What Actually Makes A Man Attractive?
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- The same man portrays two different sides of himself. Which do you find more attractive? An original experiment testing the value of masculinity.
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Don't lie, a lot of you found both sides attractive.
But you know what's more attractive... starfish.
Starfish are such a turn-on
🌚
me!
he's a model, no matter what the guy does, he's attractive
step 1: be good looking.
Aryan Pushkar year but 2 probably you mom had gay
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Step 1: be rich
Aryan Pushkar Nah,not really,if you take care of yourself and dress well,you will be more atractive.
@@gladiusbladeofthenorth9939 come on dude sure it helps bot how you dress wont changer youre bone strucere in the face or height
Buzzfeed: "let's see what makes a man more attractive" *uses model*
Lmao right like one look at him and he's automatically attractive smh
hey I mean at least they didn't use Eugene like in their previous video. (they did a whole "are people more attracted to bad boys?" thing.)
EXACTLY!😂😂
but they mainly focus on the gesture of the model
exactly get an average lookin guy. really puts the theory to the test.
Guy: Smiles
Girl: "He could be gay"
Wtf?
This is America 🤣
Everybody talking about it in the comments. Most girl don't say that. Its rude.
XDDDD
I didn't smile and I've been told I look like I want to kill someone - therefore the girl didn't want to attempt the convo, now both situations are just as fucked as they could be. XD no smile - wrong, smile - also wrong. WHAAAT??? :D
@PJPF i don't know im not 'they' i don't think about it.
I just dont get how a man being a little more expressive and sweet, makes him any less "masculine".
They showed us the definition of masculine...
easy. by being more expressive and outspoken with sincere gestures you're giving out more information for people to judge you on, thus less mysterious/less chase/less power. If you're wondering "how less power?" the answer to that is: Many girls who notice men to be sweeter and expressive know they can sideline them as insurance just in case their attempt at another 'more resistant' man falls through. Bottom line: too much, too soon makes for a dull relationship. Also women like men in power. Overly expressive men tend to know things last compared to others who sit back and listen and play it wise/cool.
they are just terms, but they are indeed fundamentally linked to gender. Whether you want to believe it or not. it's evolution: one gender is naturally more feminine/masculine than the other.
Masculinity and femininity are defined and created by society. This is why in other cultures we see women being able to take on more "musculine" (to us) roles easily, and men acting or appearing more "feminine" by our standards.
Not this woman. I believe that kindness and gentleness are the truest expressions of strength. I want to know who you *are,* not who you want people to *think* you are. I have only "sidelined" a nice guy once in my life ... and it wasn't for any kind of back up plan or insurance or anything having to do with him. It was my lousy self-esteem that was a result of a very verbally abusive father -- including telling me that "no decent man will ever want you" when I was a teenager -- and I was scared that this guy would discover how "unworthy" I was (based in false beliefs) and he would leave *me* once he did. I am glad that I am not like those women you write about and I find *real* people to be courageous and refreshing. Namaste
What a beautiful chocolate man
+tony cortes White Chicks*
white chicks* XD
He's very beautiful 😍
that's not what she was trying to do lmao
LMFAO
How is eye contact less masculine.
That’s showing respect.
Masculinity is respect.
Rip to your world views buddy.
will sim what do you mean?
You bored or something?
Buddy?
Masculinity is respect 😂
Sophia Alexia you disagree?
@@clowny8812 Since when is masculinity respectful . Eye contact can mean many different things . Like when a predator stares at its prey. Eye contact means .. someone is watching you .
This video kind of annoyed me.
Man: Smiles
Girl: He is probably gay
Like is that really how judgmental out society is
Tbh the people in the video are straight up undateable material
They chose the judgmental people If I was there I would mostly say they’re both good
@@varunmehta1022 Exactly
They probably have nothing better to do
I mean it’s buzzfeed what do u expect
All I can say is that model was HOT!
+Shenice Walker thanks
Shenice Walker I agree so freakin much!
+The Truth wtf?
Emily Cobain Lol ikr
He was sooooooo hot
who are we kidding anything that man does is attractive
?????
true
yessss
LMAO TRUE
TTTRRRUUEEEE
Guy: *smiles*
Girls: "Is he gay?"
Who ever liked the comment owes me a cookie
That just made me angry 😡
I think you’re paying attention to the wrong girls
Mr. pepper. Take my like back
LMFAO
Don’t ask fish for advice on catching a fish, “ask a fisherman”.
