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"Impostor not a promise keeper" is a gut punch!! Your experiences in life are similar to what I've been going through and can't put into words. I'm doing things on automatic pilot and can't seem to break that stranglehold. I've got to really absorb this again. Thanks Bedros.
I'm honestly in such a deep hole right now in life. I lost my job, family, and home i was feeling like ending it until i seen this video. it really helped me take a step back and look at my life. Almost everything he said was relatable which is crazy.
It’s only temporary. Idk you and I probably live far from you but I’ve been going through awful horrible life changing things too but I won’t kill myself and neither should you. Keep on trucking along because it’ll all pass. Life has seasons
Once you hit rock bottom things can only GO UP so life beatin tf out you rn but you gotta good thru till the end then your time will come for the ride but work on you cause you are the only person you got in this life. Your born alone and die alone so don’t let other effect you you got this💯
I'm writing this a month after your comment. I hope you're still around. I get it. I've been there. Sometimes I go back and visit that thought process. But I want you to know that it Will get better! The bad times are only temporary, actually Everything is temporary. Life is temporary! But you have a chance to make that short life Incredible! You Can do it! And it doesn't have to happen all at once! A bunch of small victories add up, and over time those small things you fight thru, will lead to a great life! You just have to take small steps in the right direction and soon you'll be able to look back at your path and be happy to see how great your life has become! You can do it! We all can do it! One foot in front of the other, and repeat! I hope you are well!!
This has to be one of the most valuable impactful youtube video's i have ever seen... i've listened to this audio at least 20 times while working out (not exaggerating) and right now i'm making a written summary of all the gems/essences you named in this video that apply to me, to have a condensed version to read daily until they are fixed in my mind and i act accordingly. One of my addictions/vices is that i watch too many youtube video's because i tell myself i need more information and knowledge before taking action but actually it's my 'inner bitch' that is insecure and afraid to take action... Thank you so much for keeping it 1000 and being so open to us about your own scars and struggles, much respect! I look forward to meeting you one day to shake your hand and thank you in person!
First time watching any of your videos and I was hooked on the first 5 minutes. I felt like you were talking directly to me, thank you for waking up my inner warrior
This is what i needed today. I have been there and know people doing these things. Trying to lift them up without falling into their pitfalls is my heaven and hell.
I could not have came across this time at a better time in my life… I’m genuinely shocked that the algorithm could work like this. Feel like this dude knocked on my door and said everything straight to my face
"Negotiate away your dreams" This hit hard for me. Thanks for sharing your difficult experience Bedros, I really respect your authenticity. I'm trying to improve myself daily and videos like this really help. Sure I have fears and doubts about everything. Yet, I know deep down inside that the REGRET of not becoming the person I am capable of being, is far worse than the FEAR of failing.
You were always the answer to your problems and success. You don't need permission, just being aware and being able to navigate how you make decisions and executing intellectually and emotionally.
I just discovered you recently and I'm so glad I did. You're one of the only speakers that I really resonate with. I've been on my self-betterment journey for years now and it's been a joy seeing my growth. There's still things I want to work on and I think listening to you will aid greatly in taking me to the next level.
Man bro everything you said is POINT ON !!! I was thinking about this earlier today and I think about it often…. Those limiting beliefs projected by ppl … even family and friends.,, how I sometimes self sabotage good things subconsciously bc I think I’m not worthy of it bc of the default I have in my mind created from toxic insecurities and bullying . I have made my 2.0 but like Mike Tyson say your one foot away from the limo and the gutter. So yea lately I’ve been telling myself , reminding myself that I gotta ACT right THINK right . Thanks bro this is vid so relatable ❤. I’m here to help others
I needed this so much today. My relationship of 3 years collapsed on me because I was behaving poorly and I deserved it. then a few weeks later I lost my job. Not because of poor performance but because of layoffs. It all just feels overwhelming and I thought of ending it for good. And I was this close from doing it but.... I just realized sitting here alone that being alone is an opportunity to scrape the bottom and clean up the dirty stuff in order to make bigger steps. Perhaps even leaps. I always accepted less and I am not going to settle for less anymore. I never valued myself and always felt I cannot expect more and that I am broken. And broken people make broken people. Which is exactly what happened with my ex. I hate my old self. That guy had to go.
Just recently found this channel a month ago. Man you don’t know how much you work have helped me. I look at you as the father figure and this right here will take me to next level I need to be at! Keep on doing this and helping us become better Men!
Man! The first time I see your channel and this video is extremely important to get everyone out of his misery because this is really happening to a lot of us nowadays as we are procrastinating a lot in social media and in our phones. I am sure the idea you shared about is going to change a lot of us if we really apply it by killing our laziness and randomness in life. Thank you so much. We need more insights from you. I cannot live this page without subscribing in your channel.
Big man brother, u hit alot of nerves to me and i truly needed this. Im 30 and have alot goin well for me but i can hardly overcome my habbits and addictions. I had some great days in my life and im tired of drggin my self back to my old self, and keep hitting the snooze button. Weed and food when im stressed is my biggist issues and i struggle with them to this day. Im happy to find about u as u earn my sub and pleasing attention. Thank u and keep being great!
Bedros, you speak so authentic. I relate to many things you say. Food, crazy ex chicks, self sabotage, ..I feellike you're my brother from another mother...looking forward to reading your book. Best to you in 2023. Thanks brother!!!
