1. Similar sense of humour 2. You get along with each others’ friends (well) 3. You motivate/support each other; you help each other become a better person 4. You like each others’ insecurities 5. You can talk about anything together
I agree with it all. But in my opinion, it doesn't matter if they are different or not. As long as they get along and love each other, and don't judge each other, I think the relationship could be wonderful.
Me and my crush have the same kind of humour The friends thing is already sorted because we have the same friend group. We are like best friends, and have been since I moved to his school He always motivates me, always helps me feel better. And I always want to help him when he is down or upset. We are in the same classes so we always help each other in class. He hates his freckles and dimples. I think they are so cute. I hate my dimples, he always says they are sweet. I think we have liked each other for a while, like we have had some moments, but we have never been able to actually date. We talk about a lot, but it’s hard for us to date because of the situations we are in.
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
My ex hated all of my friends and he made me push them all away. I lost everyone I loved while dating him. Even my very best friend stopped talking to me because he hated her and he was mean to her so she hated him. It took me almost 6 months to do anything about it and I only did because my friend told me she was tired of trying to be my friend if I wasn’t going to try back. Finally when we broke up he made it seem like it was my fault and he put me down for weeks and then he tried to get back with me and I told him no so he cussed me out and told me I should hate myself but I had finally realized that I needed to put myself first and my friends. Now all of those people are some of my best friends because they all forgave me and realized that none of what I did was my choice. So long story short😂 being friends with your friends is sooooo important
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
All of your points are true...so so true. I've now been with my crush for 22 years and we employed all of your tips...every single one. I'm just so glad you're taking time out of your life and sharing your experiences, and knowledge from what you've learned with everyone. I've never disagreed with anything you've ever said in these videos. Keep on doing what you're doing and remember my husband's motto.."gotta have fun". :)
Elina Shane...22 years and 3 kids and 10 grandkids :) You've got to have a huge sense of humor to get through life. Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. *hugs*
I think I'm ready to get back out there now :) feeling a lot happier. I wanted to find myself again before even thinking about meeting someone. It is always important for self love first, if you aren't happy in yourself on a physical and mental level then you will never be happy. Respect yourself and your own energy, trust your intuitions and be the best person you can be for someone then you are more likely to find the same qualities in a partner and they will love you for it :) if not then find then move along sunshine haha...just wanted to give a massive thank you for the videos you make, they help and guide on many levels. Sending my love to all x
itsemilyellis whatever you post online is very likely to be seen at least by one person - and consequently get talked about, if they want to. Do you not know how to Internet, lol?
1. We each have a very nerdy sense of humor 2. We have the same friends: 7 in 1(7 friends who do stuff all together) 3. Every Friday we write a note to each other telling them how great we did at school and stuff and study together 4. I love everything about him and he loves everything about me 5. We tell each other everything like how his ex was gonna kill herself because she thought he hated her we got her help
1.my crush and I both have a suicidal sense of humor and laugh 99% of the time were together 2.my crush is one of my friends ex... 3.most of my friends approve 4.hes always supporting me and helping me and I semi-support him but its most of the time just jokingly 5.is it weird that I think his acne makes him look cute?....im weird please don't judge me...and he thinks being gothic is cute and doesn't think I worship Satan and run away 6.we actually like each other...but neither of us has made a move
Snoring is not relaxing, but when he is somewhere between no sound and snoring (like a heavy breathing), it is relaxing and makes me smile. When I hear this I think “aw, he’s asleep. How cute.”
Nothing is ideal. People change over the years, it's more like growing together, being attentive at how your partner changes, not what he/she was, when you met and fell in love. Not taking the other for ganted. Looking with open eyes, seeing new things you can love about each other. You also forgot similar values and outlook in life. One can compromise and bend just so much. Partnership is not just about attraction and support for each other, but to look in the same direction together. I don't mean being in the same profession, but what you're focusing on. Maybe it's family or business/carrer, maybe both and how to make that happen so both can be happy.
Sorry but your videos are so well thought out and in depth, you cover stuff I don’t even think about. It’s insane...I’d bet you’d give the best advice.
For the snoring thing: my cat sleeps with me every night, and he snores A LOT. but it's relaxing because it's so cute and soft, yet so much like a person snoring. I love that cat.
You crack me up!!!!! Can U do a vid on how to get over my nerves when my crush talks to me & what I can do to show I’m interested after I have accidentally made him feel unwanted bc of my nerves
I have had a similar experience recently. Yes, I agree, he should make a video pertaining to this particular situation. I'm glad I'm not alone in this.
