How feminism RUINED my life! (Girl Defined CRINGE)
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- Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025
- This video is about Girl Defined and their blog. In this video I look at their blogs about feminism and a video full of BAD reasons as to why they are not feminists.
1st Girl Defined video: • CRAZY RELIGIOUS GIRLS ...
2nd Girl Defined video: • Why I waited until MAR...
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why i waited until marriage to get married
Ahahahahahahahahahaha
@@moodyflowers8740 Lmfao
BonBonSimmer the scientist are working on it
Why i waited to have ny peirod on my period
why i waited till marriage to exist
lily lx
That is literally their blog 🤷🏻♀️😅
@Sadgi 111 that's fair, I just wish they wouldn't shame other women for having lives before their husbands
lily they are not feminists because they are stupid and lazy to live their own life that kind of anti feminist women are seeking out the sexist man to take care of them n marry with them
Cuz they believe that kind of macho sexist dick gonna protect them and they can live their life more easier
That reality is cruel
Sexist macho dick don’t love woman
They just use woman as a sex toy and servants
Well, they’re basically like the women version of Neckbeards.. say that they’ll wait for a guy and NOT go on a date or download tinder to get a date or fuck... then complain why the fuck they’re single (seriously, one of them used to date a Ukrainian guy who eventually ghosted her and probably have a new GF who’s better than her)..
How having the right to vote RUINED my life
How being able to think by myself RUINED my marriage
How men forced the right to vote on women when they didn't want it. (in the USA)
Jérémie Hanser Being forced to vote is better than to not have the right to vote altogether. Also, women have been forced to do things they didn’t want to for hundreds and thousands of years, so what’s your point? Women don’t want or appreciate the rights that they currently have?
@@leru556 im saying what you praise now as a right was once forced on women. They didn't want it, and now they wanna keep it.
Feeds the narrative of "men know what's best for women" that the feminists denounce.
I love feminist paradoxes, it's amazing.
Jérémie Hanser as a woman I can safely say that I want the right to vote. You don’t get to speak on behalf of us
"There's trash in both genders" -Angelika, 2018
I'm gonna print it on my shirt, I swear
Do it
Did you?
Clara Latino I’d buy that.
do it and put it on amazon, id buy it
Even in korea don’t talk like that don’t think like that both gender?
Most criminals and most wife murders are man
China> korea> Vietnam >> Usa uk = japan
This is the current woman right consciousnesses’s level definition
Lol
I'm a Christian but this video really resonated with me. It is toxic and damaging to tell women that their purpose in life is to find a husband, have children, and teach other women to find their worth in those two pursuits. In reality, women in the Bible are celebrated for a variety of reasons and not all of them were married or had children!!!! If these girls are going to promote 'Christian values' they should at least know what they are talking about.
Jessie P ....Yeah, but any wise Christian sees thru them. They must be LDS are Baptist? Like the Duggar’s.
@@CapysGardenShop Something like that!
Ikr! Some women were even infertile
@@CapysGardenShop as an lds woman i can see that they have backwards thinking, me I have never been put down for wanting to be a doctor and making my own money. Yes I do want to have a family one day but i want to work first and be my own person i dont want to need a man to make me whole I want to complete MYSELF i want to know who i am before i get married. thats just how i was rasied. i dont want my one purpose in life to be a servent to a man i believe each person should be helping run the house.
I know this is long but i just wanted to say that not all lds women think like that i think thats toxic not trying to sound triggered haha
look again. that rarely happens. it seems you yourself don't know whats in the bible.
