Black Pills are the hardest to swallow for men. Q&A session from an old video

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @chuckmumey115
    @chuckmumey115 9 месяцев назад +38

    Hey , I met my second wife. Truly by accident . She was a western Canadian farmers daughter. She was truly wonderful. I was taken care of and I took care of her through her cancer. I truly miss her and realize on a daily basis of my loss. So all is not bad. I’m average looking and now in my early 60’s. Remain positive.

  • @StarPlatinumV
    @StarPlatinumV 9 месяцев назад +30

    STAY MARRIED TO YOUR MISSION!
    STAY MARRIED TO YOUR MISSION!
    STAY MARRIED TO YOUR MISSION!
    Best advice from Bruno

  • @Thap3l0
    @Thap3l0 9 месяцев назад +16

    1st time listener to this channel.." Woman are woman " Absolutely...I'm from South Africa...it's all relatable..even in this country we experience the same things maybe not to the same degree but it's just the same .

  • @nepamirskuzkameskovojomeli2396
    @nepamirskuzkameskovojomeli2396 9 месяцев назад +18

    I'm Chad and even I struggle to find a decent woman. There is a lot more to it than looks.

  • @thewanderer2041
    @thewanderer2041 9 месяцев назад +50

    Same issues in Australia. Women aren’t women anymore. Dating apps, smart phones and social media have ruined society. I’m 35 and have gone monk mode.

    • @urwrstntmre
      @urwrstntmre 9 месяцев назад

      That's what "they" want for society, utter destruction of the family. Don't be so quick to give in

    • @ZenPepperClub
      @ZenPepperClub 9 месяцев назад +1

      So you're turning japanese?

    • @thewanderer2041
      @thewanderer2041 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ZenPepperClub hikikomori

    • @jaspercaelan4998
      @jaspercaelan4998 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same here in the UK, I only meet women for short term relationships and ONS now. It's all they're good for.

    • @stevekostakis2983
      @stevekostakis2983 4 месяца назад

      Agree…as an Aussie myself.

  • @MrStroller4u
    @MrStroller4u 9 месяцев назад +10

    After the redpill rage settled, the black pill kicked in. Work 10 to 12 hrs per day, once a month I'll take a day or two off. Work on my cars, paid off house, no worries, no headaches. At 42, short, bald and slim, I'm invisible to women, and I have accepted that. Life has become easy mode. On the other hand I see above and average men with women problems, I thank God for the cards he dealt to me.

  • @davidloest3307
    @davidloest3307 9 месяцев назад +32

    Women don't want a man to lead them, and won't encourage a man to be the head of the house.

    • @TheMindfulOpinion
      @TheMindfulOpinion 9 месяцев назад

      YES, they do..
      if you gentlemen keep running in to women who are not submissive, and do not want a man to lead, you are running into the wrong women, and STILL searching for the wrong things.. there is something out of alignment with YOU, that must be fixed..

    • @rubengraham9976
      @rubengraham9976 9 месяцев назад +2

      You hit that on the money. And it's sad I'm looking into other races at this point 💯♠️❤️‍🩹

  • @natureasitis3082
    @natureasitis3082 9 месяцев назад +7

    I haven’t been with a woman for 8.5 years! Zero sex. My body my choice fellas! Freedom!
    Thanks George my life is better now that I quit alcohol and woman.

  • @jameskeen593
    @jameskeen593 9 месяцев назад +11

    Great message today sir. Thank you. Have a great weekend men, kept that head up.

  • @richardgallagher2169
    @richardgallagher2169 9 месяцев назад +12

    Best video you've done in a long time, the honesty of saying something about your own position is helpful and encouraging as a viewer.

  • @saulgood2366
    @saulgood2366 9 месяцев назад +34

    Stack cash, ignore bitches, create optionality.

    • @w.adammandelbaum1805
      @w.adammandelbaum1805 9 месяцев назад +5

      100%

    • @DavidJ-ty5jm
      @DavidJ-ty5jm 9 месяцев назад

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @jaspercaelan4998
      @jaspercaelan4998 9 месяцев назад +1

      I wouldn't do it for women though, only for myself because I like to buy nice things. I'd n ever flash my money at a woman, that's the fastest way of attracting a gold digger.

