That hit me as well. This was my relationships in my twenties, and you always stay too long in situations that aren't healthy. Chemistry is an empty glue for a relationship, but it can hold the broken pieces together for a while.
"Conversation is where souls get introduced." I love this so much! Thinking back on past relationships and even people I talk to now, this explains where the relationships dropped off. Being able to talk about everything on your mind and heart--big, little, quirky--openly and honestly matters so much more.
So true and on point. Being open with your thoughts and sharing your perspectives, experiences and dreams is very important to invite people in your life that are passionate about you.
32:54 "Anybody that does not want to talk, there is something either *broken* in them or there is something *diabolical* in them. In either case you are probably not equipped to deal with that individual. *I will always advise you to move on from people that will not talk.*
Move on from people that will not TALK (and I’ll add) or Listen…. This is so helpful. And I’ll add more, you can have a long conversation about Nothing.
Pastor Blakes you could have not explained this clear enough. The main thing people fall for is Physical Attraction and no more than that. I’m so glad I have listened to you because I have found the man of my dreams and man I tell you God has blessed me. May God continue to bless you!
I’m single I appreciate you sharing these principles. Your platform has been a blessing in my life. I learn from you. Leaders solve problems and they help people. You deserve the best R.C.Blake Jr. Thank you 🙏🏼
I just started following within the last 90 days... I'm learning & gaining the wisdom of God! I appreciate how everything you say is backed by the word of God... Thank you Pastor 🤜🏽🤛🏽
I am so grateful for the wisdom and understanding I have gained from this podcast. Thank you for caring and sharing about God's way to engage in relationships.
I'm cautious of being really physically attracted to someone now. It got me in big trouble in past relationships with "Chad" covert narcs. At this point, I don't see the point unless we're called to minister together. God Bless You, Bishop Blakes!
Living in a "Microwave Age", it's so hard to find and build a committed relationship. A lot of the time we want what we want and fast. The concept is damaging and heart breaking when we choose to skip steps and shut God out of our relationship(s). Thank you pastor for shedding more light on how committed relationships are to be governed and developed❤🙏☝️🤔💪🔥
Ooh my God listening to this 💯 % means that at least 80% of people in this world don’t understand what love is . I cannot believe listening to all the evidence on the table. I wish I heard all these 55:36 during my time. I will forward it to my daughters. You are truly a great man, may our lord almighty lord bless you amen 🙏🏾
Om-Gosh... This is so true 👍🏿No communication, smh 🤦🏾♀️ no depth from the individual. Zero emotional intelligence 🤷🏾♀️You hit the nail on its head. When you actually see their state of mind while analyzing yourself, it's an interesting 🤔 observation. It's time to do your inner work on another level, leaving them to hopefully do their inner work. Bravo 👏🏿 very good video
Wow Bishop Blakes, This was truly an eye opening lesson that you gave to us. I begin to cry in some more f the levels that you spoke on. I saw myself not giving my all because of the fear I brought from a previous relationship. Thanks for the prayer, I needed that. God bless you guys, Dr. Val
You uplift my Spirit with your teaching and the song " She's a Queen" is also a great medicine. Thank you, and may God Almighty continue to Bless you and your family. Amen
This is one of the best fatherly talks ever🙏I need this to help me see things clearer thank Pastor RC Blakes God bless you always!! I wish I knew this sooner but better late then never Praise God!!!!
THESE VIDEOS OF RC BLAKE'S TEACHINGS ARE SO UNIQUE AND PERSONAL TOO. AS I SIT AND LISTEN I FEEL LIKE HES TALKING TO ME. I THANK GOD FOR PASTORS TEACHINGS, IM LEARNING SO MUCH.
