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The girl who got all the prank gifts was a wild story. I would be too worried about actually pissing off someone. So I would literally only give a joke gift if I also had a real gift for them.
The girl who got prank gifts should’ve told her family that her leaving was just a huge prank!! Taste of their own medicine kinda thing.
"Relax, you'll see me next Christmas."
Or just get them all bags of coal for Christmas! Put them in boxes of all sizes so they think they’re actually getting something they wanted like OP. And then say, “It’s just a prank!”
@@AbnormallyOnline nah thats too much money wasted on that attempt of a family
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Well said
Right? And then they tell her she’s “ungrateful “! Ungrateful for what,garbage?!🙄
1:31:20 I’ve actually had this situation happen to me. My little brothers name is Xavier. My grandma on my stepmoms side called him Johnny for years because she thought he was named after the X-man character. Xavier hated it as he got older and would either ignore or correct her when he was old enough to realise ‘hey, my name isn’t Johnny’. The way we finally got her to stop was by teaching Xavier that every time she called him Johnny he was too reply ‘heeeres Johnny’ which she hated more so she no longer calls him Johnny.
That's hilarious. Good for you guys.
The boy, Dion, who tried to steal OP's puppy has shown himself to be far too immature for a puppy & the lack of,discipline by the mother showed she isn't going to put the puppy's well-being over the child's when he harms it. Very bad home for an animal!
It's so important to emphasize that he not only tried to steal a puppy which as you said shows great immaturity, but he tried to put it in a SEALED PLASTIC BAG. That takes it from immaturity to a profoundly dangerous lack of knowledge and awareness. I wouldn't even trust this kid with a carnival gold fish.
exactly this. He doesn't understand, mother won't teach him, and the puppy dies. Then his mom would just replace it
Kid who put a puppy in a plastic bag....that is a psychopathic.
yeah that kid is probably watching animal gore..
Fr though!!
Depending on how old the kid is, it can also just be a matter of the kid not fully realizing that doing that is harmful/possibly fatal to the puppy. A lot of young kids don't know how to properly handle/interact with animals and can end up hurting them unintentionally.
I have 2 dogs and anytime kids want to say hello/interact/play with them (both dogs are super friendly and absolutely love saying hello to people, especially children), I'm always making sure to keep an eye on everything (for both kids' and doggos' safety) and showing the kids how to properly interact with them.
That being said, what the kid did was NOT ok (especially because he'd been told the puppies were too young to leave their mother yet). What's worse is the friend, because she's enabling that kid's bad behavior towards animals. I wouldn't immediately jump to "kid's a psychopath", but he and his mom both are massive aholes for acting like they didn't do anything massively wrong.
"I love you but your food addiction is putting our kids at risk. For their sake and mine, I have to take a step back. I hope you take therapy seriously and I am happy to assist you with that. I want you to be well. I want you to have a healthy relationship with food, with me, and our kids."
What you, as an individual, are willing to put up with and work around is 100% yours to decide....when those behaviors effect your dependents you have to decide if you're willing to sacrifice their futures and well being.
I feel so badly for the OP in that story.
That husband is basically another child with an eating disorder for OP. Seriously, look no further for men weaponizing incompetence at the expense of their families than at least 60% of AITA posts. Seriously, OP needs to draw a line in the sand and tell him to shape up or she'll see his a$$ in court for child support and full custody because that is just unacceptable for a grown a$$ adult to behave that way.
Joke gifts NTA. Seems planned and quite cruel. EVERY SINGLE GIFT! Mom wants to redirect the attention towards herself aww poor poor evil mom who surely got what she wanted and really doesn’t care that her daughter got literal junk: the nice boxes that create excitement. Op’s hurt and disappointment is legit. The family sucks and obviously sees her sister as the golden child.
Especially giving her "gift cards" with no money on them! Who does that??
Yeah. Bet you that that family has a lot more toxic bs they pull and then they play the "You're too sensitive" card when called out. Family dynamics like THAT are exactly why a lot of people (myself included) are cutting off/distancing themselves from family. Because "family" is no excuse to treat your loved ones like sh*t and gaslight them about it when they call you out on it.