Spoken powerfully and passionately, Bedros... as always. You're the real thing, man. And I fully agree that guys need to work with male therapists and coaches. Not that there aren't great ladies out there who can help, but because the real strength in overcoming your traumas comes from tapping into the warrior mindset, finding your pride and self-worth, and the refusal to stay down when you're knocked down. Having male heroes who would never think giving up, and not wanting to be less than the example they set, was a big part of what got me through 3 years of darkness. I've since used what I learned to help others to great effect. Keep up the good work, Bedros!
Thanks for sharing Bedros. I was also sexually abused.It dosent bother me anymore but it’s awesome seeing a man like you openly talk about it and not hold back!
That reeealy interpellate me in every aspect. Each one. A great friend just showed me this video based on a talk we had... and all i can say is THANKS to both of you.
Thanks Bedros. I'm a new subscriber in my 60's and after more than a few major life trials, I'm still 'doing the work'.... what do they say, 'it's not over till the slim lady sings!' Thank you for your encouragement.
Dude, the last 5 min were mad. I particularly enjoyed the last five minutes of your video, it felt like there was a lot of yourself in it. I am grateful for this content, it was great.🤘🏻🔥 Greatings from Poland 🇵🇱
This video is pure gems 💎. Shoutout to all of those who are constructing a 2.0 version of themselves. I'm also in the process of making the best version of myself and it's difficult, but that's exactly the only way to achieve great things. Don't worry if you're too old or too late, that doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is the real inner you that's waiting for you to take the big step towards your new improved life. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, create new healthy habits ans destroy the old false self that isn't helping you get to where you wanna be. Thank you Bedros for this inspiring and truthful piece of content, you're really making an impact and that's what life is all about. Greetings from Chile 🇨🇱 🙌🏽
not even gonna lie this has been exactly my problem my whole life. And it literally clicked with me not too long ago and now I watch this video. Synchronicity is a real thing. You described the feeling of the ceiling perfectly.
My cousin shared this with me. And man. Every single point you made without saying too much (like other youtubers). You hit the targets very potently. Content worthy of listening to every morning. The being free from the weight we hold. You're an inspiration.
This Is so accurate.. thank you so much for this. My entire life has been a mess in every sides, everything has been almost impossible to enjoy. here's a guy from latin america watching you and enjoying these kind of tips, again, thank you!
I'm glad I found this channel. I'm getting coach by a mentor right now, I was recently given the pink slip by the ex two years ago and fudged me up. I was face with reality and had no choice but to hold my self accountable and own my fair share of the end of my marriage. so here we are now working on all this aspect of life to have a meaningful future.
These podcasts hold so much value! Every episode is gold 💎 Bedros brother if this means anything: you’ve got a bloke in the Far North of Queensland, Australia with your photo on their vision board. Inspirational to me and many others. We appreciate this #nohomo
22:04 thanks for rooting for me! I’m so much better now since finding your content. It’s like another supplement I use to workout harder…physically, spiritually and emotionally. Thank you for your content 🙏🏼
Thank you! God sent! I needed to hear this precisely at this time in my life... Necessary reminder! All true and in my way to growth, I have to remind myself to take out toxic friends from my life, regardless on how I feel about them. In many was I'm so blessed in so many areas ways. I also experienced some kinds of abuse. I have some trust issues, but I've learned to heal and I've become a different person... constantly working on myself without drugs nor addictive ways. It's a daily challenge, but worth it. Most times I feel happy and satisfied. I don't lower my standards anymore. Very wise words! 💚 Thank you!!! 🇵🇷
Thank you that was powerful! I’m so glad you explained about how we lose our confidence & become average by not keeping our word to ourselves. I have work to do! Thank you!!
Thank you for the enlightenment and the saving of these men The greatest thing is not how much money u can make It's how much you can SELF ACTUALIZE The work u do on ur self
Thank you, Mr. K! You've just given me some perspective on something I can provide to others. I'll congratulate you in person, once my work has begun and the people I help have provided to me, the means to fly overseas and meet you. God willing, I can live up to the greatness you've inspired in me!
dude you're preaching the gospel.. I have gone through and continue to go through all of this to come to the true light of who I am. Many great coaches and great therapists that have helped me gain more of a grasp on who I am and helping me to be able to be in control of where I am going to higher and higher levels. I am so glad to hear of others that are going down this path. It is a lonely path not many are willing to go down.
I love your work and message B. Thank you for being such an example of what authentic principled masculinity looks like. You inspire me a great deal. All the best.
I honestly dig your mentality and I appreciate so much your advices. I simply have one thing that slows down myself on going full on on discipline and self-respecting my inner rules. What if all of those sacrifices lead to nothing at the end? I'm going to be honest I am currently working 40h a week plus having 16 credits at college to be an electrical engineer. I manage to run in the early morning, and lift everyday. Since I began this routine at the end of last November, I feel loneliness like never before (I live alone), tired, and even though I'm optimistic about my future, I hardly see the light at the end of the tunnel and wonder if all those sacrifices are worth it. Why sacrificing sleep in the morning to run if nothing is garanteed at the end besides suffering?
be patient, I've ruined most of all good thing I could've had, just by being too impatient.. And just think that though you have no guarantee to succeed, if you quit - failure is 100 percent certainty..