Good morning Bishop R.C and First Lady, Lisa. Praise God Almighty, Sir. I love your unique style of discernment. These Empowering discussions are very exquisite, easily receptive to comprehend. Working on me, as I practice Matthew 6:33. I don't mind waiting, because I believe God will provide my ordained compatible mate. I agree with the values respect and emotional support. Bishop, I believe I'm where I need to be at the pace inwhich I'm moving. Truly grateful for receiving this Privilege of knowledge. In Jesus name, Many blessings unto you and The New Home Family Ministry. AMEN
This was a beautiful teaching moment today. I’ve been searching my soul and this teaching spoke directly to me. The processes you taught are spot on. Everything you said I’m working on right now. It’s beautiful. ❤
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes Jr. for sharing this knowledge and truly opening not only the eyes but ears to those of us watching & listening to your video. I think it's safe to say that this type of conversation wasn't taught in the home or church, so as we were born into this world we had to find out what life, the birds and the bees were really about the hard way. Lessons that didn't have to happened because we would of had knowledge, awareness and choices to make sound decisions and not to get into trouble with a lot of bad relationships because we jumped from #1 to #5 so fast.
This was good. This is the blueprint. This is what I needed. Just saying get a good man and a man of quality is not enough. He can be all that and not the person for you
Good Evening Pastor Blakes - I recently started listening to you & your topics have been very helpful in my healing & spiritual journey. Your Conversation tonight was Excellent & the Timing was exactly what I needed to hear. God Bless You & Lisa. Thank You
Good day, Sir Pastor Blakes & to your lovely wife, Lisa! - I recently purchased your book, "Queenology" and look forward to reading it soon. I have been watching your RUclips videos for maybe 1 year now. I'm age 50, been divorced for 14 years, and just now am being healed from my past. Father God brought me to discover your teachings. I can't thank you enough. God bless ❤😊🙏
@@RCBlakesJr. - You're like a spiritual dad to me and I pray for Father God's ministry He has entrusted you w/ to continually flourish and give Him glory as you're already doing. God is soo good and faithful, and He surely does heal the broken hearted. Big hugs to you and yours 🥲💕🙏
Wow i wish i know all of these elements before any relationships i had great teaching pastor Blakes 🙏thank you for bringing your wisdom for many of us woman who needed to hear this.
RC Blake’s you give me the strength to keep fighting for what I’m worth 💕 I love you both from the bottom of my heart! Thank acknowledging us woman! I would love to take notes how would I be able to access that! Thank you
PASTOR R C BLAKES .....YOU ARE SIMPLY AMAZING & YOUR THEME SONG IS SO ENCOURAGING & EMPOWERING TO OUR BLACK QUEENS... THANK YOU PASTOR 🙏🏿😊 U R SIMPLY AMAZING. ... THAT SONG PERFECT FOR THE CONTENT U SPEAK ABOUT. THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES FOR SHINING YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIGHT SO THAT WE AS WOMEN CAN UNDERSTAND ABOUT THINGS THAT WE SHOULDVE BEEN TAUGHT IN OUR UPBRINGING YOUR AWESOME. WE LOVE YOU & WE THANK YOU.. SO MANY BLESSINGS WE HAVE TO APPRECIATE & PASTOR BLAKES YOUR ONE OF THEM...🙏🏿🌹👑💎💎👑🌹🙏🏿🌹🌹🌟🌟#1 PASTOR RC BLAKES😘💎🌹🌹
GOD gave me these words Christ commitment consistent day's later the Lord led me to this awesome video that's talking about what GOD shared with me amen amen hallelujah 🙌🏾🙏🏾
HELLO FAMILY! Please share the link for this conversation and LIKE as you come in. It helps the platform.
Amazing teachings!!!
Truly a blessing to humanity..
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“Chemistry is what got you tied up with a sociopath. You had chemistry with the narcissist, abuser, and user.”
That hit me as well. This was my relationships in my twenties, and you always stay too long in situations that aren't healthy. Chemistry is an empty glue for a relationship, but it can hold the broken pieces together for a while.
Hi big fan. I have watched 50 videos of yours in like 2 weeks. Truly blessed by your ministry and words from God🎉🎉🎉
"Conversation is where souls get introduced." I love this so much! Thinking back on past relationships and even people I talk to now, this explains where the relationships dropped off. Being able to talk about everything on your mind and heart--big, little, quirky--openly and honestly matters so much more.
