"You stop trying when things get tough. This is how losers are created." Broke my heart. I needed to hear it, and I really, really don't want to be like this anymore.
why you can’t change 1) change your environment, don’t be stuck where you can’t grow 2) no pity party, DO SOMETHING TO INACT CHANGE 3) remove toxic situations; get out of survival mode or find support groups; find a third place 4) prioritize yourself (health, mentality, etc); find ways to practice peace 5) step out of your COMFORT ZONE; it ends w me 6) focus on habits to ACHIEVE GOALS (map out goals and ways to get there) 7) PUSH THROUGH; if it’s hard, it is supposed to be when you are going through change; don’t quit 8) take accountability for how you hurt yourself and think “how good can life get” 9) SEEK KNOWLEDGE, listen to what can help you evolve, skip the BS 10) stop the comparison, sometimes the regular life is your life. notes: stop saying you don’t deserve what is bestowed upon you by God! It’s given to you for a reason. BREAK THE MENTAL RESISTANCE
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life ❤
1. Move out [ don't be stuck in a situation ] 2. Surround yourself with family outside of your home 3. Take accountability for your actions 4. Zigzag pattern in growth is Normal. 5. Don't be too focused on goal but daily habits. 6. Stop trying when things get tough [ Biggest Mistake ] 7. Sometimes you are also hurdle in the pathway of your goals. 8. You can't accept help [ it can do wonders in abnormal ways ] 9. Knowledge is the power. [ Read new books ] 10. You don't eat healthy food [ out of sight is out of mind ] 11. You're not patient enough. [ Things take time ] 12. Do what you want not others. [ This is your life, be selfish ] 13. Social media is like a two-faced coin. 14. You don't believe you deserve a good life. [ change this mindset ] 15. Stop being ungrateful. I came across this channel through pintrest and I can't thank enough the God for his guidance. Thankyou Liz🤍🤍
I was raised in EXTREMELY toxic and abusive family. I was unable to escape fir years. I was beaten up,sexually and mentally abused. Finally i was able to get a job and home and i moved out. Now im 25 and its been 3 years since i left them and i still struggle with my mental health. I go to therapy and take pills because i have panick attacks,ptsd and depression. I still cannot realize what a big step i made by escaping. I feel so proud if myself. My whe life changed for good. Liz is complitely right as always. ❤️
I'm so sorry you experienced such awful pain for most of your life. Congratulations on getting free and gaining control of the rest of your life going forward🎉 If you don't mind, I wanted to share a channel that has really helped me overcome a lot of the complications of cptsd as a result of abuse and neglect it's called The Crappy Childhood Fairy and she has some excellent strategies for overcoming some of the bad wiring as a result of abuse so you can free yourself from the past for good. ❤
to any woman that's dealing with abuse please do not blame yourself. you are not the one to blame . we live in a fkd up world where society tends to blame the victims instead of blaming the actual abusers.
@@crewalpha Is belittling others a form of self love or self loathing? Just curious.... Why does it bother you if anyone uses Botox in their own body anyways? Because you want the effect without the risk, and no such thing exists? What's your problem really? 🤔
This is like a wakeup call for me, i’ve been letting myself drained in my depression and let my toxic family define me, it’s time for me to stop doing nothing and be more confident to meet new people and do new things, thank you so much for this video
I love how you said you have an advantage because you came from a traumatic place. I've thought this about myself also...but the reality is not everyone is resilient in the face of adversity. My other siblings have not been as successful (mentally, physically, financially) as me. I don't know why I'm like this, but from a very young age I held on to the dream that one day I would have happiness. I'm definitely struggling with my mental health but I'm wise enough to seek help and go to therapy.
After having a significant decline in my mental state and academic performance, this is what I needed the most. This felt like a slap in the face, but in the best way possible. When you started talking about taking personal accountability for the things you let happen to you, I realized that I has this sort of victim mentality that I needed to let go. I blame my tough academic schedule for my grades, blame school for my stress, blame people for my insecurities. From now on. I'm going to have that same "How good can this get" attitude, while working on building self-confidence and bettering my productivity. I want to be respected by my classmates. I want to be involved in more activities instead of watching other people do them, I will make a better life for myself. Thanks for this video :) I needed it.
She spits out nothing but facts. Literally life changing. When I stopped with the pity party and used the law of assumption plus my actions, I changed everything. Literally everything!! My life changed. I got with my soon to be husband who is this ideal guy, I finally wrote the book I was dreaming about, I completed my medical degree as the batch second topper, my future aspirations have become bigger than ever, my relationships with everyone around me including my parents changed, I got free from my binge ED of 9 years, I could finally cut out toxic people.. I manifested everything. I live my dream life now. Stop complaining and start doing guys!! Just stop and persist in the fact that you're that bitch who has everything. Listen to Liz. She is amazing ❤️
@@gl11672 hello! The Law of Assuming is basically a law of the Universe stating that whatever you assume and persist with is what will manifest in your reality. I am a believer in the law as well as the power of our mind from psychological perspective as well. I would love to clarify more and share about it. I have a few videos on my channel doing just that. I am very new to this so they are not as per the standard of RUclips creators but I've tried my best to explain the main points. I hope this reply is helpful. Thank you for asking 😄❤️
Hi!! can you give any advice about medical school. I am med student and I am really feelling dssapointed with myself. I lost desire to study, i see that my futture is very and i will never become a Doctor
@@pickyblossom__ Harsing? It seems this generation won't change, nevermind I guess I was wrong it does get worse and people don't change NOW, Before when shame and common courtesy were not dead... -JACK
“I thrive in stress. It’s home. It’s the reason I can be successful” I have never felt so inspired in my entire life, I am NOT even kidding. Like honestly, this optimism is just off-charts, Liz! How did you even take stress in a positive way?! Like, woah! “Stress feels home” is an eye-opener to me. Honestly, I keep replaying that part because OMG, I just couldn’t process that someone can be THIS positive. Thank you so much, you really inspired me there! And the rest of the tips are also really useful! While these weren’t new to me, when I went through something, I came to exactly the same conclusion and these are really very helpful for someone in need! Keep going, you help millions everyday ^^
1_ Change your environment 2_ Date someone who is from the contry that you want to live in 3_get away from toxic people, be surrounded by people who can support you 4_Be focused on the habits(what you can do every single day) 5_How far can i take this? *mentality 6_You have to accept help 7_Learn, learn and learn 8_ Care about your health 9_Be patient 10_Realise what i want and not other people 11_ Stop comparing your life to social media 12_Believe that you deserve a good life
time stamps🤍 2:52 Your environment 4:50 Look for a job in the country you want live in 5:28 You are surrounded by toxic people 6:47 Create a "family" and support system outside of your home 7:20 You are too focus on other people 10:49 Stop trying when things get tough 12:10 "How good can this get" mentality 12:39 You cannot accept help 13:50 You stoppedd learning 18:42 Realise what you want and not other people 19:38 Stop comparing your life to social media 20:39 You don't believe you deserve a good life
yeah but idk in science you do the same thing over and over and expect different results because a 0.0000001 smth difference is usually nothing in practicality right?
I am so grateful that I came across this video. Yes, it's impossible to change your life after watching one video, but it made me think about things I hadn't thought about before, and I feel happy when I think about something new. This video definitely contributed something to my desire to change my life, at least enough to think about it all day and write my third comment this year, overcoming my social anxiety ☠️ [sorry, I'm not very good at English]
I'm glad I slide into this video. It's really an eye opener for me. All of my bad habits are mentioned and I don't wanna be a loser anymore who's locking up herself in a box 😭 You're a hero thank youuuuuu Liz! 🥺
I've been watching Liz for almost a year now, and I can not even begin to describe how she has changed my life, my mentality, my perspective... just everything. The day that I become everything I've ever dreamed of, I'll owe it to her. It's truly a blessing to exist at the same time as her, and I couldn't be more grateful.
