder if you use it correctlyy

    • @jaywai755
      @jaywai755 2 года назад +4

      Agreed, in the previous video on guessing who the real couple is, she was so bad that she basically smashed her own signboard during the show. Too many self proclaimed experts everywhere these days, from property to investment and now dating, lol.

    • @Xxxxxxxxxxcxccc
      @Xxxxxxxxxxcxccc 2 года назад

      ya sia, feel like she damn traditional

    • @potatoes3212
      @potatoes3212 2 года назад

      She's too dreamy.... Like these days dating app is so diff.... And ppl using it are also diff

  • @gen6555
    @gen6555 2 года назад +5

    hii i love yall vids

  • @dreamlax203
    @dreamlax203 2 года назад +5

    Someone ever said: Tell me more about yourself. And it felt like going for a job interview :/

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 2 года назад +14

    Um I love Lery’s food pic it’s hilarious!

  • @joylee007
    @joylee007 2 года назад +5

    How any of them are single I cannot understand, they all seem really great

  • @omarzaifulizan3064
    @omarzaifulizan3064 2 года назад +14

    Bruh rainier is 30?! I thought he was at most 25 lol

  • @KeyserTheRedBeard
    @KeyserTheRedBeard 2 года назад +1

    amazing upload TheSmartLocal. I smashed that thumbs up on your video. Keep up the solid work.

  • @kimberlylong640
    @kimberlylong640 2 года назад +60

    wtf she was so mean to rainier, you could tell he was so sad. the lady should find better word choices instead of saying such mean things man.

  • @ariel3725
    @ariel3725 2 года назад +19

    I also am like Rainier, I only install the apps when I'm out of the country. But I only use them for hookups lol

  • @RobertHeslop
    @RobertHeslop 2 года назад +8

    Hold the phone, Rainer went to Newcastle University, as in, in the UK? That's my hometown...

  • @getfitwithnicol
    @getfitwithnicol 2 года назад +7

    Love Sangee’s new hair and her profile! So her!

  • @AiWaWawa
    @AiWaWawa 2 года назад +8

    Aikk Rainer not with Renae? I hope each other still be a best friend.

  • @adelinetay7178
    @adelinetay7178 2 года назад +3

    Rainier is so so handsome!!!! 100% would have superliked!!!

  • @maedaydreamer8386
    @maedaydreamer8386 2 года назад +2

    I agree that the best place to enable the dating app is oversees😂

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 2 года назад +19

    Sangeeta is so pretty n bubbly💜🤞. She'll get many suitors 🥰

  • @kerlowee
    @kerlowee 2 года назад +1

    rainer looks like he was about to cry :((((( hope he's ok!

  • @jessical3038
    @jessical3038 2 года назад

    Good advices given

  • @secretvguilongzxc0520
    @secretvguilongzxc0520 2 года назад +7

    if i saw rainer, i would totally super liked haha

  • @ywta9227
    @ywta9227 2 года назад +17

    Dang, Rainier looks damn good in the pics. Lol.

  • @vanlimm5
    @vanlimm5 2 года назад +4

    Jes so funny haha

  • @Breadca
    @Breadca 2 года назад +1

    Omg Lery is from BSU?!

  • @LWL-sz5lh
    @LWL-sz5lh 2 года назад +27

    Sadly chris is not in this video. :(

  • @icelemon6085
    @icelemon6085 2 года назад +16

    See a guy name "Rainier"
    Me: TRAITOR!
    If you don't get the reference.. welp

  • @MagicalKid
    @MagicalKid 2 года назад +23

    It's funny there's no mention of Grindr because the criteria for profile photos are different, you need to have at least one shirtless pic 😂.

    • @15icyfire
      @15icyfire 2 года назад +2

      Well, I saw a cast from this video that uses Grindr ;)

  • @GaT-ik8mn
    @GaT-ik8mn 2 года назад

    Why don’t TSL start a dating app? It’ll be so cool!

  • @charmingsmiles
    @charmingsmiles 2 года назад +1

    i don't mind dating Rainier~ :P

  • @Whitedarkish
    @Whitedarkish 2 года назад +6

    Rainier and sangee probably didn’t need to be in this video

  • @Mr4evergdragon
    @Mr4evergdragon 2 года назад +24

    Bruh how is jes single, i would kill to date her

    • @getfitwithnicol
      @getfitwithnicol 2 года назад +1

      Hahaah hope she sees this!

