The Value of Traditional Roles in a Marriage! | Biblical Womanhood, Traditional Wife & Marriage
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Ur lying 2 women
The Bible blames women 4 every1s sins
Look up who translated the Bible
How many female Angels R there🤔
Same book has female demons though
Same book says women can’t lead the church
Same book says ur made 2 help the male
Women don’t have 2 follow males, GOD made it so males HAVE 2 follow females 1st
Hence where life comes from
IF U WANNA use the Bible, talk about how GOD didn’t want 2 use a males dna 4 the son
How is GOD looked @ as a he anyways🤔
Oh, so we can all follows males from jump
Ima man so understand when I say, males don’t deserve the leader role by default, instead it should B from demonstration
The reason younger women have been forced w/ older men all this time
It’s 2 have influence over them
Yet a woman & man of the same age offers a lot more equality bcuz she can’t b brainwashed
Just remember the same mindset that translated the Bible DIDNT look @ beating their wives as a crime
Satan is too smart haha goodbye western would ✌️ W passport bros
Also as a woman you literally get to choose the man. So just choose the right man who you would love to follow. Simple. 😅
us men don't know how to lead cuz we got raised by man hating single mothers so these women also have Been raised by single mothers. see my point. You think just assuming the woman knows what a leader is but she is just as clueless as the men and 80% of women out here are just chasing the bag with only wanting the top 10% of men.
To drive home my point even I have 2 gfs and 2 seperate household. I live in Africa and I'm white. I make only 55k per year but thats livable here. I'm 6ft 2 and nice enough looking and the women share me because they woukd rather be with me than a lower status guy [ in their eyes..I'm not claiming I'm Brad Pitt but I'm still in the top % of the worldwide wage earnings plus here..my age and Grey hair give me a certain status since there isn't too many other white people. I know this sounds off topic but my point is I am a leader in my relationships and I'm being honest with them and even though what I'm doing is frowned upon...they stick with me even though they keep it secret from their family and friends.
We choose you , you don’t choose anything but sex
Problem is yall can't follow nobody 😢..don't know the difference between poop or dirt...and don't know how to choose if the world depended on it😂
Wrong. Most women don't understand that while women choose who will be sexual partners, it's MEN who choose who will be wives.
Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to commitment. But you both get to choose.
Not only a follower but a helper. And what an honour it is to be his helper❤
But you must still follow his lead either way
um yeah ok
You have a problem with words.........As much as she explained this the word "Follow" triggered you. This is 😢!
@@excellencechukwuma5517 It’s sad that people cannot respect gender specific roles when it is my choice and my preference. My husband is the leader of our home and that does not take anything away from the integral role I play in our home. The two can co-exist, both benefiting one another.
Right!! Like what is so hard to understand about that.
NEED MORE LIKE HER!!!
As a man, I believe it is the husband's responsibility to value his wife and communicate that to his wife. We take it for granted that she just knows.
Right. But action speaks louder than words though. Make us see or feel it
@@jaykwalfyOK. Here's a married man asking the women, how so? I'm not looking to bicker with you, it's an honest question. What actions from her husband would impress upon her that her husband values her? Explain it to me like I'm a cocker spaniel, though.
Husband submits first....humbles himself, becomes a lover in God's way. Gentle, kind, not boastful, not putting on airs, pure and holy. He keeps the great commandment and never asks of you what he would not want to do himself. By submitting to Christ he leads his wife in submission. She finds submission easy. He respects her and would never act without her agreement. If you two can't agree, the two of you let God decide for you. Marriage becomes equally yoked and both burdens are light. It is a submission competition. My deceased husband was so good at this. When we couldn't agree, he had us pray over a coin. He was heads, me tails. We prayed for God's guidance and followed the toss. He was sacrificial in his care for me and the kids. I loved following his lead into greater holiness.
@@Neoteny374Husband submits first....humbles himself, becomes a lover in God's way. Gentle, kind, not boastful, not putting on airs, pure and holy. He keeps the great commandment and never asks of you what he would not want to do himself. By submitting to Christ he leads his wife in submission. She finds submission easy. He respects her and would never act without her agreement. If you two can't agree, the two of you let God decide for you. Marriage becomes equally yoked and both burdens are light. It is a submission competition. My deceased husband was so good at this. When we couldn't agree, he had us pray over a coin. He was heads, me tails. We prayed for God's guidance and followed the toss. He was sacrificial in his care for me and the kids. I loved following his lead into greater holiness.
