So much psychobabble waffle on youtube at the moment. I'm sorry, but a woman with that much work done talking about being authentic is impossible to listen to.
She is somewhat right and somewhat wrong. The psych guru types are always so certain of their reasoning. And coming from Dubai can further skew your perspective, the world is vast and so are cultures and values. Just a more positive version of a Tate type female
Ok I was liking the conversation but I had to stop listening after two points that almost came back-to-back. First, there was a somewhat subtle way she tried to make it seem like women have no biological clock and their opportunities are endless because they have an Instagram account is nonsense at best and dangerous at worst. Then on the OnlyFans she basically says yeah the men are really bad and the women get a pass because she gets a "perk" and she can "change her life." Almost as if she is absolving women of accountability. While she makes some salient points her bias is quite obvious and skews the conversation.
I don’t agree at all with her, saying, a businessman needs a business woman who is intellectual to have common conversations. I think when a man comes home from a hard day of work, he does not care to talk to her about his business and work and he also doesn’t care to hear about how Karen from the office was getting on her nerves today he doesn’t care about her day like that. He wants to come home to peace, quiet, relaxing, femininity, and a nice cooked meal not sharing stories about their day at work when he comes home he’s done with work. He doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore. He wants to relax. Also saying that women who stay home are not intellectual, I highly disagree with that. women that decided to stay home and raise their children doesn’t mean they’re not intellectual and can’t have intelligent conversations.
So he doesnt need other person at all, he can be at peace on his own and order takeaway as warm meal. No human being should be treated like a maid or househelp in relationship where hers day or thoughts or expierience doesnt matter at all and she is waiting like a dog for her housband to get little pat at the back and then sit silently in the corner. Tou would really treat your partner like that? Of course you need someone who match you intelectually and has her own life going on. The most lonely and unhappy women are those in marriages where they are treated like halfhumans, only to take care of child and kitchen. It was like that in the 1950 and the level of alcoholism among them were crazy!!
I don’t think she is referring to conversations about Karen from the office. She means that the person needs to at least be a good conversation partner for you. What is the point of coming home to someone everyday whom you can’t even talk to? The growth of your connection is going to plateau.
I'm a female entrepreneur (i have my own consultancy company) and I work daily with male CEOs that are scaling their companies. And she is 100% right. In their younger years they want a loving, caring "mother" for their kids (and themselves). But I see time and time again that these men feel like they cannot fully be themselves and cannot express themselves with a partner who does not understand their challenges (and can be empathic about it) and where they have a sounding board for the emotional side of the job. Leading to quite a lot of divorces in their 40s. Also a woman who is truly intellectual (IQ over 130) won't be a stay-at-home mom. It would drive her crazy.
I disagree with her on the onlyfans part. Women may be millionaires but the cost of being a mom and having your children see you porn is a curse I would not want to have.
She has a slight bias towards the modern whore ie onlyfans etc. The hell with emotional damage because they getting a bag?! They will never live that shit down. They lose. Shame on you you low key feminist
Yes, men crave emotional intimacy but most women don’t want most men. Women have been conditioned by social media and dating apps, as you stated. An average man is contemptible when there are millionaires hunks out there. To make matters worse when one of these dream guys sleep with them they feel there’s a chance maybe they can BE with them. It hardly ever happens. Time and time again women choose solitude over being with an average man even if they’re an average woman.
That's not true. I know plenty of "average" couples. Social media usually highlights the above average people. Most people are too busy living life to post so much on social media(I'm one of those people!). Average is also subjective. Some say Beyonce looks average. Go figure.
CEOs don't have to understand emotions? What planet are you living on? How are you supposed to negotiate without some form of emotional intelligence? This woman's value is highly skewed by her appearance. She states a lot of things as fact which are highly questionable and unquantified. She is basically making general observations and being held in high regard because she is a qualified psychologist. If you look at Jordan Peterson, he supports most of his arguments with clinically researched facts. This woman is cherry-picking trends, which is ABSOLUTELY FINE, as you long as you understand that this is the case and that it is not supported with any evidence.
"If you look at Jordan Peterson, he supports most of his arguments with clinically researched facts." ahahahahahahx10000 you are completely wrong about that he is a fraud who is being debunked multiple times! go educate yourself.
Ascribing men as babies doesn't seem very useful or accurate. Babies dont construct societies or lead men into war, I think it would be more fair to say emotionally weak or immature/stunted, which men on average are. Or most, arguably.
When you listen to her, she's essentially selling the same zero-sum principles to men by which no solution is possible because it communicates to the slave on the metaphorical plantation that the slave can solve his problems by just working harder to be a better slave. (Not that the plantation system is the real problem, since she's the direct beneficiary of the plantation model. It's like listening to a person who doesn't consider all the doors society in terms of relationships, human access to intimacy, human empathy or value towards men are locked by those like her who won the physical genetic lottery, then blaming those men who don't sacrifice themselves charging symbolic windmills over decades learning to be expert wealthy lockpicks. Sadia Khan is just another relationship guru running the familiar horse and carrot con.
A girl working onlyfans has nothing to gain but money if that’s your end goal that’s cool that’s fine do you but understand no man with self esteem and a righteous moral standard is going to want anything to do with you
1:07:25 The women who accept cheating husband tend to be emotionally detached from their husband. They are likely to *expect their husbands to betray them*. Because they know they are an option, and there is competing interest outside for the same resource, so they can not truly rely 100% on the husband’s loyalty. This resolves them to seek *stable* resources elsewhere.
This is so true, I didn't start off that way with my (now ex) husband but if you don't leave when they cheat you have to force yourself to emotionally detach to survive. By the time it ended (several affairs later) I was so indifferent to him that I honestly wouldn't have cared if he lived or died except for the fact that I would have felt sorry for the kids.
Wow this really gave my faith in humanity. The fact that there are people out there like these podcasters trying to ask difficult questions to build self awareness for improvement in relationships. I’m a very loyal , nurturing woman , and I started to worry that masculine men are going out of style and don’t need women like me anymore. This podcast gave me faith that if these conversations are happening, and you are getting clicks on these conversations; then there are most likely still people out there who are willing to work on their relationships. Gives me faith ❤
So she advocates lying to a child, telling them their dad asks about them and sends them Christmas cards when they don't? Then when the child asks why he does these things but doesn't call or visit, the mom has to make up more lies. Absolutely not! I agree that a mother shouldn't bad mouth the father to their children, but lying to them crosses the line and I completely understand why she deservedly gets backlash for this point of view.
Love seeing all the podcasts Sadia is in. She speaks my mind without me being able to saying it that way. She has amazing skills in talking and conveying very detailed her message, I don’t know who doesn’t get what she says, but kuddo’s to you beautiful one 💜
An Onlyfans girl 👧 will NEVER have self esteem attached to what she did. She may think she does, but in the end it will be regret. Selling your body will always be demeaning and self destructive.
