16:13 Oh god, I never thought of that! Imagine if the other children weren't hers at all, but just random kids she'd picked up, like some sort of Chitty-Chitty-Bang-Bang Child Catcher!
Because to most she just looks like some well-meaning busy body. It's insane how much potentially dangerous waters a person can swim in if they look a certain way 🙄🙄
Airport story: I think that OP should have suggested that the airline call the police to verify the younger kids were even freakin' hers. She tried to kidnap the 16 year old, who's to say the other kids with her weren't kidnapped by the woman, as well?
Story 1. I wouldn't pick them up. I'd make them do everything themselves. I had 2 friends tell me they wanted to visit me, separately. I told them directly, I will not entertain them. I'm a single woman (I was at the time) and I will not have a man staying with me in my house for God knows how long. They BOTH ghosted me after that. 😂😂😂
story 2: as someone who got mistaken for a kid a couple months ago even though im in my thirties, this story is like. the nightmare scenario. short + babyface really is a killer combination.
It is! Once I had a lot of trouble entering a concert. They asked me my age but my birthday had just passed and it took me a while to answer, so they thought I was a minor. I was about 25, I had my ID in my hand and I had bought the tickets with my own credit card. Damn!
I am not short but my family all look younger than our ages. My brother doing a postgrad degree had to avoid a busybody trying to get him to “return” to his school group visiting the university. I was informed once in a shop they were supposed to tell all customers about their store charge card but I was clearly too young. I was 23 at the time and the age to get a store card was 18. It’s fun now I’m 60 that people don’t believe it.
Giving her spouse the cold shoulder and staying at a hotel is not "standing up for yourself." She should've sat spouse down and said friend either finds a hotel NOW (and pays for it) and rents their own car to drive, OR they leave for home. NOW. TODAY. Oh, friend throws tantrums? Too bad. I'd pack their stuff and toss it out the door, and let them know just how selfish, considerate and lazy they've been. That is not a friend, that is a user!
Proofing for people's thesis & dissertations are a legit business. OP could easily go to a college with a little advertising and turn it into a decent side hussle.
I know that divorce seems like an extreme option to most, but OP should at least consider a trial separation. If someone who you're supposed to share your life with can't make you a priority in such a dire moment - they're not worth loving. I can't help but wonder if the husband has a savior complex with the friend and likes her being so dependent on him.
I knew a girl she was from Minsk Belarus. When we first met she was 26 or 27 but she looked no more than twelve. She always carried a beautiful antique Italian switchblade, I'm guessing because of people like the woman in the story.
"Hotels are expensive" was an excuse? Like ya, the op probably already knows that, considering they are literally staying in a hotel 5 min away from the hospital! Like really, wtf?
@@octopus8978 If you can, get a stocking job maybe, it won't be perfectly safe (of course) but it should be better, I've worked as a produce stocker for over a year, and so far the worst I've had to deal with is just someone having attitude that I didn't know where something is that isn't even in my department.
They will actually help you grow as a person. 1) You will realize some things just don't matter that much. 2) You will be able to face stressful situations without losing it, and 3) You learn perspective. Remember, they are mostly harmless and mentally ill. Just because they CHOSE to act a fool and hysterical like a toddler doesn't make any difference to your life. If they become too aggressive, call the police. As long as you are in the right, a hysterical stranger can't make you do ANYTHING or make ANYTHING happen.
That first one hits a little close to home, had a distant relationship girlfriend, she finally managed to come visit. Got here, pissed off damn near everyone in the house, stuck to me like a puppy with abandonment issues, agrued with both my mother and brother, and almost killed me right before she left. To say it lightly, we are no longer in contact with them.
I hate staying w people like the first one. OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND COMMUNICATE. No some people dont get hints, especially if thye come from a place where having a guest means hospitality. MANY cultures would be upset if they tried to help clean, offer money etc. No they cant just kick out the friend, that is their partners house too. It doesnt work like that. Just tell them you cant drive them places and get over the rest. "the tv is too loud in the room I like to be in" suck it up buttercup thats what having guests is like. I also dare to say they told their partner it was fine cause they are a people pleaser w no backbone but then complains to people that cant help.
