i fell in love with a girl who doesnt feel the same way, and damn does it hurt. she got a bf b4 i could tell her, and thats what led to her finding out. she felt sorry for me and tried to cheer mr up by telling me that she and her bf prob wont work out cus only like 1% of relationships at our age do, but i dont see how that helps me if she doesnt reciprocate my feelings...
TheWither129 mate this is exactly what happened to me, and I still wanna fuckin die! I wonder if the universe just says, “it’s not his time” and then makes my time 20 years in the future.
Person 1: "I like you, and I want to be more than friends" Person 2: "Best friends?" Person 1: "No, more than that... you know what I mean... closer-" Person 2: *blushing* "...Super best friends?"
Well life doesn't wait for you to figure things out. He probably met this girl randomly and there was some chemistry. Even if he likes you, why not take this chance at love that's already in front of him? He has no idea what you feel and waiting for something to happen is just wasting life.
It was a funny story... I literally don't care just thought people would find it amusing but I forget people of the Internet have no sense of humour. She's an ace girl we are mates now and hang out together with them and my new partner.
@Julya Flyer I disagree because I get stuck in that stage a lot. Luckily though I notice quickly when someone isn't a huge fan of me. So I back off and move on. It's easier on me to move on when someone is an asshole to me. Unlike ... when they are genuinely a nice person. But we all have our own opinions :) Sorry that happen to you but at least you know
Yeah I was the best friend of a girl in my class in 5th. Grade ( I'm not one of those stupid very child like kids I'm more like an adult than kid) Anyway 5th grade best friend , but every single day was hell for me it was a non stop argument in my head of what to do every time I'm with her I was so stressed over it but if the opportunity ever came I would gladly take the chance to have those feelings again but unfortunately best friend was all it ever got to I loved her so much but the next year we went to different middle schools
My guy best friend kissed me one day after I got mad at him for tickling me and two days later I asked him out and he said he he See's me as his sister. WOULD YOU KISS YOUR SISTER
Debz Mcleod There is a potential chance that he may see you more than a friend. I know a guy who liked our mutual friend who always use to point out they were just friends in a way to reassure himself. My boyfriend always use to say when we were friends, “my friend” at an end of a hi or goodbye as a habit. Do you hint to him that you like him without saying it straight forward?
Tee yeah he knows and he's totally cool with it but it doesn't get discussed properly mostly because I don't want it to ruin our friendship. Urgh life!
That awkward moment when your boyfriend is your best friend who is now your ex but still consider each other best friends...so complicated! Love is so messy but beautiful! 😫
I think we had a “moment” but I can’t tell- basically I had an anxiety attack I was crying a bit and he hugged me ( he has hugged me before but for like literally a second) this one lasted for like at least 2-3 minutes and he kept asking if I was ok and if I needed anything and he was being really sweet..... idkkkk
Some relationship advice from a twelve yr old: Confess to your crush on April fools so if you're worried about ruining friendships and they don't like you back, just say April fools! Not meant to be serious or anything but do whatever you want with this info
Ehh, I think even if they don’t like you back it can still seem kind of insensitive...like, that feelings of more than a camaraderie is something just to laugh at and not really worth taking seriously. If I heard one of my friends joking about that sort of thing, I’d kind of lose some respect for them TBH. It has to be more like mutual joking or fooling around with some random person, then it’s okay. If someone truly likes somebody more than a friend in a respectful manner, the other person happens to like them back and they pass it off as a joke that does seem pretty asshole-ish in my opinion. It’s only worse if someone does like someone else.
Bryndi Winget Yes, I did notice that, NOT thank you for reminding me when I needed no reminding. It’s called having a different opinion, not misinterpreting what you said.
“Moments” As soon as I hear that I think Of the time when we were in school and he told a really funny joke and we laughed it off then just looked at each other for like a straight 30 seconds smiling. Or the time when we hugged and as we were walking away our hands just lingered.
The elder generation always adviced me that u have to build a friendship 1st be able to laugh and be ur true self b4 trying to get into a relationship. otherwise u 'll end up at lossing a friend and a possibly soul mate
My best friend showed all these signs but still turned me down. The real signs are in body language and eye contact. How near can you sit/stand to each other while maintaining eye contact without him/her backing off? That’s all you’ll need to know.
I've personally only ever had one good experience when telling my friend I liked them. Usually, it gets awkward for whatever reason, we end up not talking and parting ways. But it was a year and a half ago that I told someone that I liked him, come to my surprise he was really sweet about it and said he had a girlfriend. We're still friends and he's come to be someone who is really important to me. I will always appreciate how mature he was about it and that he still treats me like an equal. our friendship is as much of a two-way street as it was before. as someone who hasn't had many great experiences with guys. it meant a lot. I feel like maybe we've had small moments here and there after that, where I thought maybe he liked me back. our conversations are great and I feel like I can honestly just be me. there was one time we had been talking the day before & I woke up to a snap from him the next morning at like 7am so excited about an interview he had that morning. it was the best feeling in the world. that was a couple of months ago now. life happened a little more since then. I love having him in my life. it's hard to gauge anything when it's 90% over text. I got lucky the first time. I don't want to test my luck again lol If he did feel something, I feel he would have said something by now anyway. at least I hope he would. But at the end of the day, everything will happen the way it's meant to, right. sorry for another long ass comment. :)
Danielalala oh for sure, it's been a long time since then, nothing has really changed so I'm not gonna attempt to have that awkward conversation again :) focusing on work and school feels really good, it makes me happy. I want to keep my focus career right now. If one day he wants to have that conversation, he knows where to find me.
I have also been in those kind of situations but i have moved on from him and i'm glad i did since i started to realise that it was uncomfortable for me stalking him here and there on ig 😅😊
So my situation is my friends tell me all the time that my guy friends are interested in me but I never get the hint 😂 I just always assume no one likes me or we’re just too good of friends to to be in a romantic relationship. My friends see what I don’t. WHAT DOES IT MEAN?? Also, I’m not desperate and I’m fine with being single which is maybe why I’m not seeing the hints?? Idk help me out peoples :))
Yoo Nis Maybe that's it, you're fine being single and you don't notice because after all it is not something you really think about. I think that if you really wanted to be with someone like one of your guy friends you would pay more attention to these hints. Hope this helps
Lol, I'm in the same situation that my friends and cousins started calling me "insensitive or dense or oblivious" because I don't see my best friend as what they see.
I'm still confused . He has almost all these signs but we don't talk much.. long distance but we talk when ever he has time. I met his parents and his mom said "It's nice to finally meet u I've heard so much about u" and I met his dad and he was like "It's good to finally meet u" We've had one on one time almost every time we hang out.. normally to movies or out to eat. But he also treats me as only a friend but sometimes he acts like a boyfriend would..holds doors open,pays even when I'm like nah I'll pay u paid last time he'll insist on paying. Idk my crush is confusing lol. We've been friends for over three years..
My friend and I have been friends for at least 7 years now. He was originally just my older brother's best friend, but that changed when I entered High School and I got to see him more often. It's so weird because a couple years ago when we were still in High School, I swallowed my fear and asked him on a date after a movie night. To sum it up, he said no, but thankfully nothing changed between us. Now, flash forward and we're both in college. Whenever he's back for break he's almost always at my house; we watch movies together-- even cuddle. We've been number 1 best friends on snap for 3 months as well. I mean the last time I saw him we played football and when I got tired and collapsed on the ground, he bridal carried me off the field. Even so, it's rather complicated because I'm afraid that I might be rejected a second time so I'm waiting for him to make the first move. Not to mention he's kind of a shy guy. However, if he is, he's sure as hell taking his sweet time. Any thoughts?
All signs apply to my crush , I asked him out and he said I thought we are just friends ( I am gay btw). Which straight dude goes on „dates“ with a guy alone to be honest...he confuses me
so here's my story: i've been liking this one guy for a while now but we've never really been close so we didn't really hang out a lot at first but then we kinda started having the same friend group and he also broke up with his ex and we saw each other almost every weekend and now he's a really good friend of mine and i feel like there was always mutual attraction from the start bc he told me multiple times that i looked cute or he liked my outfit or something like that and i don't know if he only thinks i'm cute or if he's actually interested in me, whenever i don't see him i kinda lose hope bc we don't text much and it seems like he's just a friend but man when we hang out it's a whole different story, we somehow manage to constantly be touching even when we're sitting on opposite sides of the room our legs are intertwined or something like that and we definitely have those eye contact moments and he compliments me a lot and even when we're in a big group we still mostly sit or walk next to each other and there was this one moment which really drove me crazy he and a friend slept at my place after a party and i mean we were both drunk but we literally fell asleep millimetres apart holding hands and cuddling and woke up spooning like what does that mean?????? i don't get this boy
My friend says we "very good friends" but he be flirting with me and texting me alot, he gives alot of effort to talk to me every single day . He huggs me from the back and like barehuggs sometimes I feel like we got a spark but idk
I've had two moments like that. I'm a swimmer and so it was cold, and i didn't have a parka. And he was like "oh come here" and he opened up his parka and wrapped me around in it, with him still in it. And then before that he had helped me up and grabbed me by my waist. But i still don't know
Katie Laferriere also as a swimmer, I don’t know if he likes you... swimmers are pretty close knit like a family so it’s kind of hard to tell. One of my friends went without his shirt from a meet because mine went missing. He doesn’t like me, he’s just like my brother.
oh my gosh! All of that happened to me, even the "moments" and now he's my boyfriend! And i couldn't be happier!!! The "moments" are great advice because it's so true
You just know when you have a moment. This friend and I go out alone often and we're always making eye contact BUT there are times when there's a look, THE look, where he makes eye contact while smiling at me. It's like a very sweet look, full of tenderness and I know it's different from other times because it makes me feel something.
