Ain't no need for no race to cap or clap. This boomerang was delivered like a thrown UPS package. I was bout to say "safaree, you" **immediate pause** ooop, Karma looked at me and said "Sis, daughta, this ain't it. The way Safaree acted up is the same way Erica acted up a few seasons back. Have a quiet seat." I closed my mouth, and got a folding chair. Karma don't lie and she don't miss. Believe that.
being a preference never got anyone treated better hence all the beautiful women of the world of all races having troubles with men, preference is just a physical want and a man has to respect more than the physical to treat his woman “differently” or “better”
Facts I didn’t wanna laugh cuz I do feel bad but it was funny to see. I’ve been there so I get it but you gotta remember who you are dealing with soul suckers
When the child fell and he didn’t even barely move to see if she was okay, it made me so sick. What a disgusting man. He never wanted kids and he never loved her, just her features. She got a dusty. May God cover and bless those children. Erica definitely is getting her karma. May he get his as well and 10x harsher for how he is treating his kids.
@@animezae because she was lifting up the guitar and besides he didn’t even react to catch her, wouldn’t that be your first reflex instead of standing dumb with your mouth open about to laugh?!
I completely agree that amount of times I've seen peoples karma come right back at them x2 lord it wasn't pretty. Also I love your videos Chuuzus you brighten my day every time I watch them ☺
Damn he humiliated the hell out of her. The clip of him laughing when his kid fell was actually twisted. This guy ain't a good person. They're both messes.
@@jacks4009 because they think they supposed to get over on them More. They think they're in titled to control these women because society say they're feminine but black woman are infact more feminine.
Don’t forget how she was sleeping and creeping with DJ Envy while he was very publicly married. She didn’t care about the sanctity of marriage. She would still take shots at his wife on the internet long after it was over and made public. With all that said, Erica had every opportunity to see what Safaree was all about but was too busy hating on Nicki and Cyn. Safaree needs only supervised visitations with those kids. His behavior while he was knowingly and willingly on camera speaks volumes. Sickening!
I remember her calling numerous women ugly, calling BP monkey, she's said nasty things to many people. She's milking this situation, she likes attention. She had a rough life, but that's no excuse.
As a Jamaican woman, who was born in Jamaica and grew up seeing the Jamaican men in my family play women and do the same thing safaree has done to Erica.it’s sad and I feel bad for her. I stay far away from that type of energy
Even if Safaree is Erica’s karma , the kids don’t deserve a father like that. I feel so bad for the children and the fact that their father’s irresponsibility is broadcasted on TV for everyone to see. How embarrassing. I pray they don’t get too much trauma of having a terrible father
No. The kids don't deserve a father like that, but she saw the potential nightmare, the red flags and the neon stop signs before any of the babies were conceived, and before the "I do". I'm certain Maya Angelou wanted to yell "He been BEEN showed you who he was, and you refused to believe him."
the more i listen to women the more i agree with kevin samuels. He did not want kids. Women have this weird idea that men love children automatically...it does not happen for all men. When you force huge emotional and responsibility on people...does it occur to some of you that i causes resentment...even if the person try to live up to the task. and asking for too damn much for a man that is an asshole. She choose him
Literally never heard any other group of men ever say this. As a father, why wouldn’t you want to shield her from pain as much as possible? I really need ppl to be careful with who they procreate with. Our daughters deserve better. It’s sad.
As someone that went through narcissistic abuse, it’s hard for me to hear that anyone would receive that as their karma. I truly think Bow Wow was Erica’s karma. And Safaree was her lesson that gave her her children. But yeah if this is what Erica went through with just 3 years with him, I can’t imagine what Nicki went through.
@@blackhearted_af omg is that why she said she was off to bigger and better things at that reunion years ago? cuz she was engaged to bow wow? LMFAOOOO God forgive me. I respect Bow Wow but hell nawl.
I don’t feel sorry for Erica. She thought she was better than BW, & was laughing about how she “got our man.” Why would you have another child with a man who was such a poor father to his 1st one? 🤡🤡
BW look at everything as some type of attack on them. Her getting with safaree has nothing to do with BW. The reality is that most black men who are able to date out and get something attractive will in most cases opt for that option.
Ima be honest. I don’t like how Safaree did her. HOWEVER, I see through Erica’s act. A lot of people say she has grown and I must disagree. She has learned how to adapt and play victim like a true narcissist. Not that long ago she was exposed for hiding behind a fake page that was bad talking Cyn. I believe she met her match and couldn’t take the same narcissistic behavior returned to her.
It’s not a reach, this man literally said he’s obsessed with her hair and it’s regular Hispanic hair, that I’m sure he grew up around in Brooklyn cause I did…Nikki said it thou
I think it's deeper than that though. You know Erica had the mouth of a ninja. She was going to keep verbally attacking until she drew blood, a liver, spleen and some tendons. Safaree is a hurt boy in an adult body, and somewhere (maybe off camera) she rang a volatile verbal bell that couldn't be 'unrung'. She blames everything on him, but you cannot tell me she didn't take emasculating digs at him until he became a blank screen. She targeted a deep hurt in him, to combat for the hurt she felt in that relationship.
That narcissism came back to bite tenfold. I still remember her doing this grand exit from the show like she moved on to bigger and greater things compared to the other cast members. Fast-forward years later she's back on the show where we've seen her constantly degrade in humility and health. I don't want to laugh at her downfall because her drastic weight loss gives off signs that anything can happen. God forbid we make fun of someone one day and they be gone the next.
You on it. Plus, (this is my opinion). Safaree has some deeply rooted issues he grazed the surface of, before Erica. I honestly feel like (off camera) Erica did what we have ALL seen her do years before. She turns her words into blades laced with poison to hurt ppl. You cannot tell me when the cameras were off, she did not use her words to butcher safaree. I don't excuse him, but he hasn't grown up, and he isn't accountable for his actions...but Erica said something to him that rung a bell that could never be unrung. They both are narcissistic.
I can’t stop thinking how she had the option to be humble and kind throughout the years. Her beauty was a blessing as it got her in many rooms but instead she choose to act nasty, mean, etc and she received exactly what she gave. Misery. I don’t feel happy about , I don’t feel sad about it. I feel validated in my understanding of the world’s energy - you get what you put out. Let’s focus our pity on those that are In unfortunate circumstances beyond their control or contribution. Like the children
@@Butterfly1798 I thought I was the only one seeing that..... Like everyone else is like "he's stressing her tf out". Which is understandable...... BUT what about that damn surgery she got. Her lips look swollen, she looks so small. Like is it really just me??? 😐
Of course he’s her Karma, I also do believe that people do to you what you allow them to…… My mom always says never tell a man what you’ve been through with your ex’s because he’ll think that he can do the same thing and get away it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I agree but with some discretion, I did let my current partner know about what happened with my ex because it’s behaviour I will NEVER stand for again and he knows not to try it with me or I’m out stat.
