For 3 years time he is sending me a message once a month,he didn't give up but nothing more happened,he is living in another country but so clear he keeps me like option and I still waiting for for his message to come
@@thejackbutler Thank you so much for your answer,I am truly grateful!Lately I consider this ,but for me is very difficult because he is very polite guy, psychologist,and he never promised me anything but somehow there is a little interest I guess,also he is very successful guitarist, respected from many people,I am sure he has many options available....it is so difficult for me because I don't have anybody close to me with his qualities and that's makes me a bit scare ,I mean he gaves me just a little bit but not having anything at all I am thankful to the crambs.....
@@thejackbutler Thank you Jack ,I will try to not answer him when he write me next time ....,the thing is he do it in a friendly manner explain something about what's going on with his life and I don't know do I have to not answer at all or to tell the reason first and then cut contact
Your videos help me immensely. You speak in a language that is very accessible, understandable and compassionate. Your teachings are helping me to let go of anger and really practice acceptance. You have a gift!
I needed to hear this as I was going back and forth on a penpal. Even though there’s substance, it’s still a basic connection. I appreciate the clarity 👏👏👏 TYSM.
Places that are leaking energy takes energy from the main event... I deleted a bunch of useless dating sites that were energy vampires, nothing quality transpired. Using my energy to focus on a new connection with a grown-up man who is taking things very slowly. I'm not used to that but I'm learning to enjoy the process as it unfolds.
Just found your Chanel & it's like therapy. You give a deeper perspective than just the mind games explanation. As an idealist & fantaziser, I love your talk about being in the present, in the reality of the process & his actions. Makes me want to relax & bring the Disney story down.Taking notes 😆
I’m very well aware that the men who is my guy loves me and does things even if they are busy they can make time or show an effort to care . I do not want to give myself to anyone .
We like it! Andreea from Romania Sending thanks and appreciations. Your words have met me in a needed time. Thank you. I have remembered things long forgotten.
Perfect wording in where I am. I’ve not allowed my time and energy for pen pal guy but have gotten nasty resistance and such good reply suggestions! Brilliant ‼️ We do go through different spaces in time. Time is key. Thanks Jack 👍🏼
Thank you for being on point and helping us to reach clarity through sobriety, and be true to ourselves as individuals...safe gaurd where we channel our energy, otherwise it's just not worth it...a great emphasis on your part in positively waking us up to reality , you exude that honesty in wanting to empower us, your energy is very clear...I feel these reflections are important for you too, so you are able to see how we are absorbing your output...it is also an appreciation of your intellectual energy...and as you say, when one is in tune with themselves, you can sense how someone is coming across to you...I trust myself and trust the journey, self soul searching as we call it ...as you know I've been watching many of your presentations, and like all things it has been great food for thought lol if I call it...if you and your wife ever come to Kenya you are welcome 🤗
Clarity and sobriety are under used words in my experience! Thanks for the reflections. I'm no longer partnered but I did really enjoy the beauty of Kenya and the friendliness of the people when I spent time there several years ago!
Really appreciate your insights and honesty from a male perspective Jack while you also frame it in such a proactive and positive way for women! Had a few lightbulb moments just now.. definitely clarified a lot and sobering video I'll be watching more than once ..Thank you from Perth ☺️
I hinted to a guy I feel like we are pen pals. He responded with a long text continuing to text about himself and asking me more more questions we could be doing F2F. I never responded to him and felt so good about doing the right thing. I thank Jack Butler because he taught me how to be sober emotionally with a guy
Jack,this is so reassuring. I've been clear and honest with men(and myself). And now I see it not as a loss but,as clearing the way for the connection a different guy is also looking for. Thanks for the honest talk and helpful tips.🙂
His bit during minute 16 was probably the best. Something like "What if you haven't had that constancy before? Just trust yourself that you haven't had it and know that it will feel different."
