yeah seeing a couple being actually successful is rare with all those clout chasers coming on the show or with people making up the most ridiculous reasons for popping .
I love BM! I love how Nnamdi calls him to chat with a happily married man and get advice. And I like how when that couple got engaged after only a couple months, BM asked them important questions like a concerned father. May God protect Arlette and BM.
The man has vision! Same with Arlette. Both purposeful and visionionary. I’m sure BM sees this as a form of ministry to reinstate ‘family’ back into the structure of society….and I’m here for it. The very BEST of the pop the balloon franchises.
Not me kicking my feet and smiling hella hard hearing them talk about each other like this. Seeing their love and joy is so sweet! Good luck and blessings to yall!
I was just about to say this, on my break here smiling from ear to ear 😆 I love seeing genuine people sharing a genuine love, no clout chasing just pure authenticity. wishing them well.
"I've dealt with broke women." “He makes me want to do my part as a help mate.” The benefit of not having the most money but providing safety, security, and being a generous and thoughtful man 👏🏾 Glad they both understood their assignment and picked better and didn't let their bad experiences keep them from showing up for this one.
@@bm.artist you bring us back to basics of love. Many are relearning how to do it the old way. For the fact that so far only 2 couples are doing so well tells us all about dating in this generation. Bravo to you and Arlete Amuli
@@bm.artistI'm single 28 from Africa almost giving up on love I really wish 😢I'd find love,I'm such a sad soul...you and Arlette need to make matches for people miles apart😢😢😢God knows I want love
Definitely can tell he’s in love. The excitement, the openness to wanting to speak first, and the smiles. Very nice. Wishing them both the best because I can see the mutual connection.
Yessss I hope this relationship works, God willing. Long distance works with someone who doesn’t cause stress and with someone who is truly intentional about you. Its hard, but worth it.
Take notes for men too. He’s a positive man who’s driven and uplifted her the entire time. African men treat women way better so ofcourse she’ll naturally submit to him. He don’t believe in all that singing crap American men believe in.
@@kelsblair5963 American men don't have a problem finding wives. American women of color only get chosen for marriage at a 25% rate. 25% is an extremely low F.
@@kelsblair5963why you gotta put down American black men? We can be just as good or better, and vice versa. Not every African man is good. Wake up to reality
MEN take notes☝🏾😉!! He's a PROVIDER (spends money on his woman without expecting reciprocation, as a real man SHOULD), so yeah, she paid for that trip, in love and appreciation for all the natural MANLY things he does for her, always LOVING HER, SPENDING ON HER, thus, creating the space intheir relationship for her to continue to rest in her femininity and love him moore & more❤ Take notes guys, TAKE NOTES!!
Nandi said something key, when he spoke about how frazzled he was with the his job and credit. She was his peace! Bingo: Ladies we have to be a man’s peace ✌🏾☮️ Great seeing BM smile 😀🤩
Im 60 years old woman and married for 30 years. We are blessed to have Arlette and BM. Love watching young ppl navigate the dating game, asking the right questions, and setting non negotiatable boundaries.
Aww this is so sweet. I’m smiling so hard listening to him talking about her. I know she was doing her part from the last episode based on the way he spoke about her. I’m so happy for them.
Nnamdi grew up in US but you can tell his parents really put that Nigerian home training on him seriously.... the product is what we are all watching and enjoying now....
In the beginning bm was really scared at first until she said they are doing good and still together he got so happy ! I love this for them man ! This is AMAZING ! I’m so excited for them 😂🙏🏽👏 I PRAY THEY KEEP IT GOING ! And s/o to bm and arlette for helping ppl who really are looking and struggling in that area in their lives ! God bless all I’m happy for them Fr fr ! 🎉
They are so cute together. People saying Alera was not doing her part were just hating. This is how a man is supposed to behave when he likes you. And they are one of the younger couples.