Dang bro, this podcast hit me in the guts and in the heart!!! I been putting off excuses for the last year trying to get back in shape!!! I smoked, drank, hung out with a bunch of girls and now I see where I screwed up!!!! Thank you!!!
Man this is 💯 truth. Right now im coasting through life with no purpose other than being a great dad. Im clean and have faith in Jesus which is huge from where i started but i need to break that ceiling. Great video brother this is very motivating.
One thing I struggle with is confidence. In this video, you mention how our confidence decreases when we set goals for ourselves, but don't make any effort to reach them. I have been stuck on the same loophole for months when it comes to breaking bad food habits, reading, learning the piano, waking up early, etc. Every Monday I would set my alarm for 6, but continued to hit the snooze button and wake up at whatever time. I didn't realize that not sticking to my plans was damaging my confidence. The subconscious mind is always listening. If we cant fix these small habits right now, what makes us think we'll be able to accomplish our purpose in life? The truth hurts but this video helped me dig deep into my mind and find out what was holding me back. Thank you so much for this.
Almost completely agree. I went most of my life through self-hate (and the connected stuff). However, through reading certain books, watching stuff on YT like this I began to see what was the cause and I simply decided to reprogram myself. No therapist need. Just myself. My old one vs. my new one. In the beginning all sounded like I was lying to myself (e.g. "I love myself"), but I kept on and now I wonder hoe the hell could I ever had hated myself, now this old version seems like a lie. So guys, never give up.
Hey bedros, your talks really are inspirational to me, all my self confidence self worth has been driven out of me the last 6years as I am a targeted individual and thru synthetic telepathy they drill me down to the ground 24/7 365 days of the year but I keep faith because I know evil always loses in the end and I play your videos over and over again to feel me again, I just wanted to say thank you for lifting my spirits because I really need it daily and let’s pray those elites that are torturing thousands of people around the world fall hard and fast as we rise above there wickedness, keep up your talks cuz your truly saving lives. AndyWu❤
This has become my favorite show. You're literally helping pull me out of a 5 year slump where I've been stuck and probably afraid of becoming my 2.0 version. How do I get Bedros as a life coach?
@@sir3986 I've been my own life coach for 42 years and I'm not ashamed to say I could use some guidance from someone like Bedros who is killing it in the game of life
Back in the days I realised that I had problems in the past and I have developed surviving behaviours to have a bearable solution for those problems. While I grew older those problems disapeard from my life, but I was sticking to my old behaviour uncosciously, and that was a big step for me in terms of consciousness, when I was like: "Hey man! Those problem are not existing anymore! It is time to change. Your problem is your behaviour now and it is easyer to change, than changing the world."
Subscribed!! I’ve been battling with my own confidence for decades because of being an imposter with myself but I’m DONE!! I’ve always wanted to live a life with purpose but I was a victim for decades for things I couldn’t control when I was young. Last year through a intense and scary experience with my husband, I realized that I had to be strong in myself- rely on nobody!!! I quit smoking weed, changed my lifestyle- eating whole foods, exercising and praying to the Almighty!! Being sober has elevated my mind and I have been Consistent with the goals I have set thus far. Once day I want to share my success on RUclips. For now I am working on my confidence and I am certain that I will attract opportunities to live the life I am intended to experience!! 😊
BK, would like for you to have a deep dive discussion on micro dosing as I’ve had positive outcomes the times I’ve done mushrooms. It’s helped me receive clear answers to some questions and also open up my heart to give and receive more love. I microdose at least 3 times a year
Brutally honest talk. The hardest part for depressed and un motivated people is the pain. Today neuroscience proved that emotional pain and physical pain are quiet the same. It’s like someone bits the shit out of you brakes your bones leaves you in hospital and tells you for 3 to 6 month you need to learn how to walk again. Today we know that the brain of children who were physically abused function exactly the same as the soldier who came from war. To pull trough all that it requires a lot of inner strength. There is a great book call “chatter - the voice in your head and how to harness it “ it is a fascinating book that sheds a lots of light into how we sabotage ourselves with our inner voice and why.
I broke that promise to wake up at a certain time but I snoozed, so I lost out on an opportunity I'd been practicing for. That's an L that eats at you through the day
The truth is many people are NOT better than what they are doing and “deserve more”. You get what you put into life. If your life is sh*t its because you aren’t doing the right things and definitely need to look at yourself and starting working from a point of brutal honesty…AND FAITH that YOU CAN do better and be better.
Big brother I love this episode so much Recently started watching your channel because I’m trying to beat my weed addiction, went from smoking EVERYDAY for the past 3 and a half years. I dropped out of university, i resigned from my job like two months ago based on some stupid excuses, I haven’t been able to launch my clothing brand no matter how much I say I’m going to do it, the relationship with my family deteriorated, especially my mother. All of that sucked and I felt so depressed. The other day I fell ill and that’s when I actually decided to give up weed. I’ve been 8 days clean now and started working out every morning and feel so focused now, I just pray I can continue doing this and turn my life around. I’m currently trying to get a new job, hopefully in sales, I know I have a higher purpose I felt it ever since I was a kid, people around me look up to me as a role model but I think I’ve just let them down. I want to walk in my purpose now. Thank you for this podcast big brother it means so much. Almost brought me to tears. Love.
