How to know if he likes you or is playing you.
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Amazing content as always ❤
Simone can you please make a video on male- female friendships like how it should be and how they should be treating each other
“if you are questioning whether or not a man likes you, he doesn’t” FACTS queen😮💨
Good one to remember😊
That’s what I thought of before clicking!! 😭
Not true sis. The devil also can tell you that someone doesn't like you...
@@deliverus8340but if a man makes NO ROOM for doubts, even if the devil speaks, the woman heart will be at ease
The timing bruh, the timing 💀
+1
Ikr 🥲I was just thinking abt it
+1
FR REAL!!
Literally 😂😭
if u ever have to ask yourself if he likes you, he doesn't.
a man who like you will make it ultra obvious that he adores you. you won't ever have to question a thing
I think people can like you - heck, even love you! - but be horrible at displaying that affection, BUT THATS THEIR PROBLEM.
We should not take them as projects and stick around, feeling emotionally malnourished and miserable, until they learn how to love. That’s their own responsibility. If someone sux at loving, it’s on them to fix it.
What is the use of being loved by someone who is incompetent at showing it?
I guess what I mean is: Love is NOT enough. If there is no action, no actual effort, it doesn’t worth your time and energy. There are plenty of people that matches us and that would cherish us profoundly.
I think “they don’t love u” can also be a delusional excuse for insensitive and overall trashy behavior from a partner. Like a way to escape quickly whilst simplifying the situation because we don’t wanna face the fact that WE wanna leave, even tho we are loved, for that love does more harm than good.
Yes, they might love you. Yea, they’re horrible at it. Do you wanna hang around a horrible lover just because they love you? Is it even worth the pain and the damage?
We can let go of love that doesn’t nourishes us too.
⚠️ And some people can be amazing at displaying affection and actually not love us at all. Important distinction to make.
@@Pieza_De_QuesoYou explained this really well, better than I could have and I have actually had this mindset for a long time.
@@Pieza_De_Quesothis is the best explanation I’ve ever seen, u are so wise
WHAT IF I FEEL IT OR AM IBEING DELULU
I already tell people if a guy is not crazy about you you should walk away because once you experience that feeling you’ll feel like everything else doesn’t feel right
Once you realize how it looks when he doesn't like you and when you stop gaslighting yourself, game changes! Everything will become easier.
Trueeee
I have just realized this because I found someone who likes me so much that I don't have to question it and I feel so secure that I almost forgot what it was like having to constantly wonder if I'm doing too much or think "why hasn't he texted me?"
@@silvij4416 yeah! You just literally need one good guy like that and you will realize that everything else is bullshit.
Yes! I recently cut off this guy and my thoughts were exactly what you said. "We're not even in a relationship and he's stressing me out."
Saamme
Does cutting him off means removing him from social media, completely?
@@nehapardeshi4045 normally yes. Unless you have to be in contact with them because of other reasons
Bruhh
Ah I can feel your peace of mind. I gotta do the same girl!🥲
I've spent an year over a situationship and I'm telling ya it's not worth it. Move on, don't waste time on guys like these
Yesss!! You are right
Just a waste of time.
Girls pls focus on your life goals and stop wasting time on these players.
You will find the right man💕
Same… leads nowhere, if they don’t want you, they won’t want you with more time either
60% divorced
Out of the 40% only 5% stay in love
Sent freaking chills down my spine
Marriage is a sham for sure
Sad but true.
i was hanging out with a man and he gaves me vibes that he haven't get over his ex so i told him 'i think we need to stop hangout' and he was in silent for like 2 seconds and then he was like okay, he didn't even ask 'why' so that was the extra confirmation i needed
You already made your decision to leave him. he did not leave you.
bro was probably still recovering from his ex so when you told him it won't work he probably thought it was better not to fight for it since the last one didnt work out yk
@@crownde i though the same and i mean we work together (he's my boss) and of course we talk and joke around it's just not in a romantic way
Do you know why he has not asked? He has done so multiple times and always ended up appearing desperate. So he now just leaves silently when asked to do so.
@@rodriguesaplacino6612 could be
ok but why do i obsesseively fantasize about running into them and ignoring them lmao.
Same lmao
You are so obsessed
so relatable
I tried to do that once, and he wouldn't let me have the peace of walking past without acknowledging him. He wasn't sorry for dumping me. Stopped me to ask how I am! I got dumped abruptly by phone after not seeing him for weeks (said he was sick) but he would bring up girls that were calling him but didn't like it when I questioned why he did that.. It wasn't about me or wanting to speak to me. His ego just couldn't take me walking by and not acknowledging him. I warned him before, if we broke up, I don't want to speak to an ex if it was a bad break up or done cruelly.