I came across this channel about a month ago and I'm trying to watch every video. Last night I even had a dream about watching the videos but only with the wholesome memes and Simpsons clips. Best dream ever.
I've been mistaken for a minor when I was younger (19 and could have passed for younger) but when I told the person I was of age it was a simple "oh haha my bad" but no one tried to KIDNAP ME
Story 2 is scary. I am very suspicious of the Karen. If she truly did not believe OP's explanation, then she could've talked to the airport security/employees, who would be able to find the parents of someome in the airport way faster than one person who doesn't work there and also has two young kids to handle. That women was either distrusting and arrogant or had nefarious intentions and planned to kidnap OP... and she was flying internationally. On another note, thank you for putting some wholesome things at the end of the video
Story 1: this is not that crazy, that is how you should treat guests, if people visit you you're the host. In turn if you visit them they do the same. If you're a guest you don't have to pay for food or staying with a friend. They should have clearly communicated that the friend shouldn't have come, or that they were unable to do host things
TRAVELLING ALONE SINCE 5!?!? 16 is fine, 14 even maybe, but 5!? I'm sorry but that is simply not okay if I'm understanding the situation correctly.... i do hope I'm misunderstanding honestly
At really young ages all airlines provide a service that has an adult who is responsible for these children. The parents have to provide emergency contact info, medical info, etc. This is a paid service. During the journey the parents are kept up-to-date and can speak to their children at any time. This service has been around for decades now.
Wow story 2 is making me furious for OP. I’m technically a midget(5’-5’1’’) so I can kind of relate to this. I really hope I don’t encounter a Karen like that at the airport ever 😓
I'm 32 but I've always been baby faced, I still get confused for 19-21 but when I was in my 20's I was confused for 16 a lot. I've never had a story this bad but 100% I've had minor confrontations over it. Like people giving me dirty looks for going into R rated movies or even people asking family and friends snidely how old I am when I'm ordering myself some booze, only for me to interrupt and announce "I'm 28" 😂
Because a lot of us were socialized to be people pleasers. When the whole world has conditioned you to put others over yourself or you're a terrible person, it's very hard to stand up for yourself.
@@DasSpaceAceWhile I understand that, there has to be a point where you realise “Oh, my MIL is very sick and that, as well as my friend staying over, is taking a huge toll on my spouse. Maybe I should bring this up to my friend” You can’t be people pleasing to a friend while completely ignoring your spouses needs too. I was a people pleaser once, it was from an abusive relationship. I worked out of that, it’s just something you have to tackle for yourself and for your family.
@@ghoultooth Sometimes it can be hard to realize *just* how bad it is without an outside perspective, it sounds like OP was a bit of a people pleaser themself.
20:30 I love Jim Carrey's response, but my literal brain just wants to do check my doors and windows so that nobody slithers into my bed, uninvited, smootching my butt cheeks.
On the story with the houseguest from heck...people do exactly what YOU let them get away with! Just. Say. No! They're not entitled to anything and they can't make you! Period. Sounds like OP's spouse needs to get a backbone and learn to tell people no! And if this "friend" is so demanding, entitled, and throws tantrums if you confront them on their intolerable behavior then perhaps you shouldn't be friends with them!
story 1, you have no backbone, you're immature, and you're relationship is doomed. Just have conversations like an adult. stop with the passive aggressive crap. are you 12?
Story 1: yes, this was definitely a story where you get annoyed at OP for just taking it. I get that lots of people dont like conflict, but bloody hell, stand up for yourself. This "friend" would have been gone days ago.
Story 1: there are ungrateful people out there. Years ago my kid was in a national sports teams at an event in France. The nearest airport was over an hour from the town the event was happening in. The team had a bus to transport them but any parents or other supporters had to make their own arrangements. One couple hadn’t and had to take a taxi (very expensive). They were low income so this was particularly hard for them. We had a hire car but our daughter was competing for more days than theirs. Even so I got my husband to pick them up from their hotel and drive them back to the airport the day they were leaving. They never said thank you or sent a card or anything. Another girl at the event didn’t have her parents with her so we videoed her event and gave her mum a DVD of the event next time we saw her. She immediately went out and bought us chocolates to say “thank you”. The difference in response was staggering.