1. Yup 2. Yup (my bestfriend is really close friends with him too, and I know all of his friends) 3. Eh I guess? 4. I think so... I mean, I like his insecurities, and I think he feels the same 5. THIS IS ONE HUNDRED PERCENT TRUE (looking back through our chat history, we go from crying together one minute, and talking about Brendon Urie making those high heels work the next
I used to be insecure and hated myself then I met this one guy who kept bringing me down and making me feel even more insecure about myself. I'm pretty sure I love him but he makes me feel bad about myself. But now I'm more confident than ever, I love myself, he just made me realise that I'm none of those things he said I am? Now I'm like BOI BAI I don't need your negativity in my life. I love me.
haha YOU HAD ME ROLLIN' Andrew! CLASSIC! Love when you said "seriously you need to break up with them and date me" it was that serious look right after that got me!
1. yes, we both have a nerdy-violent-slapstick sense of humor 2. we've been best of friends for 3 & 1/2 years and share all the same friends, (our friendship has not once ever had a a falling out, it's been constant the entire time 3. yess when I need motivation, he's right there and gives it to me, and I do the exact same, I help him when he's down, and he's always there when he can be, (he is super busy with work so I am not offended at all if he can't talk to me a ton, he also goes to private school and is often busy) 4. yes?? like I have red hair and I often talk about disliking it, as one of my guy friends makes a lot of pretty rude jokes, and my crush always defends me, and the other day (out of context, it's a long story) I said "its the same kinda people who think gingers are soulless" and he jokingly looked at me and said "well, they are" Me: woow his eyes widened and he got all antsy and was like "Wait! Wait! I am kidding.. I am kidding I swear"also I was mentioning recently how much I hate that I like a particular band and it's a tad embarrasing and he's like "I can't judge you If I don't know a thing about it now can I(:" and from my perspective? he has no clue but he hates he too is teased for his hair, and I secretly love it, (look up Justin Timberlake from the Bye Bye Bye vid and you'll see) but yeh we def like each other's appearance, I even have a pic where he's gazing longingly at me, (he didn't know the picture was being taken) 5. OH Heck yaah, we can talk about Sports, video games, music, food, dogs, our problems, memes, movies, Dungeons and Dragons, Horses, Politics, religion, books, Hockey, school, Marvel and DC, Philosophy, Really dirty jokes, and sooo much more!!! DAMN why are we not dating yet?? he likes da girl, she likes da boi, make girl tell da boi?? I just might.... I REALLY Just MIGHT uh oh.... this could end really well or really baad
1. we laugh at each other's jokes always 2. i never met his and he hasn't met mine 3. i guess we do support each other? but we don't really show it 4. we usually make fun of our insecurities so idk 5. we're comfortable to talk about anything
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
All except for number 1 and maybe one or two of them is true. I just feel like people are trying to ruin my relationship with me and my crush by becoming her friend, gaining her trust, then *RUDELY* interrupts us in hopes of getting us separated at that moment. I wish I could say these feelings and the reason why I hate them but I'm afraid it might make her sad or Angry and I don't like it when that happens.
All these points are true, though I have not met any of his friends yet, and he hasn't met any of mine. We live 2 hours apart and it has been a challenge to see each other. We talk everyday and it has been great!
List for busy people: 1. Same sense of humor 2. You get along with each other’s friends 3. Motivate each other 4. You guys like each others insecurities 5. You can talk about anything
I haven't know the guy for long but he's in my circle of friends and almost everything matches. Makes it even harder to go up to such a shy guy like him because I have to make the move and I'm getting my hopes up.
SofieEpic hahahaha yass gurlll we just clicked pretty quickly 🤙🏼🤙🏼 we’re always laughing together and having an awesome time so who knows what’ll happen with all dat 😁🤷🏽♀️
I met a guy who is so much like me, we’re basically the same person. And he seems almost too perfect, he’s everything I would ask for in a guy but I’m so scared of dating him. I have never dated anyone before for personal reasons and he would be my first boyfriend. We have been texting everyday since a friend of ours made us talk and haven’t had a physical conversation yet. I’m just afraid of not being able to talk with him again if things went wrong after we dated.