I do that but I fantasize about our eyes meeting and the look of regret on his face that he lost me. I also imagine I have the same look of hesitation on my face before I collect myself and walk off.
I hate how we have to play games and learn how to manipulate people just because women are only “prizes” and sexual conquests. I want to give love and receive it without hidden agendas. Life is too short to play these mind games and throw people away when you’re bored.
I’ve lived with my spouse for 5 years, had a kid, and yet I still have to worry about my partner ditching me when they want to boost their ego by sleeping with younger people. It’s ridiculous. Men, get your priorities straight and grow up.
@@RedDeadReverie If he acts that way, I would advise taking a hint from the video as well.
I hate how we in this generation have to play all these emotinal mind games and tricks just to keep somebody interested in you. What happened to love and faith in people?
if you think this is a sign, it probably is.
the importance of why you should not revolve yourself in a man is truly astounding. simone ilysm!!! THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME A MUCH NEEDED REALITY CHECK
Man the timing, i just got rid of this 8MONTH situationship. Spoke up to him and got him to spit out what he actually thought about us. Feeling kinda sad rn but it’ll be away by tomorrow :p
What did he say
yess good for you!! 👏 and just think about how much time you’ve saved not letting it drag on any further 😌 never settle as we don’t chase, we attract
@@mohiniisrivastava u can ask me if u want lmaooooo i'll slap into ur face "mentally" of course but if u have to ask a question then maybe the man is not for you
yess i'd love to help@@mohiniisrivastava
Congrats 🎉
I also thought being nice and accepting his apology because I thought it was the good thing was one of the worst decision I ever made
Simone,
I'm really grateful for how much you helped me to grow
I remember after breaking up with my first bf I realized how immature I was and how much i didn't know about myself , I felt really empty. I had a friend that time who was like a movie main character, she was really pretty and I wanted to be like her. Then I saw your main character video, I really liked you and your energy from that day and I started following you and now I think I have learnt a lot from you and still learning.
I really appreciate you and thank you♡
Girl you are so young. When I was your age I was busy making a living so I never thought about these things. I appreciate you telling young girl about men.
SHE POSTED EXACTLY WHEN I FUCKING NEEDED IT 🛐🙇🏻♀️❤️
for me, I just want to focus on making myself happy and when there are potential partners, to just enjoy it in the moment and not get too emotionally attached since everyone is their own person and it's unfair to create a standard for someone (if that makes sense.) this way I don't make excuses for people who aren't showing up in the way that they should, and I am not getting overly anxious over how someone else feels about me.
How do you know when to keep seeing them?
So how you distinguish if it is time to cut ties if you don’t really care about them
@@xoxjelloxoxwhen they make it obvious about liking you
@@kimtaj2612 but doesn’t it take time to like someone?
The story of your friend is almost exactly how my "situationship" (I was unaware of that word then) unfolded. Luckily, it only lasted six weeks. It took me also exactly six weeks to get over that story, but now, looking back at it, the only plausible explanation is it was that chemical reaction. Once the "drug" wore off, I don't even understand what I found in the guy. Needless to say, I don't want him back ever, even if somebody offered me a million dollars😂
I’m a man, and interested in a serious relationship.
I make 750k a year, been sober for 5 years, own my house, and run my own business.
I’m at the stage where unless a women shows high interest in ME, consistently reaching out to me, showing her interest, I lose interest FAST.
This whole culture of not showing how you really feel has gotten out of control. If you like someone, you should make an effort.
I'm on a dating hiatus rn, but still watching it cz like just in case lol
a lot of the times he doesn't know if he likes you or what that even means, and he definitely doesn't know how to show it. hindsight is 20/20 but our present vision is always occluded by the anxiety of now.
Oh.. how long until he knows?
@@xoxjelloxox about a year
Yeah right, he knows.
@@nofybn7794 As he grows older, he has more things to consider. The luxury of jumping in slowly fades.
THANK YOU SO MUCH QUEEN THE TIMING IS SO PERFECT. 😭
i agree with everything you said around minute 4:01 but, unfortunately, some guys will act like they don't like you, when they actually do like you. they're immature and don't know how to express their feelings or how to treat a person they like - and even so, yes, that's not an excuse and yall should not date them anyway. date someone who's at least TRYING to work on themselves. you should not become your boyfriend's therapist just because you like them and see some potential 🫶
Right sometimes it takes time and it’s not black & white
"some guys will act like they don't like you, when they actually do like you" .... maybe because he listened to a male RUclipsr giving him similarly crappy advice. Do you really want to take potentially life-changing mate-selection advice from a random 24yo woman on RUclips? You can probably do better thimking for yourself and using your own judgment. But, hey, I'm just a random commentor to a video that I can't understand why the RUclips algorithm sent me here in the first place.