I really like that she put a black screen at 8:30ish because this is a technique used in the media when they want to include the audience in the video. This is because typically, if you are looking at a dark/black screen, you can see yourself reflected in the screen due to the lighting in your surroundings, and it was really powerful to put it right at 8:30 because she was just talking about looking into a mirror and waking yourself up to the reality that you want to change. In this way, she basically put a mirror (the black screen) in the video and demanded that we look into it and become the change we want to see. Very powerful choice!
i’m 17 and my mother died a month ago, and honestly I started to doubt myself and a positive mindset for a while because advice can be subjective depending on what is common for people to go through and what’s tragic, but watching liz’s videos makes me feel less isolated. she gives big sister vibes and i love it🤍 edit; thank you for all the condolences, i really appreciate it
i'm grateful for had found this video, i was really needing this right now. i did some important exams some weeks ago and i'm kinda sad about the results and idk what is gonna happen in this next year. i'm feeling so bad these days and watch videos like that make me feel better and help me with my anxiety
Thank you for these words. I really needed to hear this, i always aimed for change but never really thought of the process. I didnt care about the Journey, and i cried about how everything was too hard. Ive been stuck in this loop since my late childhood. Even up until recently, i blamed everyone else for not taking care of me. Yet theres no one who can take better care of me, than me. No one can know my wants and desires better than me. I feel pathetic for not having have realized this sooner, and having my familys thoughts dictate my actions. Thank you for opening my eyes and giving me a sense of clarity.
The beginning where you said “I was depressed, locking myself in my room, not socializing or eating properly” hit me so hard. I’m feeling and doing these things right now and it’s time for me to finally make a change. Thank you for making this video
She literally changed my mindset, not in a way we all expect. I wanted to start my RUclips channel, but had too many fears. After discovering her I realised that I put artificial pressure on me. Why? I don’t know. Maybe because we see only the ideal edited and high quality content here and it gives lots of insecurities. So Liz helped me to understand, that if I want make a change and give a value, it’s ok to just do that without fancy camera or lighting. I do my first steps, but have a hope for more. Believe in yourself queens ❤️
I found this channel at such an interesting time in my life, it almost feels like a turning point. Thanks for the reality checks. Things are getting Real.
hearing this video made me realize many things, i tend to stress out and stay unmotivated. i admit on eating fast food almost every day due to my sister practically forcing her diet on me which is really affecting me. i shouldn’t be suffering like this. i’m going to fulfill myself by going out on walks, clearing my mind, reading more books and enjoying life more often. thank you so much Liz. I know life will have its ups and downs, but this was definitely something i needed to be called out on. thank you so so much. ❤️
I’m sorry I can’t get behind this one at all the fact that she thinks it’s the woman’s fault she’s being abused because she’s attracting those type of men. I don’t know why we keep blaming women for the stuff men do. It’s not her fault she was abused it’s the abusers fault. Plus it’s extremely common for women who have assaulted or abused for it to happen again. When you look at an abusers mind set they go for girls they know they can abuse and that the fault of men not women just living their lives trying to stay alive. It honestly makes me sick to hear her say she doesn’t feel bad and it’s basically her fault, it excuses the man who’s actually at fault and now the VICTIM is being told no one feels bad and it’s basically her fault
@@whoisjoe3492 thats not what she said at all, she is not taking the blame off the abuser but she is saying that if you are consistently attracting these people into your life you should change because there is obviously something about you that is accepting of that behavior.
@@whoisjoe3492 I agree! I am going to ask Liz about this, it is very offensive to victim blame as women of all kind are repetitively abused in this patriarchal society. It can be true that somebody who is more soft, gullible and forgiving will get abused more often but that is a personal subject and the abuser should still be held accountable for their bad actions. Abuse is an inappropriate topic to discuss this on in such broad terms, it would be less insulting if Liz described the situation more specifically and clarified that abuse is very real and sometimes cannot be avoided regardless of the kind of person, and if she stated that she was particularly referring to that one situation because of the victims traits, instead of making it seem like an open door for victim blaming
@@0178_rania I think it's very obvious that she's talking about the situation from the girl in she saw because if you go online and talk about the same thing over and over again and still do not do the work in order to avoid it then her priorities are not right. Everyone knows that the victim is not at fault when it comes to this kind of situations but if it's constantly happening then something is wrong with the way you act and you need to fix that. That's what she's saying. It's about learning patterns of behavior within yourself and others and start acting upon it to avoid the same results. If you know that you have the type of personality that attracts people who do no do you well, why don't you change?! The only time this is acceptable is when we are talking about people with some kind of struggles or if they are underage but if you are a able adult in full competences then accountability needs to happen.
I swear I really come back to my senses only when liz starts speaking, this girl is a great speaker, she's so confident, and omg the modulation in her voice, she knows what she's doing, liz conveys her message directly without lagging, and is actually completely aware of the huge impact it has on us, I could literally watch every single video of hers and learn and put into action something I'm actually aware about, but yk only liz can make me to.
Perfect Timing! I’m watching this video as I’m stuck in a pattern myself and in dire need to change my choices to change the outcome. it’s been depressing & the hardest pill to swallow that that I’m responsible for all the mess I created, but thanks to this video, I’m relieved to know, there is still room to change & become better. Thank you Liz for sharing your mindset with us.
Hey Liz, your videos has always popped up in my homepage, but this is the first time I watch one of 'em because I wasn't really brave to do so. I want to thank you so much because you encourage me to become a more positive person in general, overcome my fears, and embrace all my insecurities and trauma. Hopefully you won't change the way you speak about all of these important knowledge; straightforward and provide such a clear and simple examples in real life. Once again, thank you so much
This is really exactly what i needed. I always fall in the same cycle of being around the people that i promised myself to cut off, doing some down bad habits of checking on my ex's social media, being a people's pleaser etc
The quote starting at 12:40 is a life lesson of mine. As a human you can do almost nothing when alone. Looking back at my childhood and teenage years I often gravely underestimated how important communication was, and how easy it could have solved a lot of problems.
my mom told me that getting into relationships with bad people can be partially our own fault. And at first I was like "nahhh, we can't tell." but...truthfully...we can. Time reveals all, and when we give it time, we don't jump into the relationship, and force feelings...when we give things time, someone's true colors will show. how they truly act will come out. But even then- there are hints, and red flags that pop up. Unless that person is just a MASTER manipulator, and a master at covering their entire life up, then it can be harder. But ASK questions. ask ask ask, get to know their family, their friends, ask questions that require consistency, and be suspicious when they don't keep the same consistency. People might look at this and thing "well you're just so untrustworthy!" yes, I am. You should be too. be selective with who you let in your life. Who you let see you at your lowest and who you let into your family and close groups. You are a sacred treasure, that is one thing that is very true, and no it isn't narcissistic to know that you are worth so much more than an unlocked door. Because an unlocked door leads to an unprotected house- and anyone can come in a steal and take what they want, and leave you empty. So don't get into these horrible relationships, keep a check on yourself as well. be like "woah...am I allowing them to do this to me?" because bestie there are so many things you ALLOW to happen to leads to even worse things in the future.
