Sometimes, I go to youtube just to watch people being happy about coming out. In the place I live, people hate homosexuality, using some most atrocious "arguments" against homosexuality. I am in fact one of those 20-30% people, who are not against homosexuality, and one of 1-2% people, who are not against homosexual people wedding or adoption. So I'm glad to see that there are gay-friendly environments. In my country, people actually end up attempting or succeeding suicide just because of their sexual orientation, which makes me mad and scared. I'm glad that not everybody lives on ignorant crappy hell land that I do.
I never made a blanket statement and said it was a non-issue. I clearly state "I don't know how the people in your life think, but coming out doesn't NECESSARILY have to be a big deal." I never stated that coming out is a non issue for everyone, just that at times, it can be
aw it's so thoughtful of your dad to ask you if you're being bullied or having any hard time at school. I wish my parents asked me that and talked to me more, but I plan on doing that with my kids.
Bravo for coming out. Brave, smart, and cute. Welcome to the world where there are LOTS just like you. I My self have housed many teens who received the worse side of coming out. That being the parents tossed them out on to the street. I clothed, fed, housed, educated them all for free and no strings attached. Now that I am getting too old to do that I hope there are others out there who will do that. Best wishes to you. And dont let the haters get you down. They will blast you, hate you, etc. But there are Many many more out there just like you. Be well and be healthy.
I am a gay identical twin who has a gay identical twin. We joined the Air Force together and after a couple years, we were discharged with about 40 other guys and girls for "homosexual activity" which the military described as going to a gay bar and associating with other "known" gay people. We were then forced to come out to our parents. They took it hard, but after a couple months we all actually grew a lot closer. My Father died a few years later and I learned more about him in those last few years than I had my whole life. He accepted our boyfriends like they were his kids as well. It was very emotional in the beginning and the time it took our parents to come to terms with it was rough. For my Father, my brother and I were the last men in our family to carry on the family name. By being gay and not having children, our family line ends with us. That seemed to be what upset my Father the most. I applaud you guys for doing this online and sharing with others. RUclips wasn't around when we came out but watching your video now brings me right back to that day and I was crying with you. It is hard hearing your parents tell gay jokes and say demeaning things toward gays and then have to turn around and tell them you are what they have spewed jokes and prejudice over for so many years. They are more worried about what the neighbors will think or how they could hide it from their friends and other family members. That all worked itself out with time and I believe both of our parents died being proud of who we were as people and not about our sexuality. btw, I wish I was as cute as you. I can't imagine anyone not liking you or wanting to be friends. .
Pano! This is by far one of my favorite videos that you've ever made. You are so yourself, you're so comfortable, and you're so likable. Thank you SO much for making this video, I was literally shocked when I saw the title because I knew how against it you were at first, but I am seriously SO glad you made it, Pano. I'm glad you had such a good coming out experience.
I knew I liked boys in a different way other boys liked boys when I was 6 years old, I didn't find out what gay meant till I was 8, when I read what it meant I said to myself that's me. I had to come out to my mom when I was 12 because she found me in bed with my first boyfriend...Naked both of us, talk about scared to death she cried and told me it will be alright, then she told my dad, talk about going ape shit he screamed he pointed his finger at me and said "You Are Not Gay" but I was gay, my dad said to me I never had anyone disappoint me like you have disappointed me, now you have to understand my dad was my hero I wanted to be just like him, when he told me I was his biggest disappointment I went to my room and cried for hours. Later that night my dad came in my room and told me he loved me, but he didn't understand why I was gay, I told him I didn't understand why I was gay. Me and my dad came to a livable agreement with one another remember I was only 12 he even let Denny my boyfriend come over now and then. I do think you are lucky Pano your parents was cool with your coming out, I feel lucky to, I knew my parents loved me, and as for me and my dad, it took some time and we became friends again.