In my opinion… like you said “hurt people hurt people”. Erica hasn’t had the best upbringing and childhood. She looks for love in all the wrong men and gets hurt. Then she starts to become the people who hurt her. I don’t think she deserves any of this and neither does her babies 🥺 everyone has done messed up things in life especially for fame. I hope things get better for her ❤️🩹 and before someone says she’s a grown adult and should know how to treat people… imma just say this, your childhood trauma has an effect on the person you are when you’re older. It takes time to break those chains.
marriage & children within 3 years of knowing someone…. i can’t wait till people realize that having children is not NEEDED to have a perfect family yall. kids are a lot of damn work. MARRIAGE is a lot of work. you can be complete without both. stress is a silent killer lol don’t get into nun you can’t even handle
THIS!! My bf has really been talking about marriage & im letting it be known that kids are in the FAR future IF AT ALL!! It literally changes the WHOLE dynamic of the relationship. It’s stressful. I’m 25 with no kids, my bf is 30 with no kids & I’m trying to let him know this is a BEAUTIFUL space to be in!
@@babyg7796 it will test your relationship for sure. My husband and I were deep in love and together, blissfully, for 4 years before we had our first child. Despite all that, having a child took us down through there.
Exactly. And the most unfortunate thing is the karma always fall on their daughters, when they grow up the mostly end up with men just like their dads.
Stand down Black women. This is NOT your fight. This is between a self-loathing Ninja and his preference. If the preference is down, stand down and let HER ethnic sisters help her.
@@sitarules1722 if that’s the case, those side shots ain’t worth this kind of karma. Someone throws rocks and then gets hit with a barrage of bullets as karma..over the top people.
Erica has lost so much weight it’s sad , Karma is Karma but i pray she recovers , i wouldnt wish this on anyone but Nicki literally said what type of man this is yet she thought she was different 🙃 Nonetheless this is the privilege of not being a preference ❤
CORRECTION…Erica thought she was BETTER than Nicki Minaj because she was mixed . She even publicly disrespected Nicki when Nicki didn’t do her a thing.
@@temiakinbo5898 exactly!!! And black men treat them just as shitty…. Talking about he loves her hair 🤦🏽♀️ , what’s so special about it? His mom has a beautiful head of hair too… anyway Nikki did try to warn us about how disrespectful he is and she was minding his ass
I honestly think Erica is a person who’s been hurt a lot and that’s why she used to act the way she acted. It was like a defensive mechanism. If she hurt people first then she could act like she wasn’t really hurting. This Safaree situation pushed her practically over the edge. He’s trash and I feel bad for her. She’s made mistakes in past relationships that she still hasn’t owned up to, but to have children with a man like this is something I don’t believe any woman deserves.
To play devils advocate she the one who put the child in that area around all that equipment he was holding her then she came in n took the baby she was closest to the baby but they were both in the wrong
I also did not recognize Erica- she looks so drastically different. As you said, if it wasn't for her voice, her speaking I wouldn't have known that's her when I saw the clip. That man, Safaree DRAINED HER🙁! And yes Erica, is another case by herself (all the toxic stuff she did & what you reap is what you sow) but either way, regardless....what she's going through is sad and I wouldn't want anyone going through that. What Safaree did to her is absolutely hurtful! I feel bad for their kids, sigh I hope she gets herself together for them. They need her....they need Safaree too💔
He definitely enjoys the chase. Nicki warned us. He proposed to that other chick but because she said no he went and gave the ring to Erica. Erica clearly hasn't grown because she chose safaree to settle down with. Goes to show that the "preference" gets dogged out too. The fact that she acknowledges that he has an obsession with her hair of all things smh. Amidst all her crap and pain she's caused people I just hate that the kids have to be a part of the get back too. She is stressed!
@@hannahzeplin2794 Gabriel Davis was the girls name and when the girl exposed SAFAREE a What did Erica do call the girl a basic bitch. Tasha K interviewed the girl
Man Erica can’t get no higher u are what u attract she can’t get no top notch dude and stay with that one guy cmon now who u think gonna stay with her long term or marriage can u name someone?
I think Safaree’s Karma is him being “broke”. Regardless of what he does, he will never reach the financial level he wants. He literally depends on women to earn money. If Erica Mena ignored old dude, he would’ve been cut from Love & HipHop
1. I feel like this is her karma 2. I don’t feel bad for her 3. I’m not really invested in their situation because both of them are equally toxic. 4. Even tho I don’t have any feelings to this situation I do pray that for the sake of her children Erica can pull herself back up. All I can do is send my thoughts & prayers and mind my black woman business
Erica is messy and immature but this being her karma?…. The thing we don’t want to acknowledge is that abusive relationships can happen to any of us. Sitting up on a high horse and calling another woman’s trauma and sorrow “karma” doesn’t sit right with me. It is a way to deflect the blame from the man and place it on the woman. It is victim blaming. The universe didn’t put this on her because she deserved it. These are SAFAREE’S actions. Nothing mystical or karmic about it.
These preferences gone learn... There almost like a fetish... I actually feel bad for Erica tho. She clearly is losing weight and that's after the bbl. What's Krazy is I have to be careful about who I mess with too tho. When a man cheats on me I can't eat or sleep either.. That's why I have to be VERY mindful of who I give my heart to! I almost feel like a man has to like me a Lil more than I like him...
@@julieth1991angel her tears don’t match what she’s doing. You’re happy to be divorced but complain and cry that he’s only giving you 4,000$ for the kids??? 4,000$ a month is more than enough for those kids and for you to live good!! I can’t believe people are on her side with this. They’re both nasty people only difference is she thought she could get more out of him. Cause what she got in the end wasn’t enough for her.
@@chidiogoikeh4550 karma doesn’t just hit you. It hits people around you. Cause people you love are apart of you. That’s why you always be a genuine good person. The people around you benefit from that.
I agree, I feel the same way about this situation, from a woman and mother perspective I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy, it’s truly traumatic. But I do believe in karma, and that eventually you will indeed reap what you sow…
Mona Scott Young is a genius. Reality gold. And Erica wanted the money and she became the sacrifice. And she really stepped on a lot of people to get here. I don't feel sorry for her. I do feel bad for the kids.
I think he was looking at her looks and fell for that, until he actually got to know her. There was an episode that he was telling her that he don't like her aggressive side of her, then Erica started to mock him. So yeah, her to know the person you're with, don't go off just looks
Y’all talking about the way she did Cyn, Cyn is a colorist!! Stop BW. None of the preferences fuck with us. I love that they are getting the same energy that BW been getting for years. They thought they would get treated better 😂😂😂!!! SURPRISE SHAWTYYY
I like what you said towards the end, because it's true: if we thought Erica's karma was bad, SAFAREE'S karma is going to drag him to the pits of Hell and he just may not come back. 😖 You canNOT do that to people and prosper in the long term. Just can't. 🤷🏾♀
Safaree has been out here on a Safari with these women, trying to touch everything he sees. He is definitely her karma though. Erica has had a terrible demeanor and was openly cheating with a married man. You can’t live a life of aggression and chaos and expect a man who probably saw all of these things, to be soft and real with you. As much as this word has been over used recently, Safaree is truly a narcissist. He does toxic shit and then love bombs afterwards as if he didn’t make a CHOICE. Text book narcissist.
@@sassybull501 Sure do. They are each others karma, but I was simply staying on topic of the video. Im sure you can see by my comment that I’m not here for nothing Safaree got going on lol. Neither of them are the best people on earth.
