One thing I've been doing to practice making strong eye contact is... when I walk through a grocery store or something, I decide to make at least some genuinely confident eye contact with every single person I see. I notice that some people look down and away (submission?), some people reflect back confident eye contact, and some people smile or reflect positivity. It's a really fun game :-)
@Brandon Daniels I do the same thing. It is fun and creates more of a connection with people rather than just going through the motions. I'm getting better at not looking away myself when met with confident eye contact and will often smile and say "hi" or "how are you" to keep it from being a pissing contest. Cute women are the best though and giving them a smirk or using it as an open is a lot of fun.
@@droopydme Yep, I notice that stuff, too. Personally, I knew that eye contact was one of my weak points. So, in trying to think of way to become better at making strong eye contact with extremely beautiful women, the thought came to mind... _why not just practice making strong/confident eye contact with everyone so that when a really beautiful women comes around having strong eye contact is actually just pretty natural?_
@@brandondaniels9471 Eye contact is also a weak point of mine. I'm working on it however sometimes I feel like my eye contact is too intense lol. Is this normal and should I embrace it or do you have any tips on how to "soften" up eye contact.
Just to clarify here, the one he says “You, we’ll see” to is the one he wants to sleep with. “You and I will be friends” is to be polite; this doesn’t translate over directly.
@@AotO_DJ There are very few naturals. Plenty of PUAs have said this. There aren't many, they may very well be the exceptions to the rule but....they do exist. A good lookong extrovert that has either grown up around women or is used to being/interacting with attractive women would be the type of person to be a natural imo
@@tamaracoba This only proves that you should NEVER listen to women when they tell you what type of guy they like... I'm living proof you're either lying (to yourself) or talking on noone's but your behalf
I meet so many guys that get reliant on the high-energy, state-induced game. They then complain about how they can't sustain the energy and the conversations die out. I began to use Todd's low-energy style because it was more congruent to me, and it's awesome being able to not only sustain conversations but also be able to get them started in any scenario regardless of my "state." Thanks, Todd
Eye contact is extremely important to convey confidence and dominance. An important aspect about the "low energy game" is that involves moving your body slowly. Moving slowly conveys confidence: the confidence in that fact that the few moves you make will be the optimal ones, because when moving slowly, you don't have time to make corrections for "false" movements and are fine with that constraint. Same goes for speaking slowly. It conveys confidence into the fact that your words are optimal and and you will not not have time to correct your words as are fine with that constraint. Another advantage of moving and speaking slowly is that it involves fewer movements and words per minute for the girl to observe, understand and react to, which makes the interaction more comfortable for the girl.
Chill at yomes can simply just mean not creepy or decent to be around. Ot's not necessarily a word used to describe a potential sexual partner. Just sayin & keep slayin
Low energy, introverted style? Sounds like what I need, I already have too much nervous energy. I’ve always found the smoothest pickups have always been when I am calm and relaxed
@x GeneraI bro that's stupid had girls who were interested in my looks and girls not not interested the key thing here who have to talk both type of girls. If your conversion skills wack then it not going to matter either way
@x GeneraI "there is no smooth pickup" You're either way too technical for your own good, have no experience in the field at all, or you're just ____. Take your pick.
Guys this whole "game" thing sucks. Bars and discos are literally the worst places to meet women.. Gallery arts, sport events, weddings, and such are great ti because you know you have something in common and it's much easier to start a conv because you probably have a mutual friend with them and you know what they like and you have something in common. My honest advice is to visit "Coach Corey Wayne" channel. He is a real thing, teaches you how to meet and keep a woman of your dreams. Not this pickup stuff that might or might not work
I could listen to Todd's theories all day long. My only constructive criticism is that very few of his eulogies are backed up by infield footage and this video is a case in point. Wouldn't it be so much more helpful if after every explanation we had an infield clip to demonstrate what he is explaining ?
Todd’s game, and modes of teaching are simply phenomenal. I have never seen a dating instructor be so precise and clear in his teachings that creates fast results, once action is taken. There isn’t any woo woo bs or two hour long video. It’s just straight facts and to the point. #blessed #thankyoutodd
I’ve been doing this without even realizing it for years, I sort of developed an extreme internal self confidence after becoming a Firefighter being that I don’t need anyone or any sort of outcome in a social interaction and I think people are drawn to it? I’m the complete opposite of needy and only say what is needed and I think girls think of me as mysterious for it? It’s really interesting because my best friend is the total opposite but still gets girls too, I think we compliment each other’s differences in approaching chicks and we’re a hell of a duo out there but sometimes his high energy doesn’t work because going higher than high can come off as weird and not work but my lower energy has more versatility in social situations and with that I almost never fail. I barely watch these types of videos but it’s cool to know there’s other brothers out there that can validate my thoughts and make them into a video to help other guys out there, cheers.