@@vanessamartz7596 Yes, Ma'am. Thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss. We strive to have a marriage similar to yours. Our lives are lived in pretty fundamentalist church circles, so we know that template well. My wife is very agreeable by nature but on occasion I've proceeded without her being 100% on board. But she trusts that I have *our* best interests in mind. She moved three times on account of me. The third time was right back where we started together and she expressed happiness at being back 'home'. That was an eye opener for me. I love her so much. I'll never act with her outright opposition, but at times I've taken my best step forward without her explicit approval, thinking it was better than being frozen at loggerheads. Maybe a coin would have been a fairer more genteel way, but that's not what I did. I ploughed forward. One of those decisions ended in a very hard financial hit. She never once threw that back in my face. We've somewhat recovered now, though. She trusts me, stupidity and all, and I love her so. G-d bless you, Ma'am.
May God bless you sister and your family
Love this❤❤❤ it’s hard at times to give up control but seeing my husband grow in statue as I let him lead is awesome. I still struggle though God help me
You mean stature, not statue
MARRIAGE IS NOT ABOUT CONTROLING. A TRUE LEADER HAVE TO LEAD WITH LOVE AND RESPECT. JESUS LEAD IN THE WAY THAT HE DIED FOR HIS BRIDE.
@@user-wd9gn8uc2z I’m agreeing you just stating my weakness and that I need to give up that idea 👌🏽
@@maddyglenn7926 noted thank you
It’s important to find a man you are confident can lead you and you trust to lead you. Don’t submit to just any man, but if you’ve found a good honest man to marry it is your duty to follow him and respect him. We are a unit, it’s important to have each others backs. Don’t marry someone you aren’t willing to follow, or don’t trust to put the interests of the family first. If you find a good man that puts family first, don’t let him go
You would think this would be common sense, right?
@@TA-ht4jo the most unrealistic assumption in economics is that people will make rational choices that are in their best interests, which applies to all things humans can choose- and ppl aren’t great at acting in their long term interests
@@TA-ht4joIt's not always obvious, it's not "black and white," and positive aspects of one's character doesn't indicate the negatives nor the weaknesses that would be a potential threat to a relationship in the future ... So, it's more than common sense. None of us are God to predict the future, so there are no guarantees in relationships; you enter into one genuinely, hoping it's the same for the other party.
@@TA-ht4joOh, and worse yet are UNMET EXPECTATIONS and POOR /LACK OF COMMUNICATION.
I listen to wisdom through you on all your studies. You has not said anything wrong regarding marriage and relationship. I to would love every woman or young lady to listen to you and have a True Christian marriage.
Mahn I just love how articulated you are in the matters of masculine and feminine frames❤
Omg… thank you! I’ve been seeing so many things that are messed up about traditional relationships these days it’s crazy.
A real relationship that will work forever is a partnership between the 2, you are each others best friends and their is absolute trust and loyalty between the 2! Thank you for putting this out their… it needed to be said apparently
Yes! It truly is a partnership. My husband and I are a team. He sees us as being equal and I don’t move on decisions unless we are on the same page. Even though we are equal in value and in the work we put in, I still see him as the head of the home. As the head he is the protector and makes me feel safe. I also prioritize his preferences when they are important to him and in turn he prioritizes my preferences in the things important to me too. You can have a healthy balanced relationship and still see things in a traditional way. She is so right that it doesn’t mean what a lot of people say it means.
Husband submits first....humbles himself, becomes a lover in God's way. Gentle, kind, not boastful, not putting on airs, pure and holy. He keeps the great commandment and never asks of you what he would not want to do himself. By submitting to Christ he leads his wife in submission. She finds submission easy. He respects her and would never act without her agreement. If you two can't agree, the two of you let God decide for you. Marriage becomes equally yoked and both burdens are light. It is a submission competition. My deceased husband was so good at this. When we couldn't agree, he had us pray over a coin. He was heads, me tails. We prayed for God's guidance and followed the toss. He was sacrificial in his care for me and the kids. I loved following his lead into greater holiness.
Sister, you are so amazing and blessed with true wisdom from above. May God Almighty continuously enrich your spiritual understanding. Thanks for all you do. Stay blessed.
My pastor said it perfectly. His wife tells him her views then she leaves the decision to him but he said sometimes that means she reminds him he is accountable to the decision to God, not her. I think that last part was a joke but it helps me to remember that part.
Same value; different roles; different functions; beautifully explained;
Absolutely. Society will function at its best when we embrace the reality of roles and differences in our marriage, we’re not less valuable as the wife BUT we do have our own pace and space to contribute into our marriage and family as a woman/wife…without needing to compete or forcing ourselves to be equal in context where that’s not necessarily true. If we as women submit to God first, we’ll have the proper view of marriage and not struggle against what is meant to work for us.
Yes you said it perfectly!!
REFRESHING TO SEE A SENSIBLE LADY...🙏
Yes it is always a male who has talked to God...and created religion. .so as to control sexuality of women and vice versa...