I cannot believe this video came in the PERFECT timing, ILY!
You have no idea how much i needed this rn! You are a life saver Simone♥
Tysm! I needed this really bad 😭💗
you made this especially for me, didn’t u? thank you😭
HELP THIS HELPED ME SO MUCH, I LITERALLY THOUGHT OF ENDING IT BUT THIS CAME RIGHT IN TIME OMG
*sigh* that whole being strategic part is what I personally hate. I'm wayy too direct, I can't be strategic when it comes to this. I might as well be myself & let my authentic energy attract someone than be fake/strategic. I feel like it's a wholearse game being strategic & all. I dont personally like to toy with anyone's emotions
I do agree, but I also think it takes two people to communicate effectively. Sometimes people hold back because they might not think you’re that interested in them. Don’t give up so quickly. Make sure you’re communicating your feelings openly to them, and if they still disregard you after you’ve shown an interest clearly to them, then you’ll know it’s time to walk away.
the birkin bag analogy is actually genius and i think it changed my life
OMG, SIMMONE! The exercise to write the story and break it down is kiiinda like what I’ve been doing recently for my relationship. But I wasn’t aware enough of a structure, so thank you for providing it.
What I’ve been doing is just retell our story to me and notice all the things I’ve missed or chose not to look to - had a “why” for most, but not for all, and surely I was making myself feel guilty for not noticing the big good things too…
Thank you! Such a huge self awareness exercise! Helps us catch the behavioral patterns, the trauma responses, the limiting beliefs, our flaws, our addictions and distractions…Yk, when we know what we want and what we look for, what we really like and aim for, people can’t notice first and control us through that. ❤
such a clear direct to the point video. thank you for the encouragement at the end when you said about not being on this planet long enough to navigate it, there should be no pressure learning and growing:)
I was just watching the video u mentioned here when you uploaded this 😭😭😭 love u and ur vids sm
the timing is mad PERFECT
Tysm for this, really needed it !!
girl you drop this in perfect timing
U accept what u deserve is very real
Love you queen 👑 🥺 your videos are so helpful ❤
Tysm simone you're the best advice giver lysm
Excellent reminders, thank you for sharing your advices and experiences! Happy belated birthday as well! :)
Most men are players and manipulators because I use to be an player….. They just want to go into your pants, that’s all….The real thing is when a guy really really likes you he won’t be desperate to get into your pants or even reject sx because he wants to know more about you before he goes to the intimacy part, he want to know more about your personality, your hobbies, asking a lot of question and much more that you’re the real deal who want to spend life with you. Because players want only sx, that’s the truth and they will expose themselves at certain point. Thanks for the video….
As a woman, THANK YOU for validating our innate feelings of knowing that if a man truely wants you there won’t be room for doubts or disrespect. Is so hard to date nowadays. 32 yo single forever here. And is not I didn’t try. 🙄
@@solfh Yes, I know how it feels to be single at age 32. I am 34 myself. Because most men go for the young ones, it is what it is. But I think you will find one, you just need to try more and put more effort I think, eventually you will meet the right one👍
Bruhh
...I cannot stop admiring u gurl...
U r one of my biggest role models ❤🎉🎉🎉😊
Thank youu so much,Simone! ♥
simone is the sister i never had
thank you very much for this useful video!! I’ve never dated guys, so I don’t know much due to inexperience, but thanks to you, I’m learning a lot of things to be with the right person. thanks again!! I love you and wish you good health!
As a guy, here's a tip that will get a guy to chase you nine times out of ten. YOU make the first move, YOU go sit at his table at the mall cafeteria, or at the club, or on lunch break at work. And then YOU show interest first. That's how the good guys are found, is if YOU chase them first, then they'll chase you to the ends of the earth unless they're genuinely uninterested. The good guys (such as myself) almost never make the first moves because they are never really looking for a relationship.
@rossafayza that's why I said 9 out of ten
A man's job is to initiate and a woman's is to reciprocate. If you think a woman is of value and worth then you'll want to make her yours without her doing the hunting for you.
The perspective you gave about getting married before and after 30s was something I've never thought of before. In general, and technically, what you said tends to be true and instead of seeing late marriage as failure, we should actually think about this issue. The social pressure gets to everyone but nothing is worse than feeling lonely in a marriage forced by social pressure. Plus, I believe the new 30s to be the old 20s.