So true and on point. Being open with your thoughts and sharing your perspectives, experiences and dreams is very important to invite people in your life that are passionate about you.
You are truly a Father figure. I really appreciate you taking the time out to sow into us !
Chemistry, conversation, connection, capability and ultimately commitment.
32:54 "Anybody that does not want to talk, there is something either *broken* in them or there is something *diabolical* in them. In either case you are probably not equipped to deal with that individual. *I will always advise you to move on from people that will not talk.*
Okay..... I'm officially proclaiming you as the GOAT to those of us who missed (earthly) fatherly guidance. 🙏
Move on from people that will not TALK (and I’ll add) or Listen….
This is so helpful.
And I’ll add more, you can have a long conversation about Nothing.
Pastor Blakes you could have not explained this clear enough. The main thing people fall for is Physical Attraction and no more than that. I’m so glad I have listened to you because I have found the man of my dreams and man I tell you God has blessed me. May God continue to bless you!
Listen to people that have consistent fruit.
I’m single I appreciate you sharing these principles. Your platform has been a blessing in my life. I learn from you. Leaders solve problems and they help people. You deserve the best R.C.Blake Jr. Thank you 🙏🏼
I just started following within the last 90 days... I'm learning & gaining the wisdom of God! I appreciate how everything you say is backed by the word of God... Thank you Pastor 🤜🏽🤛🏽
I know this is going to be a good one
Thank you Bishop .... The teachings you've been doing has helped me greatly to be the woman I should be. God bless you, see you at the top
This is a piece of gem!! Young ladies! Take heed before you keep making the same mistakes.
I am so grateful for the wisdom and understanding I have gained from this podcast. Thank you for caring and sharing about God's way to engage in relationships.
I'm cautious of being really physically attracted to someone now. It got me in big trouble in past relationships with "Chad" covert narcs. At this point, I don't see the point unless we're called to minister together. God Bless You, Bishop Blakes!
Living in a "Microwave Age", it's so hard to find and build a committed relationship. A lot of the time we want what we want and fast. The concept is damaging and heart breaking when we choose to skip steps and shut God out of our relationship(s).
Thank you pastor for shedding more light on how committed relationships are to be governed and developed❤🙏☝️🤔💪🔥
I love the song at the beginning it sets the atmosphere
I can't wait to tune in for this message.
Ooh my God listening to this 💯 % means that at least 80% of people in this world don’t understand what love is . I cannot believe listening to all the evidence on the table.
I wish I heard all these 55:36 during my time. I will forward it to my daughters. You are truly a great man, may our lord almighty lord bless you amen 🙏🏾
Om-Gosh... This is so true 👍🏿No communication, smh 🤦🏾♀️ no depth from the individual. Zero emotional intelligence 🤷🏾♀️You hit the nail on its head. When you actually see their state of mind while analyzing yourself, it's an interesting 🤔 observation. It's time to do your inner work on another level, leaving them to hopefully do their inner work. Bravo 👏🏿 very good video
Hello you all . From Atlanta Georgia 🍑 ☮️❤. Stay prayed up 🙏🏽. Pray for my family and I daily thanks.😊
Thank you for this. I wish I had this before any relationship I’ve ever had.
Wow Bishop Blakes, This was truly an eye opening lesson that you gave to us. I begin to cry in some more f the levels that you spoke on. I saw myself not giving my all because of the fear I brought from a previous relationship. Thanks for the prayer, I needed that.
God bless you guys,
Dr. Val
You uplift my Spirit with your teaching and the song " She's a Queen" is also a great medicine. Thank you, and may God Almighty continue to Bless you and your family. Amen
Blessings Be Multiplied to You Bishop and First Lady Blakes.🙌🏾 Thank you for your wholesome Teachings. 🙏🏽
This is one of the best fatherly talks ever🙏I need this to help me see things clearer thank Pastor RC Blakes God bless you always!! I wish I knew this sooner but better late then never Praise God!!!!