I've never wondering especially who I am and that's the huge difference which i feel right now. Thank you Liz for doing great job. I'm pushing my boundaries with your help. I'm grateful for it ❤️🤗
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons ex. OCD for me). I’ve had to overhaul how I approach taking care of my brain (exercise, journaling, studying etc) by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on youtube channel. Historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small, consistent small effort everyday. And its crazy how it adds up.
@@cannarosee9416 Here it is! It’s an OCD Podcast but I think the main points can be extrapolated for any one’s benefit. ruclips.net/video/CGyW1Rp1Y2g/видео.html&ab_channel=TheOCDStories
@@tablecloth1943 Here it is! It’s an OCD Podcast but I think the main points can be extrapolated for any one’s benefit. ruclips.net/video/CGyW1Rp1Y2g/видео.html&ab_channel=TheOCDStories
This is the first video I've watched of hers and I already feel so much change in my mentality. I have put in a lot of effort to make my mind a more positive space, but I haven't been able to take the action to make my life a positive space. And I think this video really shook something inside of me. The way she articulates her words and keeps it 100% real is honestly refreshing. I am hoping for 2023 to be a blessed year, and a year full of happiness. Happy new year everyone.
Its 2024 and i seriously need to change. Its crazy. My kakak always told me these things. How could I have been so blind. Everyone in comments says shes the older sister they never had. But honestly I have a sister just like her, but this made me realise how privileged and lucky i am. This made me more grateful than ever. I feel like this year I can finally actually do something. I can take control of my life. Thank you so much Liz for opening my mind up. I feel so grateful, much more than ever and continue to expand. Her mindset is so powerful, and so are her words. It is so carefully structured that really hits right into your heart.
"Slow down. And just focus on what you need to do every single day. and every single day, its not going to be OH PERFECT, you are not a perfect human being. You are probably going to fall back but then the next day: do it again and do it again and do it again!" THANK YOU LIZ! well said as usual, so happy that for months ago you appeared in my recommendation, its a blessing watching inspirational person like you
@@robloxisiya6710 / EVEN if she’s already Muslim - the “may Allah guide her” comment made total sense because you say that even to a Muslim … you may be guided to the straight path but you say it to be a much better Muslim :)
I needed this, I’m struggling with an addiction with lust which is against my religion and I feel so drained and spiritually lost. I need to flee from lust and change, thank you Liz.
She is a great inspiration for me!Almost like a big sister i have never had but been a big sister that was surrounded with stupid,dumb and blind people who werenot seeing me as a shining star which it was their problem NOT MINE!Liz is a great big sister.She talks her mind up and with any style that it sounds extremely bold and direct messages.I loved her talking and the way she is being authentic and in love with herself.Hope everyone who listening to her is healing so greatly,deeply and perfectly and being a badass in their lives,feeling like a QUEEN and not hiving F to anybody also to shitty Family members too!
I will just listen to her videos again and again, why? Because she teaches me failure is not the end its the start and how you have to write it, but also she makes me feel happy, motivated and grateful, and I deserve all of that just like anyone reading this or listening to her, I made mistakes, a lot of mistakes, I may have been bad to others too, but the only way to go forward is acknowledge, apologize and learn, I can't keep feeling guilty forever, no one is perfect and no one will ever be perfect, thank you Liz for everything
This is beautiful. You made me cry. I have been and am still being emotionally abused and I know I will escape one day very soon. Your words inspired me💖💖💖
@@SenoritxJaneDiamond girl, take it one day at a time, and I hope you manage to get out of your situation and flourish, I'll have you in my prayer, remember you're stronger than you think 🙏❤
i'm so grateful because for months now i've been following your advice, i'm attracting only good things i'm changing i'm giving myself the means to change and i'm so much happier and confident i have better grades better relationships thank you really you just woke me up
thank you so much Liz!! i have been struggling with my problems and emotions and sometimes I create problems because I couldn't handle and solve my problems. So I decided to watch this problems as I feel really disappointed in myself and I really need to change myself as a person cause I wanna start all over again and try to live a better life. So thank you very much Liz, your videos are very motivated and thoughtful
I am a guy watching this video . Lizz ❤ I am so grateful to you because of your content and your videos are so motivating and you're teaching me a lot of lessons about what wrong i did back in my past what is something stopping me to become the better version of mine what habits i should stop doing and in which environment i should take myself to be what i want to and a lot... Thanks a lot for making me feel confident and i don't care if am alone i've myself and that's the best person i can ever have with me and am enjoying my own company... I love you lizz may god bless you and you all as well who are reading this comment ❤🙏🏽
This made me cry bc I just left a toxic person I been with for 4 year been with him since high school had a kid with him he was mentally and physically abusive but I left I didn’t want my daughter to see that I felt to gross after having a baby referring to my body and 2 day after I broke it off he was with other women and telling me I wasn’t going to amount to anything I was depressed for a while but I see my daughter and I have to change for her so I’ve applied for college to get somewhere and am going to start soon 💖and I started doing a weight loss journey and this video showed up was so heart warming and I totally agree with u with everything and thank you this really helped me 💖💖💖💖💞💞💞
I‘ve heard most of these things before, but hearing Liz say them makes me actually LISTEN and truly think about it, which concludes into me taking actions. Thank you so much Liz for inspiring us and helping us on our journey to improve!
I used to have horrendous depression when I was younger and I've been working for YEARS to heal and feel better and do better for myself.I remember at times I thought I'd never make it out ,like it was.ao.bad I would rot in bed and not shower for months.Yet here I am slaying at life and I'm so dam proud of myself.I really hope if someone reading this who is going through something similar gets out and gets out in the end !
She has this ability of making you feel so comfortable, it's like you're talking to your best friend or big sister and she's telling you exactly what you need to hear. Thank you!
I live in a third world country , and I'm mentally not okay because of the environment and the worst part is I can't do anything about it I'm 20 , and i come from low income family i always dream to leave this horrible country but i know i have to work hard weather I'll make it or not but i will never stop trying, thank you liz you're really a life changer
You can do it!! Please don’t give up, keep your spirit strong and do some research on different things you can do. I know that there is a program where you can live in a specific country, if you work for free they will give you housing and food and other resources. That could be a good place to start looking. I am rooting for you you can achieve your goals
You are so wonderful girl. Thank so much!When I listen you I change my mindset and it’s so amazing!You are really help people and I am so grateful that I met your channel!
Thank you so much for this video. This is the wake up that I really needed. This hit home. You are such an inspiration to get people up and moving in the right direction. I will definitely watch this again. Thank you 🙏🏿
Hi Liz, I just want to say that as a guy and watching your content and hearing what you have to say, it has been very helpful this past few months with what I have been dealing with in my life. I know a lot of your content seems to be geared towards female viewers but a lot of what you talk about really resonates with me and inspires me to be better. So on behalf of the one the guys that watch your channel thank you for continuing to inspire us to be better versions of ourselves and encouraging us to go after the life we want. God bless!!!
@@shadowrealm6 I know she is but what I’m saying is that most of her viewers seem to be women based on some things she talks about in videos and the comments in the comments section are mostly women based on what I’ve seen.