    • @RichCunt
      @RichCunt 8 месяцев назад

      Ma Man (Denzel voice)

  • @AgeofMachines
    @AgeofMachines 9 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you George.
    You spoke no lies.
    Especially on the TV.

  • @Simon-my8pv
    @Simon-my8pv 9 месяцев назад +4

    It can be a struggle if you’re trying to find a position somewhere in between monk mode and dating / playboy mode. I’m 40 now, have had some great and some terrifying experiences with women. Somehow now I’m at a point where I detached a little bit from either side. The main focus of course is me and my self optimization physically mentally spiritually. That’s unshakable and unmovable. In the past I repeatedly made the mistake to let a woman interfere with that, which weakened me. When I encounter women now, I pay close attention not only to their past but also to their daily habits. At what time do they get up. Workout? Are they self improving? Are they truly feminine and embrace and enrich my true masculinity? Is there a peaceful and positive vibe around them? I observe how she interacts with other people, how she talks about people of her past. I give it much more time. Many change faces after a few months, so always beware and never neglect any red flag. NEVER simp and always remain detached, sometimes more sometimes less. NEVER hesitate to cut her off at any given time or day. Your time and energy are everything you have in this life.

  • @Chuck_Manther
    @Chuck_Manther 9 месяцев назад +4

    I tried the younger woman route and let me tell you its much worse, she knows her worth and is aware of how much her youth will net her whomever she wants!

  • @MustafaKulle
    @MustafaKulle 9 месяцев назад +5

    After all my years of dating, the one thing I've learned is that "true love" is a delusion. At my age if such a thing existed then surely I would be in a relationship with a decent woman by now. Despite all this I am thankful for being single. I am fit, healthy, debt free, frugal, I can cook and take good care of myself. I guess I'm just not supposed to have a woman in my life. If the Gods want this to be, then I accept it and move on.

  • @harrisfelsenministries2802
    @harrisfelsenministries2802 9 месяцев назад +5

    You are tell the truth. The worse you treat a woman, the better she likes you. Stay strong and take care of yourself. Be wise. Listen to the song "You gotta be", by des'ree.

  • @rsimmons41407
    @rsimmons41407 9 месяцев назад +5

    Much love, George! Your wisdom and insight is always encouraging and enriching.

  • @Andrew_406
    @Andrew_406 9 месяцев назад +7

    I’m “overqualified” when it comes to women anymore

  • @esteban1487
    @esteban1487 9 месяцев назад +18

    You'll get effed if you DO get married.

  • @t-pain3343
    @t-pain3343 9 месяцев назад +3

    My ex, 36F of 10 years and 2 young kids destroyed our house. Had 2 affairs in Dec 22’. One with a guy and the other at the same time this kinda ghetto girl who worked at our daycare. I divorced and they live together in my old house. Best of luck to them.

  • @wss222
    @wss222 9 месяцев назад +14

    "Narcissist and abusive." I nailed it!!!!
    That's what I am now, apparently lol

    • @americanflyer4126
      @americanflyer4126 9 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly! Exactly right!!! Going through a divorce right now. Narcissist and abusive. That is all I hear day in and day out. She's giving me the silent treatment but when I'm around her there is usually a video about narcissists playing on her phone.

  • @darkman9639
    @darkman9639 9 месяцев назад +2

    Great stuff, George. I just hope young lads will hear that too (and get that).

  • @dennisnewton9384
    @dennisnewton9384 9 месяцев назад +5

    It seems like every woman I meet wants to settle down and I’m not sure I want to do that again

  • @gmo709
    @gmo709 5 месяцев назад

    Definitely keepin it real. Hope you can find someone who appreciates you and have some sort of balance

  • @StackXBT
    @StackXBT 9 месяцев назад +2

    Its so over, its never been more over.

  • @jagcentral
    @jagcentral 9 месяцев назад +15

    People change. Women usually, for the worst.

  • @StarPlatinumV
    @StarPlatinumV 9 месяцев назад +5

    Love this channel!

