Men and women have a right to keep their options open and other people have the right to not rock with how others choose to operate. It doesn’t make anyone a bad person. It’s fair on both ends. Not everybody wants to be in competition and some ppl love the game. It depends on the person
I admire that you just want to be a kind person and give genuine compliments freely, without the need to “shoot your shot”. A lot of humans will never understand that you don’t have to want something in return to be decent person to others.
49 seconds in, I hit the “Like” button off Tony’s motivational intro sermon! If TONY can give this level of motivation, I can press on to see another day. I’m STILL ALIVE! Thanks, TB ❤
I get the whole exclusivity fight lol, but I can’t date multiple women. Before I made it official with my gf, we “dated” for 3 months. But during that time, we were exclusive. It’s a risk you have to take. If it doesn’t work, set a timeframe, and then on to the next. It’s quality over quantity.
15:23 -"...since you poured everything into that wrong person, now look at cha!" 🥺 The TRUTH & learning lessons can HURT! 😩😫 I'm grateful for all I learned from my decisions & experiences though. 🥰😄
Regarding dating, agree some people jump in to exclusivity too quickly. Date a few people and figure out what you want/need. Helps you figure out if you are ready for a relationship or just want fun/companionship at the moment. The challenge with dating multiple people is making sure you are actually getting to know each person and it’s not just surface or sexual attraction. Do what works for you but make sure you’re being honest and realistic with yourself and your dates.
I feel you on the home decoration. I have a 3 bedroom, 4 bath penthouse, and I have no CLUE how to really decorate this place. I need to hire somebody, because I have no idea what I’m doing. 😅
That’s because when you tell someone you’re dating that you’re keeping your options open, it sounds like you’re just looking for sex. Unfortunately in today’s world, it’s hard to believe otherwise.
I definitely understand the reasoning behind dating around. It makes perfect sense. But knowing me, I could never truly date someone who is dating others without keeping my guard up. So more than likely, nothing would ever get beyond just shallow dating. It would always remain surface level. So I think that’s why people call you unserious because they can’t allow any form of emotion to develop for someone who is “shopping around”. I don’t think it’s anything personal, it’s just a person natural way of protecting their feelings.
@jwdathefax377 For sure! Funny enough, we kinda look for the unicorns when dating but dodge them when they appear. Maybe because of baggage or the sheer unlikelihood of it all lol. @tdomonique504 I hear you haha! I don't take it personal because that person just saved us time by proving we're not compatible. I wish them the best and we go our merry ways.
Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line, there's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission. Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers, let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint. To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in the other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable.
@tdomonique504 Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line. There's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission. Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers. Let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint. To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in each other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable.
IMO part of the reason that so many ppl are struggling to find the right person is BECAUSE there are so many options. That's a fairly new phenomenon that societies have not yet figured out how to navigate.
Tony has me tearing up on my morning 5 mile walk with the positive mindset intro ❤ needed this it’s one of those days but we’re alive to turn the L into a W
You right. Just single and mingle for a while. Oh I'm putting my patreon back on. I was in San Diego and I was down to the the penny with my budget. They already took my payment out though. I will start it tomorrow. I couldn't watch the movie night at the time
I loved the intro Still alive and wanting to be above ground My legs are mangled and I can't scrape my leg or get bit without thinking immediately I'm dead this time or my leg definitely gone but ik still here scars and all walking dancing doing what I do Praise God I got my gallon nearby because of tony and he got the best dimples this side of the Pacific ocean Hi amir too
I definitely think dating around is smart but realistically, I don’t know too many people who will invest the same energy into someone who is “shopping around”. Like, if a guy tells me he is shopping around, which I would love the honesty, I would hang out with that person if I’m free, but the intent of it leading to more wouldn’t be a real expectation so I would move very differently. Meaning my guard would always remain up, so we would never get beyond surface level. We would probably just end up being just good friends lol.. maybe with some benefits. 🤷🏾♀️ But Im not pressed about relationships, so Im whatever with it. As long as my health, finances and family is good… and I can travel…Im happy… And Tony, you will definitely find someone that’s fits for YOU.
Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line, there's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission. Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out, not to mention feel like a waste of time. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers, let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint. To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in the other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable, but ultimately, moving in the way that works for you, as you've said.
