Choosing for Happiness (1950)

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  • @storyteller4991
    @storyteller4991 4 года назад +588

    "If any change is possible it must be changing yourself. You have to take other people as they come or else leave them alone."
    Wise AF.

  • @britpoppansy
    @britpoppansy Год назад +157

    Wait, these people weren't stupid and "old-fashioned". They were practical and wise. Someone just wants us to think they're stupid and backwards. But they're not at all.

    • @Lawh
      @Lawh 10 месяцев назад +3

      It would be nice to take all the good stuff from now and rewind a little.

    • @L0veisl1ght
      @L0veisl1ght 9 месяцев назад +14

      Interesting how they have knowledge of things that are still relevant today... this was made 73 years ago.
      But the knowledge these things teach are true for eternity.

    • @SuAlteza92
      @SuAlteza92 8 месяцев назад +7

      Exactly

    • @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858
      @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858 7 месяцев назад

      What the heck are you talking about ?!
      Who told you people "used to be stupid" ... and you believed them?
      😅

  • @Kathy12Ray
    @Kathy12Ray 4 года назад +356

    "You have to take people as they come or else leave them alone". So true.

    • @rahmadmasnana1599
      @rahmadmasnana1599 11 месяцев назад

      What is that mean

    • @jillsauder8340
      @jillsauder8340 Месяц назад +1

      @@rahmadmasnana1599 It means, don't try to change them. Only they can change themselves. If you can't take them as they are, then the relationship is not meant to be.

  • @touch_of_cobalt
    @touch_of_cobalt 5 лет назад +667

    "You're smarter... almost like a man..." I died.

    • @arinaz318
      @arinaz318 5 лет назад +17

      ooh he gay lol

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 лет назад +2

      Tom Harper haha

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 лет назад +11

      It’s good to think like a man. Trust me.

    • @MeadeSkeltonMusic
      @MeadeSkeltonMusic 5 лет назад +8

      @@arinaz318 he's not homosexual.

    • @kellydecamp3656
      @kellydecamp3656 5 лет назад +22

      The video portrayed him as undesirable so they were definitely discouraging that macho attitude.

  • @DorothyBeaury
    @DorothyBeaury 4 года назад +129

    "You exercise and I watch." LOL

  • @mindyours8343
    @mindyours8343 3 года назад +41

    I liked how everyone just dated and got to know each other if it didn’t wrk no animosity

  • @yootoob1001001
    @yootoob1001001 Год назад +38

    Aside from the guys, I think it's cool that Mary was a good enough friend to Eve to take a risk and have a hard conversation and tell her the truth without making it look like it devalues Eve's worth as a person and tries to help her sort through it.

  • @augustcanyon3438
    @augustcanyon3438 10 месяцев назад +25

    You don't need self-help books, you need to watch these types of films and put their wisdom to action; maybe even read some of the books from that time period. They will make you a better person in no time.

    • @thekatablueprint2189
      @thekatablueprint2189 Месяц назад +1

      Do you or anyone else reading this have any recommendations on reading material from this time period?

  • @RAMizer
    @RAMizer 4 года назад +168

    John's a beast. He's forthright, keeps his word, and knows how to have fun. She expects him to bend the rules for him? Nah. John has morals and ethics. She should have stuck with him!

    • @TouchofShunshine
      @TouchofShunshine 3 года назад +32

      John is a man of his word. He is more likely to stay faithful, work to take care of his family, and etc.

    • @michealwilliams472
      @michealwilliams472 3 года назад +35

      @@TouchofShunshine Right? I'm amused by the idea that she wanted him to break his promise. A lot of people don't realize that if someone will break their promise to others, then they will also break their promise to you.

    • @debbieoconnor5467
      @debbieoconnor5467 3 года назад +13

      John is hot

    • @dawndavisyoga9470
      @dawndavisyoga9470 3 года назад +17

      Is the fact that her name is Eve and she is tempting him with the apple lost here? It's so obvious that they're portraying her as the immoral, hostile woman and he as the mature, upholder of morality. Oh, and the threatening her with physical violence is a great touch. Critical eye, people!

    • @michaelcolfin8464
      @michaelcolfin8464 2 года назад +8

      John's too good for her. He deserves a woman better than Eve.

  • @astudent8885
    @astudent8885 9 месяцев назад +14

    "What were you asking him to do?"
    "Prove that he liked me"
    "That will never satisfy you"
    "Why not?"
    "That's not what you really wanted. You want him to do what you told him to do. That's what you always wanted Eve."

