Why Your Guitar Playing Stinks

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
  • Today it's a lesson/motivational video on what's holding you back as a guitar player. I get this all the time in the comments of my videos, and I used to get it back when I worked as a music teacher. And yes, the title has been inspired by Ben Eller.
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Комментарии • 81

  • @MrPolevaulter
    @MrPolevaulter  29 дней назад

    Check out more lessons: ruclips.net/video/qnMby7TxCoQ/видео.html&pp=gAQBiAQB

  • @catzdollz9810
    @catzdollz9810 Месяц назад +20

    Everywhere in my home, I have a guitar placed. Yes, I have one next to the "THRONE". I'm chasing the art of guitar playing. I just keep pushing forward, every single day, I learn from instructional videos, grab a guitar and familiarize myself with what I just learned. At the age of 75, I'm learning, adding to my skill, and loving every step forward.

    • @MashaT22
      @MashaT22 Месяц назад +2

      There’s a famous picture of Kirk Hammett playing an acoustic flamenco style guitar while sitting on the toilet - probably from the early 90’s judging by his hair and facial hair, but might also be from the late 80’s. In interviews, he’s said some of his best songs were written on the throne. Not sure how the neck handles shower humidity, but these days, you can get a roasted maple neck, and CF reinforced neck, or a fully CF guitar to combat that problem.
      If Kirk can play guitar on the throne, why not you?! It’s really not that much different than people who like to sit and read on the toilet, lol. (I wish I’d have room for a guitar in my bathroom, lol.)

    • @squirelova1815
      @squirelova1815 Месяц назад +2

      Well YOU'VE got the Advantage of being Royalty too.

    • @rodrigobelinchon2982
      @rodrigobelinchon2982 Месяц назад +1

      I used to practice scales while watching tv , but never while sitting on the throne hahahaha

    • @No1karez
      @No1karez 29 дней назад +1

      You're an inspiration for this 45 year old beginner. Thank you you bloody legend d!!

  • @trioguitar
    @trioguitar Месяц назад +18

    Wise words.
    After 45 years, I'm still rubbish, but I can say with confidence that I am less rubbish than I was 46 years ago!

    • @MrDavee1
      @MrDavee1 Месяц назад +5

      60 years old, and I've just got to the stage of enjoying listening to myself. There's always hope for us! :)

    • @MrPolevaulter
      @MrPolevaulter  29 дней назад +2

      Spot on :)

  • @Sambre.
    @Sambre. Месяц назад +4

    I started to learn guitar at 42 with my 12yo son. I'm way slower than my son but I try things. I am old enough that I know there is no shame in that even if you fail or take forever. What I love is that when he sees me succeeding then he realises he can also do it. And he does it better and faster.

  • @ukguitarnoodle
    @ukguitarnoodle 26 дней назад +1

    I'm 56 and have had 1-2-1 guitar lessons for around two years. I went in wanting to get furious alternate picking, then swerved off in a largely jazz theory direction due to wrist arthritis. I know I know more theory now and must have improved.

  • @ricmusician
    @ricmusician 28 дней назад +1

    Excellent motivational video! If a person doesn't try their best, they'll never know how good they can be at anything, not just music.

  • @TheGlato
    @TheGlato 28 дней назад +1

    Golden words and some harsh truth for someone. Guitar is very rewarding, because every practice session pays off. Consistently practicing at least 15minutes every day gives you a lot.

  • @rodrigobelinchon2982
    @rodrigobelinchon2982 Месяц назад +3

    No pain no gain . GO PRACTICE!

  • @robphillips8351
    @robphillips8351 Месяц назад

    Right guard on the fretboard fixes the problem right up..😆🤣

  • @ZitherBeast
    @ZitherBeast Месяц назад +3

    I'm not sure why you don't have 5 times as many subs as you do. Your channel is Awesome Elmo. Thanks for the great videos Sir.

  • @jimmyx4599
    @jimmyx4599 29 дней назад +1

    I was 12 when i started to learn guitar i still need to learn and need to improve at it i am 61 now. I gave it up for 8 years but i wish i didnt.