THESE VIDEOS OF RC BLAKE'S TEACHINGS ARE SO UNIQUE AND PERSONAL TOO. AS I SIT AND LISTEN I FEEL LIKE HES TALKING TO ME. I THANK GOD FOR PASTORS TEACHINGS, IM LEARNING SO MUCH.
Thanks pastor RCBlakes and lady Blake's , you all are indeed a blessing to me.❤
Good morning Bishop R.C and First Lady, Lisa. Praise God Almighty, Sir. I love your unique style of discernment. These Empowering discussions are very exquisite, easily receptive to comprehend. Working on me, as I practice Matthew 6:33. I don't mind waiting, because I believe God will provide my ordained compatible mate. I agree with the values respect and emotional support. Bishop, I believe I'm where I need to be at the pace inwhich I'm moving. Truly grateful for receiving this Privilege of knowledge. In Jesus name, Many blessings unto you and The New Home Family Ministry. AMEN
This was a beautiful teaching moment today. I’ve been searching my soul and this teaching spoke directly to me. The processes you taught are spot on. Everything you said I’m working on right now. It’s beautiful. ❤
Good evening family 😍.
God bless you all.
Looking forward to learning together tonight.
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes Jr. for sharing this knowledge and truly opening not only the eyes but ears to those of us watching & listening to your video. I think it's safe to say that this type of conversation wasn't taught in the home or church, so as we were born into this world we had to find out what life, the birds and the bees were really about the hard way. Lessons that didn't have to happened because we would of had knowledge, awareness and choices to make sound decisions and not to get into trouble with a lot of bad relationships because we jumped from #1 to #5 so fast.
Amen 🙏 Thank you Bishop ❤❤❤ God bless you and your family ❤❤❤
Teachings every daughter needs!! You are an amazing Bonus Father to us girls!! ❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽
Blessings Bishop Blakes always ready to hear your wisdom on relationships.
I’m excited to be here tonight!!!
This was good. This is the blueprint. This is what I needed. Just saying get a good man and a man of quality is not enough. He can be all that and not the person for you
Video starts at 5:43 Great message
Pastor Blakes, you have done it again!! This is an excellent teaching for relationships!
Good Evening Pastor Blakes - I recently started listening to you & your topics have been very helpful in my healing & spiritual journey. Your Conversation tonight was Excellent & the Timing was exactly what I needed to hear. God Bless You & Lisa. Thank You
Good evening Pastor RC and First Lady Blakes
I'm excited to listen to this message and share it with all the beautiful single ladies I know!!!
Good evening pastor and first lady, and all of my sister's and my brother's
Hi sister in Christ, ..
God bless you 🙏 💖 😊
Good day, Sir Pastor Blakes & to your lovely wife, Lisa! - I recently purchased your book, "Queenology" and look forward to reading it soon. I have been watching your RUclips videos for maybe 1 year now. I'm age 50, been divorced for 14 years, and just now am being healed from my past. Father God brought me to discover your teachings. I can't thank you enough. God bless ❤😊🙏
I am so honored. 50 is a great time to emerge as a whole and healthy woman. I’m glad to be a part of your journey. 🙏🏽
@@RCBlakesJr. - You're like a spiritual dad to me and I pray for Father God's ministry He has entrusted you w/ to continually flourish and give Him glory as you're already doing. God is soo good and faithful, and He surely does heal the broken hearted. Big hugs to you and yours 🥲💕🙏
Thank God for you man of God! You teaching in needed at this time. You are helping many, to God be the glory 🙏🏾
Thank you Pastor.
I’m here 🙏🏾💜🌼
Thanks for this wonderful information! I appreciate you guys so much sir!
Thank you for these messages they have truly enhanced my life 🙏🏾❤️
Good evening Pastor Blakes and First Lady Lisa. I can't wait to hear this message.
GREAT EVENING TO YOU ❤🙏🏽😊 We appreciate you
We Love You Too Brother Pastor Blake!!!!😇
One of your BEST teaching sessions. Thank you and God bless!