  • @susanlester1
    @susanlester1 5 лет назад +204

    I love this. When sex isn’t in the way you are able to make wise decisions and walk away without “that” in the way.

    • @arlettasloan6453
      @arlettasloan6453 4 года назад +66

      Yeah. I realized a long time ago, and, often voiced the unpopular opinion, that even without religious or health concerns being considered, it is still better to do things the old fashioned way of spending time in group settings as friends, maybe in each other's familial home, and, eventually, in public but otherwise alone, if what you want is a real relationship. Because, throwing sex into the equation too early gives people the false impression of being connected to, accepted by and understanding this person they are spending time with. So much so that they stop really trying and feel betrayed, later, when they find out the person is something other than what they thought they were after only a few dates.

    • @aliciayoung4348
      @aliciayoung4348 4 года назад +16

      susan529 Absolutely! Everything is a Mess Now🙃

    • @56squadron
      @56squadron 4 года назад +26

      @@aliciayoung4348 - Everything is about instant gratification now. It's "me me me" and not a "you" to be found.

    • @chetyoubetya8565
      @chetyoubetya8565 4 года назад +10

      Lol Rubbish do you know how many unwed mothers shelters there were in the US in the 50s??Tons.Trust me they were having just as much sex as they are now.

    • @MaraBradley
      @MaraBradley 4 года назад +17

      @@chetyoubetya8565 no, they weren't. Check your stats

  • @kimberlyturner820
    @kimberlyturner820 Год назад +15

    "you have to take people as they come or else leave them alone." GOLD.

  • @4rfghu89oikjhgre3sdf
    @4rfghu89oikjhgre3sdf 7 лет назад +346

    these videos give me a feeling of relaxation or meditation if i name it right .

    • @Pablo123456x
      @Pablo123456x 7 лет назад +14

      Ikr? They have the same effect on me.

    • @greglawrence1314
      @greglawrence1314 6 лет назад +7

      They're calming?

    • @AdeleCeleste
      @AdeleCeleste 5 лет назад +14

      You are right. I was thinking the same thing. Black and white movies have that same calming effect, I notice.

    • @tailsntrails
      @tailsntrails 5 лет назад +3

      Yes same here!

    • @ananr.2936
      @ananr.2936 4 года назад +2

      Exactly 😊

  • @pennypay1
    @pennypay1 3 года назад +95

    This film is a gem. Possibly the best social guidance-type film I've seen, because not only is it entertaining, but the message is timeless and 100% true. My husband of eleven years loves playing music as much as he loves life itself. I couldn't live without books. We both love cats and collecting. There's a lot of overlap in our 'likes' and values, but a few significant ways in which we're very different. We knew this when we married. Like in this film, we know we'll have to be friends as well as spouses for a very long time!

  • @ericastier1646
    @ericastier1646 2 года назад +59

    How i envy their simpler life when you were not bombarded by digital junk and could have a peaceful time most of your days.

    • @mengoinggodsway9024
      @mengoinggodsway9024 2 года назад +7

      Same, friend, same

    • @naynay1119
      @naynay1119 2 года назад +4

      I agree with you! Man I wish I was born in the 50s..

    • @alexjames1397
      @alexjames1397 Год назад

      Yes and also ww2 had just ended not too long ago. Memories of the war still fresh in lots of people of the time.

    • @frances4797
      @frances4797 11 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly. Nobody takes time for reflecting or deep soul searching anymore. Too much "noise" and digital distraction 🤳

  • @AChickAndADuck
    @AChickAndADuck 4 года назад +264

    Moral of the story: The guy who threatens to spank you is always the correct choice.

    • @amydecker6207
      @amydecker6207 4 года назад +50

      The one who DOES spank you is the right one. 😂😂😂

    • @brianmcdonald9502
      @brianmcdonald9502 4 года назад +14

      @@amydecker6207 Eve is a sadomasochist and likes to get her freak on.🤤

    • @amydecker6207
      @amydecker6207 4 года назад +5

      @@brianmcdonald9502 hahahaha

    • @desireemenken
      @desireemenken 3 года назад +11

      This is the best comment of them all! Hahaha!

    • @seanleith5312
      @seanleith5312 3 года назад +6

      I will keep that in mind next time.