-Patric 0’Neal
But the fish knows better what it want to eat
Mihalis Sgouros ol than do you.
Welcomedcompany 101 Good Ol Patrice O’Neal always gave solid analogies
Jay Black I should quote him.
well this is the truth masculinity is the sexiest trait a man can have. Even you look like a model if you act soft or feminine women get turn off really quickly.
Let's be honest, no one is going to turn down Italian food
True. Also, thanks. :)
Unless your mom is Italian and she can cook the best Italian food around.
So your still going to end up eating Italian food.. Jesus I heard it mentioned in this video and I immediately called Olive Garden to see if they deliver.
Exactly hahaha... Never take an italian girl to an italian restaurant! Nothing is as good as my mom's food
+Levi Paulsen you're*
If Kevin Hart took the Super serum from Captain America.
Sufiyan Soalman lol
@@opnode9962 The model isn't Black to compare him to Kevin Hart
azure kite 🤣
*crying* thats exacly what i thought XDXD
I found this way too funny🤣
I'm expecting a "What Actually Makes a Woman More Attractive?"
to men its the bewbs and that's it xDDD
OliviaDoesn'tKnow Sad, but true. Ya gotta have nice bewbs XD
YAASSSS, buzzfeed directors, might wanna do this
yesss
the booty too
me being serious-
girl- you're so serious loosen up
me being goofy-
girls-he funny but too immature
In short: be yourself and kick away others' opinions about you.
Vinícius Valois yep
This is so true, as a girl I can confirm this is true. I’m not like this but every other girl I know is 💀
so deep bro (lol)
Dude, just do you then.
Guy smiles...
Girl: Could be ... gay?
Wtf
Eh thx for the likes?
😂😂B!! It's soo messed up
I HATEEEEEEE WHEN PEOPLE DO THAT JUST BECAUSE A GUY IS MORE EXPRESSIVE OF HIS FEELINGS DOESN’T MAKE HIM GAY
Insecure females
I'm a generally bouncy guy, but this means I want to have fun and enjoy whatever I'm doing. Can't I have my fun without my sexuality being incorrectly portrayed??
Whuzzin Gamont
Women find men attractive when they have serious face but men find women attractive when women smiles
Kindness, humor, confidence, sense for adventure, openness, intellectuality, positivity.
...
Anyone?
Me 100%
💯
most likely.
clearly, those are qualities that JGL seems to possess :)
+lalakuma9 What is JGL? :/
This is really interesting. They should make a female version.
agreed
YES!!!!
Yes
They wouldn't because that would be sexist to label a woman.
did you miss the point of the whole video?
its to see how gender roles come into play when it comes to attraction.
Be Black.
And make sure to get you're facts straight before you're face(smh)
Lmao just effing sit there and don’t do anything
look at stephiscold
Where is my 🍕
You could just have said don't cope!
"could be gayyy?" Just because he smiled?
idiot*
I was like WTF when she said that
she is the one that stuck to machismo point of views the most too.
said the guy that said clear plans about going out with her was "too thirsty", because a guy apparently shouldn't show interest otherwise he isn't masculine enough.
could be bisexual ?
That's the psychological study, we subconsciously think things such as this which would verbally sound wrong socially.
They should've used someone a bit more average-looking instead of a model. I feel like the results would have been a bit more credible lol
Exactly. He was attractive period...
I think that was why though. If both sides are typically physically attractive, your answers should only be based on how he acted. Like a control for the experiment. If he was average-looking not everyone would be interested and it would affect their choices.
i agree with sandra. once i took in how attractive he was haha i focused more on his actions and personality rather than his physical appearance. although, that may be because i don't go crazy over how "attractive" someone is and it's not what wins me over...
The experiment will change because if he was less attractive girls would want the friendlier version as to know he is not a killer or worst, since we stupidly tend to equate attractiveness with goodness. Even courts in a study were found to give a less severe sentence to good looking people. In other words pretty men can get away with being more masculine and not come off as intimidating.
yea I think they're trying to help inform men what other men/women find attractive so they could adjust their behavior. The problem is if you're genetically lucky with your looks, dating is easy. That guy doesn't have to put any effort in. He walks up to any woman and just says "Hi" and that works 95% of the time. He puts any pic on a dating website, and he'll get 100s of responses easy. But if an average guy does everything right, he still loses out over a good looking man who treats people like assholes. That guy could beat a woman and women still respond positively. Look at Chris Brown.
Waiting the female version..
Its'a me Fossy! I don't think so men can be not attract to women who act a certain way. They can have a particular preference on women not necearly superficial..