First OP is so annoying. Stop using anxiety as an excuse to avoid confrontation. Say stick up for yourself. You're also at fault for not saying anything.
Im short, and also have a babyface, im close to 30 yet i sometimes get mistaken for a teenager Karens like the one in story 2 make me anxious to go outside sometimes.
Genuine question: Why do you always use the they/them pronouns for people in your responses when their gender is shown and used correctly in the story?
Because it's easier and faster than keeping up with the multiple people in the story. Just like addressing people based off their titles like op, mil, dil, etc
S1- The spouse need 2 wake up c hw toxic their friend can b n grow a bkbone n man up n tell em 2 get out. NOW! S2 - The Karen shouldn't just assume things n take a hint th@ situation doesn't concern em. S3- Tell A** 2 do all his own work from nw on n I'm nt help u fix ur mistakes own up 2 em.
The student story made me think of a student I helped. She was not talented so she made me write her papers more and more. I said enough, and she threw a trantrum and said she would jump out the window if I did not write her paper. I don not know why I did, but now I know a lot about the soybean.
Story 2: i hate when i get annoyed at the OP, and i know its momday koring quarter backing, but this girl handled this terribly. I get it, she was young and scared, so im not trying to blame them. it's just frystrating, like watching a reap life version of someone going into the horror room murder basment even arfter 3 other people have died, or when people are dying left and right and even though 4 people have already heen picked off, they group decides to split up, and you're yelling at the screen to "no dont do that!"
Story 2: I'm sorry but a stranger tried to kidnap a minor and they just let her leave???
Then they talk back/punish the one who saves the child 😑🙄
And presumably try to take her to a foreign country from the international terminal?
The gate agent called ahead to make sure that lady won't be able to leave after she gets to the international terminal...
I had the same issue at that age,except I was NEVER as patient as the OP
Couldn’t agree with Jim more!
16:13 Oh god, I never thought of that! Imagine if the other children weren't hers at all, but just random kids she'd picked up, like some sort of Chitty-Chitty-Bang-Bang Child Catcher!
need to catchem all
Why was the Karen NOT investigated for potential kidnapping?
Because to most she just looks like some well-meaning busy body. It's insane how much potentially dangerous waters a person can swim in if they look a certain way 🙄🙄
That's what I want to know! Why did they even let the woman leave with the other two kids without making her prove they were hers?
Because that story is clearly fake :D
I suppose it's a white well dressed woman 🤷🏻♂️
The law does not work the same for all of us.
Likely was, the gate agent made sure the international terminal will hold her.
Airport story: I think that OP should have suggested that the airline call the police to verify the younger kids were even freakin' hers. She tried to kidnap the 16 year old, who's to say the other kids with her weren't kidnapped by the woman, as well?
Story 1. I wouldn't pick them up. I'd make them do everything themselves. I had 2 friends tell me they wanted to visit me, separately. I told them directly, I will not entertain them. I'm a single woman (I was at the time) and I will not have a man staying with me in my house for God knows how long. They BOTH ghosted me after that. 😂😂😂
I tip my virtual 🎩 to you for putting your foot down. It boggles my mind that people over twelve can't entertain themselves.
I fear of the possibility that those were Nice Guys TM.
story 2: as someone who got mistaken for a kid a couple months ago even though im in my thirties, this story is like. the nightmare scenario. short + babyface really is a killer combination.
It is! Once I had a lot of trouble entering a concert. They asked me my age but my birthday had just passed and it took me a while to answer, so they thought I was a minor. I was about 25, I had my ID in my hand and I had bought the tickets with my own credit card. Damn!
As someone who’s short and babyfaced, I can confirm this is true
I am not short but my family all look younger than our ages. My brother doing a postgrad degree had to avoid a busybody trying to get him to “return” to his school group visiting the university. I was informed once in a shop they were supposed to tell all customers about their store charge card but I was clearly too young. I was 23 at the time and the age to get a store card was 18. It’s fun now I’m 60 that people don’t believe it.
the thumbnail reminds me of how people used to tell me that my mom wasnt my real mom when j was younger because i have darker skin than her 💀
Omg so ignorant
Even beyond the stupidity, I just don't get the audacity of these people!?
