How to STAY on HIS MIND... And Make Him Value You!

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  • How to STAY in HIS MIND... And Make Him Value You!
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Комментарии • 143

  • @stephaniemarieanne8158
    @stephaniemarieanne8158 Год назад +48

    Don't be afraid to walk away if he is not making an effort for you and let him know why you are no longer interested

  • @aliah_ahayd8268
    @aliah_ahayd8268 Год назад +34

    Best advice is don’t fear losing him.

  • @colemik2931
    @colemik2931 Год назад +55

    Alex is the best male relationship coach for women. He knows how men abused/controlled/manipulated women. Thank you Alex. You never know how you change women's lives.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much for your support, Cole!

    • @marimary6879
      @marimary6879 Год назад +4

      So true. We dont respect ourselves, they take us for granted and become toxic to us.

  • @marimary6879
    @marimary6879 Год назад +43

    This video came exactly on time when i decided to not go on an event where he will be. Because he is taking me for granted, having fun with me, dancing with me, but than only give me breadcrumbs. I behaved needy, was too nice, forgiving, understanding to gim... 3 Years of wasting my time. I lost myself in this relationship, go trough so much pain.
    What a mercy was to find you Alex to hear so many of your videos. I am in a way to challenge myself, and natutally i will become a challenge for the right man for me.😊

  • @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
    @FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz 6 месяцев назад +1

    I was too nice too nice in the past relationships neither did I asked anything from the Man.. neither do I disturbed him in any way..I believe they took me for granted neither do they care about me or bought anything for me for once.. now my eyes and mind are open am so so angry and heartbroken.
    Thank God I came across this channel.

  • @laralarz6746
    @laralarz6746 Год назад +38

    Most of men doesn’t respect good honest woman they loves the woman who play with him or leave him or doesn’t care about him . Yes they like challenge but with a bad woman and they will leave good woman for her.

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 Год назад +12

      Dont believe that. They like the chase because it is a primordial instinct. Its not jusf random cruelty. They want to feel like they faught for her.
      What you have to do is to calmly and confidentely wait for him to make all the moves that will prove you he is more than just a pretender and determine his true intentions. Let me tell you, if for exemple, you are dating someone, aim at friendship. Focus all of your Energy in projecting to him a good natured person but dont give up your romantic self too quick. You are allowed to like him ouy of the frame of desire. Just simple and authentic. He will do everything possible to get you to understand he sees you more than a friend. Let him do that work of impressing and wooing you while basically all you do is sitting their and recieving. No kisses, no sex for at least 10 ot 12 good weeks to see where his level of interest really is. If he is frustrated by the lack of quick intimacy, you will know it and you will pin his secret motives. If he keeps serving you, going out of his way for you, still spend time talking, walks, coffee, simple things friends share, even if you both desire eachother, but you guys keep it on a friendly surface and still he is here in every situation without complaining or gettibg bored of you, you know you are unto something. Then you ask him after those weeks, what do you feel is our next move? If he says, lets continue to take things slow, he is just trying to hang out and is not romantic about you. If he says, lets take it to the next level, then a kiss or two can seal the deal. And shortly after, maybe, a late invite into your home, if you know what i mean...;)
      I am just sayung. Dont get sweeped up too soon. Take the time to trial him. Take the time to measure the efforts he puts in. Even when he is not getting his way. Even if he thinks you might never move him up from the friendzone.
      I know it feels like its not authentic and you are playing games. But thibk about it this way. A princess in a tour waits YEARS for a prince to come along. She doesnt go on a quest to deliver the Prince herself. Not because she is week. But because she knows how very precious her love is. Her Love is soooo precious indeed, the men have to fight for it. Any man with no purity in his heart will abandon the fight or find excuses. Any man with deciet in his heart wont stand the trials and the tests. But a man with a loving heart will hold on. He will " fight" as they say. And thats when you will know all along, he truly wanted and cherished you. At that moment, it will be safe to open up your, oooh, so precious heart to him. Because he proved not to be a phoney....
      You have nothing to prove as a woman. You just wait for the right one to prove he is the right one. So no sex to undeserving rascals and liars and manipulators. No benefits for the losers. Only the winner takes it all.🌌🦋🥰