Hans S Why?
Hans S i don't agree with you. .
Dang it.
That would be sexual assault, according to the retards who work at BuzzFeed.
I tried this out and this girl called me gay
Jc Avelar me to 😂
I am a female and if you have less of the toxic masculity, I will simply find you more attractive
xD
@@ABCstockholm007 toxic masculinity is a made up term exclusively for physically unattractive guys!
😂😂😂
I was 50/50. Masculinity is attractive but its a turn off when someone is trying to be masculine and afraid they won't look masculine
Same
Well said.
Exactly.
That's exactly what I was thinking...It's attractive when it's natural
totally agree
can we just talk about how foiiiinne that man is¿¿¿
the black guy not the psychologist
+J.S.D YESSS 😍
He seems pretty fine, I mean, good attitude, nice clothes, well-spoken individual.. very fine yes
+Jada Davis his name is broderick hunter
+Krystal Lynn ^^
Idk most people say masculine guys feel like they will protect you and make you feel safe but less masculine guys are so open and committed that they make you feel like they wont let anything bad happen to you.
They're also huge cowards.
I value pacifism tho
+Ashley ASHLEYM not really
I have a super crazy best guy friend and hell he's totally not masculine but just like you said, less masculine guys actually makes me feel safer. He may acts crazy, loud, noisy etc but he cares for me and all of his friends more than any other guys in my life!
Wow I totally agree with that statement lol
The "less masculine" guys are people I connect with more.
The less masculine version is the nice guy who you'd love to hang out with and will be stuck in the friendzone forever.
Harsh truth
Hahaha
but the majority of the people chose him...? the video is proving the literal opposite of what you're saying
@@WerewolfCat890 You'd much rather have a nice guy stick around you and be a friend of yours, while you'd pefer to be in a relationship with a masculine man, subconsciously.
But if u have both u know
When are you going to put on "What makes a Woman actually attractive"
i want this
If Buzzfeed never does it, someone else will surely will.
+ilostmytoucans no
i want this so bad
Ah, no they're not. Beauty is measured by who they are, not what they look like, and plenty of women are complete assholes.
the model is very good looking.
+Kaisoo Enthusiast your nameeee
ikr
You got 420 Likes nice job
yup I agree 😂😍
agreed
"I know what fireworks looks like, you don't have to do that."
+thekevinjc13 love dat comment
+thekevinjc13 bahahaha!
I will be honest, I preferred the one on the left about every time because he has such good personality. He smiled and showed more emotion which shows he really trying to connect with the girl. The one on the right looked like he was just a player.
Same, girl! Same☺️
right
@@tamannarahman899 right, like "the one on the right"? haha
@@dzjowie no, what she said was 'RIGHT' , and I also preferred '''the one on the LEFT'''😉
But don't the players get more girls...?
This is actually interesting. One of buzzfeeds better videos.
i agree
ikr? i love it! really hoping they make a female version too, that'd be super cool :)
Agreed
Definitely
@@Cat-tg8nk they didn’t
I like less traditionally masculine men then lmao... Smiling guys are so hot tbh.
might be bc im a gay guy :^)
I agree though and I'm female. I didn't even know smiling was considered "feminine"
its not. its just less masculine than not smiling
HONESTLY
Yep same
Just follow these 2 simple steps to get a girl to like you:
1) Be attractive
2) Don't be unattractive
3.Be rich
4)Don't Be Rich
you mean don't be not rich ;) ^
He already said "Be attractive".
seriously what guys think is just xDDD hilarious. Tell me these are all jokes
Guy: *Smiles instead of being "masculine"*
Girl: It seems that I have diagnosed you with gay.
Underrated
XD 😂
Honestly, I don't even know which version was the hottest. The psychotherapist or the model
literally what I was thinking !!!
The therapist
Lmao same here
ME
the model
Forget the model,I'd ay day choose the therapist.
Anna K oopsie
same here lol
Anna K lmaooo
racist
Claus OJ yeah ..if the therapist was black Id have choosed him nonetheless..its about personal references rather than racism.
What the hell? They bring gay dudes to rate how a guy looks? Ffs I HATE this generation.
German Gonzalez there are straight dudes there too
what's wrong with that?