  • @DPO263
    @DPO263 7 лет назад +220

    Steve is my favorite; he has a quiet sexiness about him. And while it's fun to go out and have a good time, it's also nice to stay at home and have a relaxing evening (i.e., listen to music, play board games, etc.)
    The one I have a problem with is Arthur.
    Arthur: "You're different from other girls."
    Eve: "That's what you think."
    Arthur: "You're smarter; you're almost like a man."
    Eve: "Oh no, I'm very much the woman."
    Arthur: "I don't think of you that way at all."
    OUCH!!!

  • @Snnne-df8di
    @Snnne-df8di 11 месяцев назад +8

    I like the last sentence. " We'll have to stay friends for a long long time."❤❤

  • @gloriaanaruma1279
    @gloriaanaruma1279 5 лет назад +103

    These movies are so good to compare the lifestyle we lived with the 1960s. They helped me a lot, that is, these films bring wisdom, reflection and, in a sense, bring me a way to live better. Thank you for posting.

    • @kimnovack2910
      @kimnovack2910 4 года назад +4

      Bro this is when USA was on the up and up

  • @guitarkat5762
    @guitarkat5762 7 месяцев назад +6

    “Those forward passes could be used in two ways.”
    I laughed at this bit of writing. Clever lol

  • @jasminecontreras7341
    @jasminecontreras7341 8 месяцев назад +12

    This is great.. I’ve been binge watching these 1950s educational videos for a month now and this is one of my favorites. I love the part where she says every experience whether pleasant or unpleasant she realizes things and learns about herself. Lots of wisdom in these videos.

  • @charlesyoung9980
    @charlesyoung9980 Год назад +15

    I could've been wearing a little number by Dior, and he wouldn't have noticed. 😁😁😁

  • @nureinherz
    @nureinherz 7 месяцев назад +4

    That's a real good friend, being nice but telling the truth which will help this girl for all her life.

  • @lovecatspiracy
    @lovecatspiracy 5 лет назад +171

    As far as Eve is concerned, it's All About Eve.

    • @ohmeowzer1
      @ohmeowzer1 5 лет назад

      love cat lol true

    • @SandraNevermind
      @SandraNevermind 4 года назад +4

      Ha, well played!

    • @virginiagirl6628
      @virginiagirl6628 4 года назад

      I thought the same!

    • @elliott1017
      @elliott1017 4 года назад +1

      That's actually what most women are like;especially these. Like spoiled children 😁😊😁

    • @Michelle77Va
      @Michelle77Va 4 года назад +1

      The movie

  • @lisathuban5534
    @lisathuban5534 5 лет назад +167

    Why is her thinking voice so different from her speaking voice?

    • @kenbob1071
      @kenbob1071 4 года назад +26

      My thought was: why the hell do these young ladies have voices that sound like 40 year old women.

    • @56squadron
      @56squadron 4 года назад +10

      You know... you never sound the same when they record your voice.... "Is THAT what I sound like?" :^ )

    • @TimeraB
      @TimeraB 4 года назад +3

      It's her friends voice

    • @sisterluke
      @sisterluke 4 года назад +10

      @@kenbob1071 They probably smoked like 2 packs of cigarettes a day...

    • @anorak78
      @anorak78 4 года назад +4

      @@kenbob1071 All those Pall Mall smoke breaks between takes.

  • @gregoryagogo
    @gregoryagogo 5 лет назад +102

    She's got more of a friggin social life than I do!

    • @tomservo5007
      @tomservo5007 4 года назад +1

      she's dead now

    • @janeadelaidelennox7193
      @janeadelaidelennox7193 4 года назад +5

      Tom Servo my great granddad was older than her in the 50s and he’s still alive. Still has a social life too.

    • @aprilmoore2917
      @aprilmoore2917 4 года назад +2

      Ikr? Drives, nature walks, biking, lolling in the sun...I can't IMAGINE having such a schedule!

    • @kelvinsurname7051
      @kelvinsurname7051 Год назад

      ​@@janeadelaidelennox7193 is he still alive God bless him!

  • @TheRehabKat
    @TheRehabKat 4 года назад +22

    This one is one of my more favorite. None of them compromise their selves wholy just to find a mate or to be in love. They all see a beauty in each other nonetheless and come to terms that everyone is made different and still deserving of love.

  • @DoggmaticProductions
    @DoggmaticProductions 2 года назад +18

    Wow the opening advice is literally the best life advice I've heard. And it's essential and yet not said enough. Plus they highlight different personalities and attitudes.