I knew a woman who was a webcam model/chat girl. She used to date musicians and celebrities. She did some stripping for 20 years. When I met her she was chronically ill and trying to get a boy toy😑. She found out how to use filters for webcam modeling. She's also using a filter on Instagram. She was constantly being evicted, couldn't keep a steady relationship and spent thousands on cosmetic surgeries. I met her when I was working retail. She told me I was pretty and could make more money. I was young and thought she was helping me😢. I'm glad we became "friends" and she told me what she really had going on. I left the friendship. I never got into that "game".
It is unfortunately true for countless men now days in regards to video games and porn. It is rare not to meet someone who doesn't spend 3+ hours a day gaming, and also then those same men have no experience with women, but want to be married. It is a harsh reality, but we can't have everything in life. Things take sacrifice to achieve. If you as a man want to get married, then you cannot be playing 3-8 hours a day after work or even on all of your days off. You gain nothing from it. I am not demonizing video games, I might add, but rather the excess so many men are indulging in when they really haven't done anything to earn even a fraction of the time they spend looking at the screen. Working a minimum wage job (or not much better) for 5+ years with no direction in life? The last thin anyone should be doing is increasing leisure time during your most energetic years. Then the issue with porn, which is far worse. It isn't just porn either, excessive masturbation is not good for lifestyle. Sex drive is what always kept men improving, and when you temper that every single day (many guys masturbate more than once a day), then you are robbing yourself of easy motivation to gain skills and work harder.
@@TollinNirolf Here is my problem with a lot of what you said and how I feel about this split in society right now. First off, I will tell you that I believe a man is the head of a household in marriage, and that a wife should submit to her husband as an authority in the relationship. Men in general are tasked with the role of leader and with that power comes a lot more responsibility than women have. With that said, men also have a far more logical mind. Women simply do not have the same capacity for logical thought. With those things in mind, the reality is that women will never change on their own and have always and will always be tied to how men are living their lives, leading (or lack there of) and in regards to more western cultures... voting. I don't look at women and curse their existences for their twisted minds right now. I am disappointed that many generations of men (as far back as baby boomers) have chosen the feminist way of life to varying degrees and have allowed women to take control. This control was not taken by force. It was taken by men becoming too accepting of easy sex post WW2 with the sexual revolution, and instead of standing on principle and keeping premarital sex as taboo, men ever since have chosen sex over a morally upstanding life. In short. Men are to blame from the very beginning. Women were always chaotic, but when men fell, so did women as the followers.
For her to say that you had to have money back in the day to have sex is just simply not true. Good looking in shape guys have always been able to have short term relationships
Wow, she’s funny, down to earth, intelligent, approachable, articulate, honest, sweet, wise, graceful, warm and absolutely gorgeous! None of these instagram models have anything on her. That’s the role model we need!
I second that. Also, she does not project masculine energy, like most women nowadays and seeing that..its really rare and beautiful. Perhaps she could set up a podcast to teach women how to be confident and feminine..
Yes these are the old and current rules of the game yet men are getting sick and tired of it so probably not much longer will they be working harder than women! You should focus on that so then maybe some women can get a clue what is coming. This is coming from someone who is successful in business and with women, but who now requires women to bring more to the table than a vagina and wants.
34:00 the offers for a relatively good looking 35 year old single woman are endless nowadays. yes, but only for hookups. If she has had problems in the past securing long term relationships, men will know, and they'll just "pump and dump" to put it bluntly.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die. sober up. female suicide up 50 percent twice the number of women on mental health medication then men. sober up
No, no she is Not an inspiration at all. She is wrong on different levels. I learn Nothing from her views. Specifically men who are very much alone can always pay for sex without the nuances of a relationship. She does not deal with this specific issue.
*Only fans* - Totally disagree with the comment from Sadia when she said; "at least she's getting something out of it ... paying off her parent house etc" I've (unfortunately) been involved with, and have seen the sex industry for over 40 years, and I've seen 100's of women come and go. I've never seen any of them become financially stable. Sex workers, money is a quick burn because they think they can make it back with the next client. What actually happens, is the money disappears twice as quick. A few years ago, I left that world behind (as much as I could), got into the stock market. 2022 I bought a KingAir 350 cash, and this year I'm buying into a fractal share in an Embraer. There is no sex worker in earth, not Alice Little, Nina Hartley or Jenna Jameson, with whom I would want to swap bank accounts with! Sex work, is a road to nowhere!
I understand the topics in this interview. I cannot endure a woman who I deem as unintelligent and therefore I cannot find them attractive enough to pursue. Intellectual compatibility is vital.
You can filter those out usually by their reaction to humor. One who laughs with your jokes (stupid as they might be - or not) you have a match and the opposite.
i have the same problem with men. FLAT FLAT FLAT. its A. annoying B. irrotating C I get bored within 2 weeks -- I ask myself a same question "did you sleep through hs / university?" (not you personally but you got a point). Tell me something like HEY Let's go to the Getty museum or LACMA or Hungtington library.
I absolutely adore her. She completely resonates with me. Sadia please if you haven't already, I urge you to start your own RUclips channel. Countless individuals should have the opportunity to listen to your valuable insights!
She speaks sense, but she should see a therapist to work out why she needs BOTOX even though she's naturally beautiful. I wouldn't feel comfortable taking advice from someone who is supposed to be helping others with emotional issues when they themselves turn to chemicals to deal with their own insecurities
How do you know she's had Botox. Also even if she's had Botox it's still very evident she's a smart woman who knows what she's talking about. It's a shame isn't it so smart and also so beautiful it's really something to be jealous of isn't it. Oh well good luck to the sister may God keep blessing her. And may God bless you too.
@@kendallkendall825 That is a red flag, using such techniques to enhance her beauty is a sign that she also has internal issues that needs looking at, if you have a therapist, you want them to live what they preach, would you visit a dentist who has crooked teeth ?
I think your one of the few voice on social media that values human reasoning and empirical evidence unbiased as opposed to the clout chasing of most voice on social media claiming to give men and women ‘advice’ that is nothing more than extorting people for views in order to boast their social media likes and bank balance. But of course your more rigorous and of a greater analytical depth than the others because you have the academic training to contextualise the subject matter as opposed to been an internet troll and look for controversy in order to be famous and wealthy
I resonate so much with how she explained feeling like shit when she feels like she’s getting out of shape and not working out. I become a MONSTER. I’ve finally realized I need to be in the gym and eating right to be the best version of myself or my mental health takes the hit. 😫
Noone talks about the only fans girl as broken, we talk about the only fans girl as being a 304 and not fit to keep or make a family with. She can keep the purse
Couldn't help but notice that money was number 1 on the list for what a man "NEEDS" to get a woman. Kindness, caring, and masculine was like the last 3. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️
Especially since she was referring to a time when most women didn’t work out of the home. Yes a man ready for a relationship knew he needed resources to care for his woman and future family. ❤
Love you Sadia ♥️ the world need more humans like you . I know I lot of there not happy to hear this , yes we know the true hurt . Please keep this work , we love you ♥️
What a crazy mix of truth and lies, good and Bad advice 🙈🙉 It is So much more Nuanced than that! People, please keep in mind that this is Just 1 Perspective.