LMAO
Yeah man now everything is about gay people hey if you want to be gay be gay dont go on public media en everywhere trying to make people accept it overnight gosh i hate it too... we were wonce the greatest nation now were the gayest nation, youll people say whats wrong with that well that instesd of searching for better way of life a better economy you are spending all your energy trying to make people accept this nonsense all day just stop 😂
Xavier Neftali lololol, not the gayest nation, 70% of californians voted against gay mariage but Congress passed it
Next time pick a guy that is an average looking Joe.
u mean white boy ?
Who's joe
ssssSTopmotion Joe mama 🤣
Sorry, I couldn’t resist
@GAMEHUB No freaking way, he is so good looking
@@zarrukhiso9646 no he means someone who isn’t a literal model. Someone who is less attractive and more relatable to the average looking joey
I regret to say:
What makes a man attractive to over 90% of women ?
MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY .. MONEY !
lol Not at all. I wrote out a list and most of it was intellect, care, good health, creativity and a great family
And no doubt, your ''?LIST'?' was both politically-correct and diplomatic, but not reality. However let's refer to the flip-side, ie ''Divorce'' whereupon a great many women have no qualms about taking their Husband for everything including the clothes on his back, and indeed, the children too: albeit to use as leverage ....... Now tell me I'm wrong!
stewart william no, my list comes from my heart. I wrote it when I was 19 years old. I mean you can "grade" it all you want like you think u know me, but at the end of the day it's what *I* want and it's exactly who I have attracted. I've never been divorced, but I don't believe in taking everything including the children bc women are "more nuturing" and "every child needs his mother". That's BS to me. Listen, I have two brothers. I'm more sympathetic to men than you realize.
+stewart william originally your idea was that all women marry for money. I;m simply explaining to you Im not, and neither are several of my family members or friends bc we all have done well for ourselves and realize money isn;t everything but the intellect and creativity behind it IS. My mom recently turned down a retired NFL player bc she didn't agree with him morally/spiritually and he had erratic behavior and was overly emotional--though he made TONS of money. I;m nearly thirty years old and my opinion has not changed. you can write several paragraphs about what you *think* you know about me personally, but honestly you are wasting your time. my comment stands: I don;t want a man for his money. never have, never will. unless you can prove otherwise based on a fact you know about *me* and not other women, then it's best to just not reply tbh
You should try to READ what is written lady.
Your Quote: ''originally your idea was that all women marry for money''.
''No it wasn't'' I never said anything of the sort .... As you well know.
So I suggest YOU STOP MAKING THINGS UP that suit your argument!
I think the issue here is our definition of masculine. The things that were considered "less masculine" in this video are things I would consider to be very mature and thus masculine.
I mean you're wrong. Traditional masculinity comes down to how vibrantly and openly you express your emotions. I'm stoic. Dealing with your emotions in any way that doesn't hurt other people is mature and acceptable, it's what works for you. There were a few cases outside of that in the vid where the MTM one was more openly rude, aggressive or uncaring, but those aren't really the same thing. Those ones specifically are examples of anthropological masculinity gone toxic by people who were raised in a way in which they failed to grasp the real undercurrents of gender normality. instead conforming to the violent, unempathetic figures they grew up under. You'll notice the audience rejected those instances as being unattractive...
Gender norms are going to take a long time to change if they ever do. They're partially rooted in biology.
"Masculinity" in anthropology and psychology have a pretty different meaning than our daily language (and so do many other terminology). And I believe it's hard to find a reasonable person in real life being overwhelmingly masculine or feminine by academics' definition.
Mercy my queen
That mercy doe
Mark, maybe in other countries but in North America, a masculine man is someone who is emotionally closed off and confident in their actions all while being empathetic and caring. That doesn't make sense but neither does masculinity. It's a very confusing toxic identity.
Me: 😏😉
Her: 911🤢
Him: 😏😉
Me: 😳
Him:😂😂
Me:😂😂
Me (inside):😔😔😔
@@zekeyeager1332gay?
😅😂😂😂💀💀
Bubba 🤣🤣🤣
hahahahahhahahah
Guy:*manspreads*
Girl:eww thats gross
Girl:*womenbasicallyexposingboobs*
Girl2:omg shes proud of her body
Ya man in this day n age lots of women flaunts there body sexually n calls it a body pride n at the same time says men objectifies women if they find a man looking at her sexually,how is man supposed to not get sexually charged n ignore their natural instincts when they sees a half nude chick.i dont get that...are they testing men?or do they actually enjoy to be looked upon sexually secretly so they can feed their ego n need for excessive admiration.cos if it was only about loving your body,you would probably enjoy your body privately at home in the mirror n be proud of it n only strip off when its necessary,like in beaches n swimming pools.why be such a show off n flaunt it every oppurtunity you get.Also women sexually harrassing men n looking at men inappropriately are glorified,celebrated n even encouraged in hollywood..i just dont get how this thing works???
