Everyone is gonna say who they want to see the most from the show but I would love to see 2 channels who react to your channel every week on with you guys: 1) KiteZz 2) Tpindell Tv It would be so dope to have them on here and get their insights & opinions about the reacting side of your show. Your fans are their fans, their fans are your fans, & us fans love all y'all as a unit. Please consider. Thank you. I'm Nigerian 🇳🇬 btw, so just want to BIG SHOUTOUT to all us Africans spread out everywhere as well! Peace, Love, Salute!
Arlette’s husband did a great mature job making constructive criticism views, Bryan has a lot of maturing to do, instead of listening he justifies his behavior….he stunts his own growth, he doesn’t know how to communicate.
BM is impressive and held him accountable and Arlette is literally the best host I've ever seen. They deserve all the success. These shows are SO ENTERTAINING!
I like BM’ s maturity when handling his responses and how he put it straight to him .Brian feels his way of thinking is similar to other men but BM made him understand it’s just his preference not everyone else’s
Those other Pop the Balloons are dirty asf with very poor production and lighting, the contestants look like they're straight from the club, the corner, the pole, the oil rig, Whataburger, you name it.
I love Arlette and I love BM. They are 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕 together. I love the sincerity, the directness, everything. BM is a high functioning man, it’s clear. Arlette is so lovely inside & out & also high functioning. You guys are wonderful. Thank you for giving us the gift of you!!
Can I just say, that this is the definition of a power couple ❤ When 2 people get together and there is just reciprocal elevation from one to another. Your marriage is truly beautiful 😊
Him using tons of absolutes when he speaks gives me a sense that he’s a liar. “I don’t have a complex AT ALL” “That NEVER happens” “My feelings are NEVER hurt” “I DEFINITELY didn’t attack her.”
I love that you all are expanding different perspectives from the show. Giving us more of an in depth look at the guest, the follow up of the matches ! It’s evolving weekly!
Yup it’s starting to look like most people on this show are disingenuous and they are on the show for their own agenda. Whether it’s promoting their socials, business, careers etc.
Honestly he was right to call out the double standards. Men are the only ones that go viral for having standards. The sisterhood are on these balloon shows heavy. Men are always looked at as the villian. Which is wrong. Women supported zebra dress girl so that's all you need to know about the sisterhood. If you call him out, call the girls out when they talk down on the guys.
The worst part was the women already pop their balloons so I don’t know why he was integrating them as if they were interested in him and the choice was his. It made no sense.
Bryan really can’t admit he was in his feelings over the rejections. And what he fails to realize is people get turned off when they see you try to tear another person down especially when it’s really not deserved. He can’t handle rejection. He needs to keep it 💯 he only said what he said because he was mad he got rejected and was fishing for ways to get back at the women.
This, he even said he doesn't deal with rejection well. The way she shames women is unfair. He would have been happy with any one of those women, but he got rejected and acted Luke a baby.
Not true, he is a good man and he speaks the truth, and I believe that he is the kind of man who is good with a good woman, but with a bad woman, he will discipline her with true words about her. Therefore, a bad woman will always see this man as bad because he speaks the truth about her.
@@M.SA93 how do you know he’s a good man? Do you know him personally? I never even said he wasn’t a good man, but y’all love saying “he’s telling the truth to these women” He wasn’t going to tell the women the “truth” until they rejected him. He only said what he said because his feelings were hurt that they didn’t want him. He wanted to shame them for not picking him plan and simple. Only lonely losers are obsessed with feeling the need to tell women “The Truth” about their lives even though they didn’t ask.
@@kingKC-m2k I don't think he's hurt by the rejection, but he's advising these women after they tried to belittle him, so watch the episode again and you'll see how he puts them in their place when they try to belittle him.
@@M.SA93 dude any time you try to lecture someone on their life choices because they said they wouldn’t date you you’re hurt. They definitely didn’t try to belittle him, they popped their balloons and gave the reason why when asked. I think the most shallow answer was because of his choice of outfit, but still that’s not belittling. Oh well suck it up and keep it pushing, it ain’t like they know him personally. That’s literally why even Arlette’s Husband called him out. And that’s why once he started all the other women popped their balloons too. Women watch how you handle rejection.
Arlette the more I see you laughing the more I see you know how to have a good time. Your face expression during pop the balloon 🎈 be some of the best part of the show when someone say something wild 😅 Thanks for all you do.
Brian, is a great guy and he is still one of my favorites. He is humble because BM was able to talk to him and give him professional and sound advice. Brian, listened and agreed with BM about most concerns or complaints.
I think he uses labels to overshadow his insecurities and overcompensate for his 'short'comings... He seems like he would make a good man if he healed from whatever is weighing on his heart and makes him feel so small. I love how Arlette and BM are lowkey highlighting his inconsistencies & keeping the conversation honest, fair & transparent! That being said.... interview James... Gourmet Pies PLEASE!!!!