Hmm... Maybe you keep it safe with your comments in fear of insulting them (since girls are very reactive) Do these 3 types of comments: 1. Say something positive and balance it with something negative. (You look like you're fun but.... You look dangerous. Who are you? Which one are you?) 2. Negative to positive. (Why in the world is your shirt so blue??? But yeah at least I can see you a mile away and can't get lost) 3. Neutral (hmm.... You're shirt ... Is blue huh?) Nothing you say needs to be clever. It doesn't even need to make sense. As long as it's about her... she will find it intense (since they're very emotional and reactive)
Well, to be fair, Julien’s flashy over the top game works for him, cause it’s congruent with his personality. Also if you have seen more than just a couple of clips of him, you would have seen that he is not high energy and flashy all the time, what he does have is a great ability to control girl’s emotions and probably the most intensity out of all of the puas out there. Julien in his prime was definitely one of the greatest pua that has ever lived, is a shame that he turned himself into a self help guru
Luis Emiliano González Vinces True its all about what works for you. At the end of the day you wanna get laid but you wanna do it in a way that gives you energy not drains you of it
Luis Emiliano González Vinces word! He actually say that in TenGame, try to do it the most boring posible that it still works. He also say that it is all about how you feel not for the girl (be congruent and do not fake shit)
I'd say you don't need to settle for one or the other if you feel like having both. There will be points, like Todd said, that you will feel great and like being high energy, but you should never depend on your energy to game.
Lol being an introvert I always found it as disadvantage but now I see it different n funny thing is that's exactly what happened to me previous new year eve . We had a huge party in a house and I met a nice girl there. I wasnt trying any hard keeping it really low all the eve while other guys were all around the place. I got her this night and what's most funny nobody even paid attention to this. Next day everyone was only talking about my photography and how modest and nice I am. If only they knew of what actually happened there lol
This is my personality naturally, I had a huge advantage because I got 5 girls chasing me in one weekend with your help Todd, you are a god. I just need to learn how to close because I still haven't gotten laid.
I needed to hear this forreal .. I am not high energy person but I have always been around my friends who were high energy for the most part and I could never understand how to translate for my style ...
Todd is a beast, yes low energy and a good level of intensity(not psycho level) gets you laid at way higher rates, it seems to the girl you are a man and you are keeping real. And the guys jumping a all around are just little boys. Once you have low energy mastered you basically can game anywhere and not be a creep
I love your integration of authenticity and technicality. Your teaching is actually beneficial, and its rationality is endearing. I'm glad you got away.
Low energy does work for me. I still learned something watching this. Mainly I learned why it was working. You do t ha e to sell her on how your going to save her image you show her.
Love this video. I’ve experienced everything you’ve mentioned in different situations and it feels more natural for me when pulling girls that way. This video definitely helps put things into perspective and makes a lot of sense. Thanks Todd
Todd - thanks for everything. Your videos have the same cool vibe that you do. This is not common at all in the PUA community or in society. Thank you.
I'm in between being introverted and extroverted so low energy game is what I do most of the time. However, sometimes I find myself being loud and being the social link in a bar.
They're both valid game. Each has their own place. Daygame and non-social environments low energy would be better. Night club or bar on a weekend high energy will probably get better results.
This is it. The most universal state. You can downscale to socializing or up to flirting as you see it fits. I've pulled a 9 by starting just socializing and see her body language to become girly and started to respond to flirting.
Hmm I question you Todd about the “Lowkey under the radar game”. I heard elsewhere that you need to state your intention as early on in the interaction as possible considering if it’s a daygame scene and you happen to peacefully brush by someone while on your day to day life purpose. I wonder that if this applies to nightgame more than it is daygame? I realized that if I don’t state my intention the girl won’t know why I’m there and it sort of gives this creepy vibe in her mind. I love the vids keep them coming, just confused about the whole concept towards this, thanks.
He didn’t say anything about not stating the intention. This video is entirely about energy. Every time I go out since watching his videos and really paying attention my success rate went from 1/10 to about 3/5. Massive improvement and it hasn’t even been a month since I’ve been applying the techniques.
I went to a club for the first time the other night with my friend, it went terrible, a girl got a friend over to talk to my friend for him to meet her, we both went other and I tried to talk but I just couldn't bare the pressure, I watched him get two numbers that night, I've never been at my lowest, and humiliated like this but I'm deffinaly going out more.