Wonderfully stated! Thank you for reminding me of what I already knew, but continue to refuse to face. Deeper feelings were starting because I'm a romantic at heart. ❤️😎
Loved finding your video this morning deluding and rationalizing about a connection. Time is on my side and waiting for that 6 month consistency. My discernment is getting better and better 🙏🏻💕
I find that the issue and the price of sticking to a guy who doesn't behave/show up the way you want (and knows it, and doesn't step up) is fewfold: 1. Not getting what your heart desires (settling) 2. Ignoring your intuition may silence / shut it up temporarily. 3. Lack of inner guidance because you didn't honor it in this field. 4. Disregarding yourself means: not honoring yourself. Ultimately leads to an inner conflict, where you're doing sth that you intimately is not good for you or in your best interest. 5. Lack of confidence, as a result of not being your own best friend. (Talking from personal experience.)
@@thejackbutler welcome. I am writing it on this "wall" to remind myself to do the step..... (All these points describe my situation). Btw, i would potentially love to work with you. (When the point is ripe, perhaps pretty soon). I may fill out a coaching request. I do admire your work and feel it close to my heart and mindset.
Amen! Great way to get down to the bottom line of different types of relationship opportunities and stages, and recognizing what you want and need- and then sticking with that. Awesome summary.
Yay Jack! You just started showing up in my RUclips feed, again 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’ve missed your teachings....glad you’re back! Thanks for your advice in this video.
Thanks Jack for the richness of your explanation. Your talk makes me realize the difference between what I have been experiencing from my ex-husband's courtship of me. He told me on our second date that he wanted to marry me. At which point I exclaimed "Are you nuts? You don't even know me!". Very different than the last guy who was a pen-pal guy. This really helps me understand your response to my comments under a video of yours a couple of years back, when you said the man I was mourning wasn't my guy. It's so much clearer that "my guy" would want to clear up misunderstandings and hurt triggered feelings. Ah, so much to learn when one had a dysfunctional family of origin.
This is such amazing advice!!! I was in a lovership but was missing emotional connection so I ended it because he wasn't fulfilling my love languages...it was a great experience and taught me a lot about being in my power. Thank you so much Jack 😊
What’s so difficult is I made it clear multiple times my endgame is partnership, he always said, “I need to take this very slow”. That was his reply multiple times each time I checked in to ensure I wasn’t in a lovership. It kept me and it makes me upset at myself for wasting my own time, bc he was never truly clear and that was the answer that kept me around. I don’t think it’s okay, why not, “I don’t want partnership, I just want casual”. But he didn’t and it kept me for months hanging on until I had enough. What can I do in the future if another guy says this, “I want to take it slow” after multiple times of me stating my intentions and the slow means they don’t deepen the connection, they don’t show up more, it just stays on his terms . I want to learn from this failure.
Just had to exit out of a distraction of 6months of inconsistency. I didn't want a relationship because of a previous breakup but overtime, this inconsistent distraction just made me miss my ex more. Thanks, Jack! Spot on yet again!
Such great advice I’m gonna have to replay this one very valuable discernment for me. I’ve been prone to covert narcissistic codependency working on my part of those choices. Your content was much needed and appreciated 🙏🏻🌈☀️💕
Your so awesome, Jack .I'm still single because I have been able to recognize drop off guy, penpal guy, and hot and cold guy thanks to your work. But, I'd rather do me and wait for the right person than continue to have an arrested nervous system chasing drop off guy. Thanks for all your doing to help women empower themselves to choose the right thing!
I tried the lovership situation after 7 months I fell for the guy and it's clear he don't want more. I told him I had to end it because I was falling in love and the longer I stay in it the more I will end up hurt. I told him if in the future he wants to try again we can but he definitely isn't ready to settle down and that's okay.
If he says he wants casual dating and see where life goes, and I want a relationship, should I give him his chance? Or should I take him at his word, even if we don't know what may develop?
Thank you. The first date was beyond great, which made me anxious and I felt the need to clarify I want a relationship. He said he's still healing from his ex (9 months ago), so I wonder if I ruined it all with my anxiety or it would not have changed.