Legit so true. When they're into you, there is never any question, period. When we were just starting to date, my now spouse would already be making plans for the next date 5 minutes after he picked me up for the present date. It was so endearing, I just adored that! 2 kids, a mortgage, and 12 years later, here we are!
I agree with the main message of the video and think there’s a lot of truth in it. But I also want to add that while it’s ok to not like someone because of the way they pursue you, we shouldn’t disrespect them or call them a clown. Don’t ever take anyone for granted. Just another woman’s perspective.
thanks for this. i needed this so much.
Ommo Momma, you really care about me and my sss girlies. One time I msgd Simone on a Saturday abt a billing concern on SSS and she immediately replied even if it was a Saturday. She lives up to her values of being empathetic. Thank you for coming to my and our lives. We at the SSS loves you so much. And Alex hahaha
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@@simonesquared momma is me the one organizing the Thailand trip ily more! Each single day! 😭😭😭
Big sister to the rescue 💪❤️
A much needed video for all of us!
Thankyou.. really needed this ❤
I needed this yesterday man
this is the perfect timing tysm
Writing down how you feel about a person is cool in all but the best way to learn is from experience and making multiple mistakes or by focusing on other things besides dating because we are slaves to our habits until eventually we grow out of them through experience or we develop new habits to replace old ones like exploring your options instead of settling for a specific type of person, you may also learn more about yourself doing this! You have to find yourself before you can find someone else.
Amazing content❤ met a guy from london in the internet and we gonna meet in person in a few weeks , he seems like a nice guy, so far lol, hope london men are good like you said .
Love from 🇧🇷
really needed this video so bad
As a guy the part around 3:45 is a little inaccurate. Guys have learned if they show too much interest they push girls away so they often try not to be so naturally giving & try to make her wait and guess and feel unsure
😂😂😂😂 tffff.. good women do not want to guess or play dmb games. Leave that for immature-know-nothing-about-life people. Jeez I really hope you don’t actually believe women want that
@@solfh tottaly agree. As a guy I believe that you just... love and dont play games since "The player" is usually unstable person and there is no reason for a women to make family with someone unstable
That's g ame playing,especially after 50,we have been to the circus,we have seen the clowns!
There is nothing called too much interest. If you know what you want then your interests will automatically align with right person.
If you dont know what you want, you still want to show the level of interest you would like to show (whatever that is) so that you weed out the people who dont reciprocate. It might take a while to meet someone this way but atleast you wont start/break off multiple times with wrong people. On the other hand, if you are lucky you will meet the right person sooner.
And that's always going to be true contrary to what women say because this is how we are biologically wired. We're simply not attracted to desperate men and honestly men aren't attracted to desperate women either. It comes down to building your self worth and loving yourself enough so that in return it teaches people to love and value you the same if not more.
I feel like this applies to friendships as well. Like, so many ppl be making friendships so complicated T ^ T like it isn't that hard to let your friend know if you can't talk at times, or ask them how they are. I met people online who either will not answer your very simple questions like if they say they're going somewhere and I ask where they will not answer or they will only talk about their boyfriend and not even prioritize you as a friend or ask how u r or insult you when you tell them you didn't appreciate what they said cause it hurt your feelings . . ? Like just no, stop being such a red flag in friendships T ^ T Like, I always do my best to let my friends know if I can not talk and do my best to answer their questions or thoughts. I don't think it is that hard : - (
My story is quite different. I met a guy who likes me and I dont have to questioned him. I was secure and genuinely happy. The other guys before him are all toxic and I thought I finally met my person. Then he cheated and start a new relationship which traumatized me to the core. He begged for forgiveness but I just cannot accept him. Now he gave me mixed signals but I held my head high and now I dont know if a guy ever really likes me or not. 😂
We never know. He may be crazy about us at first then he might meet someone else or he might be just pretending until he gets sex then he'll lose interest or whatever. We don't know until we know.
He did like u he’s just a pos!
But damn that’s psycho behavior!
@@peekaboots01wow men suck
OMG! the comment about if you make me feel stressed before we are even partners... This is exactly what I'm feeling atm!
I´ll have to be gone soon too!
That ring thing is so true because I literally don’t understand being together for that long and no ring
Don’t be too available in your cellphone! Just to talk someone! Too much attachment is not LOVE
If you want Love
Let them chase you
And create emotional for you!
You must whole by yourself! Completely to yourself! It’s hard to them to play your feelings! That’s why don’t too much attachment! It’s not love!! It’s a trapped… they’re take advantage of your feelings! That’s why You got play! Girls don’t too much emotion!