MrChickenking44 The more you go out the less stifled you’ll become just gotta push through that mental resistance, you wont be able to be yourself until you get on the other side of that
Ye dude u just gotta face rejection and learn from it. Keep going at it. I just turned legal drinking age and have been going out and practicing game, it takes a few tries to get a decent girl.
@@MrChickenking44 .some one told me to look at guurls like they 18 yrs old pimple faced teenagers and want you to lead and guide them....That way, they dont seem all that serious to you... Now, you can relax and let yo' self shine....But..Main thing too..Have a plan and be up on your convo ....Gota have stuff to talk about than foot ball and drankin' beer, Champ....
*May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you're wonderful, and don't forget to make some art -- write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.*
I've been called low-energy, or even boring in my game. And funny enough, I consider that a compliment, because the subtle, effective style of game beats the flashy, gimmicky style any day. Learn more about gaming effectively and getting real, repeatable, results. systembytodd.com
Talking about sex is the easiest way to show confidence to a woman. And it gets her thinking about sex with you. If she says your being gross or a perv just tell her she isn't ready to hear that kind of stuff from a man. Also reiterate the fact that you are a man. Women want to know you know your a man and not a boy. Just keep her on the topic of you after that and you should be good. That easy.
Just keep in mind these are not real relationships this is not how you really get to know someone you don't get to know someone's flaws by this method you don't get to know their passions you don't know their past you hardly know their present and if you talk to women like this you won't be in their future but you might get in their pants
Lmao what the fuck is a “real relationship” cmon my guy when you learn pickup you can choose who you want to start a relationship with, the whole point of the pickup is to get to know the girl You think girls have sex with strangers?
Goddamit, Todd. That's exactly where i was wronging recently trying to be high energy at all costs, while in the past i got good results with low energy.
you are with difference the guy who opened most my eyes about game, all my questions during years figured out in short time that I am looking your videos. Some others guys I think only try to confuse people
In sales psychology the goal is to get a certain # of rejections to get a certain amount of appointments. You go for 10 rejections to get 2-3 new appointments.
Bro, your incredible, yes low energy and a good level of intensity is another way to get you laid at higher rates. Once you have mastered your game you will eventually improve your daygame anywhere. Thanks for sharing this video bro.🙏
This so works for me. I'm and engineer and a bodybuilder so its hard to find hot girls that are smart as well. Showing interest but being to leave and make her chase builds a story that she won you over. I get to be charming without begging. I was too needy in the past, since I so rarely run into the kind of girl I actually like. Hot and Dumb gets old fast.
Does anyone else notice that Todd "moves us around" in his video "sets" like he would recommend us to move girls around in our gaming sets? lol He takes us through two or three changes of scenery in every video. And I admit it does help keep my attention.
Guys, it’s not high energy vs low energy. It’s about being congruent vs not being congruent. If you feel high energy, act high energy. Don’t act low energy because you think it’s cooler, more elegant, etc... If you feel low energy, act low energy. Don’t act high energy because that’s what you think will work. Just be congruent.
Ok let’s be honest for a second here, that intro is one of Mysteries canned lines. I feel like so many people call him a has been and irrelevant but every continues what he started
Eye contact with strangers is a delicate thing, for me I can stare anyone in the eye and be the first to smile. At worst, I'll get a dismissive nod. But, do it well everyone responds pretty okay.
2:42 high energy game doesnt necessarly seem like that. If you do "high energy game" without beeing needy and "show that you push that button", high energy game can be effective as well or more. From this video you divide reality in just two very limited views: CHILLING CARISMA VS. DANCING CLOWN. Actually there are many others ways to game, for example "high energy but nice non needy game". Anyway I really agree with you Todd, if you game only when you are in state is a problem: many days are low days and if you want to reach a good level of game, you should be able to do it in any mood. Thanks for this video.
Hey Todd, will you upload this infield video to The System? I definitely think it would be great to see more infield footage. Keep up the amazing game, Cheers!
Nice video todd. Even though i love low energy game and your mindset towards it, can you make a video concerning about high energy game and how to be effective with it? I am going to start implementing low energy game and would just like to see how to have high energy and bring that spark in a set. Thanks and keep up the good Vids!
Hey Todd i am gonna really need your help on this one. Yesterday in the club. Approaching a group of 3 girls. Unfortunately my lads never came in for it so i stayed alone doing what i do best having fun and enjoying the interaction. We talk about beautiful girls that also seemed and are really close.. bfs.. And here comes the problem. What to do if one of them has already made up her mind that she wants you and also has let her friends know about it. I understood this and tried to act accordingly by bringing a friend to her, but he just couldn't do it.. probably he didn't like her, but that was a problem for me cause she was seeking my attention even when i was trying to go for her friend. At then end her friend that we both liked each other let her having me.. she withdrew.. What to do on those situations? Have faced this situation so many times that i let things flow without having direct control.. And that feels awkward! Thanks Todd for being an inspiration! Love from Greece!