"You can fall back in love with the person you are" hit like a truck. In the best way ☺️ thanks so much for sharing everything you have. Fucking great! 👍
Thanks for crossing your road Bedros. Happy to listen to you. We all have a story and re-write it by new pages. Learn from the past and just do better version of you!
i dont know who tis guy is but this video apperead in the main yt page and i clicked to see what it is about and damn! it was like if he was talking to me,describing my life.. i have big expectations for my life but somehow end up sabotaging myself. Many thanks Bedros, your words fell in the right moment
This is the first video I watched from this channel and I just wanted to give a big thank you to Bedros and the team some awesome content and amazing life changing advice!!! As a man who has struggled with masculinity and has lived a life full of excuses, self pity and having a victimised mindset I truly appreciate the heart you have to serve men and encourage us to live and lead!! Thanks brother & God bless 💪🙏
Great talk. Been going through the same things but improving a lot. First time I went to therapy in my life and it really helped, seeing things in the fire service has really talking a toll on my mental and physical health. The only way to lead yourself to change is by you speaking up for yourself and taking the actions for yourself. Nobody will save you but yourself. We are the captains of our own ships.
Thank you. Serving and basically embodying love trough acts (listening, being there , paying attention, being reliable) and even picking up trash from the ground to drop it into the next trashcan, are moves to become the maximum potential as human being. love your origin, love the nature. you are the nature. you are the universe. its the universe that makes a human experience and not a human experiencing the universe. dont live your life on the level of human basic needs, it sucks the life energy out of you. money and power is primitive. unconstruct your ego and use your mind as a tool and not as an advisor for your life. its a prison and biggest mindhack we are witnessing.
Everything he said really resonated with me on a mission for self development my god , I will raise again one day by putting in the work thank you so much for this message.
I’m not working today because a client canceled. I’m helping others through being a men’s leader at Celebrate Recovery. In July I’ll have 25 years of sobriety. I’m still stuck in the mud -why? I just got brave enough to get a therapist but I can’t understand why I have to work through all the pain to get out of my own head! Bro, I don’t know how I got this, but feel like it’s one of those life altering moments.
Thank you for this video, it is so needed for all the young man that don’t have a mam to guide them and provide them with great advice and knowledge. This world is in need of good man role models. Thank you god bless you.
The truth hurts and can be hard to hear, but it really need to be heard anyways. You nailed all my vices and addictions, and helped be looking at them all together at once, and to understand how they take away from the success potential and purpose in life.
Thanks, Bedros. I think you would provide incredible value by discussing how you overcame anxiety/panic. Book, mentality, meditation, tools, etc. So many people, myself included, have or are struggling with this. Much love brother.
Thanks for posting this and sharing. Been putting off going to therapy since March, even after telling my loved ones i would go. Shits hard but needs done and sometimes its nice to hear from someone you have no connection to.
Guys! Read “The Big Leap” by Gay Hendricks for more insight on breaking through limiting beliefs. Also, thank you all for liking, subscribing and leaving comments. This show is growing big because of YOU and our growing tribe! 👊🏼❤️
"Impostor not a promise keeper" is a gut punch!! Your experiences in life are similar to what I've been going through and can't put into words. I'm doing things on automatic pilot and can't seem to break that stranglehold. I've got to really absorb this again. Thanks Bedros.
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I'm honestly in such a deep hole right now in life. I lost my job, family, and home i was feeling like ending it until i seen this video. it really helped me take a step back and look at my life. Almost everything he said was relatable which is crazy.
It’s only temporary. Idk you and I probably live far from you but I’ve been going through awful horrible life changing things too but I won’t kill myself and neither should you. Keep on trucking along because it’ll all pass. Life has seasons
Good I hope you dominate you life keep working hard towards your goals
Stay positive dude
Once you hit rock bottom things can only GO UP so life beatin tf out you rn but you gotta good thru till the end then your time will come for the ride but work on you cause you are the only person you got in this life. Your born alone and die alone so don’t let other effect you you got this💯
I'm writing this a month after your comment. I hope you're still around.
I get it. I've been there. Sometimes I go back and visit that thought process. But I want you to know that it Will get better! The bad times are only temporary, actually Everything is temporary. Life is temporary! But you have a chance to make that short life Incredible! You Can do it! And it doesn't have to happen all at once! A bunch of small victories add up, and over time those small things you fight thru, will lead to a great life! You just have to take small steps in the right direction and soon you'll be able to look back at your path and be happy to see how great your life has become! You can do it! We all can do it! One foot in front of the other, and repeat! I hope you are well!!
This has to be one of the most valuable impactful youtube video's i have ever seen...
i've listened to this audio at least 20 times while working out (not exaggerating) and right now i'm making a written summary of all the gems/essences you named in this video that apply to me, to have a condensed version to read daily until they are fixed in my mind and i act accordingly.
One of my addictions/vices is that i watch too many youtube video's because i tell myself i need more information and knowledge before taking action but actually it's my 'inner bitch' that is insecure and afraid to take action...
Thank you so much for keeping it 1000 and being so open to us about your own scars and struggles, much respect!
I look forward to meeting you one day to shake your hand and thank you in person!
Thank you brother
First time watching any of your videos and I was hooked on the first 5 minutes. I felt like you were talking directly to me, thank you for waking up my inner warrior
nice acting bruh warrior lol
Same here.