    • @yannahgrekita
      @yannahgrekita Год назад +1

      ​@@lolaispure4296 so well-said! 🎉😊❤

  • @nazliansari314
    @nazliansari314 9 месяцев назад +3

    Your accent like a salt in food. We enjoy it❤

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 Год назад +17

    Men value what they don't have. Always stay to being a challenge. Stop giving your attention to a men that doesn't value you as a woman

  • @Meetjesusatthewell
    @Meetjesusatthewell Год назад +20

    I made a commitment to myself to put me first and be confident to be ready to walk away. I have learned to become a better version of myself and that I already have set the stage on how I want to be treated first priority. OMG! I’m fighting them off! what you are saying is true we have to dare to be different and take your stand for what I want.

  • @crenglishmixhits2933
    @crenglishmixhits2933 Год назад +4

    haha with the guy who thought he had control, i took my power back...now i tell him what i think ofhim and speak my mind ..i always have from day one spoke my mind and meet him when he comes to my place in my PJS lol..i dont dress up for him i wear what i am comfortable with and he tells me his never stopped thinking of me..these days I am just sooo off him and his licking his wounds atm//coz he took me for granted..

  • @stephblenheim4283
    @stephblenheim4283 Год назад +11

    Very very true. And sad. I've been in a good relationship for a year now but feel him getting complacent and taking me for granted because I'm too accommodating available and too nice. Going to just lean back and act indifferent now when we're apart and make him initiate more and make him fear. I've done too much and my fear is just making me stressed. Need to be valued and have more than this. Need to be a challenge again and it's tiring because you think you get to the point where you can relax and be an extremely good woman but the truth is you need to just realise your value and stop doing too much. I'm too loving and this is getting me no where.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Год назад +6

    *Every relationship is unique, and it's important to find what works best for both partners. Communication, trust, and mutual respect are key ingredients in any healthy relationship. By prioritizing your own self-worth and maintaining a balanced approach, you can create a lasting and meaningful connection with your partner.*

  • @leonatsiara
    @leonatsiara 8 месяцев назад +2

    Omg, I was always told the opposite. More you do for a man, the more he will love you. I never could understand why this never worked out. When I had enough in relationship and stopped care, everything shifted and the man started chasing me. If I leave, I never go back. I never could find the balance. Now I understand. Thank you Alex! 😊💙💯

  • @eunexoproducts9145
    @eunexoproducts9145 Год назад +2

    Nowerdays i love myself soo much that the only thing i think sbout is how to take care of myself PERIOD

  • @mettebrogaard4299
    @mettebrogaard4299 Год назад +5

    I stay strong and think on my needs first - and he loves it ❤️💋

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 Год назад +43

    I've already stopped thinking about men first because it never works!

  • @supermanfan1315
    @supermanfan1315 Год назад +6

    Last night we were at his family’s bbq and I made him a plate and served it to him 🤦🏻‍♀️ I messed up. I won’t do ANYTHING for him anymore. Thank you Coach Alex 🙏

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  Год назад +1

      You're always welcome!

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 11 месяцев назад +2

      That's not good either. My parents were married almost 50 years (before my dad died), and my mom cooked him delicious meals and he did things for her too. Love means wanting to do good things for each other. Men back in the day WANTED women like that...they were valuable. The problem is our culture/society has gone downhill so much that women are spoiling men rotten by giving them sex outside marriage, or at least way too soon and that is keeping them as selfish little boys. If your guy didn't appreciate you doing something nice, the problem was him, and you just need to find the right guy to be good too. I do agree with Alex that a woman shouldn't give too much and let the man do that mostly in the beginning, but to take the opposite extreme isn't the answer either. But I do understand what you're saying.