Your videos are such a valuable resource that I’m grateful for🙏🏻 I won’t share how many times I’ve replayed it so my subconscious hears. The reprogramming has been a struggle but I’m working on it. The reality and sobriety check of lowering the trust I have within myself hit pretty hard as I’ve done that as long as I can remember. I pray that my efforts won’t feel like one step forward three steps back..Eventually solid bricks will be on a level surface to build upon🙏🏻💗Thank you🌹💕
Thank you for the good input. You are right. I recently met this guy who is showing me the big difference of a guy who is really into me and a guy who just likes me. I am so excited about the new season I am experiencing now. Keep giving this good counsel and mentoring. It has helped me to recognize what I really need and whom I really want to share life with.
@@thejackbutler shared this video with other girlfriends and the feeling is mutual. All this "get the guy" and gimmicky advice is exhausting. Thanks for being genuine. Keep up the amazing work 💗💗💗
I have a guy I have not meet. Its only been 3 days but, He keeps seeing me the thumbs up emoji. Like 3 or 4 times in a row. Then later on he says night. If I don't answer, he will start sending the thumbs up again. So I replied night. He gives the thumbs up again. Iv tried to make conversation and I get the thumbs up. I'm am not interested in this. He is not trying to communicate why is he doing this. Because I'm not putting in any effort where there is nothing. I find this strange. I don't understand.
Id like to have a love connection thats not yet committee. to see how I behave,since ive finally realized ,The Why?in why i've been allowing myself to accept low expectations situations.
I have only a Cyber relationship for months snd I guess IT won't Change. So the best IT IS Just to move on. I am Looking fir a relationship and I am praying for it😊🎉
Wish it wouldn't have taken me the last 30 years of being single to finally 'get it.' But I really do believe that I finally not only know it in theory, but am self aware and strong enough now to not spend months, or even years with men who clearly aren't interested enough to truly invest, be present, consistent, and open in all areas of their life with you, then they just aren't 'your guy.' When its the right guy, for the right reasons, at the right time, there will be very little question of his interest and intentions, because he will be willingly showing through his actions that he WANTS to be your guy!..No convincing necessary.
“Your view of me is your business not mine” love that!!
Yay!
Clarity 👍
Sobriety 👍
Reality 👍
Thank you, Jack. Excellent content!
CSR! Boom! ⭐️
Love this Jack, you have such a compassionate and diplomatic way of conveying the truth. Thanks for being care-full with our hearts 💙
You’re very welcome, happy it occurs to you that way, it’s a reflection I appreciate 🙏
For 3 years time he is sending me a message once a month,he didn't give up but nothing more happened,he is living in another country but so clear he keeps me like option and I still waiting for for his message to come
Have you thought about cutting contact off?
@@thejackbutler Thank you so much for your answer,I am truly grateful!Lately I consider this ,but for me is very difficult because he is very polite guy, psychologist,and he never promised me anything but somehow there is a little interest I guess,also he is very successful guitarist, respected from many people,I am sure he has many options available....it is so difficult for me because I don't have anybody close to me with his qualities and that's makes me a bit scare ,I mean he gaves me just a little bit but not having anything at all I am thankful to the crambs.....
@@positivevibeskx1102 I hear you. Something can be better than nothing. But often you have to let go of something in order to receive more.
@@thejackbutler Thank you Jack ,I will try to not answer him when he write me next time ....,the thing is he do it in a friendly manner explain something about what's going on with his life and I don't know do I have to not answer at all or to tell the reason first and then cut contact
Love it when he said: "Pen pal guy", ' Drop off guy", etc...love that ! The descriptions.
Glad those namings help!
Your videos help me immensely. You speak in a language that is very accessible, understandable and compassionate. Your teachings are helping me to let go of anger and really practice acceptance. You have a gift!