  • @stephaniemartinez710
    @stephaniemartinez710 3 года назад +18

    I love this video, it helped me think about what kind of a man is for me. They don't have this today, that's why there are too many conflicts between couples.

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +4

      One problem I've noticed nowadays is that there seem to be a lot of people who would rather settle for less than be alone. Really, I think it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. Many people have lowered their standards due to the fear of being lonely.

  • @happydays1336
    @happydays1336 5 лет назад +80

    I think we've all known someone like Eve--self-involved and bossy!

    • @lazyhomebody1356
      @lazyhomebody1356 4 года назад +5

      I was experiencing deju vu!

    • @jillwestenborg4259
      @jillwestenborg4259 3 года назад +3

      probably her insecurity in the end

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +2

      Yup, I'm sure almost everyone has dealt with an Eve at some point in there life.

  • @sarahdragons861
    @sarahdragons861 4 года назад +102

    "You're different from other girls. You're smarter...Almost like a man!"
    Me: Is that supposed to be some kind of compliment?! 😂😂😂

    • @seanleith5312
      @seanleith5312 3 года назад +5

      A woman with woman's beauty and man's intelligent, not bad at all. I know feminists don't like it, the top 10 best performers in math in the class are always boys, that's what my girl friend said.

    • @sarahdragons861
      @sarahdragons861 3 года назад +22

      @@seanleith5312 My point was no woman likes to be told that they are a man. I’m not sure there’s a lot of truth in that statement that “The top 10 best are always boys.” I’m a girl and I’m the best in my class.

    • @Kitsune-dono
      @Kitsune-dono 2 года назад +10

      @@sarahdragons861 You tell him girlfriend, the fact that some feminists can be assholes doesn't mean that sexism is right.

  • @prepostmodern1032
    @prepostmodern1032 Год назад +10

    The world had more common sense then. They had more reasonable expectations and fewer high demands. Today many think they have a duty to change others. Maybe they need to leave other people alone if they are not hurting others !!!

  • @48mavemiss2
    @48mavemiss2 5 лет назад +145

    “...Someone aught to take you across their knee and give you a good spanking.” Such a mood. That guy was definitely for her lol

    • @RonPaulOrElse
      @RonPaulOrElse 4 года назад +11

      @@baronsorgi1 That's exactly what spoiled girls like her need...and like.

    • @PutDownTheBunny
      @PutDownTheBunny 4 года назад +5

      My wife likes when I playfully spank her during ***

    • @aprilmoore2917
      @aprilmoore2917 4 года назад +6

      She told him to do it...I wonder if he did, eventually...

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db Год назад +2

      "Maybe you're the one to do it" 👀

  • @writeract2
    @writeract2 6 лет назад +43

    I like John - he had character and strength 2 very important attributes in a man.

    • @Scampergirl
      @Scampergirl 3 года назад +3

      He has that quiet dignity...like Gregory Peck. I would choose John.

    • @writeract2
      @writeract2 3 года назад

      @@Scampergirl Absolutely - good taste!

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +4

      Plus, he wasn't a pushover and didn't take crap. Not all people seem to realize that being a pushover isn't actually the same thing as being nice.

    • @writeract2
      @writeract2 2 года назад +1

      @@lunamoth7044 Yup.

  • @panashejoy7071
    @panashejoy7071 2 года назад +10

    Its so encouraging to watch this and realise that I’ve been on the same path of thought and growth. Been single for nearly 2 years now for the sake of personal improvement, and the changes in me are impeccable

  • @bellamymalleb
    @bellamymalleb 3 года назад +6

    When it comes to Eve's telling of the stories, it shows a person's perception is their reality.

  • @StrawberryNinjaNibbles
    @StrawberryNinjaNibbles 3 года назад +5

    Her voice is lovely

  • @lw1343
    @lw1343 5 лет назад +42

    The science guy grew up to be founder of microsoft......oh well.

    • @angelavolkov1126
      @angelavolkov1126 11 месяцев назад

      A bore is a bore, but feel free to date him :)

  • @arlettasloan6453
    @arlettasloan6453 4 года назад +20

    I really, really like this little film. I love John. Kind of like the boat builder and math boy. But, no matter how many times I watch it, I will never understand how the football player's new girl is considered to be not as attractive as Eve. To me, she looks about 1000 percent prettier.