  • @benrusher581
    @benrusher581 Месяц назад

    There were situations , environments and people in my life that knocked my self confidence and self belief and its taken me a long time to be able to overcome that. I am glad now, at 50 years old, to be able to learn the guitar (having lost so many years to the inner critic and perfectionist)) and to be supportive and constructive toward myself and the process. We just need a kind and encouraging voice from outside to help us find it in ourselves.

  • @henrjp
    @henrjp 5 дней назад

    Thank you, really needed to see this video!

  • @seanbarker4610
    @seanbarker4610 Месяц назад +1

    Glad to know you have finally heard my playing! Lol

  • @Ashbash75
    @Ashbash75 Месяц назад +1

    Elmo that's great advice and something we all need to be reminded of ! Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @BoogieTheMann
    @BoogieTheMann Месяц назад

    Always a wealth of useful knowledge. Appreciate you mucho.

  • @friedrudibega6384
    @friedrudibega6384 Месяц назад +4

    Talent is just a little inspiration and a ton of work. In music, it’s how much you love it and how many hours you put into it.

  • @neilchakr
    @neilchakr 25 дней назад

    another thing: Tony Iommi lost 2 fingertips in a metal factory accident, but he still wrote some of the greatest Sabbath riffs ever

  • @Spaceman-jo5mz
    @Spaceman-jo5mz Месяц назад +1

    Inspiring helpful message Elmo! 👍🎸

  • @mindsketchstudio
    @mindsketchstudio Месяц назад +6

    Great video.
    I think most of this negativity comes from the culture that people has “talent”, and not determination and training.
    I’ve seen a lot of people saying “oh, look how this guys is lucky, his has so much talent”, or even “I don’t have this talent”.
    It’s not about talent or being gifted by the gods (I don’t even believe in talent).
    It’s about putting your body set on a couch and being determined to study for hours to improve and become better on a daily basis routine.
    That’s all about it.

    • @MrDavee1
      @MrDavee1 Месяц назад +1

      I've heard that excuse a lot.

    • @MAX96MENDES
      @MAX96MENDES Месяц назад

      @@MrDavee1 Its true. The best and most famous guitar players, play and practice for more than 6+ hours a day, and that is EVERY DAY !
      That is how much dedication you have to put in , if you want to play really good and in less time.

  • @robertclarkguitar
    @robertclarkguitar Месяц назад

    Passion. Talent is usually from passion. So working seems like a joy ...lol

  • @ericskinner7355
    @ericskinner7355 26 дней назад +1

    Thanks, I needed to hear this.

  • @dragan4658
    @dragan4658 Месяц назад

    Confidence is a viable part of success in any activity and you make very valid points about confidence Elmo! 🤘

  • @RickMichaelis63
    @RickMichaelis63 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing Elmo🙏✌️❤️🎶🎵🎼🎸😎

  • @hoosierdaddy2308
    @hoosierdaddy2308 Месяц назад +1

    Absolutely. I totally agree.
    My wise farmer grandfather used to say " can't isn't the person that doesn't try! ".. It's so true. ❤
    We can always do more than we give ourselves credit for. Totally agree and everyone does this at some point. ❤
    That's not football. That's soccer . 😂 . Just teasing. ❤
    Be well my friend. You're a good teacher sir. ❤
    It isn't talent. Talent is just hard work that you put in the hours. You just have to have positive attitudes as you say and work hard. ❤
    Regards from the heartland of USA.
    Tim . ❤

  • @SBsoton
    @SBsoton 24 дня назад

    Good advice👍🏻

  • @daniellarson3068
    @daniellarson3068 Месяц назад

    Wow! I wish I would have had Elmo as a teacher as a kid. The lessons Elmo teaches us here is true of anything. Somewhere people get the idea that they should be "naturals." One does not learn any craft without starting at the basics and slowly honing your skills. If your attitude is destroyed before you even start, whatever you are doing won't get done. Rome wasn't built in a day. Anyone who has ever built anything realizes that it is "cut and try." Finally you may get it to fit right.
    Some people are good teachers and some aren't. I guess the good teachers like Elmo have the right attitude. They haven't given up on the rest of us. I bet he has got quite a lot of those 14 year olds to play "right."

