you can have anything you want in life, just stop trying so hard

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @rabbitpvncher
    @rabbitpvncher 2 месяца назад +63

    Pressure usually just creates rubble, diamonds are rare....

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +13

      this one hit different… great comment 💎

    • @luckyowl6432
      @luckyowl6432 2 месяца назад

      I get the sentiment but diamonds are not rare....

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@luckyowl6432 first I’ve heard

    • @rabbitpvncher
      @rabbitpvncher 2 месяца назад +1

      @@luckyowl6432 They're not as rare as the diamond industry would like you to know, but still in context they are more rare than the rubble and coal around them...

    • @dracibojovnik420
      @dracibojovnik420 2 месяца назад

      ruclips.net/video/hCcH5ILxkZ4/видео.html depends since you use words, nothing is deffinitive

  • @Pincer3000
    @Pincer3000 Месяц назад +15

    Social media makes you think everything has to be done ASAP. It's annoying and I hate seeing it everywhere. The worst part is these people tell you to do it by force. These people are not giving you advice, they're telling you how to live your life! When will you realize that.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  Месяц назад +1

      @@Pincer3000 say it louder for the people in the back!

    • @2005online
      @2005online Месяц назад

      this is so real.

  • @NhungHong-ue9dr
    @NhungHong-ue9dr 2 месяца назад +19

    so right,one day i decided to be chill af and everything becomes chill too. so whoever reading this, don’t be too tough on yourself, cuz you might get hurt instead of growing..

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@NhungHong-ue9dr Those who are grateful for their opportunities see more opportunities 🤘❤️

    • @rilorobinson7685
      @rilorobinson7685 Месяц назад

      In Seattle this does not work... loooool

  • @triciahodges8261
    @triciahodges8261 12 дней назад

    Wow! I love this message... Its not that clutch players can handle pressure...they dont feel pressure! I noticed this with women giving labor. Some women scream & curse & ask for epidurals... Some embrace the experience not through the lens of pain & so dont scream, curse or need an epidural. The women still feel the intense pressure of labor only physically because mentally they are focused on the pleasure, priviledge, and honor of welcoming their child done through a mindset of not trying to control anything. The hormone that starts labor is actually the pain killer oxytocin! So that pain from labor actually comes from panic. Pain is perspective.

  • @bungeyedsniper1391
    @bungeyedsniper1391 2 месяца назад +9

    After a shit day, this was a good listen. Cheers from Aussieland

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@bungeyedsniper1391 sending love down under mate!

  • @giovanniperez4264
    @giovanniperez4264 2 месяца назад +23

    As a 5"5 guy in India I will stop trying so hard. Thank you 😊

  • @MissionMuscleUp
    @MissionMuscleUp 2 месяца назад +1

    Love it. You're absolutely right. Your analogy of the mountain is spot on. I've also noticed many people stating WHAT they want... RESULT. But, not necessarily the JOURNEY... of HOW. Love it brotha. Keep doing yah thang

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@MissionMuscleUp appreciate you bro!

  • @joshb7415
    @joshb7415 2 месяца назад +7

    I enjoy pressure and work better with pressure, without it I feel like im wasting my time

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +3

      @@joshb7415 that’s good I would agree there’s definitely an optimal zone for pressure

    • @ToaastyKoyote
      @ToaastyKoyote 2 месяца назад +1

      Only if the Senators could follow suit. Instead of folding.

  • @aidenreef8024
    @aidenreef8024 2 месяца назад +6

    Good shit bro keep it up this is a mindset I’d love to keep in my mind

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@aidenreef8024 let’s go!! Appreciate you bro 💪

  • @thelifeofpriz
    @thelifeofpriz 2 месяца назад +4

    This is beautiful. Thank you!