@@ray1ashwin you need to learn the difference between objectifying and appreciating
manspreading isn't the same thing as showing off your body. manspreading is something that gets in the way of other people, it's extremely impolite.
@@no-dy3xw Not really.
It's not manspreads it's SITS
that psychologist is hella hottt.
yup. tbh he was cuter than the test guy cos he is also smart- i dont know if the other one is or not, but the psychologist definitely wins in my book!
I was looking thru the comments, waiting for someone to write that. I think he's hot too
+Vivian Ong 👍😋
They were both really hot :)
too accurate..
Yeah, i'm definitely into "less masculine" (?) guys according to this video.
I prefer a guy that shows his feelings rather than a guy who acts tough.
same
Same!
same
D Fassinou stfu
Same
Do this for women please!
omg I was gonna say the same!
you don't need to ask . . they definitely will post it later.
+Al Al no I mean what makes women attractive to men
What are you talking about...all woman are beautiful.
u sure?
What makes this man attractive to people?
He's attractive
The end.
This video could have been 10 seconds long and summed up with ONE word..
"confidence"
niknatural thank u
money yields confidence XD
niknatural so if one is fake and shows a fake confidence it means it's good right? What a world that falls for fake people?
***** i rather be myself than fake and they say men get all the benefits of being men in the world and the truth is opposite women can be dominating and childish but men have to be fake
***** sad but in the shallow countries like India it holds true but in USA I thought they were sensible and educated. Fake is untrue.
"Masculine" and "attractive" are two different things.
Yes, true. But I guess the test was to see if women or men find masculine guys attractive or less masculine guys attractive.
The test was to see if being masculine is attractive. i don't get what you're saying.
That's what this proves...
How to get people to like you (doesn't matter if you're a boy a girl or a potato):
1) Be attractive.
2) Nothing just be attractive.
nope not tru at all
3) Rich
easy to say for the girls with all the makeup
+Sara not everyone thinks like that, most people around me are very superficial they dont talk to you if you're not good looking pretty girls always get all the attention and I know its normal and I shouldn't complain but I can't help feeling jealous dude :/
+jewel law bruh wearing makeup doesn't mean you are fake and supeficial makeup have nothing to do with the personality some gurls just feel better wearing it ;v
What makes a guy attractive to me:
1. Attentive
2.Personality Quirks
3. Kind
4. Smiley, laughs a lot
5. Caring and able to show their soft side
6. And obviously looks, though that isnt always the most important. (I once was not attracted to a guy initially at all, but as I got to know him, he was like the best man i had ever known and I was hooked.)
👌 ok
I think I'm the man you're looking for. lol
@@imaginarypal4688 Where's the looks?
Who cares
So 'masculine' is pretty much being a guarded unapproachable poker-faced jerk. Ill never understand this world.
Lets Mash It Up! I like less masculine
RYANimations what about being confident enough to just be yourself
Lets Mash It Up! unfortunately that's not what most guys do. blame gender roles
Lets Mash It Up! yeah and women complain thay men are jerks when it's clear that the whole world wants jerks ha ha maybe they will love psychopaths too!
Lets Mash It Up! buzzfeed hates straight males
How is nobody talking about the black guy's trim? I need his miracle worker!
He cuts his own hair
Seriously? I need skills like that
Dude ikr 😭😭😭
+ThatNormalBlackGuy He's on RUclips . Look up Broderick hunter
I cut my own hair too. Takes a bit of practice, but it's worth it. You feel more put together and save money. Just watch a bucket load of videos on youtube. Buy a trimmer and get two mirrors. I fade myself and everything. I line up myself with a disposable razor and razor blade, however. I won't be able to line up myself with a trimmer without messing up.
Wtf I can't become black
Fairly sure you can't lower the minimal IQ silly
There's no evidence to suggest that this individual has a low or high IQ so that statement must be a joke.
Am I "this individual"
stawo uzing big wrds
wat
Gotta give props to this actor, felt very versatile and genuine
I did an experiment like this at school. I found that people only judge you on looks alone.
TheUKNutter yea thats how everyone does judges
I wrote a comment the same as this on another video, gets over 1000 likes. Seriously.