100. how many labels do you need to cram in one photo? the asymmetry of the posters and boxes on the floor? jeeez. he's beyond overcompensating for something and likely some insecurities as you said
It’s something mentally off with ppl like you, you got all this from a video of a man you don’t know? I swear yall know everything except how to be good women
I love Bryan!!! As a social worker I take every opportunity to encourage single mothers to make better decisions regarding multiple children, and daddies. I agree with him about 1 baby, then, another kid, come on ladies, do better! There's a beautiful lady out there for Bryan who will appreciate his stance. His DM about to be lit after this interview 😊
Bryan is one of my favorites. I definitely want to see him on blind date. I could relate to some of his ways....Yes!! Please put Bryan on blind date he deserves it, he is outspoken and most women cant handle that and most men can't handle an outspoken respectful woman Definitely team Bryan🎉🎉🎉
On a serious note we need more content from you guys , more follow ups and interviews. Dont take your foot of the gaspedal, this is your time you got the attention of the masses, so make the most of it now!
I dont understand why people think that because they say it calmly that its not still messed up. You can curse someone to hell with a soft tone. Words matter.
So Brian went ahead and wrote a book about how to find love and not pop the balloon after appearing on the show twice and leaving with no match 😂😂😂 That's hilarious but I respect the hustle. Kudos to BM and Arlette for hosting an honest and entertaining interview. Look forward to seeing more of these.
I love how straight forward BM is 😊 and how goofy and outgoing Arlette is ❤😅 perfect “ match “ 💍💍💍 definitely makes it an equal balance, love ALL THE SEGMENTS!! Real African family from one to another love you guys ❤❤❤❤
I can see why he has trouble dating. As a man, gentleness is top tier. I feel like he has to speak about himself more than anything. Let your character and swag do the talking. It seems like he is trying to convince himself to others. Like look at the Prada and Gucci posters lol
Exactly! He lead the same way with his daughter. Nothing about her character, everything about her accolades. While good, these two things aren’t synonymous. Accomplishing good things doesn’t equal good character or morals.
Sometimes I forget Arlette and BM are still in their 20s and much younger than some of these contestants. Wisdom beyond their years and also a bit of class makes everything so much better. I love how you both carry yourselves. So refreshing in a world that seems to reward ratchet tasteless behaviour.
My hubby and I met through Facebook - "We understand the value of your show. I am so in love with the beautiful Arlette and the honorable Mr. BM. I don't watch much content and I LOVE watching ALL of your shows. I was so excited to see your video on Christmas Day. I am a thinker like both of you which has me "watching" everything you post. I've binge-watched all your shows! I LOVE-LOVE the organization of the title where I can watch "BM TALKS TO THEM" and then see the "Episode" in the title and go BACK to the show on Arlette's channel and re-watch the video again. The attention you put into "promoting" other peoples artistry is so generous and giving - I love that and I do that was well... promote others. I can write a whole book but I must stop and go watch some more of your great content. Bless you - may God Bless you... My goodness, you both are genius! classy! I love you!
Hi I’m a big fan of your wife’s pop the balloon episodes. I’m the mother of a 35yr old daughter and teenage granddaughter’s, I was watching it to just learn the mindset of the dating scene, and It has helped me as a divorced mother after 20yrs marriage, anyway I enjoyed this 1st episode BM talks to them! I love how you and your wife work together and the talk with Brain was Great! I like Brain, and some of the things he said was good! But BM, you answered questions correct and it actually helped me in my season of frowned as a 58yr old single lady! Thanks and sorry for long comment🫣
The best way to describe Bryan is crass. He leads with high end labels. He should read the room & approach the prospects accordingly. He keeps mentioning he’s from the ghetto & he acts it. Just like in this show he’s got labels displayed everywhere…walls (looks like he’s in a motel), jacket & the cap….too many labels & no substance. Hopefully, he’ll be humbled somewhere along his journey. It looks like he’s here to promote his book. I checked & it’s not on the best selling list. He like his book have a long way to go. ✌🏽
From my observation Brian just wanted to go viral both times , he seems to be on the defense at go and he was attacking the woman and tearing them down. He might be a high valued low functioning man is my read on him. It's like the first time he was powerless and rejected,so the second time he had the power to choose or reject, he basically wanted to get his power back . I believe he has some healing to do before bringing asking someone to share life with him.
I'd appreciate a friend like Bryan - because he stands on his beliefs - He's honest - has integrity - And says things many are too scared to say, and many others need to hear! TeamBryan
This Bryan guy needs to learn the art of moving on gracefully. If one girl ain't your cup of tea just politely say why she's not your type. Statements like "having the second kid that's on you" is utterly crass and out of line. Moreover, it is SELF-DEFEATING.How does that make you look any better in the eyes of the next girl in line who actually may be your type. So what if they came for your pants? Your objective is to find love, not win a war. His entire demeanor is unwelcoming. He is constantly in battle mood, perpetually on the defensive. Lighten up and show love if you're looking for love dude.
