I mean I get it, but it kinda depends right? Like if someone you're close with says it, like I think it's cute. Can someone explain? (please and thank you)
1. "im not a fuckboy" 2. when he only wants to hang out when there's a possibility to hook up 3. when he talked to the whole friend group 4. he needs to prove that ur together!!! 5. if he just got out of a relationship 6. "im not ready for this but I still want you" 7. if he says "without me?" phrases (for example if uu tell him ur gonna go shower) 8. if he gets missing 9. if u've been talking for a while and he hasn't introduced u to nobody 10. if he's gaslighting u (making u think his fault is yours)
Well, my ex did all the right things (take me out several times a week, talked 24/7 and snapped EVERYTHING he did with EVERYONE, saw each other witout doing anything sexual, introduced me to his brothers and his female friends, and was planning to introduce me to his guy friends, we even had a double date planned, was talking about marriage and having kids, etc) and he still cheated on me. He said that he lost feelings and didn't know why but I knew he wasn't telling the truth and then I discovered all the messages he sent to other girls soooo... yeah, sometimes these dudes are just real good actors you know
I love the part about raising your standards. You should want better for yourself and sometimes we as women have a hard time doing that. Your videos are a great empowerment for women and I love that. 💕
@@hoytsigman6791 Then that can be communicated to the person waiting to get a text. Generally speaking from personal experience if a guy is "always" replying late then he's playing the girl.
If you're talking relationships. No it wouldn't, your expectations for the type of man you want would go up. And you'd just be in the same boat competing with other women for the same men wondering why yiu have to compete. There's no escaping the game. Adapt or stop playing.
Thank you so much for including ALL genders (Proud Trans Girl), especially in this video because Fboys come in ALL shapes & anticlimatic sizes. Love You Big Sis ❤️
My gurl is datin this fboy and keeps crying herself to sleep, she does know in her mind that this relationship aint going anywhere but she keeps hoping for a happy ending. Idk what to with her 😫
1:45 (1) If he proclaims he's not an fboy 2:18 (2) If he only wants to chill with you at your/his crib 3:10 (3) If he's had some sort of relations with your whole friend group 3:55 (4) If he doesn't give yall a title 4:43 (5) If he just got out of a relationship 5:17 (6) If he hits you with the "I'm not ready for anything serious, but I still want you" 6:06 (7) If he always trys to take it tHere 7:04 (8) If he's sus and going inconsistent while texting at times 7:51 (9) If yall have been talking for a minute and he hasn't taken you out, hung out with you, or introduced you to nobody 8:38 (10) If he's gas lighting you THIS IS IF YOU WANNA GO BACK :)
I literally think this just happened to me 😭 I'm usually so good at ignoring them but this guy got me in my feelings, one day acts so sweet and the next is like a completely different person 😭 damn it 😭😭💔
Theres a boy who takes my bus with his older sister, he goes to my school and my church and I want to be friends with him and maybe more but idk how to talk to them🤧. We've talked a bit before and he always shares snacks on the bus but idk how to start a convo with him. Can someone help please??🥺
Blueurple Milkshake gurl you just gotta say it bc there’s a 90 percent chance that he likes u back and a 10 percent chance that he doesn’t so u just gotta go for it bc u would rather live knowing that u told him I liked him then living wondering what if
Blueurple Milkshake ok I’ve done this before so all you have todo is just walk up to him one day and say hey then maybe complement him and go on from there.Hope it works 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽😊😊
Blueurple Milkshake all you gotta do is talk about something stupid and that's how u start a conversation and ask him little questions or ask if he wants to play a game and ask him questions to get to know him and he does the same and then when u feel u really ready then u go for the shot
When you said “What you interested in holding hands, kicking rocks cause that’s what you need to do” I was like preach 🗣👏🏾👏🏾💯 I love your videos and you are so gorgeous Taty 💕
Sis, not gonna lie.. I’m hurting. I was friends with a guy for almost a year and he was real flirtatious with me and we established we like eachother as more than friends but he said he wanted to wait to date again in college... And last week he started dating some girl and all posted up with her on instagram... College aint even start yet. I feel mad embarrassed cause I thought we would start dating eventually and everyone in our grade did too (even though they def weren’t supportive) I could’ve forgot all about him and everyone else and move on with meeting new people in college but now we have to do classes from home. I don’t know what to do... I just feel hopeless.