This is almost like watching a horror movie. I don’t even see this situation as entertainment. It’s a little too sad for that. I feel like we just have to take this as a cautionary tale and try to be more discerning about the people we decide to share our lives with. I know it’s not always easy to spot things that are bad for you but we gotta do our best to not dismiss the red flags when they present themselves. 🚩
I remember when Safaree was going hard for Juju Castaneda but my girl peeped his game and stayed clear of his mess. So glad she created her boundaries and stuck to them. On the other hand, I feel nothing for Erick. I do feel bad for the children though because they don't deserve this. But as a Jamaican woman, listen, all Jamaican men do is give women stress and high blood-pressure. Be warned ladies.
he played her even before they was married but she still went ahead, she was busy attacking the side chicks instead of checking him. That made made him see her as a threat and walk over. Safaree is still not yet over Mrs Petty, because even after breaking up with her, shes very much successful. He loves hurting Erica because of the attention he gets. Safareeis an attention parasite, he will hurt her just so people could see he got a new fur coat.
Personally I don’t like the fact that people are saying this is Erica’s karma because karma implies you deserve what’s happening to you and I don’t believe anyone deserves this. Regardless of how nasty someone was there are somethings no one deserves.
So did DJ Envy’s wife deserve Erica harassing her after she found out DJ Envy was married? Yeah this is Erica’s karma for acting like she’s better than other women..life humbles you something serious
He definitely did not prey on that woman, Erica a grown ass woman and just as if not more manipulative as Safaree. She had an affair with a married man TWICE and played a lot of games in all her other relationships. Safaree is not innocent but Erica def got her Karma. she loved that Safaree was obsessed with her she wasn’t in love with that man but with the image she believed he could provide for her.(married woman)
I just can’t with guys like Safaree. I became extremely selective about who I might have kids with learning about men like this. I used to think I wanted kids, then I thought I’d be able to have them if my partner wanted them even if I didn’t, now I don’t plan on having them at all. This is after dealing with someone who was “one of the good guys.” We had a disagreement about Roe v Wade being overturned (that should’ve been my first red flag), and I was stating that out of the many reasons women deserve to have the right to have an abortion, one of those reasons are health concerns - sometimes death. The man I was arguing with said “that’s like a 1% chance,” completely minimizing legitimate concerns and showing how much he doesn’t care about the woman’s choice. Very much implying that basically, none of the woman’s concerns matter because “Imma get what I want out of her.” They’re not the ones who have to carry the child for 9 months. That’s when I decided men deserve absolutely nothing 😂 Pregnancy is a huge burden, yet he acted so entitled to it when he knew I didn’t want kids. As if what I wanted didn’t matter. Long story short, I believe what we can learn from Erica and Safaree is don’t get attached if y’all aren’t even compatible, don’t rush in telling your new partner how you’ve been traumatized (if they’re a narcissist they WILL use it to manipulate you), and having kids is not a quick or fun decision, you’re raising a life with someone else so be extremely selective.
I agree with the second part of your comment. Also men need to careful not to get trapped with a manipulative woman who lied being on birth control. There’s evil people out there As roe vs wade, don’t sleep around with a man you’ll never see as a potential father and the same goes for the man. Don’t sleep around, use protection, get birth control, use spermicide. There’s no reason for consensual sex to result in pregnancy,, when there’s so many preventative measures.
@@mrworkowt5419 No clue. I don’t care about what they’ve done, it doesn’t affect me personally. I’m just making a general statement based on what they’ve made public, a toxic situation I recognized I can relate to in some ways. Also, I don’t believe it can be said for fact that they knew what they were getting into. Like bro, did you watch the video? Safaree said HIMSELF he didn’t know how much work having a child would be and now that he has one, it’s not the life he wants lol. He clearly did not know. And if Erica is so hurt and surprised by his behavior, she obviously didn’t know what she was getting into either. Her judgment was probably clouded by the idea of their future together.
@@jaesirens I'm sure they knew exactly who each other were they were trying to boost some ratings for the TV show. And really I'm just commenting I really don't care either LOL
When they first started their relationship, everyone was rooting for them. I wanted things to go well but…in the back of my mind I was like, has no one seen Safarees behavior with Nicki? I knew it wasn’t ending well but I hoped for the best. Now I’m waiting for Safaree’s karma 😂
I don’t believe that’s her karma. We all know Erica isn’t the greatest person, but as someone who had a horrible pregnancy health wise, and my fiancé was out cheating , and I was alone during the scariest time of my life . No woman deserves that pain not matter .
I tell my friends all the time , be careful who you have kids with, If a man dosen't love you unconditionally , How is he going to feel about your kids?
Thank u Eloho. I haven’t forgotten how Eric Mena bullied BW and different women on love and hip hop for years. Ive been saying for months that Safaree is her karma. She should have chose better.
I think no one deserves this, the reason I say that is because I’ve dated a narcissist and it’s awful! Luckily we did not get married or have children but I can only imagine how she feels. He’s literally an energy vampire, I mean look at her 😢
I’m not cape-ing for Erica at all but it’s obvious she was uncomfortable with his obsession with her hair. I remember seeing the full clip and noticing how cringey it was. He completely objectifies her and I think Erica was tired of that in her life. She really wanted stability. I don’t think he’s ever gotten over Nicki and what he continue to miss out on (lifestyle) now that that relationship is over. Running around young and rich and carefree for 12 years with Nicki. Erica looks like a shell of herself. It’s really sad to see. A lot of times men like him get their karma when their kids grow up the man grows old without them caring. Sheesh
true he misses the spotlight he had when he was with Nicki. This dude had it all for free, and now he realizes he will never have that life with any of this wanna be rappers. He wouldn't have acted like this had it been Nicki.
No he's a child even nicki saw that. He got famous for being with nicki and now he's not doing nothing important but chasing childish things. She was ready for stability her whole career has been to hustle for her family and now she has to do it again.
Safaree is an emotional vampire. He affected Erica to the point she’s looking stressed out. I just want to say I can’t emphasize with Erica since she did the same in her other past relationship but she literally met her match with Safaree and he took a lot from her. As others have stated, I do feel bad for the children involved
“When the preference isn’t preferred anymore” Not to be mean but we can’t put all the blame on safaree. She is a grown woman, she could’ve left ages ago before the kids, even after. She stayed she wanted to put up with his shit. Leaving hurts yes but staying hurts way more.
@@chidiogoikeh4550 ok 🙄 I really don’t feel bad for her and that’s completely fine 😭 it’s not like I know her anyway, but based on the way she’s acted on tv and her decisions to be with safaree, she pretty much asked for this.
Honestly, I hate the karma narrative bc literally the same thing happened to me... to a T this past year and I'm a honest and good hearted person. Some people legitimately suck and I don't think its up to us to determine who deserves what. Also being that I experienced this in my life the only person I would wish this pain on is my soon to be ex-husband. It is an excruciating one.
Somethings aren't karma it's self love and parents who didn't teach you the game of being in a relationship with certain types of men. I bet if she knew better she would have seen signs through that fake charming act.
@@musicismyhothotsex92 You are right, Cyn was the one who said that. But my point is, Erica has been disrespectful to black women as well. And she has that same mindset that Cyn had. They think because they are a preference to black men, that somehow comes with "better treatment". And that is rarely ever the case. They get treated worse a lot of the times. Nicki Minaj warned the world about Safaree, yet Erica thought he was going to be "better" for her. I think not. Tigers rarely ever change their stripes.