When you do all those things but you turn out to be best friends instead but you still have those feels. But then you start to drift apart and you cant get rid of those feels but you want to😶🙇♀️🤷♀️
Wish I saw this video sooner. Would’ve saved me from a not so great relationship. I love that this exists so I can make better decisions for future relationships. I think this will help a lot of people 😊 Thank you for this
1. Yeah we have the same dark ass humour 2. We are in the same friend group 3. I mean...idk yeah? He helps me with homework and school work so yeah? 4. He has an insecurity for shaking too much and I don’t mind it, but he doesn’t know my insecurities. I hate talking about them to anyone. 5. Yeah honestly we talk about the most random shitttt
Hi Andrew - I have seen some videos of you and I have found them really very interesting :) However my only objection (question) is this - that if you need to act "strategically" in love then you most probably loosing all the fun - the spontaneity - the true self and eventually that might end up not well.. I mean I have seen many life coaches and videos and speeches and opionios of so many people that talking about love issues - but in the end we forget that Love comes straight from our hearts. If we have to think - and add our minds on this then we lose the magic - we are not oursleves - we are just our Egos and our fake personalities - And it's ok with the Ego and personality - we all have them - since are critical for our survival but when it comes to love we need to free ourselves and be 100% us and act naturally. From my experience and my point of you in the end the less you use your brain in relationships the more longevity and deep connection you will get with your counterpart. And if not - just didn't happened! And it's ok! :)
you mention your friends in every video, you should date them then. hahahha I am not against having friends but, if you like someone so much, get married have 5 kids kind of love, you would break up with that person just because your friends don't like her? Even though that would be the person you would spend for sure the rest of your life with, but your friends may move, die, go somewhere, you may lose contact with them, you would still choose friends? #just saying
Nessie Monster Obviously, you do have to think for yourself and pick your own friends carefully first. It’s not that what a person’s friends decide is the ultimate table turner; it’s just that if you genuinely like and respect your own friends enough and vice versa, you naturally are gonna care about what they think to some extent - as you should, otherwise, why be their friend? Y’ don’t need to worry if most of them like the colour blue and you prefer red, for example...but if somebody you’re dating consistently gives your buds a weird and / or bad vibe, it might indicate something that could potentially lead to a bigger problem down the line, if you do not at least acknowledge and think rationally about said person’s general behaviour, personality or whatever and what ways it’s genuinely good or bad for you and them. Maybe they just have a weird habit that turns them off that might or might not be a big deal; maybe they talk shit about your friends behind their backs, yet are constantly nice to their face and never want to discuss things with you sincerely and honestly...you should be able to judge for yourself what is worth reassessing, in terms of someone you should spend time on as a partner or not. A person’s family can also move, die, go somewhere and lose contact with you as well. So can people you work with, acquaintances....but, was that ever a surprise? There is such thing as just friends and good or best friends. I don’t really get what you’re trying to prove, but the fact you say this is somewhat alarming that you value your friends’ opinions so lowly, if at all. Are you really their stable friends or do you even have any? Him mentioning friends often is very much valid, it’s not the definitive ultimatum that decides who you should date, but it is something at least worth paying attention to, if nobody but you is so into your partner.
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
I really like your videos. I watch them every time they pop up on my feed (just subscribed today). I agree with you on almost everything you said, except one small thing (I hate to be a naysayer, so sorry!!). The part where you said if you have insecurities but they love those things about you (like snoring), that's the perfect person for you....not true. And I understand why you would say that, I do. But I'm guessing you've never been married. After a while the things you once loved about a person could be the things that annoy you the most about them. BUT, if you can accept those things about them and still think they're the most amazing person on the planet... THAT'S the perfect person for you. THAT'S true love.
My crush has light red hair and sometimes he is really insecure about it but honestly i think it is so cute I also really love his nerdy side he sometimes shows because it's awesome when we can geek out about just about anything sorry I had to gush
My best friend and I work togetherand we both know that we like each other and I have even put myself out on the line and told him that I liked him and that if he wanted to date me that we should just go ahead and date, everything that we have in common relates to this video.but sadly he says he can't and doesn't want to ruin the friendship that we have already so here I am patiently waiting, not that I'm putting my life out on hold, but if I'm still single when he's ready than we will see what happens
This is the first video I'm viewing from you and not only have I subscribed here, but going to Instagram next! 😉 Just wanted you to know that I loved your advice and I think that you are absolutely adorable! 😘 I would TOTALLY dump my crush and date you. ❤
crying because this was my last relationship to a T, but it didn't work out because his family didn't approve of me and he was heavily reliant on them financially..