Same. I was just about to turn into a BJs restaurant for a drink then this video started playing.
@@jaysivv436lol what?? 😂😂
This is what i needed today. I have been there and know people doing these things. Trying to lift them up without falling into their pitfalls is my heaven and hell.
I could not have came across this time at a better time in my life… I’m genuinely shocked that the algorithm could work like this. Feel like this dude knocked on my door and said everything straight to my face
Good man!
"Negotiate away your dreams" This hit hard for me. Thanks for sharing your difficult experience Bedros, I really respect your authenticity. I'm trying to improve myself daily and videos like this really help. Sure I have fears and doubts about everything. Yet, I know deep down inside that the REGRET of not becoming the person I am capable of being, is far worse than the FEAR of failing.
You were always the answer to your problems and success. You don't need permission, just being aware and being able to navigate how you make decisions and executing intellectually and emotionally.
I just discovered you recently and I'm so glad I did. You're one of the only speakers that I really resonate with. I've been on my self-betterment journey for years now and it's been a joy seeing my growth. There's still things I want to work on and I think listening to you will aid greatly in taking me to the next level.
Of all the self improvement videos I've watched, this one hits the most. Thank you. Day 1 starts tomorrow.
Man bro everything you said is POINT ON !!! I was thinking about this earlier today and I think about it often…. Those limiting beliefs projected by ppl … even family and friends.,, how I sometimes self sabotage good things subconsciously bc I think I’m not worthy of it bc of the default I have in my mind created from toxic insecurities and bullying . I have made my 2.0 but like Mike Tyson say your one foot away from the limo and the gutter. So yea lately I’ve been telling myself , reminding myself that I gotta ACT right THINK right . Thanks bro this is vid so relatable ❤. I’m here to help others
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I needed this so much today. My relationship of 3 years collapsed on me because I was behaving poorly and I deserved it. then a few weeks later I lost my job. Not because of poor performance but because of layoffs. It all just feels overwhelming and I thought of ending it for good. And I was this close from doing it but.... I just realized sitting here alone that being alone is an opportunity to scrape the bottom and clean up the dirty stuff in order to make bigger steps. Perhaps even leaps. I always accepted less and I am not going to settle for less anymore. I never valued myself and always felt I cannot expect more and that I am broken. And broken people make broken people. Which is exactly what happened with my ex. I hate my old self. That guy had to go.
Just recently found this channel a month ago. Man you don’t know how much you work have helped me. I look at you as the father figure and this right here will take me to next level I need to be at! Keep on doing this and helping us become better Men!
I appreciate that young buck! Keep evolving!
What u gonna do next now
Man! The first time I see your channel and this video is extremely important to get everyone out of his misery because this is really happening to a lot of us nowadays as we are procrastinating a lot in social media and in our phones. I am sure the idea you shared about is going to change a lot of us if we really apply it by killing our laziness and randomness in life. Thank you so much. We need more insights from you. I cannot live this page without subscribing in your channel.
This episode changed my thinking. I love you man. Please never stop!
I’ll never stop! Our tribes continues to grow!
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After decades of experience from living this way I have to say that this guy is dead on, 110% correct on everything he said here. Great video sir.
This is insane man. I can’t believe he has the courage to share such a thing though it shows such character.
You’ve gained a life subscriber good sir.
Big man brother, u hit alot of nerves to me and i truly needed this. Im 30 and have alot goin well for me but i can hardly overcome my habbits and addictions. I had some great days in my life and im tired of drggin my self back to my old self, and keep hitting the snooze button. Weed and food when im stressed is my biggist issues and i struggle with them to this day. Im happy to find about u as u earn my sub and pleasing attention. Thank u and keep being great!
Thank you brother! Keep focusing on growth
Bedros, you speak so authentic. I relate to many things you say. Food, crazy ex chicks, self sabotage, ..I feellike you're my brother from another mother...looking forward to reading your book. Best to you in 2023. Thanks brother!!!
Spoken powerfully and passionately, Bedros... as always. You're the real thing, man. And I fully agree that guys need to work with male therapists and coaches. Not that there aren't great ladies out there who can help, but because the real strength in overcoming your traumas comes from tapping into the warrior mindset, finding your pride and self-worth, and the refusal to stay down when you're knocked down. Having male heroes who would never think giving up, and not wanting to be less than the example they set, was a big part of what got me through 3 years of darkness. I've since used what I learned to help others to great effect.
Keep up the good work, Bedros!
Thanks for sharing Bedros. I was also sexually abused.It dosent bother me anymore but it’s awesome seeing a man like you openly talk about it and not hold back!
That reeealy interpellate me in every aspect. Each one.
A great friend just showed me this video based on a talk we had... and all i can say is THANKS to both of you.
Thanks for sharing!!
Thanks Bedros. I'm a new subscriber in my 60's and after more than a few major life trials, I'm still 'doing the work'.... what do they say, 'it's not over till the slim lady sings!' Thank you for your encouragement.
Dude, the last 5 min were mad. I particularly enjoyed the last five minutes of your video, it felt like there was a lot of yourself in it. I am grateful for this content, it was great.🤘🏻🔥
Greatings from Poland 🇵🇱
Thank you!!