Not hating if we react based on the information presented to us. They didn’t mention what she did in the other video but now they have and we are judging based off information presented, yet again.
im long distance with my man, he’s also in Maryland. it’s something about the men out there they really know how to be providers!! im spending Christmas with mine soooooo excited. so happy for y’all 💗👏🏾
26:09 😢😢 He seems to be insecure about his skin complexion. A lot dark-skinned men / boys are like this. It's one of the main reasons why they don't see beauty in dark-skinned women. He mentioned her caramel skin tone twice as to say, "You don't have anything to worry about because you're not dark-skinned." 😢 You're are Handsome, and so are all Dark-skinned men. Please love the skin you're in.
Praise the Lord 🙌🏽 May your love grow, Keep God in the center of your relationship , and you will rise above all life’s challenges. I’m so happy for yall & I’m excited to see what God has in store for you two❤️
I was one of the original comments saying he was doing too much. Listening to her return the energy was great to hear. After this update I can say I wish nothing the best for these two!! 👏🏾
I am so happy for them! Finally a solid one. My husband and I met in Houston on his vacation from Virginia Aug 1, 2020, he visited every month then moved to Houston April 2021. Dec2,2021 proposed, July 30th2022 wedding. People who claim long distance is a deal breaker don’t truly like the other people, and feel it is not worth it.
I'm rooting for these two. My advice bc they're young and capable. Get real with each other and understand your attachment style and if you have personality disorder traits. Smart people that are motivated to keep things going need to be able to understand how their partner interfaces with the world and modify their own approach.
As a man that’s also dealt with broke women lol. (Listen I’m a sucker for personality 😂) dating women that have their ish together is sooo freaking amazing lol. When they can plan dates and book trips and take care of you as much as you take care of them u will never go backwards fellas lol. Here’s the key tho. U gotta be the type to attract that type.
❤❤ I was smiling the whole time. This is all I want for the people I love and ppl in general, as communities. It's healthy, and BM and Arlette are giving more than just matches. When you find your person, you really do want that for everyone. ❤❤
BM’s upcoming It’s A Match show sounds good. Sometimes episodes of pop the balloon have good guys and unserious women and vice versa, but the solid serious people who happen to not be on the same episode still connecting and growing will be nice to see.
This is it. Very intentional with what they want. So happy for my Nigerian brother and our American princess Alera. Keep waxing strong guys. We love you both❤ Thank you Arlette and BM for your words of encouragement. We pray for more of such matches. Amen🙏
the most successful couples are always the ones who did not go viral - and people never remember them UNTIL catch ups and the ones who went viral crash and burn
I loved thissss so much I felt the Joy of the Lord while watching. It’s a beautiful thing watching two become one with God at the center ! Congratulations to you both & thanks to arlette & BM y’all more blessings to you all.
Blacks are coming together in America just not on a large number. Black America lacks traditional values and religious beliefs The leading ideology in black America is socialism that was coined by Karl Marx
Happy for yall. You both have those permanent smiles. It's undeniable what you have together. I was doubtful on the catch-up. This is confirming for me. Thank you for sharing.
This is so sweet!🥹 Who’s cutting onions? May God bless their relationship with abundant joy and peace🥰 Arlette and BM are setting the path for future families!
It’s the only way men and women can move in a healthy manner. Marriage is a religious practice and a lot of these folks that come on the show are degenerates who lack morality. You can’t be a coomer and expect to have successful relationships. Jesus Christ sets the precedence when it comes to fruitful marriages
I'm over here blushing for them 🥰 Purpose driven/ intentional dating always wins
The WHOLE video. They definitely have chemistry that you can’t make up
This made me happy
This is the result of coming on the show to genuinely find love, not clout chasing, I love it for them, rooting for them 😀
@@RopoDemure Ariana what are you doing here look love you ropo
@ I love me some Arlette and BM 😅. Love you too 🙊💕💕
These 2 gotta be the second most successful couples in this show, I am so happy to see them still going strong together.
yeah seeing a couple being actually successful is rare with all those clout chasers coming on the show
or with people making up the most ridiculous reasons for popping .
"If you see two people happy, be happy for them" -BM.