Oddly... Most people in my family snore and I know most people can't stand it and it keeps them awake but it truly is relaxing to me! So there you go! 😂
There is a guy.....initially I think he gave me hints that he liked me.....but then I go uncomfortable around him.....now I think that make me unattractive to him ......now I want him to find me attractive...what can I do???
Yes, Andrew, I totally agree 🙂 still, for some reason, it's almost never been my experience with relationships.. Most of the guys I've known don't have the same beliefs of what it takes to be part of the relationship.. Like the support and stuff.. Idk.. I've have my fair share of relationships and I guess what I feel is it's getting tiresome.. 😔
1. Similar sense of humour
2. You get along with each others’ friends (well)
3. You motivate/support each other; you help each other become a better person
4. You like each others’ insecurities
5. You can talk about anything together
You’re the real hero of youtube
Thx uwu
Thx🥺😋
All of these are true about my crush but.....
He
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Someone
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Same ;-;
Dayanara Villalobos THE PAIN IS REAL AGHHHHHh
Luciana Justice FAT MOOD
Welcome to the friendzone *scoots over to make space*
Sophia Justice Same girl same
OHH HELL YEAH corny dad jokes all the way, literally all we talk about is memes, and we vibe on a spiritual level
My crush loves memes lol 😂
same!
I agree with it all. But in my opinion, it doesn't matter if they are different or not. As long as they get along and love each other, and don't judge each other, I think the relationship could be wonderful.
ur super cool we have the same name :) i pronounce mine like jillian but spelled w a g hbu
Me and my crush have the same kind of humour
The friends thing is already sorted because we have the same friend group. We are like best friends, and have been since I moved to his school
He always motivates me, always helps me feel better. And I always want to help him when he is down or upset.
We are in the same classes so we always help each other in class.
He hates his freckles and dimples. I think they are so cute.
I hate my dimples, he always says they are sweet.
I think we have liked each other for a while, like we have had some moments, but we have never been able to actually date. We talk about a lot, but it’s hard for us to date because of the situations we are in.
I'm sure if you wait it out and be patient, if you really ARE meant to be, then time will allow you two to date each other ❤
When he was with his ex he did everything but he was dating someone else and now it's 2 months later and we're dating sometimes it just takes time 😊
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
6:00 I actually snorted... (if anyone's into that, hit me up)
HahahaSnort!! I actually snorted too at 6.00, it's my "perfect imperfection" , I'm not ashamed!!😂
Larry Stylinson 😂 I snorted too.
Larry Stylinson I did too! 😂
Lol so I'm not the only one.
I cringed in my chair and gave me chills (/_＼)
My ex hated all of my friends and he made me push them all away. I lost everyone I loved while dating him. Even my very best friend stopped talking to me because he hated her and he was mean to her so she hated him. It took me almost 6 months to do anything about it and I only did because my friend told me she was tired of trying to be my friend if I wasn’t going to try back. Finally when we broke up he made it seem like it was my fault and he put me down for weeks and then he tried to get back with me and I told him no so he cussed me out and told me I should hate myself but I had finally realized that I needed to put myself first and my friends. Now all of those people are some of my best friends because they all forgave me and realized that none of what I did was my choice. So long story short😂 being friends with your friends is sooooo important
At least it all worked out in the end
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
Those signs could be for best friends;
5 OUT OF 5 YAAAAYYYYYY
So i actually have a Bff (a boy) who does all this with me😁😅
Elior .s sameeeee
Elior .s same🤣🤞🤞🤞❤️❤️
Same
Same too haha 😩
Elior .s same and I really like him I don’t know what to do
All of your points are true...so so true. I've now been with my crush for 22 years and we employed all of your tips...every single one. I'm just so glad you're taking time out of your life and sharing your experiences, and knowledge from what you've learned with everyone. I've never disagreed with anything you've ever said in these videos. Keep on doing what you're doing and remember my husband's motto.."gotta have fun". :)
Sarah Marie omg 22 years ?!? U guys must be Sooo cute I hope u guys find happiness and no sorrow 😍😍😍
Elina Shane...22 years and 3 kids and 10 grandkids :) You've got to have a huge sense of humor to get through life. Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. *hugs*
Sarah Marie awww CUTENESS OVERLOADED 😍😍 *hugs back*
Wow
I think I'm ready to get back out there now :) feeling a lot happier. I wanted to find myself again before even thinking about meeting someone. It is always important for self love first, if you aren't happy in yourself on a physical and mental level then you will never be happy. Respect yourself and your own energy, trust your intuitions and be the best person you can be for someone then you are more likely to find the same qualities in a partner and they will love you for it :) if not then find then move along sunshine haha...just wanted to give a massive thank you for the videos you make, they help and guide on many levels. Sending my love to all x
lynne frances3 I support u
wow i love that you just let everyone know how much i really call you out about your hair
itsemilyellis whatever you post online is very likely to be seen at least by one person - and consequently get talked about, if they want to. Do you not know how to Internet, lol?