He says we're friends and he's not ready to be in a relationship after I told him I like him and he said he likes me too.well, I guess he's just not into me. But we're still friends after the confession and he still does the same,🙄🙄
I have this guy friend who's pretty much always had feelings for me since the start. He's not afraid of showing his emotions so he told me how he feels but took it quite well when I said i'm not sure I feel the same way. He's great and gives me all the space I need and I find myself nowadays always coming to him for emotional support and he always listens and always cheers me up he's really sweet and he doesn't expect anything in return either. I'm starting to wonder how I really feel about him... I've never been attracted to him but my feelings grow the more he proves what a good man he is and we're pretty similar in personality so we get each other really well whereas none of my exes ever understood me and I never felt I could talk to them or that they really listened to me when I did or took me seriously. It's so difficult...
I wanna put the stigma to rest about having feelings for your best friend. First, don't make it such a big deal. They're your best friend, keep them that way, but you should also express that you can see the possibility of you two being together. If it doesn't work out, no big deal, just move on and still be friends. The reason why it gets so awkward for people is that if it doesn't work out, you went through that phase where you were all "lovey-dovey" and it's hard to see someone as a friend like that. The best relationships are amongst two best friends. If you two are just able to keep things non-chalant, cool, and fun just like you do as friends, you'll be able to have the best relationship possible if you put the friendship first rather than being lovers. Best friends get over fights, and you'll get through anything if you both have that mindset.
Thank you! This was the type of advice I was looking for. I love my friendship, starting to know him while I was in a relationship, that relationship there didn't last. Now I'm considering if the excitement/crush I killed in inside myself earlier for this friend should be allowed reopening and exploring. I know I can be honest with my friend about it, and still be okay if he doesn't see a potential in a relationship "us".
We made out many times and once had sex, he told me he was having fun and never felt “that”, then we didn’t talk for two months because I decided it isn’t healthy and just had a reunion with a lot of crying and “I missed you so much”. I honestly don’t know what is going on.
By “that “ do you mean feelings? I’d say if he’s sleeping with you but telling you he doesn’t have feelings for you it’s just about sex :( my ex friend did this to me gave me enough to be “hooked on him” take me out on dates the hole suhbang but would then keep telling me he doesn’t feel more then friendship, I broke it off n he did get upset but looking back it was toxic n very unfair on me to string me along xx
literally the same happened to me. a guy i was dating was subtle at first, we were hanging out as friends, then by coincidence ended up at my place, agreed to sleep together. i gave no hint, thought maybe he'll say something. before we went to sleep, he asked "what about a good night kiss?", then we were making out for some time, and next time again. I felt like that was it' that's my future husband and then BAM, a while later he says he doesn't get attached so quickly and that he's not sure he wants to be in a serious relationship with me. I was crushed.
I have this friend that is super nice and he TOLD me we were just friends. But he KISSED me??? And He gives me these not really platonic hugs? BUT He keeps saying we're just friends. Maybe he's just a player. I don't even know what's happening. HELP
hes probably just a douche, dont waste your energy worrying about it & find somebody else 🤷♀️ I mean theres a slim chance hes genuine and "just scared" but the probability is MUCH higher that hes just a selfish "fuckboy" lol
Okay so basically I think I'm starting to develop a crush on my friend...The only problem? He's so far away. We met on a language exchange app and I just slowly started falling for his bright personality, and his voice is so energetic I get happy just hearing it. For the past few days I kind of feel like we have dipped our feet into the 'muddy water' but it's so hard to tell because we've never met in person and god knows when we'll actually meet. He keeps urging me to go to his country ASAP (since I'm learning the language, I plan on going within the next 2 years), and he calls me randomly (no one I've met before him has done this) and yesterday we finally added each other on a texting app and he kept using all these cute stickers/emoticons, and when I joked about being jelly because I don't have any besides the basic ones, he said "I only use them with people I like." and t b h I'm starting to feel so confused. I'm worried, scared, and confused. I think that because I'm starting to develop some 'feelings' for him, I'm starting to read into everything. He even texts me when he's out with friends (although that's kind of normal in his culture), stays up late to talk as much as possible because he works, and he even called/texted me whilst drunk (that dumbass istg). I don't know shit about relationships so yeah I'm screwed.
히다야Tube hey my situation is 98% similar to yours and i really want to know if the guy is interested or not. Please tell me how did it go eventually? Did u confess? Please help T.T
I had to admit we have the same situation. Ínter cambió stuffs. I believe he’s a Latino? Hahahahaha. To be honest, I’m also confused with this exchange of language thing and damn, I never experienced someone who constantly text or calls me like your situation. Guard your feelings first and know that person very well before committing to that person you never see personally. 🙂
how about his parents saying “we’ve heard so much about you” when you first met them? Another being for me that he skipped sleeping just to make a movie with me? Boys are still confusing lol
he went from calling me bestfriend everyday to calling me ari...and rarely referring me as bestfriend.............but we are really close...we have had those "moments" to...we where playing a game and his hand ended up like on top of mine and he was like holding me hand...and we just looked at each other, straight in the eyes for like 10 seconds...then we got back to playing the game....we also have a handshake and I forgot it, so he showed me it again...he held my hand for like a minute....then continued showing me....one more thing is...his friend was shipping us together...and I was trying to get away...because, ya know....and i ended up just right in front of him...and he looked down at me into my eyes and i looked up at him into his eyes...and we stared into each others eyes for like 20 seconds then i ran away.......he also asks me to sit next to him all the time,...he pushed someone out of their seat because he wanted me to sit next to him, then we watched videos for 45 mins............does this mean anything or no.....
Im a guy, and personally i can vouch (if this means anything 😅) that thats him basically saying he likes you, but is letting you decide if you want to take it to the next level or not. :)
@@bibbabookgirl8469 it didnt work out....turn out he liked my bestfriend and now they are dating....but i also figured out Im gay so its all good😂....thank you tho
RB 19 haha I'm actually lesbian 😊 but I've made it a rule not to date my friends even if we both like each other, I did that twice and it ended badly. ..both times
ALL OF THESE SIGNS HAPPEN TO ME! AND he was my first kiss, and other first things...and were literally best friends and I’m the only person he hangs out with. Even including his guy friends. I’m literally the first person he wanted to invite to go on a vacation with him and he’s taken me so many places and we always hang out with each other and he always kisses me and stuff. It’s so obvious that he likes me right? NOPE. He does all this stuff, but says he doesn’t like me in that way...but actions speak louder than words.
So my story is confusing My friend is a super charismatic person, he’s friends with everyone he knows. Last Friday I attended a bar and he went there as well and offered to travel together only because he knew Id go. We kissed that night and he also kissed another girl we both know so that was no big deal. But, that kiss haunted me and him too as it seems because he didn’t want anyone to know he kissed the other one, but told our mutual friends he kissed me. What does that mean?
He's a player and he's trying to coach you into an open relationship. That way everything he does, you just shrug it off as he does that with everyone and stay! My brother does this all the time!
There's a guy I work with that I like and idk if he likes me...he occasionally will be talking and puts his hand on my shoulder and makes little comments that makes me think he does, but then sometimes I think he likes another girl by the things he says😬so confusing
La Shaov Just leaving my opinion in case you care. I just think that you should think about that thing with that other girl and figure out if it might be just you being a bit jealous, and you know, seeing things the wrong way. If appears to be so I say go for it, it really sounds like he's into you. Good luck in this!
His sister introduced me to his parents as his BFF. They knew about me already. And now when the parents see me, his mom hugs me like I'm family. And at times, he's very attentive to my needs and such. Things such as "I was worried you wouldn't sleep, cuz you don't sleep well when you're anxious." Or "Drink some lavender oil tea to sleep."
Me and my friend have been friends for 10 years. When we text he doesn’t usually answer but when he does when have very long conversations and there great. And while listening to you speak, I realized that ALL of the things u said apply to me. Also we hug every time we see each other at school. I wanna tell him but I’m too shy. Thanks for helping tho
So that's definitely how things have been with this guy that I worked around/a guy I work with now. One guy introduced me as just my name to his coworkers and the other guy introduced me as just my name to his ex-wife as well as inviting me to "hang out" pretty much every week, but he would pay for everything, even after I would insist on paying for my own food. One guy I realized it after he kept telling me he wanted to hang out and attempted to pay for my food as well as my son's food, and then the other guy I realized it after I had had a rough few days and told him I needed a hug and he drove like 15 mins in the middle of the night just to give me a hug.