Do I feel sorry for Erica? Of course I do. Can you imagine going through what she has? It's awful. Did Erica earn what she's going through because of how she's treated everyone else? Yeah she did. You get back what you put out. Both statements are true simultaneously.
Erica has caused this feeling in others as well as made light of DV. I can’t feel bad for it. Her and Safaree are the same person. Also she made the mistake of thinking because she was a preference she would be treated better, she learned the hard way. Kanye and Safaree moved very similar with their preferences.
I honestly think the ONLY APPEAL that these non black women find about these type of black men is that they don’t like black women. She knew who he was. They are too busy throwing themselves into competition with black women for black men who publicly have denounced black women, only to find out, they are competing for no reason. These people are so anti black woman they can’t even look at the facts. Black women are not running after these men. When they are warned they don’t take heed. They automatically feel they are better. Ok now here repercussions. Now who is telling the truth while you are having to live it. Smh.
Black women. This isn’t our fight😌 let’s stay cute, melanated, kinky coiled,and stress free✨💅🏾
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Amen
Amen to that ❤️ I’m not caping for no damn body 💯
Ain't no need for no race to cap or clap. This boomerang was delivered like a thrown UPS package.
I was bout to say "safaree, you" **immediate pause** ooop, Karma looked at me and said "Sis, daughta, this ain't it. The way Safaree acted up is the same way Erica acted up a few seasons back. Have a quiet seat."
I closed my mouth, and got a folding chair. Karma don't lie and she don't miss. Believe that.
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That man done aged her 10 years! When being a preference doesn't get you treated as a preference.
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RIGHT!
being a preference never got anyone treated better hence all the beautiful women of the world of all races having troubles with men, preference is just a physical want and a man has to respect more than the physical to treat his woman “differently” or “better”
you telling me she isnt 50??? omg
@@Shellfish_Lobster she looks 30/40
Erica looks like a stressed out addict .... meanwhile Safaree looks refreshed without a care in the world... it's really sad
Facts I didn’t wanna laugh cuz I do feel bad but it was funny to see. I’ve been there so I get it but you gotta remember who you are dealing with soul suckers
This is exactly what I was thinking!!
Yeah he puts nothing into the relationship or children. He takes only.
That's usually the case when you date guys like that because they're usually really toxic lmaooo
What u want him to do?
Look stress like her?
"He married her for her hair" lmao😭 that's what she gets how embarrassing
And she gobbled all that attention up! Its sad to see it now
I saw that clip recently and I was speechless. These men are something else.
Yep! And she thought it was cute so....🤷♀️
When the child fell and he didn’t even barely move to see if she was okay, it made me so sick. What a disgusting man. He never wanted kids and he never loved her, just her features. She got a dusty. May God cover and bless those children. Erica definitely is getting her karma. May he get his as well and 10x harsher for how he is treating his kids.
While my heart doesn't bleed for Erica, seeing Safaree not react to their child falling hurts my heart for her.
Bet you the child won't do it again...🤷♂️
@@TomikaKelly FALL??? LOLL
He damn near laughed too
She was closer to the baby than he was. I don't see why she expected him to pick the baby up before her tbh
@@animezae because she was lifting up the guitar and besides he didn’t even react to catch her, wouldn’t that be your first reflex instead of standing dumb with your mouth open about to laugh?!
this is why i believe in karma and never looking down on others because one thing about this world? what goes around always comes back no matter what
Yeah, and laughing and invoking on others will make her spin the block to your house.
I completely agree that amount of times I've seen peoples karma come right back at them x2 lord it wasn't pretty. Also I love your videos Chuuzus you brighten my day every time I watch them ☺
I don’t believe in Karma however I do believe in reaping what you sow.
She doesn't deserve how he treated her
Facts
Men hit the wall too. Men who don’t take care of their kids usually die sad & alone.
my father & mother
@@RedRose01289 which most of them are 😌
They come to the nursing homes with their nasty attitudes mad at the world…some have neglected their children and all smh
Yes. Yes.
Yep like my Dad
Dang! When the preference realizes the same oxtail plate is served to everyone!😂😂😂
Yikes!
ALLEGEDLY!!!!
Its scary what stress can do! She literally looks unrecognisable. Stress is a silent killer
Damn he humiliated the hell out of her. The clip of him laughing when his kid fell was actually twisted. This guy ain't a good person. They're both messes.
Bet you that child will learn not to do whatever caused her to fall...
@@TomikaKelly Tomika. What is your problem. Babies fall
kids fall... now it the baby fell out the bed or down the steps thats a cause for concern that hes laughing and not helping
@@TomikaKelly 😂😂😂😂 what is with you and the SMOKE you have for the baby 😅 all your replies are about the baby falling when that’s what kids do
@@dontdomeboo81 Kids fall and parents pick them up and make sure they’re ok before they even think to start laughing like a jackass
BEST BELIEVE SHE WAS LAUGHING AT BLACK WOMEN LIKE I GOT Y'ALL MAN AND HE'LL TREAT ME BETTER. KARMA SHE GOT THE SAME MAN AS BLACK WOMEN 🤣
Same with Cyn
@@tommesiacooper1258 my point
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In some respects they got the worsa ones.
@@jacks4009 because they think they supposed to get over on them More. They think they're in titled to control these women because society say they're feminine but black woman are infact more feminine.
I don't feel bad for Erica, just for those innocent kids.
Same. He sucks, but she walked into that mess eyes wide open. Those poor children didn’t ask to be here tho.
These poor children keep growing up in broken households and then the parents grow up playing victim with their situation
@@tanvi8346 exactly. playing victim and badmouthing the other parent, exposing the kids to their adult ass problems.
Right
Don’t forget how she was sleeping and creeping with DJ Envy while he was very publicly married. She didn’t care about the sanctity of marriage. She would still take shots at his wife on the internet long after it was over and made public. With all that said, Erica had every opportunity to see what Safaree was all about but was too busy hating on Nicki and Cyn. Safaree needs only supervised visitations with those kids. His behavior while he was knowingly and willingly on camera speaks volumes. Sickening!
I remember her calling numerous women ugly, calling BP monkey, she's said nasty things to many people. She's milking this situation, she likes attention. She had a rough life, but that's no excuse.
As a Jamaican woman, who was born in Jamaica and grew up seeing the Jamaican men in my family play women and do the same thing safaree has done to Erica.it’s sad and I feel bad for her. I stay far away from that type of energy
It’s really embarrassing …. & then the same ones will gaslighting you when you decided not to date them or date out of your race
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Even if Safaree is Erica’s karma , the kids don’t deserve a father like that. I feel so bad for the children and the fact that their father’s irresponsibility is broadcasted on TV for everyone to see. How embarrassing. I pray they don’t get too much trauma of having a terrible father
No. The kids don't deserve a father like that, but she saw the potential nightmare, the red flags and the neon stop signs before any of the babies were conceived, and before the "I do". I'm certain Maya Angelou wanted to yell "He been BEEN showed you who he was, and you refused to believe him."
Exactly!!