What he said wasn’t wrong though. It’s a rule of thumb. First time shame on you second time shame on me. So I mean he’s not wrong. People need to be a better judge of character. Whether u agree with something or not lol. I don’t think it was out of line at all. The issue is that people are too sensitive and they can’t take constructive criticism
@@CTHuluNet There's a time, place, and proper delivery are everything. And criticizing someone to ease your bruised ego while you're on the hunt for a genuine connection is poor timing, placement, and communication. It's good for TV for men that like to see women "get humbled," but otherwise useless 🤷🏾♀️
@@CTHuluNetno, he was right. Women get their egos inflated daily by other women and simps and believe they can just do what they want and then still get the man they want. It’s like the number of super overweight girls who are told they’re gorgeous and hyped on social media so they just disregard their health and believe they’re 10s. Women need to be brought down to earth more. More women need to realize how men think, and him saying that to her on the show could be a wake up call for other women who haven’t gotten that far yet. One is tolerable. Multiple means you are impulsive, don’t care about your children’s stability, and that you’re either an awful judge of character or YOU are the primary reason your relationships are failing. It’s really easy not to get pregnant before marriage. Like really easy. Most single people see someone who wasn’t married to their childrens father(s) as a red flag because it shows poor decision making skills, and if it’s multiple, it’s habitual. People NEED to start being honest because baby mama/baby daddy culture should NOT be as common as it is. It’s destroying kids lives.
@@jadedtruth8457naw this show is mainly disrespectful women trashing the men, Bw keep skipping over the fact she made fun of his pants, thats cowardice of a bunch of women they will start a issue, then play victim after
Interview the following please: 1. James Gourtmet Pies 2. Ninja turtle man 3. Female version of ninja turtle from episode #20 4. Rhino 5. Red (we want to know how he got back with his baby mama right after the show) 6. Taylor and his girlfriend 7. Jay from episode 6
I raised 75k and Christina Ann Tucker is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Christina A. Tucker is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!!
< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!
I wasn't fond of how he chose to berate the 'black barbie' when he heard she didn't prefer shorter guys. He then insulted several women for the amount of children and fathers they had.
I absolutely love ❤️ ❤❤❤Brian, I would date him but I know that I am too old for him. I was always told that it’s better for man to date younger than themselves but I appreciate him. He’s my favorite. He reminds me of the late Kevin Samuel (RIP) who got famous from telling women some truths about themselves to date a top tier man and I think Brian watched every episode of Kevin show.. I love his confidence and DAMN I wish I was younger!!!
I burst into the laughter by reading the video title Top Tier Bryan 😂😂😂 To be fair, Bryan words to the women were absolutely right. There should be someone who tell these women the truth of being irresponsible in making important life decisions
This is fabulous. I always wanted to hear more of the host thoughts and hear her talk more .. and it's good that it's not on her channel because we only want pop the balloon on her channel
Great job Brian❤! Us women have to be able to hear and handle the truth! Those women needed to hear that. It is unacceptable to have all these different baby daddies and none of them were your husband 🤨
@sweetlooweeze Which one ?? The toxic aggressive, argumentative one ???? The one everyone popped the ballon with the quickness??? The one who was delusional thinking she looked like Kelly Rolland ?? That one right ??? I’d rather go set my hair on fire then listen to her rant on she hours she’s a nightmare….
What if BD #2 died…do I not deserved love? Most abusers do not show their true colors (can take anywhere from months to years to come out). So what if BD #2 was abusive, can I not have love ? FYI I have one child and don’t plan on starting over, but I can be an advocate
This is a KS affiliate. All you can do is laugh at these tings and move on. Plus, the Pick-Me Coalition is STRONG....check the comments lol. He will find his one and only dummy.
Can we please get a behind the scenes cam in the contestants' waiting room. The interactions before they get on stage must be interesting.
I agree
I'd love to see that, never thought of that.
yeah that would be fun to see like on that other youtube dating series called "The Button" they show the other people behind the scenes
@@darkestlightskin9096I mean…Big Brother shows us what the contestants do in the house.
Yup because u kno they r back there drinking n being themselves
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Everyone is gonna say who they want to see the most from the show but I would love to see 2 channels who react to your channel every week on with you guys:
1) KiteZz
2) Tpindell Tv
It would be so dope to have them on here and get their insights & opinions about the reacting side of your show. Your fans are their fans, their fans are your fans, & us fans love all y'all as a unit. Please consider. Thank you. I'm Nigerian 🇳🇬 btw, so just want to BIG SHOUTOUT to all us Africans spread out everywhere as well! Peace, Love, Salute!
@@BushBabyBoxing that would be funny as hell 😂😂😂
The talk show host with a wig
Bm is a very mature man that holds other men accountable 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 love to see it.
Sounds like your typical mature man behavior 👀
Yes I love his style
If Ryan was interested in older women, then he’d have his match with me
The fact dude got a Gucci and Prada poster behind him tells you everything you need to know
Crooked at that.
Right! Not to mention a BMW hoodie and a ferrari cap. Over the top!!
💯
And he got them Yeezy boxes on display
@@natashakcarsonnever had Yeezys in my life so had no idea what those boxes were
Arlette’s husband is a no nonsense . Doesn’t sugarcoat ! Tells you how it is ..