The guy that I work with now, he's the one who came over in the middle of the night just to hug me and we talked for hours under the stars and he even got a blanket out of his truck for me when he noticed that I was cold(even though we were sitting right outside of my house and we could have gone inside), and every single time we hug he never wants to let go of me. That night his hug was so comforting that I melted into his arms. That's not "just friends"
lmao I am having this issue with one of my housemates, I have no feeling beyond friendship towards him but our other housemates keep suggesting that he likes me because of how he acts. E.g pinching my cheeks, giving me shoulder massages and just being kinda flirty. I am pretty convinced he's just got a flirty personality because he will refer to me as his mate or buddy. We did have this awkward moment last night where he was like 'i could kiss you rn', but I just brushed it off as banter. Idk what to think at this point so imma just ignore the situation if there even is one lool
No don't get drunk haha That's what my flatmate and I did and we ended up hooking up.. Afterwards we said that we were just gonna pretend like nothing happened but the same thing happened 2 weeks later. Now I am really confused because I am developing feelings for him and I don't know what to do. I don't want to talk to him about it because I don't want to make things awkward and I also don't even know if I want to be more than friends. So don't do the same mistake lol
I think that most of these signs can actually be there even though your good friend doesn't want to be more than a friend except for the "moments" advice . All of these signs were there but we never had the "moments" and I thought we were just friends but he misread the situation. Another good sign is for example their reaction to your stories about your crush/dates, if they are excited about it and wish to talk about it all night then you're probably just friends. And another sign is that you just feel it when there is nothing but friendship between you two. If you slightly step away from your emotions and watch them closely, you may see things as they are, not as you want them to be.
Okay I’m gonna tell you what he usually does that makes me like him even more. 1: He gave me a lollipop (don’t judge its romantic to me) 2: He mostly touches my neck a lot with his hand 3:He always wants a contest with me 4: He has introduces me to his friends 5: We stare at each other randomly
Allllright so I’ve got this friend and we haven’t known eachother a suuuper long time. Only like a few months but we’ve gotten pretty close lately. We’ve had some “moments” I guess you would say but he’s kinda a more shy dude so I guess it’s just confusing. So here are a few signs I guess that most people would take as “he likes you”. He’s gone out of his way to do something that he clearly didn’t want to do and I wanted to do. He played it off after as he wanted to do it but we both know he didn’t and he was late for meeting with a friend because of it. He does kinda stare a lot but maybe he’s not actually looking at me? (My friends see this too) he acts pretty differently around me than other people. He’s a lot more quiet and reserved. There’s no touchy ness really just a hug hello or goodbye but I mean we only really see eachother at church. We went out for ice cream the other day and he insisted on buying me ice cream. And we texted a lot for a while and he was always trying to keep the convo going but he’d stop talking in weird places.. the thing that’s throwing me off is he stopped texting me and now he’s like super nervous around me again or something and it’s almost like he’s avoiding me.. I mean things were going good and it’s pretty obvious I like him at this point for many reasons so idk what’s going on.. Helllppp
Mikayla Becerra He's obviously just shy and scared to tell you he likes you. Try subtly flirting with him like maybe touching him more or teasing him or calling him cute mock names see how he reacts to that. Flirt with him and laugh it out afterwards in case it gets awkward or if he shy's away. Try hinting that you want something more than friends. If he doesn't push you away, it's likely he's not opposed to the idea. Ask him who he likes? If it's you he'll probably get all nervous and shish lol All that will help him be more open with you since you're making the first moves. & if he responds the same way, then more than likely he definitely likes you. By what you just wrote it's obvious he has a crush on you so I would definitely ask him out on a date or just flat out tell him you have feelings for him.
Mikayla Becerra I'm sure he was feeling the same way. I'd love to hear what's happened since you posted originally, was I correct, and what then happened?
Well yes but actually no Hear me out on this; Me and my best ''girl'' friend(also my first and bigest crush) call each other weird things all the time (even in front of other people including her family), things only best friends would call as Couple of times people tought that we were in a relationship (you won't believe how many people ship us) but everytime we denied and said that we are just two dumbs who can understand each other in a world of ''clever people'' I denied and friendzoned her everytime, not because I did'nt saw her in that way but because I was scared of losing her I would rather have best friend than a potential girlfriend, Heck why would I wanna have gf? To bang my best friend?
My BFF in high school was always in love with me. I was also in love with her. I didn't find out until 20 years later. My greatest regret was not telling her before we drifted apart. She's now happily married but told me about her big crush on me...and how she will always have a crush on me. It's to late now so don't make the mistake I did. Go for it and never look back.
This video really helped man. Ive felt this way about my best friend for the longest, but shes been in and out of relationships and it is always hard to tell how she feels, but i think now i can possibly figurs it out a little easier.
I have this 'Friend' and we both are in 7th grade (i go to an all boy school and she a all girls). There are always buses that go between the schools so 3-4 days a week we always catch up in the morning and afternoon for 30 minutes plus (just the two of us) and we also go to the same youth group. This has been happening for 5 months. Alot of other kids in my class have tried asking her out but she has rejected them. I have noticed some signs she might like me ( feet pointed towards me, laughs at everything, sneaks away to speak to me alone) I want to ask her out but im afraid i will have the same fate as everyone else. What should I do?
My guy friend is always replying to my messages, if he can. But he is always saying that we are best friends. Of course, I know everything about him and he knows a lot, but not all, cause I'm too shy to talk about my problems. And yes we have this "dates" and "moments". And yassss I'm obsessed with him. We are best friends maybe for two months. Actually, he was dating one girl and then they broke up. I knew that he likes another one, and she likes him back too. Another friend of mine suggested me to find him new gf so did I. This friend said, that because of it I can grow in his eyes. And YEAH my guy friend really appreciate this. But still his new future gf(they are not dating yet, but they will) is also my friend. And I really don't know what to do. PLEASE, HELP ME(: P.S. All people in this story are in high school
Nika Bahrenkova I used to be in that exact same situation and at some point, you have to step back and see how everything really is. If he's openly telling you that he likes other girls, then you are JUST a friend. It's hard to actually believe this but its much better once you accept it. ❤️
I've known this girl for 15 years. From school. We've been friends all this time. I know almost everything about her and her family. She knows everything about me. We where for each other on our lows and highs. She's been in a abusive relationship for 10 years. She suffered something like Stockholm Syndrome. Mini Stockholm Syndrome. Some day's ago she told me that it over. She finally woke up from the lithargus and she's single. I'm sure I was one of the first ones she told. She wants me to meet one of her female friends because she's interested in me. That's probably a distraction. I can see super subtle signs but nothing particular. Basically I'll be myself and continue with my life and my everyday routine. If she develop feelings that's good. If she's not I don't give a damn. I'm too busy to play the game of love.
We play this game where we cast out friend group as characters in musicals but he usually doesn’t participate. Him and I were the last people at a party and I asked him how he would cast his favorite musical. He cast both of us as the leads, who are supposed to be in love. Not sure if this was a ‘moment’ or if he just thought that we would be good in those roles.
Signs your more than friends❤️: 1. You text a lot 2. They don’t refer to you as a friend 3. You know everything about each other 4. You hang out (“date”) 5. Your important to each other 6. You have had moments (a more than friend moment) Hope this helped xxx
Me and this guy had moments and texted all the time but it never led to anything and then we kind of stopped talking and “having moments” but I’d see him all the time because we have the same friends. Now we see each other almost daily and we text semi regularly and we go places together and I catch him staring all the time and he’ll make comments that leads me to think he wants me, But he’ll give side hugs and never leaves time for there to be “moments” I’m not so sure what’s going on it’s like mixed signals to me. I think of him as a very close trusted friend who doesn’t want anything right now but if he did I would totally be open to that.
I'm going to write this on my spare. So let's start this checklist. ▪He doesn't have a phone. ▪He hasn't introduced me to anybody, and he call me by my name ▪ We are both really talkative, but we already remember anything we tell eachother ▪Invited him to go on a scary ride and he said YES. ▪I've known him for a short time so, no. But my friend says she can see a spark.
I’m soooo confused! This guy that I really like is a good friend of mine and the people that we hang around say that he looks at me a longer and “harder” than just a regular friend but he’s never given me any real reason to think that he likes but he does get jealous whenever I mention another guys name around him soooo like wtf is happening???
He is a good actor and he can hold his feelings, but I think he gives you some little signs that he likes you, I'm like him, nobody knows my crush and he has been my crush and still is for 1 year. He even had a girlfriend, wich was heartbreaking but I didn't show it.