Feminism is what gives them the right to drive and show their ankles in public and wear makeup without being seen as prostitutes but I guess we're cherry-picking here
also let’s them have a youtube channel and blog but whatever sis 😂
That’s not how that works. Without the concept of feminism, we could (and probably would) have those same things
Someoneonline14 if it weren't for (first-wave) feminism women wouldn't even be able to vote sooo
jay timber that’s technically true but they didnt have to associate with a movement in order to do it. Plus, people in the government made the ultimate decision
@@idrathernot4012 back in the day women's opinion wasn't valued, actually for society (mostly men) we didn't had an opinion at all. That's what women fought for, that's how we as women can now express our opinion, and that's how Bethany and Kristen can express their (opressive) opinion on youtube and their blog. So yeah, if it weren't for first wave feminists we (probably) wouldn't be able to do such things.
Why are these women trying to make everything in their life as white as can be? The hair. The walls. The decorations. It's like I'm looking into a damn milk carton
Seán they’re practising for heaven innit
the mindset.
It's their aSThetIcS
Seán if someone said that about non white people yall would be triggered
IM SCREAMING
Why I waited till marriage to flash my ankles.
I think you meant shoulders.
@Could be Kenzie a glimpse of the back of your hand... MAYBE
@@koroconnell shit I need to cover then
You know I'm horny when I remove my gloves.
I don’t believe that “back in the day” being a home maker was ever valued or respected. These girls have never seen Mad Men 😂.Ugh, these women have severely flawed logic; I’m sure they were raised this way and I feel bad because they never had a strong, female role model who showed them their value can be attributed to so much more than a wife and mother
Exactly! I literally had a religious person tell me the other day that in the 50s women loved being homemakers and took pride in it - they were very happy doing it. Ugh! I guess the Bell Jar, Revolutionary Road, and Mad Men just sprung up out of nowhere, huh?
@@siobhan3043 Evidently! Yes, being an undervalued "help meet"/housewife/homemaker back in the 1950's & '60's who had to get her husband a hot meal and an alcoholic drink as soon as they walked through the door in the evening to avoid being slapped or worse is clearly just some sort of urban myth, hey... /sarcasm
agreed. back in the day homemaking wasnt valued that much, women just werent valued back then. We were silenced and told we were not able to work, vote, etc. Women didnt have the OPTION to work and live on their own. No workplaces way back when would have hired a woman. We have come so far since those days, why wouldnt we want to take advantage of the opportunities we now have, and create new opportunities for our future generations of girls. Theres nothing wrong with women who do want to be homemakers, But the reason they're doing that has to be a product of their own choice.
Mind you - back in the 1940's many ammunition companies etc had no qualms hiring women at 1/2 pay to do dangerous and quite technically difficult jobs, did they?!
I was thinking about Mad Men through that whole video thanks for putting it in words sis
There’s your answer *B E T H A N Y*
looks at the camera like she's on the office
I love this
Oh ffs it's like they are still living in the 1800s
These girls would literally hate me. I don't want any kids, like get that shit away from me. If my husband is completely unable to function without me taking care of him, then sorry sis but I want a divorce. I value my nerves more than my heart.
Mr. STRUGGLE amiright
Exactly
Alexa Greer Lmao that was a dumb video
@thedeadmemer Actually, I feel like these girls also don't take in mind that some people are also disabled and physically or/and mentally can't have children and can't really do much in terms of taking care of their significant other. That doesn't mean that they're somehow failing to be a perfect wife.
Anita Borozan What if your husband got into an accident and got brain damage or something so they couldn't look after themselves? Would you just divorce them? That would make you a quite horrible person, not gonna lie.
it's like they want to bring back the 1800s or some shit but like sis no just no.
Jongin Is Holy right!!!!!
Good lord, I would KILL to watch a Girl Defined reaction video to Ariana Grande’s God Is A Woman
Umbrella Corporation okay this had nothing to do with the comment but your profile pic, so like is the fault in our stars a good book cause I kinda really wanna read it but don’t know if I should
Caitlin and Shane It is really good but it is sad too. So I recommend but I also recommend tissues.