Thanks queen. will rewatch whenever I need to take off my clown wig and fix my crown HAHAHAHAHAH ily ily
Yas queen
Queen posted 👸🏻❤
Genuinely Needed 🙌🏻🙃
Thank Youuu ❤️
Bro the timing is perfect
Love Simone, she’s my favourite❤
needed this fr
Nice one, Simone!❤
needed this.
Queen always to the rescue🛐
Hey girl, I just wanted to mention that when you say „Ich liebe dich“ at the end of a video is the singular form of I love you. I you want to address multiple people it’s „Ich liebe euch“ 🥰
The TIMINGGGGGGG😮
She always knows WHAT IS UP. THE TIMING.
sis be giving life saving advices, always!!
Father Alex, the toxic dating coach you ae referring to. 😂😂 i am a fan too
You literally changed my mindset I love your videos thank you so much love you 💗💗💗
Action matter more than words . This is how I know what his intentions are. Very simple
i think its hard when they treat u so well at the start when you weren't even that interested and when you fall for them, they just pull away like a mofo. i struggle with letting it go :") any advice?
Queen posted❤
As a guy, I saw a lot of my own flaws watching this video especially with communication but sometimes I just want time to myself for like 2 or 3 hours and I know I should just communicate better but I think its difficult to me to tell her id rather watch a movie right now than talk to her. I've had this in most of my past relationships and realized it. I also find it tiring constantly tying to impress her or be charming. Not sure how to fix it but to be honest I'm fine being single and focusing on my marks and that.
Yea you should probably remain single and not make another woman waste their time with you until you have the energy actually to have a serious relationship that requires and always will require that effort of communication. Respectfully telling you, as a 32 yo woman who has been struggling all her life with men like you. I am just very confused as to what do men want .. seems like all is do what they want when they want
The dude wants a few hours to himself. Anyone would get tired of being the circus clown. The relationship doesnt revolve just around the woman and her wants and needs@solfh
@@KatyaVasilivna he can just state so to his partner. That’s what I meant. But men don’t say sht. Want women to guess. Just read what he said.. what is so hard to say I am going to watch a movie now, call you later.
These videos help me learn a lot about dating.
I broke up with my bf today, needed this
The good ones won't run from you ❤
Girlie out here saving me from myself 😂😭
Well done. Have a good day. ❤
I m a man, I was with a girl lately and I can tell the same.
Everything was perfect with her, I ve never met someone this beautiful and with the same values than me.
I talked a lot with her by message and invest a lot of my thoughts and was imagining me with her nearly for the rest of my life.
But she completely skipped me for a stupid reason after we went out for the third time.
I think it’s all a matter of balance, if one person put more energy than the other, he will be the victim of the situation.
You have to find someone who invest the same as you.
This most likely never happened. Even if it did, what exactly is a"stupid reason".
@@canesugar911 we hang out, we didn’t plan to go to restaurant, but she wanted to after we went to the bar.
I asked her if she was ok so to pay for her cause it’s wasn’t me who invited her.
She took it personally and didn’t want to see me again for that reason…
@@Galliapatrianostranot surprised , it's extreme turn off for a dude to ask ,,pay for yourself " that early cuz it shows you're greedy to save as much as possible on meeting her, it's not about paying for someone constantly,it just clearly shows you will start being cheapskate as soon as opportunity comes and most women don't find it attractive, it doesn't matter if she proposed it or not , it was about spending more time with you and u f it up,you and other dudes can deny it as much as u want but women look for non cheapskate dude as much as men look for beautiful women, what she skipped you for is not stupid, it puts a perspective what kind of dude u r
@@AAA-kr7nh ok then but when do u stop that ? After one, two or three restaurants ? And if she left after the fourth I don’t accept to pay ? And me, you think I didn’t offer also my time for her ? And there is many other way to show investment than paying for restaurant lol
I know it wasn’t classy from me but I don’t get that view, it’s just prove that she wasn’t interested by me if she left just for this reason …
@@Galliapatrianostraur right
As a man, I’ll tell you that unless he’s an emotionally damaged defect, you will know whether he likes you or not. I’m direct and if I like a woman, she will know because I put her as my priority. Even if I am busy, she will get my response within few hours at the latest. I will not make her wait for days like some jerks who play games.
On time 😹💖thank you
he didn’t like my instagram story & I got disappointed. THE TIMINGGG OF THIS VIDEO
im sorry but girl 😭
Girl😂
My queen ....my savior , who descended on earth to save me .
so true...a guy at work really interested in me, then i bought him box of chocs at valentines...he recieved them well. then he just turned silent a week later - no more interest shown in me since then.
Helloooooo perfect timing video channel.
I love u
BRO the timing of this video😭>>>