@@fitnessbyconnie
He challenged Bryan’s ego constructively with intent!💯
That’s that African shit
Arlette’s husband did a great mature job making constructive criticism views, Bryan has a lot of maturing to do, instead of listening he justifies his behavior….he stunts his own growth, he doesn’t know how to communicate.
Yes, I can tell that he’s a good guy! Arlette did a good job agreeing to marry him!
@champton4155 It's because he's above Arletts husband..he's top tier🙄
You got to be lucky to have a genuine,articulate, always smiling soul like arlette as your wife
Right. She's definitely the prize
It means her husband is also doing his job. Happy wife, happy life!
@@NaturalEbonyqueen they’re both doing great, I wish to find a woman like that someday
I mean if he got it he got it, who cares? It's not like he's most of us that go broke buying a BMW and can barely afford a oil change
Arlette is lucky too!
Arlette always smiling and happy
Amen!!!
Bruh. She's on camera
Ummm thanks Capt obvious 😂
@@thaimperial97 😂😂 leave me alone
God bless
"This book is going to get a lot of people matches" SIR YOU AINT GOT ONE YET LMAOOO
😂😂😂😂😂
Sometimes the best way to learn, is to learn, what NOT to do.
@@shamayimshoresh7503 we don't need a book for that lol the video shows it clearly
I swear it never ends 😂 too many ppl giving advice on what they haven’t attained is crazy work
@@House_of_Greenwhat they haven’t attained? Cus he got some balloons popped on him? Grow up
BM is impressive and held him accountable and Arlette is literally the best host I've ever seen. They deserve all the success. These shows are SO ENTERTAINING!
Now she needs to start holding bw accountable
They compliment one another so well!!!
They both know nobody is buying that book but Arlette and BM are sweet for letting him plug it anyway. 😂😂😂
Damn 😂😂
I may buy it
No need to be disrespectful
@@bettyconfettiidon’t
LOL dang
I like BM’ s maturity when handling his responses and how he put it straight to him .Brian feels his way of thinking is similar to other men but BM made him understand it’s just his preference not everyone else’s
Arlette I love the way you present yourself , and you are not combative with your guest. Keeping it classy!
I love how BM is so chill but makes sure he asks the tough questions. Arlette and BM are such a beautiful couple
Arlette has such a beautiful, warm laugh ❤️ She’s just sooo likable! 🥰 Both of them are to be fair, but Arlette is just 😍😍😍😍
Brian thought he was a movie star ⭐️ when he came back on the show lol 😂
😂😂😂
They are doing this to take away from other channels/bloggers stealing their momentum or leaching off of their content. Good shit.
Those other Pop the Balloons are dirty asf with very poor production and lighting, the contestants look like they're straight from the club, the corner, the pole, the oil rig, Whataburger, you name it.
I don’t even think they care they have the best quality so far
@@Ahdree23😂😂😂
@@Ahdree23😂😂😂😂lmao
Arlette’s wasn’t first. She just does it best.
The way he spoke to them women was like an episode of scared straight…🤣🤣🤣
The drill sergeant that used to come on the Maury show 😩🤣
I love Arlette and I love BM.
They are 𝒈𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕 together.
I love the sincerity, the directness, everything.
BM is a high functioning man, it’s clear. Arlette is so lovely inside & out & also high functioning.
You guys are wonderful. Thank you for giving us the gift of you!!
Best couple I’ve ever come across in terms of how they compliment each other to bring out the best in each other to become truly synergistic ❤
Ah yes ! I love a power couple! They just keep hitting us with fire content!
Only black women use the word power couple
Can I just say, that this is the definition of a power couple ❤
When 2 people get together and there is just reciprocal elevation from one to another. Your marriage is truly beautiful 😊
I love them!
@@bywillia it's so beautiful to watch
No such thing is a power couple. A black woman word
Him using tons of absolutes when he speaks gives me a sense that he’s a liar. “I don’t have a complex AT ALL” “That NEVER happens” “My feelings are NEVER hurt” “I DEFINITELY didn’t attack her.”
His ego is so small.
I sense Napolean complex!
😂omg
To be fair he did the same thing on the last episode he was on. I think the topic was children and he contradicted himself
He's a Sith 🙄
I love that you all are expanding different perspectives from the show. Giving us more of an in depth look at the guest, the follow up of the matches ! It’s evolving weekly!
He didn’t come to find love lol He came to get some publicity so he can promote his book lol
Yup it’s starting to look like most people on this show are disingenuous and they are on the show for their own agenda. Whether it’s promoting their socials, business, careers etc.
@@Ohjustbrowsing Exactly, just like the girl whose a stripper from the last episode came on there to try to promote her rap career.
After watching him...I don't even want to know what he got to say🤷🏾♀️
I really miss the “old days” of the show. Felt more authentic. The current episodes have felt more promotional and a way to get clout/exposure.
@@anthonyt425that’s humans for you unfortunately
I feel like a 50 plus year old episode would be entertaining
Definitely 40+
45+ eposide we waiting out here...
