PART 3! Married to a Narcissist for 8 yrs. Here’s how I left|

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  • Опубликовано: 3 ноя 2024

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  • @GenieNicoleTV
    @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +1

    In this next video, we’re answering some questions from you all and explaining what you can expect after you leave.
    Q&A| How To Heal As You LEAVE the #narcissist
    ruclips.net/video/HxHX2vZ2BYs/видео.html

  • @victoriaarmstrong6498
    @victoriaarmstrong6498 2 месяца назад +14

    I started noticing red flags shortly after my marriage. I never shared a bank account with him. I’m an so grateful I made the decision not to.

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +4

      Same! Smh. I’m grateful to have had my 1 separate account or I would’ve been messed up🥴

    • @Coco-og7zw
      @Coco-og7zw 2 месяца назад +3

      Same here!!! Started noticing red flags 2 months after our wedding so thanks be to God that I never shared a bank account with him. We opened a joint acct for the sole purpose of depositing the checks we received from our wedding and once that was gone, I closed the account.

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +1

      @@Coco-og7zwSmart Woman! 💕🙏🏾

  • @AdrienneInspires
    @AdrienneInspires Месяц назад +1

    I just want to say THANK YOU! I stumbled across this channel and took a deep dive down the rabbit hole of your content and every video left me feeling more and more validated and empowered to do what I didn’t want to do but NEEDED to do. I’ve been married for 8 years and he and I share two boys together (age 6&1). He overlaps in his type of narcissism so can’t pinpoint exactly one type. Anyways. I left yesterday. Although the new journey with these two young boys is JUST beginning-I already feel soooo much better!!!! I actually had to watch your videos in ‘incognito mode’ so it wouldn’t trigger my algorithm publicly. Was literally living a double life.
    To the next person that may see this: Take Genie’s advice. Get your plan together. Stack some money. Every little bit adds up. And BUILD THAT COMMUNITY. They were VITAL in helping me get out. And your relationship with God HAS to be at the center so that you know you’re making moves in the right direction!! Your future is so bright ladies!! 🤓🤓

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  Месяц назад

      My God!… I thank you for sharing your story even as you are walking in courage and wisdom yourself! You will bless and encourage so many others💕💕
      I’m SO happy for you. Many don’t understand and can’t comprehend the freedom that awaits you on the other side of this decision to stand up for yourself and take your life back.
      The Lord Himself came so that we could have LIFE and have it abundantly!
      I haven’t met you personally, but I’m SO PROUD of YOU! 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
      You’ve literally done the hardest part which is taking the first step! It may not always be easy but it’s always worth it! I have NO regrets!
      I pray that God continues to show Himself faithful and mighty in the life of you and your boys!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 #NarcFreeLiving

  • @Nicole-LuvGrace
    @Nicole-LuvGrace 2 месяца назад +7

    This is much needed because you really have to be strategically meticulous about your exit plan with them.
    You are so right! They always tell on themselves and will eventually put it in to action, which is why you should pay attention to their words.

  • @GenieNicoleTV
    @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +9

    God Bless!
    Here’s part 3. Sorry for the delay!

  • @rubyred9958
    @rubyred9958 2 месяца назад +6

    I've seen four of your videos since yesterday and majority of what you and your daughter spoke, I have experienced. I have been back and forth about how to move forward..

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +2

      May the Lord guide you and keep you. You got this🤗🤗🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕

    • @rubyred9958
      @rubyred9958 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you

  • @proverbs3126
    @proverbs3126 2 месяца назад +6

    "provoking and disrespectful"--those are the characteristics that I see are consistent with the narc i am with. you hit the nail on the head when you said that. Love the advice from the therapist: don't manage his life, just observe. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +2

      You’re most welcome. 🙏🏾💕🙏🏾

  • @yolandafunnye5385
    @yolandafunnye5385 2 месяца назад +2

    Amazing testimony! Thank you for your courage and transparency! God bless you

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +1

      You are so welcome!

    • @yolandafunnye5385
      @yolandafunnye5385 2 месяца назад

      @@GenieNicoleTV sadly I’m in the same exact situation right now. Listening to your story had me about to fall out of my chair on how similar it is. I will continue to seek God in all I do!

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +2

      @@yolandafunnye5385Ohh Wow. Yeahhhh. There are a many more in this situation than I’d realized, unfortunately.

    • @yolandafunnye5385
      @yolandafunnye5385 2 месяца назад

      @@GenieNicoleTV yes ma’am! Sadly it is! I pray we are all saved and set free by God! We can not do it without Him!

  • @DanielJehuJoseph
    @DanielJehuJoseph 2 месяца назад +4

    Great insight and wisdom. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you bro!❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @CarolA4808
    @CarolA4808 2 месяца назад

    I’ve watched all 3 of these videos now and WOW! Such great, plain advice. I’m glad you found the support and heard the voice of God to be free!

  • @realistxoxo
    @realistxoxo 2 месяца назад +1

    I needed this today, thank you x

  • @GrownFolkstalkwithStatiaK
    @GrownFolkstalkwithStatiaK 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience! Dealt with 2. The 2nd one just ended the marriage! It was less than a year great job!

  • @BrookeBrenner-y9z
    @BrookeBrenner-y9z 2 месяца назад +4

    Hi Genie, I’ve watched your videos & I’ve been contemplating on whether or not to reach out to you. I REALLY need a tribe of other Christian women. Your story has a lot of similarities but mine is with physical violence. Im praying for God to help me get out!!! I’m in Tampa. I’d love nothing more than to connect with you ❤

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +3

      Heyyyy! Please connect with me on Instagram: GenieNicoleJones

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +1

      You can email me too: GenieNicole@gmail.com

    • @BrookeBrenner-y9z
      @BrookeBrenner-y9z 2 месяца назад

      @@GenieNicoleTV I sent you a message on IG but it says this account can’t receive messages

    • @BreezeWithAfrica
      @BreezeWithAfrica 2 месяца назад +3

      Please leave ASAP. God does not approve of an abusive marriage.

    • @renarich4942
      @renarich4942 2 месяца назад +2

      @@BreezeWithAfricafr😢

  • @Marie2Divine
    @Marie2Divine 2 месяца назад

    I got the boom JESUS and women!! It is awesome I finished it in a week!! Thanks for recomending it !! GOD is good took me from shame to Honor!! Thank YOU, JESUS!!!!❤😊

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад

      YES!!! From Shame to HONOR! My GOD! He thinks SO much of us!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾God bless you my sister in Christ! I’m so glad that you enjoyed the study!😄😄😄🥰🥰 It truly transformed my thinking as far as how precious Jesus really sees me, and it shed light on how my ex was not truly loving me as Christ loves the church

  • @genesisamiah
    @genesisamiah 2 месяца назад

    This was so good! Love you!!! 💖💖💖

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад

      Love you more😘😘😘💕💕🤗🤗

  • @reboundingfromnarcissistic5386
    @reboundingfromnarcissistic5386 2 месяца назад +1

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Penny-b6d
    @Penny-b6d 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi Nicole, I’m a new subscriber & I miss your daughter in this video.

    • @GenieNicoleTV
      @GenieNicoleTV  2 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for subbing!
      She will return in the next video. 😉

    • @Penny-b6d
      @Penny-b6d 2 месяца назад +1

      @@GenieNicoleTV, cool! I am looking forward to seeing you both!