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 Год назад +5

    Healthy love is enduring. It is nurtured to a covenant status

  • @kgaridolly4296
    @kgaridolly4296 4 месяца назад

    I love you brother,i used your teaching to challenge my self, believe me im always surprised of my new development of myself everyday❤️

  • @user-mb4kr8pi4r
    @user-mb4kr8pi4r 2 месяца назад

    Thanks so much sir.... from today hv stopped thinking of him.....concs to my self,i love my self so much ❤️

  • @lenlar6
    @lenlar6 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank You

  • @valerianotarnicola791
    @valerianotarnicola791 Год назад +1

    You are the best love coach ever ♥️ salutations depuis la France 🙏🙏

  • @jiejie9043
    @jiejie9043 Год назад +4

    He is into me yesterday and today cold as ice dami so tired of this!

    • @LARichyAmber
      @LARichyAmber Год назад

      Its so annoying i know this behavior so sad for him to loose you willingly cold hot this makes us want him more

  • @lucywangecimutahi3138
    @lucywangecimutahi3138 Год назад +4

    Thankyou for the advices,I am praying for a soul mate

  • @naseemhaider4417
    @naseemhaider4417 Год назад +1

    My boy friend is a narcissist person some time very crazy some time disappeared for long time I'm confused want to move on but I love him a lot

  • @zahraalbaloochi2841
    @zahraalbaloochi2841 Год назад

    Yes ladies going speed for man and work like crazy for them

  • @Myoung-rr7nl
    @Myoung-rr7nl Год назад +1

    Thx! I love your French accent!

  • @andreeasandreea14
    @andreeasandreea14 Год назад

    That s true. Once you have and get something you no longer want it

  • @MariettaQuenishel
    @MariettaQuenishel 3 месяца назад

    Hi Alex this Marietta from Togo . Alex thanks for the help

  • @veralinechisom3121
    @veralinechisom3121 Год назад +1

    Thanks...just when I'm going through this I came across your video

  • @mb-dh9ic
    @mb-dh9ic Год назад +3

    I’ve been single for so long! Can you make a video how to attract the right guy!?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  Год назад +2

      Hi there,
      Thank you so much for watching! I have made a video on how to attract the right guy, you can find it with this link: ruclips.net/video/MggpllKSVcA/видео.html

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 9 месяцев назад +1

    How to get him out of my heart and thoughts knowing he is no good for me? Please give me advice? I don't believe in being with another when I still have someone in my heart.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 месяцев назад

      Hi there,
      I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I have a video on my channel that can help you with this. I hope you can find the time to check it out: ruclips.net/video/Nx91XlJWn6A/видео.htmlsi=G49WiOTYL-A43RyX

  • @drgoodwell1082
    @drgoodwell1082 Год назад +1

    How are you Alex , Smiling 😊

  • @lsassy6401
    @lsassy6401 Год назад +9

    How do you deal with a guy who never takes accountability for hurting you but instead resorts to dismissing your feelings, doesnt really listen or seem to register what you trying to talk about and rather deflects by insisting he needs to be heard and understood too (but not on the issue you tried to sort out with him to start with)?????

  • @sheeba8334
    @sheeba8334 Год назад +2

    Thank you..Alex.. love your videos

  • @nazliansari314
    @nazliansari314 9 месяцев назад

    Tnx for your being❤

  • @lucyt9856
    @lucyt9856 Год назад +1

    ALEX YOU ARE THE BEST !