@@samarnandy1117
How does a “male” control a woman’s sexuality!? I don’t get how you and others arrive to such conclusion, it baffles me.
And no, after Jesus rose from the grave, the first person He allowed to see Him was a woman, Mary Magdalene, oh and if you read God’s Word from start to finish you’ll see instances of women being heavily involved in ministry…they were not controlled in any anyway. AT ALL!
I don’t know where you’re from, but I can almost 100000% guarantee that you’re an American, how do I know!? You guys have a pattern of spewing nonsense and coming up with the most absurd narratives, and call it a reality even when wisdom can prove that you’re wrong…it’s laughable what some of come you up with.
Please, here’s an advice, stop blaming men for your problems, when there’s an issue in your society, both the men and women needs to work together and not against each other. I hope that makes sense for you, because blaming problems on genders is a lack of maturity and accountability.
Amen! Say it again my sister, for the people in the cheap seats.
GOOD MORNING SIS, I APPRECIATE YOU AND YOUR MINISTRY!!! I'M PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!! PLEASE SIS STAY ON THAT WALL AND DON'T EVER COME DOWN!!! KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH, YOU ARE PREPARING THE WAY FOR RIGHTEOUSNESS TO MAKE IT'S WAY BACK INTO OUR HOMES, SOCIETY AND OUR WORLD!! IT STARTS WITH YOU MY MODERN DAY JOHN THE BAPTIST!! YOU ARE GOD'S VOICE CRYING IN THE WILDERNESS!!! YOU GOT THIS BECAUSE GOD'S GOT YOU!!! KEEP LOOKING AND MOVING FORWARD IN JESUS!!! PEACE MY SISTER!!! 💜✌🏾🙏🏾
God bless you and your family! From Croatia 🇭🇷👍
Who are you ? ...You make regular men so excited . You are attractive inside and most definitely on the surface. Be blessed you beautiful creation....
Not only that, but a lot of women seem to have a hard time because they’ve seen their own fathers or their current (or ex) husbands abuse their roles as leaders and use it to be harsh with their wives and children. A true man of God knows the Bible says to love your wife the way Christ loved the church and to not be harsh with her.
exaaactly
Awesome! May God bless you for telling the truth of the word of God to help restore the marriage in America
Absolutely on point
Yell it!! Tell it like it is. SHE IS RIGHT
Yes! And the good husband always give his woman all the freedom she needs
It depends on your definition of "FREEDOM". Freedom that is ROOTED IN SELFISHNESS is injurious to marriage. Marriage is never an institution for LAWLESSNESS. Does the government or Joe Biden allow you to do everything that seems good to you? What you call "FREEDOM " may be another person's BONDAGE. THOUGHTFULNESS will explain more.
@@collinsnwaojei84very important! 🙏🕊️
Any freedom? 😂😂😂😂
Freedom to start open relationship? 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@@stoicreader for real
So true Young Lady, disagreeing isn’t a argument it’s a chance communicate and discuss the issue.
Demeaning and condescending is not acceptable under any circumstances.
In the end it is called compromise and communication.
Thank you so much hon 😊 yeah
Thank you
Thanks sis keep it coming
Your husbands is blessed to have a queen of understanding…
You are very Smart Woman ♀️👠👍👍❤️
thank you
Thank you mamm...we are certainly in a war against the home...your helping..blessings
Excellent !!!!!!! 💛💛
Excellent !!!!!!! 💜
Excellent !!!!! 💜💜💜
The truest truth of our roles
Agree
Lady, you got this. Keep speaking truth. Thank you.
U r a queen in her truest essence. May Allah continue to bless u sister
Preach Sis. If we live the Lord we follow His commandments and find joy in following them. It’s not always easy but it’s always right ❤
The lord is not needed for that. Observation demonstratess this.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp I’ll have to disagree with you. The Lord is always needed. Even in the nuances of the relationship. Now to the non-believer than that’s different: to each his own.
@@Janae-rl8pq There have been over 1000 gods discovered in human history. You do not believe in 999 of them except YOUR particular god. Thor is not real to you and neither is Zeus.
I just add one more, your god to the list. Think about it, at what age were you when you believed in god? What age were you when you believed in Santa Clause and the tooth fairy?
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Well the difference is the canonized Bible comprised of events that happened among witnesses that validated these events. The Bible didn’t come from someone’s imagination, or folklore but is a part of history. That’s why it is still here and will not go away.
Yes I have no problem with this. Me and my future husband speak of this. Honestly it is healthy and also works for us in more ways than one.
❤❤Good morning have a great day
Preach it sister! Expose the lies! Tell the truth!
Protect this woman at all costs
That is the way it should be.