I've got great respect for Sadia and this is the first time I've heard her wrong about men need marriage what a load of utter b******* when are far better off single in this day and age and Marriage destroys them on all levels Sadia you need to upgrade your worldview on that because you are out of date. It shows you are fallible and your understanding of men only goes so far
How strange that the biggest problem or lack we have on this planet is intimacy, when there are so many of us humans around! Sadia you are so right...I think it was brave of you to even mention that men might be looking at porn even but still be looking for emotional intimacy....truth is, nothing is sexier than a genuine desire or emotional expression coming from a woman, and yet in such short supply...everything is this "performance" etc and women think they know what they are expected to look/sound like...ugh, I think the cutest thing I've ever heard with a woman was an unintentional little squeal..certainly nothing she was taught she should sound like, but it was so authentic I just adored it (summary: men cherish intimacy, though we mask it with bravado and what have you...nailed it with this interview Sadia, and Darren well done sir)
Woman at 35 or slept with a lot of men gets DMs on Instagram. True. But that's not for marriage. What she says doesn't ring true. For a man, to take on a responsibility like marriage and for that to not even result in extending his family line is a raw deal. Better then would be to sleep around. Or, to take a leaf out of Sadia's books, earn more money, build a little muscle and then sleep around. Don't know how she convinced herself that women 35 and older are marriage material. She throws in words like psychology, research etc. So I guess we can't question!!!! 🧐
So she studied psychology but she was actually a grade school teacher and then just start posting about psychology so she’s not actually a legit psychologist?
Hater alert!!! Why personally attack her? Jealous much? Here you are listening to a podcast about HER beliefs, where SHE was worthy enough to qualify to be called as a guest. And still it is you who has the time, resources to spend time hating. Why was she a guest and not you, cause she is pretty enough, smart enough, experienced enough, competent enough to have listeners, followers to whose life she adds value.
A loyal woman still wants money from her partner, however, it’s not for rising up through the social ladder. It’s for security for herself, her home and her children. Furthermore, if her husband is neglecting her emotionally, more money isn’t going to make up for the lack of connection. She wants him and his attention. Women who are rising up the social ladder don’t care if the man is there or not, she cares whether what he provides is there or not.
19:42 i think men can have those same things in a regular relationship without being married, the problem is most men lack discipline and that’s why they spend so much money on pointless things but if they were to focus they would 🐝 fine
Loved this talk. I'm currently in my first time ever long break, of relationships.. a whole 4 year.... dealing with traumas that has blocked me from allowing someone to fully come in. And be my very best self to my partners
Aristotle says that good habits must be taught by the age of 5. If they are not, then it's almost impossible to change that person. There are women who are 304s because their mothers were 304s. The family unit has been broken. Therefore, you can not solve this with therapy.
Astoundingly brilliant admirable and impressive and (unfortunately) unique woman! unfortunate that she's unique. and not just for a woman but as any human overall. if the majority of anybody and everybody were fractionally as intelligent in what seems should be a self obvious undeniable blatant truths, wed all be so muych better off. So refreshing to find someone so well spoken with what you would dream would be the standard and obvious view on things, willing and patient enough to take the time to talk to people about this sort of self evident thing you would think would be frustrating to have to explain all the time. just found her today and i gotta make this my last ,multi hour interview I've watched with her today. lol will be watching more in the future without a doubt. don't understand why someone like this isn't championed as the type of woman to be admired and looked up to for all others, not just young girls, but women of all ages. simply states facts about nonsense other women will passionately screech are reasonable ideas and not just modern day embarrassing lunacy. really great. will be watching more and spreading the word. beautiful and remarkably brilliant view of modern society on so many levels! . well done
There are also women who don’t accept a cheating man but I never did cheat in revenge. I never did but I eventually left but it took months. So we exist and it’s a rare exception
Not everyone that is entrepreneur doesn’t like authority. Some people are just push to have their own business because the work place doesn’t pay enough to be able to afford to leave a life that is confortable. Rent 3500, food 300 2 weeks electricity 120 gas 75 internet 100 phone 100 car insurance 250 gasoline 40 to fill the tank that last 3 days if you drive a lot so for a person needs minimum of 5000 a month just to survive the problem is employers don’t want to pay, so people are force to work 2 jobs and now if you have kids that amount goes up.
Darren was a genuine stand-up good bloke and I should have thanked him first, but Sadia is so pretty my attention got distracted. Darren I wish good things for you, for selfish reasons--I think you will do good/genuine interviews, so please keep plugging away my dude; sensitive folks appreciate your interview style, which hinges on one thing, sincerity...you are a sincere bloke...I could try to sound educated with Carlyle and so forth, but if you have that thing (being a sincere bloke) well you have it--no need to read the philosophical algorithms behind it
Wonderful talk with sadia khan a psychologist on human psychology well done and a great talk show Glad to be watching this show on youtube from chennai, Tamilnadu
@9:30 Sadia talks about how CEOs have to be logical/etc. at work, and that is the exact opposite of what they need to be in relationship. That makes me think of engineers and software developers, who have to be far more logical and analytical at work than CEOs. And there are so many of us -- something like 7 million in the US alone!
Beatiful conversation ❤. Its very rare someone even speaking about man's perspective. She amazingly understands cetain innate wiring in men - 'longing for intimacy'.
Disagree about men paying for only fans. Had this realization today and I still wouldn’t do it but I get those that do. Your gonna have to pay for a date or two and your time anyway to get sex. This just cuts out the middle man. In fact why wouldn’t men do this if they aren’t looking for relationships? Way less headache.
I agree with all of what she says… except that sadly women’s value drops over time. She’s racking partners, less likely to bond, kids, and is just more of a weight. Thoughts anyone ?
@@Makeupzised because most women today feel entitled to a top tier guy that's y men like Andrew tate came about. Feminism brainwashed modern women. This is my go to question I ask women this all the time. Nothing personal I'm just asking. Would u get married?