  • @shabbatbeliever
    @shabbatbeliever 5 лет назад +47

    I like John he was very good looking and very manly.

    • @arlettasloan6453
      @arlettasloan6453 4 года назад +3

      Yes! I just shared this with my sister as an explanation of what I meant by saying i liked men that are strong. John is confident. He's not bossy or domineering, but, he is dominant.

    • @PutDownTheBunny
      @PutDownTheBunny 4 года назад +3

      @@arlettasloan6453 Woman like to be dominated in a good way by a man they are romantically involved with, this I have learned. I'm a man btw

  • @miawallace2216
    @miawallace2216 5 лет назад +21

    I feel like we’ve all had a friend like eve... lol

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +1

      I was thinking the same thing. 😂😂

  • @TheGGViking
    @TheGGViking 3 года назад +24

    "Like Steve, I find it relaxing to keep away from groups sometimes and work out my troubles with my hands."
    *Raises eyebrow*

  • @annemariekaren7826
    @annemariekaren7826 3 месяца назад

    7:24 “…and work out my troubles with my hands” GOLD

  • @thehapagirl92
    @thehapagirl92 4 года назад +13

    Oh god where has this video been all my life?! I needed this video so much. I'm so much like Eve ugh

    • @elizabethowens8548
      @elizabethowens8548 4 года назад +4

      I think alot of women have these qualities just as some men have shadow sides. It's about being honest and looking at areas that need to adjust." Take people as they come or leave them alone" there's a heart mate who intergrates with our light and shadow. This is really deeper than alot of these comments imply

    • @michealwilliams472
      @michealwilliams472 3 года назад +3

      I was genuinely surprised how good the advice was in this video. The writer was a woman, so that probably had something to do with it.

  • @Michelle77Va
    @Michelle77Va 5 лет назад +11

    Im an addict! Of these videos! Lol

  • @lyndacarter5090
    @lyndacarter5090 Год назад +3

    Oh, my, if I’d only seen this as a young teen! I’m so sure I’d have picked just the right one 😢

  • @gregoryagogo
    @gregoryagogo 5 лет назад +15

    9:20, he's a dreamy-dreamboat!

  • @amandatijerina601
    @amandatijerina601 4 года назад +12

    Steve made a boat pretty damn quickly! LOL

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +1

      That's some master boatbuilding if I've ever seen it😂😂

  • @nurseypants5790
    @nurseypants5790 3 года назад +8

    I’ve been watching these for 3 hours. Please send help

  • @aruvielevenstar3944
    @aruvielevenstar3944 4 года назад +19

    I am surprised these video’s from the early 50 s are so psychologically and wise.

    • @carriemindplsable
      @carriemindplsable 3 года назад +11

      We have been lied to about this time and these people. They were so much better, nicer, cooler than we were allowed to know.

  • @ohmeowzer1
    @ohmeowzer1 3 месяца назад +1

    Loved this Ty ❤

  • @Eiramilah
    @Eiramilah 3 года назад +20

    He could have told her in advance that he needed to bring back the car before 6

  • @pmolqrcd3370
    @pmolqrcd3370 4 года назад +6

    She is just like Scarlett Ohara from gone with the wind

  • @ladyreverie7027
    @ladyreverie7027 3 года назад +8

    Steve was my favourite in this one. Boat building is fun!

    • @mikezylstra7514
      @mikezylstra7514 2 года назад +2

      He has OCD. He was sanding that same spot for weeks.

  • @tauriandeveaux4457
    @tauriandeveaux4457 Год назад +1

    Great piece

  • @rontweedie9410
    @rontweedie9410 4 года назад +7

    "Move over boss"
    LOL

  • @gloriaanaruma1279
    @gloriaanaruma1279 5 лет назад +3

    Eu assisto todos os dias um ou mais postagens destas, são ótimas. Muito agradecida pela postagem

  • @aliciayoung4348
    @aliciayoung4348 4 года назад +2

    Very Sound and Sensible Advice.🙂

  • @deadmallmusic
    @deadmallmusic 5 лет назад +80

    Eve needs to chill.

  • @melissaowen99
    @melissaowen99 6 лет назад +50

    Unfortunately, Eve reminds me of myself.

    • @Kiskin-.-
      @Kiskin-.- 5 лет назад +14

      Melissa Owen Then you don’t wanna read the comments about her..