Nice Tailored suit with the ankles out and some pointy loafers, follow up end of the night pic w/the untied bow tie with a couple buttons undone chest meat out 😂
I used to do maintenance at apartment complex for about 8 years and I tell you it was 50/50 on sigle woman cleanliness. A lot dirtier than you would think. Guys tended to be more clean, no sense in decoration but a lot cleaner. 😅
Appreciate this topic, resonate with some of what is said! I just don't know that it's fair to say women have it more difficult dating, men and women look at things too differently I feel Many men settle where they get some or are fucking around, or are just looking for someone they're feeling. Which isn't diff from the opp. sex but for many women the financial security piece is a really big thing; options are more abundant but the pool feels smaller since men aren't looking for that type of security in relationship generally
You are mentioning external things calling women quality Tone. Looks, education, working, dressing nice, and nice house. All that is basic...what about kind, honest, compassionate, patient, humble, considerate, respectful, open...
The art of dating died in the 90s. Something shifted. I used to be able to go out on dates. I don't know how that happened. Oh, I got married. By the time I was free to date again, multiple dates with different people was almost non-existent
I been with the same guy for 14 years married for 4. God forbid I'm ever back out in these dating streets, I will never be someone's girlfriend again. I will just get to know people and keep it moving
Tony if you want women to know you out there just playing the field cause you're not ready to settle down because you got your heart broken, yes just say that👍🏾
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All the water in the world needs to give this man a sponsorship
Everything but fiji and Dasani
That's a fact
Tony is actually a phenomenal motivational speaker, that intro got me inspired!!
“Stay married and hush”😭🤣
It's important to have these conversations up front. That way everyone is aware and can make the best decision for them. Great episode!!
40:54 Exclusive 🎉 Tony is going to get a breakaway Suit with the immediate tear off when last syllable of "I dooooooo" hits. 😂😂😂
Men and women have a right to keep their options open and other people have the right to not rock with how others choose to operate. It doesn’t make anyone a bad person. It’s fair on both ends. Not everybody wants to be in competition and some ppl love the game. It depends on the person
THIS!
0:00 Intro 🚰 / Patreon Saints Shout-Outs
5:28 Tryna be grown 🎁
10:10 Let's talk dating 😍
36:38 Kev and Melissa's wedding renewal 🤵
41:03 Outro
Man wasted no time! ❤❤
Gotta be there for the people 💛💪🏾😎
@EnterStoneyFace 💐👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
🙏🏾😊
Thank yewww! 🙏🏻💚
Tony…I swear you should take this on the road. Your comedy is AMAZING, but your perspective to open audience is just as awesome!
Tony we gon compliment the suit. I'm warming up the compliments right now. Take this love and Hush!
I admire that you just want to be a kind person and give genuine compliments freely, without the need to “shoot your shot”. A lot of humans will never understand that you don’t have to want something in return to be decent person to others.
49 seconds in, I hit the “Like” button off Tony’s motivational intro sermon! If TONY can give this level of motivation, I can press on to see another day. I’m STILL ALIVE! Thanks, TB ❤
I get the whole exclusivity fight lol, but I can’t date multiple women. Before I made it official with my gf, we “dated” for 3 months. But during that time, we were exclusive. It’s a risk you have to take. If it doesn’t work, set a timeframe, and then on to the next. It’s quality over quantity.
I did wake up today... 💜💚💙
How about today?
15:23 -"...since you poured everything into that wrong person, now look at cha!" 🥺 The TRUTH & learning lessons can HURT! 😩😫
I'm grateful for all I learned from my decisions & experiences though. 🥰😄
“…gotta get that paper dog” ❤️ such an underrated thing!
Verbal Cardio let’s get it ❤❤❤
Love what you said earlier esp. Water should be called "essence of life". Thank you 4 always bring the essence of life to fore front "Everytime"
Tony is a gem thank you bro frfr
Now Tony…you WILL take the compliments sir because they’re coming! 😊. I can’t wait to see the custom suit fit❤
Time for another session of that 🗣️ 🏃🏾
Clip this whole damn episode . People need to hear this
✊🏾
That was such a great ending RANT!! 👏🏿👏🏿
THAT'S FOR SURE‼️ SOMEONE MIGHT NEED TO HEAR A COMPLIMENT‼️🙌🏾🗣️💥💥💥🎊🎊
Regarding dating, agree some people jump in to exclusivity too quickly. Date a few people and figure out what you want/need. Helps you figure out if you are ready for a relationship or just want fun/companionship at the moment. The challenge with dating multiple people is making sure you are actually getting to know each person and it’s not just surface or sexual attraction. Do what works for you but make sure you’re being honest and realistic with yourself and your dates.
LOL...Tony you sound like me. Dont say nothing when I get dressed up...HUUSSHHH!!!
41:12 that's what's going to be on the pocket square "Kev & Melissa HUSH, Why we doin this???"