Unfortunately children pay for the sins of their father. God knows what he's doing
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the more i listen to women the more i agree with kevin samuels. He did not want kids. Women have this weird idea that men love children automatically...it does not happen for all men. When you force huge emotional and responsibility on people...does it occur to some of you that i causes resentment...even if the person try to live up to the task. and asking for too damn much for a man that is an asshole. She choose him
"She needs to know there is pain in life" Safaree to his Daughter 💀
Childish asl
So evil
Literally never heard any other group of men ever say this. As a father, why wouldn’t you want to shield her from pain as much as possible? I really need ppl to be careful with who they procreate with. Our daughters deserve better. It’s sad.
If my child’s father said something like that I’d give him a free course on his philosophy. That evil man needs to martyr himself.
@@sashav.3189 As a father, he should wanna protect his daughter. SMDH. Not one paternal bone in his body.
When Someone Tell’s You They Don’t Want You. Leave Them Alone. 😔
"She needs to know there is pain in life". Who says that about their baby girl?!? 😶
As someone that went through narcissistic abuse, it’s hard for me to hear that anyone would receive that as their karma. I truly think Bow Wow was Erica’s karma. And Safaree was her lesson that gave her her children. But yeah if this is what Erica went through with just 3 years with him, I can’t imagine what Nicki went through.
Nikki look and act like a narcists too
i didn't even realize her and bow wow dated. how was he her karma, was he that bad?
As a woman who is now recovering from years of narc abuse myself, I feel u girl
@@edawyaj Erica left LHH bcuz she was engaged to Bow Wow and so she thought the show and everyone was beneath her. Boy did that shit age like milk.
@@blackhearted_af omg is that why she said she was off to bigger and better things at that reunion years ago? cuz she was engaged to bow wow? LMFAOOOO God forgive me. I respect Bow Wow but hell nawl.
I don’t feel sorry for Erica. She thought she was better than BW, & was laughing about how she “got our man.” Why would you have another child with a man who was such a poor father to his 1st one? 🤡🤡
I’m so tired of people that are ignorant of history and science to think that whiteness or close to whiteness is better
I don’t particularly like Erica but when did that happen?
BW look at everything as some type of attack on them. Her getting with safaree has nothing to do with BW. The reality is that most black men who are able to date out and get something attractive will in most cases opt for that option.
@@michaelputin28 Seriously….out here making assumptions. Some of y’all black women need therapy.
That was cyn Santana
Ima be honest. I don’t like how Safaree did her. HOWEVER, I see through Erica’s act. A lot of people say she has grown and I must disagree. She has learned how to adapt and play victim like a true narcissist. Not that long ago she was exposed for hiding behind a fake page that was bad talking Cyn. I believe she met her match and couldn’t take the same narcissistic behavior returned to her.
Agreed. Got my 🍿 and admiring the Lord’s work.
@@ultravioletmix33 😂😂 the Lord's work, I love the comments.
@@mecca4lyfe246 lol thanks
that part!
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She thought that her being a non black woman with loose curls would make him act right...that's all that's it😂
What makes you say that ? This is a reach lol
It’s not a reach, this man literally said he’s obsessed with her hair and it’s regular Hispanic hair, that I’m sure he grew up around in Brooklyn cause I did…Nikki said it thou
Definitely not a reach. 😂
Whew Chile that's a word 🎯💅🏽
I think it's deeper than that though. You know Erica had the mouth of a ninja. She was going to keep verbally attacking until she drew blood, a liver, spleen and some tendons.
Safaree is a hurt boy in an adult body, and somewhere (maybe off camera) she rang a volatile verbal bell that couldn't be 'unrung'. She blames everything on him, but you cannot tell me she didn't take emasculating digs at him until he became a blank screen. She targeted a deep hurt in him, to combat for the hurt she felt in that relationship.
That narcissism came back to bite tenfold. I still remember her doing this grand exit from the show like she moved on to bigger and greater things compared to the other cast members. Fast-forward years later she's back on the show where we've seen her constantly degrade in humility and health. I don't want to laugh at her downfall because her drastic weight loss gives off signs that anything can happen. God forbid we make fun of someone one day and they be gone the next.
You on it. Plus, (this is my opinion). Safaree has some deeply rooted issues he grazed the surface of, before Erica. I honestly feel like (off camera) Erica did what we have ALL seen her do years before. She turns her words into blades laced with poison to hurt ppl. You cannot tell me when the cameras were off, she did not use her words to butcher safaree. I don't excuse him, but he hasn't grown up, and he isn't accountable for his actions...but Erica said something to him that rung a bell that could never be unrung. They both are narcissistic.
I don’t think it’s funny and I’m not happy to see it but it’s a cautionary tail for us to do better by people
Yh she was engaged to Bow Wow. That didn't happen
Amen
I can’t stop thinking how she had the option to be humble and kind throughout the years. Her beauty was a blessing as it got her in many rooms but instead she choose to act nasty, mean, etc and she received exactly what she gave. Misery. I don’t feel happy about , I don’t feel sad about it. I feel validated in my understanding of the world’s energy - you get what you put out. Let’s focus our pity on those that are In unfortunate circumstances beyond their control or contribution. Like the children
your comment described perfectly how i feel wow
So ironic how Cyn & Erica acted towards black women & look at the position that BOTH of them are in with black men…
That Karma
Thats rightt look at em now doesn't look or feel good huh ladies 😏
They get the same black men 😂😂
How did Cynthia act towards black women wat happen?
@@Kaleeza457right I’m confused
I didn’t forget about how Erica treated Cyn. As for Safaree, he’s a mess.
i think she was jealous of cyn and took advantage 🤷🏾♀️
Cyn was always vocal about how BM treated her “better” because she was a spicy fajita so I don’t feel bad for her either
@@Aura-Awakened bitch, not a spicy fajita 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Aura-Awakened a fajita😭😭
@@Aura-Awakened FAJITA 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Damn, I feel bad for her child, she looks SOOOO stressed and broke down.
That’s all of the work she got done
And she's only 35 😳
@@twins4life274 WHAT? She's super young.
@@ms.wilson6439 Definitely looks way older.
@@Butterfly1798 I thought I was the only one seeing that..... Like everyone else is like "he's stressing her tf out". Which is understandable...... BUT what about that damn surgery she got. Her lips look swollen, she looks so small. Like is it really just me??? 😐
This makes me want to heal so much more. Boundaries, standard and respect.
I will never be happy when people are hurt or harmed but I also believe that the energy you put out, you will get back 💯🤷🏾♀️
The "preference' gets the same black man.
I just feel for the kids, imagine Safaree is your dad 😮
I just screamed 😭😂😭😭 no for real just imagine 😑
That part 🫣
I know. A shame
Right something tells me he won’t be around much
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Of course he’s her Karma, I also do believe that people do to you what you allow them to…… My mom always says never tell a man what you’ve been through with your ex’s because he’ll think that he can do the same thing and get away it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I agree but with some discretion, I did let my current partner know about what happened with my ex because it’s behaviour I will NEVER stand for again and he knows not to try it with me or I’m out stat.
@@maeahem I was thinking the same thing.
Unfortunately this is true 😰
Yes your mom is speaking the truth mine said the same thing, and i had to learn the hard way
@maeahem Exactly. I like that perspective better
In my opinion… like you said “hurt people hurt people”. Erica hasn’t had the best upbringing and childhood. She looks for love in all the wrong men and gets hurt. Then she starts to become the people who hurt her. I don’t think she deserves any of this and neither does her babies 🥺 everyone has done messed up things in life especially for fame. I hope things get better for her ❤️🩹 and before someone says she’s a grown adult and should know how to treat people… imma just say this, your childhood trauma has an effect on the person you are when you’re older. It takes time to break those chains.
