Conquering The Fear Of Being Judged By Others

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @jasonlowe8545
    @jasonlowe8545 2 месяца назад +32

    Whatever people think about you ......they won't be thinking it for long .

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +6

      @@jasonlowe8545 I couldn’t have said it better brother. Thank you! I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

    • @jasonlowe8545
      @jasonlowe8545 2 месяца назад +4

      You too friend, some great advice there, all the best from New Zealand.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +4

      @@jasonlowe8545 hell yeah bro!

    • @Chrisdreamz-ji2sh
      @Chrisdreamz-ji2sh Месяц назад +3

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +5

      @@Chrisdreamz-ji2shThank you. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @johnwoods271
    @johnwoods271 2 дня назад +1

    I put your videos on whilst I'm potter around with my chores- I love inspirational stuff on in the background. This one was definitely meant to be. I was sitting down with just a load of junk I'd pulled out from around the house that for some reason my brain thinks I'll use again. Then your bit on decluttering came on- One hour later sorted into throw away and give away. Feel ten times lighter Sir. Big thanks for the kick up the backside. Your a Top Man

  • @david.s.5336
    @david.s.5336 Месяц назад +10

    “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."-Luke 6,37

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@david.s.5336 I appreciate you brother. Have a wonderful day!

  • @leslyrodriguez4870
    @leslyrodriguez4870 22 дня назад +5

    Chad I want to thank you and for sharing your experiences and as you said that is what makes who we are nothing else. My husband is always telling me that need to share my wisdom and how I see life, that would help people, but I'm always afraid, don't believe i know enough to show others. But everything you said her, help me see me in a different perspective. I am greatful for your wisdom for finding your channel. ❤

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  22 дня назад

      Do it. I’m not an overly intelligent guy. I’m just a normal dude going for a walk. You can do it too.

  • @Alex19831
    @Alex19831 22 дня назад +2

    Peace ✌️🙂
    Keep moving on!

  • @coldpotatoes2556
    @coldpotatoes2556 Месяц назад +4

    The world needs more people like you.🌍🧙

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@coldpotatoes2556 Thank you! I’m just out here doing my best to sprinkle a little goodness around-like confetti, but with fewer cleanup issues. The world could definitely use more of that, right? Appreciate the kind words!

  • @madmanmadani
    @madmanmadani Месяц назад +3

    You’re a wise dude that can communicate well. Appreciate you

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      Thank you for the kind words! I’m just a dude sharing his thoughts and experiences! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!

  • @xikano8573
    @xikano8573 Месяц назад +3

    7:50 BBbbbbbbrrrrrrrrooooooooooo!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!! 👏👏👏

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@xikano8573 I’m glad you’re able to find value in my videos. Thank you for the kind words. I hope you can use that in the future. One of the easiest ways we can give to others and benefit our lives in one motion.

  • @spike200a
    @spike200a Месяц назад +5

    I have found that people judge & critize you mainly because they're envious. For example, if they have kids but you don't then they get really envious of all the free time you have. If you are a couple years younger than them, or healthier than them, same thing. It's always about envy. I am mostly grateful for being judged because it affirms I'm on the right track. Most people are depressed and hate their life but instead of changing something they pick on you because they can feel that you haven't made such bad life decisions compared to them

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@spike200a Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s so true that people often project their own frustrations onto others. It’s great that you can see judgment as a sign you’re doing something right, and I totally agree-choosing gratitude over negativity is such a powerful mindset. Stay strong and keep moving forward! I hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @7SideWays
    @7SideWays 28 дней назад +2

    Great info. The invisible balanced middle is drama-free. Not ripped, not fat. Not outclassing anybody. Peace!

  • @robinlisonbee9732
    @robinlisonbee9732 2 месяца назад +7

    Nothing good comes easy ❤

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад

      @@robinlisonbee9732 I love it when you say that. I love you baby!!

  • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
    @Woodchucker.kaleb.w Месяц назад +3

    One thing I like, you can always go back to the video and get a refresh for inspiration

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@Woodchucker.kaleb.w hell yes brother!!! 💪🏻

  • @StephenOrrmarketing
    @StephenOrrmarketing Месяц назад +3

    Thank you. Please do not stop, keep going!

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      I’m here every day brother!! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!

  • @highvirtue6458
    @highvirtue6458 29 дней назад +2

    Enjoy your content everyday brother. Your conversation etc. one of the few last respectable honorable man i can tolerate listening to. You should start a community consisting of of like minded men

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  29 дней назад

      I have tossed around the idea. Right now especially doing daily videos, a father, husband and a job with a commute, I fear I won’t be able to give it the attention it needs. I’m certain there will be one in the future. I’m just not certain when or where. ✌🏻

  • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
    @Woodchucker.kaleb.w 2 месяца назад +14

    I’m driving to work and I listen to your video all the way to work. This helps Monday start off right

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +2

      @@Woodchucker.kaleb.w I love being able to motivate my boys. I hope you have a wonderful day brother!

    • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
      @Woodchucker.kaleb.w 2 месяца назад +2

      @@ChadLisonbee I definitely will. You have a good day as well.

    • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
      @Woodchucker.kaleb.w Месяц назад +1

      It’s my coffee in the morning. It takes me 25 minutes to get to work so can you please keep your videos under 25 minutes because if they’re over 25 minutes I’m late for work when I’m driving to work that’s 25 minutes of me time to clear my head, and I’ve been late every day since you started putting videos on😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😮🫣🫣🫣

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@Woodchucker.kaleb.w you’re an incredible dude. Thank you!

    • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
      @Woodchucker.kaleb.w 27 дней назад +1

      Just listened to another great video if it’s on my way to work I listen to his video or on the way home after a hard day of work. It’s a great positive start of my day or at the end of my day. It gives me a natural dopamine push to finish my day strong, thanks Chad

  • @dstenberg
    @dstenberg 29 дней назад +2

    this channel is growing fast. Thanks for sharing the wisdom we need today 🙏

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  29 дней назад +2

      It blows my mind dude. Thank you for your support! ✌🏻

  • @palobar9974
    @palobar9974 Месяц назад +5

    All the best in your RUclips channel. I'm sure that in a few months you will have a very large following. Enjoy the journey.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@palobar9974 thank you soo much for the support and kind words. I appreciate you!

  • @JoeFuller-h6c
    @JoeFuller-h6c 16 дней назад +1

    Thanks for your excellent advice, Chad!😊

  • @rodrigobiagi
    @rodrigobiagi Месяц назад +3

    just discovered your channel and been watching every video, you are inspiring me so much, thank you

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@rodrigobiagi it makes me happy as hell to hear people are finding value in my thoughts and opinions. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!

  • @DJBou0407
    @DJBou0407 27 дней назад +1

    Your videos are amazing, pure and honest, repeated words and all. Authentic without all the cuts and retake you see in some. I've been binge watching to catch up. But not avoiding my 90 day challenge in the process. 😅

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  27 дней назад

      Wow, thank you! Let’s go!!✌🏻

  • @Sandyvag
    @Sandyvag 2 месяца назад +5

    Your Mantras are amazing. This channel is amazing. You are awesome.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Sandyvag wow. Thank you soo much!That means more to me than you know. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @derekrupp7844
    @derekrupp7844 29 дней назад +4

    I used to really struggle with people pleasing

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  29 дней назад +2

      I hope you don’t anymore! That’s no way to live. I appreciate you!✌🏻

    • @derekrupp7844
      @derekrupp7844 29 дней назад +1

      @@ChadLisonbee Definitely not anyone but it was really bad in my teens and twenties! 😂. Now I just focus on what I’m doing and do my best to tune out the negative noise

  • @oneathleticpiece6623
    @oneathleticpiece6623 18 дней назад

    Thank you, you are giving me Hope! god bless you and your family.

  • @rosemarietolentino3218
    @rosemarietolentino3218 26 дней назад +1

    Nobody can look at another and not judge them. It says to judge not and you won’t be judged. People can’t stop themselves from judging one another.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  26 дней назад +1

      I appreciate your perspective. Thank you!✌🏻

  • @fk-on7pw
    @fk-on7pw 14 дней назад

    Be all u can be!

  • @fredfeldmeier8228
    @fredfeldmeier8228 17 дней назад

    That's bcz of who you are.. and all the makeup that mks you the individual that you are.. plus the combination of your calling upon this existence of yours.. and how many you can help upon the way.. either by inspiration or desperation.. so many things involved that I don't even wanna get started..
    Thnx for the insights and opportunities to get to know myself a little bit more along the way..🙏
    Stay safe

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  17 дней назад

      @@fredfeldmeier8228 Thank you!✌🏻

  • @RebelLifeAfter50
    @RebelLifeAfter50 2 месяца назад +5

    Boy do I know victimhood! It sucks! Until I learned how to yank myself out of it, I finally felt grateful for and happy ❤️

  • @Bikemaddad
    @Bikemaddad 23 часа назад

    You're a Boss and a real authentic inspiration bro. My new fave RUclipsr that can stand next to Budros or Joe unapologetically. Salute

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  17 часов назад

      Dang dude!!! I appreciate that!!