Amazing that we should study psychology to be in a relationship. This would have saved me 14 years of not the perfect relationship. After I healed, my relationship became heavenly. I was acting like a feminist and had hidden issues so it wasn't easy to understand myself
sadia is very educated, but she's negating alot of gaps, example: 1. She is SO wrong to tell women have no wall and she can have men at any age, IF SHE IS ATTRACTIVE. Most western women are Way Below Average in looks, as compared average in the past just 20-30 years ago, and today there is not much attractive about the attitudes of wester women to the vast majority of men, globally. And it this also matters, attractive and successful men don't want too commit and marry a women over 40, AND the older a men is the less he wants to commit to any women, especially if he has more assets to lose. 2. Red pill men, or men who follow such youtubers and presenters themselves are not LOSER, not even close, really that statement is bad generalization, alot of these menosphere men have better relationship because they learn from the mistake, the trails and errors, the rejection, and the pain from other men. The reality is alot of modern women who don't focus on being attractive "too men", looks, feminity, and attitude, in the long run, and 100% after 35-40 if they are lonely, they will be Loser as described. 3. Facing Rejection damages men and women alike, maybe women, but men can learn and face massive rejection if he has a goal and purpose. Example it's actually easier for women too sell with less skill, especially if she's attractive in looks, but for men, they excel and succeed way more in sales than women do, why, because of Rejection, massive Rejection that they learn from. Men who are willing to face and gets rejection from many women, and yet improve themselves, become better at setting bondaries so they hold firm and not accept toxic behavior or line crossing from women, makes these men better, and what do they need too face to become good at this, Rejection, without giving up. I do agree with the anti-woke common sense that ALL children needs 2 parent, a masculine leader, and feminine nurturer.
But that's the key word ATTRACTIVE, the problem with men is most of us are weak to the puss. Most redpill content creators talk a good game but are quick to defend a women and get with the same type of girl they say is a 304. Now whether we like it or not in 2023 the likely hood of you finding a virgin is highly unlikely and men do like attractive women and not only that we keep saying men like young girls but then will go and beat up or call 50 year old guy a pedo for talking to a 18 year old which doesnt tend to happen I might add. In reality most men get with women around their age and men are visual if a women is 35 and stunning he will entertain her he's choosing her over an ugly 25 year old age doesnt make you good looking genetics does. We need to be stronger as men we need to put our foot down and change society for the better. If men say they dont like 304's then dont entertain OF girls, if men say they dont want to get with single mums then dont but the reality is if the woman is attractive men do date these women and that's the problem. What's been said on redpill shows and how men are really behaving 2 different things
What times we live in now a woman go tell a Man how he thinks like men and women are equal but not identical you should know as a psychologist which I doubt But one thing is for sure that the closest that you can get to a man is a guy without a dick I am wowed by the fact that you r a Instagram person
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die. sober up. female suicide up 50 percent twice the number of women on mental health medication then men. sober up
So much psychobabble waffle on youtube at the moment. I'm sorry, but a woman with that much work done talking about being authentic is impossible to listen to.
We want more. We want more. This one was very comfortable and interesting listening to. Nice combo! Well done.
love sadia khan! she calls out the red pill men
She calls out everyone both red pills and feminists. I love her.
@@gmu6081 Ruthless. I love it.
She calls out delusional people & people who introduce view that lead to destruction of family institution..
@@syahiraamran2800how are red pill men anti family?
This is my first Darren podcast, what insight you have and Sadia I’m a huge fan……. Donna in Toronto
Thank you! Really glad you enjoyed it.
WOW love this!!!
It makes all the. Sense...
Good interview❤. Love sister Sadia..
She is somewhat right and somewhat wrong. The psych guru types are always so certain of their reasoning. And coming from Dubai can further skew your perspective, the world is vast and so are cultures and values. Just a more positive version of a Tate type female
Tate and her are friends. She mentioned in another podcast that texts with Andrew.
@@jk-califkid5017 no.
I love her deen, it's beautiful but I feel feminist undercurrents coming through her analytics
@@jk-califkid5017idts. She could not talk to somebody so toxic, hateful, with almost non existing selfesteem, selfvalue and selflove
Thank you so much for having me Darren I loved this coversation!!! x
Ok I was liking the conversation but I had to stop listening after two points that almost came back-to-back. First, there was a somewhat subtle way she tried to make it seem like women have no biological clock and their opportunities are endless because they have an Instagram account is nonsense at best and dangerous at worst. Then on the OnlyFans she basically says yeah the men are really bad and the women get a pass because she gets a "perk" and she can "change her life." Almost as if she is absolving women of accountability. While she makes some salient points her bias is quite obvious and skews the conversation.
absolutely right
I don’t agree at all with her, saying, a businessman needs a business woman who is intellectual to have common conversations. I think when a man comes home from a hard day of work, he does not care to talk to her about his business and work and he also doesn’t care to hear about how Karen from the office was getting on her nerves today he doesn’t care about her day like that. He wants to come home to peace, quiet, relaxing, femininity, and a nice cooked meal not sharing stories about their day at work when he comes home he’s done with work. He doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore. He wants to relax. Also saying that women who stay home are not intellectual, I highly disagree with that. women that decided to stay home and raise their children doesn’t mean they’re not intellectual and can’t have intelligent conversations.
You make a good point
So he doesnt need other person at all, he can be at peace on his own and order takeaway as warm meal. No human being should be treated like a maid or househelp in relationship where hers day or thoughts or expierience doesnt matter at all and she is waiting like a dog for her housband to get little pat at the back and then sit silently in the corner. Tou would really treat your partner like that? Of course you need someone who match you intelectually and has her own life going on. The most lonely and unhappy women are those in marriages where they are treated like halfhumans, only to take care of child and kitchen. It was like that in the 1950 and the level of alcoholism among them were crazy!!
I don’t think she is referring to conversations about Karen from the office. She means that the person needs to at least be a good conversation partner for you. What is the point of coming home to someone everyday whom you can’t even talk to? The growth of your connection is going to plateau.
I'm a female entrepreneur (i have my own consultancy company) and I work daily with male CEOs that are scaling their companies. And she is 100% right. In their younger years they want a loving, caring "mother" for their kids (and themselves). But I see time and time again that these men feel like they cannot fully be themselves and cannot express themselves with a partner who does not understand their challenges (and can be empathic about it) and where they have a sounding board for the emotional side of the job. Leading to quite a lot of divorces in their 40s.
Also a woman who is truly intellectual (IQ over 130) won't be a stay-at-home mom. It would drive her crazy.
Agree 💯
I disagree with her on the onlyfans part. Women may be millionaires but the cost of being a mom and having your children see you porn is a curse I would not want to have.
Blanket statement.
You cannot turn only fans thots into housewives.