I find that video so wrong but so funny idk why
yessss
I'm a Christian who totally agrees with you & everything you said in this video. these girls are so small minded and brainwashed.
same x
Nina Izuku it’s people like them who give religion a bad name. I’m far from religious and often find myself hating on religion because of people like them and what I hear about in the news and I have to remind myself most religious people aren’t like this.
L!nZ Ignorant, yes, but privelidged, I’d say probably not. They seem like they’ve had a sheltered and brainwashed childhood. That doesn’t seem privelidged to me.
Also, people’s idea that people what were born into privelidged circumstances can’t be good understanding people is quite closed minded. Just because someone’s family is rich, doesn’t mean other hardships aren’t present. Money doesn’t actually bring happiness. Why are most celebrities depressed af. Watch Billie Eilish’s new Vanity Fair One Year Later Interview. She literally talks about how depressed all the big artists are. Money can often bring distrust and isolation. It doesn’t bring you real friends and healthy relationships and make you free from all the horrors that life can bring. I hope you understand what I’m trying to say
L!nZ nobody asked for yours either, and I see you’ve deleted yours.
I felt you had a generalizing assumption about people who had money and I thought I would tell you what I think. Do you have to agree with my opinion, no. Just because I think one thing, doesn’t mean it’s true either. Sorry if it angered you it annoyed you.
It’s just this mindset that rich people have perfect lives is being thrown around a lot lately and it kind of gets me going.
Nina Izuku these girls are what non-christians think of when they think of christians
"I am here to buy takeaways and call it a day" - Angelika Oles, 2018
we love a *relatable* queen
@Ella Bazar totally. I also need a bullet journal saying "I am *THAT* bitch" in gold on the cover
It's frustrating watching "anti-feminists" rail against a concept that provides them the opportunities they enjoy today. HYPOCRISY SIS.
they would have this youtube channel or blog if it wasn’t for feminists
@@AngelikaOles I bet they vote pretty happily, also.
It's more about what feminism has become it's no longer about the core value of equality now it's more about wanting more power wanting more than everyone else and wanting to feel special.
they're not against women having opportunities like this though
@@ronswanson3536 I strongly disagree. What you described isn't feminism, it's what people mistake it for. Feminism is and always was about gender equality.
I'm so sick of these over the top religious people like Girl Defined painting EVERYONE that is religious as an insane, backwards minded, troll. Sis I promise not all of us religious people are like them, I'm Christian and a proud feminist that loves to see women succeed and fight for the respect they deserve in this world.
Femminism is a disease.
Molly B call it a disease when you actually know how to spell it
@@V3LYSIAN go off queen 👑
Ron Swanson virgin alert
Why I waited till marriage to meet a man....
Somebody Knows what u don’t know is here in Arab countries this actually happens, women are not allowed to meet men outside their father and brothers intel they get married without even seeing the husband before the wedding.
Really heartwarming to see a a young intelligent creator in the commentary community who isn’t scared to critique feminism whilst also proudly being a feminist and making sure critique of misogynistic content is nuanced. I manage to always come back to your content whatever video u post so I’m pretty sure I’m here for your personality at this point (jk I always have been ur hilarious) I’m excited to see where u go ur doing bits
thank you so much for this 👏🏼👏🏼
They think feminism is a religion??
Well... God is a woman...
FACTS
Ariana said it herself 🤷🏼♀️
@The venerable bede you do know it's an Ariana Grande song right?
You just proved that feminism is a religion by saying that.
@@AngelikaOles
You just proved that feminism is a religion. Congrats! you contradicted yourself.