  • @marksargent2440
    @marksargent2440 9 месяцев назад

    I wouldn't know where to start these days ?my wife passed away 5 months age after being married coming up 23 years trust is more important to me and it works both ways as a Christian I value loyalty and both of you to be on the same page

  • @deciduousdiscipline9592
    @deciduousdiscipline9592 9 месяцев назад +1

    One of your best

  • @michaellaforte6964
    @michaellaforte6964 9 месяцев назад +7

    “Women destroy their house”, wow, ain’t that the truth.
    Dennis Rodman used to talk very openly about him being an ugly guy and women wouldn’t pay any attention to him, only when he became famous and rich suddenly women were all over him. That says more about women than it says about you. I say just embrace being ugly, seriously. Just say, yup, I’m the beast, you’re job is to be the beauty, not my job. Stay focused on you. George is right though, you can at least work with what you’ve got, put on good clothes, real shoes, develop some style/personality, all the things you can control, that can take you up a couple ticks on the scales. Here’s another thing, if you have a mole on your nose, go to the dermatologist and get it removed, you’ll be glad you did it. I saw an article in a Women’s magazine a couple decades ago, probably my gf’s at the time, but the article stuck with me, it was advising women to do the best you can with what you have and make judgements based on what someone can control, not what they can’t. If you’re balding, own it and make it your signature. Whatever it is. Tom Waits said in a song, “I need no makeup I got real scars”. Put your confidence into your being, why you are. Be a rock star with what you got brothers

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192 9 месяцев назад +2

    Every man has the same problem. Finding a loyal woman and keeping her. Its really impossible because she is always looking for a better deal. They are 70 years old and want a better deal. They expect something more from a man.

  • @jburch1544
    @jburch1544 9 месяцев назад +3

    My wife always checks me for ticks and removes them as needed after working in the woods. Keep your "club" girls.

  • @Gonthesocials
    @Gonthesocials 7 месяцев назад

    If you just assume they are all wreckless and foolish. Then you won’t be disappointed when you get fooled in her recklessness

  • @theodosios2615
    @theodosios2615 9 месяцев назад +1

    I'm sorry to say, the biggest lie we've been told is confidence fixes everything. If you're an unattractive short balding man, but you're jacked and act really confident, something doesn't fit.
    When a woman sees that, it looks like you're overcompensating. Nobody's fault, just the way the world works. For both sexes.

  • @jimforemann8581
    @jimforemann8581 8 месяцев назад +1

    I know you were speaking the truth George. I know it but the show was a little too negative. Even though I agree with everything that you said

    • @ListenMySon
      @ListenMySon  8 месяцев назад +1

      I'd rather have uncomfortable truth, than shiny feelgood lies and bullshit. If you think it's too negative for you, then stop watching, complaining, and go elsewhere to "feel" good. I'm not here to make you feel good. I'm here to equip you.

  • @Melammu0
    @Melammu0 9 месяцев назад +2

    Sounding like good ol’ Hammerhand here lol

  • @BronxBombers_726
    @BronxBombers_726 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hi..what do you think about going to SE Asia and or Latin America to find a wife?

  • @iansoelins
    @iansoelins 9 месяцев назад +1

    8:46 "Maybe your Uncle will." Lol

  • @Uncle-Smart-Alec
    @Uncle-Smart-Alec 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's not the zip code but the "Zipper Code " that matters.

  • @campbellmarty36
    @campbellmarty36 9 месяцев назад

    Just pay for it 🐈 as needed!!!!🤣🤣 period!!!!! Period !!!!! PERIOD!!!!!!

  • @MrChip1217
    @MrChip1217 9 месяцев назад +2

    Find female, rich, environments, and work on relationships i.e. friendships, eventually cream will rise to the top and you can pick from one of those close relationship

  • @mxkamel
    @mxkamel 8 месяцев назад

    God bless you

  • @torqputty
    @torqputty 9 месяцев назад +1

    not all women, but most - especially all the ones dating

  • @Davenport901
    @Davenport901 9 месяцев назад +2

    The thumbnail is quite unsettling.