Pano, you were so cute 10 years ago. And that hasn’t changed since then. You are so confident, humorous and interesting. I’m glad I have come across you and subscribed to your channel. You are amazing and an inspiration. Keep being yourself and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers
Actually I’ve been asked one day And I’ve been told “You better not be” As response, it was a complete denial So yeah, the subject is closed forever now Moral: Don’t deny when you are being asked
I love watching these coming out stories from RUclipsrs. These kind of videos helped me a lot with coming out, and i'm sure this will help a lot of other people that are thinking about it too. Thanks for sharing.
Hey Brother I really enjoyed your coming out video and you are so fortunate to have a group of friends and a family that are so open-minded and so loving towards you. I am glad at the end you added that don't come out unless you know you're safe because most coming out stories don't end like yours. But once again I'm glad everything worked out for you and I know it's been a long time ago but I just ran across it. Take care of yourself and I hope you're doing well
I'm glad you made this even though you didn't want to make some emotionally supportive video. My coming out was a lot like yours, just younger. No one cared -- no one had a problem with it, I was never bullied... whatevs. Your video is good though cause it shows that it doesn't HAVE to be some huge emotional hurricane that reconfigures your life forever. There aren't enough people out there who will say "yeah, I came out and nothing really changed."
Hi, I wanted to thank you for posting your video. It's nice to get a variety of different coming out stories. Your response years ago will still help those that feel trapped and alone. Thanks....
You and I have a very similar mentality. I knew around 6th grade, and I never really felt the necessity to speak on it because it didn't really matter. It still doesn't.
Pano: I really liked the way you thanked your parents in another vid & that you have some perspective that not all parents are as grounded about things like this. Clearly sound values, discipline, & consistency from them has made you who you are today more or less (all A's or nothing) I can only hope you carry on with making yourself the best you can be and having a positive impact on those around you. It will be interesting to see what kind of guy can you entertained in a relationship.
it's so nice to hear that more and more people don't care about their friends and loved ones being honest about who they are. it shows that society is making progress and that it does get better over time. it's great for all those out there who may not be in the same position as you were to hear these positive stories. and if they need more help, they can reach out to The Trevor Project 24-hour help lines. thanks for sharing your ever so average coming out story. hope this will be the norm soon.
EVEN WHEN YOU'RE BEING SERIOUS AND NERVOUS YOU'RE STILL ADORABLE. HOW. STAHP. FORGIVE THE AGGRESIVE APPEARANCE OF MY TONE, I JUST REALLY LOVE CAPS LOCK. I'M JUST A REALLY EXCITED PERSON. okay. okay, I'm good.
Two of my closest friends recently came out to me and a small group of other friends at a party. We'd always assumed that guy was gay, just by the way he speaks, acts etc.. I love him either way. But the girl, nobody really expected her to be homosexual, obviously it wasn't a problem with us, but she'd attempted to come out before by telling everyone she liked my best friend. She got bullied, kicked, punched and more by other students. And even accused of sexual harassment by some of the popular girls who didn't want to change by her in PE. They're both terrified to come out to their mum's as they don't agree with being homosexual and the fear that they might be kicked out from their home. They would go and live with their Dad's if so, but clearly they don't want to be kicked out. I feel so sorry for them both as they're wonderful people who are scared to be themselves and just scream from the rooftops that they're gay in case they get picked on and kicked out of their homes. I wish people were more accepting, considering it's 2013 now, I mean Jesus Christ, not everyone is going to be straight. I have at least 20 friends with different sexualites, and I don't look at them any different to my straight friends.
br ha It's is clear when you asked "Different sexualities...what are you talking about?" you don't know anything about human sexuality.Being gay is not a choice and just because it's not not normal doesn't automatically mean that it's "wrong",just different.Your deity and religion isn't the law of the land or anything that is scientifically based upon,it's just a belief,So your "God" doesn't apply to everyone."...to tell their friends the truth" Secondly truth is whatever you see to be true,so it's biased,not factual.Also are you trying to justify her being bullied because of her sexuality?
br ha Yoooou´re so fucked up. People have to "come out" because of people like YOU. People who are intolerant, people who are assholes, people who don´t care for others and their human rights (yes HUMAN RIGHTS), people who are homophobic assholes. There is NOTHING wrong about being gay/bisexual/pansexual/demisexual/...