Girl I feel you! I had a similar situation and just when I got over him (around Dec 2019) I decided to put some effort and invest in myself, maybe get a real boyfriend, the pandemic hit! It hurts man...
the thing about social media is SO TRUE. i already thought it was sketchy but u opened my eyes more. also the “only late at night hitting up” is so disgusting lol
I’m in a committed healthy relationship with my man, he’s not an fboy and I don’t need this advice...... but I’m still here watching because I love Taty😂😂😂
I freaking love you Taty❤️✨💙 I appreciate all your videos. Like I'm going through something at the moment and just watching your videos makes day better.
How I really thought that he was only talking with me like no other chicks. SIS R U BLIND? I dodged a bullet Girls I gave him another chance and no I caught him w his ex
We often see the red flags but decide to ignore them because we like the guy. But my last relationship taught me that we HAVE to leave as soon as we see the red flags !!
What about when his friends know you, and you always coming to the house. And you guys like chill. But he like hardly calls on a normal day. And when he calls he'll be like "can you come over?"
Gurrlll the same thing always happens with me FR!! I was in the talking stage with a guy for over a year but it never came any further than that. Tbh I don't know why. I just think guys lose their interest or something idk
@@sofiabitraj8796 That's the problem. Over a year in the talking stage? If they ain't trying to cuff you AT LEAST by month 2, it's time to move on because they don't want nothing. And two months is pushing in my opinion
Taty, can you do an girl talk about how dudes want to meet up with you but you don't know them. And they want to get to know you & all that. But then to find out that they either have a bae or they be cappin over small things plzzz and thank you. I really need the advice
One more time for the people in the back...
🗣This guy STINKS!
Lol
No no. “oh brotherrrrrrr THIS GUY STINKS”💀‼️‼️‼️
Hahahahaha
Who else loves Taty and her vids?
Duhhhhhh
@@joudnaamneh3648 I was just saying Duhhhhhh
Ofcourse! I love her and her video's!!! ❤❤❤
I love her wayyyyyyyy more💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
MEEEEEE
use this like as a : this girl is our queen button
No
No
Use this as* you don’t need to add like since it’s literally the same thing-
She's lying to all of us
@@m-michelle863 Let's really show her who's boss
As soon as someone says “ without me “ I block them
a lil too much but i get it lol
As u should
I mean I get it, but it kinda depends right? Like if someone you're close with says it, like I think it's cute. Can someone explain? (please and thank you)
Jennifer Karake it just makes me real uncomfortable , it doesn’t matter who says it . For me it’s a immediate red flag
Gloriellee X I just don’t like it
1. "im not a fuckboy"
2. when he only wants to hang out when there's a possibility to hook up
3. when he talked to the whole friend group
4. he needs to prove that ur together!!!
5. if he just got out of a relationship
6. "im not ready for this but I still want you"
7. if he says "without me?" phrases (for example if uu tell him ur gonna go shower)
8. if he gets missing
9. if u've been talking for a while and he hasn't introduced u to nobody
10. if he's gaslighting u (making u think his fault is yours)
thank you so much!
🗽
If a fuckboy talked about karate but u never saw it....would u not try to slap him then? Or still hang ur good hand out?
@@JKage22 LETS TEAM UP TO UNSUBSCRIBE TO HER
You have to talk to her friends or they may feel left out.
When u said running thru the whole friend group I was like period I hate dating my friends ex
chileee, even if they simply liked my friend, issa no for me dawg ✌🏽
exactly like it's.,, weird lol
Natasha Mfula that’s how it be and I be like eww like what do you’ll even see in him like I done turned down so many dudes bc they dated my friends
@@kklove7056 then he tried me like I turned him down so many times but he still wouldn't quit so I had to be a bad ass and tell him off
Natasha Mfula let him know his place sis period
Well, my ex did all the right things (take me out several times a week, talked 24/7 and snapped EVERYTHING he did with EVERYONE, saw each other witout doing anything sexual, introduced me to his brothers and his female friends, and was planning to introduce me to his guy friends, we even had a double date planned, was talking about marriage and having kids, etc) and he still cheated on me. He said that he lost feelings and didn't know why but I knew he wasn't telling the truth and then I discovered all the messages he sent to other girls soooo... yeah, sometimes these dudes are just real good actors you know
YES A WOLF IN SHEEPS CLOTHING
no 🧢
@@mr.hokage7507 what do you mean no ? No what ?
Wonderr Moi no cap😂
@@mr.hokage7507 ohhhh okay sorry I didn't get it at first 😂
shes the big sis i never had😭
nobody:
Taty:
“this guy stinks” lmfao
There’s something about her that reminds me of Saweetie💖
Same!