Jeffree Star needs to release a lipstick called “tHeReS yOuR aNsWeR bEtHaNy”
would be truly iconic
YASS WE NEED THAT
Wait, so they're saying women can't go out and have jobs? Umm, did they learn about WW2 in school? Women took up male jobs so the country (I'm talking about England here) wouldn't crash and so no one starved. Women went out to fight for equal rights after the war so they could get jobs the same as men, because they felt empowered by what they did in WW2 and wanted to continue. We fought for the right to vote for our country, men didn't do it for us. If men had it their way back then, I doubt they would've let that happen, but it still happened. I'm sorry, but Girl Defined... This ain't it. 😒
i think it's ironic that when u rlly look at the Bible, its context, and for what it was intended, God only ever supports gender equality and promotes women to be independent, strong, and brave. so much misinterpretation and so many cultural aspects arent being accounted for. they are making God and Christianity look so, so bad.
u dont have to read this cuz it is long LOL, but i rlly wanted to put this out there as a couple examples of what i mean: for the verses about wives submitting to their husbands, the original word in that language which many translated as "sumbit" was actually synonymous to "love and support", and the very next verse tells men to love their wives, so it is literally just saying "love and support each other". and anytime it refers to a woman as "helper", it uses the same word used to describe how God is a helper to humanity. WHICH OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT IMPLY SUBORDINATION BUT A SENSE OF NECESSITY. the point is that we need women. just like humanity needs God. women are literally described with the same adjective used to describe GOD HIMSELF (men could never LOL). but even if ppl dont believe in God or in any of this, that does not mean they are any less valuable or any less of a human being. phew now that that's over with, enjoy ur day
Hello! You wrote " when u rlly look at the Bible, its context, and for what it was intended, God only ever supports gender equality and promotes women to be independent, strong, and brave." and "the original word in that language which many translated as "sumbit" was actually synonymous to "love and support""
Could you be so kind as to list the verses? (or some of them) and what was the word that has been translated wrong (and the verse)?
Not judging and I am not being ironic. I just want to learn! :)
Timothy Petrash I have no idea why you commented that, it doesn't have anything with what I wrote. I GENUINELY want to see positive passages from the Bible. I didn't discuss about what religion was more oppressive.
Timothy Petrash Yeah so? You wanna play "woke"? I know that, it's one of the reasons I am an atheist. Don't get triggered man. I didn't condone oppression in any way. You seem you have a bone to pick
Like no. Have you ever read the bible? Do you know it's a SERIES of text written by DIFFERENT guys CENTURIES ago to SERVE the society, economy and politics of THEIR TIME? You cannot apply that shit nowadays. Women were treated like shit, they were just walking wombs and kitchens. Women weren't even allowed to (/it wasn't accepted) wear trousers until very recently. It's how it's always been in the past, which is when those texts were written. Hell, you don't even get to read all of them in the bible because THE CHURCH chose which ones they liked the best to suit their propagandistic purposes. God didn't do shit. I can write my own bible and say it's the word of god.
i can't take them seriously with their sympathetic expressions towards each other
Yeah I was honestly banking on that to get me through this entire fucking joke of a duo
Mmmmm hmmmm *nods intensely*
Same! I honestly could not look at their faces sometimes because their facial expressions seemed so fake and condescending.
UGH THEY MAKE ALL RELIGIOUS PEOPLE LOOK SO BAD. I PROMISE NOT ALL OF US THINK LIKE THAT. 🤦
rosepatel true
Exactly
rosepatel preach hun
rosepatel Forreal tho
I just realised im on my moms account lol
My Mom is a house wife, but guess what she doesn't shove it down everyone's throat or judge them.
*Sis*
EXACTLY that's what it's about. Choices. No need to shame women for their choices about family and career.
my mum is a house wife too and enjoys every moment of it! taking care of her people is what makes her happy. i want to be a house wife as well as a working woman in the future, because i would love to make my house cosy and take care of it.
We don't live in an economy where everyone can be a housewife and not work.
"ism" = religion
I guess alcoholism is my religion lmao.