Very well said 👏🏾 💯
The way BM Is happy 😊
Yh lol never seen BM smile like this, King appreciates black love when he sees it!!
BM always looks like that serious dad that doesn’t get fazed easily 😂
It’s always nice to see him smile at the little accomplishments ❤
I love BM! I love how Nnamdi calls him to chat with a happily married man and get advice. And I like how when that couple got engaged after only a couple months, BM asked them important questions like a concerned father. May God protect Arlette and BM.
The man has vision! Same with Arlette. Both purposeful and visionionary. I’m sure BM sees this as a form of ministry to reinstate ‘family’ back into the structure of society….and I’m here for it. The very BEST of the pop the balloon franchises.
Not me kicking my feet and smiling hella hard hearing them talk about each other like this. Seeing their love and joy is so sweet! Good luck and blessings to yall!
Literally lol so adorable
Yesss 🙌🏾🙌🏾 just smiling, so happy for them.
Breathe of fresh air because goddamn lol
I was just about to say this, on my break here smiling from ear to ear 😆 I love seeing genuine people sharing a genuine love, no clout chasing just pure authenticity. wishing them well.
I AM HEARING SMILLING LIKE THEY MY KIDS.
GOD BLESS THEM
Their parents did a great job on raising quality people
Yea bc in louisiana its rare to run into young ladies of her character. Especially good looking single ones.
YEEEESSSS THIS ‼️💯
"I've dealt with broke women." “He makes me want to do my part as a help mate.” The benefit of not having the most money but providing safety, security, and being a generous and thoughtful man 👏🏾 Glad they both understood their assignment and picked better and didn't let their bad experiences keep them from showing up for this one.
What you and your Wife have created with this show, brings me so much Joy. & I love it ❤
Thank you for the support! God bless.
@@bm.artist you bring us back to basics of love. Many are relearning how to do it the old way. For the fact that so far only 2 couples are doing so well tells us all about dating in this generation. Bravo to you and Arlete Amuli
@@bm.artistI'm single 28 from Africa almost giving up on love I really wish 😢I'd find love,I'm such a sad soul...you and Arlette need to make matches for people miles apart😢😢😢God knows I want love
Definitely can tell he’s in love. The excitement, the openness to wanting to speak first, and the smiles. Very nice. Wishing them both the best because I can see the mutual connection.
I like when Arlette and BM interview together. Makes it so much more interesting to have two people asking questions and reacting.
Exactly and it brings two perspectives to the interview!
Happy for these two! They like family to me! BM and Arlette out here changing lives it’s all real ya!
Are you still with your match? We need a update.
Where's your update bub ?
@@dazzypeters6793 right lol
Still waiting for your catch up 😂
What happened to your match buddy? Over here giving super thanks for others
I'm so glad they still together ❤ God bless y'all🙏🏽
I got chills when Namdi discussed them reaching goals. Really inspiring.
💯🥰💪🏾
They were serious from the very beginning you’re so right!
Yessss I hope this relationship works, God willing. Long distance works with someone who doesn’t cause stress and with someone who is truly intentional about you. Its hard, but worth it.
Arlette is a comedian she’s hilarious I love her. Her comedic timing is on point
Super happy for Nnamdi and Alera. Wishing them all the best. And thank you BM and Arlette
4:56
She paid for the Mexico trip, and she is praising her man. This lady is a winner, bro. Take notes, ladies.
Take notes for men too. He’s a positive man who’s driven and uplifted her the entire time. African men treat women way better so ofcourse she’ll naturally submit to him. He don’t believe in all that singing crap American men believe in.
@@kelsblair5963
American men don't have a problem finding wives. American women of color only get chosen for marriage at a 25% rate. 25% is an extremely low F.
@@kelsblair5963
No. Men are good.
@@kelsblair5963why you gotta put down American black men? We can be just as good or better, and vice versa. Not every African man is good. Wake up to reality
MEN take notes☝🏾😉!!