You're so lucky to have friends and family that love and support you no matter what. I know when I come out its not gonna be as easy and simple as your coming out story.
It feels like people forced you to tell your coming out story but I'm glad you did. It is more interesting and unique than you think. I liked how impulsive you were to blurt it out whenever asked and your retreat back in once the reality of it hit you. Great 'feel good' story. Thanks for sharing.
Aw this is awesome! I know you didn't really want to make this, but I think it is going to help A LOT of people! I also think the message is perfect! You don't have to make coming out a big deal if you don't want too! :)
wow i'm so happy for you! i wish things were that good for me too and for everyone else going through the same shit..but we're gonna get through it and we're gonna be happy! =D
I'm happy you had such a positive experience. Unfortunately for me it was not so easy and it's still not. It'll be 2 years this July and my father and I still haven't addressed it. My mother has come around more or less though she still has bad days. They told me I broke their heart when I first came out. I think it's good for people to see positive stories but I think it can sometimes make the person coming out naive to their own situation which can make the process worse.
Not everyone grows up in such a nuturing and loving atmosphere as you did, so it may not be as easy or everyone else to come out as you experienced. But I loved your story, and really enjoy your vids in general. You are very good looking-- get used to it. And don't let it go to your head because that ruins it 100%. :)
you know pano I don't wanna say you're "lucky" but you kinda. times are hella different now and it's a little easier. but you are an awesome kid and I enjoy watchin your vids. you make me smile. hey all the best to you sir. yea and I came at a young too, kinda. I was 16 and I'm 26 now so 10 years ago. alright sir enjoy college!
I'm glad you posted this Pano. I'm still pretty secretive about my sexual identity. Some of my close friends know that I'm bi, but it was never really a big issue to me. If I'm into someone then I just am. Plumbing was never a concern for me, and it's way more attractive if I have an emotional/intellectual attraction to someone. Of course, physical attraction is important as well, but it's not the primary characteristic I focus on. I'm a lot like you in that I tend to focus more on myself then on seeking out relationships. I had my first boyfriend when I was well into college, maybe my 3rd year? I have sought to find peace in myself and in the things that occupy my daily life, and I have been very successful. Yet, now I feel as if I'm missing something in my life. I work in a male-dominated field, and so I have an image I have to maintain. It's never really been an issue for me until now. If I lose that dominant image and people begin to view me as effeminate, I feel like I will be ostracized and that many people will not respect me, nor the position I have striven so hard to attain. I love my job, it's my passion in life. And yet, I feel as if my "other life" is being neglected, that I might have more luck in the dating world if I were more open about my sexual self. I've been so effective about shielding myself for so long, it's hard for me to even think about how I would go about opening myself up. I am a very private person, and I rarely if ever talk about my love life to anyone. I don't even know why I typed all of this, and no one is probably even going to read this, but it feels nice to write all of it out anyway. I watched your video on facebook poking and I guess you galvanized me to release some thoughts that have been floating around in my mind for some time. I think you're pretty cute too so that might have something to do with it. ;) Any thoughts or advice you have would be much appreciated. You seem like a really sweet guy and I'd like to have you opinion.
Pano, I'm so glad you had such a positive experience with coming out! Granted, like "flarles" above, I agree with him when he says how much you perceive coming out as being a non-issue. It's not a non-issue for lots of young, scared people unsure what their next step is. I guess I'm considered "old" by your standards (47) but I came out to my whole family at 17 to ridicule and intolerance, which in the end made me a lot stronger. I sincerely wish everyone could have your good fortune.
To be completely honest, these are the most important coming out videos online - the boring uninteresting ones where everyone accepts it and it's not at all a big deal to anyone.