-we don’t text bc our parents are strict😂 -he’s never called me a friend but I don’t think he’s ever rly introduced me either... -he remembers some things -dates? Haha noooo -and yes, we’ve had moments. Mostly things that are just subtle and cute
My female best friend is bisexual, and she just broke up with her bf of a year and she was feeling terrible all weekend. This Monday we didn’t talk as much as we normally do, but we still did. Then after school she tells me she met this beautiful girl who lives in Italy, which is where my best friend is from, on Instagram. She tells me the girl is also bi and is looking for a gf. I literally felt such a pain in my stomach when I heard this that I thought I was gonna die. Now we still talk but not as much because she’s busy with her new soon-to-maybe-be gf. I wanna fuckin die. If anything changes then I’ll update this comment cause this is gonna be very interesting.
@@shine2678 Well... turns out i'm gay lmao, we went through a bunch of shit and didn't talk for a year, then we reconnected for a few months and now we're not talking again, I moved on lol
Me and my neighbor spend all of our time together we talk window to window every evening he always drives me to college and then goes to work ,I always cook for him 💛 The problem is that we don't even consider each other as freinds we just spend all the time together but he never says this is my freind katherine he goes this is katherine 😅I feel kinda in love with him but I am scared or ruining that relationship that we already have
My friend is in a long distance relationship and is moving away so I've been spending a lot more time with her then normal. We got put for dinner,movies during the holidays she comes over for dinner with my family and she seems happy . Even before I leave we have this long hug. I don't wanna think of it as much but a part of me thinks some thing is there.
1- we're texting non stop, and we're texting in the morning and see who fell asleep first 2- i don't know if he refers to me as his friend? We never really talked about that, we're just giving eachother nicknames 3- i know a lot of things on his past and i also know one of his insecurities 4- he always asks me if i'm okay when he knows i'm sick and even tells me to go to sleep when i need too 5- we kinda went on a date...well not really, we were waiting for friends and there was only the two of us, we played games, it was fun 6- moments...I don't know if sometimes he's serious or just joking around
JanuariSnow 11 its not usually logical and it wont make sense at first, but usually you both mirror each other for a few long seconds that usual - like unintentionally stared into each others eyes for like 20 seconds longer than normal + you get a weird vibe and they do too lol
wow this video came on a really good time.. so i totally have the 'moments' but i feel like he doesn't text to me all the time, or isn't always in the mood to text. we also went for a 'pizzadate' or movienights as well, so that makes me think it is from both ways. then again, he "forgot" (i'm not really sure) i was underaged so like.. i really don't know 😣
NEED HELP!!! We've been friends for about a year now, had some MOMENTS, been there for each other through the upsetting breakups and crazy dates. Recently we went on a weekend getaway to disneyland. Holding hands, exchanging kisses, stolen glances, all the cheesy romantic stuff you see happen in movies. Even talking about moving all the way across the country together. But neither of us want to talk about how we feel. I'm terrified of losing my best friend. He's terrible to read. I just wish I knew what was going on because I really am in love with him but don't like torturing myself over the thought that he might not feel the same way.
@@stanleed.harold5457 well I forgot I commented on this. But I have an update haha. We started dating about 5 months after this and we just moved in together. Needless to say I’m a happy girl
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1. Texting often
2. They don't say that you're a "friend"
3. Interested in your life story
4. Go on "dates"
5. You've had "moments"
We do that often except for 3, 4 and 5
Dam a girl does that to me
I'm gay 😖
2.. is often 😔
I had my friend who I like over to my house today and we were on the swing (in the backyard) and we kinda had a "moment"
I’m I the only one who ALWAYS falls in love with the person that doesn’t feel the same way??????
i fell in love with a girl who doesnt feel the same way, and damn does it hurt. she got a bf b4 i could tell her, and thats what led to her finding out. she felt sorry for me and tried to cheer mr up by telling me that she and her bf prob wont work out cus only like 1% of relationships at our age do, but i dont see how that helps me if she doesnt reciprocate my feelings...
TheWither129 mate this is exactly what happened to me, and I still wanna fuckin die! I wonder if the universe just says, “it’s not his time” and then makes my time 20 years in the future.
Mochi same
Same here
🙁🙁🙁
Me and my crush have a lot in common
He drinks water
I drink water
He breathes air
I breathe air
😉
Scarlett Avocado wow 👏
Potato potato 🥔
MAH NEW SHIP IS SAILING BISH, EVERYONE GET ON BOARD!
😛and you both poop
I have to eye balls
He has two eye balls
I have two legs
He has two legs
（＝フ＝)೨
Then It's destiny for you both 😲😂
Person 1: "I like you, and I want to be more than friends"
Person 2: "Best friends?"
Person 1: "No, more than that... you know what I mean... closer-"
Person 2: *blushing* "...Super best friends?"
What if your friend is a "flirty for fun" friend? WHAT THEN UH ?
or if they have other ppl the talk to, too all the time 🤦🏽♀️
im in the same situation as you ;w;
Martin From Strufve same situation as you mi amigo
RIGHT
Heres an idea
ASK THEM
I don't know why I'm watching this, I don't even have any friends.
meliisaido I’ll be your frand :D
LMAo that's why you're watching this
I'll be your friend too 😊
I'll be your friend 😃
I can relate
This was happening to me.. what cleared it up was he introduced me to his new girlfriend 😂🙈
Hannah Melissa
He might have been trying to make you Jealous
Hannah Melissa That doesn't mean a thing. I was in a relationship and still into another guy who was "just a friend"
Well life doesn't wait for you to figure things out. He probably met this girl randomly and there was some chemistry. Even if he likes you, why not take this chance at love that's already in front of him? He has no idea what you feel and waiting for something to happen is just wasting life.
It was a funny story... I literally don't care just thought people would find it amusing but I forget people of the Internet have no sense of humour. She's an ace girl we are mates now and hang out together with them and my new partner.
Haha that reminds me of the "I have a girlfriend" meme.
Slightly related meme:
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yeah.. more than friends... meaning best friends
Lmaooo righttt😭
My life in a summary. I always get stuck in the best friend stage...
Your a boss
@Julya Flyer I disagree because I get stuck in that stage a lot. Luckily though I notice quickly when someone isn't a huge fan of me. So I back off and move on. It's easier on me to move on when someone is an asshole to me. Unlike ... when they are genuinely a nice person. But we all have our own opinions :) Sorry that happen to you but at least you know
Yeah I was the best friend of a girl in my class in 5th. Grade ( I'm not one of those stupid very child like kids I'm more like an adult than kid)
Anyway 5th grade best friend , but every single day was hell for me it was a non stop argument in my head of what to do every time I'm with her I was so stressed over it but if the opportunity ever came I would gladly take the chance to have those feelings again but unfortunately best friend was all it ever got to I loved her so much but the next year we went to different middle schools
My guy best friend kissed me one day after I got mad at him for tickling me and two days later I asked him out and he said he he See's me as his sister. WOULD YOU KISS YOUR SISTER
I always kiss my sister we are Bros she is like 1 but we're still bros😎👌
do you live in Alabama?
@@madeleinekraus6452 not like that u bafoon, my lil sis is 1 years old
@@madeleinekraus6452 who doesn't kiss their lil sister
*[Alabama would like to know your location]*
my guy friend just gives really mixed signals
Rip. Me 2. I asked him if he wanted to date me and he said no.😂 Have a conversation about it first. Don't just ask out of the blue if you r going 2.
Me too, like we always have those “moments” but at the same time he calls me “bud” all the time😂
aw, me too
Saaammmmmeeeeee!! But I kinda send him mixed signals too so I have no right to complain 😅
I give them to my girl bestfriend too
What about the guy that gives you every sign that he wants to be more than friends, but he insists that you are just friends? 🤔
Debz Mcleod There is a potential chance that he may see you more than a friend. I know a guy who liked our mutual friend who always use to point out they were just friends in a way to reassure himself. My boyfriend always use to say when we were friends, “my friend” at an end of a hi or goodbye as a habit. Do you hint to him that you like him without saying it straight forward?
Tee yeah he knows and he's totally cool with it but it doesn't get discussed properly mostly because I don't want it to ruin our friendship. Urgh life!
just like you maybe he doesnt want to risk it too .. i feel like im intruding but hey, best of lucks for your future
fudgeboy
HE IS IN LOVE as I`m like the person you're describing but take it slow and tease him even if you don't love him see how he reacts
That awkward moment when your boyfriend is your best friend who is now your ex but still consider each other best friends...so complicated! Love is so messy but beautiful! 😫
The FashionJeneral AGHH THE BEST TYPE OF BREAK UP IS WHEN YOU STAY BEST FRIENDS. IT GIVES ME FAITH IN HUMANITY OK!
민티김 exactly.. yeah Ur right
Yeah! !!!😂😂😁😅😆
I'm slowly turning my female friends bisexual for me...expect for the fricking female friend I do like.
ME AND MY BEST FRIENDS
"You could cut the sexual tension in the air with a knife." 😂🤣 YES.
Andrew: “Where you can just cut the sexual tension in the air with a knife.”