Thank you Paps and mama Li.
Great lesson for preparation.
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Good evening to all🤗
I absolutely loved this teaching ❤
Thank you for all that you do!!
Proof of Concept!!! Preach
GOOD TEACHING, TONIGHT, Pastor
R.C. BLAKE'S
Wow i wish i know all of these elements before any relationships i had great teaching pastor Blakes 🙏thank you for bringing your wisdom for many of us woman who needed to hear this.
Love ❤️ you Bishop Blakes.
Thank you Teacher
Another great teaching that I will use to guide me on my journey towards commitment w my new guy. You are such a blessing to all the women who listen!
This was a good sobering message. Thanks so much!
Good evening! Thanks for the invitation! Antoinette in Durham NC
Good afternoon Pastor Blakes and First Lady thank you for this message 🙏 ❤️ May God Continue to bless you and yours
Simply THANK YOU!
Always so many jewels. Thank you 🙏
very Interesting. . Pastor RC BLAKE'S.
You are diving deep.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Pastor Blakes. 💗
Hi Mr&Mrs Blakes.. just to say that I'm so thankful for u both!!❤ Hi everyone..let's enjoy!!
Thank you for sharing
I appreciate the teachings, I have learned so much growth and I learned to love myself.
I Love you Bishop and Lady Blakes❤ UNCLE Bishop you have blessed us
Gotta catch the replay. Thanks Bishop R.C.😊❤
RC Blake’s you give me the strength to keep fighting for what I’m worth 💕 I love you both from the bottom of my heart! Thank acknowledging us woman! I would love to take notes how would I be able to access that! Thank you
Good Evening Pastor and First Lady another great topic today as A Minster myself you have blessed me!
GOT ON THE MAILING LIST RIGHT NOW!!
That Maya analogy was on point. I wish I would have written that down.
Thank you for all your wisdom, and knowledge. Its truely appreciated.
Thank you total agreement 🤝
Thank you for this enlightening video. I needed this clarity
This really blessed me. It was right on time
PASTOR R C BLAKES .....YOU ARE SIMPLY AMAZING & YOUR THEME SONG IS SO ENCOURAGING & EMPOWERING TO OUR BLACK QUEENS... THANK YOU PASTOR 🙏🏿😊 U R SIMPLY AMAZING. ... THAT SONG PERFECT FOR THE CONTENT U SPEAK ABOUT. THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES FOR SHINING YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIGHT SO THAT WE AS WOMEN CAN UNDERSTAND ABOUT THINGS THAT WE SHOULDVE BEEN TAUGHT IN OUR UPBRINGING YOUR AWESOME. WE LOVE YOU & WE THANK YOU.. SO MANY BLESSINGS WE HAVE TO APPRECIATE & PASTOR BLAKES YOUR ONE OF THEM...🙏🏿🌹👑💎💎👑🌹🙏🏿🌹🌹🌟🌟#1 PASTOR RC BLAKES😘💎🌹🌹
I love this segment so much, I have watched it 4x now.
This was another great conversation cuz you are awesome and a true man of god may he continue to use and bless you and the family
Thank you 💓
Greetings from NC!
Hello Everyone, greetings from FL
This is the undiluted TRUTH 💯❤
Good morning Pastor, may Yahweh continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾
Thank you pastor Blakes the Lord and your program has helped right now, I really been going through it bless you and your family.
That is so true Pastor Blake
I NEED TO HEAR THE REPLAY ❤❤ FROM NORFOLK, VA 🤗☺️💃🏽
GOD gave me these words Christ commitment consistent day's later the Lord led me to this awesome video that's talking about what GOD shared with me amen amen hallelujah 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Awesome Wisdom 🙌🏾
This was a Great Message Bishop!!❤
Thank you Pastor Blakes for a awesome teaching. I’ve been made free…
Powerful teaching, overflowing wisdom and biblical empowering!🙏💯👏