TheUKNutter exactly
I've learned that everybody has a standard for physical appearance. This standard is used to evaluate how clean-cut and attractive you are, and whether or not you should be interacted with. If you fail to meet these standards, the person(s) you're showing interest in will internally dismiss you before you can get a word out. After learning this, I realized that my appearance is essentially the key to the gateway of the social world. It only get's more complicated from there. Socializing is in no way simple. It's one of the most complex and essential skills that I feel everybody should learn.
Haha, school. part of your brain is not even fully developed yet at a school age
Buzzfeed: Masculinity is attractive
Also Buzzfeed: MASCULINITY IS TOXIC!
You genuinely make me sick.
Mr Peesky: I'm not very smart and have trouble understanding very basic things.
Also Mr Peesky: I have strong opinions on things I don't understand.
No, you are confusing things, masculinity it's not toxic, that you stop doing things you would like to do because you are trying to be masculine it's pretty toxic.
J A Men don’t do that. That’s a false narrative women have created.
Masculinity isn't all bad. There is good masculinity and toxic, learn the deference. Like there is good feminity and bad
What do you expect, especially since BuzzFeed shows misandristic propaganda consistently? Feminists are probably the biggest hypocrites you'll ever meet throughout your entire life. Their double-standards are unbelievably enormous.
i chose ALL of the less traditionally masculine ones, he just seems so much kinder like that☺️
Same
same
All except the "high EQ" one... that didn't seem like high EQ it seemed like he had no idea what happened in his reletionship.
yeah, had nothing do to with you being against traditional gender roles, yeah
***** i'm not.
Rule number one:
Dont be fake.
Rule number two:
Be yourself.
Rule number three:
Show confidence.
Perfect 💯
Step 4: be attractive
@@josephstockman9091 If you follow those above rules, You will be automatically attractive.
First of all: be good looking
@@jackhoff529 negative, looks having nothing to do with personality.
That blonde girl is the definition of basic
Lmfao😂
Still smash
Kriz Yamz we have standards yknow
True
Most are
God I fell in love with that man
same😂
Haha.
wich one? the actor or the therapist? :)
Rebecca .Random I know!!! kdfhshafsdhs
Rebecca .Random HAHAHA!!!! OMG you just made my day, I love the alien part, I know, Imma tell him about his aliens friends to come here... :) we need to know about other kinds of living :)
dude !!! the therapist is so hot wtf
hahah IK RIGHT
yes omfg!
ikr
yasss
Completely agree aha 😻💕👌🏻 xx
From my experience...
When meeting a woman for the first time, typically being that masculine strong figure brings them in and over time you can open up and be more emotional because it's seen as progress and they feel like they are the reason you are able to open up
On the flip side...
Starting out as that too emotionally available figure comes off as unattractive and you end up being viewed more as a friend.
Not trying to be disrespectful but I know women SAY they like that emotionally available guy but if you dont give off a masculine "I got this" , impression...good luck.
But hey different strokes for different folks I guess
Nope!!!!
I agree. I find it a bit overwhelming if a guy is opening up emotionally to me right away, since it takes me a while to open up and build trust. And I know a lot of girls won’t admit it but I’m not ashamed to admit that I do prefer it when a man takes control and gives off an “I got this” vibe.
Glymos Nope. It takes me time to build trust with anyone. Man or woman
You are correct
thats true but frankly for me it applies to any gender, i wanna go after someone who i put effort into getting to know
The thumbnail for this video omigod
Maaaan I was thinking the same thing! This gent is FIIIIINE 🔥💘
Yesssss
Yeees 😍
Hell yes and I choose the one on the left. His stare and the slight smile... Weak at the knees
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I think there are too many variables that aren't addressed. One thing that plays heavily in my mind is Black men have a stereotype that they are rough, aggressive, have deep voices, very masculine and a lot of women feed into that stereotype. I wonder If I would have still picked the less masculine traits on a white, Indian or Asian guy.
Wow, I never even thought of that. 👍
Super hot masculine asian kpop idol star? HELL YEAH
Good point. I feel if the video featured an Asian male more people would vote for the traditionally masculine options
+Miidy Sama 'Super hot masculine asian kpop idol star? HELL YEAH' - ugh get a life
You make a valid point. It'd also apply if the guy they used was skinny and kinda dorky. I think most people would choose the more masculine traits for sure.