This video is pure gems 💎. Shoutout to all of those who are constructing a 2.0 version of themselves. I'm also in the process of making the best version of myself and it's difficult, but that's exactly the only way to achieve great things. Don't worry if you're too old or too late, that doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is the real inner you that's waiting for you to take the big step towards your new improved life. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life, create new healthy habits ans destroy the old false self that isn't helping you get to where you wanna be. Thank you Bedros for this inspiring and truthful piece of content, you're really making an impact and that's what life is all about. Greetings from Chile 🇨🇱 🙌🏽
not even gonna lie this has been exactly my problem my whole life. And it literally clicked with me not too long ago and now I watch this video. Synchronicity is a real thing. You described the feeling of the ceiling perfectly.
My cousin shared this with me. And man. Every single point you made without saying too much (like other youtubers). You hit the targets very potently. Content worthy of listening to every morning. The being free from the weight we hold. You're an inspiration.
This Is so accurate.. thank you so much for this. My entire life has been a mess in every sides, everything has been almost impossible to enjoy. here's a guy from latin america watching you and enjoying these kind of tips, again, thank you!
I'm glad I found this channel. I'm getting coach by a mentor right now, I was recently given the pink slip by the ex two years ago and fudged me up. I was face with reality and had no choice but to hold my self accountable and own my fair share of the end of my marriage. so here we are now working on all this aspect of life to have a meaningful future.
These podcasts hold so much value! Every episode is gold 💎 Bedros brother if this means anything: you’ve got a bloke in the Far North of Queensland, Australia with your photo on their vision board. Inspirational to me and many others. We appreciate this #nohomo
Grateful for you, brother! 🙏🏼
I like the word you said 'dominating your life'. The only way to completely turn the direction from dominating others.
Seriously, one of the coolest production sets I have ever seen.
Its so true. We can completely re-wire the story when we set our mind right.
22:04 thanks for rooting for me! I’m so much better now since finding your content. It’s like another supplement I use to workout harder…physically, spiritually and emotionally. Thank you for your content 🙏🏼
Thank you brother!
Thank you! God sent! I needed to hear this precisely at this time in my life... Necessary reminder! All true and in my way to growth, I have to remind myself to take out toxic friends from my life, regardless on how I feel about them. In many was I'm so blessed in so many areas ways. I also experienced some kinds of abuse. I have some trust issues, but I've learned to heal and I've become a different person... constantly working on myself without drugs nor addictive ways. It's a daily challenge, but worth it. Most times I feel happy and satisfied. I don't lower my standards anymore.
Very wise words! 💚 Thank you!!! 🇵🇷
Man, thank you. Thank you for your vulnerability, thank you for the encouraging words, thank you for contributing to us.
Thank you that was powerful! I’m so glad you explained about how we lose our confidence & become average by not keeping our word to ourselves. I have work to do! Thank you!!
Thank you for the enlightenment and the saving of these men
The greatest thing is not how much money u can make
It's how much you can SELF ACTUALIZE
The work u do on ur self
Thank you, Mr. K!
You've just given me some perspective on something I can provide to others.
I'll congratulate you in person, once my work has begun and the people I help have provided to me, the means to fly overseas and meet you.
God willing, I can live up to the greatness you've inspired in me!
I appreciate that! Never peak!
dude you're preaching the gospel.. I have gone through and continue to go through all of this to come to the true light of who I am. Many great coaches and great therapists that have helped me gain more of a grasp on who I am and helping me to be able to be in control of where I am going to higher and higher levels. I am so glad to hear of others that are going down this path. It is a lonely path not many are willing to go down.
I love your work and message B. Thank you for being such an example of what authentic principled masculinity looks like. You inspire me a great deal. All the best.
Grateful for the kind words brother!
16:10 “My Dark Passenger” so spot on.
I honestly dig your mentality and I appreciate so much your advices. I simply have one thing that slows down myself on going full on on discipline and self-respecting my inner rules. What if all of those sacrifices lead to nothing at the end? I'm going to be honest I am currently working 40h a week plus having 16 credits at college to be an electrical engineer. I manage to run in the early morning, and lift everyday. Since I began this routine at the end of last November, I feel loneliness like never before (I live alone), tired, and even though I'm optimistic about my future, I hardly see the light at the end of the tunnel and wonder if all those sacrifices are worth it. Why sacrificing sleep in the morning to run if nothing is garanteed at the end besides suffering?
be patient, I've ruined most of all good thing I could've had, just by being too impatient..
And just think that though you have no guarantee to succeed, if you quit - failure is 100 percent certainty..
Dang bro, this podcast hit me in the guts and in the heart!!! I been putting off excuses for the last year trying to get back in shape!!! I smoked, drank, hung out with a bunch of girls and now I see where I screwed up!!!! Thank you!!!
Man this is 💯 truth. Right now im coasting through life with no purpose other than being a great dad. Im clean and have faith in Jesus which is huge from where i started but i need to break that ceiling. Great video brother this is very motivating.
Thankyou for the work you do, and the man you are in this world
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One thing I struggle with is confidence. In this video, you mention how our confidence decreases when we set goals for ourselves, but don't make any effort to reach them. I have been stuck on the same loophole for months when it comes to breaking bad food habits, reading, learning the piano, waking up early, etc. Every Monday I would set my alarm for 6, but continued to hit the snooze button and wake up at whatever time. I didn't realize that not sticking to my plans was damaging my confidence. The subconscious mind is always listening. If we cant fix these small habits right now, what makes us think we'll be able to accomplish our purpose in life? The truth hurts but this video helped me dig deep into my mind and find out what was holding me back. Thank you so much for this.