P.S: I don't actually have alcoholism, I'm just following their logic
Trâm Trương rectangular prism is my religion
@@masekiibo hahaha
Kyoka’s Left Ear I laughed so hard at this
How I waited for marriage to look at a man
Why your nails always on point😭😍
Can I just say, your profile picture is awesome. It's a very rare thing, to find another Ravenclaw. Let alone a Ravenclaw who watches the same videos as me.
how i waited for marriage to be in the same room as a man 😍😫
How I waited for marriage to say the word man
@@milkbuns2543 im a ravenclaw too! Wise birds stick together and watch real content
Oh no, how dare women make their own decisions regarding their life and bodies... 🙄 they want everyone to live the way they do but judge toxic feminists for doing the same.
Mellow Dee Well said!
Mellow Dee Why are you describing yourself?
@@thatperformer3879 literally how?
@ yeah because she has better things to do i imagine. judging by how much you're commenting it doesn't seem you do. 😂
@@lunalove9395 - So you say as you take time out of your oh so busy schedule to respond. The lack of self awareness is strong with you.
You're not here to cook, you're here to spill the tea, sis ☕️
The worst part about these videos is that it says "women should be like this because God says so", but what about all the requirements God placed on men? Why are they never called out?
The heartbreaking thing is that there for sure are people who watch that channel and believe all that bs.
I won't see your new hair cause I've been blinded by that highlight SIS
Side Braid made feminism sound very appealing - redefine womanhood according to our terms, what we as women want when it comes to our sexuality, our beauty, our worth. As opposed to Girl Defined’s toxic view of women as just wives, mothers, and homemakers. Honestly, sign me up
EXACTLY like i’m so down
@Jeremy Jones So youre saying your gonna be happier as a househusband? You do you sis!
@Jeremy Jones Thats great, I am glad youre not trying to tell women what to do with their lives (:
but ms ariana grande said god is a woman?
and ms ariana grande was 100% correct
Nah if there was a god, he would be a man. A woman probably wouldnt fuck it up as much😂
@@AngelikaOles isn't that just *goddess*
God is genderless
@@s03r12p64 there is no god
"weRe hoNEsTly rEALLy oFFeNdeD bY tHis"- are you??? are you sis???
Feminists: equal rights please
Them: wHaT iS tHiS rELiGiOn😤😤
11:01 "There's your answer, *bEtHaNy."* I can't, the way you said her name with such disgust was hilarious! XDDD
Clicking that time made me realise how fucking annoying and weird their voices are. They'd deffo purge
@@august8807 mb
@@martywayne5126 wut
i laughed so hard at that
the girl on the left looks like one of the ‘white chicks’ dude
DJDNSVGSHEVD OMG
*confuses left and right for five minutes and doesn’t understand until doing the finger trick*
Ella Willis same 😂
Good grief are they okay?
i honestly don’t think so at this point
No. No, they really aren't, Anya. They really aren't...
Yeah I'm going to go ahead and live my feminist life now... it's been going pretty well so far
They made a deal with the devil and they can't get out
I'm waiting for one of them to totally snap
Well I’m gonna be a wife and a mother AND have a successful career that doesn’t define me as just those two things. Thank u, next
girl i love this.
please make merch that says "buy takeaway and call it a day"
How can two girls be so awkward, smh!
“Fighting for women’s rights”... I don’t understand how them as WOMEN don’t want to be equal to their husbands.. this really ain’t it
Can we discuss how they are probably marrying gay men that are being held prisoner by their religion and are afraid to come out? ijs
Passenger Shaming have you watched the video Bethany and her husband (YOU DEFINITELY SHOULD) was in just LOOK at the comments I die
👏👏👏
only possible explanation for the men being okay with not kissing or touching until marriage
@@shannonw8631 omg I'm scared to look......I only watch because of Angelika hahaaa (I will go look 😭 HAAAAALP!)
Bethany's Husband is probably gay but Kristens husband is straight for sure.