Thank you, I appreciate the reflection. Happy you’re putting the teachings into practise, keep going! 🙏
TIME IS YOUR FRIEND! I LOVE the way YOU break down men's BS.! 😂 Good to see you Jack, The background is LOVELY! Thank God for your wisdom! ♥
Glad that piece resonated! Yes one of my fav parks!
I needed to hear this as I was going back and forth on a penpal. Even though there’s substance, it’s still a basic connection. I appreciate the clarity 👏👏👏 TYSM.
You’re welcome! Happy you are discerning what’s serving you 🙏
This is so helpful. Ive been putting so much energy into men that were so not my GUY! I settled for so much BS!!
Happy this helped! 🙏
Places that are leaking energy takes energy from the main event... I deleted a bunch of useless dating sites that were energy vampires, nothing quality transpired. Using my energy to focus on a new connection with a grown-up man who is taking things very slowly. I'm not used to that but I'm learning to enjoy the process as it unfolds.
Good work! Yes to focusing energy
What an aha moment I just had!! Thank you so much... A guy that is really interested in you will invest consistently in you.
Boom! Great to hear 🌟
I looove this superhonest and clear non-BS advice! ❤❤❤ And the check list is amazing too!
Yay! Thanks for downloading it! 🙏
The more I listened, the more impressed I was with this guy's knowledge. Whoa.
Appreciated, thanks for listening in 🙏
I guess 7 yrs is time to know he's not my guy 😭
Alas, 7 years is a long time 🙏
Just found your Chanel & it's like therapy. You give a deeper perspective than just the mind games explanation. As an idealist & fantaziser, I love your talk about being in the present, in the reality of the process & his actions. Makes me want to relax & bring the Disney story down.Taking notes 😆
Love hearing this. And welcome!
Thank you 🌞
Jack he’s not my guy. - Another One Bites the Dust
Good clarity - may something better come your way!
I’m very well aware that the men who is my guy loves me and does things even if they are busy they can make time or show an effort to care . I do not want to give myself to anyone .
We like it! Andreea from Romania
Sending thanks and appreciations. Your words have met me in a needed time.
Thank you. I have remembered things long forgotten.
Andreea Prisacariu,you look stunning 🌹 🌹🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌹 🌹
Thank you! Happy to hear! Yo to Romania!
Perfect wording in where I am. I’ve not allowed my time and energy for pen pal guy but have gotten nasty resistance and such good reply suggestions! Brilliant ‼️
We do go through different spaces in time. Time is key.
Thanks Jack 👍🏼
Amy Poe,you got a pretty smile ☺️ lol😁🤙
Thank you for being on point and helping us to reach clarity through sobriety, and be true to ourselves as individuals...safe gaurd where we channel our energy, otherwise it's just not worth it...a great emphasis on your part in positively waking us up to reality , you exude that honesty in wanting to empower us, your energy is very clear...I feel these reflections are important for you too, so you are able to see how we are absorbing your output...it is also an appreciation of your intellectual energy...and as you say, when one is in tune with themselves, you can sense how someone is coming across to you...I trust myself and trust the journey, self soul searching as we call it ...as you know I've been watching many of your presentations, and like all things it has been great food for thought lol if I call it...if you and your wife ever come to Kenya you are welcome 🤗
Clarity and sobriety are under used words in my experience! Thanks for the reflections. I'm no longer partnered but I did really enjoy the beauty of Kenya and the friendliness of the people when I spent time there several years ago!
Jack Butler aka "emotionally intelligent guy" is NO LONGER PARTNERED YALL
Side gigs. Love it and so true. Thanks, Jack!
You're welcome!
Wow! today is my 63rd and I have been a widow for 14 years and I have never talk to any man like that. Thank for your wisdom .
Happy belated birthday! 🙏
This really helped me gain some perspective and understanding. Thank you for sharing!