Ikr😂
I knoooooow
Her confidence I guess💛👼🏼❤️
Ikkkrrrrrrrr
My face when she describes my ex throughout the whole video: 👁👄👁
I never knew what those emoji’s meant LOL
Me too!😭
@@norapeace6526 lmaoo 👁️👄👁️
Frrrrr 😭
My face when she describes the guy I’m talking too throughout the whole video: 👁👄👁
I laughed TOO hard at “THIS GUY STINKS” 😭😭 but you ain’t ever told a lie
*how to spot an f-boy*
me: i am the female version of an f-boy lmao
LMAOOOOO it be like that
😂😂😂😂😂same
SAME
I'm telling you 🤣😅
Nah fr😭😭😂
When she addressed that these warnings can be applied to all genders. 🥺🥺
The 'ThIs gUy StInKs!!' kills me😂😂😂💔
Me:love my older sis
Friend: you don't got one
Me : You should meet Taty Cokely
This is so me
Have* but yeah she has like 700,000 sisters and I’m one of those lmao
TITLE: signs he's a fboy
ME BEING IN A HEALTHY HAPPY 2YR RELATIONSHIP: 👁👄👁
Me being single: 👁👄👁
@@ewseekhelp LMFAOO 😭😭👑
She just says what we need to hear and I love that 💖
i feel like you’re guardian angel bc this popped up at the right time 😭😭🤍
same
If a player talked about karate but u never saw it, would u not try to slap him then? Or still hang ur good hand out?
sameeeee
Tatys beauty never fails to AMAZE me🤩
Girl, you enlighten me. Sometimes you gotta hear stuff like this from other people to wake up 👑
I bet you still didn't leave the f-boy
the way i was nodding my head and yelling PERIODDD after everything you said, phew! teacher taty to the rescueeee🥰
I love the part about raising your standards. You should want better for yourself and sometimes we as women have a hard time doing that. Your videos are a great empowerment for women and I love that. 💕
If he's always replying late and there's a gap or pattern for when he contacts you then he's definitelyyyy.
Actually that's not true I take forever to reply but I'm doing the crap I need to get done
@@hoytsigman6791 Then that can be communicated to the person waiting to get a text. Generally speaking from personal experience if a guy is "always" replying late then he's playing the girl.
@@je39981 that's sad to think that way they have lives too
@@christiana288 Communication. If there is none then the whole thing will collapse
@@je39981Yeah you can communicate you feel some type of way about it im not trying to yap about everything im doing all the time….
guys who say “without me?!!” Are so annoying 🙄🙄🙄 and they feel some type of way if you say yes
Exactly😐
this video is just too on point for my life 😂 taty pulling up with the info i’m sad i need 💖😂
she's THAT girl
it’s how the hot pink looks so pretty on her forrrr meeee 🥺💗💗
I totally needed her saying all of this. It makes me get on the mood of bye bye fboy
'THIS GUY STINKS!!!!!' 😂😂😂😂😂
LMFAOOOOOOOOO
If I looked like her, 80% of my problems would be gone.
Not really not everything is about appearances everyone has their insecurities even the gorgeous ones
Don’t say that about yourself!! You are beautiful too ❤️
If you're talking relationships. No it wouldn't, your expectations for the type of man you want would go up. And you'd just be in the same boat competing with other women for the same men wondering why yiu have to compete. There's no escaping the game. Adapt or stop playing.
Trust me
"I don't mess with stuff like that, i know...... lemme not judge"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i cracked
"I'm not ready for anything serious right now, but I still want to get to know you" TRIGGGGGERRREDDD
my bf was an fboy at the start, I tamed that bih nobody playin with my feelings while I watch taty cokley
Thank you so much for including ALL genders (Proud Trans Girl), especially in this video because Fboys come in ALL shapes & anticlimatic sizes.
Love You Big Sis ❤️
she is literally so gorgeous omfg i canttttttttt
Where my fellow south African at? I love you guys and we love Taty
Here♥️
We hereee
And Namibians❤
Here!!❤
Eswatini!!!
My gurl is datin this fboy and keeps crying herself to sleep, she does know in her mind that this relationship aint going anywhere but she keeps hoping for a happy ending. Idk what to with her 😫
It’d be best if she cuts him off before she’s gets even more emotionally attached to him
You are literally my big sister.
now im walking around saying " THIS GUY STINKSSS"
taty is just the big sister of the nation and we love you so much and thank you for helping us be the best version of ourselves!🥺❤
Love your energy, you have helped me become more confident in myself, thank you! Love from Dallas
Whats your @ ... if you wanna talk and make frnds
“Taty”😂😂 ur vibe is on point .