OMG!!! First of all you're so cute and funny and I love your family and friends because they accept you for who you are. Just keep going and please don't stop doing videos you're awesome!!!! :) Btw I love your "coming out story"
You are an inspiring young man with a beautiful smile and an incredible personality. Please keep making your videos. I'm sure that your videos have helped many LGBTQ folks of all ages.
Wow-you handled that very well Pano-on your own terms in your own time. Want to email you my story-I had all these preconceived ideas that had good motives, but turned out to be a disaster. Just started reading your blogs and think you are one great guy. Adorable as well (wink-wink!) Happy holidays!
You're coming out was a dream. Great best friend and great parents. Wish everyone could have this. I think it helps that you had confidence in yourself. People will follow anyone who shows confidence in the direction.
You're the luckiest person. I've not issues for myself for a while now however when I told my parents it's been rough-ish. My extended family does NOT know mainly because I know it would make my parents uncomfortable. MY BROTHER DOES'T EVEN KNOW because of them. That's a great story from a world too distant to most. Thanks for sharing and please do more serious videos (regardless of the topic, clearly being gay is not all of you).
Thanks for the video. That was a nice coming out of the closet story. Looking at the background of your video I can see you still have a lot of "Toys" and "Games" in your closet...
It's not a big deal for you that didn't felt pain or something like that and didn't had someone to hate you. You can say nothing about coming out because you didn't gone through tough things and IS tough for most part of people.
I am 19. I am from Mexico; and in the place where I live the homosexuality is so criticized; so, I feel so alone because I don't have any friend to tell that I'm gay. My parents and while family always show their hatred for homosexuals in the news or TV programmes and I don't want to be alone without my family. It's so hard and I don't know what to do now. But, I fell that it takes better and that one day, the young girls and boys will can be themselves, without fear or shame. Thanks.
feel the same way. I'm also from mexico and although my family is not against gays they often make jokes about them and Idk how I'm going to tell them all ik is that I'm not ready
I just wanna fold stuff and close a few drawers.
God, so do I.
Lmao - agree! Let me helping you, child.
@@Nick1979BN 😂😂😂
Lol
@@Nick1979BN it took me too long to get the joke
He's cute as hell lol
jesse wealthington lol he is super cute
Antonio Rodriguez there are way cuter gays he is alright ..
i didnt think hell was cute baby burn ! haha
iaint sorry you sound jealous lmao
Sometimes, I go to youtube just to watch people being happy about coming out. In the place I live, people hate homosexuality, using some most atrocious "arguments" against homosexuality. I am in fact one of those 20-30% people, who are not against homosexuality, and one of 1-2% people, who are not against homosexual people wedding or adoption. So I'm glad to see that there are gay-friendly environments. In my country, people actually end up attempting or succeeding suicide just because of their sexual orientation, which makes me mad and scared.
I'm glad that not everybody lives on ignorant crappy hell land that I do.
Jesus, where do you live?
Jyl Stewart It sounds similar to how people feel about gays in Russia.
Things can change babe. Not long ago it was that way everywhere. Be the change the world needs
He got lucky i got kicked out when i came out at 17
OMFG I'm so sorry who kicked u out your parents??? They aren't worth anything at all fuck them CUT THEM OFF and find someone you love
:) thanks
+westtell4 are you serious ? :o
yep
westtell4 i pity you , it must have been so hard for you :O congratulations for being such a strong person ! where are u from btw
I never made a blanket statement and said it was a non-issue. I clearly state "I don't know how the people in your life think, but coming out doesn't NECESSARILY have to be a big deal." I never stated that coming out is a non issue for everyone, just that at times, it can be
not to distract from the importance of your coming out story, but...
DID YOU GET TO GO TO SKATEBOARDING CAMP??? 🖤🛹
@@treebles the thing we all needed to know
aw it's so thoughtful of your dad to ask you if you're being bullied or having any hard time at school. I wish my parents asked me that and talked to me more, but I plan on doing that with my kids.