  • @tradervipul29
    @tradervipul29 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow. What a nice vlog. Great men.
    Wishes from Germany 🇩🇪

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад

      @@tradervipul29 thank you very much brother! I appreciate the hell out of you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @BrandonAlexanderWalks
    @BrandonAlexanderWalks 23 дня назад +1

    I'm certain that silver play button will happen before the end of the year for you and that gold has to be coming shortly after.
    Also love hearing the hellos to others, I can feel the wholesomeness in your exchange. Thanks for sharing

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  23 дня назад +1

      Damn bro. Thank you!! I know the silver seems possible at this rate. It’s freaking crazy.

    • @BrandonAlexanderWalks
      @BrandonAlexanderWalks 23 дня назад

      @@ChadLisonbee the growth is inspiring for sure! Keep going like I know you will. I'll be rooting for you 💪🏾

  • @rogercoward8220
    @rogercoward8220 13 часов назад

    Thank you for your videos
    I’ve not been in a good place and you’ve helped
    I relate to you
    Keep up the good work
    Love and peace ❤️🙏

  • @davidmunro7923
    @davidmunro7923 Месяц назад +1

    Great perspective man! And you’re in the Seattle area also! Very cool. Thanks for the encouragement, I needed this.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      Kind of. I’m up north on the islands. I’ll be in Seattle Friday though. PNW is amazing!

    • @davidmunro7923
      @davidmunro7923 Месяц назад

      @@ChadLisonbee beautiful! Everett for me. Take care man.

  • @chrisg1859
    @chrisg1859 17 дней назад

    Thanks for the reminders bro! Respect ✊

  • @allenreid62
    @allenreid62 2 месяца назад +3

    Great message...thanks for sharing.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +2

      @@allenreid62 I appreciate your support brother thank you! I hope you have an amazing day!

  • @matthewferry2235
    @matthewferry2235 2 месяца назад +11

    45 now and stopped caring about what people think ...there all clowns

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +3

      @@matthewferry2235 same here. It’s kind of shitty it took that long to learn. I appreciate you brother and hope you have a wonderful day!

    • @writervictoria
      @writervictoria Месяц назад

      I stay alone cause I am just sick of it, regardless if I don't care, just got time or energy to hear it.

  • @DennisMiscannon
    @DennisMiscannon 3 дня назад

    Keep Doing it Brother !!

  • @ddub6135
    @ddub6135 Месяц назад +2

    Really like your channel . Right up my alley. I'm happy to say that I think the same way you do. Our philosophies are the same... New subscriber....

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@ddub6135 Absolutely! Thank you so much! I appreciate your support more than you know. You all are the motivation that’s helping me find the discipline to keep going on this journey. I hope to share the therapeutic relief I get from making these videos with everyone who’s been supporting me. I truly appreciate you, and I hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @StationeryQuest
    @StationeryQuest Месяц назад +4

    Love from india❤❤

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@StationeryQuest I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!

    • @StationeryQuest
      @StationeryQuest Месяц назад +2

      I am 21 years old and i watched your video on “things i wish i would knew when i was 20” that video really refreshed my mind thank you and god bless you and your family 🫡🫡

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@StationeryQuest that means your heading the right direction bro!! I just subscribed to your channel. I’ll be watching and commenting when I get a chance. Keep posting keep fighting and keep learning every damn day! 🙏🏻

    • @StationeryQuest
      @StationeryQuest Месяц назад +2

      @@ChadLisonbee thank you sir i will add subtitles to my videos soon for you,as i make videos in Hindi. You subscribed that means a lot to me thank you😇

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@StationeryQuest 💪🏻🤘🏻

  • @JeremiasCastro-m4p
    @JeremiasCastro-m4p 23 дня назад +1

    God is the only one can help you not people people they destroy you even your own family

  • @njegosilic890
    @njegosilic890 Месяц назад +1

    Just came across your video, great channel, keep up the good work🎉

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@njegosilic890 you for the kind words and generously taking the time to watch and comment. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @wayneburbage8900
    @wayneburbage8900 Месяц назад +1

    A relative and thoughtful walk and talk.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад

      @@wayneburbage8900 thank you, I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @Dee-s6s
    @Dee-s6s Месяц назад +5

    Nice walkn talk

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@Dee-s6s thank you! I’m putting more it every day. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @fearlesslivemore222
    @fearlesslivemore222 Месяц назад +1

    🍀❤️🙌🙌❤️🍀

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@fearlesslivemore222 thank you again! I truly appreciate you!!!

