When I realized that I was spending the vast majority of my paycheck to manage my health issues that are exacerbated by work. I didn’t have enough money left over to pay for services in regards to my brain and mental health. I’m lucky to have a fully supportive partner. It was in this time we learned that I’m AuDHD and I would never notify my employer of any of my private diagnoses let alone a stigmatised one. My doctors note’s asked for things like “a chair with lumbar support and arm rests”.
Know your worth. We have been in a skilled labor shortage for over a decade. When someone at work is toxic, especially a superior the people who are not used to abuse leave and the ones left behind either decline in mental health or decide they can abuse others also until the entire workplace is hell.
Yeah, I'm just swinging through Indeed every so often now. Just in case something else pops up. I'm also a recent/late diagnosis and connected with others from Mom on the Spectrum and yeah... they confirmed that it's either not much help to put it on the record, or some people make it worse with gaslighting, or they treat you with kid gloves like you're a toddler. Not worth mentioning. Thanks for your perspective and hanging out!
Hi Holly? l`m new here, l found l needed a Car 4 my job & My job 4 my Car. So l let -em both go, it was the best thing l could have done 4 myself ! CHEERS
Hi! New here. Sorry you're going through this. I've been struggling with a toxic work environment also, and I keep suffering through it because it's difficult to find something in my area that makes more/the same/even slightly less than what I'm making. I feel like I'm constantly recovering from working in that environment, and it's just not worth sacrificing my mental health for the money, but at the same time I need to survive monetarily! If this job is causing you mental trauma/triggering you, in my opinion it isn't worth your energy. It doesn't hurt to look on indeed and job hunt to see if there's stuff out there that might be more beneficial to your mental health. Good luck out there!
Thanks for stopping by! It's so unfortunate this is not a "one off" and others have to deal with nonsense. Best wishes - hopefully the right thing comes along. I'll keep my eyes peeled but I dunno. I do enjoy hybrid and that part helps. We'll see...
I don’t think anyone in the work place should be yelling and screaming at another employee. Does that come under harassment or something, I can’t think of. Hope it all works out for you. Your seem like a very kind person Holly. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Diana. 💜 I was really irritated when the only reason I missed an "outstanding" rating is because of the "opportunity to be more resilient." Meanwhile she got promoted from VP to Executive VP??? It's nuts. And I called off today because partly I was having a bit of stomach upset from a medication change but mostly because my boss wants me to supervise a temporary to hopefully permanent employee. Which on the surface sounds like a great opportunity. Until she started lobbying our VP yesterday to get a candidate what works out to $4 more per hour than what I make. My flabbers were unbelievably ghasted and I needed to rethink a LOT and decide how I'm planning to point that out.
I like your videos on both channels. Take your time, but please come back! Im so burned out, and i have no idea what my stupid channel is morphing into. Is dumpster fire a niche?
Awwww. I think my views dipped on the other largely because decluttering got the most views and I started making videos on topics *around* decluttering. Sometimes it's good to experiment because that's how my decluttering videos became more central to my channel. I did not expect it to pop like it did. I'm not leaving RUclips though!!
❔️ Thoughts ❔️ Curious about the other channel, check it out here: www.youtube.com/@ManageableLiving
When I realized that I was spending the vast majority of my paycheck to manage my health issues that are exacerbated by work. I didn’t have enough money left over to pay for services in regards to my brain and mental health. I’m lucky to have a fully supportive partner. It was in this time we learned that I’m AuDHD and I would never notify my employer of any of my private diagnoses let alone a stigmatised one. My doctors note’s asked for things like “a chair with lumbar support and arm rests”.
Know your worth. We have been in a skilled labor shortage for over a decade. When someone at work is toxic, especially a superior the people who are not used to abuse leave and the ones left behind either decline in mental health or decide they can abuse others also until the entire workplace is hell.
Yeah, I'm just swinging through Indeed every so often now. Just in case something else pops up. I'm also a recent/late diagnosis and connected with others from Mom on the Spectrum and yeah... they confirmed that it's either not much help to put it on the record, or some people make it worse with gaslighting, or they treat you with kid gloves like you're a toddler. Not worth mentioning. Thanks for your perspective and hanging out!
Hi Holly?
l`m new here,
l found l needed a Car 4 my job & My job 4 my Car.
So l let -em both go, it was the best thing l could have done 4 myself !
CHEERS
Hi and welcome! I can see that. I don't have a car note or anything, just regular bills. Glad that worked for you 💜
Life is too short to be screamed at all day! Put yourself first and leave as soon as you can.
That is true. I just hate that it's only one person that's causing problems so I'd like to think resolution is coming.
Hi! New here. Sorry you're going through this. I've been struggling with a toxic work environment also, and I keep suffering through it because it's difficult to find something in my area that makes more/the same/even slightly less than what I'm making. I feel like I'm constantly recovering from working in that environment, and it's just not worth sacrificing my mental health for the money, but at the same time I need to survive monetarily! If this job is causing you mental trauma/triggering you, in my opinion it isn't worth your energy. It doesn't hurt to look on indeed and job hunt to see if there's stuff out there that might be more beneficial to your mental health. Good luck out there!
Thanks for stopping by! It's so unfortunate this is not a "one off" and others have to deal with nonsense. Best wishes - hopefully the right thing comes along. I'll keep my eyes peeled but I dunno. I do enjoy hybrid and that part helps. We'll see...
If you have time get your resume ready then when something comes up your ready to apply.
Very true. I've been kind of stalling since then. I'll have to make time to finish updating it.
I don’t think anyone in the work place should be yelling and screaming at another employee. Does that come under harassment or something, I can’t think of. Hope it all works out for you. Your seem like a very kind person Holly. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Diana. 💜 I was really irritated when the only reason I missed an "outstanding" rating is because of the "opportunity to be more resilient." Meanwhile she got promoted from VP to Executive VP??? It's nuts. And I called off today because partly I was having a bit of stomach upset from a medication change but mostly because my boss wants me to supervise a temporary to hopefully permanent employee. Which on the surface sounds like a great opportunity. Until she started lobbying our VP yesterday to get a candidate what works out to $4 more per hour than what I make.
My flabbers were unbelievably ghasted and I needed to rethink a LOT and decide how I'm planning to point that out.
Yes! Quit! Oh... wait... i should watch the video first. ❤ i only said "quit" because i stayed at a very very toxic job for 9 years too long.
Hahaha! Fair....
dont leave a job until you have another job to go to......
Oh of course I would never leave without something else lined up.
I like your videos on both channels. Take your time, but please come back! Im so burned out, and i have no idea what my stupid channel is morphing into. Is dumpster fire a niche?
Awwww. I think my views dipped on the other largely because decluttering got the most views and I started making videos on topics *around* decluttering. Sometimes it's good to experiment because that's how my decluttering videos became more central to my channel. I did not expect it to pop like it did. I'm not leaving RUclips though!!
If you have time get your resume ready then when something comes up your ready to apply.