Man, this podcast really smacked me in the face because it’s true. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
Almost completely agree. I went most of my life through self-hate (and the connected stuff). However, through reading certain books, watching stuff on YT like this I began to see what was the cause and I simply decided to reprogram myself. No therapist need. Just myself. My old one vs. my new one. In the beginning all sounded like I was lying to myself (e.g. "I love myself"), but I kept on and now I wonder hoe the hell could I ever had hated myself, now this old version seems like a lie. So guys, never give up.
Appreciated!👑
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You lit a switch in a critical turning point, thank you Bedros
Been watching these videos before work and I gotta say it’s making me take a look at myself especially on the vices
Damn dude you speaking on my entire life right now I definitely self sabotage myself and over eat my emotions this a wonderful podcast
Hey bedros, your talks really are inspirational to me, all my self confidence self worth has been driven out of me the last 6years as I am a targeted individual and thru synthetic telepathy they drill me down to the ground 24/7 365 days of the year but I keep faith because I know evil always loses in the end and I play your videos over and over again to feel me again, I just wanted to say thank you for lifting my spirits because I really need it daily and let’s pray those elites that are torturing thousands of people around the world fall hard and fast as we rise above there wickedness, keep up your talks cuz your truly saving lives.
AndyWu❤
This has become my favorite show. You're literally helping pull me out of a 5 year slump where I've been stuck and probably afraid of becoming my 2.0 version. How do I get Bedros as a life coach?
You're right...this channel is solid af... respectfully tho...be your own life coach...make a plan...have faith...be consistent and don't quit
@@sir3986 I've been my own life coach for 42 years and I'm not ashamed to say I could use some guidance from someone like Bedros who is killing it in the game of life
@@hunterdolanch8725 go to(or back to) God...He's been waiting for you
@@sir3986 I have God in my life and he sent me to learn from people like Bedros to become my 2.0 version, much love!!!!
@@hunterdolanch8725likewise brother... ✌🏾
"The success is your duty", i will pin this words in my mind! Thank you Mr. Bedros !
Just discovered this channel yesterday and it is FANTASTIC!
Glad you enjoy it! Welcome to the tribe!
You're correct. Found it today!
Life changing.. started to watch your videos 3 days ago, and Im already feeling like a different man.
this is great advice, thank you so much for sharing!
You're so welcome!
Back in the days I realised that I had problems in the past and I have developed surviving behaviours to have a bearable solution for those problems. While I grew older those problems disapeard from my life, but I was sticking to my old behaviour uncosciously, and that was a big step for me in terms of consciousness, when I was like: "Hey man! Those problem are not existing anymore! It is time to change. Your problem is your behaviour now and it is easyer to change, than changing the world."
Success is your duty 🔥
"your reputation with yourself". Powerful thing to ponder.
Man I needed this i identify a lot with this episode, but you make every week to make sense in life!
Take action on this brother!
Subscribed!! I’ve been battling with my own confidence for decades because of being an imposter with myself but I’m DONE!! I’ve always wanted to live a life with purpose but I was a victim for decades for things I couldn’t control when I was young. Last year through a intense and scary experience with my husband, I realized that I had to be strong in myself- rely on nobody!!! I quit smoking weed, changed my lifestyle- eating whole foods, exercising and praying to the Almighty!! Being sober has elevated my mind and I have been Consistent with the goals I have set thus far. Once day I want to share my success on RUclips. For now I am working on my confidence and I am certain that I will attract opportunities to live the life I am intended to experience!! 😊
BK, would like for you to have a deep dive discussion on micro dosing as I’ve had positive outcomes the times I’ve done mushrooms. It’s helped me receive clear answers to some questions and also open up my heart to give and receive more love. I microdose at least 3 times a year
Brutally honest talk. The hardest part for depressed and un motivated people is the pain. Today neuroscience proved that emotional pain and physical pain are quiet the same. It’s like someone bits the shit out of you brakes your bones leaves you in hospital and tells you for 3 to 6 month you need to learn how to walk again. Today we know that the brain of children who were physically abused function exactly the same as the soldier who came from war. To pull trough all that it requires a lot of inner strength. There is a great book call “chatter - the voice in your head and how to harness it “ it is a fascinating book that sheds a lots of light into how we sabotage ourselves with our inner voice and why.
I broke that promise to wake up at a certain time but I snoozed, so I lost out on an opportunity I'd been practicing for. That's an L that eats at you through the day
The truth is many people are NOT better than what they are doing and “deserve more”. You get what you put into life. If your life is sh*t its because you aren’t doing the right things and definitely need to look at yourself and starting working from a point of brutal honesty…AND FAITH that YOU CAN do better and be better.
Brother this is life changing message and reminder from you
Thank you and I appreciate you ❤
You are welcome!