Nobody has a typical good upbringing that don’t excuse someone overall character
Danileigh learned the hard way too. These males say they want ‘yellerbone’ when truly ANY bone would do. Even a McRib with no bones is fine
marriage & children within 3 years of knowing someone…. i can’t wait till people realize that having children is not NEEDED to have a perfect family yall. kids are a lot of damn work. MARRIAGE is a lot of work. you can be complete without both. stress is a silent killer lol don’t get into nun you can’t even handle
THIS!! My bf has really been talking about marriage & im letting it be known that kids are in the FAR future IF AT ALL!! It literally changes the WHOLE dynamic of the relationship. It’s stressful. I’m 25 with no kids, my bf is 30 with no kids & I’m trying to let him know this is a BEAUTIFUL space to be in!
@@babyg7796 most men want children after marriage so think long and hard about that wait because that could be a deal breaker for him.
@@babyg7796 it will test your relationship for sure. My husband and I were deep in love and together, blissfully, for 4 years before we had our first child. Despite all that, having a child took us down through there.
Yes! You and your significant other are a family!
@@1westprincess I understand that’s why I made it very clear to him if that’s not what he’s willing to deal with the door is open at any time.
Men like Safaree don’t experience Karma because there will always be women willing to put up with his toxicity, just so they can have a man.
Exactly. And the most unfortunate thing is the karma always fall on their daughters, when they grow up the mostly end up with men just like their dads.
Men like him grow old and alone. Their karma is lying on their death bed with no love ones in sight.
@@jdbruce that part
@@jdbruce Exactly.
They get their karma. Karma does not necessarily come back to people in the same way they dish it.
I ran here. No shoes on lol
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😂😂😂😂me toooooo
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😅 Guilty!
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She is literally physically exhibiting how depleted she is after this relationship…her looks, her posture…he broke her
He broke her because he put her in such a messed up position as a woman.
Stand down Black women. This is NOT your fight. This is between a self-loathing Ninja and his preference. If the preference is down, stand down and let HER ethnic sisters help her.
A REAL man would have jumped to get his child up.
i’ll never get over how erica did cyn, on a surface level i feel for erica just as a woman but this truly is her karma
What did she do to cyn?
What did she do to Cyn?? I thought she left Cyn for Rich
@@shakeeranoel4320 I think it's when she was behind a hidden account talking negative about cyn and then got exposed for it
@@sitarules1722 if that’s the case, those side shots ain’t worth this kind of karma. Someone throws rocks and then gets hit with a barrage of bullets as karma..over the top people.
@@Shannon627 she also cheated on cyn multiple times
Erica has lost so much weight it’s sad , Karma is Karma but i pray she recovers , i wouldnt wish this on anyone but Nicki literally said what type of man this is yet she thought she was different 🙃
Nonetheless this is the privilege of not being a preference ❤
CORRECTION…Erica thought she was BETTER than Nicki Minaj because she was mixed .
She even publicly disrespected Nicki when Nicki didn’t do her a thing.
@@ClowneryAtItsFinest I agree but Erica is really not mixed. She’s a Hispanic WW
@@temiakinbo5898 exactly!!! And black men treat them just as shitty…. Talking about he loves her hair 🤦🏽♀️ , what’s so special about it? His mom has a beautiful head of hair too… anyway Nikki did try to warn us about how disrespectful he is and she was minding his ass
@@ayana188 That’s why Nicki slashed 🔪his a$& up…FCUK HIM TOO🤣.
LEAVE BLACK WOMEN ALONE ALREADY!
@@ayana188 yes imagine what Nicki life would’ve been like as his babymother. She dodge a bullet
I honestly think Erica is a person who’s been hurt a lot and that’s why she used to act the way she acted. It was like a defensive mechanism. If she hurt people first then she could act like she wasn’t really hurting. This Safaree situation pushed her practically over the edge. He’s trash and I feel bad for her. She’s made mistakes in past relationships that she still hasn’t owned up to, but to have children with a man like this is something I don’t believe any woman deserves.
'she needs to learn that there is pain in life'
About a literal TODDLER falling with a guitar on her 🤡Daddy of the year
To play devils advocate she the one who put the child in that area around all that equipment he was holding her then she came in n took the baby she was closest to the baby but they were both in the wrong
I also did not recognize Erica- she looks so drastically different. As you said, if it wasn't for her voice, her speaking I wouldn't have known that's her when I saw the clip. That man, Safaree DRAINED HER🙁! And yes Erica, is another case by herself (all the toxic stuff she did & what you reap is what you sow) but either way, regardless....what she's going through is sad and I wouldn't want anyone going through that. What Safaree did to her is absolutely hurtful! I feel bad for their kids, sigh I hope she gets herself together for them. They need her....they need Safaree too💔
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He definitely enjoys the chase. Nicki warned us. He proposed to that other chick but because she said no he went and gave the ring to Erica. Erica clearly hasn't grown because she chose safaree to settle down with. Goes to show that the "preference" gets dogged out too. The fact that she acknowledges that he has an obsession with her hair of all things smh. Amidst all her crap and pain she's caused people I just hate that the kids have to be a part of the get back too. She is stressed!
Proposed to what other chick?
@@hannahzeplin2794 Gabriel Davis was the girls name and when the girl exposed SAFAREE a
What did Erica do call the girl a basic bitch. Tasha K interviewed the girl
Bruh when Nicki dropped grand piano I cried no one broke up with me 🤣🤣🤣
Man Erica can’t get no higher u are what u attract she can’t get no top notch dude and stay with that one guy cmon now who u think gonna stay with her long term or marriage can u name someone?
I think Safaree’s Karma is him being “broke”. Regardless of what he does, he will never reach the financial level he wants. He literally depends on women to earn money. If Erica Mena ignored old dude, he would’ve been cut from Love & HipHop
1. I feel like this is her karma
2. I don’t feel bad for her
3. I’m not really invested in their situation because both of them are equally toxic.
4. Even tho I don’t have any feelings to this situation I do pray that for the sake of her children Erica can pull herself back up.
All I can do is send my thoughts & prayers and mind my black woman business
Erica is messy and immature but this being her karma?…. The thing we don’t want to acknowledge is that abusive relationships can happen to any of us. Sitting up on a high horse and calling another woman’s trauma and sorrow “karma” doesn’t sit right with me. It is a way to deflect the blame from the man and place it on the woman. It is victim blaming. The universe didn’t put this on her because she deserved it. These are SAFAREE’S actions. Nothing mystical or karmic about it.
These preferences gone learn... There almost like a fetish... I actually feel bad for Erica tho. She clearly is losing weight and that's after the bbl. What's Krazy is I have to be careful about who I mess with too tho. When a man cheats on me I can't eat or sleep either.. That's why I have to be VERY mindful of who I give my heart to! I almost feel like a man has to like me a Lil more than I like him...
Facts
They deserve each other ! Match made in heaven! Not black women’s fight !
I’m so glad to see that a lot of people can see past Erica. She deserves all of this.
How she think those wives felt when she was sleeping with their husbands. Especially Dj Envy’s wife.
Erika baby, stop the tears.