  • @calvinheinz4635
    @calvinheinz4635 9 месяцев назад

    Lol this is the most vapid advice I could ever get from an elderly bachelor no less

  • @updated9918
    @updated9918 9 месяцев назад

    I am from Morocco, an Islamic country. But things have become more difficult due to the power of the feminist movement, Western pressures and smartphones.
    To the point that we began to see in the media the call to tolerate a girl’s virginity on the wedding night, which was impossible a decade ago and could cause death.

  • @DevelopmentDiaries
    @DevelopmentDiaries 9 месяцев назад

    I am a five foot one man because of drug side effects, would you honestly tell me to give up on women?

  • @LaMach420
    @LaMach420 9 месяцев назад +2

    Christianity is so weird, it's so blue pilling yet black pilling at the same time, saying that as a follower of Christ myself. The blue pill part of it works, just requires a community that shares the same values, which is critically endangered these days, in this society anyway. For that reason Ill be going the way of apostle Paul.

  • @Coolman1985
    @Coolman1985 9 месяцев назад

    George what if you find that woman who does all of the above profesional, loves you, (including the take care of you when your sick part) but you do not love her, can you still marry her because she is a good woman, would love your thoughts on this, thxss

    • @ListenMySon
      @ListenMySon  9 месяцев назад +1

      Great topic! At this stage in my life, it's not about love, it's about how you arrange your life as a couple.

  • @dmitry6482
    @dmitry6482 9 месяцев назад

    It's really sad video

  • @rambosnake666
    @rambosnake666 9 месяцев назад

    👍🧡

  • @OnlineSafety-ng7et
    @OnlineSafety-ng7et 7 месяцев назад

    Is this dude suggesting that culture has no impact on the behaviour of a woman?

  • @Wookinpanub235
    @Wookinpanub235 6 месяцев назад

    There are definitely many wonderful women still out there.
    I raised five females along with my incredible wife and they attracted wonderful Husbands.
    I see many good women who are married to real dick bag Husbands as well.
    Some of you know at 53 I’m recently single due to my wife passing of cancer.
    I can give you a lowdown for fun of the women Ive had contact with in the 2.5 months since she passed so please give some comments on the options- and feel free to tell me to run from them all and remain single.
    1. Divorced professional Black woman -great job with Fedex corporate, attractive and built really nice, dark skin, gorgeous smile.
    She always commented to me after her divorce that she wished she could find a man like me.
    I was happily married so she didn’t push the issue but now that she knows my situation shes very interested.
    She just waiting for me to call her and she basically said we need to get together.
    2. Another single black female, attractive but overweight.
    Ive seen her in shape and she can be stunning.
    Shes a struggling realtor but she does pretty well-real go getter.
    Shes a single mom with a Son in college.
    To me I think she would treat me very well.
    3. Three agressive college aged girls I could have taken home that day and had my way with them but I did not want to even go there.
    4. A good friend of mine who I haven talked to for a while.
    He called me to tell me sorry about my wife as he has been working across the country with his wife for the past 2 years.
    He told me he has cancer and he probably wont live another year and he asked me if I would take his Wife in if something happened to him because Im the only guy he’s ever seen that really knows how to to treat a woman and he would be honored if I would accept that task.
    I know his Wife shes very beautiful but shes 10 years older than me and quite frankly I’m not so sure I want an old lady to take care of 10 years from now.
    5. the woman my wife told me she wanted me to marry numerous times during our conversations while she was fighting cancer.
    This woman is currently in a relationship but apparently the guy doesn’t treat her well and neither did her ex husband who cheated on her.
    So 1. she must be special if my wife thought she would be a good fit for me- and my wife made notoriously good decisions.2. Why did Her Husband cheat? 3. why does the current guy treat her wrong? Does she have hang ups that make her undesirable or is she just too nice to guys that turn out to be assholes?
    I kind of romanticize the notion of being with her because my wife was adamant about it but my wife never talked to her about this and I have a thing called the man code, and that means you don’t Eff around with another guys woman regardless of the situation-unless he’s harming her then thats another story best suited for professionals.
    6. i also have friends and family always looking out for me in case a special lady comes along.
    I know a few women that are still married , gorgeous women with a lot to offer that have assholes for Husbands.
    Shame cause theyre wasting their best years with jerks just the same as men who have asshole wives.