Yes, spilling the wine was an accident, but when people have car accidents, the person at fault and/or their insurance company pays for damages done. Their fault, their responsibility. I'm not a fan of the bride calling her sis in law to be, fat. Fat shaming sucks and those who do it suck even more. Better to have just said no. I thought weddings were to celebrate the bride and groom, not get drunk. Sad an adult can't have fun without alcohol. But maybe their personality is 💩 without it.
To be fair the bride didn’t fat shame her sister in law to be she just stayed that’s she’s fat and self conscious about it. Also the couple wanted to drink on new year never said their intention was to get drunk. JS🤷♀️
I suspect it was deliberate to spill red wine on a white dress.
@@natasjaaitchison4409i mean it's weird she assumed the bridesmaid doesn't wanna wear a revealing dress BECAUSE she's insecure about being fat, instead of maybe because not everyone is comfortable wearing something revealing? or even other reasons, but this would be my first thought
Recharging is important and yeah you can be selfish with your time and energy. So many people put negative connection with selfish
I've just learned to make up a reason I'm unavailable if I'm planning on spending the day unwinding.
Story 1: In my opinion, generally no joke/prank should trick someone by raising their mood only to take they joy away without anything to replace it. The book-cover one is a perfect example of a fun prank IF THEY GOT THE REAL BOOK AFTER!!!!. That or swap it, put a dictionary cover over a book they actually want. It sounds like most of the joke presents given to other family members were done like that, only OP got the terrible treatment.
Part of me could believe it was a perfect storm of bad/dumb decisions on the family's part and they didn't realize they had all done the same thing, but even then their stubbornness for still feeling like it was OP's fault a week later is insane. The only ways this makes sense is if the whole family is oblivious and stubborn to an extreme level, or this was a planned petty revenge scheme that appeared to be totally uncalled for.
I know from experience exactly why this was done. They were the "odd one out" not accepting the prank tradition, so the lot of them banded together to oust the oddball.
Which isn't how family is supposed to work, but alas...
First, most pranks are NOT funny, they're intended to humiliate or upset someone. OP is NOT the AH here. What on earth is she supposed to be "grateful" for? Getting a bunch of poorly-thought-out jokes and not one real gift, while everyone else was given something nice? Her family sucks.
While that is what pranks seem to have become on social media. I do remember a time when pranks were far more good natured. Where they were meant to confuse, bamboozle, and amaze. I wish we could go back to that. Like getting someone a gift they want, but packing it in the different boxes, or packing a gift so that it has an unusual shape. Not what this “family”. Did.
The only pranks that are truly funny have 2 things in common. 1) they leave the person who was pranked ALSO laughing. And 2) they don't harm the pranked person. The best pranks imo are the ones built on confusing the pranked person. Funniest prank I've seen is one where a guy walks into a porta potty and while he's in there, a crew moved a little portable room right in front of the porta potty and, so when the guy walked out of the porta potty he stepped into what looked like a boardroom meeting. It was hilarious!
If you are doing nothing that doesn't mean you're free to cater dinner for twenty, remove an appendix, or change someone's oil. Or anything else you can't or don't want to do. Including free babysitting.
There is a difference between passively doing nothing and actively doing nothing and people need to learn that. I wish we had a different way to say it but if it ever comes up i just claify "no im actively doing nothing (and intend to continue doing so)" (for the more stuborn) and that tends to clear it up at least to people i engage with willingly or family.
@lilunette9319 yeah but people tend to have follow-ups when you say your busy, at least in my experience
On the snake pic - It was just living its life, you did not disturb it and just took a photo, and everything is happy. What people need to keep in mind with Australia's reputation of dangerous creatures is that if you see one, step back, leave it alone, let it go on its way, and you won't have anything bad happen. The only exception I would maybe give is insect spray at redbacks you may encounter around one's house. Even that has an exception, in that if it is someone in Sydney who encounters a funnelweb, don't kill it, try and capture it safely, because the venom milking business can always do with a new donor, and I bet the spider has a better life where they get plenty of food in trade for the annoyance of milking.
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Ohh, that son and DIL in the first story made me so mad! Just because your parents (or anyone for that matter) has no plans doesn't mean they're obligated to freaking babysit! For them to be mad is selfish. You're not entitled to ANYONE'S time! Time is a gift people give you; not something you can demand!
I'm sure they wouldn't be too keen to come clean out OP's garage and power wash her driveway on a day they purposely took off work to rest and relax!