  • @jenniferkoranteng8691
    @jenniferkoranteng8691 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the advice

  • @ek8928
    @ek8928 Год назад +3

    Thanks for your advices ❤

  • @osinyoruth2769
    @osinyoruth2769 Год назад +1

    Good lesson

  • @lubnamunir9448
    @lubnamunir9448 Год назад

    Ilot of leart your words thx

  • @shemushemu9534
    @shemushemu9534 Год назад

    The best advice and dating coach on youtube . MERCI ALEX

  • @MaryEnjema
    @MaryEnjema Месяц назад

    Good lesson Coach A
    Please how do we make a boyfriend trust us back again after breaking his trust?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  Месяц назад +1

      Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link!
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @elizabethodame9751
    @elizabethodame9751 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks alot Alex this is such a relief

  • @tasha3556
    @tasha3556 Год назад

    Alex I really appreciate you are the best

  • @starlili6014
    @starlili6014 Год назад

    I will stop this now ..thankyou alex ..😊

  • @EdaNavarra
    @EdaNavarra Год назад

    Love you Alex have a happy weekend! greetings from Filipina in Cyprus

  • @nalubegamariam8980
    @nalubegamariam8980 Год назад

    maximum respect mr Alex

  • @lolaispure4296
    @lolaispure4296 Год назад

    Well thank you for the very good advice. It will be well used.

  • @amyredoble4041
    @amyredoble4041 Год назад +1

    Thanks much coach Alex 💚

  • @priscillasultana6420
    @priscillasultana6420 Год назад +1

    Thankyou alex 💙

  • @ekeminiesenyie1401
    @ekeminiesenyie1401 4 месяца назад

    Alex, I'm so grateful I found your channel.

  • @egbewattarrahnaomi332
    @egbewattarrahnaomi332 Год назад

    Thanks a lot Alex for the insight.

  • @rifataratoma7546
    @rifataratoma7546 Год назад

    Thank u so much Boss🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤

  • @EWK-51813
    @EWK-51813 Год назад +3

    I am different and
    I am a challenge
    Let see how Alex Cormont finds me.... 😉 As I am far away from Alex i.e Pakistan...😎

  • @wendykalombo4920
    @wendykalombo4920 Год назад +4

    Hello Alex mine is completed have tried everything but nothing is working he always tell me that is busy he can't even call me am suffering

    • @vp5134
      @vp5134 Год назад +3

      Leave him. One thing Coach Alex is not saying is that men usually know very early on who they will value or who they will not. He already made his decision. Make your decision too. Not saying it's easy to leave him but keep in mind it's the only right decision because he already made his.

  • @michellestarks4215
    @michellestarks4215 Год назад

    I will concentrate on my safe. I dont care about my past . I decide for my life.

  • @sameeramumtaz7616
    @sameeramumtaz7616 Год назад

    Your smile is very cuteeee

  • @oskihaddad6406
    @oskihaddad6406 Год назад

    Love u alex

  • @58_shilpa.e30
    @58_shilpa.e30 Год назад +9

    I don't know if I ever stay in his mind, but I can't get him out of my mind even a single minute a day 😅

  • @user-ip8gu6el8m
    @user-ip8gu6el8m 8 месяцев назад

    Put yourself first before anyone,so if he does value you,just walk away

  • @celinely8945
    @celinely8945 Год назад +5

    You’re amazing Alex. I admire you

  • @XxMiranda7786
    @XxMiranda7786 Год назад

    New subscriber!!

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 5 месяцев назад

    The link Alex

  • @mbabazijanny6110
    @mbabazijanny6110 Год назад

    Ma first tym to meet u here big up 👊

  • @ghaidaaalkhamees8055
    @ghaidaaalkhamees8055 11 месяцев назад

    How to change the way, he looks at me after a break up ? He thinks I left for fun and I'm back because I have no one but the truth is I love him, and I want to make this work. its so hard

  • @sharafunnissapv4825
    @sharafunnissapv4825 Год назад

    Thanks a lot dear.. You are amazing Alex...