PERFECT timing, PERFECT topic🍀
My boyfriend snoring strangely is a huge comfort the louder he snores the better I sleep lol
1. We each have a very nerdy sense of humor
2. We have the same friends: 7 in 1(7 friends who do stuff all together)
3. Every Friday we write a note to each other telling them how great we did at school and stuff and study together
4. I love everything about him and he loves everything about me
5. We tell each other everything like how his ex was gonna kill herself because she thought he hated her we got her help
Agree on your points... These describe my best friend and me 😂..
1.my crush and I both have a suicidal sense of humor and laugh 99% of the time were together
2.my crush is one of my friends ex...
3.most of my friends approve
4.hes always supporting me and helping me and I semi-support him but its most of the time just jokingly
5.is it weird that I think his acne makes him look cute?....im weird please don't judge me...and he thinks being gothic is cute and doesn't think I worship Satan and run away
6.we actually like each other...but neither of us has made a move
This actually rings very true, from personal experience. Great advice man
Can you date me? Like seriously you sound like a great time!
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Um im 12 and ive found my soulmate..... Hallelujah
Stand up because you’re a sinner, _then_ sing hallelujah.
P!ATD reference, probably too obscure I’m sorry
Hallelujah means Praise jah
Heyyy It has been3 months are you guys still together
@@for3stspirit I live for patd
Haha I'm 11 and same🤣😍😘
Snoring is not relaxing, but when he is somewhere between no sound and snoring (like a heavy breathing), it is relaxing and makes me smile. When I hear this I think “aw, he’s asleep. How cute.”
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So true!!! Sometimes I m just really jealous about native speakers who can express all these ideas so accurately and vividly! Lol! Love the video!
How to tell your best friend that's is a boy that you like them more than a friend
I used the good ol band aid trick.... but we were already more the friends.... so your situation might be different.....
Just Tel him have a courage and Tel him it Will work
Nothing is ideal. People change over the years, it's more like growing together, being attentive at how your partner changes, not what he/she was, when you met and fell in love. Not taking the other for ganted. Looking with open eyes, seeing new things you can love about each other.
You also forgot similar values and outlook in life. One can compromise and bend just so much. Partnership is not just about attraction and support for each other, but to look in the same direction together. I don't mean being in the same profession, but what you're focusing on. Maybe it's family or business/carrer, maybe both and how to make that happen so both can be happy.
WHOM *DARES* TO PLACE ONE DISLIKE ON SUCH A PRECIOUS BEANS VIDEO?! TO THE DUNGEN WITH THEM!
Oh my gosh precious bean indeed such a pure cinnamon roll 😂😂
29 dislikes *sobs*
OFF WITH THEIR HEAD
*Dungeon
The people who got no checkmarks in the list
Andrew, how do you manage to give me advice for all of my problems in life? You're awesome man. Also you have really cute eyes.
Sorry but your videos are so well thought out and in depth, you cover stuff I don’t even think about. It’s insane...I’d bet you’d give the best advice.
How can you be so young and yet so knowledgeable?!!! Really appreciate your videos!
u r the best andrew
For the snoring thing: my cat sleeps with me every night, and he snores A LOT. but it's relaxing because it's so cute and soft, yet so much like a person snoring. I love that cat.
You crack me up!!!!! Can U do a vid on how to get over my nerves when my crush talks to me & what I can do to show I’m interested after I have accidentally made him feel unwanted bc of my nerves
I have had a similar experience recently. Yes, I agree, he should make a video pertaining to this particular situation. I'm glad I'm not alone in this.
We are exact carbon copy of each other, even in terms of how we handle our feelings, the way we suppress, deny & hide it.