The disbelief in Vincey’s voice when he says, “Buncha weirdos!” 😂
Dry wedding OP is a turbo AH. He already RSVP'd yes, and his seat was paid.
If you can't go one night without booze: you are an alcoholic.
I'm legitimately upset about the "prank" one. Those aren't pranks, it's cruel, it's bullying. Pretending to give a gift and giving it to someone else like haha this thing you wanted, I'm deliberately giving it to someone else. I can't understand doing that for any other reasons than to hurt. And giving no real presents? Sociopathic behaviour. They're singling her out, they've set out to hurt her for laughs. Tbh I wouldn't want to spend Christmas with them ever again.
Stories like those ones need to be shown to the family along with all the comments. Yeah, they'll probably be booty bothered that the family member they were being bullies to went and snitched on them online, but they need the damn wake-up call that "hey, even complete strangers online think yall suck... maybe do better???"
I will never get tired of looking at your cats, Vincey!
Going against the grain with the new years wedding story. But NTA, everyone seems to forget the detail that no one else knew it would be a dry wedding other than the groom and bride, everyone else expected there to be alcohol and it seems like the groom knew it would've been a deal breaker for almost everyone if they knew it was a dry wedding so they purposely left that detail out until seemingly last minute. reddit typically has a "you can decline going for any reason" mentality and I feel that applies here too, OP can decline going for any reason including the fact alcohol wouldn't be present and same thing goes for the others who dropped out as well.
Agreed. And i bet the couple getting married will get pissy when everyone starts to leave ~1 hour into the reception because they didn’t wanna accommodate their guests
That gift prank one was insane.
Anyone who thinks the dog owner is in the wrong shouldn’t have dogs. Ever. Putting a puppy, especially one that’s so young it still needs milk, in a plastic bag is psychotic behaviour. I understand he might not have known about how fragile puppies are as he’s 10 but had he managed to hold on to that puppy, it could have suffocated. If it didn’t suffocate it could have frozen to death as puppies need their litter and mother to help regulate their body temperature. If they didn’t freeze, it would have starved. Who knows how long he’d have kept the puppy hidden since he knew it was wrong enough to think he could stuff a puppy in a PLASTIC bag and smuggle it out the house. Also he’s so incredibly lucky that the mother trusted her owner enough to get her baby back because had she been any less patient and gentle and trusting that kid would have gotten mauled. Mother dogs can be VERY territorial and protective of their pups. What a stupid kid and a horrible mother to defend her son’s dangerous actions, not only towards the puppy but towards himself had the pup’s mother decided to attack him
Dry NYE Wedding: I'm not going to defend OP's actions here, but it was very shitty of the groom to send out wedding invites for a NYE wedding, with a reception running through midnight, without saying it was going to be a dry event.
Weddings are practically expected to have alcohol. NYE parties are expected to have alcohol. If the NYE wedding party is outside those norms, you should inform your guests.
But, OP should have attended the wedding, ate at the reception, then went to an after-party with the rest of the friends who wanted to drink on NYE. I can also understand that OP was upset about the deception from the Groom, but I can't imagine OP being so upset that they nedded to drop out of the wedding.
Maybe, but like I have a hard time imagining that the it was a deliberate deception on the bride and groom’s part. It would just be a stupid thing to do. My guess is that they told people verbally, but didn’t really think of it as a huge deal so either forgot to tell everyone or did tell people verbally but didn’t put it in writing.
You are right that scheduling a wedding for New Year’s Eve is a bit iffy though. It’s a holiday where people usually have plans they do annually. Idk it feels a bit weird to turn that kind of thing into a wedding event.
Man your country has the best snakes. I live in canada where the biggest ones are either garter snakes or illegal
Food insecurity dude needs help. Like actual psychological help. This is hurting everyone in the family including him. OP might be forced to leave if he doesn’t get better.
For the Dry Wedding: ESH. The op is a jerk for backing out last minute and causing others to do the same along with not being willing to spend a couple hours sober, but everyone's forgetting that the groom didn't tell him it'd be a dry wedding from the get go. The friend group was operating under the assumption that there would be alcohol and it seems the groom made no efforts to correct or specify until last minute.
Yeah, i get what you're saying, but some people just don't think about alcohol that often, especially if they dont drink. I myself dont drink, so having or not having alcohol somewhere isn't something i would even really consider when making plans.