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 лет назад

      Kiskin 😆

    • @arlettasloan6453
      @arlettasloan6453 4 года назад +10

      @Sweet Pea Co If she represents MOST women, I am beginning to understand MGTOW more and more. I am not anything like that bossy little freak of a girl. Demanding that a man betray his friendship, being completely ungrateful toward the other man who loaned her the car. Nope! She's a creep. She needs to see she's a creep and fix her creepy little ways, because, she sure didn't like it when football boy was treating her anything like the way she treats others.

    • @raymonddodd9048
      @raymonddodd9048 4 года назад +1

      Eve would be considered high maintenance in today's world.

    • @Barbe
      @Barbe 4 года назад

      @Sweet Pea Co She's a twatnugget.

  • @sodality3970
    @sodality3970 4 года назад +2

    Wow..those outfits !!

  • @patriciahowellcassity767
    @patriciahowellcassity767 5 лет назад +9

    Still so true.

  • @anthonycannatajr9482
    @anthonycannatajr9482 5 лет назад +22

    John was hot!

    • @Barbe
      @Barbe 4 года назад

      Steve too.

  • @Chris.Treborn
    @Chris.Treborn 8 месяцев назад

    This sure is a wonderful picture show.

  • @Uruk02
    @Uruk02 3 года назад +6

    When people had manners

  • @nickmad887
    @nickmad887 6 лет назад

    thank you

  • @Choclatcotton
    @Choclatcotton 4 года назад +1

    jon is my favorite

  • @kaleighsue8463
    @kaleighsue8463 4 года назад +2

    That ending was really sweet

  • @leesway
    @leesway 5 лет назад +37

    Where can i find a friend to go horseback riding with?

    • @ginalentil3557
      @ginalentil3557 4 года назад +9

      The real question is where do I find a horse to ride on

    • @skyhigh1844
      @skyhigh1844 4 года назад +1

      @@ginalentil3557 dont know about a horse but i got something u could ride ^_^

    • @ginalentil3557
      @ginalentil3557 4 года назад +13

      @@skyhigh1844 Thanks for the offer but I wanted a horse, not 'my little pony'

    • @lazyhomebody1356
      @lazyhomebody1356 4 года назад +1

      @@ginalentil3557 Bravo, Gina!

    • @PutDownTheBunny
      @PutDownTheBunny 4 года назад

      @@ginalentil3557 Would a tall Clydesdale be something you'd like? Mine is ready to come out of the stable.

  • @karaamundson3964
    @karaamundson3964 4 года назад +3

    Wise friends are the fine friends

    • @syednasir4800
      @syednasir4800 4 года назад

      U r exactly right, respect u from Pakistan,

  • @RamSkirata
    @RamSkirata 2 года назад +1

    Theres a lot of wisdom in this one...

  • @no_peace
    @no_peace 5 лет назад +14

    Helloooooooo Johhhhnnnnn

  • @RandolfPatton
    @RandolfPatton 5 лет назад +29

    Funny how some people are freaking out about the "spanking"comment yet 50 Shades of Gray is the biggest selling novel in history among women. But then failure to recognize irony and lack of self-awareness often go together.

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 лет назад +6

      gandy74 exactly! These are Snowflakes

    • @arlettasloan6453
      @arlettasloan6453 4 года назад +7

      There are also several persons commenting that they want a man like John.
      However - and, I only know this from the little bit of reading I did on sites about how bad the writing is - that twit in 50 Shades of Gray is actually nothing like John.
      He's weak manipulative, constantly thinking about and fawning over the woman and willing to go to great lengths to prove she is desirable. He is a pretense at strength, but, really, a slave to the woman. So, many selfish women do not like John, whom they see as a threat, but, they like that other dink, because, he is a fun pet who will make a fuss over them.
      I knew men who were like John, some into BDSM and some not, and, women were always telling me that they were abusive. Yet, I was never abused by them. Because, what the women really meant is that these guys would not let them get away with whatever they wanted without consequences. They would be generous, but, not to the point of ridiculousness. And, they were the sort that if a woman tried to make them jealous, they'd let her leave and never look back.
      It's like with Sean Connery stating that sometimes a woman needs to be slapped and defining the circumstances. Which is if she is given the last word and she won't take it, repeatedly. And, he was talking about a little slap, to restore her to her senses, not brutality. Same as you would do if someone was in shock or getting hysterical.
      Women told me he was abusive. I told them his wife doesn't seem to think so. They told me if I was with a man like that, I'd see and realize how bad he is, the first time we got in an argument. And, I was like, "No. Because, I prefer not to argue and when there is a disagreement, I want to solve it, not get the last word in. So, he's never going to be slapping me. He's going to be slapping you! Therefore, the problem isn't him and it isn't me, it's you."
      Then, they got mad when I walked out on them for refusing to listen and think. And, I didn't even slap them!