My mom used to get asked if I was adopted. I’m not. She had me at 38, and I look just like my dad, whose skin is darker than my mom’s.
wtf is wrong with people!!!
Giving her spouse the cold shoulder and staying at a hotel is not "standing up for yourself." She should've sat spouse down and said friend either finds a hotel NOW (and pays for it) and rents their own car to drive, OR they leave for home. NOW. TODAY. Oh, friend throws tantrums? Too bad. I'd pack their stuff and toss it out the door, and let them know just how selfish, considerate and lazy they've been. That is not a friend, that is a user!
She tried talking first, he didn't get it until he had to sleep alone
@@J.ClemonsShe tried talking before it all happened, not during. It needed to be during.
Right?! Absolutely pathetic how wimpy these OPs are!🙄
@@Sarika38that’s easy for us to say we aren’t in op’s exact situation sometimes standing up for yourself is hard when you’re actually in the moment
@@michaeljessie3645 that's true, I guess it might seem that way when we don't know the entire situation ~
Proofing for people's thesis & dissertations are a legit business. OP could easily go to a college with a little advertising and turn it into a decent side hussle.
Story 2: I'm 4ft 11" and have a babyface too, so I fully sympathise with the OP. I'm 35 and still get ID'd for alcohol from time to time 😂
yeah same here, only 22 but i always have my ID ready before I ever get to the counter. I'm always being watched when I go to get alcohol lmfao
@hehehorf782 It sucks doesn't it? 😂
I know that divorce seems like an extreme option to most, but OP should at least consider a trial separation. If someone who you're supposed to share your life with can't make you a priority in such a dire moment - they're not worth loving.
I can't help but wonder if the husband has a savior complex with the friend and likes her being so dependent on him.
I knew a girl she was from Minsk Belarus. When we first met she was 26 or 27 but she looked no more than twelve. She always carried a beautiful antique Italian switchblade, I'm guessing because of people like the woman in the story.
"Hotels are expensive" was an excuse? Like ya, the op probably already knows that, considering they are literally staying in a hotel 5 min away from the hospital! Like really, wtf?
I feel like there is a very fine line between entitled and insane, and at least half of these people took a nose dive straight into insane.
Vincey: "... I know I'm not going to make your day A LOT better..."
Me: Uh, what?? You just made me smile huge while having a migraine!!!
Karens make me scared to go into public
Same
Fr im so scared to get a. Job in the summer cause of the amount of Karen’s my friends have dealt with
@@octopus8978 If you can, get a stocking job maybe, it won't be perfectly safe (of course) but it should be better, I've worked as a produce stocker for over a year, and so far the worst I've had to deal with is just someone having attitude that I didn't know where something is that isn't even in my department.
They will actually help you grow as a person. 1) You will realize some things just don't matter that much. 2) You will be able to face stressful situations without losing it, and 3) You learn perspective. Remember, they are mostly harmless and mentally ill. Just because they CHOSE to act a fool and hysterical like a toddler doesn't make any difference to your life. If they become too aggressive, call the police. As long as you are in the right, a hysterical stranger can't make you do ANYTHING or make ANYTHING happen.
I'm not stuck here with them. They're stuck here with me! 😈
Day 700 of reminding everyone to drink some water! Stay hydrated, friends!
Woohoo 700! 🎉. Almost there lol. 🥛
I read someplace "You can be the sweetest peach on the tree but there will be someone who doesn't like peaches" and that really stuck with me.
I’m glad I found a vincey post, helps me calm down since been sick. Thank you for posting great content.
I love the way you read these. It’s so energetic and fun.
I'll have to watch this after I'm done studying for the day.
Have a good one fellow viewers and Vincey.
You too 😊
Man, it crazy just how crazy humans can be
That first one hits a little close to home, had a distant relationship girlfriend, she finally managed to come visit.