I feel you on the home decoration. I have a 3 bedroom, 4 bath penthouse, and I have no CLUE how to really decorate this place. I need to hire somebody, because I have no idea what I’m doing. 😅
I totally agree with Tony about exclusivity. Anytime I've had these conversations and mentioned that, people keep calling me, "unserious".
That’s because when you tell someone you’re dating that you’re keeping your options open, it sounds like you’re just looking for sex. Unfortunately in today’s world, it’s hard to believe otherwise.
I definitely understand the reasoning behind dating around. It makes perfect sense. But knowing me, I could never truly date someone who is dating others without keeping my guard up. So more than likely, nothing would ever get beyond just shallow dating. It would always remain surface level. So I think that’s why people call you unserious because they can’t allow any form of emotion to develop for someone who is “shopping around”. I don’t think it’s anything personal, it’s just a person natural way of protecting their feelings.
@jwdathefax377 For sure! Funny enough, we kinda look for the unicorns when dating but dodge them when they appear. Maybe because of baggage or the sheer unlikelihood of it all lol.
@tdomonique504 I hear you haha! I don't take it personal because that person just saved us time by proving we're not compatible. I wish them the best and we go our merry ways.
Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line, there's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission.
Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers, let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint.
To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in the other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable.
@tdomonique504 Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line. There's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission.
Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers. Let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint.
To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in each other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable.
40:36 I want y'all to talk and hush at the same time 😂😂😂😂
IMO part of the reason that so many ppl are struggling to find the right person is BECAUSE there are so many options. That's a fairly new phenomenon that societies have not yet figured out how to navigate.
I'm clicking TONY😂😂😂
“I see 6000 people see the voice message, but I don’t see 6000 views, the math ain’t mathing” 🤣🤣🤣
I’m here just to not piss Tony off.
I clicked are you happy now Tony😅😅😅
Paperwork. 💯
Thank God for life.. Any day above ground is a good day!! Water is life!!
i needed to hear those first 3 minutes. Thank you Tony
You are doing the Lord's work, Tony! 🙏🏾
Time for the linen 2 piece Tony. Cream. Brown. Black 😂😂😂
We gotta make sure we hit the like button ❤
6:21 This would be great content. Have Liss decorate one of your rooms!
Great conversation 🎉
I barely have time for one person, never mind multiple people 🤦🏽♀️
I appreciate the shoutout, @Tony Baker! That made my day today!
He always making water 💦 look good 😆♥️water should be proud of you
Dope advice & the word I needed today. Thanks Tony B
Dating is trash. You can be with someone for 15yrs and then find out they on dating apps looking for “friends”
Here after getting guilt tripped on the ig broadcast! I legit did just scroll past yesterday. I was busy lololol
Tony is a awesome guy, I need a friend like Tone!!!
You kinda preaching at the beginning, Tony!
I agree. People gotta earn exclusivity. You, Affion and Marlon are the finest guys in the world. That must be hard
"Oooh!" 😆
Lmao I don't need dating advice maaaaan. 😂😂😂😂
You are what Kevin Samuels would call a "high value man" 🤷🏾♀️ God Bless you Tony
Also it sounds like you would enjoy level up along side someone special. You’ll find it when it’s time. ❤
Tony has me tearing up on my morning 5 mile walk with the positive mindset intro ❤ needed this it’s one of those days but we’re alive to turn the L into a W
Everytime I hear "Not Like Us", I will think of Tony. Dint dint dint
The Pander police gonna lose they heads with this episode 😂
If I own a bottled water company I would hire Tony no questions
You right. Just single and mingle for a while. Oh I'm putting my patreon back on. I was in San Diego and I was down to the the penny with my budget. They already took my payment out though. I will start it tomorrow. I couldn't watch the movie night at the time
oOoOoooOooooh!!! I was watching "Babes" during the live so I'm EXCITED to hear Tony (& The Bakery's) opinions on Dating 🍞 cuz CHIIIIIIIIIIIIILEEEEE!!!
Right! Especially after the last Kev & Friends 👀😂
@@TORULEZ10 - YASSSSSSSS!!!!
"Those 2 days did her RIGHT!" 😏😌 😆😅😂🤣🤣
The whole chat and audience was with it, too! Nary a Negative Nancy in sight 🤣🤣
@@TORULEZ10 - and I LOVED THAT! ❤
Also, whoever in the audience yelled "CRAM!" was HI-LAR-I-OUS!!! 😂🤣🤣
#Salute watching from #TheBakery
I loved the intro
Still alive and wanting to be above ground
My legs are mangled and I can't scrape my leg or get bit without thinking immediately I'm dead this time or my leg definitely gone but ik still here scars and all walking dancing doing what I do
Praise God
I got my gallon nearby because of tony and he got the best dimples this side of the Pacific ocean
Hi amir too
Facts we alive!!!