Yay! Happy to 🌟
Really appreciate your insights and honesty from a male perspective Jack while you also frame it in such a proactive and positive way for women! Had a few lightbulb moments just now.. definitely clarified a lot and sobering video I'll be watching more than once ..Thank you from Perth ☺️
Kim Flannery, you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🥀🌺🌺
Clarity and sobriety - yay to those! Happy you're gaining insights here 🙏
Thank you for this information 💁♀️ 🙏
You’re welcome 🙏
I hinted to a guy I feel like we are pen pals. He responded with a long text continuing to text about himself and asking me more more questions we could be doing F2F. I never responded to him and felt so good about doing the right thing. I thank Jack Butler because he taught me how to be sober emotionally with a guy
Happy you have your sobriety!
@@thejackbutler Thank you and Amen !
Thank you
🙏
Thank you Jack.
This is so helpful.
Happy for that
Jack,this is so reassuring. I've been clear and honest with men(and myself). And now I see it not as a loss but,as clearing the way for the connection a different guy is also looking for. Thanks for the honest talk and helpful tips.🙂
Really happy this was reassuring and helpful 🙏
He told me I was being high maintenance several times. Now I know. Thank you.
Happy this supported your knowing 🙏
His bit during minute 16 was probably the best. Something like "What if you haven't had that constancy before? Just trust yourself that you haven't had it and know that it will feel different."
Yep! Permission to learn
Wonderfully stated! Thank you for reminding me of what I already knew, but continue to refuse to face. Deeper feelings were starting because I'm a romantic at heart. ❤️😎
I get, I am too 🙏. And romance within something which can go somewhere is real romance in my experience 🙏
Loved finding your video this morning deluding and rationalizing about a connection. Time is on my side and waiting for that 6 month consistency. My discernment is getting better and better 🙏🏻💕
Yay to ever-improving discernment! 🙏
That was absolutely brilliant. Thank you so much.
Yay! You’re welcome
I find that the issue and the price of sticking to a guy who doesn't behave/show up the way you want (and knows it, and doesn't step up) is fewfold:
1. Not getting what your heart desires (settling)
2. Ignoring your intuition may silence / shut it up temporarily.
3. Lack of inner guidance because you didn't honor it in this field.
4. Disregarding yourself means: not honoring yourself. Ultimately leads to an inner conflict, where you're doing sth that you intimately is not good for you or in your best interest.
5. Lack of confidence, as a result of not being your own best friend.
(Talking from personal experience.)
Love all this, thanks for writing it 🙏
@@thejackbutler welcome. I am writing it on this "wall" to remind myself to do the step.....
(All these points describe my situation).
Btw, i would potentially love to work with you. (When the point is ripe, perhaps pretty soon). I may fill out a coaching request. I do admire your work and feel it close to my heart and mindset.
Brilliant advice thanks Jack!
Amen! Great way to get down to the bottom line of different types of relationship opportunities and stages, and recognizing what you want and need- and then sticking with that. Awesome summary.
Thank you! 🙏
Your flight upgrade scenario is pure gold
Aw thanks!
You are just simply perfect! Thank you for this 🙏😊
Aw thanks ☺️
Preach!!!!! Mergey guy, pen pal guy....
Preach!! Thank you :)
Love this! So clear and straight to the point! All women should listen to this, really!
Thanks for your reflection!
You are right on with this. Thanks Jack ♥️
🙏🙏
I just watched this again. Fabulous and powerful. Thank you. ♥️
Awesome, thanks for the rewatch
Thank you Jack ♥️
This is the 1st iv seen or heard anything from u & I hav 2 say that u make so much sense & I really fkn like ur perspective on this shit.👍🏼🙂
Thanks - I appreciate hearing that ⭐️
Yay Jack! You just started showing up in my RUclips feed, again 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I’ve missed your teachings....glad you’re back! Thanks for your advice in this video.
Excellent advice . So glad to have this video suggested.
Happy to hear
Thanks Jack for the richness of your explanation. Your talk makes me realize the difference between what I have been experiencing from my ex-husband's courtship of me. He told me on our second date that he wanted to marry me. At which point I exclaimed "Are you nuts? You don't even know me!". Very different than the last guy who was a pen-pal guy.