They not into social media and the ones that are wanna act young and immature. The mature one are widow I don’t think care to be on screen
lol go watch the most recent episode or even the episode of senior citizens on the “Real One”
He started off saying no deal breakers he was from the ghetto and then he proceeded to tear the women apart
Honestly he was right to call out the double standards. Men are the only ones that go viral for having standards. The sisterhood are on these balloon shows heavy. Men are always looked at as the villian. Which is wrong. Women supported zebra dress girl so that's all you need to know about the sisterhood. If you call him out, call the girls out when they talk down on the guys.
After 98% of them popped the balloon when he said he had no deal breaker he chose violence 😅
@@mrbrave29exactly that isn’t tearing them apart that is holding them to a standard something this society is missing.
The worst part was the women already pop their balloons so I don’t know why he was integrating them as if they were interested in him and the choice was his. It made no sense.
@vivianclarke246 what's with the selective outrage from you girls? You have no issue with the girls talking down on the men on the show.
Can we have James.... gourmet pies😂🤣🤣🤣
, 37
😩😭!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@leiarichardson65🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Bryan really can’t admit he was in his feelings over the rejections. And what he fails to realize is people get turned off when they see you try to tear another person down especially when it’s really not deserved. He can’t handle rejection. He needs to keep it 💯 he only said what he said because he was mad he got rejected and was fishing for ways to get back at the women.
This, he even said he doesn't deal with rejection well. The way she shames women is unfair. He would have been happy with any one of those women, but he got rejected and acted Luke a baby.
Not true, he is a good man and he speaks the truth, and I believe that he is the kind of man who is good with a good woman, but with a bad woman, he will discipline her with true words about her. Therefore, a bad woman will always see this man as bad because he speaks the truth about her.
@@M.SA93 how do you know he’s a good man? Do you know him personally? I never even said he wasn’t a good man, but y’all love saying “he’s telling the truth to these women” He wasn’t going to tell the women the “truth” until they rejected him. He only said what he said because his feelings were hurt that they didn’t want him. He wanted to shame them for not picking him plan and simple. Only lonely losers are obsessed with feeling the need to tell women “The Truth” about their lives even though they didn’t ask.
@@kingKC-m2k I don't think he's hurt by the rejection, but he's advising these women after they tried to belittle him, so watch the episode again and you'll see how he puts them in their place when they try to belittle him.
@@M.SA93 dude any time you try to lecture someone on their life choices because they said they wouldn’t date you you’re hurt. They definitely didn’t try to belittle him, they popped their balloons and gave the reason why when asked. I think the most shallow answer was because of his choice of outfit, but still that’s not belittling. Oh well suck it up and keep it pushing, it ain’t like they know him personally. That’s literally why even Arlette’s Husband called him out. And that’s why once he started all the other women popped their balloons too. Women watch how you handle rejection.
Its weird that Brian wrote a book on finding love when he didn't find love either time on the show.
sounds very on brand. He also has 1 child(baby daddy), yet is condemning the women for being baby mamas. I wonder if the book is called hypocrite
@@noemail-cv3dj lol
Am I the only one wondering how he wrote a book so fast? Like dang, ok! Get it Brian!😂
AI generated.
I thought of it right this second 😂
@@anthonyt425 ahhh....makes sense!
How you write a book about dating and you didn’t find a match. I hope it’s about his experience and not how to match😂😂😂😂
Facts 😂
Less than 2 minutes in and I already love it! “I’m from The Ghetto”😭😭
He gotta come out with the "Im from the ghetto" merch now 😂
That’s a profitable idea
“Brian from New Orleans…the ghetto.”
Wait wait, where did he say he was from again? I don't think I heard him
@@natesamadhi33New Orleans
@@natesamadhi33 and he from the ghetto
@@AtlantaSportsReels😂😂😂 he doesn't want you to forget that.
I’m glad you posted this because I couldn’t remember where he was from. 😭😭😭
Arlette the more I see you laughing the more I see you know how to have a good time. Your face expression during pop the balloon 🎈 be some of the best part of the show when someone say something wild 😅 Thanks for all you do.
I SWEAR! Every time she cackles, I be dying!! She’s definitely the friend you look at when something happens & BUST out!! 😂😂😂
This is a grown ass man! I love and respect the constructive criticisms he gave the ladies
This interview was really good lol 😂 Great addition to the podcast !!!
Brian, is a great guy and he is still one of my favorites. He is humble because BM was able to talk to him and give him professional and sound advice. Brian, listened and agreed with BM about most concerns or complaints.
That doesn’t make him humble. Humility isn’t a one off or a side note to narcissism.
That does make you humble@@GabrielleBoyd-l6w
I think he uses labels to overshadow his insecurities and overcompensate for his 'short'comings... He seems like he would make a good man if he healed from whatever is weighing on his heart and makes him feel so small. I love how Arlette and BM are lowkey highlighting his inconsistencies & keeping the conversation honest, fair & transparent!
That being said.... interview James... Gourmet Pies PLEASE!!!!