I think everyone has some sort of baseline when it comes to energy level. When I try to go high energy for long I will just burn out really fast because of my introvert thinking type personality.
One thing I've been doing to practice making strong eye contact is... when I walk through a grocery store or something, I decide to make at least some genuinely confident eye contact with every single person I see. I notice that some people look down and away (submission?), some people reflect back confident eye contact, and some people smile or reflect positivity. It's a really fun game :-)
@Brandon Daniels I do the same thing. It is fun and creates more of a connection with people rather than just going through the motions. I'm getting better at not looking away myself when met with confident eye contact and will often smile and say "hi" or "how are you" to keep it from being a pissing contest. Cute women are the best though and giving them a smirk or using it as an open is a lot of fun.
Ohh, so that was you, weird creepy staring guy! LOL
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 I carefully worded my post because I knew that response was coming 😂
@@droopydme Yep, I notice that stuff, too. Personally, I knew that eye contact was one of my weak points. So, in trying to think of way to become better at making strong eye contact with extremely beautiful women, the thought came to mind... _why not just practice making strong/confident eye contact with everyone so that when a really beautiful women comes around having strong eye contact is actually just pretty natural?_
@@brandondaniels9471 Eye contact is also a weak point of mine. I'm working on it however sometimes I feel like my eye contact is too intense lol. Is this normal and should I embrace it or do you have any tips on how to "soften" up eye contact.
Can we see a video compilation of you being rejected by girls?
x GeneraI lmao, harsh 😂
Why do you wanna see him get rejected lol
I agree. That way we can also learn what NOT to do in game from a master of the art.
Yes pls! It would be interesting and make the process less intimidating for newbies.
i thing a better question would be "does todd still get rejections ?"
" You and I will be friends. You, we'll see." Variation of Borat's "You would be very popular in my country. You, not so much."
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Just to clarify here, the one he says “You, we’ll see” to is the one he wants to sleep with. “You and I will be friends” is to be polite; this doesn’t translate over directly.
HAHAHAH
Number one pick up artist in all of Kazakhstan!
Yes. Of course Low energy is superior to High energy. Low energy takes more skill and is more elegant. What you want is to look effortless.
So called 'high energy' pick up dudes look like clowns desperate for pussy. Real alphas and naturals won't act like cokehead freaks just to get pussy.
Yeah you don't know shit.Both work just aswell it's different games
@@davlmt Nobody is natural by default. Everybody is trained in some shape or way. Nature and nurture.
Finesse vs brute force.
@@AotO_DJ There are very few naturals. Plenty of PUAs have said this. There aren't many, they may very well be the exceptions to the rule but....they do exist. A good lookong extrovert that has either grown up around women or is used to being/interacting with attractive women would be the type of person to be a natural imo
This guy took physics he knows you can accelerate in a negative direction
Yeh its retardation!
This dude has a bachelor's in mechanical engineering.
S C I E N C E J O K E S
Tbh any guy that went through high school should know that
matt
Is acceleration relative?
His low energy still looks like high energy.
Because of his voice
@@anishtheodore5010 might be
If this dude’s game is good enough to overcome being a pale ginger with a dad bod, I def need to be listening
Alex chicks love us gingers dude lol 😂
@Alex
Balding is absolutely not a problem unless you believe it is, trust me
My penis is bald, does that count?
davlmt I’m sorry bald guy, us ladies gasp with relief when a guy has a full head of hair.
@@tamaracoba
This only proves that you should NEVER listen to women when they tell you what type of guy they like... I'm living proof you're either lying (to yourself) or talking on noone's but your behalf
I meet so many guys that get reliant on the high-energy, state-induced game. They then complain about how they can't sustain the energy and the conversations die out. I began to use Todd's low-energy style because it was more congruent to me, and it's awesome being able to not only sustain conversations but also be able to get them started in any scenario regardless of my "state." Thanks, Todd
i like it also
A lot of guys are performing and that’s how I started out but it’s not authentic and will get exhausting quickly because you’re performing.
Eye contact is extremely important to convey confidence and dominance.
An important aspect about the "low energy game" is that involves moving your body slowly. Moving slowly conveys confidence: the confidence in that fact that the few moves you make will be the optimal ones, because when moving slowly, you don't have time to make corrections for "false" movements and are fine with that constraint. Same goes for speaking slowly. It conveys confidence into the fact that your words are optimal and and you will not not have time to correct your words as are fine with that constraint.
Another advantage of moving and speaking slowly is that it involves fewer movements and words per minute for the girl to observe, understand and react to, which makes the interaction more comfortable for the girl.