Ladies, choose a man that respects you. Not the way how he looks
Absolutely not. Looks matter. I can find myself falling for personality over looks most of the time, but if the guy looks like he has a pig face, then I'm probably not going to be all too interested. The reality is, people want someone they're both physically and emotionally attracted to. No one wants to date someone they don't physically like because then having sex with them seems more like a chore than something fun.
respect wamen
mem too
It won't happen these women are superficial as hell 😂
Vee Channel And lots of money....
all i've learned over the years is
be yourself, don't act differently just to please someone
It doesn't matter if you're not like someone else
you are you, and thats 100% enough
Bad advice
@@ten-ub4xd great advice
wow this is actually really insightful..and the guy is extremely good looking omg
the model I mean :")
the model has the same eyes a girl at school has o_o
who cares ? That's the question
Blank_ Salty much?
Blank_ apparently you cared enough to comment on this post lol
This helped me realise I'm very unnatractive
😭😭😭
The Nobody welcome to inceldom buddy :)
Yeah same 👊
JacobS22 _ stay away from the incel community. Save yourself.
@@bobjoe5520 being incel IS saving yourself these days
I feel like the "guy" that immediately had a plan for italian food was more masculine. He figured out what he wanted to do like that *finger snap* I think thats more masculine. He took charge
labels labels labels
always be more masculine, it's the most attractive, women don't know what they want, they think they want the guy who's too open and too available but in reality they always chase the mysterious, less available one
Wtf are you talking about. Sexist allert? A woman can talk for herself. And if you dont know what you want thats not because you have a vagina or penis, its simply the indecisiveness of a human being which can have serval reason (havent learned the right way to decide yet, was never expected to decide something big (outside factors), not enough information, too much choice, social conditioning as well as upbringing (be passive, not active), too young (ask a 4 year old to make a difficult decision and he will rather lack to understand the question or doesnt feel like he can decide), or maaany other reason. So dont be so narrow minded.
Also your words downgraded you so hard 😄 because it shows such a strong lack of intelligence and empathy. Very unattractive for a woman, let me tell you, as a woman ;)
@@ABCstockholm007 wow
@@ABCstockholm007 Ok Millennial
Ellie X. He is telling the thruth.
need to do a female version for this.
L Edge Willshe also be Black or will she represent her biracial black bi-product replacemwnt?
Hahaha nice, did you forget this is buzzfeed? Men objectification is A-OK but when it's women that's a no go
L Edge No, the need to delete their channel.
I agree.
I dont think male attraction works the same way... Man considers the way a woman looks more than anything. Dont know about you, but I would definitely go with laid back girl, cheerful one, slutty one, timid one, doesnt matter as long as she is hot. Of course its different if I were considering relationship, but in terms of sexual attraction, there is very few deal breakers for me. Maybe lesbians would have more to say about their attraction to female model, that could be interesting.
I like "less masculine" guys I guess 😂
same
Melanie Martinez! YAAAS! - i like your style! XD
Same :)
same
same
I'M PROBABLY FUNNIER THAN YOU
LEAFY!
Lmfao
Omg 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Undoomed lol
Unpopular opinion: the guy who smiled is WAYY more attractive than the guy who doesn’t
it's the same guy
No
@@dzjowie that’s the point of the video moron
Bullshiiii
Do the same test for women! I'm curious
+Kwick gummer but they get butthurt if you don't too...😫
YES PLEASE
Anyone that knows buzzfeed know thst buzzfeed will make that video
yessss
Yesss!
Regardless of this guys traits these girls would be wet, even if he farted in their direction.....
5LayerBurrito true😂😂 they don't look good enough to choose
-_- no (yes)
5LayerBurrito 😆
+Sale M butthurt?
Two words:
Jaw lines
Indeed
And if they don't have one?
Beard.
that is true. Could probably be a little difficult to get for a guy. I haven't quite seen a lot of guys having them...except for the CW channel haha.
No,the most important thing is the way he treats you and others
Step 1: Be Good Looking
Step 2: Be wealthy
Step 3: Have good social skills and don't be anti-social
I chose less masculine all the time without even noticing
sameee
Same fellow unicorn
same
Me too!!! :D
same
Why does buzzfeed mostly have gay men?
Because buzzfeed appeals to female demographic.
So women prefer gay men? That's ironic.
They prefer men that are more like them - for friendship. That has always been the case.
Illuminati agenda
Consolous Woman tend to prefer men with some feminine characteristics, which is why over time men have lost the heavy brow line and other characteristics associated with the caveman idea of men. Sexual selection has changed us all into what we are as humans today to a great degree. of course it is mixed and they do want masculine features too. As you sometimes hear people say about men who are so handsome they are almost pretty, and some women find that appealing, there is also an attraction to rugged looks associated with strength.