Same she treated everyone around her like shit and expected to be treated like a queen
@@julieth1991angel her tears don’t match what she’s doing. You’re happy to be divorced but complain and cry that he’s only giving you 4,000$ for the kids??? 4,000$ a month is more than enough for those kids and for you to live good!! I can’t believe people are on her side with this. They’re both nasty people only difference is she thought she could get more out of him. Cause what she got in the end wasn’t enough for her.
The poor babies don’t tho 😔😔
@@chidiogoikeh4550 karma doesn’t just hit you. It hits people around you. Cause people you love are apart of you. That’s why you always be a genuine good person. The people around you benefit from that.
I don't know how Nicki dealt with him for so long
I agree, I feel the same way about this situation, from a woman and mother perspective I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy, it’s truly traumatic. But I do believe in karma, and that eventually you will indeed reap what you sow…
Still can't believe nicki dated him for so long 🤦🏾♀️
She dodged a bullet, which is insane to think bc of who she is married to lol
Mona Scott Young is a genius. Reality gold. And Erica wanted the money and she became the sacrifice. And she really stepped on a lot of people to get here. I don't feel sorry for her. I do feel bad for the kids.
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I cant argue the second half. In fact 💯 agree 👢 steps in a lot of people fs!! Makes strong 💪 legs they say on the 🙃 upside 🤷♀️🤭🤍❤️🩹❤️🔥💖💛
He’s a narcissist for real!🤦🏽♀️🥴👀
I think he was looking at her looks and fell for that, until he actually got to know her. There was an episode that he was telling her that he don't like her aggressive side of her, then Erica started to mock him. So yeah, her to know the person you're with, don't go off just looks
No he's a child, she mocked him because she couldn't respect him.
Y’all talking about the way she did Cyn, Cyn is a colorist!! Stop BW. None of the preferences fuck with us. I love that they are getting the same energy that BW been getting for years. They thought they would get treated better 😂😂😂!!! SURPRISE SHAWTYYY
She knows safari is for the streets but she thinks she can change him or something!
Common sense, humility, and discernment will save ya life. She looks like everything she's been through, and she deserves it.
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And so does he. He payung those exotical taxes for the rest of his life. They bith getting what they deserve.
LOL I just know that's a take from Erica Dixon's quote!!!💯
No one deserves that but you deserve it too since that’s your mindset 😊
Exactly. The 🤡 came back to bite. Only women that see themselves in her, pity her.
Girl you said it best any women that take safaree serious after this deserve all they get and then some, safaree is beyond foul.
I like what you said towards the end, because it's true: if we thought Erica's karma was bad, SAFAREE'S karma is going to drag him to the pits of Hell and he just may not come back. 😖 You canNOT do that to people and prosper in the long term. Just can't. 🤷🏾♀
I don’t feel bad for her you always get back what you put out 🤷🏾♀️ she’s stressed & those fillers & surgeries are aging her badly.
Safaree has been out here on a Safari with these women, trying to touch everything he sees. He is definitely her karma though. Erica has had a terrible demeanor and was openly cheating with a married man. You can’t live a life of aggression and chaos and expect a man who probably saw all of these things, to be soft and real with you. As much as this word has been over used recently, Safaree is truly a narcissist. He does toxic shit and then love bombs afterwards as if he didn’t make a CHOICE. Text book narcissist.
Not a safari sis lol
I’m in tears that pun is just😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I guess the good hair wasn't enough to hold the relationship together
Don't y'all think that Safaree deserves Karma too...
@@sassybull501 Sure do. They are each others karma, but I was simply staying on topic of the video. Im sure you can see by my comment that I’m not here for nothing Safaree got going on lol. Neither of them are the best people on earth.
I really see why Nicki never claimed him. Nasty work!!
This is almost like watching a horror movie. I don’t even see this situation as entertainment. It’s a little too sad for that. I feel like we just have to take this as a cautionary tale and try to be more discerning about the people we decide to share our lives with. I know it’s not always easy to spot things that are bad for you but we gotta do our best to not dismiss the red flags when they present themselves. 🚩
Preach
You can literally see Erica looks 2x her age because of him
I remember when Safaree was going hard for Juju Castaneda but my girl peeped his game and stayed clear of his mess. So glad she created her boundaries and stuck to them. On the other hand, I feel nothing for Erick. I do feel bad for the children though because they don't deserve this. But as a Jamaican woman, listen, all Jamaican men do is give women stress and high blood-pressure. Be warned ladies.
I’m sorry but she looks tiiieeeddd 😩🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
he played her even before they was married but she still went ahead, she was busy attacking the side chicks instead of checking him. That made made him see her as a threat and walk over. Safaree is still not yet over Mrs Petty, because even after breaking up with her, shes very much successful. He loves hurting Erica because of the attention he gets. Safareeis an attention parasite, he will hurt her just so people could see he got a new fur coat.
FIRST OF ALL YOU RIGHT!!!!! Chile I been waiting for this take, shoulda known Eloho was gonna be the only one to deliver.
She got the same black man who supposedly puts his preference on a pedestal. She found out.
Personally I don’t like the fact that people are saying this is Erica’s karma because karma implies you deserve what’s happening to you and I don’t believe anyone deserves this. Regardless of how nasty someone was there are somethings no one deserves.
So did DJ Envy’s wife deserve Erica harassing her after she found out DJ Envy was married? Yeah this is Erica’s karma for acting like she’s better than other women..life humbles you something serious
He definitely did not prey on that woman, Erica a grown ass woman and just as if not more manipulative as Safaree. She had an affair with a married man TWICE and played a lot of games in all her other relationships. Safaree is not innocent but Erica def got her Karma. she loved that Safaree was obsessed with her she wasn’t in love with that man but with the image she believed he could provide for her.(married woman)
I just can’t with guys like Safaree. I became extremely selective about who I might have kids with learning about men like this. I used to think I wanted kids, then I thought I’d be able to have them if my partner wanted them even if I didn’t, now I don’t plan on having them at all. This is after dealing with someone who was “one of the good guys.” We had a disagreement about Roe v Wade being overturned (that should’ve been my first red flag), and I was stating that out of the many reasons women deserve to have the right to have an abortion, one of those reasons are health concerns - sometimes death. The man I was arguing with said “that’s like a 1% chance,” completely minimizing legitimate concerns and showing how much he doesn’t care about the woman’s choice. Very much implying that basically, none of the woman’s concerns matter because “Imma get what I want out of her.” They’re not the ones who have to carry the child for 9 months. That’s when I decided men deserve absolutely nothing 😂 Pregnancy is a huge burden, yet he acted so entitled to it when he knew I didn’t want kids. As if what I wanted didn’t matter. Long story short, I believe what we can learn from Erica and Safaree is don’t get attached if y’all aren’t even compatible, don’t rush in telling your new partner how you’ve been traumatized (if they’re a narcissist they WILL use it to manipulate you), and having kids is not a quick or fun decision, you’re raising a life with someone else so be extremely selective.
Girl yes say it out loud for the people in the back 🙌🙌🙏👏👏🙏
They know what they were getting into. And do you know how many dudes that she played out and how many guys she ran through?