Got here, pissed off damn near everyone in the house, stuck to me like a puppy with abandonment issues, agrued with both my mother and brother, and almost killed me right before she left.
To say it lightly, we are no longer in contact with them.
9:19 my french dumbass self misheard 'hellish week and a half'.
Hellish queef in the heart 😅😅
Honestly, that translation sounds chaotic and cursed enough... I like it!
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Vincey always starts with 'this is gonna be such fun' and 20 minutes later is 'I can't take any more of this.' I know how you feel mate.
I hate staying w people like the first one. OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND COMMUNICATE. No some people dont get hints, especially if thye come from a place where having a guest means hospitality. MANY cultures would be upset if they tried to help clean, offer money etc. No they cant just kick out the friend, that is their partners house too. It doesnt work like that. Just tell them you cant drive them places and get over the rest. "the tv is too loud in the room I like to be in" suck it up buttercup thats what having guests is like. I also dare to say they told their partner it was fine cause they are a people pleaser w no backbone but then complains to people that cant help.
Even if I'm having a particularly bad day, I feel like watching watching a new video turns my day around significantly! So thank you Vincey!
I've been having a good day, been watching the PJO musical on youtube lmao
I came across this channel about a month ago and I'm trying to watch every video. Last night I even had a dream about watching the videos but only with the wholesome memes and Simpsons clips. Best dream ever.
One of us! One of us! XP
I'm early to an upload! Has the day even started if I haven't laughed through the suffering of knowing about these sorts of people...nope!
I've been mistaken for a minor when I was younger (19 and could have passed for younger) but when I told the person I was of age it was a simple "oh haha my bad" but no one tried to KIDNAP ME
Story 2 is scary. I am very suspicious of the Karen. If she truly did not believe OP's explanation, then she could've talked to the airport security/employees, who would be able to find the parents of someome in the airport way faster than one person who doesn't work there and also has two young kids to handle. That women was either distrusting and arrogant or had nefarious intentions and planned to kidnap OP... and she was flying internationally.
On another note, thank you for putting some wholesome things at the end of the video
I missed a video and my entire schedule went out of wack :')
Story 1: this is not that crazy, that is how you should treat guests, if people visit you you're the host. In turn if you visit them they do the same. If you're a guest you don't have to pay for food or staying with a friend. They should have clearly communicated that the friend shouldn't have come, or that they were unable to do host things
TRAVELLING ALONE SINCE 5!?!?
16 is fine, 14 even maybe, but 5!? I'm sorry but that is simply not okay if I'm understanding the situation correctly.... i do hope I'm misunderstanding honestly
At really young ages all airlines provide a service that has an adult who is responsible for these children. The parents have to provide emergency contact info, medical info, etc. This is a paid service. During the journey the parents are kept up-to-date and can speak to their children at any time. This service has been around for decades now.
@terriwetz6077 well my povvo never-left-the-country arse begs your forgiveness for not knowing about this long standing service 🙏🏻
Wow story 2 is making me furious for OP. I’m technically a midget(5’-5’1’’) so I can kind of relate to this. I really hope I don’t encounter a Karen like that at the airport ever 😓
I'm sorry if this is rude, but I thought you had to be shorter than that to officially be considered a midget, like 4'10"?
That is too tall to count as dwarfism
@@aduckofsomesort lol probably. I know that average height for women is around 5’4’’ or something
I'm 32 but I've always been baby faced, I still get confused for 19-21 but when I was in my 20's I was confused for 16 a lot. I've never had a story this bad but 100% I've had minor confrontations over it. Like people giving me dirty looks for going into R rated movies or even people asking family and friends snidely how old I am when I'm ordering myself some booze, only for me to interrupt and announce "I'm 28" 😂
@@RiveroftheWither lol I can only imagine omg 😆
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I would’ve confronted both the friend and spouse! Don’t know how people are such doormats.
Because a lot of us were socialized to be people pleasers. When the whole world has conditioned you to put others over yourself or you're a terrible person, it's very hard to stand up for yourself.