What's going on Todd. Just want to say you are doing a great job and a real service to Mankind by this channel.
umang mishra Facts
Big facts his game is so effortless like how life is supposed to be
Rad nation
I've graduated from rsd to Todd V
Billy Law that’s like going from Glenn Beck University to Yale, congratz brotha
@@adr58 Top tier comment lmao
Crazy that Todd used to be a part of RSD lol.
So true
What's rsd
Stoicism as a dating style.
Not swayed by externals, fixed composure.
Not stifled, and still able to express when necessary and useful.
This makes sense. The girls I've been with have always called me "chill" and I didn't really give it much thought until now
Chill at yomes can simply just mean not creepy or decent to be around. Ot's not necessarily a word used to describe a potential sexual partner. Just sayin & keep slayin
Remember the old days when we used to have bars and clubbing?! ; )
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@@juliusfr4008 ; ((
Low energy, introverted style? Sounds like what I need, I already have too much nervous energy. I’ve always found the smoothest pickups have always been when I am calm and relaxed
@x GeneraI bro that's stupid had girls who were interested in my looks and girls not not interested the key thing here who have to talk both type of girls. If your conversion skills wack then it not going to matter either way
@x GeneraI u prevent wrong use of comma by not using it at all? Bro, yo's grammerz makez my ears sore!
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x GeneraI smh
@x GeneraI "there is no smooth pickup"
You're either way too technical for your own good, have no experience in the field at all, or you're just ____. Take your pick.
As a social introvert, thank you so much for this video, it really helps
"Get a lot more by doing a lot less" this should be your company's tagline Todd. Love your videos
That guy hugging his beer standing next to Todd was literally me in the past with no game
Nick Ronaldo same here bro
The past does not equal the future.
That's me now
Guys this whole "game" thing sucks. Bars and discos are literally the worst places to meet women.. Gallery arts, sport events, weddings, and such are great ti because you know you have something in common and it's much easier to start a conv because you probably have a mutual friend with them and you know what they like and you have something in common.
My honest advice is to visit "Coach Corey Wayne" channel. He is a real thing, teaches you how to meet and keep a woman of your dreams. Not this pickup stuff that might or might not work
Marko! Wayne and Todd have videos together already 😂 Your right tho bars and disco are not the best
The problem with introverts are not that they're introverts but like todd said they lack that intensity. They lack that inner confidence.
Don’t be a dancing mooonkay
-Alpha male skradegies
Heeyahs the thang guys.
I could listen to Todd's theories all day long. My only constructive criticism is that very few of his eulogies are backed up by infield footage and this video is a case in point. Wouldn't it be so much more helpful if after every explanation we had an infield clip to demonstrate what he is explaining ?
I'm glad that I'm an introvert now. I will use this type of game instead of extroverted type of game, plus It's just so much more effective
The higher the energy = more reactive
The higher the intensity = more engaged
Calm and engaged = confidence, it's not called low energy lol
High energy often doesn't work simply bc that's not who the guy is. Ppl can easily look through false confidence
Slightly disengaged interspersed with moments of high insight
Todd’s game, and modes of teaching are simply phenomenal. I have never seen a dating instructor be so precise and clear in his teachings that creates fast results, once action is taken. There isn’t any woo woo bs or two hour long video. It’s just straight facts and to the point. #blessed #thankyoutodd
Low energy, but speaking with tonality and confidence.
0:38 oh no he didn't just pick some chick up in the pick up truck. That gotta be an achievement for a PUA
all you can see is a shot of him walking with a girl, and then a shot of pickup. Certainly Todd has game, but this video shows nothing.
Lol. It was an uber actually...
that's pickup for ya
I’ve been doing this without even realizing it for years, I sort of developed an extreme internal self confidence after becoming a Firefighter being that I don’t need anyone or any sort of outcome in a social interaction and I think people are drawn to it? I’m the complete opposite of needy and only say what is needed and I think girls think of me as mysterious for it? It’s really interesting because my best friend is the total opposite but still gets girls too, I think we compliment each other’s differences in approaching chicks and we’re a hell of a duo out there but sometimes his high energy doesn’t work because going higher than high can come off as weird and not work but my lower energy has more versatility in social situations and with that I almost never fail. I barely watch these types of videos but it’s cool to know there’s other brothers out there that can validate my thoughts and make them into a video to help other guys out there, cheers.
That's exactly the type of person I am, low energy introvert; but I have a really hard time engaging people. I feel like I bore people.
Hmm... Maybe you keep it safe with your comments in fear of insulting them (since girls are very reactive)
Do these 3 types of comments:
1. Say something positive and balance it with something negative. (You look like you're fun but.... You look dangerous. Who are you? Which one are you?)