  • @Aries_Alpha
    @Aries_Alpha Месяц назад

    I agree we are all different and some are naturally better at certain things than others. I've played for 25 years I started at 16 and not getting started early enough on music theory held me back so much as a beginner, I was learning songs/riffs but I had no idea what I was doing or why it worked. It made me a much better player quickly once I started learning as much as I could in the spare time I had.

  • @pedrocacela1885
    @pedrocacela1885 Месяц назад

    People seem to forget that talent and vocation are not the same thing. It's all about vocation not inate talent. If one has the love and the interest and, therefore, the fascination for a certain activity, by putting the long, hard work, which is like pleasure, they eventually will become good at what they have vocation for. Such is the case of music and musical instruments.

  • @tymanngruter1808
    @tymanngruter1808 Месяц назад

    Thank you for make my day interesting! Without play our beloved piece of wood, we have food for tought to! 👏👏👏

  • @johnnorth9355
    @johnnorth9355 Месяц назад

    I have spent 55 years going back and forth improving and going backwards on guitar and I agree it's a state of mind. In my own mind (and perhaps in reality) I still suck but I know enough to bring a room of people to a stop in amazement when I want too. Speed is not what is really impressive so don't go there first. Concentrate on musicality and you can keep yourself and others amused for hours.

  • @cahhazley8241
    @cahhazley8241 Месяц назад

    thank you.

  • @jogmas12
    @jogmas12 Месяц назад

    I actually try to learned more difficult songs beyond my skill set on guitar as a way to help me improve

  • @farber2
    @farber2 Месяц назад

    When your efforts are rewarded, it works.

  • @nicks931
    @nicks931 Месяц назад +1

    Confidence!

  • @christophersheeler4380
    @christophersheeler4380 Месяц назад

    Are you trying to tell me something, Elmo...LOL 😂

  • @Kadotus
    @Kadotus Месяц назад

    Only be negative when you are tested for a disease. I have large hands, but my fingers are relatively short. Yet, I was able to learn difficult Yngwie stuff when I was just a teenager. I just played a lot and wanted to be better than my friends who also played the guitar. A little competition really helps, but there is no substitute for practice, practice, and more practice.

  • @scotchgod8478
    @scotchgod8478 Месяц назад +1

    My guitar playing doesn't stink unless i crack a fart while playing😁

  • @Harrythe1st
    @Harrythe1st Месяц назад

    I've had guitar over 35yrs in my life, haven't been actively player and that is one of the reason, also I'm left handed but I got a birthday present a righthanded electric aria guitar, when I was 13 and started playing with that but I just enjoy playing, band times are way behind at this point 😅

  • @JacubWhite38
    @JacubWhite38 Месяц назад +1

    I put cologne on my guitar so my playing doesn't stink nearly as bad anymore

  • @transparent6748
    @transparent6748 Месяц назад

    Don’t tell me we all haven’t wondered if our fingers/hands were to blame for limited guitar playing lol

  • @stevepelham9010
    @stevepelham9010 Месяц назад

    Yeahh my grandpa was an musician a trubadur, studioplayer and a hired gun. He was an lousy teatcher as it was all about him, he throwed some fast advanced licks with an ease, eyhh? Hehehe... you try! Mehehee no no but you will learn you must follow study and train as hard and then ( in about 100 years after) maybe... well I was smart enough as to figure that out.
    As I was stiff uper lip to hell with that I learned by chord tabels and as lissening step by step on tunes that I liked I had friends that played guitar we shared progress.

  • @ezrhino100
    @ezrhino100 25 дней назад

    This not what I was expecting.. but it's true. You will be surprised at what you can play. You simply attempt it....