100. how many labels do you need to cram in one photo? the asymmetry of the posters and boxes on the floor? jeeez. he's beyond overcompensating for something and likely some insecurities as you said
It’s something mentally off with ppl like you, you got all this from a video of a man you don’t know? I swear yall know everything except how to be good women
I love Bryan!!! As a social worker I take every opportunity to encourage single mothers to make better decisions regarding multiple children, and daddies. I agree with him about 1 baby, then, another kid, come on ladies, do better! There's a beautiful lady out there for Bryan who will appreciate his stance. His DM about to be lit after this interview 😊
Glad to see a respectful comment!
Me too I totally understand what he is saying
Am to see a positive comment ere this a strong man with confidence
Brian being into witchcraft , and proudly was not the plot twist I expected “channeling energy “ through his finger tips
Bryan is one of my favorites. I definitely want to see him on blind date. I could relate to some of his ways....Yes!! Please put Bryan on blind date he deserves it, he is outspoken and most women cant handle that and most men can't handle an outspoken respectful woman Definitely team Bryan🎉🎉🎉
Not the voodoo hands 😂 channeling their energy
There's great chemistry between Arlette & her hubby BM ...POWER COUPLE.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
Not a power couple lol
Arlette cracking up is sending me 😂😂😂
On a serious note we need more content from you guys , more follow ups and interviews. Dont take your foot of the gaspedal, this is your time you got the attention of the masses, so make the most of it now!
Alright was asking the right questions,for her girlies. BM was standing on business for sure. This was one of the best interview I’ve ever watched.
not me checking for new pop the balloon episodes every day when i know they don't come out every day 😅😅
I dont understand why people think that because they say it calmly that its not still messed up. You can curse someone to hell with a soft tone. Words matter.
So Brian went ahead and wrote a book about how to find love and not pop the balloon after appearing on the show twice and leaving with no match 😂😂😂 That's hilarious but I respect the hustle. Kudos to BM and Arlette for hosting an honest and entertaining interview. Look forward to seeing more of these.
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Excatly
His next book gone be called “I’m From Da Ghetto!!!”😂😂
@@jusjazz89 Full title: "I'm From Da Ghetto: How To Have No Dealbreakers But Still Roast Everybody" 🤣🤣🤣
@@kibongowi8051 🤣🤣🤣
She is always smiling 😊
He goes by the name "I'm from the ghetto"...that was a good one 😂😂
What the heck 😂😂 I laughed for like 20 mins 😂😂 bruh everyone is cracking me up I need more of this
I love how straight forward BM is 😊 and how goofy and outgoing Arlette is ❤😅 perfect “ match “ 💍💍💍 definitely makes it an equal balance, love ALL THE SEGMENTS!! Real African family from one to another love you guys ❤❤❤❤
Ooohhh more follow ups. I’m here for it. Y’all betta get to the baggggg !
I can see why he has trouble dating. As a man, gentleness is top tier. I feel like he has to speak about himself more than anything. Let your character and swag do the talking. It seems like he is trying to convince himself to others. Like look at the Prada and Gucci posters lol
👌❤️👆💯 Huge red flag!
Exactly! He lead the same way with his daughter. Nothing about her character, everything about her accolades. While good, these two things aren’t synonymous. Accomplishing good things doesn’t equal good character or morals.
Sometimes I forget Arlette and BM are still in their 20s and much younger than some of these contestants. Wisdom beyond their years and also a bit of class makes everything so much better. I love how you both carry yourselves. So refreshing in a world that seems to reward ratchet tasteless behaviour.
In their 20’s?! What! I thought she was in her 30’s and he was later 30s or early 40s. Are you sure? They look much older, especially the husband
Definitely didn’t know they were in their 20s how do you know ?
@@meelahmanifestslove so according to google Arlette is 29 and her husband is 32. I can see that, but I did think they were both slightly older.
I thought he was 45 😮
I LOVED his response to the pants criticism from the lady. LOVED IT ! Knew EXACTLY where he was coming from. 😘
Oh also he said he had no deal breakers but HAD DEAL BREAKERS…..😂😂😂
1. Yes, Bryan on blind love
2. This BM talks to them is dope
I enjoy all what you do so far, BM & Arlette🙏🏾💯
Okay power couple!! Love the new podcast!
I’m soooooooo glad to see this interview. He is not top tier. He’s immature and ignorant when it comes to finding love. Playing games
lmaooo he the type to say sum to hurt your feelings lmaoo
@ghardy56 Correct.
@@naitjj1frfr.
@@naitjj1 and play innocent or not feel bad "because its true" 🙄 im so glad other people see through his bs.. he's not that likable of a person.