And OP is either super immature, or an alcoholic, or both. Either way, the OP sucks a massive bag of dicks.
And it sucks for the friend, but the friend and his new wife are probably better off in the long run to find out that OP and the others suck.
They probably had but either a long time ago or during a bigger conversation that caused it to be forgotten. As someone who's been to weddings these things happen often.
if you need alcohol to have fun you’re an alcoholic
@@elmopreparestocommitarsonIm willing to bet the groom withheld that information on purpose because they knew no one would come otherwise, NTA because they could have their wedding on any other day than fucking new years eve.
@@MajorOctofuss I’m willing to bet that didn’t happen because big events often have details missed or forgotten.
For the gift one: with my family we also once pranked my dad and there was also once a prank on my sister at her birthday.
We bought all together my dad a DVD-recorder, so he could transfer all our homevideos to dvd and make the new ones straight dvds. He himself wished for that as it got more difficult to get those film tapes... I don't know if they are also called cassette in english...
And my brother packed shoe cartons together so they had the same size as the dvd recorder and we printed a photo and glued that on. My dad unpacked the gift, cause we all wanted him to and he was confused and tried to open the cartons too. Then we intervened and gave him the real one.
And my sister got quite a big present. She unwrapped it and ot was in newspaper. She had ro unwrap layers of layers of newspapers and in the end it was nail polish. But she was happy, cause she wanted nail polish. The present just suggested a way bigger present with all the newspaper layers and we all laughed at it. She as well.
And that's the big difference: everyone had a good laugh. If the person the joke is about can't laugh about it, it's straight up bullying.
You can't call something a joke, if the person the jokes is about, is not laughing.
I also can't laugh at people falling, when they don't themselfes.
My brother has quite a history involving him and gravity. And once he smacked quite hard on the couch table (it was on rolls, so it gave in and got knocked down with the fall) and only the moment he started laughing I was able to laugh at that absolute hilarious sight he showed me. It was just funny. But if he would have been seriously hurt, I wouldn't have been able to laugh at that point. Maybe later reminiscing it... But if someone's hurt, it's NOT a joke anymore.
the name change thing (about 1:00:00 ish) is crazy. I’ve never heard of the PARENTS themselves wanting to change their kids weird names. If they decide in the future that they want to change it, oh well, but their parents shouldn’t try to force them
I don't have kids, but I have 2 dogs and I didn't pick their names, but I can't imagine changing them (my little dog has a name I never say online because its seriously identifiable, so lets say its Freedom to the People and my big dog is named Bella)... and they're dogs. I can't imagine trying to pull that with your kids. And also, River is a hella cool name, so idk what bug these parents have up their butts but they need to get over it and be glad that their kids actually like the (imo) cool names they gave them.
Adorable cat pics! I hadn't seen Jin and Nez (sorry, not sure how to spell their names) next to each other before, and Nez looks so little! ❤❤❤ Also in the first story, why can't she take the kids to the nursing home? When my gran was in one we visited all the time as little ones.
Grandma doesn't have to babysit. Period. If she wants to help, great. If she doesn't want to help, also great. She has a life of her own that no longer needs to revolve around her children, or their children.
That last story sounds like Jane is one of those people who either watches these videos and/or is constantly reading r/JustNoMIL stories and wants SO BADLY to be in a situation like that so she can post about it and get all that attention
Toddler on the flight story: I would have told the mom ok you can have the seat if you pay me the ticket price I paid for it. Bet she wouldn't take that offer. She wanted the seat without paying for it.
The prank gifts story broke my heart. Prank gifts should always be followed by real gifts or be a ploy to hide the real gifts.
For example, I once recieved a prank gift as a child. As a child of the 90's I wanted a Game Boy really badly for Christmas one year. One of my gifts was a box of Kraft Mac 'n Cheese. My mother said we could make the Mac 'n Cheese for dinner so she told me to open the box. Inside the box was my brand new Game Boy.
That's one of the ways it should be done. It is never acceptable to give someone all joke gifts without even one thoughtful gift.
I dont believe that the guy spilt that red wine on the white dress on accident especially after insisting that she wear it
“uploaded 11 minutes ago” can’t believe I was 11 minutes late 😞
At least you’re not 2 hours late 😅
I LOVE snakes, really all anomals and life, as im sure youre aware the key is to pretty much ignore the snake without actually ignoring it, they wont atrack unprovoked usually so like just leave it alone and dont flip your shit and scare it lol.