Just Be Yourself and care for the feeling of others!! Being sensitive is being A real man .... Masculine for me doesn't mean you need to be a cool guy or something...What axe says "Care makes a real man"
👍🏻
+Klyie Jenner lol
Only, you're describing what a girl "wants" and "appreciates" but not at all what she's attracted to, which are completely different characteristics.
+KeepItSimpleStupid Sorry,but I found it Attractive when a man is sensitive and caring...
Yes Dean you'r right !!
+Marian The Librarian yeah !!!!
My experience: be both.
Just know how to do it in the right time and you're fine.
Perfect
There's no right time for unattratctive guys!
And it depends on the type of women you want to attract.
You lost me at manspreading
Well, this is Buzzfeed.
Ye I should have expected it
Kolya
Par for the course, really. The rabbit hole runs deep. ;P
***** Stop staring at me with your Male Gaze
*****
No, the ones complaining about a seating stance are the ones triggered.
What actually makes a man attractive?
Personal preference.
I know, shocking, isn't it?
Exactly lol
all of the thumbs up
nice
L.
you need to read way more about the fact that you know... we live in society and we are not inviolate.
I would do so many things to him.
😂😂😂😂
Who the therapist or the model....? i do both though...
Yess that guy is so fine omggg 😍
LMAO
better relaxlmao
In real life, the more masculine will always win
This should be:
What Actually Makes A Man Attractive to gay men and lesbians ?
Good to know.
exactly.
yeah, it's pure bs..
0:56 Smile more
2:01 Be formal
2:42 Use Less hand movements and gesture
3:28 Talk in a Slow and Deep Voice
4:03 Be More attentive and keep eye contact
5:15 Have higher eq
6:21 Be Commited and Available
Be mysterious too
Feisal Adow this is all wrong LOL stop coping buddy, just be good looking and that’s it
Or just be yourself
Ashok Singh LOL stop coping you normie
Ashok Singh no one wants that unless you’re 7/10 MINIMUM
That black guy is a great actor.
The Chiefs could have said actor....
Chazz Moet That actor was a great actor. Doesn't quite have the same ring to it...
LOL
His name was legitimately said like 10x...Broderick
Golden x Diva lmfao
Too many attractive people but
Not enough intresting ones
i coudnt decide He is tooo daum fine for me to focus
he could fart and ill be like goregous !
LMAOOO MEE
samee haha
ikr
+SparklePans I know
same
he's too attractive to focus on the video seriously god daaaaaaaamn
Seriously both sides looked awesome
Gyungrim Min ikr
You jim out now!
my gay
HONESTLY
When are we gonna get the girl version
Momo Love got
Momo Love U kidding right?We all know what makes a girl attractive.
KingOfHiijak doesn't even matter to men if girl are more masculine, cause it'll be seen as progressive or strong independent for women, while men still get backlash when they dive into their feminine side....
jacky79322 Men are suposed to be more manly ofc,women should be more feminine,ur talking double standards.
KingOfHiijak did you learn anything from the vid, clearly people like some parts of men that are feminine...I'm saying people should have both sides not just all on one side. Nowadays girls can be more masculine but guys can't be feminine
He’s a whole level above all those people rating him no cap
Team feminine men 🙋🏼
🙌 All the way
whooo
yaasss
AMEN
YESSS same
Well now if I'm smiling that means I'm gay. great
Lol
Hahahah
Ikr
Lol no more smiling
right
FINALLY! An actual, legitimate experiment from Buzzfeed
***** I didn't look into the technicalities of experimentation man. No one should ever look that deep into a BuzzFeed video (they dont even look that damn deep into their videos). I was just pointing out that they had more than one side and used outside sources for survey in this one. Instead of it just being them asking 5 people that work for them what they like, they took it to the Internet and got viewers opinion then actually used the results in the video. Which is wayy more effort than BuzzFeed as ever put into anything else.
BURN
It's funny because once in a blue moon they'll have some really good content with experiments or short films, but it just seems like they like the crap they put out more.
Definitely shows how money hungry they are.
And it was ruined by the word manspreading
There is nothing legitimate about this😂
youtube "faceandlms" to find out what actually makes a guy attractive. SPOILER, it's all about body fat % and facial structure.
Looks don't matter, just be confident
- David gandy
As a blessed man with a strong jaw, and hollow cheeks this is 100 percent true if the face is strong than so is the attraction you'll get.
Its Ovaaaaarrr for BluepillCels