Hello
"Stop it, get some help"😂😂😂 had me dead. Love you Taty🤗🤗😊
Anybody else love the info that she gives everyone and also shes actually sooooo pretty 🤩🤩🤩🤩
She said at the crack of dawn “Taty” 😭😂 and that’s on Periodtt 💯💯☺️
1:45 (1) If he proclaims he's not an fboy
2:18 (2) If he only wants to chill with you at your/his crib
3:10 (3) If he's had some sort of relations with your whole friend group
3:55 (4) If he doesn't give yall a title
4:43 (5) If he just got out of a relationship
5:17 (6) If he hits you with the "I'm not ready for anything serious, but I still want you"
6:06 (7) If he always trys to take it tHere
7:04 (8) If he's sus and going inconsistent while texting at times
7:51 (9) If yall have been talking for a minute and he hasn't taken you out, hung out with you, or introduced you to nobody
8:38 (10) If he's gas lighting you
THIS IS IF YOU WANNA GO BACK :)
me at 14 watching her videos so in the future i can know tips etc and not to settle for less 👁👄👁
omg same
Me: idk
Taty: boo booo... I got u
Edit: OMG TATY LIKE MY Mf COMMENT GONNA DIE NOW Thx for all the likes ❣️
"Protect your spirit y'all."
Wish this video came out when I was still at uni. Could have kept my spirit clean
I literally think this just happened to me 😭 I'm usually so good at ignoring them but this guy got me in my feelings, one day acts so sweet and the next is like a completely different person 😭 damn it 😭😭💔
You must have a world class poker face then😕
Theres a boy who takes my bus with his older sister, he goes to my school and my church and I want to be friends with him and maybe more but idk how to talk to them🤧. We've talked a bit before and he always shares snacks on the bus but idk how to start a convo with him. Can someone help please??🥺
Blueurple Milkshake gurl you just gotta say it bc there’s a 90 percent chance that he likes u back and a 10 percent chance that he doesn’t so u just gotta go for it bc u would rather live knowing that u told him I liked him then living wondering what if
@@kklove7056 Yh but like i just want to be friends now first so he can know know me before I even think about asking him anything.
Blueurple Milkshake ok I’ve done this before so all you have todo is just walk up to him one day and say hey then maybe complement him and go on from there.Hope it works 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽😊😊
Blueurple Milkshake all you gotta do is talk about something stupid and that's how u start a conversation and ask him little questions or ask if he wants to play a game and ask him questions to get to know him and he does the same and then when u feel u really ready then u go for the shot
Ok thank you guys I'll try it when school starts up again!❤💯💯
this video was funny asf 😭 you look rlly happy and ur personality popped out more. i love it, your honor. i would like to see more, your honor 👩🏽⚖️🖤
this was an eye opner i was dealing with a guy who did almost the same thing and i had feelings for him , i am glad i cut him off
If a player bragged about karate but u never saw it, would u not even try to slap him then? Or still hang ur good hand out anyway?
"THIS GUY STINKS"😂😂😂😂😂
I love your enthusiasm and your fun delivery. Nicely done.....great advice.
When you said “What you interested in holding hands, kicking rocks cause that’s what you need to do” I was like preach 🗣👏🏾👏🏾💯 I love your videos and you are so gorgeous Taty 💕
Sis, not gonna lie.. I’m hurting. I was friends with a guy for almost a year and he was real flirtatious with me and we established we like eachother as more than friends but he said he wanted to wait to date again in college... And last week he started dating some girl and all posted up with her on instagram... College aint even start yet. I feel mad embarrassed cause I thought we would start dating eventually and everyone in our grade did too (even though they def weren’t supportive) I could’ve forgot all about him and everyone else and move on with meeting new people in college but now we have to do classes from home. I don’t know what to do... I just feel hopeless.
Girl I feel you! I had a similar situation and just when I got over him (around Dec 2019) I decided to put some effort and invest in myself, maybe get a real boyfriend, the pandemic hit! It hurts man...