Did they realise that they're in 21st Century and not the 17th?? 🤔😂😂
EDIT: Also there is a fine line of a topless woman on a magazine being pornographic and self-empowering, unless they're looking at playboy magazines. Self-empowering can be like a type of "woman finds love for herself after being harassed" on like a Woman's magazine.
find me a youtuber who goes out of their way to read and like every comment under their videos. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel and binged like every video. Keep it up, ily!
ily moreee 😊
I get so annoyed when women say they're against feminism. like boo, if it weren't for feminists you'd have to ask ya man everytime you wanna use the computer. admittedly modern feminists CAN be annoying but even so, don't start blaming your life problems on feminism
the ACCURACY of this comment 👏🏼👏🏼
Whoop whoop Chicken Soup EXACTLY same
If people are for the same human rights for everyone (black, white, gay, not gay, women, man) then you are in fact a feminist :) I hope that most people are a feminist...
@Browntwig Soup I don't think it did.
Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men.
Maybe things have changed but not the overall goal. And no, I don't agree with every fiminist or there way of talking.. Just like I don't agree with every person on this earth. But I agree with the statement above. I hope a lot of people do that too. And those people I will call feminist; if they like it or not :P
i love first and second wave feminism third wave is just a little mush for me
people say "it doesn't affect you so leave it alone" but the thing is that media doesn't exist in a vacuum! if someone is making videos, people are going to be consuming those videos and being influenced by their beliefs and what they say. not responding to their videos is leaving their beliefs alone to influence people so go for it angelika
It's a choice whether people listen or not. Not a single person has to be influenced, or be a part of their audience. Unless they want to.
The girls are not to blame as much as it's presented.
You can choose to watch, or not. You can choose to do dishes, or leave them for later. You can choose to cook soup, rice, pizza.
This applies to everything. It's a personal choice of each and every one of us.
@@softcrescent4946 What about kids? Anything children see will most likely affect them later in life, because they don't yet fully grasp that they have a choice. They could watch a single video from Girl Defined and they'll think everything included in the video is true because a couple adults said it and in their mind, adults don't lie.
I waited till marriage to learn about the human anatomy of a man 😭
When you bring out merch I need t shirt saying DoN't CrY bEThANy
I've watched around 10 of your videos before but subscribed because of this one
“THeRe Is yOuR ANsWer BetHaNy”
Bethany and Kristin give me so much The Handmaid's tale vibe
Afine Frenzy is that a good show?
akidin06 I’m studying the book for English. I hate it. I love the show though!
And look at how Serena turned out, she was happy yelling about anti feminism and pro the brothers and then BAM bye your opinions, feeling and freedom of speech, you where fighting to be hit by your husband for speaking out
@@isabo1901 Exactly, I like the scene where Gilead first begins realizes she's not allowed to speak about it, great moment of realization.
I watched Girl Defined once, and I hated it. Being a Christian I can see where they come from on some things. But, their content is not thought out well. Case in point, the blog post. I can see where the blog is coming from, but how they worded it made it seem that every woman, Christian or not had to have those priorities. But, no. Why would you have the priority to put God first, if you do not believe in God? Shaming people for not being like you, even if its Christian on Christian, is wrong. I love these videos. Keep it up!
Who else saw the article “I waited till I was engaged to plan my wedding”
I thought that was how engagement worked?
there's a difference between a woman being a homemaker by choice or through a societal expectation.
If a woman makes the choice to become a homemaker because that's what she wants to do I say go all for it. But I don't think it was necessarily valued back in the day it in the 1950s because it was more of an expectation of women
your eyes are such a beautiful colour wowie
thank you so much xx
And then there’s us fam with brown eyes
Anyone who says you're not allowed to criticize them can suck it. They're promoting toxic ideas that have real influence on society. They need to be called out. Nice vid, sis!
Your talk on feminism and toxic feminism. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to explain that to people and you summed it up well
I think their opinions and perspectives are so outdated
Edit: ty for the likes and responses, love that for me for a really good and fun and fresh one
honestly i agree
None of my women friends have their priorities straight I guess 🤷🏻♂️😂
Oh please.....they are SOUTHERN BAPTISTS! 😂😂😂 Please do not confuse them as just Christian. Not upset w/ anyone, just pointing this out. What’s sad is that I had to dig for that info! Here’s a blip about their beliefs...