We would give “prank” gifts in high school but it was followed by a real gift. Also the prank gifts were actually kind of cool, but just not real gifts material so it was very fun.
This compilation came out while I needed something to listen to while making pancakes for me and my sister. ✌️😌
Update: I successfully made a turtle shaped pancake, one leg fell off but it’s fine. I also made a Mickey one for my sister. It’s a good day.
The overbearing grandma story- there's a difference between being super excited as a grandma and trying to hijack the birth and baby. This woman is toxic and potentially dangerous. I could see if beforehand she'd offered to pay for a portion of the regular baby shower for OP and her friends and the family and then requested a grandparent shower and her DIL attending as guest of honor. Then the theme and only grandma's friends attending would have been fine. Instead, she lied and manipulated to get a shower that she wanted; that's sooo creepy. My mom was SO excited for her first grandchild and if she'd wanted to do her own shower but also wanted to participate fully in my sister's real shower I'd have understood and even thought it was cool for her to be so excited. This lady isn't doing that, she's just using her son and DIL and lying and manipulating them for herself...disgusting
Many essential oils are food grade and taste as good as they smell. Peppermint oil is actually really good for the stomach whether you rub it on the outside or ingest it. It does, however, need to be the food grade kind.
Vincey, can you do some long form Niceguys or Nicegirls or something else? I just feel like there’s been too much AITA
I agree; I like AITA, but it is kind of half the channel's content now and I miss some of the subs that used to be more frequent.
33:50 holy crap, 90s flashback! I totally forgot about “The Hand that Rocks the Cradle”! That movie is pretty messed up!
Force feeding causes eating disorders, i have had anorexia, bulimia and now in my fifties binge eating disorder, my therapist has said that my eating disorders are a direct result of force feeding, i cant believe that there are people today who still think that is right , i don't blame my parents as they couldn't have known the damage it causes and it was done out of fear, i thought people were better informed these days
Yessss! Thank you for the kitty pictures! Super-Nez is so cute 🥰 They _all_ are! The snake reminds me of a few months ago when I glanced into my backyard and saw a roadrunner just waltzing through like he owned the place! They are such fascinating birds to watch.
The cats 🖤🖤 awe.
To the bridesmaid dress, I am a heavier set girl and I did not like they way I looked in my bridesmaids dress. But the bridesmaids loved it so much I bought and wore it bc it is her wedding and I love her
My partner & I are both recovering alcoholics/addicts. Neither of us drink. Therefore, we will most likely have a dry wedding. If our friends who like to drink refuse to come, simply because there's no booze, is the epitome of "let the trash take itself out".
REAL friends will attend, the fake ones will weed themselves out.
The one about the ex dropping his affair baby off.- There was a woman who lived down the road from my aunt, who had a kid a year older than my aunts kid. He'd show up on her doorstep all the time, saying his mom said he had to go there while she went out. This happened for years, and the woman never spoke to my aunt about it. Just kept sending her son off. My aunt never said anything and just put up with it. Crazy! She should have called the cops and said some random kid was unattended. This was in the 90s though...
cats and snakes are two of my favorite animals, and those pictures were all so cute!!
nta, nta, nta, esh, yta, nta, nta, nta, yta, nta, nta, nta, nta, esh, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, esh, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta, nta
Monica can call OP's baby Tommy if OP can call Monica C U Next Tuesday.
S2 Is what happens when someone gets in a relationship or friend group where everyone is acting like decent humans and the family has a meltdown because they know they look bad and they're losing control
NTA for the first one not only did they actually get the gifts meant for her but gave them to the ppl around her then when they saw it hurt her instead of apologizing they got mad and called her dramatic like what they did wasn't wrong on top of all that her mom played victim
Hey, Vincey! I nearly stepped on a snake at least the same size as in your photo, while walking my dog after dark last night. I guess it's snake season in Australia; must be all the rain bringing them out, I reckon. Thanks for another cheery video to keep me company while doing chores.
We do sometimes do one silly present but it is always followed up by a proper present I can understand why op was upset
On the one where the wife had a bad day at work and cancelled 2 month plans so the husband cancelled the babysitter;
I disagree. That was an AH move on his part.
Kids are a ton of work, energy and attention. If shes not going to a function that they planned 2 months in advanced and she wanted to go, where would she have the energy to care for her kids?