I agree with the second part of your comment. Also men need to careful not to get trapped with a manipulative woman who lied being on birth control. There’s evil people out there
As roe vs wade, don’t sleep around with a man you’ll never see as a potential father and the same goes for the man. Don’t sleep around, use protection, get birth control, use spermicide. There’s no reason for consensual sex to result in pregnancy,, when there’s so many preventative measures.
@@mrworkowt5419 No clue. I don’t care about what they’ve done, it doesn’t affect me personally. I’m just making a general statement based on what they’ve made public, a toxic situation I recognized I can relate to in some ways.
Also, I don’t believe it can be said for fact that they knew what they were getting into. Like bro, did you watch the video? Safaree said HIMSELF he didn’t know how much work having a child would be and now that he has one, it’s not the life he wants lol. He clearly did not know. And if Erica is so hurt and surprised by his behavior, she obviously didn’t know what she was getting into either. Her judgment was probably clouded by the idea of their future together.
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I'm sure they knew exactly who each other were they were trying to boost some ratings for the TV show. And really I'm just commenting I really don't care either LOL
When they first started their relationship, everyone was rooting for them. I wanted things to go well but…in the back of my mind I was like, has no one seen Safarees behavior with Nicki? I knew it wasn’t ending well but I hoped for the best. Now I’m waiting for Safaree’s karma 😂
Not everyone rooted for them.
Its so funny how the 'preference" is never treated like a preference. They are placed on this pedestal and glorified but are treated the worst.
I don’t believe that’s her karma. We all know Erica isn’t the greatest person, but as someone who had a horrible pregnancy health wise, and my fiancé was out cheating , and I was alone during the scariest time of my life . No woman deserves that pain not matter .
I am sure u are not as mean spirited like erica!
i totally agree
I tell my friends all the time , be careful who you have kids with, If a man dosen't love you unconditionally , How is he going to feel about your kids?
Thank u Eloho. I haven’t forgotten how Eric Mena bullied BW and different women on love and hip hop for years. Ive been saying for months that Safaree is her karma. She should have chose better.
she light skin she will get over it ☕️
@@ciaraprincess3449 right 😂
@@temiakinbo5898 its true
I think no one deserves this, the reason I say that is because I’ve dated a narcissist and it’s awful! Luckily we did not get married or have children but I can only imagine how she feels. He’s literally an energy vampire, I mean look at her 😢
And Erica is disgusting too.🤷🏾♀️
@@chidiogoikeh4550by your comment you may be as well
They’re literally the devil
@@honeyjohnson8536 how exactly💀
I think everyone deserves their karma.
SHE TALKED ALL OF THAT SHXTT ABOUT BW AND NOW LOOK AT THAT KARMA!!!....KARMA ALWAYSSS COMES....
🤣 I spit out my coffee when she said, "A match made in hell" This whole commentary was hilarious
Nothing happens outside of us. She attracted that broken man because she's broken internally. Gotta stop chasing things externally and HEAL!
I’m not cape-ing for Erica at all but it’s obvious she was uncomfortable with his obsession with her hair. I remember seeing the full clip and noticing how cringey it was. He completely objectifies her and I think Erica was tired of that in her life. She really wanted stability. I don’t think he’s ever gotten over Nicki and what he continue to miss out on (lifestyle) now that that relationship is over. Running around young and rich and carefree for 12 years with Nicki. Erica looks like a shell of herself. It’s really sad to see. A lot of times men like him get their karma when their kids grow up the man grows old without them caring. Sheesh
You’re right! But as for Erica, the men show you you’re a fetish from day one, that should be a red flag and sign to go before the kids come
She loved it at first...but realized that was his main obsession not her
true he misses the spotlight he had when he was with Nicki. This dude had it all for free, and now he realizes he will never have that life with any of this wanna be rappers. He wouldn't have acted like this had it been Nicki.
No he's a child even nicki saw that. He got famous for being with nicki and now he's not doing nothing important but chasing childish things. She was ready for stability her whole career has been to hustle for her family and now she has to do it again.
Most BM stress the hell out of women no matter their race which is why I'm glad I was never attracted to them and stayed away from them.
Safaree is an emotional vampire. He affected Erica to the point she’s looking stressed out. I just want to say I can’t emphasize with Erica since she did the same in her other past relationship but she literally met her match with Safaree and he took a lot from her. As others have stated, I do feel bad for the children involved
“When the preference isn’t preferred anymore” Not to be mean but we can’t put all the blame on safaree. She is a grown woman, she could’ve left ages ago before the kids, even after. She stayed she wanted to put up with his shit. Leaving hurts yes but staying hurts way more.
Maybe what goes around comes around but you can't stay insensitive to Erica's sad situation...
Yes we can
Right..
@@Pickmewhowasntpicked you can but remember what goes around comes around...
@@Sabilou08 so we’re gonna cry over ERICA. Of all women 💀girl wouldn’t take one look at a black woman in the same situation stop caping
@@chidiogoikeh4550 ok 🙄 I really don’t feel bad for her and that’s completely fine 😭 it’s not like I know her anyway, but based on the way she’s acted on tv and her decisions to be with safaree, she pretty much asked for this.
Honestly, I hate the karma narrative bc literally the same thing happened to me... to a T this past year and I'm a honest and good hearted person. Some people legitimately suck and I don't think its up to us to determine who deserves what. Also being that I experienced this in my life the only person I would wish this pain on is my soon to be ex-husband. It is an excruciating one.
I totally get you
Agreed.
But then you aren’t as sick as Erica then. The karma point just doesn’t apply to you
Totally agree
Somethings aren't karma it's self love and parents who didn't teach you the game of being in a relationship with certain types of men. I bet if she knew better she would have seen signs through that fake charming act.
Remember how Erica Mena thought Black men were going to treat her better simply because she is latino? Yea...well....we see how that turned out.
I thought cyn Santana said that?
@@musicismyhothotsex92 You are right, Cyn was the one who said that. But my point is, Erica has been disrespectful to black women as well. And she has that same mindset that Cyn had. They think because they are a preference to black men, that somehow comes with "better treatment". And that is rarely ever the case. They get treated worse a lot of the times. Nicki Minaj warned the world about Safaree, yet Erica thought he was going to be "better" for her. I think not. Tigers rarely ever change their stripes.
Do I feel sorry for Erica? Of course I do. Can you imagine going through what she has? It's awful. Did Erica earn what she's going through because of how she's treated everyone else? Yeah she did. You get back what you put out. Both statements are true simultaneously.
I'm shooketh that erica is only a year older than me. I thought she was in her 40s because she's been around for so long. She grew up WAY too fast.
Getting my daughter ready for school, after I know what I’m watching with my coffee!
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Erica has caused this feeling in others as well as made light of DV. I can’t feel bad for it. Her and Safaree are the same person.
Also she made the mistake of thinking because she was a preference she would be treated better, she learned the hard way.
Kanye and Safaree moved very similar with their preferences.
Safaree was complaining about her starting fights but I thought colorists liked their Latina women “spicy” so I’m confused.
I honestly think the ONLY APPEAL that these non black women find about these type of black men is that they don’t like black women. She knew who he was. They are too busy throwing themselves into competition with black women for black men who publicly have denounced black women, only to find out, they are competing for no reason. These people are so anti black woman they can’t even look at the facts. Black women are not running after these men. When they are warned they don’t take heed. They automatically feel they are better. Ok now here repercussions. Now who is telling the truth while you are having to live it. Smh.