Bravo for coming out. Brave, smart, and cute. Welcome to the world where there are LOTS just like you. I My self have housed many teens who received the worse side of coming out. That being the parents tossed them out on to the street. I clothed, fed, housed, educated them all for free and no strings attached. Now that I am getting too old to do that I hope there are others out there who will do that. Best wishes to you. And dont let the haters get you down. They will blast you, hate you, etc. But there are Many many more out there just like you. Be well and be healthy.
Thank you so much. You’re such a wonderful human being and I hope you’re happy wherever you are.
Robert Hersh-geer but the world did not like Jesus at all
I am a gay identical twin who has a gay identical twin. We joined the Air Force together and after a couple years, we were discharged with about 40 other guys and girls for "homosexual activity" which the military described as going to a gay bar and associating with other "known" gay people. We were then forced to come out to our parents. They took it hard, but after a couple months we all actually grew a lot closer. My Father died a few years later and I learned more about him in those last few years than I had my whole life. He accepted our boyfriends like they were his kids as well. It was very emotional in the beginning and the time it took our parents to come to terms with it was rough. For my Father, my brother and I were the last men in our family to carry on the family name. By being gay and not having children, our family line ends with us. That seemed to be what upset my Father the most. I applaud you guys for doing this online and sharing with others. RUclips wasn't around when we came out but watching your video now brings me right back to that day and I was crying with you. It is hard hearing your parents tell gay jokes and say demeaning things toward gays and then have to turn around and tell them you are what they have spewed jokes and prejudice over for so many years. They are more worried about what the neighbors will think or how they could hide it from their friends and other family members. That all worked itself out with time and I believe both of our parents died being proud of who we were as people and not about our sexuality. btw, I wish I was as cute as you. I can't imagine anyone not liking you or wanting to be friends. .
beautifully said and im sorry u had to experience things that way but also glad things worked out for you...much love!
Am I the only one who really wants to know if they let you go to skateboard camp?
Pano! This is by far one of my favorite videos that you've ever made. You are so yourself, you're so comfortable, and you're so likable. Thank you SO much for making this video, I was literally shocked when I saw the title because I knew how against it you were at first, but I am seriously SO glad you made it, Pano. I'm glad you had such a good coming out experience.
You are so adorable! I cant get over this!
I knew I liked boys in a different way other boys liked boys when I was 6 years old, I didn't find out what gay meant till I was 8, when I read what it meant I said to myself that's me. I had to come out to my mom when I was 12 because she found me in bed with my first boyfriend...Naked both of us, talk about scared to death she cried and told me it will be alright, then she told my dad, talk about going ape shit he screamed he pointed his finger at me and said "You Are Not Gay" but I was gay, my dad said to me I never had anyone disappoint me like you have disappointed me, now you have to understand my dad was my hero I wanted to be just like him, when he told me I was his biggest disappointment I went to my room and cried for hours. Later that night my dad came in my room and told me he loved me, but he didn't understand why I was gay, I told him I didn't understand why I was gay. Me and my dad came to a livable agreement with one another remember I was only 12 he even let Denny my boyfriend come over now and then. I do think you are lucky Pano your parents was cool with your coming out, I feel lucky to, I knew my parents loved me, and as for me and my dad, it took some time and we became friends again.
sad, i bet you were crushed.
"hahhaha just kidding not gay"
Pano, you were so cute 10 years ago. And that hasn’t changed since then. You are so confident, humorous and interesting. I’m glad I have come across you and subscribed to your channel. You are amazing and an inspiration. Keep being yourself and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers
This is by far my favorite video of yours! Happy for you Pano :)
I wish my parents would just ask me...
Same here:( I'm so scared to tell them
We got this ... As long as we know it. Own it and love ourselves.
Actually
I’ve been asked one day
And I’ve been told “You better not be”
As response, it was a complete denial
So yeah, the subject is closed forever now
Moral: Don’t deny when you are being asked
You actually have to plan a coming-out hahaha
I don't understand why some people down here disapprove of you. You are so awesome
you are so lucky to have things go so well for you. Your of the few that come out that had everything turn out so good good for you!!!