I feel powerful when I see you liz, I’m so grateful because I’m doing my best each day, I’m disciplined, positive and I think you have helped me a lot to keep doing so
you are like the bigger sister i never had.i’m so thankful that i had a chance to watch your video. i was scrolling through youtube without any purpose,hopeless and depressed ,waisting my time by watching meaningless videos but suddenly i saw the title of your video and it really impressed me. i learn a lot from you. thank you❤️
To be honest, I'm so grateful and happy when I have a chance to watch videos like this. I seem to be encouraged and motivated a lot. And about one week later, I will have the most important exam this year and I hope I can do it the best by advancing my English through your videos
I hope the exam went well for yu its been abt a year, i have my finals in 20 days and honestly my heart broke when she told me to me paitent cause ik its not possible to gte the best marks in 20 days but i just needed to ignore it 😊
"Being constantly surrounded by toxic people and environment, you will become so depressed that you will not be able to recognizes yourself anymore" ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much sister💞. Going thru alot from september, really wanted to hear these things from my close people's but they didn't your videos did.❤️🥰
This video is tremendously valuable to me, I asked Allah to give me a sign if this idea that I hold close to me..is actually meant for me; I finally found my sign All Thanks to this video. THANK YOU LIZ
THE SUDDEN HIT ON MY BRAIN TO WATCH ALL YOUR VIDEOS AND RESET EVERYTHING IN MY CURRENT LIFE LOVE YOU THANKS FOR MAKING ME BELIEVE, LOVE AND EVOLVE MY SOUL💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗
this is THE best video i have ever watched. i am so grateful to have stumbled upon your channel. thank you for inspiring millions, your words and convictions are spell binding. will definitely come back to this video as much as i can!!
It’s insane how her Videos always shows up when I really do need them and she talks about everything I am facing , may be because we were born at the same day 1/1 haha i love you liz keep up the GREAT energy ✨⚡️also i love how everything she said i actually DO ! but it’s like a reminder to watch this video and to organize my thoughts ❤
Exactly I’m like how am I in the same situation I was in last year around the same time. We don’t realize how our habits can put us in autopilot and we self sabotage.
Whatever Liz said is incredible! I have been working on myself for more than 6 months and trust me guys I had a whole new shift. I had never been like this for my whole life and now I'm completely changed. My life is filled with ample blessings and I am doing such amazing things in my life that I would only dreamt about. Consistency is the goal baby gurls! Keep going, and you'll thrive onto a whole new trajectory that you not even had anticipated.
"Even if you're crawling, you're getting there" I needed to hear this video but I needed to hear that sentence the most. Edit: It's like this video was made for me. I was actually hopinh for a sign today and I definately take this video as my sign because I did not look this video up, it just appeared and I need to hear all these words today. I keep having unrealistic expectations for myself, expecting myself to change at the snap of a finger. I keep expecting myself to see results quickly. I'm not patient with myself or with life and everyone else around me is not patient with me or my life but I cannot keep caring about what others think and instead focus on myself. I am crawling right now, I keep making little steps and I keep fallinh but eventually I always pick myself back up again and keep making small steps. I always thinl that crawling is not good enough and that I need to be doing more and see immediate big changes in my life but not everyone's life works out that way. Like Liz said even if I'm crawling, I'm gettig there and having ups and downs is part of life. Thank you Liz for making this video. I'm actually going to send this to a friend. 💗 I hope more people who needs this video sees this video.
I'm here today and I thank God that I met you before you are the best healer ever now I become a better person,and learning ur advices is a blessing keep going Queen 💓💓💗
This is really great advice and trust me it works! I left my toxic family just out of high school and it takes refocusing and recognizing the ways your limiting beliefs/ surroundings has effected your quality of life.
This video showed me that I am doing something right. I'm always beating myself up over not reaching goals within x time but there's so many other points I forget. Like where I started from and where I am now, I was hopeless and clueless one year ago, today I have a plan and a goal I am working towards and this video is a reminder to me that success and reaching goals in life isn't linear. Also yes, I will never again say that I am self-made or never took help from anybody to get where I am. Countless people consciouly have helped me reach where I am today. Thanks for reminding us of these things Liz, you're a real gem🖤
She's a big sister we all need
Seriously it's such a blessing that i found out her channel
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"You stop trying when things get tough. This is how losers are created." Broke my heart. I needed to hear it, and I really, really don't want to be like this anymore.
Let's change ourself together 💗let's try harder together
@@__Onss__. yes okay!
Same.
real
Amen
why you can’t change
1) change your environment, don’t be stuck where you can’t grow
2) no pity party, DO SOMETHING TO INACT CHANGE
3) remove toxic situations; get out of survival mode or find support groups; find a third place
4) prioritize yourself (health, mentality, etc); find ways to practice peace
5) step out of your COMFORT ZONE; it ends w me
6) focus on habits to ACHIEVE GOALS (map out goals and ways to get there)
7) PUSH THROUGH; if it’s hard, it is supposed to be when you are going through change; don’t quit
8) take accountability for how you hurt yourself and think “how good can life get”
9) SEEK KNOWLEDGE, listen to what can help you evolve, skip the BS
10) stop the comparison, sometimes the regular life is your life.
notes: stop saying you don’t deserve what is bestowed upon you by God! It’s given to you for a reason.
BREAK THE MENTAL RESISTANCE
This was so fucking helpful thanks pookie
thank you man ❤
To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life ❤
❤️
I needed this, thank you very much 🥺💞💖👋🏽
❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ❤️
Ameen for you too ❤
"even if you're crawling you're getting there"that hit home
Your name. This is how my niece is called. Never heard it before ☺️ Super happy to see
@@amrarizvic6249 that's my dogs name🫂
@@111emilija STOP 😭😭
Yeahh
Name hazrulnaimjhg
I use your videos to learn English
Me too😂
Me too❤😂
You’re welcome
1. Move out [ don't be stuck in a situation ]
2. Surround yourself with family outside of your home
3. Take accountability for your actions
4. Zigzag pattern in growth is Normal.
5. Don't be too focused on goal but daily habits.
6. Stop trying when things get tough [ Biggest Mistake ]
7. Sometimes you are also hurdle in the pathway of your goals.
8. You can't accept help [ it can do wonders in abnormal ways ]
9. Knowledge is the power. [ Read new books ]
10. You don't eat healthy food [ out of sight is out of mind ]
11. You're not patient enough. [ Things take time ]
12. Do what you want not others. [ This is your life, be selfish ]
13. Social media is like a two-faced coin.
14. You don't believe you deserve a good life. [ change this mindset ]
15. Stop being ungrateful.
I came across this channel through pintrest and I can't thank enough the God for his guidance.
Thankyou Liz🤍🤍
Thank you for writing them down, I appreciate it
thank you❤
I was raised in EXTREMELY toxic and abusive family. I was unable to escape fir years. I was beaten up,sexually and mentally abused. Finally i was able to get a job and home and i moved out. Now im 25 and its been 3 years since i left them and i still struggle with my mental health. I go to therapy and take pills because i have panick attacks,ptsd and depression. I still cannot realize what a big step i made by escaping. I feel so proud if myself. My whe life changed for good. Liz is complitely right as always. ❤️
You are so strong! ❤
wishing you all the best 💗
Wishing you the best on your healing journey. Sending virtual hugs
I'm so sorry you experienced such awful pain for most of your life. Congratulations on getting free and gaining control of the rest of your life going forward🎉 If you don't mind, I wanted to share a channel that has really helped me overcome a lot of the complications of cptsd as a result of abuse and neglect it's called The Crappy Childhood Fairy and she has some excellent strategies for overcoming some of the bad wiring as a result of abuse so you can free yourself from the past for good. ❤
I hope you and your inner child heal and wish you the most peaceful life
Let's goooo another lesson to grow
Yessssss
U are so prettyyy
heck yeaaaa
🚗 💨
Grow grow grow! 🥹
Adding subtitles manually is great! Almost no youtuber does this. This is really important for non-native speakers. Thank you!