2. Negative to positive. (Why in the world is your shirt so blue??? But yeah at least I can see you a mile away and can't get lost)
3. Neutral (hmm.... You're shirt ... Is blue huh?)
Nothing you say needs to be clever. It doesn't even need to make sense. As long as it's about her... she will find it intense (since they're very emotional and reactive)
Juliens flashy over the top game or Todds results focused technical and in a way humble game decisions decisions
Well, to be fair, Julien’s flashy over the top game works for him, cause it’s congruent with his personality. Also if you have seen more than just a couple of clips of him, you would have seen that he is not high energy and flashy all the time, what he does have is a great ability to control girl’s emotions and probably the most intensity out of all of the puas out there. Julien in his prime was definitely one of the greatest pua that has ever lived, is a shame that he turned himself into a self help guru
Luis Emiliano González Vinces True its all about what works for you. At the end of the day you wanna get laid but you wanna do it in a way that gives you energy not drains you of it
Luis Emiliano González Vinces word! He actually say that in TenGame, try to do it the most boring posible that it still works.
He also say that it is all about how you feel not for the girl (be congruent and do not fake shit)
I'd say you don't need to settle for one or the other if you feel like having both. There will be points, like Todd said, that you will feel great and like being high energy, but you should never depend on your energy to game.
yuc0n it is the same that Julien says... vibe is not equal energy, it is all about intensity
Lol being an introvert I always found it as disadvantage but now I see it different n funny thing is that's exactly what happened to me previous new year eve . We had a huge party in a house and I met a nice girl there. I wasnt trying any hard keeping it really low all the eve while other guys were all around the place. I got her this night and what's most funny nobody even paid attention to this. Next day everyone was only talking about my photography and how modest and nice I am. If only they knew of what actually happened there lol
This is my personality naturally, I had a huge advantage because I got 5 girls chasing me in one weekend with your help Todd, you are a god. I just need to learn how to close because I still haven't gotten laid.
I like this new Todd. Very precise, very straightforward, very technical. It looks like exactly what I need
I needed to hear this forreal .. I am not high energy person but I have always been around my friends who were high energy for the most part and I could never understand how to translate for my style ...
Todd is a beast, yes low energy and a good level of intensity(not psycho level) gets you laid at way higher rates, it seems to the girl you are a man and you are keeping real. And the guys jumping a all around are just little boys. Once you have low energy mastered you basically can game anywhere and not be a creep
you are 200% right!
You are the best Todd, everything is so clear and well done. Quality work man.
Todd gained weight... still giving good advice tough
Pretty sure muscles too though.
Don't know how old Todd is but putting weight on with a normal western diet is inevitable.
I noticed most of the PUA really focus in their bodies...
It's both muscle & fat.
He’s probably just on a little winter bulk
I love your integration of authenticity and technicality. Your teaching is actually beneficial, and its rationality is endearing. I'm glad you got away.
Low energy does work for me. I still learned something watching this. Mainly I learned why it was working. You do t ha e to sell her on how your going to save her image you show her.
Love this video. I’ve experienced everything you’ve mentioned in different situations and it feels more natural for me when pulling girls that way. This video definitely helps put things into perspective and makes a lot of sense. Thanks Todd
Todd - thanks for everything.
Your videos have the same cool vibe that you do. This is not common at all in the PUA community or in society.
Thank you.
Deep game. LE vs. HE game. I use LE from a point of disinterest. You can open anywhere with it. HE requires a lot more interest.
Run with this.
Bruh, you're genuinely the best coach ever
I'm in between being introverted and extroverted so low energy game is what I do most of the time. However, sometimes I find myself being loud and being the social link in a bar.
I'm in the same boat. But on another note sometimes I worry about what others think too much or have anxiety, which can shoot me in the foot.
They're both valid game. Each has their own place. Daygame and non-social environments low energy would be better. Night club or bar on a weekend high energy will probably get better results.
This is it. The most universal state. You can downscale to socializing or up to flirting as you see it fits. I've pulled a 9 by starting just socializing and see her body language to become girly and started to respond to flirting.
Hmm I question you Todd about the “Lowkey under the radar game”. I heard elsewhere that you need to state your intention as early on in the interaction as possible considering if it’s a daygame scene and you happen to peacefully brush by someone while on your day to day life purpose. I wonder that if this applies to nightgame more than it is daygame? I realized that if I don’t state my intention the girl won’t know why I’m there and it sort of gives this creepy vibe in her mind. I love the vids keep them coming, just confused about the whole concept towards this, thanks.