This really helps me understand your response to my comments under a video of yours a couple of years back, when you said the man I was mourning wasn't my guy. It's so much clearer that "my guy" would want to clear up misunderstandings and hurt triggered feelings. Ah, so much to learn when one had a dysfunctional family of origin.
A checklist!! You are fantastic Jack!
⭐️
Oh yes Jack!
Thank you!
@@thejackbutler You're welcome
@@thejackbutler You're welcome
This is brilliant.
Appreciate that :)
Thankyou..you are very helpful..
This is such amazing advice!!! I was in a lovership but was missing emotional connection so I ended it because he wasn't fulfilling my love languages...it was a great experience and taught me a lot about being in my power. Thank you so much Jack 😊
Glad you have found more of your authentic power
What’s so difficult is I made it clear multiple times my endgame is partnership, he always said, “I need to take this very slow”. That was his reply multiple times each time I checked in to ensure I wasn’t in a lovership. It kept me and it makes me upset at myself for wasting my own time, bc he was never truly clear and that was the answer that kept me around. I don’t think it’s okay, why not, “I don’t want partnership, I just want casual”. But he didn’t and it kept me for months hanging on until I had enough. What can I do in the future if another guy says this, “I want to take it slow” after multiple times of me stating my intentions and the slow means they don’t deepen the connection, they don’t show up more, it just stays on his terms . I want to learn from this failure.
Just had to exit out of a distraction of 6months of inconsistency. I didn't want a relationship because of a previous breakup but overtime, this inconsistent distraction just made me miss my ex more.
Thanks, Jack! Spot on yet again!
Thanks to you Jack I've gotten smarter in this type of relationship that come along just to be pain.
Good to hear this 🙏
I seen this 4 months after it was posted so need to watch this a few times.
Thanks for wanting to re-watch!
Thank you!!!💜💜💜
Such great advice I’m gonna have to replay this one very valuable discernment for me. I’ve been prone to covert narcissistic codependency working on my part of those choices. Your content was much needed and appreciated 🙏🏻🌈☀️💕
Thank you! Happy you want to replay!
Thank you, Jack!! You are amazing. So insightful, logical and clear.
Thank you, happy this was supporting clarity & landed logically 🙏
Awesome presentation!
Great stuff!
Thanks!
👌❤️from Tanzania 🇹🇿
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GREAT💗REAL💚PERFECT💛AWESOME💞FANTASTIC VIDEO & MANY THANKS for your CLARITY, Jack! LOVE,💞💚💛🦋
Great thoughts!!! Thank you!
Welcome back, Jack! Happy to hear your thoughts🤗
Thank you!
Sooooo inspiring!!!!! I get more and more clear!! Thank you 🙏🏻
To ever increasing clarity!
I love your style Jack . I hear you. I get you. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼.
You’re welcome ☺️
Your so awesome, Jack .I'm still single because I have been able to recognize drop off guy, penpal guy, and hot and cold guy thanks to your work. But, I'd rather do me and wait for the right person than continue to have an arrested nervous system chasing drop off guy. Thanks for all your doing to help women empower themselves to choose the right thing!
Yes! Love how you talk about an arrested nervous system chasing drop off guy 🙏👊
I'm so late but super happy I've found you now Jack! 🤍
All in right timing!
Slow it down Yes!!
Awesome commentary, Jack. Thank you.
Appreciated 😊
Your fantastic. Much appreciated x
Thanks your and inspiration to us all my teacher
Fantastic analogies and practical advice. Right on!
🙏☺️
Really helpful thank you
I tried the lovership situation after 7 months I fell for the guy and it's clear he don't want more. I told him I had to end it because I was falling in love and the longer I stay in it the more I will end up hurt. I told him if in the future he wants to try again we can but he definitely isn't ready to settle down and that's okay.
Great advice thanks,learning alot👌
I love love your wisdom ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ☺️
Cameo! Thank you!
Right? Thanks!