Big brother I love this episode so much
Recently started watching your channel because I’m trying to beat my weed addiction, went from smoking EVERYDAY for the past 3 and a half years. I dropped out of university, i resigned from my job like two months ago based on some stupid excuses, I haven’t been able to launch my clothing brand no matter how much I say I’m going to do it, the relationship with my family deteriorated, especially my mother. All of that sucked and I felt so depressed. The other day I fell ill and that’s when I actually decided to give up weed. I’ve been 8 days clean now and started working out every morning and feel so focused now, I just pray I can continue doing this and turn my life around. I’m currently trying to get a new job, hopefully in sales, I know I have a higher purpose I felt it ever since I was a kid, people around me look up to me as a role model but I think I’ve just let them down. I want to walk in my purpose now. Thank you for this podcast big brother it means so much. Almost brought me to tears. Love.
"You can fall back in love with the person you are" hit like a truck. In the best way ☺️ thanks so much for sharing everything you have. Fucking great! 👍
Thanks for crossing your road Bedros. Happy to listen to you. We all have a story and re-write it by new pages. Learn from the past and just do better version of you!
Now I am going to be going around saying I’m built of fighter jet material thank you Bedros!
Bam! 🛩️
You are the Real Gangstar man Thanks for your time, You are such an example of a good leader with your own life stories.
You have gained a subscriber sir . Thank you for this message, I feel like you’re talking directly to me. Literally cried
You're the fuckin man Bedros. Your words are truly powerful and spoken so genuinely. Very thankful for these episodes.
Thank you, brother!
Thank you for your service, everybody of this generation should listen what you have to say, so glad I came across your channel
No more about telling of my pasts, they are not my future.
I live the better Life- Impacting, Influencing, Inspiring...
Gloorrrrryyy 🙌🏾
i dont know who tis guy is but this video apperead in the main yt page and i clicked to see what it is about and damn! it was like if he was talking to me,describing my life.. i have big expectations for my life but somehow end up sabotaging myself. Many thanks Bedros, your words fell in the right moment
Reach me out ❤️💬💬..
This is the first video I watched from this channel and I just wanted to give a big thank you to Bedros and the team some awesome content and amazing life changing advice!!! As a man who has struggled with masculinity and has lived a life full of excuses, self pity and having a victimised mindset I truly appreciate the heart you have to serve men and encourage us to live and lead!! Thanks brother & God bless 💪🙏
Great talk. Been going through the same things but improving a lot. First time I went to therapy in my life and it really helped, seeing things in the fire service has really talking a toll on my mental and physical health. The only way to lead yourself to change is by you speaking up for yourself and taking the actions for yourself. Nobody will save you but yourself. We are the captains of our own ships.
Thank you. Serving and basically embodying love trough acts (listening, being there , paying attention, being reliable) and even picking up trash from the ground to drop it into the next trashcan, are moves to become the maximum potential as human being.
love your origin, love the nature. you are the nature. you are the universe. its the universe that makes a human experience and not a human experiencing the universe.
dont live your life on the level of human basic needs, it sucks the life energy out of you. money and power is primitive. unconstruct your ego and use your mind as a tool and not as an advisor for your life. its a prison and biggest mindhack we are witnessing.
I’m so happy and grateful I found this channel…you speak the truth that noone else does
Everything he said really resonated with me on a mission for self development my god , I will raise again one day by putting in the work thank you so much for this message.
Wow, this is life changing. Thank you Bedros this is the first video I've watched from you
I’m not working today because a client canceled.
I’m helping others through being a men’s leader at Celebrate Recovery.
In July I’ll have 25 years of sobriety.
I’m still stuck in the mud -why?
I just got brave enough to get a therapist but I can’t understand why I have to work through all the pain to get out of my own head!
Bro, I don’t know how I got this, but feel like it’s one of those life altering moments.
I am eating like there is no tomorrow. I'm 60 and tired of this up hill battle. I feel everything your saying.
Wise words. I have heard this advice before but never so powerfully delivered and in a way so many of us seem to be able to relate to. Thank you
Man Bedros that was good brother. You show good leadership and what it means to lead. Love u dawg
Thank you for this video, it is so needed for all the young man that don’t have a mam to guide them and provide them with great advice and knowledge.
This world is in need of good man role models.
Thank you god bless you.
I appreciate your message and I concur. We are all the author of our daily lives and how we live it is totally up to us! Thank you 🙏🏾
The life coach that lived it, honestly, you got it.
I have become more of a whole being by looking within and working with what shows up instead of abusing or shoving it down.
Great video, Fantastic advice. Thanks, I hope this goes viral because so many people need to hear this. Especially in the current time we live in
First time tuning in to any of your content. I really appreciate your message. Subbing in!
Welcome aboard! 👊🏼
The truth hurts and can be hard to hear, but it really need to be heard anyways. You nailed all my vices and addictions, and helped be looking at them all together at once, and to understand how they take away from the success potential and purpose in life.
Panic attacks ruined my life. Now I can control them but now I am old. Breathing is the key. Mediocracy is everywhere .
I just subscribed after listening to a few. Love the content man. Let’s grow this tribe 💪
Thank you for your presence on this platform.
Thanks, Bedros. I think you would provide incredible value by discussing how you overcame anxiety/panic. Book, mentality, meditation, tools, etc. So many people, myself included, have or are struggling with this. Much love brother.
Thanks for posting this and sharing. Been putting off going to therapy since March, even after telling my loved ones i would go. Shits hard but needs done and sometimes its nice to hear from someone you have no connection to.