  • @Digitaldendo
    @Digitaldendo 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the words. Resonates

  • @DavisMultiverse
    @DavisMultiverse 2 месяца назад +6

    I have that philosophy. Nothimg needs to be forced, but i also believe hard work isnt necessarily forcing persay.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@DavisMultiverse definitely. as beasts of burden, the right work will have us going hard and loving it 💪

    • @DavisMultiverse
      @DavisMultiverse 2 месяца назад

      @@philseguin 🙌

  • @JohnnyAllan-vj7sj
    @JohnnyAllan-vj7sj 2 месяца назад +3

    I can't have anything I want. I'm being punished by a higher power. They'll give me a glimpse of the things I want, then strip it away from me faster than it came.
    This is the way it is now. I have to live with it and it's what I deserve. They won't even let me die

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      Reality is a self affirming mirror, I pray you are able to find your happiness and I believe all experiences are a test and the harder things are it just means things will get better. ❤

  • @Jon_N_Dunks
    @Jon_N_Dunks 2 месяца назад +3

    i needed this

  • @alexlupi3108
    @alexlupi3108 2 месяца назад

    Hey Dude, that is what I needed to hear today, thats a great message! thanks

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@alexlupi3108 Let’s go!!

  • @yurabond2133
    @yurabond2133 2 месяца назад +2

    In order to manifest u gotta release the pressure first and let it go

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      yes! Step 1 the most important 💪

    • @Jhonny-om4wc
      @Jhonny-om4wc Месяц назад

      I always do this when i go Number 2

  • @borboletaatiria
    @borboletaatiria 28 дней назад

    Luv it !!

  •  2 месяца назад +8

    I thought of not trying so hard but it hard to not try so hard

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +4

      😂 classic situation! I find the best thing to do is focus on a task that brings you to the present moment. Folding laundry, knocking something off your to do list, or going for a walk while focusing on the nature outside rather than the internal storm. It’s a long road but like a muscle, emotional state regulation gets easier day by day 🤘

    • @Light_worker_369
      @Light_worker_369 2 месяца назад +1

      Thats part of the programming they got alot under its no one’s fault but one by one people will break free and self worth will raise again

    • @wild_cub_times
      @wild_cub_times 2 месяца назад +1

      In this vid, I had an idea for a quote: Stop trying and *test* it out instead.
      My best sports came from, "ok lemme test this move" instead of fear of failure from "ok lemme try"

  • @PandaJackk
    @PandaJackk 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you. This is a good reminder, I hope I can keep it up

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@PandaJackk Day by day, you got this 💪🤝

  • @momitch62
    @momitch62 2 месяца назад +1

    great outlook, thank you man

  • @nadiapai8511
    @nadiapai8511 2 месяца назад

    this is something ive really been struggling with, today especially, and this video came up in my recommended. the synchronicities do in fact appear...

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@nadiapai8511 right when we don’t expect it always!

  • @DanielCacic
    @DanielCacic 2 месяца назад +1

    subbed under 1 minute . thanks for turning my day bro thanks for your perspective ❤

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@DanielCacic appreciate the love Daniel! Sending you much success!

  • @maskedbeachbum
    @maskedbeachbum Месяц назад

    Yung spiritual McMurray doin the lords work

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  Месяц назад

      @@maskedbeachbum 😂😂 appreciate you bro!

  • @MarijusSiegel
    @MarijusSiegel 2 месяца назад +2

    Great video, great stuff! Subscribed!

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@MarijusSiegel appreciate you!

  • @MarcRodill
    @MarcRodill Месяц назад

    Thanks for making this

  • @chrissy1310
    @chrissy1310 Месяц назад

    In the Bible God loves when we are patient and let him do his work. I am always trying to remember this, it's hard though right! Our ego always wants control even to the point of us stressing and hurting our body. Dumb ego. I was just thinking God would probably love to see us smiling and laughing thru the tough times, showing him we know he is taking care of us. They call it having faith. I know not everyone believes in Father, but no matter what, it is good advice to be grateful thru the hard times and just smile.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  Месяц назад

      @@chrissy1310 everything happens for a reason! Great comment!