@@krismiskarol exactlyyyy- it is easy to see right thru them lol
Arlette is CRACKING UP 😂😂😂😂😂
Especially after the BBL comment
Lmao she likes to laughing
My hubby and I met through Facebook - "We understand the value of your show. I am so in love with the beautiful Arlette and the honorable Mr. BM. I don't watch much content and I LOVE watching ALL of your shows. I was so excited to see your video on Christmas Day. I am a thinker like both of you which has me "watching" everything you post. I've binge-watched all your shows! I LOVE-LOVE the organization of the title where I can watch "BM TALKS TO THEM" and then see the "Episode" in the title and go BACK to the show on Arlette's channel and re-watch the video again. The attention you put into "promoting" other peoples artistry is so generous and giving - I love that and I do that was well... promote others. I can write a whole book but I must stop and go watch some more of your great content. Bless you - may God Bless you... My goodness, you both are genius! classy! I love you!
Please get Bryan on a blind date sigment that will be soo interesting and I hope he finds his perfect match there.
So he can promote his book and be rude again?!?
@@Michelle-ue3wsYou can't stand real talk from him.😂
@@M.SA93 “Real talk” coming from him is definitely a reach😂😂. If it’s so real buy his book and let me know if you like it 😆.
@@Michelle-ue3wsyes bet you don’t have issues with all these disrespectful women that come on this show
I love Arlette 💕
She is definitely a darling ❤
Hi I’m a big fan of your wife’s pop the balloon episodes. I’m the mother of a 35yr old daughter and teenage granddaughter’s, I was watching it to just learn the mindset of the dating scene, and It has helped me as a divorced mother after 20yrs marriage, anyway I enjoyed this 1st episode BM talks to them! I love how you and your wife work together and the talk with Brain was Great! I like Brain, and some of the things he said was good! But BM, you answered questions correct and it actually helped me in my season of frowned as a 58yr old single lady! Thanks and sorry for long comment🫣
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY BM AND ARLETTE MAY THE LORD BLESS YOUR UNION.
This couple is just so creative😊😊 Meanwhile your video quality is always perfect. you don't disappoint on that one. Felicitations vraiment🎉
This show with BM is exactly what we needed I can never wait for the next episode of PTB glad we got some extra catch ups.
The older age group was great, please do more.
Brian represents the hood. Thorough, Real, Direct and Straightforward. Shout out to Louisiana!
BM and Arlette are a match made in heaven
The best way to describe Bryan is crass. He leads with high end labels. He should read the room & approach the prospects accordingly. He keeps mentioning he’s from the ghetto & he acts it. Just like in this show he’s got labels displayed everywhere…walls (looks like he’s in a motel), jacket & the cap….too many labels & no substance. Hopefully, he’ll be humbled somewhere along his journey. It looks like he’s here to promote his book. I checked & it’s not on the best selling list. He like his book have a long way to go. ✌🏽
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 yes so true. Too much labels.
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The algorithms brought me here, and I am here to stay. BM and Arlette are very intentional I loved you both!
From my observation Brian just wanted to go viral both times , he seems to be on the defense at go and he was attacking the woman and tearing them down. He might be a high valued low functioning man is my read on him. It's like the first time he was powerless and rejected,so the second time he had the power to choose or reject, he basically wanted to get his power back . I believe he has some healing to do before bringing asking someone to share life with him.
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Cool show but we need the clips that y'all referring to while talking we can't remember all this 😂
I'd appreciate a friend like Bryan - because he stands on his beliefs - He's honest - has integrity - And says things many are too scared to say, and many others need to hear!
TeamBryan
Bottom line ------ The real him came out, the cocky mean attitude came out.
Arlette stay looking like she about to buss out laughing😂 even when she trying to keep a straight face 😐
I’m from the GET-TOE
Repeat 10x 😂
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@@iHeartCocoMarie right! 🤣
@@rasheedlewis1 🤣🤣
Like how BM and Arlette allow their guess to advertise their ventures
This Bryan guy needs to learn the art of moving on gracefully. If one girl ain't your cup of tea just politely say why she's not your type. Statements like "having the second kid that's on you" is utterly crass and out of line. Moreover, it is SELF-DEFEATING.How does that make you look any better in the eyes of the next girl in line who actually may be your type. So what if they came for your pants? Your objective is to find love, not win a war. His entire demeanor is unwelcoming. He is constantly in battle mood, perpetually on the defensive. Lighten up and show love if you're looking for love dude.
What he said wasn’t wrong though. It’s a rule of thumb. First time shame on you second time shame on me. So I mean he’s not wrong. People need to be a better judge of character. Whether u agree with something or not lol. I don’t think it was out of line at all. The issue is that people are too sensitive and they can’t take constructive criticism
@@CTHuluNet There's a time, place, and proper delivery are everything. And criticizing someone to ease your bruised ego while you're on the hunt for a genuine connection is poor timing, placement, and communication. It's good for TV for men that like to see women "get humbled," but otherwise useless 🤷🏾♀️
@@CTHuluNetno, he was right. Women get their egos inflated daily by other women and simps and believe they can just do what they want and then still get the man they want. It’s like the number of super overweight girls who are told they’re gorgeous and hyped on social media so they just disregard their health and believe they’re 10s. Women need to be brought down to earth more. More women need to realize how men think, and him saying that to her on the show could be a wake up call for other women who haven’t gotten that far yet. One is tolerable. Multiple means you are impulsive, don’t care about your children’s stability, and that you’re either an awful judge of character or YOU are the primary reason your relationships are failing. It’s really easy not to get pregnant before marriage. Like really easy. Most single people see someone who wasn’t married to their childrens father(s) as a red flag because it shows poor decision making skills, and if it’s multiple, it’s habitual. People NEED to start being honest because baby mama/baby daddy culture should NOT be as common as it is. It’s destroying kids lives.