Not all "bad days" are created equal. Sometimes you can push beyond them and sometimes you really just need rest. The husband displayed a lack of compassion/caring for his SPOUCE's needs by not communicating first about whether they should cancle the baby sitter or not.
Like, I get feeling hurt that your plans went through, but he still got to go do what he wanted and you can always set something up in the future.
His lack of concern for his wife and communication skills is honestly concerning.
Totally agree, sounds like he was trying to punish her for not being up to the plans they had made.
Heck, even the *kids* could suffer! It's very possible that the wife might snap at them bc she's not mentally capable at the moment, and I'm ticked off that OP suggested turning the TV on for the kids as if it'll _suddenly_ take care of the kids like a babysitter!
The cat pictures negate every bad thing about AITA
Who drops his affair baby off to their ex…? Live with the consequences of your affair but don’t lean on the person who you did wrong to accommodate you.
I think you are my new favorite, Reddit stories creator. I love how you just get right to it, no beating around the bush and also the pets won me over completely.
For the wife who had a bad day but still wanted a baby sitter, she was probably going to have a miraculous recovery once it was too late for her to go to the office party, but then wants to do the date night stuff afterwards
But she didn’t want to do any of that either. She wanted to be alone and focus on herself. Everyone needs time like that. The expectation that she can’t is exactly why mental illness is becoming so common. She’s a full time parent and a bread winner. When is she ever going to get just her time when she really needs it? Clearly you’ve ever had to care for three small children while being exhausted and stressed. Trust me when I say a mental breakdown is very easy to have.
@@elmopreparestocommitarson true. There could have been better communication between the two of them.
He could have said - “I’ll cancel the babysitter then” at which point she could have spoke up.
Or She could have said - “don’t cancel the babysitter though because I don’t think I’ll be up to watching the kids tonight”.
They both needed a break. She may prefer alone time, while he prefers socialising with close friends to unwind.
@@sandbarsoundbar but she did tell him not to cancel after he did so without communicating. She communicated perfectly in the situation. He didn’t. He want behind her back and forced her to care for both of their children alone when she wasn’t in the right place to do so. This is a common thing men do actually and it need to stop being normalised.
Sad you all are so busy jumping on the wife's side missed the part where he is the actual homebody while she gets her weekly yoga class and her book club. Think she's hiring a babysitter so he can have down time? Her turn to watch the kids solo.
@@mamasplayinhookie3131 it literally never says any of that. Imagine making stuff up to vilify a woman and those supporting her. He isn’t a homebody and her yoga class is about physical health and keeps her healthy.
Also she is an introvert which makes socializing after the social limitations you have physically painful in cases. I personally get physically sick when I reach mine.
the fuzzy kitty pictures always make me smile
47:16 how is cyf letting her stay in the house with a teenage boy? They wouldn't let me do that when I was little and my friends family wanted to take me in. They REFUSED to let me stay there and tried putting me in a group home instead
It's sad people NEED to drink to have a good time. They're the people who have a problem.
A good "joke" gift is getting the book u wanted but it having thee wrong cover on it. Or getting a laptop but it's in a box for chocolate or something else. This are the kind of jokes gift I do from Time time. U get that look of what the f. Then followed up by smiles and hugs.
The wedding was dry but like I'm sure they could have also pre gamed like they didn't say a sober wedding? or gone after for drinks
To the prank family girl...
They're clearly abusive, and no contact would probably be the best option when safe to do so. "It's just a joke" doesn't work when you crossed a line with other people's feelings past an uncouth level, an understanding apology is always the solution. A defensive filled explanation filled with differences in emotional values is not something to be discussed in an earnest apology for being heartless! Regardless of how the perpetrator feel afterwards, it's *not* their feeling that got hurt and *not* their level of emotional fortitude being crossed to be shared, being ignorant to emotional abuse like they show, doesn't make it right by comparison, not the severity of the action from their perspective either, that's completely moot.