    • @head0fmob
      @head0fmob 2 года назад +3

      virtue signalling at it's finest

    • @bertlander
      @bertlander Год назад

      Hard to imagine romance with a tomboy

  • @Jxnjy
    @Jxnjy 2 года назад +3

    I thought Jes looked really good in the photos tho 🤚😓

  • @Bernardjytan
    @Bernardjytan 2 года назад +9

    For a start, become handsome or pretty.
    If not pose with animals.
    Punch line list out your hobbies or tell a joke.

  • @peejays6301
    @peejays6301 2 года назад +2

    hi amandaaa

  • @lanaitgirl
    @lanaitgirl 2 года назад

    hi rainier pls use hinge and find my friend‘s profile

  • @Karma-wh6qb
    @Karma-wh6qb 2 года назад

    Wait i tot rainier and renee were tgt??

  • @potatoes3212
    @potatoes3212 2 года назад

    #selfClaimed"DATINGCOACH"
    her advice is like zaman dahulu advice 😂
    I liked lerrys and jess photos no prob tho.

  • @user-hp2pt3db5y
    @user-hp2pt3db5y 2 года назад

    Any dating site recommendation please

  • @enjoyinglifeish
    @enjoyinglifeish 2 года назад

    I honestly agree with everything the dating coach said.

  • @bubbletea5097
    @bubbletea5097 2 года назад +5

    15:43 angle , great video neverthelessss

  • @farisazman5376
    @farisazman5376 2 года назад +3

    The lady in the pink pants very pretty what is her IG?

  • @itzpeijia4718
    @itzpeijia4718 2 года назад

    helllooooooooooooooooo :D

  • @peejays6301
    @peejays6301 2 года назад +1

    1??

  • @ABC-ed8cg
    @ABC-ed8cg 2 года назад +4

    ‘I like the ambiguity, U’re straightforward yet no BS’?
    I don’t think the dating coach knows what’s she’s saying..
    The feedback she gave came from her own perspective. I disagree that the topless pict of the guy is attractive. An open gesture is good but many ladies like myself don’t like in-your-face profile photos like these. A more subtle pict showing depth of character is more important.
    It’s also the same reason why I don’t use Tinder as it’s based purely on appearances. Other dating apps allow one to fill up fields that showcase your unique personality. A guy who leaves the fields empty or who doesn’t have anything interesting/witty to fill in speaks a lot of his bland & nonchalant personality.

  • @angoonyeekaylas2-069
    @angoonyeekaylas2-069 2 года назад +2

    oooOOOoOOOooooOoOOooooooo

  • @leechong2291
    @leechong2291 2 года назад +9

    WE STILL STAN 🛳️ RAINAE4EVER ❤️. Hahhahhahh 😍

  • @deannad8554
    @deannad8554 2 года назад +1

    I may be overthinking but I think the BMI comment was really unnecessary and out of place?

    • @bertlander
      @bertlander Год назад

      It does matter. Some people look good closeup but not full length.

  • @auudacity8335
    @auudacity8335 2 года назад

    10th

  • @wantstolearnsheng
    @wantstolearnsheng 2 года назад +1

    Suppp

  • @shanebleu7742
    @shanebleu7742 2 года назад

    I really want to date the dating coach...She hot! 😍

  • @maedaydreamer8386
    @maedaydreamer8386 2 года назад

    Rainer!! I am just 1yr older than you!!! Hahaha just saying

  • @farisjaafar3640
    @farisjaafar3640 2 года назад +2

    Rainer single?

  • @a.k.8727
    @a.k.8727 2 года назад +3

    The best advice for our current generation of young men out there.. cut this online dating crap and approach women in person.

  • @junjunx1989
    @junjunx1989 2 года назад +9

    Either use the term "other half" or " gender neutral "terms for everyone or not use it all . If not it is easy to tell just to be fair to the people featured in this video.

  • @snsdjerry
    @snsdjerry 2 года назад +1

    San is hwat

  • @annievon4631
    @annievon4631 2 года назад

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  • @vanillasoftworks6876
    @vanillasoftworks6876 Год назад

    Why dating apps are for losers who can't manned up and approach people in real life - If a man be truly confident, charismatic, with good communication skills, he could talk to anyone anywhere. Why would he be on a dating app in the first place? Why is he hiding behind a dating app?