  • @sebastianm6458
    @sebastianm6458 2 месяца назад

    This shit is on point

  • @wild_cub_times
    @wild_cub_times 2 месяца назад

    I actually recently quit... like trying anything, so I think this came in a great time. Maybe that's what I need to do. _Suicide_ also feels like trying, and maybe that's why I can't do it... Thanks dude, for everything today

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@wild_cub_times I pray you make it through the tough days. As someone who has struggled with intense feelings for a long time I can say finding a place in your mind that you can go to experience a feeling of “letting go” is like a form of meditation… highly charged emotional states can often be overwhelming when we don’t know how to use our own power… here’s to brighter days ahead and thank you for sharing ❤️

    • @wild_cub_times
      @wild_cub_times 2 месяца назад

      @@philseguin thank you a lot 🍀

  • @sub-fivessurvival
    @sub-fivessurvival 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for the advice bro. Maybe now I can finally acquire a jawline like yours.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@sub-fivessurvival it all starts with believing in yourself! 😂

    • @sub-fivessurvival
      @sub-fivessurvival 2 месяца назад +1

      @@philseguin I am Adonis, I am Adonis, I am Adonis

  • @laurentianvmx1692
    @laurentianvmx1692 2 месяца назад

    Stumbled on you vid, very good. And salut du Québec Phil Séguin !

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@laurentianvmx1692 Merci beaucoup!

  • @poolview
    @poolview 2 месяца назад +2

    This was great

  • @southbound_rc
    @southbound_rc 2 месяца назад

    Most athletes say they are nervous before a match. And being nervous comes from anxiety in that moment about the pressure they put on them selves to perform well.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      I agree with you here, I think the difference between the people who succeed and your average person is the successful man rises up to the occasion rather than being crushed by the weight of it. Great comment

  • @kindliness1
    @kindliness1 2 месяца назад

    Directed, controlled pressure can be a massage. Otherwise it just crushes things

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@kindliness1 bars 🫡🤝

  • @elijah.onefofo
    @elijah.onefofo 2 месяца назад +2

    Subscribed, period.

  • @chrissy1310
    @chrissy1310 Месяц назад

    Love this talk! Thank you, I needed this. Subbed

  • @philipp176
    @philipp176 2 месяца назад

    great message! Another question is, why material wealth is needed as a vision at all. Isnt true abundance the sense of total emersion with presence, so that there is no need for any future because these is no sense of lack noticable?

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@philipp176 love this… what would we want if we had all the money in the world? Probably just to be at peace and good health for us and our loved ones…

    • @philipp176
      @philipp176 2 месяца назад

      @@philseguin so true!

  • @Kyouma.
    @Kyouma. 2 месяца назад

    Aspiring writer here (for light novels). When I was talking with another writer/creator, I told her that I don't know anything to write about. Her answer was "Just believe." Then, a few days later, when I stopped believing that I can't write, I got my first idea for a story. By now, I have ideas for seven stories

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Kyouma. that is amazing to hear. clearing the space for those highest thoughts is so crucial… congratulations and many blessings for you and your writing!

    • @Kyouma.
      @Kyouma. 2 месяца назад +2

      @@philseguin Thank you! Also, I'll try to not be too serious about my writing. Of course, I want it to be as good as possible, but more important is that I enjoy it

  • @killculator8124
    @killculator8124 2 месяца назад +3

    The harder you try the harder life will be. Think about that person that works super hard yet gets paid the same as everyone else and if anything, they get punished with even more responsibility.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@killculator8124 great comment, people sometimes like to make things hard on themselves without realizing it’s unnecessary

    • @davido3109
      @davido3109 Месяц назад +1

      Or they tell you you are fired!!!🤔... Never again!!

  • @UnlimitedMachines
    @UnlimitedMachines 2 месяца назад

    Great video bro thank you but please tell me you gave the little baby some food 😢

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@UnlimitedMachines yes I did lucky guy just got a fresh new bag of food 🥹🐈😹

  • @averwill324
    @averwill324 2 месяца назад +3

    Ok!
    *Dies alone in a poor apartment*

    • @wild_cub_times
      @wild_cub_times 2 месяца назад

      Did ya see my comment? Looks like this vid is getting a lot of views from us that are feeling this way :P

  • @henokhsatrio8804
    @henokhsatrio8804 2 месяца назад +7

    Heath Ledger?