Me: *Bursts out in laughter🤣*
Lost in japan
💀💀💀
😮😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂
I think we had a “moment” but I can’t tell- basically I had an anxiety attack I was crying a bit and he hugged me ( he has hugged me before but for like literally a second) this one lasted for like at least 2-3 minutes and he kept asking if I was ok and if I needed anything and he was being really sweet..... idkkkk
I'm sorry...But this is just really cute...
AWW GOD BLESS
Ahaha forgot I commented this... if u want an update we dated for like 5 months and broke up 😂
😅😅😅
Ummi think he's being nice? Idk
Some relationship advice from a twelve yr old: Confess to your crush on April fools so if you're worried about ruining friendships and they don't like you back, just say April fools! Not meant to be serious or anything but do whatever you want with this info
Great advice
Ehh, I think even if they don’t like you back it can still seem kind of insensitive...like, that feelings of more than a camaraderie is something just to laugh at and not really worth taking seriously.
If I heard one of my friends joking about that sort of thing, I’d kind of lose some respect for them TBH. It has to be more like mutual joking or fooling around with some random person, then it’s okay.
If someone truly likes somebody more than a friend in a respectful manner, the other person happens to like them back and they pass it off as a joke that does seem pretty asshole-ish in my opinion. It’s only worse if someone does like someone else.
@@an_impasse notice the not meant to be serious
This will work thx.
Bryndi Winget Yes, I did notice that, NOT thank you for reminding me when I needed no reminding. It’s called having a different opinion, not misinterpreting what you said.
“Moments”
As soon as I hear that I think
Of the time when we were in school and he told a really funny joke and we laughed it off then just looked at each other for like a straight 30 seconds smiling. Or the time when we hugged and as we were walking away our hands just lingered.
Coralty awww so are y’all together yet!?!?!😏
The elder generation always adviced me that u have to build a friendship 1st be able to laugh and be ur true self b4 trying to get into a relationship. otherwise u 'll end up at lossing a friend and a possibly soul mate
If it's a soulmate your matched by God so you get together anyways
Who else has been rejected after telling their best friends ?
Me
Yeah but she confessed and i was rejected lmao
I am rejected last year but she confessed that she really loved me since grade 2
We both like each other, but he didn't want anything serious. So we don't talk anymore. 🥲
me
me too. Tonight
My best friend showed all these signs but still turned me down.
The real signs are in body language and eye contact. How near can you sit/stand to each other while maintaining eye contact without him/her backing off? That’s all you’ll need to know.
i like him .. haha he always calls me mate 😑
mate as in soulmate ;)? eh.. ehh??
♡ Winterbird ♡ I wish its for soulmate 😂
you can turn it into, next time he says mate say okay soulmate and laugh then go do a thing then it's a joke between you ^_^v
♡ Winterbird ♡ I can do that but I don't think we are gonna talk again. I just want a bf. Lol. I move on than loosing our friendship
aww if it's time to do it, put a flower in your hair and move on, it's his loss
HE SAID HE LIKES MY BEST FRIEND. which makes me depressed
Camellia Pearl same lol
My use to be crush dated my friend. My use to be crush and I are friends now tho so
God bless
Sad 😣😧
😅😅😅😅😅
I've personally only ever had one good experience when telling my friend I liked them. Usually, it gets awkward for whatever reason, we end up not talking and parting ways. But it was a year and a half ago that I told someone that I liked him, come to my surprise he was really sweet about it and said he had a girlfriend. We're still friends and he's come to be someone who is really important to me. I will always appreciate how mature he was about it and that he still treats me like an equal. our friendship is as much of a two-way street as it was before. as someone who hasn't had many great experiences with guys. it meant a lot. I feel like maybe we've had small moments here and there after that, where I thought maybe he liked me back. our conversations are great and I feel like I can honestly just be me. there was one time we had been talking the day before & I woke up to a snap from him the next morning at like 7am so excited about an interview he had that morning. it was the best feeling in the world. that was a couple of months ago now. life happened a little more since then. I love having him in my life. it's hard to gauge anything when it's 90% over text. I got lucky the first time. I don't want to test my luck again lol If he did feel something, I feel he would have said something by now anyway. at least I hope he would. But at the end of the day, everything will happen the way it's meant to, right. sorry for another long ass comment. :)
Cecilia Christina That's adorable.
He's the best :)
I think if he is into you maybe is his turn to say it
Danielalala oh for sure, it's been a long time since then, nothing has really changed so I'm not gonna attempt to have that awkward conversation again :) focusing on work and school feels really good, it makes me happy. I want to keep my focus career right now. If one day he wants to have that conversation, he knows where to find me.
I have also been in those kind of situations but i have moved on from him and i'm glad i did since i started to realise that it was uncomfortable for me stalking him here and there on ig 😅😊
My crush plays hot and cold but does most of these signs
Tell her. “Is alright baby, we hot and cold over here too, matter of fact, *I INVENTED ICY HOT”*
Confused and scared. Put your crush at ease. Share your feelings.
The whole" we are just friends" thing is is just to confusing.
I know. I am going through this right now.
same
“Lyd can I talk to you about something ❤️”
Yeah Dyl, what do you need??💘
“Is your friend single”
....time to adopt another animal. 😂
I have the same name! My friends call me Lyds lol
Lydia Grace 😂 that’s funny
So my situation is my friends tell me all the time that my guy friends are interested in me but I never get the hint 😂 I just always assume no one likes me or we’re just too good of friends to to be in a romantic relationship. My friends see what I don’t. WHAT DOES IT MEAN?? Also, I’m not desperate and I’m fine with being single which is maybe why I’m not seeing the hints?? Idk help me out peoples :))
Yoo Nis Maybe that's it, you're fine being single and you don't notice because after all it is not something you really think about. I think that if you really wanted to be with someone like one of your guy friends you would pay more attention to these hints. Hope this helps
Elodie Kerroux thanks for helping a girl out 😂
Lol, I'm in the same situation that my friends and cousins started calling me "insensitive or dense or oblivious" because I don't see my best friend as what they see.
same
Eunice Lee i feel you to😂👌
First "moment" I ever had I was like damn this is just like in the movies
Elodie Kerroux true😂😂
for real though
Hahah so true♥️♥️♥️
me freaking too. i was SHOOK. pinching myself and everything
Basically my life rn.....God damn it why is this my life
"If they know really obscure stuff...
"Like your birthday"
Huh, guess a lot of people like me
Dianna Brooks mine didn’t remember mine....God bless
I turned off the Birthday thing on Snapchat this year, and 5% the number of people from last year knew.
I... I think my mom likes me then..
@@sophialynn1798 me and my crush both don't remember each other's birthday lmao 🤷♀️😂
good
Me and my friend have had a "moment" where I had dropped all my things and he came up and hugged me to calm me down
“this is jane.” hi, im jane. im andrew’s crush, nice to meet you to. :)
My name Is Jane!! :)
I'm still confused . He has almost all these signs but we don't talk much.. long distance but we talk when ever he has time. I met his parents and his mom said "It's nice to finally meet u I've heard so much about u" and I met his dad and he was like "It's good to finally meet u" We've had one on one time almost every time we hang out.. normally to movies or out to eat. But he also treats me as only a friend but sometimes he acts like a boyfriend would..holds doors open,pays even when I'm like nah I'll pay u paid last time he'll insist on paying. Idk my crush is confusing lol. We've been friends for over three years..
FangirlingWorld finally someone who cab relate to me!
OMG girl. I have the same exact story.
This sounds super similar to what I’m dealing with now too! Except we’re not technically long distance just both super busy people.
Almost the same
He likes you, but hes too shy to make a move. Plain and simple. For three years, maybe you should day something. Trust me.
Dang I wish I saw this like 24 hours ago 🙈😭
Debz Mcleod omg rip
What happened 24 hours ago?
Debz Mcleod hahaha
What happened 24 hours ago?
What happened?
My friend and I have been friends for at least 7 years now. He was originally just my older brother's best friend, but that changed when I entered High School and I got to see him more often. It's so weird because a couple years ago when we were still in High School, I swallowed my fear and asked him on a date after a movie night. To sum it up, he said no, but thankfully nothing changed between us.
Now, flash forward and we're both in college. Whenever he's back for break he's almost always at my house; we watch movies together-- even cuddle. We've been number 1 best friends on snap for 3 months as well. I mean the last time I saw him we played football and when I got tired and collapsed on the ground, he bridal carried me off the field. Even so, it's rather complicated because I'm afraid that I might be rejected a second time so I'm waiting for him to make the first move. Not to mention he's kind of a shy guy. However, if he is, he's sure as hell taking his sweet time.
Any thoughts?