He's a PROVIDER (spends money on his woman without expecting reciprocation, as a real man SHOULD), so yeah, she paid for that trip, in love and appreciation for all the natural MANLY things he does for her, always LOVING HER, SPENDING ON HER, thus, creating the space intheir relationship for her to continue to rest in her femininity and love him moore & more❤
Take notes guys, TAKE NOTES!!
Nandi said something key, when he spoke about how frazzled he was with the his job and credit. She was his peace! Bingo: Ladies we have to be a man’s peace ✌🏾☮️
Great seeing BM smile 😀🤩
24:50 BM is looking like a proud dad, just smiling with his beautiful wife on uniting two individuals in BLACK LOVE!!!
I literally had that thought ❤
Im 60 years old woman and married for 30 years. We are blessed to have Arlette and BM. Love watching young ppl navigate the dating game, asking the right questions, and setting non negotiatable boundaries.
💯
Watching from Nigeria
Wishing Nnamdi and Alera the best
Thank you BM and Amuli
I'm so happy for them. Nigerian here too. Anyasi oma nwanne😁
Same here 😂 Naija supporting our brother
@@buzzbabe1901 Utuoma nwanne
I love this. I hope Nnamdi takes care of her because she’s a good girl. Hopefully next year we shall hear another good news from them like engagement.
We have to put it in prayer
Its so sweet how excited he is about Alera..I'm glad that they're still in a good relationship ❤
@siesie768 shooting my shot here but what's your IG?
I love that Nnamdi had Alera back with the auntie. My man does the same, which makes me feel safe and supported in my relationship.
Soooo important
You can always tell when the woman is happy. . .Alera wears her joy. I wish you both well.
they're setting the bar high. i'm happy for them. i definitely see marriage in their future.
Aww this is so sweet. I’m smiling so hard listening to him talking about her. I know she was doing her part from the last episode based on the way he spoke about her. I’m so happy for them.
Me tooo!, I love this so much ❤❤❤
How old is he? He seems super vulnerable. I hope this couple is good to each other. They seem sweet.
@@July-ola He's 30
@ He’s 29
Nnamdi grew up in US but you can tell his parents really put that Nigerian home training on him seriously.... the product is what we are all watching and enjoying now....
In the beginning bm was really scared at first until she said they are doing good and still together he got so happy ! I love this for them man ! This is AMAZING ! I’m so excited for them 😂🙏🏽👏 I PRAY THEY KEEP IT GOING ! And s/o to bm and arlette for helping ppl who really are looking and struggling in that area in their lives ! God bless all I’m happy for them Fr fr ! 🎉
Keep spreading the LOVE. Thanks to Arlette and BM. ❤
I know I’m not the only one cheesing so hard🥹. May God preserve your relationship ❤️
I love this for them. Black love. I also love that they can talk to Arlette and BM behind the scenes like mentors. That is beautiful.
They are so cute together. People saying Alera was not doing her part were just hating. This is how a man is supposed to behave when he likes you. And they are one of the younger couples.
Not hating if we react based on the information presented to us. They didn’t mention what she did in the other video but now they have and we are judging based off information presented, yet again.
@@candyade1 Exactly!! OP is a fool
@@candyade1 to me it’s hating to see a normal relationship and tell the woman she need to do more. You can call it what you want though.
17:21 “he took up for me, I’m like… THATS MY MAN!!” - yaaaaaassssss, I love this for them both 🙌🏿🤎🙂✨
Am so happy for you guys reminder of my life and was married for 54 years widow 5 years
My condolences. I'm sure it was a love and life well lived for you together! Very inspiring. I pray that you are still happy to this day! God bless.
im long distance with my man, he’s also in Maryland. it’s something about the men out there they really know how to be providers!! im spending Christmas with mine soooooo excited. so happy for y’all 💗👏🏾
Arlette and BM stay uploading consistently ! 👏🏽I hope y’all take time to enjoy yourselves too yall deserve it.🫶🏽
So happy for my Igbo brother Nnamdi and the beautiful Alera. Happy to see you guys are still kicking on
Another success story. May God keep these two together, the same way He has with the other couple who are due to wed in June 2025.