  • @uncoveringtruths5176
    @uncoveringtruths5176 27 дней назад +1

    Angel numbers are real bro 😇 Take care 🙂

  • @gederinwinter-u2t
    @gederinwinter-u2t 8 дней назад

    Cool

  • @davidbooher5559
    @davidbooher5559 27 дней назад +1

    You’ll never see a hater doing better than you. David Goggins.
    The only people that criticize you are beneath you.
    Like crabs 🦀 in a barrel. Never allowing the ambitious crabs 🦀 to get out.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  27 дней назад +1

      We’re the only species that allows a lesser species opinion impact our thoughts. ✌🏻

  • @daniellee1722
    @daniellee1722 2 месяца назад +1

    I just let people say and act however they want. When I was a kid I got front row seat to instant karma one that I'll never forget. This dude was teasing my dog from the other side of the fence. He then ran full speed making my dog chase him and WHAM!! hit his face hard on a parking sign. Yeah, keep at it 🤣

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +1

      @@daniellee1722 🤣😂. They’re going to say, believe and judge whatever and however they want anyway. So who gives a damn what they think. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!!

  • @pawkyyy
    @pawkyyy 2 месяца назад +1

    thank you

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +1

      @@pawkyyy my pleasure. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!!

  • @FelixCousins
    @FelixCousins 2 месяца назад +2

    Awesome video!

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад

      @@FelixCousins thank you for the kind words. I appreciate you brother and hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @qfina
    @qfina 2 месяца назад +1

    🎻

  • @kylepatton2423
    @kylepatton2423 Месяц назад +1

    I'd rather be a poor obese victim that gets eaten by wolves. But I can't, because I have dignity and respect for myself. Sometimes I want to throw it all away and become lazy but I haven't crossed that bridge yet, life is short but it's kinda long too so I can't ever say never but I know it's always a possibility and sometimes it's not a choice

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@kylepatton2423 Bro, I totally understand where you’re coming from. It’s hard sometimes to stay on track, and we all have moments where we feel like giving up. But the fact that you’re aware of it and still fighting shows how strong you really are. Life is a balancing act, and while it can be tempting to let go, taking care of yourself is one of the best ways to honor that dignity and respect you mentioned. Keep pushing forward, one step at a time, you’ve got this! I hope you have a wonderful day!

  • @Elaine-d4h
    @Elaine-d4h 5 часов назад +1

    Over Comers, yessir 👍👍 And live little live Large 😁 prevention for future clean Life, horde suck..🤢

  • @Mikeandhollyj
    @Mikeandhollyj 4 дня назад

    I don't worry about what people think about me because I know they don't give a fuck about me anyway

  • @cerico76
    @cerico76 Месяц назад +3

    I don't give a fuck anymore. simple as that.

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@cerico76 sometimes for some people it is. At some point in our lives, that’s exactly how we all come to feel. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!

    • @cerico76
      @cerico76 Месяц назад +2

      @@ChadLisonbee I am trying. Toughest period of my life, that's why I stopped give a fuck of what people think, I am going all in with the new me. If you don't like it, you are free to leave. 👋

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +1

      @@cerico76 I actually just uploaded a video about going all in. It sounds like you definitely have the right mindset. That’s the toughest part to internalize. Keep up the good fight, in the end it will be worth it!

    • @cerico76
      @cerico76 Месяц назад +2

      @@ChadLisonbee I will! Is that time of life, when you are alone, and you've lost everything, so I am not scared of losing anything or someone anymore, so I'll start from scratch, alone, no matter what, I have to be born again, even if I am almost 50 years old. Life is now.

  • @rosemarietolentino3218
    @rosemarietolentino3218 26 дней назад +1

    It is human nature to judge one another. But know you will be judged the same way. The Bible is just telling not to judge in this way.

  • @GregoryReincort-n2t
    @GregoryReincort-n2t Месяц назад +1

    What's that supposed to mean "are you having fun yet?" Swear women always say some backhanded stuff

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@GregoryReincort-n2t 😂

    • @GregoryReincort-n2t
      @GregoryReincort-n2t Месяц назад +2

      @@ChadLisonbee it's like men and women speak different languages 😂

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  Месяц назад +2

      @@GregoryReincort-n2t we absolutely do bro! 🤣

  • @wewewewewe948
    @wewewewewe948 2 месяца назад +2

    semen retention brother!!

    • @ChadLisonbee
      @ChadLisonbee  2 месяца назад +2

      @@wewewewewe948 that’ll make you hungry for success, and focus on you for sure. I appreciate you brother and hope you have a wonderful day!

    • @Woodchucker.kaleb.w
      @Woodchucker.kaleb.w Месяц назад +1

      @@ChadLisonbee right on