All signs apply to my crush , I asked him out and he said I thought we are just friends ( I am gay btw). Which straight dude goes on „dates“ with a guy alone to be honest...he confuses me
DarkWing Duck naaaaah u don’t deserve em
In the same boat here.. wouldnt say dates but he rather alone times just to vent
*When the girl almost kissed you but then rejects you two days later*
I don't know
That's rough buddy
@@s0ph_ju Yea my girlfriend is the moon
I’m the 69th like, ur welcome.
ha ha ha
I can't concentrate on what you're saying when you look like that🙄😍
Ilijana Katic lil
LO
Lol ikr
....😶
so here's my story: i've been liking this one guy for a while now but we've never really been close so we didn't really hang out a lot at first but then we kinda started having the same friend group and he also broke up with his ex and we saw each other almost every weekend and now he's a really good friend of mine and i feel like there was always mutual attraction from the start bc he told me multiple times that i looked cute or he liked my outfit or something like that and i don't know if he only thinks i'm cute or if he's actually interested in me, whenever i don't see him i kinda lose hope bc we don't text much and it seems like he's just a friend but man when we hang out it's a whole different story, we somehow manage to constantly be touching even when we're sitting on opposite sides of the room our legs are intertwined or something like that and we definitely have those eye contact moments and he compliments me a lot and even when we're in a big group we still mostly sit or walk next to each other and there was this one moment which really drove me crazy he and a friend slept at my place after a party and i mean we were both drunk but we literally fell asleep millimetres apart holding hands and cuddling and woke up spooning like what does that mean?????? i don't get this boy
Malin Rosin i think he might like you😉
he probably likes you
I need an update!!
😂😂😂lol this is a funny true story
REACH FOR IT GURL!!!
youtube - where 35 year old men can pretend they are 15
what a glorious age we live in
My friend says we "very good friends" but he be flirting with me and texting me alot, he gives alot of effort to talk to me every single day . He huggs me from the back and like barehuggs sometimes I feel like we got a spark but idk
Jandi 06 you might unless you’re in middle school then it’s just hormones
@@brianalewis9601 I'm in ms😢
@@jandi0666 hey he probably likes you, either that or he has friend zoned you so hard he doesn’t see you as a potential partner at all.
I've had two moments like that. I'm a swimmer and so it was cold, and i didn't have a parka. And he was like "oh come here" and he opened up his parka and wrapped me around in it, with him still in it. And then before that he had helped me up and grabbed me by my waist. But i still don't know
Katie Laferriere also as a swimmer, I don’t know if he likes you... swimmers are pretty close knit like a family so it’s kind of hard to tell. One of my friends went without his shirt from a meet because mine went missing. He doesn’t like me, he’s just like my brother.
oh my gosh! All of that happened to me, even the "moments" and now he's my boyfriend! And i couldn't be happier!!!
The "moments" are great advice because it's so true
How's it going? Did y'all break up or like what happens a year later.
I know the exact minute my best friend was born
wow
sorry, bur that's creepy...
pan-duh bear i know why my best friend was born
Your dog?
ohmygodwhyamIhere? helpme cuz sex
You just know when you have a moment. This friend and I go out alone often and we're always making eye contact BUT there are times when there's a look, THE look, where he makes eye contact while smiling at me. It's like a very sweet look, full of tenderness and I know it's different from other times because it makes me feel something.
He says we're friends and he's not ready to be in a relationship after I told him I like him and he said he likes me too.well, I guess he's just not into me. But we're still friends after the confession and he still does the same,🙄🙄
He’s probably young( you guys might be underage if that’s the case) or he’s not feeling fully secure with himself
Or his parents will not let him have a girlfriend until he's graduated
I have this guy friend who's pretty much always had feelings for me since the start. He's not afraid of showing his emotions so he told me how he feels but took it quite well when I said i'm not sure I feel the same way. He's great and gives me all the space I need and I find myself nowadays always coming to him for emotional support and he always listens and always cheers me up he's really sweet and he doesn't expect anything in return either. I'm starting to wonder how I really feel about him... I've never been attracted to him but my feelings grow the more he proves what a good man he is and we're pretty similar in personality so we get each other really well whereas none of my exes ever understood me and I never felt I could talk to them or that they really listened to me when I did or took me seriously. It's so difficult...
Update?
@@HighSnow-Frost😂😂 yeah, me here waiting too
me and my friend have had SO MANY moments and so many of these signs apply to us
jesus christ we must both be whipped for each other
I wanna put the stigma to rest about having feelings for your best friend. First, don't make it such a big deal. They're your best friend, keep them that way, but you should also express that you can see the possibility of you two being together. If it doesn't work out, no big deal, just move on and still be friends.
The reason why it gets so awkward for people is that if it doesn't work out, you went through that phase where you were all "lovey-dovey" and it's hard to see someone as a friend like that.
The best relationships are amongst two best friends. If you two are just able to keep things non-chalant, cool, and fun just like you do as friends, you'll be able to have the best relationship possible if you put the friendship first rather than being lovers. Best friends get over fights, and you'll get through anything if you both have that mindset.
Thank you! This was the type of advice I was looking for. I love my friendship, starting to know him while I was in a relationship, that relationship there didn't last. Now I'm considering if the excitement/crush I killed in inside myself earlier for this friend should be allowed reopening and exploring. I know I can be honest with my friend about it, and still be okay if he doesn't see a potential in a relationship "us".
I know my crushes birthday... we've never talked😂
Yeah we are more than friends. Like siblings... 🙃
*Alabama intensifies*
@@chadpowell1832 LOL I CANT-
We made out many times and once had sex, he told me he was having fun and never felt “that”, then we didn’t talk for two months because I decided it isn’t healthy and just had a reunion with a lot of crying and “I missed you so much”. I honestly don’t know what is going on.
By “that “ do you mean feelings? I’d say if he’s sleeping with you but telling you he doesn’t have feelings for you it’s just about sex :( my ex friend did this to me gave me enough to be “hooked on him” take me out on dates the hole suhbang but would then keep telling me he doesn’t feel more then friendship, I broke it off n he did get upset but looking back it was toxic n very unfair on me to string me along xx
literally the same happened to me. a guy i was dating was subtle at first, we were hanging out as friends, then by coincidence ended up at my place, agreed to sleep together. i gave no hint, thought maybe he'll say something. before we went to sleep, he asked "what about a good night kiss?", then we were making out for some time, and next time again. I felt like that was it' that's my future husband and then BAM, a while later he says he doesn't get attached so quickly and that he's not sure he wants to be in a serious relationship with me. I was crushed.
@@redfather5342 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have this friend that is super nice and he TOLD me we were just friends. But he KISSED me??? And He gives me these not really platonic hugs? BUT He keeps saying we're just friends. Maybe he's just a player. I don't even know what's happening.
HELP
Do you actually like him as a friend or something more ?Try to know about your feelings first then you make a move if you are sure of yourself
Sounds like you're right, he's a player.
hes probably just a douche, dont waste your energy worrying about it & find somebody else 🤷♀️ I mean theres a slim chance hes genuine and "just scared" but the probability is MUCH higher that hes just a selfish "fuckboy" lol
GIRL RUN AWAY FROM HIM ASAP
Okay so basically I think I'm starting to develop a crush on my friend...The only problem? He's so far away. We met on a language exchange app and I just slowly started falling for his bright personality, and his voice is so energetic I get happy just hearing it. For the past few days I kind of feel like we have dipped our feet into the 'muddy water' but it's so hard to tell because we've never met in person and god knows when we'll actually meet.
He keeps urging me to go to his country ASAP (since I'm learning the language, I plan on going within the next 2 years), and he calls me randomly (no one I've met before him has done this) and yesterday we finally added each other on a texting app and he kept using all these cute stickers/emoticons, and when I joked about being jelly because I don't have any besides the basic ones, he said "I only use them with people I like." and t b h I'm starting to feel so confused. I'm worried, scared, and confused.
I think that because I'm starting to develop some 'feelings' for him, I'm starting to read into everything. He even texts me when he's out with friends (although that's kind of normal in his culture), stays up late to talk as much as possible because he works, and he even called/texted me whilst drunk (that dumbass istg).
I don't know shit about relationships so yeah I'm screwed.
히다야Tube hey my situation is 98% similar to yours and i really want to know if the guy is interested or not. Please tell me how did it go eventually? Did u confess? Please help T.T
I had to admit we have the same situation. Ínter cambió stuffs. I believe he’s a Latino? Hahahahaha. To be honest, I’m also confused with this exchange of language thing and damn, I never experienced someone who constantly text or calls me like your situation. Guard your feelings first and know that person very well before committing to that person you never see personally. 🙂
how about his parents saying “we’ve
heard so much about you” when you first met them?
Another being for me that he skipped sleeping just to make a movie with me?
Boys are still confusing lol
OOO IVE HAD THAT! It is confusing
We give signs and sometimes slip up and mess everything up then we are back to square one that's why you girls are confused
he went from calling me bestfriend everyday to calling me ari...and rarely referring me as bestfriend.............but we are really close...we have had those "moments" to...we where playing a game and his hand ended up like on top of mine and he was like holding me hand...and we just looked at each other, straight in the eyes for like 10 seconds...then we got back to playing the game....we also have a handshake and I forgot it, so he showed me it again...he held my hand for like a minute....then continued showing me....one more thing is...his friend was shipping us together...and I was trying to get away...because, ya know....and i ended up just right in front of him...and he looked down at me into my eyes and i looked up at him into his eyes...and we stared into each others eyes for like 20 seconds then i ran away.......he also asks me to sit next to him all the time,...he pushed someone out of their seat because he wanted me to sit next to him, then we watched videos for 45 mins............does this mean anything or no.....