Women disrespect men all the time. I applaud this dude for putting them to shame@@jadedtruth8457
@@jadedtruth8457naw this show is mainly disrespectful women trashing the men, Bw keep skipping over the fact she made fun of his pants, thats cowardice of a bunch of women they will start a issue, then play victim after
Interview the following please:
1. James Gourtmet Pies
2. Ninja turtle man
3. Female version of ninja turtle from episode #20
4. Rhino
5. Red (we want to know how he got back with his baby mama right after the show)
6. Taylor and his girlfriend
7. Jay from episode 6
Who's red?
@@applebomnoneya8961 from episode 14. The only that kinda looks like Steph Curry
@@Sororoh95 oh damn that's crazy
Rhino definitely 😊
Who is the female version of ninja turtle?😂😂😂
I'm inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
I raised 75k and Christina Ann Tucker is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Christina A. Tucker is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!!
Wow 😱 I know her too
Miss Christina Ann Tucker is a remarkable individual who has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.
I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH
< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker)
If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!
Arlette seems like the type to laugh 24 hours a day, cracking herself most of the time 😂😅😅
I wasn't fond of how he chose to berate the 'black barbie' when he heard she didn't prefer shorter guys. He then insulted several women for the amount of children and fathers they had.
He’s showing why he’s single.
Yep
Holding a woman with mutiple baby fathers to be accountable is not insulting them. It’s okay to criticize that.
@@BlueKidSwagthey know that, they just wanna deflect and not address the actual problem
This dude is a whole warlock, yall ladies need to be very careful with men like this
yes talking bout psychic abilities and channeling energy
A Warlock😂😂😂 You wild for that one
You can't stand real talk from him.😂😂
@@M.SA93 what real talk? Berating women on a dating show because they have children isn’t “real talk”.
@@ricardiashton2352 nah that a real talk
I love this couple so pure hardworking nd so attractive ❤❤
Yes! Definitely want to see Brian on Blind Date! Bring it on 🎉
We need to have some type of Awards show like
"Best match"
"Funniest Line ie James Gourmet pies 😂"
Best Episode
Funniest Guest
Etc etc
Viral clips😂😂
True
I absolutely love ❤️ ❤❤❤Brian, I would date him but I know that I am too old for him. I was always told that it’s better for man to date younger than themselves but I appreciate him. He’s my favorite. He reminds me of the late Kevin Samuel (RIP) who got famous from telling women some truths about themselves to date a top tier man and I think Brian watched every episode of Kevin show.. I love his confidence and DAMN I wish I was younger!!!
Bryan, make sure you read your book, so you can match! lol
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Yes, 😅he said it will change your life😅
I burst into the laughter by reading the video title Top Tier Bryan 😂😂😂
To be fair, Bryan words to the women were absolutely right. There should be someone who tell these women the truth of being irresponsible in making important life decisions
This is fabulous. I always wanted to hear more of the host thoughts and hear her talk more .. and it's good that it's not on her channel because we only want pop the balloon on her channel
Great job Brian❤! Us women have to be able to hear and handle the truth! Those women needed to hear that. It is unacceptable to have all these different baby daddies and none of them were your husband 🤨
Interview the last lady from the last episode with the big personality! I forget her name
😂😂😂😂 I love her!😂😂😂❤
@sweetlooweeze Which one ?? The toxic aggressive, argumentative one ???? The one everyone popped the ballon with the quickness??? The one who was delusional thinking she looked like Kelly Rolland ?? That one right ??? I’d rather go set my hair on fire then listen to her rant on she hours she’s a nightmare….
The last girl? The one that was mad they told her she was a lot? 😭
0:37 Arlette looks amazing as always 🥰
"he goes by the name 'I'm from the ghetto'" hahhahahahahahahahaha
I love when Arlette start cracking up, it's so contagious 😂😂😂
What if BD #2 died…do I not deserved love? Most abusers do not show their true colors (can take anywhere from months to years to come out). So what if BD #2 was abusive, can I not have love ? FYI I have one child and don’t plan on starting over, but I can be an advocate
He’s a 🤡🤦🏾♀️
Right?! Or what if the child was conceived through force, does that woman not deserve love?
This is a KS affiliate. All you can do is laugh at these tings and move on. Plus, the Pick-Me Coalition is STRONG....check the comments lol. He will find his one and only dummy.
@@Ahdree23 😂😂😂
While everyone so concerned about the multiple BM/BD all I hear is "VD, HPV, STDs." AITA
Oh his baby mama has more kids..multiple baby daddies..it was a trigger..now it makes sense 🤷🏾♀️