Lifestyle: If gambling, alcohol and tobacco use are part of your lifestyle, the Baptist faith is probably not for you. Many conservative Baptists oppose these vices and some even prohibit dancing and watching movies. This is especially prevalent in areas where Southern Baptists form a majority of the population.
from what you're saying they sound fundamentalist. not saying they're not christian, but i could care less. all i know is every time i hear someone calls themselves a christian or they say they're believers of god i ask myself,
"ok, but which church?"
why i waited till marriage to get a boyfriend
"Around here on the Angelika channel, we're all feminists, all very happy feminists that are living our best lives doing our own thing make our money being our best selves"
I don't particularly hate religion, but I don't like how religion brings out the worst in people sometimes... I hate the idea that if you do something good that religion values then it's god working through you and if you do something that religion doesn't value then the devil is manipulating you. I think that mentality is toxic and allows people to completely separate themselves from any blame or responsibility of their own actions. I do also criticize the fact that they're shaming others when others are just doing what makes them happy and aren't hurting anyone. We respect your decisions to live how you want to live so don't disrespect ours. We aren't doing anything to hurt anyone, I can dress and do and act and live how I want and it's not a problem.
Keren Chalfont well said! What so many christians forget is that God gave you a CHOICE, it’s always emphasized how you have that choice. You are choosing for you. Not God, not Satan, it’s you. And christians like these are literally the reason so many people hate religion.
Feminism=equal rights and the rights to choose
Girl Defined: OH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Where are they getting all these “toxic feminist” ideas from anyway. The only place I’ve seen them is the internet and even then most of the time they’re being sarcastic.
Im pro choice because i believe that women should be able to choose if they want to have children or not. Its their body, they are the ones that have to live with a child, or go through the process of being pregnant. But I would never have an abortion. Because I believe that my beliefs shouldn't interfere with other people's lives.
I honestly agree with that I would never have an abortion but if someone else could live with themselves after doing that then let them do it. I simply don't agree with my tax dollars paying for abortion, I shouldn't have to pay money to a government that's going to give my money to something I very much disagree with.
What a gynocentric piece of shit!!
I don't have a problem with someone not being a feminist, because you don't have to be one to fight for/believe in equal rights. But their views of feminism are quite distorted. I think they may be confusing feminism with false feminism and feminazis
I felt physical pain reading this helpmate, mother and homemaker thing lol helP
honestly same
They definitely come off as women who will willingly throw other women under the bus, because they were taught that male approval is the key to being happy.
I really hope they live happy lives. Because I don’t want to think about what will happen if life doesn’t pan out the way they thought it was supposed to. They might snap and murder someone.
It gets worse the older they get - they are masking their own issue by judging and blaming other people if their life get shitty. Even if it is obviously the man's fault, they victim-blaming all women to hell and back. And literally doormating themselves for men's approval. You do you, but dammit bethany have respect for your own damn self, not every women out there are trying to back stab you and stealing your man.
"I'm here to buy takeaway and call it a day."
That is the biggest mood I have every had bless my ears
Sunday is definitely Funday with Angelika, we stan!
I need merch that says sis
lilah ryland omg i would love that, my friends and i always say that 😂
The first merch i would buy from someone we staaaannnnn
Would be first merch I’ve ever bought
I’m sick of people twisting the word “feminism” to fit their agenda 🙄 it literally just means “the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes”... like who the hell wouldn’t want that??
Nicole Rodgers if it wasn’t for feminism, they wouldn’t be on RUclips spewing garbage!
