The Dating and Singleness Struggle for Men| Marriage Pressure, Sexual Purity, Marriage Prep

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

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  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 7 месяцев назад +12

    "Your not going to be happy outside of God's holiness...."very true

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kstephen88694
    @kstephen88694 7 месяцев назад +24

    As a single man the pressure is present I have a lot faced backlash from society People always point to the fact that am not yet a fully grown man because I haven't fathered a child. There have been moments and things haven't worked relationship wise. Meanwhile I see some men who leave behind single mothers and these people generally get away with it because they meet "society expectations". All the same I am not giving up yet . Thanks for the show

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      Don’t give up🎉

    • @yvonnewinfreyug
      @yvonnewinfreyug 6 месяцев назад

      Its great you are not letting societal norms lead you otherwise, keep pushing on and thanks for sharing it here as a man.

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 6 месяцев назад

      Giving up isn't your thing I like the vibe keep thriving

    • @Kshanice25
      @Kshanice25 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, ❤this is real in our society today even for the guys. Be focused on who you are and what you want and don't settle for anything less, it is your life.

    • @estherkwamboka4890
      @estherkwamboka4890 5 месяцев назад

      It's great to hear from men with standards hang on there

  • @sheilawavamunno9372
    @sheilawavamunno9372 7 месяцев назад +18

    "Do not say of marriage what you should be saying of God." 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
    Indeed, only God can fix us. Not marriage. Nor singleness!!
    Thank you very much for this Lisa & Dennis 😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Yess👏🏾👏🏾 that also got me

  • @EmanziYaKamugyene
    @EmanziYaKamugyene 6 месяцев назад +5

    I will keep saying this, intelligent men still exist. Kingdom men are still there

    • @matamabrenda8427
      @matamabrenda8427 6 месяцев назад

      For sure Dennis wowed me I kept thinking pardon did he just think out like this 😊totally loved this episode

  • @samuelkalungi2651
    @samuelkalungi2651 7 месяцев назад +7

    “We must be careful not to say about marriage what we should be saying of God" 💯
    Thanks Lisa and Denis 👏

  • @ayebalabrian625
    @ayebalabrian625 21 день назад +1

    I think Pressure is normal. And at a point we all encounter its remarks. Am 34, single not even thinking of marriage very soon but, you could be talking to a friend and along the way a challenge popes in, when are you marrying. Even mum would set it a challenge.
    But, I have resolved to live my life and be the best that God wants me to be. I know I will marry when time is due.
    Otherz business isn't my business. God is my business and at a right time it shall ☔ ❤ ...
    Thanks

  • @kamimaduka7339
    @kamimaduka7339 7 месяцев назад +5

    The message we didn't even know we needed! So much wisdom for free!!! Guys share this video with your friends you never know, also subscribe if you haven't!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      Yess thank you so much

  • @gloriassali3367
    @gloriassali3367 6 месяцев назад +8

    Lisa, I'd like to hear from over 50+ single people and how they find dating.

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 месяцев назад +10

    Singleness is a gift...the independence it comes with

    • @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio
      @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 7 месяцев назад

      Lol....my sister only when ur in those younger years,when u get oldooooo....chaiiiii...u start thinking imbanou...something is wrong na...
      Lol

  • @carolynebalungi9720
    @carolynebalungi9720 7 месяцев назад +15

    What an intelligent man…God bless you

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Surely👏🏾👏🏾

  • @balambamary10
    @balambamary10 7 месяцев назад +7

    Wisdom, Wisdom, Wisdom! The Fear of The Lord is The beginning of wisdom Indeed!

  • @phoebenaamala4016
    @phoebenaamala4016 7 месяцев назад +7

    Single people are not sick! Put that on a T-shirt💥

    • @SweettoothMarie77
      @SweettoothMarie77 7 месяцев назад +1

      And print many shirts

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Yaaaasss👏🏾👏🏾

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 7 месяцев назад +2

      They are not cursed either. Banaye. The stigma. And if one celebrates their singlehood, they will say it is the devil making them celebrate it. Eih.

  • @blessedray1040
    @blessedray1040 6 месяцев назад +2

    Our beloved Pastor Denis, yes you have nurtured our youths in godly ways and the Lord will surely bless you. Thank you for giving to the Lord

  • @tariromachingauta9294
    @tariromachingauta9294 7 месяцев назад +5

    Wow, such a calibre of man in this generation. Thank you!

  • @brianonganga2636
    @brianonganga2636 7 месяцев назад +7

    This conversation was rich and empowering for a man like me. Hopefully for other men too in the same season. Thank you for the great work, God bless!