    • @kenbob1071
      @kenbob1071 4 года назад

      Who's freaking out about the "spanking" comment?

    • @karaamundson3964
      @karaamundson3964 4 года назад +3

      50 Shades sucks peanuts out of its own shit

    • @lazyhomebody1356
      @lazyhomebody1356 4 года назад

      @@arlettasloan6453 Good, because nowadays, you'd wind up in jail!

  • @desireemenken
    @desireemenken 3 года назад +6

    Me when Eve talk about most of the guys: Yeah..I can see why she thinks the way she does with that guy.
    Me when Eve talks about John: ....Well if you don't want him....*pushes Eve to the side*...Helllllllooooo John!

  • @victoriagiro737
    @victoriagiro737 5 лет назад +5

    John please....

  • @kenbob1071
    @kenbob1071 4 года назад +9

    Eve and Mary make a great couple.

  • @NoelleCanty
    @NoelleCanty 4 месяца назад

    "Every morning I exercise for 10 minutes." !!!

  • @joeldecoster8816
    @joeldecoster8816 4 года назад +5

    why isnt this taught in schools today?

  • @floraf01
    @floraf01 3 года назад +29

    "You are not like the other girls. You're smarter... almost like a man."
    I'm so glad that more women nowadays notice the malice behind this sentence.

    • @franksanchez8111
      @franksanchez8111 2 года назад +5

      And most man, we also know how fucked up that quote is.

    • @somewhereinspace2166
      @somewhereinspace2166 6 месяцев назад

      Regardless of the sexism behind the statement, it's so strange to say either way. Why would a straight dude compliment their girlfriend by saying she's like a man? I think Eve was justified saying that he was a bit weird.

    • @zvezdoblyat
      @zvezdoblyat 27 дней назад

      ​@@somewhereinspace2166 right, like dude, if you like men, just say that lol

  • @jb6712
    @jb6712 3 года назад +5

    By today's standards, "Eve" was narcissistic....nobody was 'good enough" for her, and nobody did what she wanted them to do, and it's just not possible to have a good relationship when narcissism is in the room.

    • @lunamoth7044
      @lunamoth7044 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, I was thinking that as well. She definitely comes off a pretty narcissistic to me.

    • @norton2
      @norton2 2 года назад +1

      I realized that very early on in the story, when Eve ordered for her cousin and practically told her to go on a diet the next day.

  • @tailsntrails
    @tailsntrails 5 лет назад +7

    Spinsters Unite!

  • @Michelle77Va
    @Michelle77Va 4 года назад +4

    Its All About Eve!!!

  • @darlingdarylann3453
    @darlingdarylann3453 2 года назад +2

    Arthur was “diffrent” all right.

  • @amychoulat834
    @amychoulat834 4 года назад

    Wow

  • @jaminova_1969
    @jaminova_1969 3 года назад +3

    Eve strikes me as "high maintenance!"

  • @Alpen_liber
    @Alpen_liber 4 месяца назад

    The man challenged the girl, complimenting her that she was as smart as a man, in order to compete with her. And the girl at that time refused to participate in the rivalry, leaving and never meeting that person again.
    ☝️He made a judgement according to his own abilities that only a man could be smart, while he devalued her “feminine” mental abilities by giving her such a statement.
    She is a smart girl!

  • @lizlee6290
    @lizlee6290 2 года назад

    Somebody please figure out the actress who plays Eve! I swear she used to be on one of the soaps (many years later of course.) I can't figure out who she is!!

  • @arlettasloan6453
    @arlettasloan6453 5 лет назад +9

    It's a good idea to change yourself first, if there has to be a change! Frank learned that in Junior Prom. Will Joe, from The Dropout?
    Was I too hard on Kay and her date-monging ways? Mmmm .. no. She wasn't changing herself. She was pretending to. Kay is still a nut job. But, I hope Frank befriends Joe, maybe they triple date with Jeff's brother (forgot his name) and a lesson will be learned by all.