  • @Vihreasammakko
    @Vihreasammakko 9 месяцев назад

    I think this is the most despered video. You have to face the truth.
    I dont know how old are you (mayby 55?)? But women over 35 start to have a big risks given a birth. Even if women were young, your spearm is a big risk too.
    If you still want a new family (love relationship and babyes) you better go to Asia.
    If you are just looking for the true love, mayby consider this: pure love is only achived by men+women=family(babyes). Child is a commidment and a driving force in relationship.
    You are too late. Mayby accept? Or go to Asia. I know women are the same there too, but athlest they will give you a shot.
    The most important thing is to accept your own age. Be true to your self.

  • @appendix-q6k
    @appendix-q6k 9 месяцев назад

    Mr. Bruno, if you want kids wouldn’t you want to look for a wife more in the 25-35 range at least? 39 is too old and at the cusp of having complications and not to mention beyond someone your age where a woman can’t have kids at your age.

  • @FelixLanzalaco
    @FelixLanzalaco 9 месяцев назад

    Sorry you are too old to have kids and I am only bothering to say this because you are a college professor so capable of going to wikipedia and gene databases to check out what I am saying. But there is far too much evidence on paternal age and birth defects, autism etc etc. Basically each year past the age of 35 your sperm start collecting more mutations, because in humans a great bulk of these mutations affect the nervous system development, when you get to 50 the chances of having neurodivergent or disabled kids is quite high. And also something similiar but less extreme happens to older women. So at 60 dont even think about it unless you are prepared to have each fetus genetically screened, and are prepared to create a full time bio project doing extra nerdy gene scanning work yourself (because the services available only do this for major well characterised problems, not all the neurodivergent stuff).
    Yes we all know older men who had healthy kids, but we all know some who have kids with autism, all types of neurodivergent and behavioural issues that cause failure to launch. I would guess the odds become 50:50 or 25:75 one way or another. Thats unacceptable risk, but maybe it improves with genetic screen and abortion. And those kids will be dealing with that having a 70 or 80 year old parent... as a result of their condition will likely be more socially isolated, poor and unable to have a family themselves, and then have no parents as well. Think beyond your selfish needs. OK maybe it can be justified with Pacino and De niro etc doing it, they can get the best screening and their kids will have wealth, connections and historical status to draw on. And I talk the talk BTW, I made the decision not to have any past the age of 50. And another thing, a lot of women are aware of this.. so maybe thats part of your problem out there.

  • @BlakesPipes
    @BlakesPipes 9 месяцев назад +13

    I am not against finding a good now woman that has the same goal. But I am 50 and if I found a woman that wanted a child, she would have to be around 33 now, which puts me 53 having a kid and her at 36 giving birth. That puts me at 73 years old having my 20 year old moving out of the house. No thanks. Hope you followed the math. My buddy that got his separation text from his wife last summer, looking at single dad of two till he is 68 years old 🧓. He has taken the red pill, but it's not fully digested yet. We will see.

  • @Gonthesocials
    @Gonthesocials 7 месяцев назад

    On my own

  • @MrChip1217
    @MrChip1217 9 месяцев назад +3

    And avoid using derogatory terms for women. It’s not so much because of the way they think of you when you say those words, it’s more the way those words color your thoughts about women.

  • @MrChip1217
    @MrChip1217 9 месяцев назад +2

    You’re talking to the wrong women,

  • @davemaurer7341
    @davemaurer7341 9 месяцев назад +8

    The new buzz words in 2024....
    All I hear dating chick's from 20s to 60s...
    1. Narrassist ex
    2. Abusive Ex
    3. He didn't understand me
    4. Hypergamy, they don't say this, but they sure do fucking seek it!!
    I think my account makes it clear it's alot cheaper to hire them....
    Words of wisdom:: if it Floats, Flys, and Fucks, rent em!!!!.