  • @MAX96MENDES
    @MAX96MENDES Месяц назад

    Why Your Guitar Playing Stinks?
    I know my guitar playing stinks but....but.... but you don´t have to tell everyone, Elmo !!! LOL
    I am still learning. Everyday a new chords and a new Riff :)

  • @darrinwarner4046
    @darrinwarner4046 Месяц назад

    Read "with winning in mind". Language you use can derail so many things in progress. I don't like being around people that talk like that. It's about sports but it's the same thing. I'm 50. Come from a flamenco/classical background. And working on playing like Yngwie. I have no doubt I'll be able to do it, I just. Don't know how long it'll take. But I don't care. Every time I can speed up the metronome it's kinda exciting.

  • @jaunianise4172
    @jaunianise4172 Месяц назад +1

    3:33 Django Reinhardt, short fingers too :D

  • @chrisstevens4680
    @chrisstevens4680 Месяц назад

    Angus has very short fingers and Tony Iommi chopped off the end of his fingers….. they seam to play quite well!!🤘(Then there is Hommer Simpson who famously said to Bart: “Never try”! 🤣)

    • @chrisstevens4680
      @chrisstevens4680 Месяц назад

      The video pop up on how to practice didn’t pop up……..

  • @markopokupcic8525
    @markopokupcic8525 24 дня назад

    Hy Elmo!
    Harley Benton st modern. New angel in Thomann. Go and review it, I don't care how you get it, steal her.

  • @No_Comment87
    @No_Comment87 Месяц назад +1

    I just need a new Ibanez, wizard neck bla bla bla. That should do it

  • @MusicalBoys18
    @MusicalBoys18 27 дней назад

    Brother why dont u review jakson js 24

  • @patrickunderwood5662
    @patrickunderwood5662 Месяц назад

    “Steve Vai started when he was 14! Now don’t you feel better?” 62-y-o me: “Well… uhh… actually…” 🤣 Hey I get your point. Jus kiddin

  • @pete614
    @pete614 24 дня назад

    Some people are great musicians. Some people are fantastic in other things. Its really important to GIVE IT A TRY. Maybe you are like me and pick up guitar after 30 years of not playing 😁

  • @robphillips8351
    @robphillips8351 Месяц назад

    P.s. that is some good advice though 👍👍

  • @Natch67
    @Natch67 Месяц назад

    It's hasn't started to stink quite yet, but it is turning a little rancid.. (Good post/points.)

  • @squirelova1815
    @squirelova1815 Месяц назад

    Negative? I'll tell 'ya when I was a kid I was so ugly when my parents got my school photos in the mail they only kept the Negatives, alright?

  • @Blodtann
    @Blodtann Месяц назад

    How do you know I suck? Is RUclips two-way now??

  • @Timmyfigs
    @Timmyfigs Месяц назад +1

    Did you bug my house?! lol jk Yeah you gotta at least try. You talked before about "playing to your strengths" and one can't find their strengths if they don't try lots of things.

  • @matzer8846
    @matzer8846 Месяц назад

    Great description of the self erected wall with all your whishes behind that "big" wall
    Thanks a lot for sharing

  • @PaulVigil-jl8ce
    @PaulVigil-jl8ce Месяц назад

    Hay elmo i love when u answer the hateful comments ur a funny a hell.u could be a comedian.i just want to say i think ur guitar playing is fantastic. I would love to see anyone of the haters play against u but they dont dare.its easier to talk shit there just jealous.u seem like a really kool dude. And a great father god bless u and ur family. All the way from sunny california later rhino

  • @patrickunderwood5662
    @patrickunderwood5662 Месяц назад

    One of most thought-provoking guitar teaching points I ever heard was “you must play something so many times that your brain is no longer needed.” Which in reality means, a long road ahead. There might be tricks and shortcuts, and obviously there are efficient and inefficient ways to practice, but it eventually comes down to just hammering at the problem over and over until the magical moment happens. Then pick the next problem, and get back to hammering!