I definitely think dating around is smart but realistically, I don’t know too many people who will invest the same energy into someone who is “shopping around”. Like, if a guy tells me he is shopping around, which I would love the honesty, I would hang out with that person if I’m free, but the intent of it leading to more wouldn’t be a real expectation so I would move very differently. Meaning my guard would always remain up, so we would never get beyond surface level. We would probably just end up being just good friends lol.. maybe with some benefits. 🤷🏾♀️ But Im not pressed about relationships, so Im whatever with it. As long as my health, finances and family is good… and I can travel…Im happy…
And Tony, you will definitely find someone that’s fits for YOU.
Whether we date one person at a time or multiple, our emotions are always on the line, there's simply no dodging that. It's like receiving bad news now or in 5 minutes -- still hurts all the same. That's the price of admission.
Someone could tell you they've only got eyes for you to get your heart while seeing someone else secretly, which would be doubly as painful if you find out, not to mention feel like a waste of time. As time has passed, I've embraced that (for me) this philosophy is to ensure my future spouse and I find our best fit and hopefully my partner does the same, so once we decide to commit together, no strong fomo or curiosities remain -- I've seen what's out there and YOU are the best there is. We're strangers, let's see if we truly love beyond the rose tint.
To me, the general way to protect emotions are through honest conversation, discussion of boundaries and enforcing it; understanding there's a finite amount of time willing to be invested or I too could be smitten by another. General respect and trust in the other to abide and yourself to survive regardless. Controlling the controllable, but ultimately, moving in the way that works for you, as you've said.
Nice Tailored suit with the ankles out and some pointy loafers, follow up end of the night pic w/the untied bow tie with a couple buttons undone chest meat out 😂
That intro hit. Glad i came to move the numbers.
Drinking McGeez out here 👀🧃
Bro when I heard Tony said he gotta shoot Dad jokes oh now i'm ready the king is back
My favourite time of the week 🙌🏾
The key is for all parties to be “honest”and upfront and if either party can’t deal with that then they need to step away.
HAF (hydrated as f*ck) is gang gang ! ❤
Life coach Baker
But I like you're encouragement ❤😂
KevOnStage, MrsKevOnStage, and SuitOnStage
Shout out to all the peeps that have they water ready to chug on the intro
Can you time stamp the topics on the podcast audio feeds?
You gotta catch me? How???
Brett's got tha wisdom
I clicked it😂😂😂😂
Men not having put together houses is a terrible stereotype, my crib dope. Got the interior decorating from my daddy
No olive oil! Why?!!
😁....My Naga!
I don't mind dating a man who is dating other women. But once you get me confused with someone else, I'm Checking Out lol
come on Tony with wine colored tailored suit...gonna be suited n booted
Dimples first, hydration second😁💦
I used to do maintenance at apartment complex for about 8 years and I tell you it was 50/50 on sigle woman cleanliness. A lot dirtier than you would think. Guys tended to be more clean, no sense in decoration but a lot cleaner. 😅
Appreciate this topic, resonate with some of what is said!
I just don't know that it's fair to say women have it more difficult dating, men and women look at things too differently I feel
Many men settle where they get some or are fucking around, or are just looking for someone they're feeling. Which isn't diff from the opp. sex but for many women the financial security piece is a really big thing; options are more abundant but the pool feels smaller since men aren't looking for that type of security in relationship generally
You are mentioning external things calling women quality Tone. Looks, education, working, dressing nice, and nice house. All that is basic...what about kind, honest, compassionate, patient, humble, considerate, respectful, open...
The art of dating died in the 90s. Something shifted. I used to be able to go out on dates. I don't know how that happened. Oh, I got married. By the time I was free to date again, multiple dates with different people was almost non-existent
Put a pinch of salt in your water.
I been with the same guy for 14 years married for 4. God forbid I'm ever back out in these dating streets, I will never be someone's girlfriend again. I will just get to know people and keep it moving
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Dating doesn't mean you're having sex with all of them, so it shouldn't be a problem to date multiple folks.
What time does Tony usually go live?
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Frat! I'm here! I clicked! Dang! You be justa fussin'!😂🤣💙🤍
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony if you want women to know you out there just playing the field cause you're not ready to settle down because you got your heart broken, yes just say that👍🏾
Say! Where them Daddy Issues episodes been?
There'll be one tomorrow. Think they were taking a break previously.