@@DasSpaceAce exactly
@@DasSpaceAceWhile I understand that, there has to be a point where you realise “Oh, my MIL is very sick and that, as well as my friend staying over, is taking a huge toll on my spouse. Maybe I should bring this up to my friend” You can’t be people pleasing to a friend while completely ignoring your spouses needs too. I was a people pleaser once, it was from an abusive relationship. I worked out of that, it’s just something you have to tackle for yourself and for your family.
@@ghoultooth Sometimes it can be hard to realize *just* how bad it is without an outside perspective, it sounds like OP was a bit of a people pleaser themself.
@@DasSpaceAce
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20:30 I love Jim Carrey's response, but my literal brain just wants to do check my doors and windows so that nobody slithers into my bed, uninvited, smootching my butt cheeks.
story 2 is just kidnapping...
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S1 - OP is the AH for complaining about their choice to be a doormat.
On the story with the houseguest from heck...people do exactly what YOU let them get away with! Just. Say. No! They're not entitled to anything and they can't make you! Period.
Sounds like OP's spouse needs to get a backbone and learn to tell people no! And if this "friend" is so demanding, entitled, and throws tantrums if you confront them on their intolerable behavior then perhaps you shouldn't be friends with them!
story 1, you have no backbone, you're immature, and you're relationship is doomed. Just have conversations like an adult. stop with the passive aggressive crap. are you 12?
Story 1: yes, this was definitely a story where you get annoyed at OP for just taking it. I get that lots of people dont like conflict, but bloody hell, stand up for yourself. This "friend" would have been gone days ago.
Story 1: there are ungrateful people out there. Years ago my kid was in a national sports teams at an event in France. The nearest airport was over an hour from the town the event was happening in. The team had a bus to transport them but any parents or other supporters had to make their own arrangements. One couple hadn’t and had to take a taxi (very expensive). They were low income so this was particularly hard for them. We had a hire car but our daughter was competing for more days than theirs. Even so I got my husband to pick them up from their hotel and drive them back to the airport the day they were leaving. They never said thank you or sent a card or anything. Another girl at the event didn’t have her parents with her so we videoed her event and gave her mum a DVD of the event next time we saw her. She immediately went out and bought us chocolates to say “thank you”. The difference in response was staggering.
First OP is so annoying. Stop using anxiety as an excuse to avoid confrontation. Say stick up for yourself. You're also at fault for not saying anything.
Im short, and also have a babyface, im close to 30 yet i sometimes get mistaken for a teenager
Karens like the one in story 2 make me anxious to go outside sometimes.
Story 2, the moment she said you were lying stop wasting your time and go straight to security and tell them this lady is harassing you. /end of drama
20:29 that may be, but Jim Carrey is an absolutely horrific, evil person.
The 16 years married reflection was beautiful
Story 1 is basically a lesson about people pleasing
Genuine question: Why do you always use the they/them pronouns for people in your responses when their gender is shown and used correctly in the story?
Yeah, I'm way over this gender fuckery, myself.
Twitter brain rot.
Because it's easier and faster than keeping up with the multiple people in the story. Just like addressing people based off their titles like op, mil, dil, etc
Never been this erly‼️‼️‼️
Definitely late on spelling day.
S1- The spouse need 2 wake up c hw toxic their friend can b n grow a bkbone n man up n tell em 2 get out. NOW!
S2 - The Karen shouldn't just assume things n take a hint th@ situation doesn't concern em.
S3- Tell A** 2 do all his own work from nw on n I'm nt help u fix ur mistakes own up 2 em.
People pleasers and doormats wallowing in their "niceness."
The student story made me think of a student I helped. She was not talented so she made me write her papers more and more. I said enough, and she threw a trantrum and said she would jump out the window if I did not write her paper. I don not know why I did, but now I know a lot about the soybean.
Story 2: i hate when i get annoyed at the OP, and i know its momday koring quarter backing, but this girl handled this terribly. I get it, she was young and scared, so im not trying to blame them.
it's just frystrating, like watching a reap life version of someone going into the horror room murder basment even arfter 3 other people have died, or when people are dying left and right and even though 4 people have already heen picked off, they group decides to split up, and you're yelling at the screen to "no dont do that!"
"I have social anxiety." 🙄
That is a sentence, yes.