She has a slight bias towards the modern whore ie onlyfans etc. The hell with emotional damage because they getting a bag?! They will never live that shit down. They lose. Shame on you you low key feminist
Yes, men crave emotional intimacy but most women don’t want most men. Women have been conditioned by social media and dating apps, as you stated. An average man is contemptible when there are millionaires hunks out there. To make matters worse when one of these dream guys sleep with them they feel there’s a chance maybe they can BE with them. It hardly ever happens. Time and time again women choose solitude over being with an average man even if they’re an average woman.
Exactly!
That's not true. I know plenty of "average" couples. Social media usually highlights the above average people. Most people are too busy living life to post so much on social media(I'm one of those people!). Average is also subjective. Some say Beyonce looks average. Go figure.
@@starrjohnson1327 Beyonce is average
She's right. I'll work harder. And I'll keep all my money and resources to myself.
you miss the way of life bro, if you make a money and you are young than you are supposed to spend with your girlfriend , and enjoy tog.
How dare you make money and not spend it on a woman
Enjoy sitting in your big pile of money and fancy toys all by yourself 😢
@@dolanduk7946😂
@@amiohamidovic I don't want a golddigging slut around me. Better to spend my money on myself.
CEOs don't have to understand emotions? What planet are you living on? How are you supposed to negotiate without some form of emotional intelligence? This woman's value is highly skewed by her appearance. She states a lot of things as fact which are highly questionable and unquantified. She is basically making general observations and being held in high regard because she is a qualified psychologist. If you look at Jordan Peterson, he supports most of his arguments with clinically researched facts. This woman is cherry-picking trends, which is ABSOLUTELY FINE, as you long as you understand that this is the case and that it is not supported with any evidence.
"If you look at Jordan Peterson, he supports most of his arguments with clinically researched facts." ahahahahahahx10000 you are completely wrong about that he is a fraud who is being debunked multiple times! go educate yourself.
Ascribing men as babies doesn't seem very useful or accurate. Babies dont construct societies or lead men into war, I think it would be more fair to say emotionally weak or immature/stunted, which men on average are. Or most, arguably.
When you listen to her, she's essentially selling the same zero-sum principles to men by which no solution is possible because it communicates to the slave on the metaphorical plantation that the slave can solve his problems by just working harder to be a better slave. (Not that the plantation system is the real problem, since she's the direct beneficiary of the plantation model.
It's like listening to a person who doesn't consider all the doors society in terms of relationships, human access to intimacy, human empathy or value towards men are locked by those like her who won the physical genetic lottery, then blaming those men who don't sacrifice themselves charging symbolic windmills over decades learning to be expert wealthy lockpicks.
Sadia Khan is just another relationship guru running the familiar horse and carrot con.
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exactly! you nailed it 👍
A girl working onlyfans has nothing to gain but money if that’s your end goal that’s cool that’s fine do you but understand no man with self esteem and a righteous moral standard is going to want anything to do with you
Money we really don’t give a fuck about we really really really do not care about money
1:07:25 The women who accept cheating husband tend to be emotionally detached from their husband. They are likely to *expect their husbands to betray them*.
Because they know they are an option, and there is competing interest outside for the same resource, so they can not truly rely 100% on the husband’s loyalty. This resolves them to seek *stable* resources elsewhere.
Women who get cheated on have come to the realization that if their man cheats on them, every man would cheat on them.
This is so true, I didn't start off that way with my (now ex) husband but if you don't leave when they cheat you have to force yourself to emotionally detach to survive. By the time it ended (several affairs later) I was so indifferent to him that I honestly wouldn't have cared if he lived or died except for the fact that I would have felt sorry for the kids.
Wow this really gave my faith in humanity. The fact that there are people out there like these podcasters trying to ask difficult questions to build self awareness for improvement in relationships. I’m a very loyal , nurturing woman , and I started to worry that masculine men are going out of style and don’t need women like me anymore. This podcast gave me faith that if these conversations are happening, and you are getting clicks on these conversations; then there are most likely still people out there who are willing to work on their relationships. Gives me faith ❤
Men should AVOID women… especially Western Women. There is no upside.
So she advocates lying to a child, telling them their dad asks about them and sends them Christmas cards when they don't? Then when the child asks why he does these things but doesn't call or visit, the mom has to make up more lies. Absolutely not! I agree that a mother shouldn't bad mouth the father to their children, but lying to them crosses the line and I completely understand why she deservedly gets backlash for this point of view.
Who is this female Andrew Tate and why do you give her a platform?
Love seeing all the podcasts Sadia is in. She speaks my mind without me being able to saying it that way. She has amazing skills in talking and conveying very detailed her message, I don’t know who doesn’t get what she says, but kuddo’s to you beautiful one 💜
Absolutely! The perfect balance between entertainment and education!
I am always looking for her next interview ❤ she is so great
so true…she’s simply amazing in her job
Simps 😂
I've just watchd three videos of her and she seems to contradct herself.
An Onlyfans girl 👧 will NEVER have self esteem attached to what she did. She may think she does, but in the end it will be regret. Selling your body will always be demeaning and self destructive.
I knew a woman who was a webcam model/chat girl. She used to date musicians and celebrities. She did some stripping for 20 years. When I met her she was chronically ill and trying to get a boy toy😑. She found out how to use filters for webcam modeling. She's also using a filter on Instagram. She was constantly being evicted, couldn't keep a steady relationship and spent thousands on cosmetic surgeries. I met her when I was working retail. She told me I was pretty and could make more money. I was young and thought she was helping me😢. I'm glad we became "friends" and she told me what she really had going on. I left the friendship. I never got into that "game".
don't take relationship advice from women
What a beautiful, feminine and smart woman ❤ there is hope not everyone’s goal is to be an Influencer selling achievement of the plastic surgery 😄
It is unfortunately true for countless men now days in regards to video games and porn. It is rare not to meet someone who doesn't spend 3+ hours a day gaming, and also then those same men have no experience with women, but want to be married.
It is a harsh reality, but we can't have everything in life. Things take sacrifice to achieve. If you as a man want to get married, then you cannot be playing 3-8 hours a day after work or even on all of your days off. You gain nothing from it. I am not demonizing video games, I might add, but rather the excess so many men are indulging in when they really haven't done anything to earn even a fraction of the time they spend looking at the screen. Working a minimum wage job (or not much better) for 5+ years with no direction in life? The last thin anyone should be doing is increasing leisure time during your most energetic years.
Then the issue with porn, which is far worse. It isn't just porn either, excessive masturbation is not good for lifestyle. Sex drive is what always kept men improving, and when you temper that every single day (many guys masturbate more than once a day), then you are robbing yourself of easy motivation to gain skills and work harder.
@@TollinNirolf Here is my problem with a lot of what you said and how I feel about this split in society right now.