  • @oltegasmith846
    @oltegasmith846 6 месяцев назад +2

    Lisa bring back Mr mugume again. Wise words right there.

  • @ankundasheillah6543
    @ankundasheillah6543 7 месяцев назад +3

    "Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound.
    Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume.
    I am so blessed that I listened in

  • @akotclare2133
    @akotclare2133 7 месяцев назад +4

    Full of wisdom. I can listen to him the whole day. I admire his maturity and humility alot. May God continue to bless you more Denis.

  • @ikirizaelizabeth3187
    @ikirizaelizabeth3187 7 месяцев назад +6

    I am where God wants me to be 😊😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Yes yes you are👏🏾👏🏾

  • @connieahebwa4211
    @connieahebwa4211 6 месяцев назад +3

    Academic Rigor in church. We highly need it. Beautiful episode

  • @fortheyoung1320
    @fortheyoung1320 7 месяцев назад +3

    Eeh, the Holy Ghost is doing great things in Uganda. From Apostle Mulinde to the guest on this episode.

  • @tariromachingauta9294
    @tariromachingauta9294 6 месяцев назад +2

    So i just watched this for the third time after listening twice to your discussion with Cerinah and this thing about " my brand of christian person" or my tribe is standing out. I have always felt that yes, within the christian community there is a certain tribe and brand for me and when you say it to some people they look at you weirdly. Thank you for these discussions they are so valuable. When you find your tribe, you thrive!

  • @brendakyokusiima817
    @brendakyokusiima817 7 месяцев назад +4

    At St Francis Chapel makerere...we are blessed with a good intelligent youth pastor

  • @faithbyanjeru6971
    @faithbyanjeru6971 6 месяцев назад +3

    Marriage is a place to serve one another not to consume one another......thank you for sharing pastor Dennis

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 7 месяцев назад +3

    You are where God wants you...thank you Pst.

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 7 месяцев назад +2

    Take the fish out of water nanti it needs " freedom" that was a good one. Which reminds me of a statement that said " the word of God is protection not restriction "

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      That’s so true yet sometimes we think God is limiting us

  • @CuriosityJunction-global
    @CuriosityJunction-global 7 месяцев назад +5

    I love the content and thats how you get a new subscriber from Kenya

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад +2

      Welcome here!💃🏾

  • @Beneth91
    @Beneth91 6 месяцев назад

    Wow! I have always wondered why most young men are single yet God privileged them with power to choose and I was kinda led to think they're avoiding responsibility but this gentleman has really enlightened me and most especially from a Godly mind point of view. Now I know single men could be having all the good reasons. Thanks for the talk Lisa ...for always putting in your resources to help us understand society better.

  • @renembongn.5877
    @renembongn.5877 6 месяцев назад +2

    Wisdom was laid out here. Brilliant insights! Wishing him & hers a fulfilling marriage journey🙏🏾 I feel sometimes the “singles conferences “ in churches is meant for visibility and pairing up, to let potential partners mingle🤷🏽‍♀️(I undercover feel so, just my guess)

  • @AkampuriraDenise-ez2jx
    @AkampuriraDenise-ez2jx 3 месяца назад

    Today is His birthday 1:19 🎈... Happiest birthday Minister Dennis🎉

  • @samuelkalekezi8962
    @samuelkalekezi8962 7 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome conversation all the way around. Christianity is symbolised by the cross which is the death of Christ for our sake and to fulfill the will of God. So we need to embrace the need to die to self if we are going to obey the will and word of God.
    Thanks Lisa for having this gentleman to share with us this lovely wisdom.

  • @1865martha
    @1865martha 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yes, we need to get back to apologetics. I completely agree with Pastor Denis. We need to talk about what we are experiencing in our world. Our Lord did not shy away or fear or worry about difficult topics - He went to the difficult and challenging areas we face trusting that the Father will guide and provide everything we need. And He invites us to bring them to Him. We are safe in Him. Thank you for bringing Pastor Denis.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      You are welcome 🙏🏽

  • @akellogloria7971
    @akellogloria7971 7 месяцев назад +5

    Deep deep conversation here,amazing amazing ,have been so blessed. Thank you Lisa and thank you Mugume for allowing God to use you.God bless you sir.