So really happy for them!!!! To God be the Glory!!!! Beautiful Couple!!!
26:09 😢😢 He seems to be insecure about his skin complexion. A lot dark-skinned men / boys are like this. It's one of the main reasons why they don't see beauty in dark-skinned women. He mentioned her caramel skin tone twice as to say, "You don't have anything to worry about because you're not dark-skinned." 😢 You're are Handsome, and so are all Dark-skinned men. Please love the skin you're in.
Yes, I noticed that too...
He is very handsome, thanks for reiterating that. I know I struggled with my complexion at a younger age as well, hopefully he will get there too.
Sad hey. Am blessed to say am one of the few men who loves my dark skin. When it's sunny I go out and roast myself.
@@MsMVP I love my dark skin!! I wish I was darker! Take it or leave it ladies!!
He might need a reality check cause in the south that's all women like is dark skin men.
Nice to see BM smiling
😂
I know not them but I so praying they continue to grow together. I was really looking forward to this BM talks to them. Young Love is awesome
Who says BM is serious all the time. He's grinning from ear to ear. He's just not here for the drama and foolishness. He wants them to win!!!
Exactly
Spot on. I like BM
Proud of the both of them. Pouring into EACH OTHER. Continued blessings to yall!! 🫡
Praise the Lord 🙌🏽 May your love grow, Keep God in the center of your relationship , and you will rise above all life’s challenges. I’m so happy for yall & I’m excited to see what God has in store for you two❤️
I was one of the original comments saying he was doing too much. Listening to her return the energy was great to hear. After this update I can say I wish nothing the best for these two!! 👏🏾
I am so happy for them! Finally a solid one. My husband and I met in Houston on his vacation from Virginia Aug 1, 2020, he visited every month then moved to Houston April 2021. Dec2,2021 proposed, July 30th2022 wedding. People who claim long distance is a deal breaker don’t truly like the other people, and feel it is not worth it.
A man doting on his woman is one of the most beautiful things 🥹❤️🙌🏾👏🏾 God bless them!
I’m happy to see another PTB couple doing well. 🥂
BM looks like the happy Uncle!! I love this for them, they make me smile! Congratulations to them! I see proposal soon!
They are still together what a pleasant surprise. Love to hear about these types of things🙏🏽.
They both speak with so much love and joy in their voices when talking about each other.Love wins!
I like " Be happy for them" ...these 2 are winners. BM and Arlette are winners as well!
I am rooting for their continued joy, success, & happiness!! This is so refreshing.
I'm rooting for these two. My advice bc they're young and capable. Get real with each other and understand your attachment style and if you have personality disorder traits. Smart people that are motivated to keep things going need to be able to understand how their partner interfaces with the world and modify their own approach.
The two of you are such a breath of fresh air! I pray that you guys have the strength to endure and continue to flourish ❤
The joy in their faces when see they talk about each other is so pure. Protect yourselves at all cost 🙏🏿❤ happy for y’all
Awesome!!!!! Great seeing young folks being spiritual, serious, with a plan, loving each other, being successful…. Much BLESSINGS!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As a man that’s also dealt with broke women lol. (Listen I’m a sucker for personality 😂) dating women that have their ish together is sooo freaking amazing lol. When they can plan dates and book trips and take care of you as much as you take care of them u will never go backwards fellas lol. Here’s the key tho. U gotta be the type to attract that type.
Thanks for dropping , i needed some to watch
Her dog is in the back ground saying, “she cheating on me”!!! 😂
BM is always so serious…so to see him smile big like this is great!!! Happy couples make him happy!
Loved them from the jump. Does the heart glad to see a beautiful black couple on display. They are such a lovely couple & I wish them well.
You can really tell that bm and arlette are truly happy for them! Not the type of creators that only chase the next viral moment
❤❤ I was smiling the whole time. This is all I want for the people I love and ppl in general, as communities. It's healthy, and BM and Arlette are giving more than just matches. When you find your person, you really do want that for everyone. ❤❤
BM’s upcoming It’s A Match show sounds good. Sometimes episodes of pop the balloon have good guys and unserious women and vice versa, but the solid serious people who happen to not be on the same episode still connecting and growing will be nice to see.