Toprağım Türk müsün sen
@@erva...8958 Sapına kadar 😄
her masada varız çok şükür
Beni de ekleyin
Ooooo hemşerilerim. Sizde mi buranın öğrencisiniz 💅💅💅
to any woman that's dealing with abuse please do not blame yourself. you are not the one to blame . we live in a fkd up world where society tends to blame the victims instead of blaming the actual abusers.
i don't know how she does it. but i rewatch her videos sometimes and they inspire me EVERY single time
She has mad me realise that self love makes life easier. My life improved so much since I started watching her
Same
Because we dont let the world negativy affect us 90% the way how people feel about you just a reflection how they feel about themselves i swear B
Self love is everything ❤️
Is botox self-love? Humble acceptance of deficiencies and flaws?
@@crewalpha Is belittling others a form of self love or self loathing? Just curious.... Why does it bother you if anyone uses Botox in their own body anyways? Because you want the effect without the risk, and no such thing exists? What's your problem really? 🤔
This is like a wakeup call for me, i’ve been letting myself drained in my depression and let my toxic family define me, it’s time for me to stop doing nothing and be more confident to meet new people and do new things, thank you so much for this video
Same
@@m.xl.y4022 you don’t know this person so why do you think that?
@@m.xl.y4022 How do you know this?
@@lisastuttmann1918 so weird
@@m.xl.y4022 lol. Then you learnt nothing from this video.
I love how you said you have an advantage because you came from a traumatic place. I've thought this about myself also...but the reality is not everyone is resilient in the face of adversity. My other siblings have not been as successful (mentally, physically, financially) as me. I don't know why I'm like this, but from a very young age I held on to the dream that one day I would have happiness. I'm definitely struggling with my mental health but I'm wise enough to seek help and go to therapy.
After having a significant decline in my mental state and academic performance, this is what I needed the most. This felt like a slap in the face, but in the best way possible. When you started talking about taking personal accountability for the things you let happen to you, I realized that I has this sort of victim mentality that I needed to let go. I blame my tough academic schedule for my grades, blame school for my stress, blame people for my insecurities. From now on. I'm going to have that same "How good can this get" attitude, while working on building self-confidence and bettering my productivity. I want to be respected by my classmates. I want to be involved in more activities instead of watching other people do them, I will make a better life for myself. Thanks for this video :) I needed it.
Same 😭
She spits out nothing but facts. Literally life changing. When I stopped with the pity party and used the law of assumption plus my actions, I changed everything. Literally everything!! My life changed. I got with my soon to be husband who is this ideal guy, I finally wrote the book I was dreaming about, I completed my medical degree as the batch second topper, my future aspirations have become bigger than ever, my relationships with everyone around me including my parents changed, I got free from my binge ED of 9 years, I could finally cut out toxic people.. I manifested everything. I live my dream life now. Stop complaining and start doing guys!! Just stop and persist in the fact that you're that bitch who has everything. Listen to Liz. She is amazing ❤️
Can you please explain further? How I can change everything with the law of assumption?!
@@gl11672 hello! The Law of Assuming is basically a law of the Universe stating that whatever you assume and persist with is what will manifest in your reality. I am a believer in the law as well as the power of our mind from psychological perspective as well. I would love to clarify more and share about it. I have a few videos on my channel doing just that. I am very new to this so they are not as per the standard of RUclips creators but I've tried my best to explain the main points. I hope this reply is helpful. Thank you for asking 😄❤️
@@drishwitch okay. Thank you. I'll definitely check it out.
Super! You listen to subliminals?
Hi!! can you give any advice about medical school. I am med student and I am really feelling dssapointed with myself. I lost desire to study, i see that my futture is very and i will never become a Doctor
Please don’t ever change the way you speak and present information, it may sound harsh sometimes, but we all need that reality check at times❤️
Yesssss! Totally agree with you. Love the way she sends her message across. I subscribed immediately.
yesss!!
Idc about harsing baby, if they deserve it they gonna get it
@@pickyblossom__ Harsing? It seems this generation won't change, nevermind I guess I was wrong it does get worse and people don't change NOW, Before when shame and common courtesy were not dead... -JACK
Yess exactly i really need this harsh behavior to correct my self
“I thrive in stress. It’s home. It’s the reason I can be successful”
I have never felt so inspired in my entire life, I am NOT even kidding. Like honestly, this optimism is just off-charts, Liz! How did you even take stress in a positive way?! Like, woah! “Stress feels home” is an eye-opener to me. Honestly, I keep replaying that part because OMG, I just couldn’t process that someone can be THIS positive. Thank you so much, you really inspired me there!
And the rest of the tips are also really useful! While these weren’t new to me, when I went through something, I came to exactly the same conclusion and these are really very helpful for someone in need! Keep going, you help millions everyday ^^
1_ Change your environment
2_ Date someone who is from the contry that you want to live in
3_get away from toxic people, be surrounded by people who can support you
4_Be focused on the habits(what you can do every single day)
5_How far can i take this? *mentality
6_You have to accept help
7_Learn, learn and learn
8_ Care about your health
9_Be patient
10_Realise what i want and not other people
11_ Stop comparing your life to social media
12_Believe that you deserve a good life
Thanks for writing it down
time stamps🤍
2:52 Your environment
4:50 Look for a job in the country you want live in
5:28 You are surrounded by toxic people
6:47 Create a "family" and support system outside of your home
7:20 You are too focus on other people
10:49 Stop trying when things get tough
12:10 "How good can this get" mentality
12:39 You cannot accept help
13:50 You stoppedd learning
18:42 Realise what you want and not other people
19:38 Stop comparing your life to social media
20:39 You don't believe you deserve a good life
You missed one. The part of health
Two actually
It’s so hard to create a family outside of home
Thank you
I was looking for this thanks a lot! :)
this woman is such a blessing, we love you liz ❤️❤️
true
yeah but idk in science you do the same thing over and over and expect different results because a 0.0000001 smth difference is usually nothing in practicality right?
Literally my godmother ❤️🌚
omg I just caught likes 444 I am not going to ruin
omg yesss
I am so grateful that I came across this video. Yes, it's impossible to change your life after watching one video, but it made me think about things I hadn't thought about before, and I feel happy when I think about something new. This video definitely contributed something to my desire to change my life, at least enough to think about it all day and write my third comment this year, overcoming my social anxiety ☠️
[sorry, I'm not very good at English]
Hey sis I also have social anxiety can you please tell me some solution or tips to overcome it 😢
I'm glad I slide into this video. It's really an eye opener for me. All of my bad habits are mentioned and I don't wanna be a loser anymore who's locking up herself in a box 😭 You're a hero thank youuuuuu Liz! 🥺
I've been watching Liz for almost a year now, and I can not even begin to describe how she has changed my life, my mentality, my perspective... just everything. The day that I become everything I've ever dreamed of, I'll owe it to her. It's truly a blessing to exist at the same time as her, and I couldn't be more grateful.
Oh my gosh!! EXACTLY!! I feel the same way!!
This makes me so happy to read 💓 positive vibes your way.
I really like that she put a black screen at 8:30ish because this is a technique used in the media when they want to include the audience in the video. This is because typically, if you are looking at a dark/black screen, you can see yourself reflected in the screen due to the lighting in your surroundings, and it was really powerful to put it right at 8:30 because she was just talking about looking into a mirror and waking yourself up to the reality that you want to change. In this way, she basically put a mirror (the black screen) in the video and demanded that we look into it and become the change we want to see. Very powerful choice!
wow no wonder it felt so awkward..