Secondly, after her saying "there isn't much to say", because they were all gag gifts, there isn't a shred of warranted logic in getting defensive about it unless you are going on the offensive like a douche to try and gaslight and change narratives, there literally is nothing to be amused by it, if she's the only one completely screwed out of a thoughtful gift and the easy solution is dangled in front of her with smiles as they aren't used to make things better, just to make a point. Her mom blaming her for reacting to her thoughtless actions is again trying to pit blame like a lame narcissistic monster. It's just a whole family making you the "Meg" and banning together to try and make it seem right or that you should be able to handle more and that is both abusive and highly disgusting and unfair. Please go no contact, there is no "family" to be had from that dynamic, only blood-ties enabling unneeded abuse.
I love how much Vincey loves his cats. They've become a regular part of the channel 🥲
The shellfish guy was testing her. Get rid of him!
Thank you so much for all the cute kitty photos. It’s always appreciated.
Your two cats are very adorable and cute.
Wow, people have a completely messed up view/relationship with alcohol. Its waaaay too normalised. Its beyond that, its glorified and expected to drink, which is shockingly sad. Very pathetic that people who can't go a day without drinking (and in this case putting it above friends) are not considered addicts.
Food insecurity husband:
Bruh. Get a grip. I am sorry but your "insecurity" is not an excuse to be a jerk. No matter what
If you go to therapy and do nothing with it then that is a *you* problem. Sure there is bad therapists and psychologists, however I usually doubt this as I also know how objectively contrary people like this husband can be. I have dealt with people like this, and there's no excuse
Day 914 of reminding everyone to do things for yourself because you're worth it
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Joke gifts.
Next xmas take 2 gifts for each. I joke 1 real.
Anyone who gives op a joke gift gets the same in return.
They'll learn quickly that joke gifes cut into their own loot.
If somone wabted to eat at my workplace, id tell them the boss doesnt allow us to serve friends and family to make syre we cant give them free stuff. Then let the bos ls know of these crazy peoples intentions.
really enjoying this new cat photo segment vincey :)
The dry wedding story- I wouldn't have gone either but it's because my friend withheld information from me
vincey you didn't post today yet! hope you are well and everything is okay!
I have a similar experience of the OP with the hateful half sister. Here some back story, my mom was basically bat sh*t crazy and was extremely abusive to all 3 of us kids and my dad. Her treatment all of us was unfounded she was just a major narcissist. With the combination of her cruel behavior with my dad’s extremely abusive childhood, he chose to self medicated to deal with life. Eventually the self medicating became a drug problem and the spiraling began which he did later fix. He however did some major damage himself because around this time decided voice to tell all that would listen that his 2 younger children, my sister and I weren’t his. My mom was being a sneaky snake was sleeping around when we were conceived so, I understood his suspicions, however what I feel was unacceptable was him making it our problem. Several times he stated to our faces that he didn’t think us 2 were his kids. Then he would go on and describe whom he thought our dads were, this statements weren’t flattering. This is especially hilarious to me now since my middle sister takes heavily after his mom and I take after his father. This cause more issues because my sisters (yes even middle one) decided I wasn’t like them and therefore should be treated as inferior. I guess they thought I was clueless but I have an excellent memory and since the age of 4 it has been pretty solid. The funny thing is that they both admitted to it around the same time a couple years ago which was surprising since these calls were them more talking at me but not really to me. Anytime I try to add to the conversation it was glossed over then ignored. This was the final nail in the coffin for me and I have been in NC since then. I could and have forgave some of this behavior in the past as youthful ignorance but this behavior has continued throughout our adulthood. I am the type of person who doesn’t want to waste their time and energy on loss causes. Meaning if I know a person who doesn’t want to see reason or work with me for entirely selfish reasons I just distance myself slowly away from them. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than deal with toxic people. Being in that family I always felt alone anyways and I knew I was better off quietly sitting in a corner of a room drawing by myself. This is where I could watch the world around to make sure I was going to be safe because even at that young age I knew that if push comes to shove I would have to protect myself.
17:26 idk. I WANT my child after a bad day. She’s the highlight of my day jfc
That's just you but not everyone is the same. I find it a red flag that he doesn't ask about her bad day or even mentioned what was the bad day in the post. Also people need alone time. The wife clearly needed it at that moment because no one just cancels a big event over nothing or a mild bad day. Cancelling a babysitter that your wife was probably going to rely on to take care of her need for alone time was a shitty thing especially when being forced to care for three children by herself while exhausted from work.
It clearly was too much as she had to call him home to help.
People expect women to be able to handle everything all the time and hate on women when they need help.