Im a guy, and personally i can vouch (if this means anything 😅) that thats him basically saying he likes you, but is letting you decide if you want to take it to the next level or not. :)
Girl I hope things worked out bc he literally liked you and was waiting for you to reciprocate a move!
@@bibbabookgirl8469 it didnt work out....turn out he liked my bestfriend and now they are dating....but i also figured out Im gay so its all good😂....thank you tho
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oh god i think i'm gay
Just Me is it gay if my friend and I tell each other "I love you" when we're done hanging out?
Just Me I'm bisexual, and he says he questions himself...
Just Me, bahahahaa.
*oh fuck me too*
RB 19 haha I'm actually lesbian 😊 but I've made it a rule not to date my friends even if we both like each other, I did that twice and it ended badly. ..both times
ALL OF THESE SIGNS HAPPEN TO ME! AND he was my first kiss, and other first things...and were literally best friends and I’m the only person he hangs out with. Even including his guy friends. I’m literally the first person he wanted to invite to go on a vacation with him and he’s taken me so many places and we always hang out with each other and he always kisses me and stuff. It’s so obvious that he likes me right? NOPE. He does all this stuff, but says he doesn’t like me in that way...but actions speak louder than words.
Kiss him back?😂
@@Olxthrosfr what this person said!!
So my story is confusing
My friend is a super charismatic person, he’s friends with everyone he knows. Last Friday I attended a bar and he went there as well and offered to travel together only because he knew Id go. We kissed that night and he also kissed another girl we both know so that was no big deal. But, that kiss haunted me and him too as it seems because he didn’t want anyone to know he kissed the other one, but told our mutual friends he kissed me. What does that mean?
if this is the case, this guy might like you for signifying the kiss with you, and not the other girl
Hannah Rebecca How come you know about him kissing this other girl? And why did he tell you that he wanted to keep that quiet?
He's a player and he's trying to coach you into an open relationship. That way everything he does, you just shrug it off as he does that with everyone and stay! My brother does this all the time!
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There's a guy I work with that I like and idk if he likes me...he occasionally will be talking and puts his hand on my shoulder and makes little comments that makes me think he does, but then sometimes I think he likes another girl by the things he says😬so confusing
La Shaov Just leaving my opinion in case you care. I just think that you should think about that thing with that other girl and figure out if it might be just you being a bit jealous, and you know, seeing things the wrong way. If appears to be so I say go for it, it really sounds like he's into you. Good luck in this!
The fun ness of crushing on a flirt 😂 #mylife
He likes you, a guy did the same thing to me and we dated.
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Most of these things are happening to me....
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@@anisakalloe3247 I thought the same thing...isn't that Tae?
It’s hard cuz he lives 3 thousand miles away from me or more
Ella omg same
Ella then just get into a long distance relationship 😂
Hey there Delilah....
I so get it!!
Told them twice that I was interested, and we're still friends.
His sister introduced me to his parents as his BFF. They knew about me already. And now when the parents see me, his mom hugs me like I'm family. And at times, he's very attentive to my needs and such. Things such as "I was worried you wouldn't sleep, cuz you don't sleep well when you're anxious." Or "Drink some lavender oil tea to sleep."
Me and my friend have been friends for 10 years. When we text he doesn’t usually answer but when he does when have very long conversations and there great. And while listening to you speak, I realized that ALL of the things u said apply to me. Also we hug every time we see each other at school. I wanna tell him but I’m too shy. Thanks for helping tho
So that's definitely how things have been with this guy that I worked around/a guy I work with now. One guy introduced me as just my name to his coworkers and the other guy introduced me as just my name to his ex-wife as well as inviting me to "hang out" pretty much every week, but he would pay for everything, even after I would insist on paying for my own food. One guy I realized it after he kept telling me he wanted to hang out and attempted to pay for my food as well as my son's food, and then the other guy I realized it after I had had a rough few days and told him I needed a hug and he drove like 15 mins in the middle of the night just to give me a hug.
The guy that I work with now, he's the one who came over in the middle of the night just to hug me and we talked for hours under the stars and he even got a blanket out of his truck for me when he noticed that I was cold(even though we were sitting right outside of my house and we could have gone inside), and every single time we hug he never wants to let go of me. That night his hug was so comforting that I melted into his arms. That's not "just friends"
Nope. Not "just friends" at all.
That's so sweet omg
lmao I am having this issue with one of my housemates, I have no feeling beyond friendship towards him but our other housemates keep suggesting that he likes me because of how he acts. E.g pinching my cheeks, giving me shoulder massages and just being kinda flirty. I am pretty convinced he's just got a flirty personality because he will refer to me as his mate or buddy. We did have this awkward moment last night where he was like 'i could kiss you rn', but I just brushed it off as banter. Idk what to think at this point so imma just ignore the situation if there even is one lool
No don't get drunk haha
That's what my flatmate and I did and we ended up hooking up.. Afterwards we said that we were just gonna pretend like nothing happened but the same thing happened 2 weeks later. Now I am really confused because I am developing feelings for him and I don't know what to do. I don't want to talk to him about it because I don't want to make things awkward and I also don't even know if I want to be more than friends. So don't do the same mistake lol
Clr Pxg
Gurl be careful with that one he wants a fwb I've been there trust me
She’s not emotionally ready and I’m just quiet keeping distance
Take the chance
I think that most of these signs can actually be there even though your good friend doesn't want to be more than a friend except for the "moments" advice . All of these signs were there but we never had the "moments" and I thought we were just friends but he misread the situation. Another good sign is for example their reaction to your stories about your crush/dates, if they are excited about it and wish to talk about it all night then you're probably just friends. And another sign is that you just feel it when there is nothing but friendship between you two. If you slightly step away from your emotions and watch them closely, you may see things as they are, not as you want them to be.
Okay I’m gonna tell you what he usually does that makes me like him even more.
1: He gave me a lollipop (don’t judge its romantic to me)
2: He mostly touches my neck a lot with his hand
3:He always wants a contest with me
4: He has introduces me to his friends
5: We stare at each other randomly
Ooh the stare, yea those can be great
Allllright so I’ve got this friend and we haven’t known eachother a suuuper long time. Only like a few months but we’ve gotten pretty close lately. We’ve had some “moments” I guess you would say but he’s kinda a more shy dude so I guess it’s just confusing. So here are a few signs I guess that most people would take as “he likes you”. He’s gone out of his way to do something that he clearly didn’t want to do and I wanted to do. He played it off after as he wanted to do it but we both know he didn’t and he was late for meeting with a friend because of it. He does kinda stare a lot but maybe he’s not actually looking at me? (My friends see this too) he acts pretty differently around me than other people. He’s a lot more quiet and reserved. There’s no touchy ness really just a hug hello or goodbye but I mean we only really see eachother at church. We went out for ice cream the other day and he insisted on buying me ice cream. And we texted a lot for a while and he was always trying to keep the convo going but he’d stop talking in weird places.. the thing that’s throwing me off is he stopped texting me and now he’s like super nervous around me again or something and it’s almost like he’s avoiding me.. I mean things were going good and it’s pretty obvious I like him at this point for many reasons so idk what’s going on.. Helllppp
Mikayla Becerra He's obviously just shy and scared to tell you he likes you. Try subtly flirting with him like maybe touching him more or teasing him or calling him cute mock names see how he reacts to that. Flirt with him and laugh it out afterwards in case it gets awkward or if he shy's away. Try hinting that you want something more than friends. If he doesn't push you away, it's likely he's not opposed to the idea. Ask him who he likes? If it's you he'll probably get all nervous and shish lol All that will help him be more open with you since you're making the first moves. & if he responds the same way, then more than likely he definitely likes you. By what you just wrote it's obvious he has a crush on you so I would definitely ask him out on a date or just flat out tell him you have feelings for him.
he kinda stopped talking to you because he’s started to feel things about you and maybe he is a bit scared to show his feelings with you
Holy crap...I'm experiencing the exact same thing.
Totally agree with all of these responses. He's feeling it too.
Mikayla Becerra I'm sure he was feeling the same way. I'd love to hear what's happened since you posted originally, was I correct, and what then happened?
What does it mean if he says ur his “best friend”...is that friend zone?
Unless it’s sarcasm, yes
He might be too shy,
Well yes but actually no
Hear me out on this;
Me and my best ''girl'' friend(also my first and bigest crush) call each other weird things all the time (even in front of other people including her family), things only best friends would call as
Couple of times people tought that we were in a relationship (you won't believe how many people ship us) but everytime we denied and said that we are just two dumbs who can understand each other in a world of ''clever people''
I denied and friendzoned her everytime, not because I did'nt saw her in that way but because I was scared of losing her
I would rather have best friend than a potential girlfriend,
Heck why would I wanna have gf?
To bang my best friend?