U can't be equal
I love how they pander and talk in such a condescending way to their audience: "believe it or not....(insert common knowledge/beliefs)" okay sis
I love these videos, not gonna lie - these girls are so toxic and it's relaxing and quite pleasant to hear you call them out.
This is the earliest I’ve ever been on one of your vids wow I feel accomplished
i’m so proud 💖💖
I used to watch their channel purely for amusement but now I just find them terrifying af. I can't laugh at them anymore, their opinions are dangerous. Great video 💙
ur makeup looks bomb, u sparkle like edward
thank you so much xx
lol i bet a "crazy night" for these girls is having sugar past 9 P.M. and watching a PG 13 movie
In the article post, she said "helpmate" not "servant." (See video at 4:12) There's a big difference between a helpmate (in religious vernacular) and a servant (someone who does whatever someone else says to avoid harsh consequence or reprimand).
I'm so so happy whenever I see a RUclipsr talking about feminism casually and in a nuanced way, and I love you, perfect combo, I so agree with you!
I question my sanity when people say “I believe in the equality of both genders but I’m not a feminist”
Also this vid was amazing, I needed a little something before my mocks tomorrow❤️
exactly it’s such a contradiction 🙄🙄
Not really, since feminism nowadays mostly focus on women and rarely on men in first world countries
Lmao they’d hate me. I’m a bisexual feminist who’s already had her first kiss (not married) and I really don’t want kids... 😂😂😂
Yasss Queen! Honestly though, I respect religion but this is just beyond me. I don’t understand why they’re living like it’s the 1800s 😂😂😂
Donald Duck SAMEEEE and I’m agnostic 🤧
Girl i completely agree.. it's not about disagreeing with how these girls think and live.. it's about them judging the rest of us for not following suit.
i disagree with everyone saying that the way Bethany and whatsherface live their lives doesn't affect others. their videos aren't vlogs in which they share their lives. they're made for the clear purpose of influencing others. in countless videos, they outright say that "doing this is a sin" or that "ladies we shouldn't be like this". imagine all the young women watching and following their content feeling that when they or other women get sexually assaulted or abused, it's their fault (re: their video on modesty). that they don't have any right to leave their abusive partners (re: their videos on marriage and the husband-wife power dynamic). that same-sex marriage shouldn't be a thing. that such normal things such as liking boys/girls and wearing makeup could be sinful.
they're clearly not just sharing their lives--they're preaching a certain lifestyle for women as The Ultimate one.
People are really out here thinking this way in 2018 just so sad
it's asinine that these grown 30 year old adult women would try to preach to a presumably young audience that feminism is bad. young, easily influenced kids could see those videos. why you would want to limit a child and teach them to keep a closed mind is so beyond me.
*Your Girl Defined videos are the best 🙌🏼 omg*
thank you 💖
I see u everywhere lol
AAAAA THIS IS MY FAVE VIDEO SO FAR BC OF UR FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND “siss” “dont cry bethany” AND EERRTHING
The use of air quotes when saying "women's rights" was my favourite
As a Christian girl who wants to be a lawyer, chief this ain't it
First
love you and your RUclips channel it’s good to have a few actual real channels
thank you so much 💖
I'm both religious and feminist and I find it so annoying when these crazy religious people try to redefine everything in the world around them. As I said, I'm religious but that doesn't mean I think that everyone should be religious. It is a very individual choice that no one should be forced to make. Also, I manage to stick to my beliefs and be a feminist because at its core feminism is about women being equal to men and I don't think it is a bad thing to want. It's annoying when uneducated people express their opinions on feminism that cannot be supported by any real arguments.
I've been watching your videos non-stop over the past couple of weeks and today I finally subbed, and I can honestly say you're so well-spoken, your videos are well-structured, you're stating your opinions in a really interesting and real way, and you're just so honest. Also, damn sis you're on point in every video! I wish you all the best!!
I am disgusted by their view on Christianity. As a feminist and a Christian I feel quite uncomfortable and annoyed with their shaming.