SIS. BECAUSE YOU HONOUR THE WORD OF GOD AS A WIFE, YOU ARE BLESSED, AND THE LORD IS HONOURING YOU WITH JOY, PEACE, LOVE AND ALL THAT THE WORLD RUNS AFTER…AMEN…!!!
Wow finally someone who said it 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 just because we have different roles doesn’t mean we are less valuable then our husbands it’s just the way God created it and he did it like that for a reason.
It sounds like you are less valuable to me
My husband and I are both natural leaders so we have to talk things out a lot. I've tried to play submissive and it just doesn't work- - we do all right though and are still going strong after 20 years 🙏❤
It's obvious your husband is WEAK. Both man and wife are NOT leaders. Your name "woman" literally tells you that you're under your husband. You tried to "play submissive" and it didn't work because you have a masculine spirit. You're out of your natural order as wife to your husband. Your husband just lacks the understanding to put you in your place for 20 yrs
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You are bless a mighty woman of truth.
So true!! Amen!❤
True that
You are perfectly right.
This message doesn’t go with the entitled, Woke movement … I hear more women say I know my truth but God is the farthest He can be from there lips… the only satisfaction I get hearing and seeing these things is Gods wrath and anger 😍 makes my heart skip a beat ❤️
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Thank you for sharing this with us God bless
Can you do a video on the next part of the text about submission. The part where it says" husbands love your wife, like Christ loved the church and GAVE HIMSELF for it"? Thank you for your response to the sacrificial love, husbands are to love their wives with❤
Unless my husband is truly Christ-like, I ain't submitting.
What if he pulls a commandment out the bible that you do not know about?
That’s kind of the point. Why would you be with a man that’s not Christlike? Do you really know what being Christlike means? These are genuine Questions, because we will never know what you all believe. The Bible tells men to love their wife as Christ loved the church. His love of the church comes with a lot of demands of the church to follow him in his way that is always based in scripture.
God bless you Ma.
That is so true my sister.
This girls got her head together🌷🌷🌷
No lies detected here. 💯
Nice job, keep preaching.
❤❤❤❤❤ Teach
God bless my father who told us that marriage is made up of equality. The key in marriage is love, respect, communication, and helping each other. My husband and I have been married for 48yrs and there's no leader or follower. We have a wonderful, loving marriage.
We need more content like this I. Social Media
Thank you sister ❤
Spot on!
Amen sista
Thank God
God bless you pretty Lady
Thank you, Jesus, for a blessed day today. You give me a blessed day today? Jesus I love you and I'll order you
Husband is the "president", CEO, of the family household; the wife, the vice-president, not his "servant" - one "president" to a family, for life.
Thank you sister
I totally agree with your assessment. The only thing to add is that women should carefully choose the men that will become their husbands, or else you will find yourself submitting to someone that will lead you and your children down a dark path. Ask me how I know 😒
Everyone seems to miss the most important thing wives submit to your husband as he submit to God
There only interested in being able to tell you what to do
Hi !!!!! 💛💛
that's right speak it
You're a breathe of fresh air.😂😂
I am white and I agree with everything you say. This is how we are made and there is nothing wrong with it.
The fundamental requirement are mutual respect and love for each other.
In today's world, wife can make more money but relationship can survive only if there is respect and love for each other.
Money can fluctuate with times but not respect and love.
Wow this woman will have a very happy husband and a stronger family.
GOD HAS PLACED A BEAUTIFUL WISDOM MARK PERFECTLY ON HER FACE. VERY SPIRITUAL.
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You will have ever lasting love and a long happy marriage life
This could apply to any disagreement lol. It’s a problem far beyond marriage which is why it’s damaged marriage too.
Respectfully disagreeing is a list part of humanity. Many people taking everything as a personal attack on their worth, value, & intelligence.
It’s draining. & unproductive. It’s not beneficial at all. 😩😩😩
I agree with what you say! In the context of everyone! Just because you disagree with me doesn’t mean you value me less, or that I have less value.
Are you familiar with Alice Coltrane? She's all about this. The way she talks about God and John is just beautiful.
Preach.
If the husband treats their wife like their wife has no value, and gives her no respect for her role, it would be hard for her to be submissive.
If should lead in a loving way, not an abusive way.
May God bless you for RISING UP TO THE OCCASION. "I will build my house and the gate of hell shall not...
1 Corinthians 11:3
“But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.”
King James Version (KJV
You will be rewarded beautifly here and hereafter for telling the truth unlike those turning men to ennemies of women by their saying.
Well said. ❤
❤ you right girl blessing to you
I agree 100%
Subscribed to your channel, good content
My wife need you to teach her
I will do leader and helper.
My Queen 👸. Are you aware that because of you're telling the truth. You gonna have a lot of enemies? You are awesome Queen 👸. I love ❤️ you. GOD bless you.
Preach sistah