First off, I will tell you that I believe a man is the head of a household in marriage, and that a wife should submit to her husband as an authority in the relationship. Men in general are tasked with the role of leader and with that power comes a lot more responsibility than women have.
With that said, men also have a far more logical mind. Women simply do not have the same capacity for logical thought.
With those things in mind, the reality is that women will never change on their own and have always and will always be tied to how men are living their lives, leading (or lack there of) and in regards to more western cultures... voting.
I don't look at women and curse their existences for their twisted minds right now. I am disappointed that many generations of men (as far back as baby boomers) have chosen the feminist way of life to varying degrees and have allowed women to take control.
This control was not taken by force. It was taken by men becoming too accepting of easy sex post WW2 with the sexual revolution, and instead of standing on principle and keeping premarital sex as taboo, men ever since have chosen sex over a morally upstanding life.
In short. Men are to blame from the very beginning. Women were always chaotic, but when men fell, so did women as the followers.
For her to say that you had to have money back in the day to have sex is just simply not true. Good looking in shape guys have always been able to have short term relationships
Wow, she’s funny, down to earth, intelligent, approachable, articulate, honest, sweet, wise, graceful, warm and absolutely gorgeous! None of these instagram models have anything on her. That’s the role model we need!
I second that. Also, she does not project masculine energy, like most women nowadays and seeing that..its really rare and beautiful. Perhaps she could set up a podcast to teach women how to be confident and feminine..
Yes these are the old and current rules of the game yet men are getting sick and tired of it so probably not much longer will they be working harder than women! You should focus on that so then maybe some women can get a clue what is coming. This is coming from someone who is successful in business and with women, but who now requires women to bring more to the table than a vagina and wants.
She is soooo beautiful mashallah
34:00 the offers for a relatively good looking 35 year old single woman are endless nowadays. yes, but only for hookups. If she has had problems in the past securing long term relationships, men will know, and they'll just "pump and dump" to put it bluntly.
Absolutely love this! Love how Sadia puts things together. She’s an inspiration. Beauty with brain x
She's incredible! Glad you enjoyed.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die.
sober up.
female suicide up 50 percent
twice the number of women on mental health medication then men.
sober up
No, no she is Not an inspiration at all. She is wrong on different levels. I learn Nothing from her views. Specifically men who are very much alone can always pay for sex without the nuances of a relationship. She does not deal with this specific issue.
@@victorzea1455💯 yea she couldn't care less about the average guy. As far as she's concerned go stand on a stool and fall off...
Men are already working hard enough, we dont need to be slaves to any poosy!!!
*Only fans* - Totally disagree with the comment from Sadia when she said; "at least she's getting something out of it ... paying off her parent house etc"
I've (unfortunately) been involved with, and have seen the sex industry for over 40 years, and I've seen 100's of women come and go. I've never seen any of them become financially stable.
Sex workers, money is a quick burn because they think they can make it back with the next client. What actually happens, is the money disappears twice as quick.
A few years ago, I left that world behind (as much as I could), got into the stock market. 2022 I bought a KingAir 350 cash, and this year I'm buying into a fractal share in an Embraer.
There is no sex worker in earth, not Alice Little, Nina Hartley or Jenna Jameson, with whom I would want to swap bank accounts with!
Sex work, is a road to nowhere!
lol she is completely delusional and judges from women perspective. men never rake advice from a woman
I understand the topics in this interview. I cannot endure a woman who I deem as unintelligent and therefore I cannot find them attractive enough to pursue. Intellectual compatibility is vital.
Agree
You can filter those out usually by their reaction to humor. One who laughs with your jokes (stupid as they might be - or not) you have a match and the opposite.
i have the same problem with men. FLAT FLAT FLAT. its A. annoying B. irrotating C I get bored within 2 weeks -- I ask myself a same question "did you sleep through hs / university?" (not you personally but you got a point). Tell me something like HEY Let's go to the Getty museum or LACMA or Hungtington library.
I absolutely adore her. She completely resonates with me. Sadia please if you haven't already, I urge you to start your own RUclips channel. Countless individuals should have the opportunity to listen to your valuable insights!
The more I hear her, the more I find her annnoying.
She speaks sense, but she should see a therapist to work out why she needs BOTOX even though she's naturally beautiful.
I wouldn't feel comfortable taking advice from someone who is supposed to be helping others with emotional issues when they themselves turn to chemicals to deal with their own insecurities
How do you know she's had Botox. Also even if she's had Botox it's still very evident she's a smart woman who knows what she's talking about. It's a shame isn't it so smart and also so beautiful it's really something to be jealous of isn't it. Oh well good luck to the sister may God keep blessing her. And may God bless you too.
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That is a red flag, using such techniques to enhance her beauty is a sign that she also has internal issues that needs looking at, if you have a therapist, you want them to live what they preach, would you visit a dentist who has crooked teeth ?
I get what you are saying but Sadia admits she's a insecure person she's a human being the best thing is she recognises her flaws.
More feminist talking points.
Epic fail.
I think your one of the few voice on social media that values human reasoning and empirical evidence unbiased as opposed to the clout chasing of most voice on social media claiming to give men and women ‘advice’ that is nothing more than extorting people for views in order to boast their social media likes and bank balance. But of course your more rigorous and of a greater analytical depth than the others because you have the academic training to contextualise the subject matter as opposed to been an internet troll and look for controversy in order to be famous and wealthy
Especially men need marriage?? Loll bollocks
How the hell do you need something that creates more responsibility? 😂
Lol spot on!
I resonate so much with how she explained feeling like shit when she feels like she’s getting out of shape and not working out. I become a MONSTER. I’ve finally realized I need to be in the gym and eating right to be the best version of myself or my mental health takes the hit. 😫
5 years too late.
Noone talks about the only fans girl as broken, we talk about the only fans girl as being a 304 and not fit to keep or make a family with. She can keep the purse
Let's talk about the majority of people who subscribe to their OnlyFans.
Couldn't help but notice that money was number 1 on the list for what a man "NEEDS" to get a woman. Kindness, caring, and masculine was like the last 3. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️
Especially since she was referring to a time when most women didn’t work out of the home. Yes a man ready for a relationship knew he needed resources to care for his woman and future family. ❤
@@LadyJamieElizabeth369I think he’s talking about in this time😂
Very interesting ! It's comforting to see people having this mindset in such a loving and compassionate manner 🙌💛🙌
Love you Sadia ♥️ the world need more humans like you . I know I lot of there not happy to hear this , yes we know the true hurt . Please keep this work , we love you ♥️
What a crazy mix of truth and lies, good and Bad advice 🙈🙉 It is So much more Nuanced than that! People, please keep in mind that this is Just 1 Perspective.