SHE REALLY EXPOSES ME LIKE THAT
If that’s true dang that was powerful, i was listening only but reading the comments i went back
I’m still kinda convinced it was a mistake haha 😭 but I find your take quite interesting
I thought my battery went full lmao
I’m so grateful that I found you on RUclips! I’m so grateful that there is someone like you in this life! Thank you Liz❤️
you’re so real for this liz. i was feeling awful tonight and i stumbled on this vid and i got the reality check i needed. thank you always
It's people like Liz that make me realize god really does live within all of us. There is so much love and wisdom in her words
i’m 17 and my mother died a month ago, and honestly I started to doubt myself and a positive mindset for a while because advice can be subjective depending on what is common for people to go through and what’s tragic, but watching liz’s videos makes me feel less isolated. she gives big sister vibes and i love it🤍
edit; thank you for all the condolences, i really appreciate it
Sorry for your loss.❤
Hugs your way, i‘m sorry for your loss! Hopefully you will get better soon❤
Sorry for your loss. I hope that you have that power to be overcome with your current negative feelings soon
sorry for ur lose :(( hope u can heal soon ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss.❤️Keep on praying and God will help.you through it
i'm grateful for had found this video, i was really needing this right now. i did some important exams some weeks ago and i'm kinda sad about the results and idk what is gonna happen in this next year. i'm feeling so bad these days and watch videos like that make me feel better and help me with my anxiety
Thank you for these words. I really needed to hear this, i always aimed for change but never really thought of the process. I didnt care about the Journey, and i cried about how everything was too hard. Ive been stuck in this loop since my late childhood. Even up until recently, i blamed everyone else for not taking care of me. Yet theres no one who can take better care of me, than me. No one can know my wants and desires better than me. I feel pathetic for not having have realized this sooner, and having my familys thoughts dictate my actions. Thank you for opening my eyes and giving me a sense of clarity.
The beginning where you said “I was depressed, locking myself in my room, not socializing or eating properly” hit me so hard. I’m feeling and doing these things right now and it’s time for me to finally make a change. Thank you for making this video
you are not alone. we can do this :)
Hi, how’s it going?
We can do this❤
She literally changed my mindset, not in a way we all expect. I wanted to start my RUclips channel, but had too many fears. After discovering her I realised that I put artificial pressure on me. Why? I don’t know. Maybe because we see only the ideal edited and high quality content here and it gives lots of insecurities. So Liz helped me to understand, that if I want make a change and give a value, it’s ok to just do that without fancy camera or lighting. I do my first steps, but have a hope for more. Believe in yourself queens ❤️
Keep going💕
Good luck on your channel😊
Good luck on your channel ,and I'm proud of you for this big step ❤
Proud of you! 💕 Really want to start doing Tiktok and Instagram but I find it hard to come up with content. :/
Awesome! Best of luck 🎉
I found this channel at such an interesting time in my life, it almost feels like a turning point.
Thanks for the reality checks. Things are getting Real.
hearing this video made me realize many things, i tend to stress out and stay unmotivated. i admit on eating fast food almost every day due to my sister practically forcing her diet on me which is really affecting me. i shouldn’t be suffering like this. i’m going to fulfill myself by going out on walks, clearing my mind, reading more books and enjoying life more often. thank you so much Liz. I know life will have its ups and downs, but this was definitely something i needed to be called out on. thank you so so much. ❤️
I love that she can explain everything so well
I’m sorry I can’t get behind this one at all the fact that she thinks it’s the woman’s fault she’s being abused because she’s attracting those type of men. I don’t know why we keep blaming women for the stuff men do. It’s not her fault she was abused it’s the abusers fault. Plus it’s extremely common for women who have assaulted or abused for it to happen again. When you look at an abusers mind set they go for girls they know they can abuse and that the fault of men not women just living their lives trying to stay alive. It honestly makes me sick to hear her say she doesn’t feel bad and it’s basically her fault, it excuses the man who’s actually at fault and now the VICTIM is being told no one feels bad and it’s basically her fault
if only she was my maths teacher😩✨
@@whoisjoe3492 thats not what she said at all, she is not taking the blame off the abuser but she is saying that if you are consistently attracting these people into your life you should change because there is obviously something about you that is accepting of that behavior.
@@whoisjoe3492 I agree! I am going to ask Liz about this, it is very offensive to victim blame as women of all kind are repetitively abused in this patriarchal society. It can be true that somebody who is more soft, gullible and forgiving will get abused more often but that is a personal subject and the abuser should still be held accountable for their bad actions. Abuse is an inappropriate topic to discuss this on in such broad terms, it would be less insulting if Liz described the situation more specifically and clarified that abuse is very real and sometimes cannot be avoided regardless of the kind of person, and if she stated that she was particularly referring to that one situation because of the victims traits, instead of making it seem like an open door for victim blaming
@@0178_rania I think it's very obvious that she's talking about the situation from the girl in she saw because if you go online and talk about the same thing over and over again and still do not do the work in order to avoid it then her priorities are not right.
Everyone knows that the victim is not at fault when it comes to this kind of situations but if it's constantly happening then something is wrong with the way you act and you need to fix that. That's what she's saying.
It's about learning patterns of behavior within yourself and others and start acting upon it to avoid the same results.
If you know that you have the type of personality that attracts people who do no do you well, why don't you change?! The only time this is acceptable is when we are talking about people with some kind of struggles or if they are underage but if you are a able adult in full competences then accountability needs to happen.
I swear I really come back to my senses only when liz starts speaking, this girl is a great speaker, she's so confident, and omg the modulation in her voice, she knows what she's doing, liz conveys her message directly without lagging, and is actually completely aware of the huge impact it has on us, I could literally watch every single video of hers and learn and put into action something I'm actually aware about, but yk only liz can make me to.
yes the way she brings her message over is really strong and empowering, she speaks nothing but hard facts
Perfect Timing! I’m watching this video as I’m stuck in a pattern myself and in dire need to change my choices to change the outcome. it’s been depressing & the hardest pill to swallow that that I’m responsible for all the mess I created, but thanks to this video, I’m relieved to know, there is still room to change & become better. Thank you Liz for sharing your mindset with us.
Hey Liz, your videos has always popped up in my homepage, but this is the first time I watch one of 'em because I wasn't really brave to do so. I want to thank you so much because you encourage me to become a more positive person in general, overcome my fears, and embrace all my insecurities and trauma. Hopefully you won't change the way you speak about all of these important knowledge; straightforward and provide such a clear and simple examples in real life. Once again, thank you so much
This is really exactly what i needed. I always fall in the same cycle of being around the people that i promised myself to cut off, doing some down bad habits of checking on my ex's social media, being a people's pleaser etc
The quote starting at 12:40 is a life lesson of mine. As a human you can do almost nothing when alone. Looking back at my childhood and teenage years I often gravely underestimated how important communication was, and how easy it could have solved a lot of problems.