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@henokhsatrio8804 Hey! 👋 😂

    • @andrewwabik5125
      @andrewwabik5125 Месяц назад

      I knew you weren’t dead!!

  • @StonedAz
    @StonedAz 2 месяца назад

    thats whats up

  • @user540000
    @user540000 Месяц назад +1

    boyo has 1k subs and wants to give us advice on how to succeed. dont quit your dayjob

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  Месяц назад

      @@user540000 keep winning buddy

  • @onelove1968
    @onelove1968 2 месяца назад

    You've never had any control over anything. The individual separate self as an entity with freewill and choice is merely an illusion. Albeit, a very persistent one.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@onelove1968 great comment! The more we realize we are connected the better life can be

    • @onelove1968
      @onelove1968 2 месяца назад

      @@philseguin You have no free choice to realize anything. Realizations simply 'appear' without anyone 'doing' the realizing.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@onelove1968 a lot of people think free choice is an illusion

    • @WorkEmail-gx9gz
      @WorkEmail-gx9gz Месяц назад

      Hold your horses buddy! While maybe it is just to acknowledge that determinism is a significant force, may we also believe, in tandem, that consciousness, particularly intentionality (the mind’s ability to direct itself toward objects or actions), gives rise to real agency? It's all the more possible that consciousness and free will are not total illusions, as they are deeply integrated into our lived experiences. You can choose to think about that for a minute, or not! Even though the brain follows deterministic rules, consciousness emerges in a way that allows for meaningful decision-making.

  • @Jhonny-om4wc
    @Jhonny-om4wc Месяц назад

    O.K.

  • @ФонФон-й7о
    @ФонФон-й7о 2 месяца назад +1

    Wtf Beavis?

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@ФонФон-й7о ayooo

  • @RedEyeification
    @RedEyeification Месяц назад +1

    You can have anything you want in life...just start stealing and lying.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  Месяц назад

      @@RedEyeification people who steal and lie get caught long before they get what they want in life.

    • @RedEyeification
      @RedEyeification Месяц назад

      @@philseguin I don't think so..look at the people from White House.Have you seen lately somebody arrested them ?

    • @1YzeWhoaman6821
      @1YzeWhoaman6821 Месяц назад

      Yeah, Trump and other con men are living proof of this.

  • @unknowndes1re
    @unknowndes1re 13 дней назад +1

    Meow

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  13 дней назад

      @@unknowndes1re 🐱🐱

    • @garyblade2332
      @garyblade2332 12 дней назад

      I actually thought the neighbour's cat was in my garden.

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  12 дней назад

      @@garyblade2332 nope. Just little Ollie singing his morning song 🤣

  • @Rocketman0407
    @Rocketman0407 2 месяца назад

    How do drugs work then? do you think they open up the Devine stream more or similar?

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@Rocketman0407 I think it depends because substances can put us in a different mind state or different vibration which changes our internal state drastically. They say we can access that feeling within us without external substances but I could see that being very debatable… depends on the person I’d say!

  • @sleepforever8378
    @sleepforever8378 2 месяца назад +1

    You look australian

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад

      @@sleepforever8378 always wanted to be a surfer mate 😂

  • @faustinreeder1075
    @faustinreeder1075 2 месяца назад

    Believing in yourself won’t get you a G6, a 12,000 sq ft beach house, and an Italian trophy wife.
    Hard work won’t get you there either.
    Success in life is 30% effort and 70% luck.

  • @qbqbqdbq
    @qbqbqdbq 2 месяца назад +1

    Grifter

  • @opticalman6417
    @opticalman6417 2 месяца назад +2

    you cant have anything you want in life your deluded

    • @philseguin
      @philseguin  2 месяца назад +2

      @@opticalman6417 tell me you didn’t watch the video without telling me. *you’re

    • @AaronKostin
      @AaronKostin Месяц назад

      Ahhhh but yes you can

    • @opticalman6417
      @opticalman6417 Месяц назад

      @@AaronKostin lol

  • @AwHayleNaw
    @AwHayleNaw 2 месяца назад +1

    Yeah no dude