@@elmopreparestocommitarsonidk that feels like a pretty weird read of this situation. Having a bad day is one thing, but needing someone to watch your kids *while you’re still home* is pretty odd and kinda a red flag in and of itself. Unless someone close to her died or something serious, she really doesn’t have a good reason to. A run-of-the-mill bad day isn’t it. Also it’s not as if having to watch your own kids is something that’s particularly strenuous unless they’re toddlers or younger. If they can occupy themselves and don’t require constant attention, then it’s not a big deal to be home alone with them. In any case, having a babysitter *while any parent is still home* isn’t reasonable or normal. It also isn’t even remotely a gendered thing here and that’s kinda insulting/infantilizing to assume that it is tbh. She’s not a baby who needs to be coddled after a bad day, she’s an adult and can be expected to act like one. Expecting your partner to pay $200 for a sitter that they don’t need is ridiculous regardless of gender. Unfairly expecting women to take a majority role in childcare is an actual issue, but this is just someone being selfish and wanting to be unreasonably accommodated.
@@TheNerevahkiin bull shit. First off mental health is an important thing and people should have access to alone time if they need it. Also this is a gendered issue because it’s always women who are forced to care for the children at the expense of their health and if they want to take care of their own needs it’s called a red flag. If she was so run down that she couldn’t go to a work party with her husband then what makes you think she has the mental energy to take care of three kids. They are still a lot of responsibility and a strenuous task no matter how old they are. They are children. They need supervision and support. If you don’t find it hard then good for you but for others especially introvert people it’s actually very difficult and even harmful to our mental health to be expected to do it all the time and if you read this guys post he leaves her alone with them all the time. The only break she gets is a yoga class once a week and the occasional date night. Other than that she’s working or looking after the kids. He frequently goes out with friends and constantly ditches his parental responsibilities. Parents are humans too especially mothers. Also taking care of multiple children is a multiple person job. This has been well known for decades, why do you think we have services such as daycare and schools? Because it takes more than one of two to raise children. Children are massive responsibilities that cannot be half assed.
Also the fact someone can only take a break for their mental health only if someone has died or something tells volumes about how much knowledge you lack on psychology, sociology and basic empathy.
Also think of the kids. Do you think they want to spend time with someone who is frustrated and upset? No because they will pick up on that and then experience that frustration and upsetting emotions and it will impact them too. But unlike adults they don’t have the mental or emotional intelligence to deal with it properly so it can cause some pretty bad effects and result in them developing conditions later in life such as anxiety or depression. Children are impressionable and adults shouldn’t be forced to destroy their mental health to hide the negative emotions from the children when they have options such as babysitting. Also babysittings whole purpose is to give parents a break. You essentially are saying “using a service for it’s intended use is a red flag” and it’s stupid. Also the fact you assume he’s the one paying and not the both of them considering they are married and share assets kinda shows your bias here. Especially when the babysitter was already booked and now loses out on the money they would have likely taken time off to work for. All in all your opinion at its core causes a negative impact on everyone except the husband who gets absolutely no consequences and gets to enjoy his time at a party. Doesn’t that seem selfish to you? That him knowing his wife isn’t in a good place mentally yet decides to put the doe responsibility of three children on her while he fucks off somewhere else leaving her without any support?
Yes! Long video and kitty pics? Yes please
0:21 AWKWKSKSK
Story 1 , oh I'd apologize, I say sorry you're all A holes and leave the "gifts"
I'm autistic and I have never tried to commit fraud, guess I'm just an anomaly /j
My Dark Macadamia
1:42:01 RUN IP RUN
Why do i keep getting this fu©king video every time i press that fu©king next video button i cant take this anymore
Nah definitely Ah that one was.
Subscribed as soon as I saw kitties.
😻😻😻Thank you for the kitties in the last couple of videos❣️
You need to take a breath between stories. I keep getting lost
I’m gonna put this on to fall asleep, to tmr me I was at around 53:48 when I passed out lol
Love your cats... so cute 🥰
Yay kitty pics
What happened to Chico?
2h omg i have something to listen during work Xd
What beautiful cats!
Cancelling the babysitter should have been a joint decision between the husband and wife, NOT a unilateral decision where the wife has no say in the matter. So yes, cancelling the babysitter without discussing it with the wife beforehand is an AH move.
LETS GOOOOOO
❤ your 😺 pics❤ They're so cute.