Agree
Thank you so much sis
You really healing something you never broke...❤
These lessons gonna be more than enough to the people living in survival mode❤
girl if you don't have one already, we need a podcast from youuu!!! I would love to listen to you while on a hot girl walk fr 😭😭
my mom told me that getting into relationships with bad people can be partially our own fault. And at first I was like "nahhh, we can't tell." but...truthfully...we can. Time reveals all, and when we give it time, we don't jump into the relationship, and force feelings...when we give things time, someone's true colors will show. how they truly act will come out. But even then- there are hints, and red flags that pop up. Unless that person is just a MASTER manipulator, and a master at covering their entire life up, then it can be harder. But ASK questions. ask ask ask, get to know their family, their friends, ask questions that require consistency, and be suspicious when they don't keep the same consistency. People might look at this and thing "well you're just so untrustworthy!" yes, I am. You should be too. be selective with who you let in your life. Who you let see you at your lowest and who you let into your family and close groups. You are a sacred treasure, that is one thing that is very true, and no it isn't narcissistic to know that you are worth so much more than an unlocked door. Because an unlocked door leads to an unprotected house- and anyone can come in a steal and take what they want, and leave you empty. So don't get into these horrible relationships, keep a check on yourself as well. be like "woah...am I allowing them to do this to me?" because bestie there are so many things you ALLOW to happen to leads to even worse things in the future.
I needed this pep talk, Ty
Absolutely true ❤
Watching her videos is never a wastage of time even if you watch it on repeat. It still worth it.
I've never wondering especially who I am and that's the huge difference which i feel right now. Thank you Liz for doing great job. I'm pushing my boundaries with your help. I'm grateful for it ❤️🤗
this woman be spitting facts 👏👏👏👏
much love for you and your insights in life ❤
I love how you’re straight to the point, no sugarcoating bc life isn’t always gonna be sweet! Stay real 💖
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons ex. OCD for me).
I’ve had to overhaul how I approach taking care of my brain (exercise, journaling, studying etc) by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on youtube channel.
Historically I have a habit of going too hard, not being able to sustain the Herculean effort, giving up and hating myself. So now I’m trying to give a small, consistent small effort everyday. And its crazy how it adds up.
The podcase quote is amazing. Can you share the name if you have it, thx.
podcast name im begging
which podcast please ??
@@cannarosee9416 Here it is! It’s an OCD Podcast but I think the main points can be extrapolated for any one’s benefit. ruclips.net/video/CGyW1Rp1Y2g/видео.html&ab_channel=TheOCDStories
@@tablecloth1943 Here it is! It’s an OCD Podcast but I think the main points can be extrapolated for any one’s benefit. ruclips.net/video/CGyW1Rp1Y2g/видео.html&ab_channel=TheOCDStories
This is the first video I've watched of hers and I already feel so much change in my mentality. I have put in a lot of effort to make my mind a more positive space, but I haven't been able to take the action to make my life a positive space. And I think this video really shook something inside of me. The way she articulates her words and keeps it 100% real is honestly refreshing. I am hoping for 2023 to be a blessed year, and a year full of happiness. Happy new year everyone.
Its 2024 and i seriously need to change. Its crazy. My kakak always told me these things. How could I have been so blind. Everyone in comments says shes the older sister they never had. But honestly I have a sister just like her, but this made me realise how privileged and lucky i am. This made me more grateful than ever. I feel like this year I can finally actually do something. I can take control of my life. Thank you so much Liz for opening my mind up.
I feel so grateful, much more than ever and continue to expand. Her mindset is so powerful, and so are her words. It is so carefully structured that really hits right into your heart.
"Slow down. And just focus on what you need to do every single day. and every single day, its not going to be OH PERFECT, you are not a perfect human being. You are probably going to fall back but then the next day: do it again and do it again and do it again!" THANK YOU LIZ! well said as usual, so happy that for months ago you appeared in my recommendation, its a blessing watching inspirational person like you
Honestly in the worst times of my life she had helped me the most may Allah guide her 🥺♥️
She’s Muslim as well🥹
she's muslim
@@robloxisiya6710 okay and?
@@eunoia7429 bc you said "may Allah guide her"
@@robloxisiya6710 / EVEN if she’s already Muslim - the “may Allah guide her” comment made total sense because you say that even to a Muslim … you may be guided to the straight path but you say it to be a much better Muslim :)
I needed this, I’m struggling with an addiction with lust which is against my religion and I feel so drained and spiritually lost. I need to flee from lust and change, thank you Liz.
She is a great inspiration for me!Almost like a big sister i have never had but been a big sister that was surrounded with stupid,dumb and blind people who werenot seeing me as a shining star which it was their problem NOT MINE!Liz is a great big sister.She talks her mind up and with any style that it sounds extremely bold and direct messages.I loved her talking and the way she is being authentic and in love with herself.Hope everyone who listening to her is healing so greatly,deeply and perfectly and being a badass in their lives,feeling like a QUEEN and not hiving F to anybody also to shitty Family members too!
I will just listen to her videos again and again, why? Because she teaches me failure is not the end its the start and how you have to write it, but also she makes me feel happy, motivated and grateful, and I deserve all of that just like anyone reading this or listening to her, I made mistakes, a lot of mistakes, I may have been bad to others too, but the only way to go forward is acknowledge, apologize and learn, I can't keep feeling guilty forever, no one is perfect and no one will ever be perfect, thank you Liz for everything
This is beautiful. You made me cry. I have been and am still being emotionally abused and I know I will escape one day very soon. Your words inspired me💖💖💖
@@SenoritxJaneDiamond girl, take it one day at a time, and I hope you manage to get out of your situation and flourish, I'll have you in my prayer, remember you're stronger than you think 🙏❤
@@boogalooloo Thank you so so much this truly means the world to me💖💖
Liz just talking and her cat is showing up on her camera is so adorable 🥰
I needed this so bad. Thank you. I was in a deep hole of self doubt and listening to you help me come out of it and be more of myself.
Liz, You are the friend every person needs in life.
i'm so grateful because for months now i've been following your advice, i'm attracting only good things i'm changing i'm giving myself the means to change and i'm so much happier and confident i have better grades better relationships thank you really you just woke me up
i‘m so happy for your keep going ❤
Tryna get like u congrats
Proud of you✨️
keep going princess!
Yeah
Liz is always speaking facts. Very much needed
thank you so much Liz!! i have been struggling with my problems and emotions and sometimes I create problems because I couldn't handle and solve my problems. So I decided to watch this problems as I feel really disappointed in myself and I really need to change myself as a person cause I wanna start all over again and try to live a better life. So thank you very much Liz, your videos are very motivated and thoughtful
I am a guy watching this video .
Lizz ❤
I am so grateful to you because of your content and your videos are so motivating and you're teaching me a lot of lessons about what wrong i did back in my past what is something stopping me to become the better version of mine what habits i should stop doing and in which environment i should take myself to be what i want to and a lot... Thanks a lot for making me feel confident and i don't care if am alone i've myself and that's the best person i can ever have with me and am enjoying my own company... I love you lizz may god bless you and you all as well who are reading this comment ❤🙏🏽
This made me cry bc I just left a toxic person I been with for 4 year been with him since high school had a kid with him he was mentally and physically abusive but I left I didn’t want my daughter to see that I felt to gross after having a baby referring to my body and 2 day after I broke it off he was with other women and telling me I wasn’t going to amount to anything I was depressed for a while but I see my daughter and I have to change for her so I’ve applied for college to get somewhere and am going to start soon 💖and I started doing a weight loss journey and this video showed up was so heart warming and I totally agree with u with everything and thank you this really helped me 💖💖💖💖💞💞💞
Mentally and physically toxic yet you still had a kid with him? Dafuq?
best of luck!! you can do this 💗💗
I wish you all the best! You can do this. You are strong!
Good luck beautiful. Stay strong ❤
Ofc it's time for u to rise and shine love ❤️💋
I‘ve heard most of these things before, but hearing Liz say them makes me actually LISTEN and truly think about it, which concludes into me taking actions. Thank you so much Liz for inspiring us and helping us on our journey to improve!