Eve Diby it really does. Nothing makes sense
Taty is the most pure hearted loving human beings, the people who dislike her videos need actual help
*gasp* "TATYYYY" 11:11 💀💀LMFAOOO im deaddddd😭
the thing about social media is SO TRUE. i already thought it was sketchy but u opened my eyes more. also the “only late at night hitting up” is so disgusting lol
early gang YESSS I NEEDED DISSS😾
I’m in a committed healthy relationship with my man, he’s not an fboy and I don’t need this advice...... but I’m still here watching because I love Taty😂😂😂
Thx sis, this will be very useful for when I start to date again.💞
If a player bragged about karate but u never saw it, would you not even try to slap him then? Or still hang out ur good hand slap on him anyway?
This girl's makeup is always on point
“This guy stinks” SENT ME and the mj meme sent me into space
I’m super duper late but I’m so glad there is a video because a woman be confused and I refuse to be played time and time again.
I freaking love you Taty❤️✨💙 I appreciate all your videos. Like I'm going through something at the moment and just watching your videos makes day better.
the fact that i only downloaded instagram to keep up with taty and her uploads💀 literally the best youtuber
Taty always be preachin!! Every video she brings the gems 💎. Always keeps it 💯 Love ya videos Taty ♥️
Tatys videos are hands down the only content I watch in quarantine because sis be helping in building our confidence.
Xoxo, love you taty.
11:13 😂😂😂 she sounded so evil and cute at the same time
Every time I watch Taty’s vids I’m like; “This is why I love Taty”
This was my ex and whenever i called him out on his bs he’ll act like i was trippin 😭🤦🏽♀️he hmu to this day smh
To this day?! Girl cut him loose
If a player bragged about karate but u never saw it, would u not even try to slap him then? Or still hang ur good hand out on him anyway?
the way this video started SO ICONIC 🗣️
"This guy stinks" 😂😂😂😂
Taty is very wise 😭 like a big sis watchin out for us 💞.
How I really thought that he was only talking with me like no other chicks. SIS R U BLIND? I dodged a bullet
Girls I gave him another chance and no I caught him w his ex
We often see the red flags but decide to ignore them because we like the guy. But my last relationship taught me that we HAVE to leave as soon as we see the red flags !!
it’s the “this guy stinks” for me 💀💀💀
I think I just found the most underrated RUclipsr on this platform, I am now complete
What about when his friends know you, and you always coming to the house. And you guys like chill.
But he like hardly calls on a normal day. And when he calls he'll be like "can you come over?"
Go OFF sis!! 😂You were spitting straight facts! Cause men def be thinking they slick and as women we can’t be afraid to put them in their place.
Only concern I have is he be hopping from girl to girl, relationship after relationship... I’m not sure if I should pursue a relationship with him?
i mentioned that in here sis! that's a no no for me
I feel like if I met her in real life she would be my best friend. ily Tati!!
Earlyyyy but omg thank Yu ,, Yu have help me so much and help me to love myself ,, Yu like a big sister to me 💕💕
_You look stunning sis. You're glowing and love this message._
Why did this describe my Entanglements 🤦🏾♀️😅🤣
LMAOOOOOOOOOO I LITERALLY LOVE TATY BRO ...... KEEPIN' IT REAL AS ALWAYS!!!!
Every time something starts with a guy and me, something always happens and it never goes farther than talking. What am I doing wrong?
Gurrlll the same thing always happens with me FR!! I was in the talking stage with a guy for over a year but it never came any further than that. Tbh I don't know why. I just think guys lose their interest or something idk
Girl same! Like we got great conversations, we have great banter but it never works out! Like why?????
@@sofiabitraj8796 That's the problem. Over a year in the talking stage? If they ain't trying to cuff you AT LEAST by month 2, it's time to move on because they don't want nothing. And two months is pushing in my opinion
@Joyce E. Wrong. It was you. You were the problem.
You are the back up. Sorry to break it up to you but it's true
The intro made me SCREAM😭 so accurate
Me realizing the person i was in a relationship with was an fboy!
It's a shame he was like that to you. But I'm sure he'll be a nice husband to someone else
You need to make podcast girl!! I love listening to you and your advice!
can u do a video on how you know ur in the friend zone 😭??
She is really the big sister I never had love all of her advice they really come in handy❤️❤️
Taty, can you do an girl talk about how dudes want to meet up with you but you don't know them. And they want to get to know you & all that. But then to find out that they either have a bae or they be cappin over small things plzzz and thank you. I really need the advice
Taty really be having me unplayed wit this good advice vids
SIS BASICALLY IS SAYING: protect your self from an ENTANGLEMENT 😌
you give me saweetie vibes and I'm all here for it luv u Taty
Girl I’m sitting here realizing IM the fboy- 😭😭