  • @nakamatte.brenda.blessed
    @nakamatte.brenda.blessed 6 месяцев назад +3

    Episode full of wisdom 🙏🙏

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 7 месяцев назад +2

    The “WOW” factor here is on 💯. So much WISDOM packed in one video👏🏽Pastor Mugume Thank you! The boys you mentor are indeed in good hands 🙌🏾 . Such a huge BLESSING ! & to you Lisa your channel is an absolute inspiration. This is truly your calling. Well done 👍🏽

  • @beth5993
    @beth5993 7 месяцев назад +1

    This guy has spoken my mind. No Addition and subtraction.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      Hahah that’s nice to hear

  • @parlindah
    @parlindah 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, this has blessed me. The more we chase Holiness, the happier we are. Thanks Lisa and Pastor Mugume 🎉🎉

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 6 месяцев назад

    Hi Lisa
    Thank you for such vital and deep discussions from such a mature man; i hope he returns on the channel; would be a good combo with Rinaldi and Rev Muhima...this thing of most men not wanting to go to Church/related activities...the modern dating expectations..eh

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  5 месяцев назад

      He really would ☺️☺️

  • @The_life_garage
    @The_life_garage 7 месяцев назад +3

    Everyone has a Divine schedule this hit differently. Thank you Lisa for this amazing content. Let us see your channel grow to more than 500k subs just like @LNN’s Lyn channel she is Kenyan and holds the same line of thought in terms of content just like you!!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Amen amen let’s get those subs in

  • @rytamwaibale8908
    @rytamwaibale8908 7 месяцев назад +2

    This message has greatly rebuked me. Thank you Lisa for such beautiful conversations

  • @marthanamara4380
    @marthanamara4380 7 месяцев назад +1

    My brother in Christ....Happy to see you here....now let me listen in 😊

  • @estherkwamboka4890
    @estherkwamboka4890 5 месяцев назад

    Great convo, great to know there some real genuine men out there🎉

  • @DamaryAmpaire
    @DamaryAmpaire 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks my own Pastor🎉 come alive mininstry

  • @ayebamos
    @ayebamos 7 месяцев назад +2

    Rich conversation here.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Glad you think so👏🏾

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 месяцев назад +4

    Ehh ehh this guy is a real elder bro😂...
    Thank you Lisa

  • @zindukakids
    @zindukakids 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ñuggets of wisdom flowing here to God be the glory now we know

  • @namugerwajuliet4633
    @namugerwajuliet4633 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow as in wow , Lisa you are such a creative human, i mean how did u think of hosting this guy and he tells how it feels like being a single male cox we have heard enough of female singles 🥰but above everything ,Isaiah 60:22 when time is right I the LORD will make it happen, Isaiah 55:8-9 For my thoughts are nit your thoughts and my ways are not your ways either, declares The LORD🙏

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад +1

      I love learning from all angles 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @IAMTHATIAM2024
      @IAMTHATIAM2024 3 месяца назад

      We have the weddings on 24th August 2024

    • @IAMTHATIAM2024
      @IAMTHATIAM2024 3 месяца назад

      I meant "" they""

  • @marionsenkomago8269
    @marionsenkomago8269 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are where God wants you! Deep conversation..Thankyou!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching

  • @kaganziesther
    @kaganziesther 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Lisa❤
    A big WOW to Pastor Denis❤

  • @annitaatukunda1701
    @annitaatukunda1701 12 дней назад

    Thank you lisa

  • @petermafabi7148
    @petermafabi7148 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is by far the best class I have attended on this channel.
    Thank you

  • @janekabagenyi1969
    @janekabagenyi1969 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Pastor Denis...Soo much wisdom shared here😊

  • @murungiatusasiire9904
    @murungiatusasiire9904 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wooow wow very well preached 🎉

  • @AcklynJamie
    @AcklynJamie 6 месяцев назад

    Very intelligent man

  • @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio
    @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 7 месяцев назад +1

    Ehhhhh....this gentleman...pastor ....chaaiiiii....

  • @jackiewadulo
    @jackiewadulo 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤ this episode!!!

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie4014 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lisa Lisa , just what I needed.
    Girl always filling our souls

  • @kayanjabrianemmanuel5541
    @kayanjabrianemmanuel5541 6 месяцев назад

    You are as much happy as you are holy. Thank you musumba Denis and Lisa

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 месяцев назад +9

    This guy is sooo smart...ehhh ehhh...different mindset what what😂😢

  • @jeremypeterandruda3946
    @jeremypeterandruda3946 7 месяцев назад +1

    Pr.Denis wow, so much wisdom soooooo much and a lot learnt

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 7 месяцев назад

    thank you musumba mugume ,i was proud to learn from your father and you as well as my youth pastor.

  • @AraoVICKYCHRISTINE
    @AraoVICKYCHRISTINE 6 месяцев назад

    Lisa and Denis thanks for your time, it's a blessing to many

  • @mugisharobert6473
    @mugisharobert6473 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is very granular! Rich conversation here 😊

  • @justinenansimbe3341
    @justinenansimbe3341 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks Lisa. This show was so educative.