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My BFF in high school was always in love with me. I was also in love with her. I didn't find out until 20 years later. My greatest regret was not telling her before we drifted apart. She's now happily married but told me about her big crush on me...and how she will always have a crush on me. It's to late now so don't make the mistake I did. Go for it and never look back.
No RUclips 20 years ago. It sucks, I know
This video really helped man. Ive felt this way about my best friend for the longest, but shes been in and out of relationships and it is always hard to tell how she feels, but i think now i can possibly figurs it out a little easier.
Think of her as always single. Take her out on a date and be real.
I have this 'Friend' and we both are in 7th grade (i go to an all boy school and she a all girls). There are always buses that go between the schools so 3-4 days a week we always catch up in the morning and afternoon for 30 minutes plus (just the two of us) and we also go to the same youth group. This has been happening for 5 months.
Alot of other kids in my class have tried asking her out but she has rejected them. I have noticed some signs she might like me ( feet pointed towards me, laughs at everything, sneaks away to speak to me alone)
I want to ask her out but im afraid i will have the same fate as everyone else. What should I do?
Adrian Nader ask her out. Good luck :)
@@joywilson1054 thanks, quick update, she asked me but i chickened out and said no.
@@adriannader2619 you're a total Bitch. Get back on it!!
Ask her out and tell her if she says no ask her if you guys could still stay friends.
Adrian Nader What's been happening? Have you sorted it out yet??
me literally watching this even though I got rejected
My guy friend is always replying to my messages, if he can. But he is always saying that we are best friends. Of course, I know everything about him and he knows a lot, but not all, cause I'm too shy to talk about my problems. And yes we have this "dates" and "moments". And yassss I'm obsessed with him. We are best friends maybe for two months.
Actually, he was dating one girl and then they broke up. I knew that he likes another one, and she likes him back too. Another friend of mine suggested me to find him new gf so did I. This friend said, that because of it I can grow in his eyes. And YEAH my guy friend really appreciate this. But still his new future gf(they are not dating yet, but they will) is also my friend. And I really don't know what to do. PLEASE, HELP ME(:
P.S. All people in this story are in high school
Nika Bahrenkova I used to be in that exact same situation and at some point, you have to step back and see how everything really is. If he's openly telling you that he likes other girls, then you are JUST a friend. It's hard to actually believe this but its much better once you accept it. ❤️
Hilda Cantu thanks 😙
I've known this girl for 15 years. From school. We've been friends all this time. I know almost everything about her and her family. She knows everything about me. We where for each other on our lows and highs. She's been in a abusive relationship for 10 years. She suffered something like Stockholm Syndrome. Mini Stockholm Syndrome. Some day's ago she told me that it over. She finally woke up from the lithargus and she's single. I'm sure I was one of the first ones she told. She wants me to meet one of her female friends because she's interested in me. That's probably a distraction. I can see super subtle signs but nothing particular. Basically I'll be myself and continue with my life and my everyday routine. If she develop feelings that's good. If she's not I don't give a damn. I'm too busy to play the game of love.
We play this game where we cast out friend group as characters in musicals but he usually doesn’t participate. Him and I were the last people at a party and I asked him how he would cast his favorite musical. He cast both of us as the leads, who are supposed to be in love. Not sure if this was a ‘moment’ or if he just thought that we would be good in those roles.
what if he ticks off everything but keep labelling you as a good friend lol
He’s probably either young or unsure if you reciprocate his feelings
Signs your more than friends❤️:
1. You text a lot
2. They don’t refer to you as a friend
3. You know everything about each other
4. You hang out (“date”)
5. Your important to each other
6. You have had moments (a more than friend moment)
Hope this helped xxx
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I did all of them with my boy best friend 😗✌🏻
Me and this guy had moments and texted all the time but it never led to anything and then we kind of stopped talking and “having moments” but I’d see him all the time because we have the same friends. Now we see each other almost daily and we text semi regularly and we go places together and I catch him staring all the time and he’ll make comments that leads me to think he wants me, But he’ll give side hugs and never leaves time for there to be “moments” I’m not so sure what’s going on it’s like mixed signals to me. I think of him as a very close trusted friend who doesn’t want anything right now but if he did I would totally be open to that.
I'm going to write this on my spare.
So let's start this checklist.
▪He doesn't have a phone.
▪He hasn't introduced me to anybody, and he call me by my name
▪ We are both really talkative, but we already remember anything we tell eachother
▪Invited him to go on a scary ride and he said YES.
▪I've known him for a short time so, no. But my friend says she can see a spark.
I don’t message anyone lol. Behold the introversion!!!
I’m soooo confused! This guy that I really like is a good friend of mine and the people that we hang around say that he looks at me a longer and “harder” than just a regular friend but he’s never given me any real reason to think that he likes but he does get jealous whenever I mention another guys name around him soooo like wtf is happening???
I'm in exactly the same boat. It's so frustrating!
He is a good actor and he can hold his feelings, but I think he gives you some little signs that he likes you, I'm like him, nobody knows my crush and he has been my crush and still is for 1 year. He even had a girlfriend, wich was heartbreaking but I didn't show it.
We sit together an he is my "bro" and his friend just told me he likes me as a friend ;-;
7:01 "I'll see you next week, piss" 💀
Thank you. I think he probably likes me back. This is actually helps cause we’re really good friends.
-we don’t text bc our parents are strict😂
-he’s never called me a friend but I don’t think he’s ever rly introduced me either...
-he remembers some things
-dates? Haha noooo
-and yes, we’ve had moments. Mostly things that are just subtle and cute
We do have the "moment" several times. But still im not sure with our feelings 😂
My female best friend is bisexual, and she just broke up with her bf of a year and she was feeling terrible all weekend. This Monday we didn’t talk as much as we normally do, but we still did. Then after school she tells me she met this beautiful girl who lives in Italy, which is where my best friend is from, on Instagram. She tells me the girl is also bi and is looking for a gf. I literally felt such a pain in my stomach when I heard this that I thought I was gonna die. Now we still talk but not as much because she’s busy with her new soon-to-maybe-be gf. I wanna fuckin die. If anything changes then I’ll update this comment cause this is gonna be very interesting.
How r u doing now?
@@shine2678 Well... turns out i'm gay lmao, we went through a bunch of shit and didn't talk for a year, then we reconnected for a few months and now we're not talking again, I moved on lol
@@fabstems3388 i hope you are alright tho, God bless👍❣
Me and my neighbor spend all of our time together we talk window to window every evening he always drives me to college and then goes to work ,I always cook for him 💛
The problem is that we don't even consider each other as freinds we just spend all the time together but he never says this is my freind katherine he goes this is katherine 😅I feel kinda in love with him but I am scared or ruining that relationship that we already have
My friend is in a long distance relationship and is moving away so I've been spending a lot more time with her then normal. We got put for dinner,movies during the holidays she comes over for dinner with my family and she seems happy . Even before I leave we have this long hug. I don't wanna think of it as much but a part of me thinks some thing is there.
1- we're texting non stop, and we're texting in the morning and see who fell asleep first
2- i don't know if he refers to me as his friend? We never really talked about that, we're just giving eachother nicknames
3- i know a lot of things on his past and i also know one of his insecurities
4- he always asks me if i'm okay when he knows i'm sick and even tells me to go to sleep when i need too
5- we kinda went on a date...well not really, we were waiting for friends and there was only the two of us, we played games, it was fun
6- moments...I don't know if sometimes he's serious or just joking around
What if he not big on texting but replied fast?🤔
Veronica Thibert that’s usually a sign that they like ya,m
So how did that work out?
Yeah, but... with the 'moments,' how do you know he's feeling it too?
JanuariSnow 11 its not usually logical and it wont make sense at first, but usually you both mirror each other for a few long seconds that usual - like unintentionally stared into each others eyes for like 20 seconds longer than normal + you get a weird vibe and they do too lol
I think you'll just know
@Ariel Olmeda Thank you I needed this
wow this video came on a really good time.. so i totally have the 'moments' but i feel like he doesn't text to me all the time, or isn't always in the mood to text. we also went for a 'pizzadate' or movienights as well, so that makes me think it is from both ways. then again, he "forgot" (i'm not really sure) i was underaged so like.. i really don't know 😣
i have the exact same issue
Too shy and worried, yup... understand that completely.
NEED HELP!!! We've been friends for about a year now, had some MOMENTS, been there for each other through the upsetting breakups and crazy dates. Recently we went on a weekend getaway to disneyland. Holding hands, exchanging kisses, stolen glances, all the cheesy romantic stuff you see happen in movies. Even talking about moving all the way across the country together. But neither of us want to talk about how we feel. I'm terrified of losing my best friend. He's terrible to read. I just wish I knew what was going on because I really am in love with him but don't like torturing myself over the thought that he might not feel the same way.
He's hard to read because he likes you and probably feels the same way. You unfortunately may have to make the first move or set him up for it.
@@stanleed.harold5457 well I forgot I commented on this. But I have an update haha. We started dating about 5 months after this and we just moved in together. Needless to say I’m a happy girl