He didn’t say anything about not stating the intention. This video is entirely about energy. Every time I go out since watching his videos and really paying attention my success rate went from 1/10 to about 3/5. Massive improvement and it hasn’t even been a month since I’ve been applying the techniques.
Great stuff I have used this on accident a few times and noticed a difference
Micah Mistretta positive or negative?
Creative Name100 Positive because the Women take it as a silent confident and there is mystery ha ha
I went to a club for the first time the other night with my friend, it went terrible, a girl got a friend over to talk to my friend for him to meet her, we both went other and I tried to talk but I just couldn't bare the pressure, I watched him get two numbers that night, I've never been at my lowest, and humiliated like this but I'm deffinaly going out more.
MrChickenking44 The more you go out the less stifled you’ll become just gotta push through that mental resistance, you wont be able to be yourself until you get on the other side of that
It's all bs
Ye dude u just gotta face rejection and learn from it. Keep going at it. I just turned legal drinking age and have been going out and practicing game, it takes a few tries to get a decent girl.
Thanks everyone for your feedback and support this Saturday I'm defo going out again
@@MrChickenking44 .some one told me to look at guurls like they 18 yrs old pimple faced teenagers and want you to lead and guide them....That way, they dont seem all that serious to you... Now, you can relax and let yo' self shine....But..Main thing too..Have a plan and be up on your convo ....Gota have stuff to talk about than foot ball and drankin' beer, Champ....
*May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you're wonderful, and don't forget to make some art -- write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.*
Discover Your Awesomeness I just want to say thank you. This was a pleasant surprise to find on a PUA channel.
@@superZEROKID Thank you bro! :)
Thanks RUclips Fairy
😁🙏🏾
thank you, wishing you many golden moments in a year to come
I've been called low-energy, or even boring in my game. And funny enough, I consider that a compliment, because the subtle, effective style of game beats the flashy, gimmicky style any day. Learn more about gaming effectively and getting real, repeatable, results. systembytodd.com
The point at the end about not being state dependent for effective game really felt personal.
Intense eye contact is high energy in nature, my advice avoid the eye contact UNTIL she deserves it (she Chase's)
Thanks Todd, the Intensity x High Energy paradigm was what I needed
It's not really low energy, it's more like a calm and confident approach in a girl's eye
Talking about sex is the easiest way to show confidence to a woman. And it gets her thinking about sex with you. If she says your being gross or a perv just tell her she isn't ready to hear that kind of stuff from a man. Also reiterate the fact that you are a man. Women want to know you know your a man and not a boy. Just keep her on the topic of you after that and you should be good. That easy.
"JEB BUSH IS A LOW-ENERGY GUY... A VERY LOW-ENERGY KIND OF GUY..."
4:22 Todd does a full Owen impression.
Ps. Good work Todd, great content as always man!
I love you Todd. I have been having this problem for so long cuz of RSD bullcrap, Im so glad youre independant now
“We’ll be friends. You and I, we’ll see.”👌🏼
I've always wondered what men in thir 20's from the 1950's would think of this type of analysis of women and dating
Just keep in mind these are not real relationships
this is not how you really get to know someone
you don't get to know someone's flaws by this method
you don't get to know their passions
you don't know their past
you hardly know their present
and if you talk to women like this you won't be in their future
but you might get in their pants
I don't see why it wouldnt
you're wrong.
I don't think he's getting to know them. I think he wants to fuck them.
You should replace "you" with "I"
Lmao what the fuck is a “real relationship” cmon my guy when you learn pickup you can choose who you want to start a relationship with, the whole point of the pickup is to get to know the girl
You think girls have sex with strangers?
Goddamit, Todd. That's exactly where i was wronging recently trying to be high energy at all costs, while in the past i got good results with low energy.
you are with difference the guy who opened most my eyes about game, all my questions during years figured out in short time that I am looking your videos. Some others guys I think only try to confuse people
In sales psychology the goal is to get a certain # of rejections to get a certain amount of appointments. You go for 10 rejections to get 2-3 new appointments.
Bro, your incredible, yes low energy and a good level of intensity is another way to get you laid at higher rates. Once you have mastered your game you will eventually improve your daygame anywhere. Thanks for sharing this video bro.🙏
This so works for me. I'm and engineer and a bodybuilder so its hard to find hot girls that are smart as well. Showing interest but being to leave and make her chase builds a story that she won you over. I get to be charming without begging. I was too needy in the past, since I so rarely run into the kind of girl I actually like. Hot and Dumb gets old fast.
You must be natty
@@hoodyvales9225 Hardly. I am fifty and dating a 26 year old. I am into a former Fatty, so max size is not my fixation.