I used to have horrendous depression when I was younger and I've been working for YEARS to heal and feel better and do better for myself.I remember at times I thought I'd never make it out ,like it was.ao.bad I would rot in bed and not shower for months.Yet here I am slaying at life and I'm so dam proud of myself.I really hope if someone reading this who is going through something similar gets out and gets out in the end !
She has this ability of making you feel so comfortable, it's like you're talking to your best friend or big sister and she's telling you exactly what you need to hear. Thank you!
I live in a third world country , and I'm mentally not okay because of the environment and the worst part is I can't do anything about it I'm 20 , and i come from low income family i always dream to leave this horrible country but i know i have to work hard weather I'll make it or not but i will never stop trying, thank you liz you're really a life changer
May you live your dream life one day! I'll pray for you
You can do it!! Please don’t give up, keep your spirit strong and do some research on different things you can do. I know that there is a program where you can live in a specific country, if you work for free they will give you housing and food and other resources. That could be a good place to start looking. I am rooting for you you can achieve your goals
This women is literally changing my whole life. Liz is a blessing to all of us 🙏
You are so wonderful girl. Thank so much!When I listen you I change my mindset and it’s so amazing!You are really help people and I am so grateful that I met your channel!
Thank you so much for this video. This is the wake up that I really needed. This hit home. You are such an inspiration to get people up and moving in the right direction. I will definitely watch this again. Thank you 🙏🏿
Hi Liz, I just want to say that as a guy and watching your content and hearing what you have to say, it has been very helpful this past few months with what I have been dealing with in my life. I know a lot of your content seems to be geared towards female viewers but a lot of what you talk about really resonates with me and inspires me to be better. So on behalf of the one the guys that watch your channel thank you for continuing to inspire us to be better versions of ourselves and encouraging us to go after the life we want. God bless!!!
She's motivational to everyone.
@@shadowrealm6 I know she is but what I’m saying is that most of her viewers seem to be women based on some things she talks about in videos and the comments in the comments section are mostly women based on what I’ve seen.
@@John-ns5se true, only a few ppl like Goggins, Jocko etc hype me up and she's the only woman that hypes me up tbh.
I feel powerful when I see you liz, I’m so grateful because I’m doing my best each day, I’m disciplined, positive and I think you have helped me a lot to keep doing so
you are like the bigger sister i never had.i’m so thankful that i had a chance to watch your video.
i was scrolling through youtube without any purpose,hopeless and depressed ,waisting my time by watching meaningless videos but suddenly i saw the title of your video and it really impressed me.
i learn a lot from you.
thank you❤️
Your video popped up in my timeline when I needed it the most ! Here’s to working on ourselves and to a peaceful life 🎉
To be honest, I'm so grateful and happy when I have a chance to watch videos like this. I seem to be encouraged and motivated a lot. And about one week later, I will have the most important exam this year and I hope I can do it the best by advancing my English through your videos
I hope the exam went well for yu its been abt a year, i have my finals in 20 days and honestly my heart broke when she told me to me paitent cause ik its not possible to gte the best marks in 20 days but i just needed to ignore it 😊
all the best sis✨@@pinkytulips
@@pragatisingh449 thnkyuuu ill need it djjdj😭💟💟
"Being constantly surrounded by toxic people and environment, you will become so depressed that you will not be able to recognizes yourself anymore" ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much sister💞. Going thru alot from september, really wanted to hear these things from my close people's but they didn't your videos did.❤️🥰
I wish I found out about your channel earlier. You are such an inspiration and I applaud you for being such a strong minded and loving person. 💕
You always make me feel better when I start to get too overwhelmed, to tired, to panicked. Your videos help me get through everything
I love Liz she’s so honest and her beauty shines inside and out. A precious soul.
Girl this is better than a podcast! Thank you! ❤
WOW WOW u have NO idea how much this resonated with me I literally got this message at the right time thank you Liz and universe 😭 🙏
I really needed this. I keep letting somone in my life who doesn't respect my time. I will be hearing this on repeat!
This video is tremendously valuable to me, I asked Allah to give me a sign if this idea that I hold close to me..is actually meant for me; I finally found my sign All Thanks to this video. THANK YOU LIZ
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THE SUDDEN HIT ON MY BRAIN TO WATCH ALL YOUR VIDEOS AND RESET EVERYTHING IN MY CURRENT LIFE
LOVE YOU
THANKS FOR MAKING ME BELIEVE, LOVE AND EVOLVE MY SOUL💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💗
this is THE best video i have ever watched. i am so grateful to have stumbled upon your channel. thank you for inspiring millions, your words and convictions are spell binding. will definitely come back to this video as much as i can!!
I can't explain it that well but this woman really knows how to get into my head and shift my mentality about things
It’s insane how her Videos always shows up when I really do need them and she talks about everything I am facing , may be because we were born at the same day 1/1 haha i love you liz keep up the GREAT energy ✨⚡️also i love how everything she said i actually DO ! but it’s like a reminder to watch this video and to organize my thoughts ❤
Exactly I’m like how am I in the same situation I was in last year around the same time. We don’t realize how our habits can put us in autopilot and we self sabotage.
Whatever Liz said is incredible! I have been working on myself for more than 6 months and trust me guys I had a whole new shift. I had never been like this for my whole life and now I'm completely changed. My life is filled with ample blessings and I am doing such amazing things in my life that I would only dreamt about. Consistency is the goal baby gurls! Keep going, and you'll thrive onto a whole new trajectory that you not even had anticipated.
She’s literally always speaking facts, I always come to watch these when I lose focus 🫶🏽
"Even if you're crawling, you're getting there" I needed to hear this video but I needed to hear that sentence the most.
Edit: It's like this video was made for me. I was actually hopinh for a sign today and I definately take this video as my sign because I did not look this video up, it just appeared and I need to hear all these words today. I keep having unrealistic expectations for myself, expecting myself to change at the snap of a finger. I keep expecting myself to see results quickly. I'm not patient with myself or with life and everyone else around me is not patient with me or my life but I cannot keep caring about what others think and instead focus on myself. I am crawling right now, I keep making little steps and I keep fallinh but eventually I always pick myself back up again and keep making small steps. I always thinl that crawling is not good enough and that I need to be doing more and see immediate big changes in my life but not everyone's life works out that way. Like Liz said even if I'm crawling, I'm gettig there and having ups and downs is part of life. Thank you Liz for making this video. I'm actually going to send this to a friend. 💗 I hope more people who needs this video sees this video.
I'm here today and I thank God that I met you before you are the best healer ever now I become a better person,and learning ur advices is a blessing keep going Queen 💓💓💗
I am an English learner and I watch this girl's videos . These videos motivate me and help me learning English. Thanks Liz
I am so glad to find your videos.
your point of view on life is helpful for me and I really appreciate it
This is really great advice and trust me it works! I left my toxic family just out of high school and it takes refocusing and recognizing the ways your limiting beliefs/ surroundings has effected your quality of life.
This video showed me that I am doing something right. I'm always beating myself up over not reaching goals within x time but there's so many other points I forget. Like where I started from and where I am now, I was hopeless and clueless one year ago, today I have a plan and a goal I am working towards and this video is a reminder to me that success and reaching goals in life isn't linear.
Also yes, I will never again say that I am self-made or never took help from anybody to get where I am. Countless people consciouly have helped me reach where I am today.
Thanks for reminding us of these things Liz, you're a real gem🖤
Your channel, truly a blessing❤️
You have no idea how much your videos help me, I have never come across someone like you before. Kudos and more power to you!