1. Yup
2. Yup (my bestfriend is really close friends with him too, and I know all of his friends)
3. Eh I guess?
4. I think so... I mean, I like his insecurities, and I think he feels the same
5. THIS IS ONE HUNDRED PERCENT TRUE (looking back through our chat history, we go from crying together one minute, and talking about Brendon Urie making those high heels work the next
I used to be insecure and hated myself then I met this one guy who kept bringing me down and making me feel even more insecure about myself. I'm pretty sure I love him but he makes me feel bad about myself. But now I'm more confident than ever, I love myself, he just made me realise that I'm none of those things he said I am?
Now I'm like BOI BAI I don't need your negativity in my life. I love me.
Your comments were spot on. Only hindrance, which I'm surprised wasn't a factor that was brought up is that my "looks" don't qualify. Which is sad.
haha YOU HAD ME ROLLIN' Andrew! CLASSIC! Love when you said "seriously you need to break up with them and date me" it was that serious look right after that got me!
I always appreciate how elaborate your thought process is on various topics.
1. yes, we both have a nerdy-violent-slapstick sense of humor
2. we've been best of friends for 3 & 1/2 years and share all the same friends, (our friendship has not once ever had a a falling out, it's been constant the entire time
3. yess when I need motivation, he's right there and gives it to me, and I do the exact same, I help him when he's down, and he's always there when he can be, (he is super busy with work so I am not offended at all if he can't talk to me a ton, he also goes to private school and is often busy)
4. yes?? like I have red hair and I often talk about disliking it, as one of my guy friends makes a lot of pretty rude jokes, and my crush always defends me, and the other day (out of context, it's a long story) I said "its the same kinda people who think gingers are soulless" and he jokingly looked at me and said "well, they are" Me: woow
his eyes widened and he got all antsy and was like "Wait! Wait! I am kidding.. I am kidding I swear"also I was mentioning recently how much I hate that I like a particular band and it's a tad embarrasing and he's like "I can't judge you If I don't know a thing about it now can I(:"
and from my perspective? he has no clue but he hates he too is teased for his hair, and I secretly love it, (look up Justin Timberlake from the Bye Bye Bye vid and you'll see) but yeh we def like each other's appearance, I even have a pic where he's gazing longingly at me, (he didn't know the picture was being taken)
5. OH Heck yaah, we can talk about Sports, video games, music, food, dogs, our problems, memes, movies, Dungeons and Dragons, Horses, Politics, religion, books, Hockey, school, Marvel and DC, Philosophy, Really dirty jokes, and sooo much more!!!
DAMN why are we not dating yet?? he likes da girl, she likes da boi, make girl tell da boi?? I just might.... I REALLY Just MIGHT uh oh.... this could end really well or really baad
1. we laugh at each other's jokes always
2. i never met his and he hasn't met mine
3. i guess we do support each other? but we don't really show it
4. we usually make fun of our insecurities so idk
5. we're comfortable to talk about anything
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
All of these apply to my friend and I, but as far as I am aware neither of us have considered the possibility of us dating.
I'm literally like in middle school and me and my crush... All have these in common.
i have all of those with my best friend but unfortunately, it won’t work
makrose why not?
All except for number 1 and maybe one or two of them is true.
I just feel like people are trying to ruin my relationship with me and my crush by becoming her friend, gaining her trust, then *RUDELY* interrupts us in hopes of getting us separated at that moment. I wish I could say these feelings and the reason why I hate them but I'm afraid it might make her sad or Angry and I don't like it when that happens.
All these points are true, though I have not met any of his friends yet, and he hasn't met any of mine. We live 2 hours apart and it has been a challenge to see each other. We talk everyday and it has been great!
Don't call me strange but your teeth...omg! I am flashed 😂😂😂
"You should break up with them and date me"
Me: no! I love him!
List for busy people:
1. Same sense of humor
2. You get along with each other’s friends
3. Motivate each other
4. You guys like each others insecurities
5. You can talk about anything
I definitely agree with your points! That kind of relationship sounds amazing, I hope to find that one day😊
Dude you haven’t got a big channel but I fuckin love you man your so funny
And I can’t fall asleep without my boyfriend snoring next to me lmao makes me feel safe
I haven't know the guy for long but he's in my circle of friends and almost everything matches. Makes it even harder to go up to such a shy guy like him because I have to make the move and I'm getting my hopes up.
You're great! Thank you. We have the signs.😊
Wow You have made some great comments. I just got off the phone with my significant other and he was ecstatic about me talking about textbooks lol.