This is one of the best videos. Your analogies help make things so clear! Thank you Jack!!!
Awesome to hear
He is consistently inconsistent 🤦🏼♀️
Ha! Sounds you have your answer
If he says he wants casual dating and see where life goes, and I want a relationship, should I give him his chance? Or should I take him at his word, even if we don't know what may develop?
Take him at his word. He's given you his answer.
Believe what a guy tells you! He won't change his mind. You are in different spaces and stages. Dont fall for a potential... there's only now.
Don't invest your time in something that won't go anywhere. There are plenty of guys who want what you want.
Thanks you all
Thank you. The first date was beyond great, which made me anxious and I felt the need to clarify I want a relationship. He said he's still healing from his ex (9 months ago), so I wonder if I ruined it all with my anxiety or it would not have changed.
Yes! I love how you framed this. ✨💖🙏
Yay!
You are amazing Jack i like your videos and it all makes sense
Happy I’m making sense 👍🌟
Your videos are such a valuable resource that I’m grateful for🙏🏻 I won’t share how many times I’ve replayed it so my subconscious hears. The reprogramming has been a struggle but I’m working on it. The reality and sobriety check of lowering the trust I have within myself hit pretty hard as I’ve done that as long as I can remember. I pray that my efforts won’t feel like one step forward three steps back..Eventually solid bricks will be on a level surface to build upon🙏🏻💗Thank you🌹💕
This Video is great, thank you
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Thank you for the good input. You are right. I recently met this guy who is showing me the big difference of a guy who is really into me and a guy who just likes me. I am so excited about the new season I am experiencing now. Keep giving this good counsel and mentoring. It has helped me to recognize what I really need and whom I really want to share life with.
Happy you have experienced that difference 👍
My pen pal got scared when we were supposed to meet, his idea. Now my pen pal is a ghost 👻.
Sorry. At least no more time invested
Omw you are seriously the best dating coach I've listened to in a looooong time! This feels like advice from a loving older brother!
Aw love hearing that 🙏
@@thejackbutler shared this video with other girlfriends and the feeling is mutual. All this "get the guy" and gimmicky advice is exhausting. Thanks for being genuine. Keep up the amazing work 💗💗💗
I have a guy I have not meet. Its only been 3 days but, He keeps seeing me the thumbs up emoji. Like 3 or 4 times in a row. Then later on he says night. If I don't answer, he will start sending the thumbs up again. So I replied night. He gives the thumbs up again.
Iv tried to make conversation and I get the thumbs up.
I'm am not interested in this. He is not trying to communicate why is he doing this. Because I'm not putting in any effort where there is nothing. I find this strange. I don't understand.
Id like to have a love connection thats not yet committee. to see how I behave,since ive finally realized ,The Why?in why i've been allowing myself to accept low expectations situations.
Sounds like you've been doing good work 🙏
I look forward to your insight and supportive words. I love the word “investing”... it is the best word! Thank you so much! ☺️
Thank you & you’re welcome! 😊
Thank you your awesome
Blow out the pipes 😭🤣😂 that’s funny
You keep it real!
👊
I have only a Cyber relationship for months snd I guess IT won't Change. So the best IT IS Just to move on. I am Looking fir a relationship and I am praying for it😊🎉
Wish it wouldn't have taken me the last 30 years of being single to finally 'get it.' But I really do believe that I finally not only know it in theory, but am self aware and strong enough now to not spend months, or even years with men who clearly aren't interested enough to truly invest, be present, consistent, and open in all areas of their life with you, then they just aren't 'your guy.' When its the right guy, for the right reasons, at the right time, there will be very little question of his interest and intentions, because he will be willingly showing through his actions that he WANTS to be your guy!..No convincing necessary.
Yes to this. No convincing necessary - I like that!
Self aware INDEED 💙
Thanks, Jack, for the refresher!
Good to see you again Jack ♥️🇮🇩
Thank you! Hope you’re well!
This was so helpful
Boom!