  • @liliantalbot3805
    @liliantalbot3805 Год назад +3

    Please coach what’s the dynamic behind been friends with an ex after no contact

    • @marimary6879
      @marimary6879 Год назад

      Yes, i also want to hear this.🙂

  • @sintelibanda8396
    @sintelibanda8396 5 месяцев назад

    I need more help I want to rich you for advise

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  5 месяцев назад

      Hi there!
      If you're looking for one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with me using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @priyankamullick8724
    @priyankamullick8724 Год назад

    very nice and apt video

  • @marcelacasas2187
    @marcelacasas2187 9 месяцев назад

    My ex told me that he cheated on me because the other woman listened to him vs I change the subject on him when we talk. Is that a realistic reason to cheat? I see he compared me so I walked away and blocked him.

  • @ngoikabange3423
    @ngoikabange3423 Год назад

    Alex my relationship is complicated have tried everything it's not working. he says he loves me but act differently ...I love him alot but am not getting enough he doesn't respect me or value me

  • @viciousv9671
    @viciousv9671 Год назад

    I’m gay but your videos are so helpful

  • @clau_vlog
    @clau_vlog Год назад

    Alex, my boyfriend to stopped calling/ texting me because he accused me of lying it’s been a week What do you recommend me to do?

  • @nasigz6430
    @nasigz6430 Год назад

    how be a challenge for him again

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id Год назад

    Sending L♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️E 🥰🙂

  • @vanithabalaji6284
    @vanithabalaji6284 Год назад

    💕💖💗👌👌👌👌👌 from india

  • @ashleykrutzig6370
    @ashleykrutzig6370 Год назад +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo Год назад

    🔮

  • @hismercytvinternational2259
    @hismercytvinternational2259 Год назад

    Your message is good but always the same. Just different titles

  • @jasminejustin8654
    @jasminejustin8654 Год назад

    👍👍👍

  • @janemuhurango8283
    @janemuhurango8283 Год назад

    I don't understand this

  • @vp5134
    @vp5134 Год назад

    Alex que penses-tu du fait que les hommes décident très très vite de quelle femme a de la valeur à ses yeux ou pas? Et qu'une fois qu'il a commencé à "take things for granted", c'est irréversible peu importe les efforts qu'on fera pour le faire se sentir vivant ou être un challenge ? J'ai l'impression que le premier conseil aurait dû être, s'il vous prend pour acquis, quittez le.

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id Год назад +2

    I would never change my hair colour or get false nails for a man

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id Год назад

    Divas know their stuff-?

  • @kgaridolly4296
    @kgaridolly4296 4 месяца назад

    I have stopped

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id Год назад

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @mariadelamercedcharro1047
    @mariadelamercedcharro1047 Год назад +1

    I also changed muy hair coloue once for a man pathetic

  • @monicabandkar2348
    @monicabandkar2348 Год назад

    I stopped thinking of him

  • @vuyiswamagagula7948
    @vuyiswamagagula7948 Год назад

    Hey can you plz tell us, How to date an Overthinker 🥲🥺It’s so hard

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id Год назад

    Alex 🥰 men are....... I don't even have the right word. . .he called me a stalker after claimed that we are friends and sent security guards after me at a Shopping Centre to tell me to leave him alone , he has treated me really badly today 🥲

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  Год назад

      I'm so sorry to hear about this!

    • @Bianca-sw5id
      @Bianca-sw5id Год назад

      I am so grateful 🥰 for your reply 🥰 , I am so hurt I am feeling that he is childish that he doesn't have the balls to speak to me like an adult and treat me like a human being 🥰

    • @Bianca-sw5id
      @Bianca-sw5id Год назад +1

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank You 🥰 Alex 🥰 it's been two days and today I am laughing at him , from far away , he put so much effort into preventing me seeing him and he ended up driving past me on his motorbike when I was walking home , that he nor I would have planned it , and yesterday I read a fantastic line : karma is a 🐝itch and she hates it when her pack is *d with! Isn't that the truth because he was directing his anger at me for what other persons did to him and he didn't have the guts to speak to me like a human being instead of being cruel and adding to my already difficult life. Karma is real.