Great video Andrew, thanks for the tips will keep in mind.😘😉
what do i do if he's my best friend's brother? :P
oooooo give me the tea🐸☕️ Hes your BFB lmao
SofieEpic hahahaha yass gurlll we just clicked pretty quickly 🤙🏼🤙🏼 we’re always laughing together and having an awesome time so who knows what’ll happen with all dat 😁🤷🏽♀️
maya alraheb aww that’s so sweet! I’m sure your best friend doesn’t know?
organize a kissing booth ;)
josie h. Hahahahahahahahaha hmmm maybe 🤔🤔🤔
I met a guy who is so much like me, we’re basically the same person. And he seems almost too perfect, he’s everything I would ask for in a guy but I’m so scared of dating him. I have never dated anyone before for personal reasons and he would be my first boyfriend. We have been texting everyday since a friend of ours made us talk and haven’t had a physical conversation yet. I’m just afraid of not being able to talk with him again if things went wrong after we dated.
Someone i wish you all the luck!
Love your videos and your humor Andrew!
Andria❤️
When you do all those things but you turn out to be best friends instead but you still have those feels. But then you start to drift apart and you cant get rid of those feels but you want to😶🙇♀️🤷♀️
i love your channel so much!!
OMG TYSM I FINALLY HAD THE COURAGE TO ASK OUT MY CRUSH BECAUSE OF THIS VIDEO WE ARE NOW IN A VERY SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TYSM!!!!!!!
Can you do a video about how to know if ur guy crush likes u in primary school? Please.
I love ur stuff Andrew keep it up!! :))
Totally spot on! You're great!!!
Wish I saw this video sooner. Would’ve saved me from a not so great relationship. I love that this exists so I can make better decisions for future relationships. I think this will help a lot of people 😊 Thank you for this
1. Yeah we have the same dark ass humour
2. We are in the same friend group
3. I mean...idk yeah? He helps me with homework and school work so yeah?
4. He has an insecurity for shaking too much and I don’t mind it, but he doesn’t know my insecurities. I hate talking about them to anyone.
5. Yeah honestly we talk about the most random shitttt
Hi Andrew - I have seen some videos of you and I have found them really very interesting :) However my only objection (question) is this - that if you need to act "strategically" in love then you most probably loosing all the fun - the spontaneity - the true self and eventually that might end up not well.. I mean I have seen many life coaches and videos and speeches and opionios of so many people that talking about love issues - but in the end we forget that Love comes straight from our hearts. If we have to think - and add our minds on this then we lose the magic - we are not oursleves - we are just our Egos and our fake personalities - And it's ok with the Ego and personality - we all have them - since are critical for our survival but when it comes to love we need to free ourselves and be 100% us and act naturally. From my experience and my point of you in the end the less you use your brain in relationships the more longevity and deep connection you will get with your counterpart. And if not - just didn't happened! And it's ok! :)
I find snoring super relaxing! makes me fall asleep super fast
Nice lights in the background! They're beautiful and calming. :)
Omg humour is the only thing i like about my dad like his dry Jokes 🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍
Baby, it's working... ❤️
Who else is to shy to even talk to others and just watches because Andrew is such a cute bean?? 😂
This actually helped clarify so much for me thank youuuuu
you mention your friends in every video, you should date them then. hahahha I am not against having friends but, if you like someone so much, get married have 5 kids kind of love, you would break up with that person just because your friends don't like her? Even though that would be the person you would spend for sure the rest of your life with, but your friends may move, die, go somewhere, you may lose contact with them, you would still choose friends? #just saying
Nessie Monster Obviously, you do have to think for yourself and pick your own friends carefully first. It’s not that what a person’s friends decide is the ultimate table turner; it’s just that if you genuinely like and respect your own friends enough and vice versa, you naturally are gonna care about what they think to some extent - as you should, otherwise, why be their friend?
Y’ don’t need to worry if most of them like the colour blue and you prefer red, for example...but if somebody you’re dating consistently gives your buds a weird and / or bad vibe, it might indicate something that could potentially lead to a bigger problem down the line, if you do not at least acknowledge and think rationally about said person’s general behaviour, personality or whatever and what ways it’s genuinely good or bad for you and them.
Maybe they just have a weird habit that turns them off that might or might not be a big deal; maybe they talk shit about your friends behind their backs, yet are constantly nice to their face and never want to discuss things with you sincerely and honestly...you should be able to judge for yourself what is worth reassessing, in terms of someone you should spend time on as a partner or not.