  • @StevenWaswa
    @StevenWaswa 7 месяцев назад +1

    Awesomely rich🥰 conversation

  • @barbraayesiga2036
    @barbraayesiga2036 7 месяцев назад +1

    eehh wow! I have loved this conversation

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      I really enjoyed it as well

  • @AyebareKagina
    @AyebareKagina 7 месяцев назад +2

    Excellent stuff here, thanks Lisa & Mugume

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 6 месяцев назад

    Youth minister❤

  • @isaacmangeni3573
    @isaacmangeni3573 6 месяцев назад

    Wow wow wow
    Thank you very much

  • @Tuongeemediahub
    @Tuongeemediahub 7 месяцев назад

    Our Youth pastor 🎉🎉🎉

  • @daisyasiimwe3094
    @daisyasiimwe3094 6 месяцев назад

    Well said 👏 👌

  • @ahuriratracy5831
    @ahuriratracy5831 7 месяцев назад

    Auuuh pastor Denis🥰🤗🤗

  • @brendamarunga
    @brendamarunga 7 месяцев назад

    Pastor Denis always with the gems👏

  • @kemitominoreen822
    @kemitominoreen822 7 месяцев назад

    Wow wonderful dialogue. I love you Lisa for what you doing, may God bless you mummie

  • @douglasmartinssemaganda
    @douglasmartinssemaganda 7 месяцев назад +2

    Dennis confronts very pertinent matters in rships,marriage, mindset etc. Let's not pick a leaf and leave the tree😂.

  • @agenofavour1866
    @agenofavour1866 7 месяцев назад

    Pastor Denis 🎉, thanks Lisa for the show ❤

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 6 месяцев назад

    Amazing interview.

  • @faithnakitandwe3614
    @faithnakitandwe3614 6 месяцев назад

    If your driven by your feelings u have no identity ❤@pastor Den

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 7 месяцев назад

    Do something that is not about me. I will definitely purpose to do this at least once a month. Thank you.

  • @dricirusuzan
    @dricirusuzan 7 месяцев назад +2

    Always ask for God's choice of partner for you, because people can really pretend to be whom they are not.

  • @suubilyenina1970
    @suubilyenina1970 7 месяцев назад

    I remember him from Kibuli ss!

  • @NamugayaBabra-o4p
    @NamugayaBabra-o4p 7 месяцев назад +1

    All I can say is wooooooow

  • @preciousakatukunda9869
    @preciousakatukunda9869 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow

  • @namiirojose6824
    @namiirojose6824 4 месяца назад

    Clearly this gentleman is not yet married because his singleself has alot to offer to the church/community

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 6 месяцев назад

    I really miss ST. Francis Chapel.

  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 7 месяцев назад +3

    Somehow wen you break God's rules ,you break yourself.

  • @blessingschaile8076
    @blessingschaile8076 7 месяцев назад +1

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @SsamulaFrancis
    @SsamulaFrancis 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think they should start preaching what can help people to develop instead of preaching these biblical things all the time . Men like to go where they can learn something in terms of development.

  • @estherkkabanda256
    @estherkkabanda256 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @faithbyanjeru6971
    @faithbyanjeru6971 6 месяцев назад

    This time no light bulb moment🙈

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 4 месяца назад

    💗💕💞💓

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 7 месяцев назад

    26:11 Dear, people want prosperity gospel, bufumbo, and things of that nature 😂

  • @user-yz8jj2gu7h
    @user-yz8jj2gu7h 7 месяцев назад +1

    Bro, PLEASE take your time. I was married in my mid 30s to a woman who LIED about everything about herself to me so that I can bring her to a western country where I was living and working professionally. The marriage failed and I NO LONGER TRUST WOMEN!!! This woman destroyed my career, my children, etc.

    • @anitakamagoba8424
      @anitakamagoba8424 7 месяцев назад

      Never give up ,The Lord can still get u ure better half

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry sir about what you e gone through.
      However, Generalizing isn’t the way.
      God is able to

    • @joannamarie9090
      @joannamarie9090 6 месяцев назад

      Ooh sorry dear. But forgive yourself

  • @mwesigwapeter8007
    @mwesigwapeter8007 7 месяцев назад

    hehehe drinking water

  • @vickyjanicekisakye7731
    @vickyjanicekisakye7731 6 месяцев назад

    Play lists😂😂😂

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 4 месяца назад

    🤎💜❤️💙💚💛

  • @ankundasheillah6543
    @ankundasheillah6543 7 месяцев назад

    "Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound.
    Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume.
    I am so blessed that I listened in

  • @euginiaatieno7803
    @euginiaatieno7803 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