What he’s says about resistance from her friends is so true
Low energy IS the best type of game....that's when shes chasing you... once you grasp that concept it will all make sense🎁.
Todd it’s like a matter of time before you join the Amorati...your principles and approach gets more and more romantic every video.
Does anyone else notice that Todd "moves us around" in his video "sets" like he would recommend us to move girls around in our gaming sets? lol He takes us through two or three changes of scenery in every video. And I admit it does help keep my attention.
Can't believe this guy hugged a girl during their first meeting. I'm impressed
I will definitely try it out. Thanks Todd
Great content, looking forward to buying some of your programs and possibly attending seminars.
So glad YT hasn't decided to take this down yet
Low energy Jeb! game.
😂😂😂
@first last That's the opener.
areyouserial 😂😂😂😂
@@hivisboys slow and steady wins the race -Jeb Bush !!!
Guys, it’s not high energy vs low energy. It’s about being congruent vs not being congruent. If you feel high energy, act high energy. Don’t act low energy because you think it’s cooler, more elegant, etc... If you feel low energy, act low energy. Don’t act high energy because that’s what you think will work. Just be congruent.
Ok let’s be honest for a second here, that intro is one of Mysteries canned lines. I feel like so many people call him a has been and irrelevant but every continues what he started
You guys gotta give a job the force is strong in this one
Great stuff, once again. Was wondering if you will go in depth about this - and show more infields in the system?
Man like kushtank
Eye contact with strangers is a delicate thing, for me I can stare anyone in the eye and be the first to smile. At worst, I'll get a dismissive nod. But, do it well everyone responds pretty okay.
Best game period ... less is always more
I see it more like relaxed energy, with abundance mentality 👌
And then there are times where no matter what you say or do they just look at you crazy and shrug you off.
Todd is T H I C C
The thing with this dude. He never breaks frame. He keeps it cool. Straight faced..and it works
I love you man. I should have watched this video 5 years ago
2:42 high energy game doesnt necessarly seem like that. If you do "high energy game" without beeing needy and "show that you push that button", high energy game can be effective as well or more. From this video you divide reality in just two very limited views: CHILLING CARISMA VS. DANCING CLOWN. Actually there are many others ways to game, for example "high energy but nice non needy game".
Anyway I really agree with you Todd, if you game only when you are in state is a problem: many days are low days and if you want to reach a good level of game, you should be able to do it in any mood. Thanks for this video.
Hey Todd, will you upload this infield video to The System?
I definitely think it would be great to see more infield footage.
Keep up the amazing game,
Cheers!
Not sure if it'll be this video we use, but we'll be adding more to The System for sure.
Would be bettet to see more daytime infields of jp or his others coaches if they agreed
it is in the field
a field video
There is no place for "infield", even Jerry's surname only contains "infeld".
the throw and go rule to negging or teasing is a mystery method ,3sr technique!
Solid teaching.
Very good information. Natural and subtle.
What's up with Todd "burning calories" 🤣
RU?
Nice video todd. Even though i love low energy game and your mindset towards it, can you make a video concerning about high energy game and how to be effective with it? I am going to start implementing low energy game and would just like to see how to have high energy and bring that spark in a set. Thanks and keep up the good Vids!
Great opener. Compliment conditional on the girl proving herself.
Why do I always end up at the wrong side of RUclips at night? LoL
Well, what do you think of his advice?
Would like to see you someday make a video with Brian Begin about this topic. His style is extremely chill but engaging at the same time.
Hey Todd i am gonna really need your help on this one. Yesterday in the club. Approaching a group of 3 girls. Unfortunately my lads never came in for it so i stayed alone doing what i do best having fun and enjoying the interaction. We talk about beautiful girls that also seemed and are really close.. bfs.. And here comes the problem. What to do if one of them has already made up her mind that she wants you and also has let her friends know about it. I understood this and tried to act accordingly by bringing a friend to her, but he just couldn't do it.. probably he didn't like her, but that was a problem for me cause she was seeking my attention even when i was trying to go for her friend. At then end her friend that we both liked each other let her having me.. she withdrew.. What to do on those situations? Have faced this situation so many times that i let things flow without having direct control.. And that feels awkward!
Thanks Todd for being an inspiration!
Love from Greece!
i allways found beeing low energy easy, but all the pick up artists allways said it would be creepy. thank you :D
Toward 100k Todd! Damn amazing videos as always 🥇
I think everyone has some sort of baseline when it comes to energy level. When I try to go high energy for long I will just burn out really fast because of my introvert thinking type personality.
Oh the magic of editing. It seems that I missed the part of the girl getting in your truck... Just saying
Police officer game!
Got it!
Flegmaster instructions unclear just been charged for impersonating a police officer