A person’s family can also move, die, go somewhere and lose contact with you as well. So can people you work with, acquaintances....but, was that ever a surprise? There is such thing as just friends and good or best friends.
I don’t really get what you’re trying to prove, but the fact you say this is somewhat alarming that you value your friends’ opinions so lowly, if at all. Are you really their stable friends or do you even have any?
Him mentioning friends often is very much valid, it’s not the definitive ultimatum that decides who you should date, but it is something at least worth paying attention to, if nobody but you is so into your partner.
I have a big problem...I have had my boyfriend who has not hold hands with me still ...He is an annoying but caring, loving and awesome guy...But we were great friends before and we are new to this couple thing...We both are cool as friends but it becomes awkward as soon as we start talking as couples face to face...On WhatsApp it isn't awkward though...So I can't take the lead as I am too nervous...How can I make him take the lead...Help my relationship please...
I really like your videos. I watch them every time they pop up on my feed (just subscribed today). I agree with you on almost everything you said, except one small thing (I hate to be a naysayer, so sorry!!). The part where you said if you have insecurities but they love those things about you (like snoring), that's the perfect person for you....not true. And I understand why you would say that, I do. But I'm guessing you've never been married. After a while the things you once loved about a person could be the things that annoy you the most about them. BUT, if you can accept those things about them and still think they're the most amazing person on the planet... THAT'S the perfect person for you. THAT'S true love.
me and my crush in Spanish class have this thing where we will say and laugh at jokes the other person says, but we wont be looking at each other
Your hair looks so softt! TwT
Both inappropriate humor ☑️
Same friends☑️
Help each other☑️
Like each other not just for looks☑️
Talk all the time☑️
Looks good😂
My crush has light red hair and sometimes he is really insecure about it but honestly i think it is so cute I also really love his nerdy side he sometimes shows because it's awesome when we can geek out about just about anything sorry I had to gush
Yup we'll be perfect together..👫🥰
My best friend and I work togetherand we both know that we like each other and I have even put myself out on the line and told him that I liked him and that if he wanted to date me that we should just go ahead and date, everything that we have in common relates to this video.but sadly he says he can't and doesn't want to ruin the friendship that we have already so here I am patiently waiting, not that I'm putting my life out on hold, but if I'm still single when he's ready than we will see what happens
This is the first video I'm viewing from you and not only have I subscribed here, but going to Instagram next! 😉
Just wanted you to know that I loved your advice and I think that you are absolutely adorable! 😘 I would TOTALLY dump my crush and date you. ❤
crying because this was my last relationship to a T, but it didn't work out because his family didn't approve of me and he was heavily reliant on them financially..
Omg yur so funny and the honesty is refreshing.... like can everyone just be this way. Love yur style and can’t wait for more videos 😂😎👊✌️
Oddly... Most people in my family snore and I know most people can't stand it and it keeps them awake but it truly is relaxing to me! So there you go! 😂
You will have a million subscribers soon, I’m sure, you’re incredible. Talented, smart, sociable, marry me andrew haha
OMG THIS IS EXACTLY HOW IT IS WITH ME AND MY CRUSH LETS GOOOO
I would break up with someone for u because you are funny and the best 😄
My crush and I have done 3/5, but I've only known him for 5 months, and I think with time, we'll be able to do 4 and 5 😊
I totally agree great job!
There is a guy.....initially I think he gave me hints that he liked me.....but then I go uncomfortable around him.....now I think that make me unattractive to him ......now I want him to find me attractive...what can I do???
This was really helpful🤙
I have a future to travel and be motivated af. So I think that's obviously good ..
Me and my crush joke around in a sometimes “mean” way. It’s not actually mean, we just joke a lot. He’s fun.
I really needed this video right now lol.
Yes, Andrew, I totally agree 🙂 still, for some reason, it's almost never been my experience with relationships.. Most of the guys I've known don't have the same beliefs of what it takes to be part of the relationship.. Like the support and stuff.. Idk.. I've have my fair share of relationships and I guess what I feel is it's getting tiresome.. 😔
4 out of 5! but we see each other once a month, and he is not allowed to talk w girls, so no phone, no email, no social media... help me :/
There is like one thing that isn't like for us....I guess that makes us perfect
Just started watching your videos and subscribed with the post notifications and all your amazing