I've got great respect for Sadia and this is the first time I've heard her wrong about men need marriage what a load of utter b******* when are far better off single in this day and age and Marriage destroys them on all levels Sadia you need to upgrade your worldview on that because you are out of date. It shows you are fallible and your understanding of men only goes so far
A professional woman needs a business or intellectual man as well. Homemakers should stay involved with learning and intellectual growth.
The waffle club woman......yes, she has a point or two, but mostly non sense
😂😂😂
Sadia is both beautiful and intelligent. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.
How strange that the biggest problem or lack we have on this planet is intimacy, when there are so many of us humans around! Sadia you are so right...I think it was brave of you to even mention that men might be looking at porn even but still be looking for emotional intimacy....truth is, nothing is sexier than a genuine desire or emotional expression coming from a woman, and yet in such short supply...everything is this "performance" etc and women think they know what they are expected to look/sound like...ugh, I think the cutest thing I've ever heard with a woman was an unintentional little squeal..certainly nothing she was taught she should sound like, but it was so authentic I just adored it (summary: men cherish intimacy, though we mask it with bravado and what have you...nailed it with this interview Sadia, and Darren well done sir)
What is a genuine emotional expression?
@@dasein9980 to emote means to "move out" from within, so things that are not planned or consciously executed, imitated, affectations, etc
@@ArthursAtman I guess I was asking for an example but I get you.
@@dasein9980 I thought I provided an example re the girl squealing in a totally un-rehearsed fashion, and felt I was over-sharing at that
maybe mask it less :) be brave
I'm in love with Sadia Khan's mind. Beautiful, intelligent woman. Extremely rare these days😅
Intelligent ? Telling women it’s fine to have an only fans is anything but intelligent.
@@deezelkanecontext. If you're ho. Take the money. Doing it free is worse. And hos have existed since beginning of time
@@TheFaro2011 and they’ve been treated like dogs also… you want to do onlyfans, great, don’t cry about it when you’re old and single
Woman at 35 or slept with a lot of men gets DMs on Instagram. True. But that's not for marriage. What she says doesn't ring true. For a man, to take on a responsibility like marriage and for that to not even result in extending his family line is a raw deal. Better then would be to sleep around. Or, to take a leaf out of Sadia's books, earn more money, build a little muscle and then sleep around. Don't know how she convinced herself that women 35 and older are marriage material. She throws in words like psychology, research etc. So I guess we can't question!!!! 🧐
cos she's at least 40 herself
Women can get married at any age and SO CAN men. Why is that so hard to understand.... Maturity is rare.
My mother got married in her 50’s. Swear you youtube clowns be sounding so crazy.
@@anggell34the purpose of marriage is children. so no, there is no reason to marry a woman who can not give birth to a child
She is so smart woman
Lol ….no
I love how she dress up.she never show her skin which I like so much about her.
So she studied psychology but she was actually a grade school teacher and then just start posting about psychology so she’s not actually a legit psychologist?
she's at least 40 by the looks off it despite the botox... shes unmarried & childless. Says she has a partner 😂
Hater alert!!! Why personally attack her? Jealous much?
Here you are listening to a podcast about HER beliefs, where SHE was worthy enough to qualify to be called as a guest. And still it is you who has the time, resources to spend time hating. Why was she a guest and not you, cause she is pretty enough, smart enough, experienced enough, competent enough to have listeners, followers to whose life she adds value.
@@maazadil4637 go away Azad get a life bro
Yep. Women need to do better.
No reason for men to work harder for modern women.
That woman is very wise, her advices are on point.
Right it’s refreshing 💕
1:17:40 Im sorry but no parent that truly loved their child will completely abandon them. Mothers stick through it so why are we giving men excuses?
A loyal woman still wants money from her partner, however, it’s not for rising up through the social ladder. It’s for security for herself, her home and her children. Furthermore, if her husband is neglecting her emotionally, more money isn’t going to make up for the lack of connection. She wants him and his attention. Women who are rising up the social ladder don’t care if the man is there or not, she cares whether what he provides is there or not.
I agree with you :)
19:42 i think men can have those same things in a regular relationship without being married, the problem is most men lack discipline and that’s why they spend so much money on pointless things but if they were to focus they would 🐝 fine
Loved this talk. I'm currently in my first time ever long break, of relationships.. a whole 4 year.... dealing with traumas that has blocked me from allowing someone to fully come in. And be my very best self to my partners
Is this women actually saying that Men need to work harder? Because that is definitely a complete lie and I would love to debate it.
Of course she will say that lol. It's TRUE but she will never understand our mindset
Aristotle says that good habits must be taught by the age of 5. If they are not, then it's almost impossible to change that person. There are women who are 304s because their mothers were 304s. The family unit has been broken. Therefore, you can not solve this with therapy.
It's sad that the father/man wanted to sleep with a 304 in the first place.
He should have higher standards and a moral code.
@@ak-47intelligence75because mother raised him that way unfortunately...
Astoundingly brilliant admirable and impressive and (unfortunately) unique woman! unfortunate that she's unique. and not just for a woman but as any human overall. if the majority of anybody and everybody were fractionally as intelligent in what seems should be a self obvious undeniable blatant truths, wed all be so muych better off. So refreshing to find someone so well spoken with what you would dream would be the standard and obvious view on things, willing and patient enough to take the time to talk to people about this sort of self evident thing you would think would be frustrating to have to explain all the time. just found her today and i gotta make this my last ,multi hour interview I've watched with her today. lol will be watching more in the future without a doubt. don't understand why someone like this isn't championed as the type of woman to be admired and looked up to for all others, not just young girls, but women of all ages. simply states facts about nonsense other women will passionately screech are reasonable ideas and not just modern day embarrassing lunacy. really great. will be watching more and spreading the word. beautiful and remarkably brilliant view of modern society on so many levels! . well done
There are also women who don’t accept a cheating man but I never did cheat in revenge. I never did but I eventually left but it took months. So we exist and it’s a rare exception
Absolutely.
Cheating in return does not help in any way
lol why? we have to work 5 times harder to get 20 times worse quality of women, than our grandfathers? not worth it. hoeflation at its best
Not everyone that is entrepreneur doesn’t like authority. Some people are just push to have their own business because the work place doesn’t pay enough to be able to afford to leave a life that is confortable.
Rent 3500, food 300 2 weeks electricity 120 gas 75 internet 100 phone 100 car insurance 250 gasoline 40 to fill the tank that last 3 days if you drive a lot so for a person needs minimum of 5000 a month just to survive the problem is employers don’t want to pay, so people are force to work 2 jobs and now if you have kids that amount goes up.
Dont have kids if you cant afford them. Period.
@@jarkachalmovianska7812your preaching to deaf ears. These women believe in manifestation and that everything will be ok.