  • @WondrousEarth
    @WondrousEarth 5 лет назад +23

    Fast forward to 2019, the two women realize that they enjoy each others company more than they do any man ... perfect couple!

    • @Hellooo134
      @Hellooo134 5 лет назад +5

      My immediate thought Tbh. Like yeah maybe there's a reason theyre not satisfied with the men around them

    • @WondrousEarth
      @WondrousEarth 5 лет назад +1

      @@Hellooo134 Definitely a possibility ☺

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 лет назад +1

      John Muir 😆 oh man this is great commen t

    • @WondrousEarth
      @WondrousEarth 5 лет назад

      @@oliveb6318 Thanks Bee B ☺

    • @56squadron
      @56squadron 4 года назад +16

      No... fast forward to 2019 and someone like you thinks because men have more in common with men and women more in common with women, that should make us all queer. Your comment is the poster boy of why and how these times are so screwed up.

  • @writeract2
    @writeract2 5 лет назад +17

    Society today - irrecognizable from this video.

    • @andrewgoodbody2121
      @andrewgoodbody2121 5 лет назад +7

      writeract2 La Principessa Anne missing all the repression eh? 😅

    • @robinlehnerd1475
      @robinlehnerd1475 5 лет назад +8

      They were not more repressed.
      It was just different.
      Now women repress the things they used to express, and vice versa.

    • @ingloriousbetch4302
      @ingloriousbetch4302 4 года назад +1

      @@robinlehnerd1475 why don't you take the word of women who actually loved in that time, instead of your opinion. Women couldn't even have a credit card or bank without their husband's permission. Sure, they tooootally weren't repressed at all.

    • @robinlehnerd1475
      @robinlehnerd1475 4 года назад +4

      @@ingloriousbetch4302 Be clear about what I said.
      "They were not more repressed",
      I never said they were not repressed at all.
      But women are just as repressed now about different things.

    • @writeract2
      @writeract2 3 года назад +3

      @@robinlehnerd1475 Amen - far far more downtrodden, raped of themselves and doing infintely more with most women having VERY LITTLE GLAMOUR OR FEMININITY TO BOOT in their lives.

  • @wyattsmithee4332
    @wyattsmithee4332 3 года назад +5

    why is this lifestyle called bad its amazing

  • @jn1mrgn
    @jn1mrgn 4 года назад +1

    I shudder to think what a "course in family relations" would involve today.....

  • @MauraAnastasia
    @MauraAnastasia 3 года назад +7

    Eve and the narrator should have gotten together - by their riding date that was my impression. ❤

  • @Mintmakeup
    @Mintmakeup 5 лет назад +15

    You are so smart... almost like a man, not I am VERY MUCH A WOMAN.... ah

  • @jpatherton2415
    @jpatherton2415 3 года назад

    Can't even tell who the sponsor is of this one

  • @monkeynumbernine
    @monkeynumbernine 4 года назад

    A Whole Spring Term!
    *WOW* !!!
    🙄🙊😬

  • @CountrySteve2
    @CountrySteve2 2 года назад +3

    No wonder that trope of the "football player/star" who relived his former glory days existed. Once upon a time, "the football player" in high school and college was treated like a special celebrity. Not bc they were hoping to get drafted professionally...I still do not understand why tv shows/movies acted like they were the ones everyone wanted to date. 🐢🐢🐢Cara

  • @mkm44
    @mkm44 Год назад +3

    At 4:38 when he says, you’re almost like a man, I almost spit my coffee out.😂😂😂🙈🙈

  • @kaseymorist8991
    @kaseymorist8991 5 лет назад +24

    He sounds like the best of all, the one who threatens to abuse you.

    • @robinlehnerd1475
      @robinlehnerd1475 5 лет назад +5

      Did you get spanked growing up?

    • @brianmcdonald9502
      @brianmcdonald9502 4 года назад +1

      @@robinlehnerd1475 She wanted a good spanking to get aroused the kinky bitch.😉

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity1985 4 года назад +1

    She came out last year, she's happy now.

    • @Michelle77Va
      @Michelle77Va 4 года назад

      How do you know?

    • @KidCity1985
      @KidCity1985 4 года назад

      @@Michelle77Va I'm 60, I know everything. Kinda like 13, but with more experience.

    • @Barbe
      @Barbe 4 года назад

      @@KidCity1985 Okay, Boomer.