They're going all of the way!! They both are intentional and putting for the effort. I love it❤❤❤❤❤
I like that he's even seeking advice from the couple. He's looking to grow and be better for her
I pray the same for her
Love to see Black Love ❤. Ugaliii 🇰🇪🇰🇪
Nyama
Kachumbari
Pilau, misheveve 😂
His smile is contagious 😍 absolutely gorgeous
Yassssss!!!!! I'm so happy for them! This felt so good to me! Genuine ppl with good intentions! Nnamdi is so sweet. Happy Holidays 🥂
You smiling at your screen, you’ll find your other half soon enough.🥹
Aww 🥹 ty. I have hope 🤞🏽
Amen
@@mxssdejayou’re welcome dear😇
@@okonkwoifunanya9029Amen brother🙏🏾
❤thank u😊
This is it. Very intentional with what they want. So happy for my Nigerian brother and our American princess Alera. Keep waxing strong guys. We love you both❤
Thank you Arlette and BM for your words of encouragement. We pray for more of such matches. Amen🙏
🎉 so happy for them. Take your time to continue to get to know each other. Growing + thriving couple
This was so refreshing! I love them together! 🩵
Yaaaaayyy! I love love and it’s great to see a pair still together and so fond of each other.
So happy to see this beautiful young couple! They are so mature, and actually got it right!!! Older couples take note💯
the most successful couples are always the ones who did not go viral - and people never remember them UNTIL catch ups and the ones who went viral crash and burn
Ain't that the truth
True 🙌
This couple makes me so happy! ❤❤ Stay happy and in love. This was truly a genuine match.
Finally some good news. 🎉 Glad to see them thriving
I don’t remember their episode, but this made me smile! Rooting for them!
He blew a kiss through the camera awee. He’s so googly eyes over her & I loveeeeee ittttt!
When?
This is making me so happy. Seeing these young people killing their goals!!! I’m just lovin it.
This makes me smile, I'm so happy for them. All the best guys!
I loved thissss so much I felt the Joy of the Lord while watching. It’s a beautiful thing watching two become one with God at the center ! Congratulations to you both & thanks to arlette & BM y’all more blessings to you all.
Much success to them!! Beautiful young people.
This episode vindicated Alera. So many people downplayed her feelings for him. Happy to see they are still going strong.
Very happy for them! Everyone deserves to find that special someone. Good luck to yall!
Blacks would be some kind of powerful if we could all get together like this and change the world.
Blacks are coming together in America just not on a large number. Black America lacks traditional values and religious beliefs
The leading ideology in black America is socialism that was coined by Karl Marx
Happy for yall. You both have those permanent smiles. It's undeniable what you have together. I was doubtful on the catch-up. This is confirming for me. Thank you for sharing.
I love seeing people sharing their worlds .They should stick together, they're compatible ❤
Finally!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Arlette and BM look so proud!
One of the best connections on the show
This is so sweet!🥹 Who’s cutting onions? May God bless their relationship with abundant joy and peace🥰 Arlette and BM are setting the path for future families!
😊😊😊😊awwwww the fact they are putting God in there relationship ❤❤❤
It’s the only way men and women can move in a healthy manner. Marriage is a religious practice and a lot of these folks that come on the show are degenerates who lack morality.
You can’t be a coomer and expect to have successful relationships.
Jesus Christ sets the precedence when it comes to fruitful marriages
I am so happy when the matches are really matching and continuing their journey. I can also tell that BM and Arlette are also super happy as well.
This is the best second catch up on for this couple and they are setting the standard!!! I am so happy for them!! Best wishes to them!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
Oh, so nice to see that everything is working out for them. After watching a few couples that didn't make it, it was nice to see one going stronger.🙏🏿
I love how in the thumbnails, Arlette is so bubbly and BM is not for any games. I love the balance with each other.