Darren was a genuine stand-up good bloke and I should have thanked him first, but Sadia is so pretty my attention got distracted. Darren I wish good things for you, for selfish reasons--I think you will do good/genuine interviews, so please keep plugging away my dude; sensitive folks appreciate your interview style, which hinges on one thing, sincerity...you are a sincere bloke...I could try to sound educated with Carlyle and so forth, but if you have that thing (being a sincere bloke) well you have it--no need to read the philosophical algorithms behind it
Wonderful talk with sadia khan a psychologist on human psychology well done and a great talk show Glad to be watching this show on youtube from chennai, Tamilnadu
She’s clueless- offers are endless for fun time but no offers she wants for marriage or long term lol she’s lost
@9:30 Sadia talks about how CEOs have to be logical/etc. at work, and that is the exact opposite of what they need to be in relationship. That makes me think of engineers and software developers, who have to be far more logical and analytical at work than CEOs. And there are so many of us -- something like 7 million in the US alone!
Beatiful conversation ❤. Its very rare someone even speaking about man's perspective. She amazingly understands cetain innate wiring in men - 'longing for intimacy'.
Savanna relax chil every people they own perspective in every life & issue take care everyone ❤
What a great gal! Very beautiful and intelligent… insightful advice. Also a healer essentially. Thank you!
Disagree about men paying for only fans. Had this realization today and I still wouldn’t do it but I get those that do. Your gonna have to pay for a date or two and your time anyway to get sex. This just cuts out the middle man. In fact why wouldn’t men do this if they aren’t looking for relationships? Way less headache.
Gosh she's stunning
I agree with all of what she says… except that sadly women’s value drops over time. She’s racking partners, less likely to bond, kids, and is just more of a weight. Thoughts anyone ?
Well done Darren! There's so much valuable wisdom in this interview. Sadia is pure gold. I'll keep it for reference as you touch on so many subjects.
Would u marry a blue collar guy. I'm curious
@@KD400_ As long as he can communicate and has manners that's all I care about. I'm a teacher, so blue collar myself. Why do you ask?
@@Makeupzised because most women today feel entitled to a top tier guy that's y men like Andrew tate came about. Feminism brainwashed modern women. This is my go to question I ask women this all the time. Nothing personal I'm just asking. Would u get married?
There’s a high pitched sound in the background that keeps ringing. Makes it less enjoyable to listen
Thank you, she’s great ❤
Tell you one thing for free right now. No, we don't have to 'work harder'. We just shop elsewhere.
Listening to how Sadia talk about fathers really changed my perspective. I will make a change in my life today!
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So her argument is that it's all man's fault and women are absolved of their personal responsibility.
is she wrong though? Men can say no
@@09cutie0pie You've got to be pretty stupid, if you think a problem between a man and woman is always the mans fault... smh
Not at all.
Wxmen accept their personal responsibility.
They accept that it's the man's fault.
'The first thing about entrepreneurs they don't like authority ' so true 😂
No, we don’t like authorities that get our way😎
Nah we just hate stupid people. If the authorities and rules are reasonable then it's fine.
I'm dying, I refuse to be "saved" by the likes of you. Authority is all yours.
God be with you.
Amazing that we should study psychology to be in a relationship. This would have saved me 14 years of not the perfect relationship.
After I healed, my relationship became heavenly.
I was acting like a feminist and had hidden issues so it wasn't easy to understand myself
I love it ❤ every sentence is true and full of wisdom
Thank you!
Success is measured by how many people will be there when you are unsuccessful.
sadia is very educated, but she's negating alot of gaps, example:
1. She is SO wrong to tell women have no wall and she can have men at any age, IF SHE IS ATTRACTIVE. Most western women are Way Below Average in looks, as compared average in the past just 20-30 years ago, and today there is not much attractive about the attitudes of wester women to the vast majority of men, globally. And it this also matters, attractive and successful men don't want too commit and marry a women over 40, AND the older a men is the less he wants to commit to any women, especially if he has more assets to lose.
2. Red pill men, or men who follow such youtubers and presenters themselves are not LOSER, not even close, really that statement is bad generalization, alot of these menosphere men have better relationship because they learn from the mistake, the trails and errors, the rejection, and the pain from other men. The reality is alot of modern women who don't focus on being attractive "too men", looks, feminity, and attitude, in the long run, and 100% after 35-40 if they are lonely, they will be Loser as described.
3. Facing Rejection damages men and women alike, maybe women, but men can learn and face massive rejection if he has a goal and purpose. Example it's actually easier for women too sell with less skill, especially if she's attractive in looks, but for men, they excel and succeed way more in sales than women do, why, because of Rejection, massive Rejection that they learn from. Men who are willing to face and gets rejection from many women, and yet improve themselves, become better at setting bondaries so they hold firm and not accept toxic behavior or line crossing from women, makes these men better, and what do they need too face to become good at this, Rejection, without giving up.
I do agree with the anti-woke common sense that ALL children needs 2 parent, a masculine leader, and feminine nurturer.
But that's the key word ATTRACTIVE, the problem with men is most of us are weak to the puss. Most redpill content creators talk a good game but are quick to defend a women and get with the same type of girl they say is a 304.
Now whether we like it or not in 2023 the likely hood of you finding a virgin is highly unlikely and men do like attractive women and not only that we keep saying men like young girls but then will go and beat up or call 50 year old guy a pedo for talking to a 18 year old which doesnt tend to happen I might add. In reality most men get with women around their age and men are visual if a women is 35 and stunning he will entertain her he's choosing her over an ugly 25 year old age doesnt make you good looking genetics does.
We need to be stronger as men we need to put our foot down and change society for the better. If men say they dont like 304's then dont entertain OF girls, if men say they dont want to get with single mums then dont but the reality is if the woman is attractive men do date these women and that's the problem. What's been said on redpill shows and how men are really behaving 2 different things
@Success is measured by the people that will be there when you aren’t successful”
Oh sadia, I am learning how to be a good partner because of u!
What times we live in now a woman go tell a Man how he thinks like men and women are equal but not identical you should know as a psychologist which I doubt
But one thing is for sure that the closest that you can get to a man is a guy without a dick I am wowed by the fact that you r a Instagram person
Sadia is so on point with everything she says. I love listening to her talk. Thanks for a great interview.
My pleasure! She's an awesome guest.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die.
sober up.
female suicide up 50 percent
twice the number of women on mental health medication then men.
sober up
Grifter. Bot a real psychologist.
Darren you too pretty for smoking lol
I'll take that as a complement lol
This lady is amazing !!
So glad you both made this happen. Best @sadiapsychology interview yet. FACTS.
Thank you brother! No holding back in this pod.
This woman strikes me as being a lifelong mistress