I love watching these coming out stories from RUclipsrs. These kind of videos helped me a lot with coming out, and i'm sure this will help a lot of other people that are thinking about it too. Thanks for sharing.
you are a living doll !
Hey Brother I really enjoyed your coming out video and you are so fortunate to have a group of friends and a family that are so open-minded and so loving towards you. I am glad at the end you added that don't come out unless you know you're safe because most coming out stories don't end like yours. But once again I'm glad everything worked out for you and I know it's been a long time ago but I just ran across it. Take care of yourself and I hope you're doing well
You're a very fortunate man to have a family that is so incredibly supportive. Thanks for sharing and posting
I love stories like this, where everyone still cares about you and there's no drama.
you have such a great energy about you. your smile is so adorable too. *hugs pano* xxx
I'm glad you made this even though you didn't want to make some emotionally supportive video. My coming out was a lot like yours, just younger. No one cared -- no one had a problem with it, I was never bullied... whatevs. Your video is good though cause it shows that it doesn't HAVE to be some huge emotional hurricane that reconfigures your life forever. There aren't enough people out there who will say "yeah, I came out and nothing really changed."
My coming-out story is filled with drama, glad to see the world is changing, and that you had an easy time of it!!!
Your video has undoubtedly helped more people than you'll ever know. Good for you!!
I know it can be tough opening up about your personal life on RUclips, so I really respect you for posting this. This is an excellent video :)
Your story is so amazing and I can't stop watching it!
Hi,
I wanted to thank you for posting your video. It's nice to get a variety of different coming out stories. Your response years ago will still help those that feel trapped and alone.
Thanks....
You and I have a very similar mentality. I knew around 6th grade, and I never really felt the necessity to speak on it because it didn't really matter. It still doesn't.
I find you like an artist called David Arhculeta
Pano: I really liked the way you thanked your parents in another vid & that you have some perspective that not all parents are as grounded about things like this. Clearly sound values, discipline, & consistency from them has made you who you are today more or less (all A's or nothing) I can only hope you carry on with making yourself the best you can be and having a positive impact on those around you. It will be interesting to see what kind of guy can you entertained in a relationship.
I'm loving that smile!
You so lucky to have such amazing people around you!!!
You rock Pano I hope you live the life you live full of happiness and love
it's so nice to hear that more and more people don't care about their friends and loved ones being honest about who they are. it shows that society is making progress and that it does get better over time. it's great for all those out there who may not be in the same position as you were to hear these positive stories. and if they need more help, they can reach out to The Trevor Project 24-hour help lines. thanks for sharing your ever so average coming out story. hope this will be the norm soon.
awes your so adorable im happy everything worked out for you :)
EVEN WHEN YOU'RE BEING SERIOUS AND NERVOUS YOU'RE STILL ADORABLE. HOW. STAHP. FORGIVE THE AGGRESIVE APPEARANCE OF MY TONE, I JUST REALLY LOVE CAPS LOCK. I'M JUST A REALLY EXCITED PERSON. okay. okay, I'm good.
Thanks for doing this, Pano. I'm glad it was a successful experience for you.
thanks for sharing your story Pano :) You have really supportive friends, and an amazing family
hey pano, I love you and thanks for the video!
Two of my closest friends recently came out to me and a small group of other friends at a party. We'd always assumed that guy was gay, just by the way he speaks, acts etc.. I love him either way.
But the girl, nobody really expected her to be homosexual, obviously it wasn't a problem with us, but she'd attempted to come out before by telling everyone she liked my best friend. She got bullied, kicked, punched and more by other students. And even accused of sexual harassment by some of the popular girls who didn't want to change by her in PE.
They're both terrified to come out to their mum's as they don't agree with being homosexual and the fear that they might be kicked out from their home. They would go and live with their Dad's if so, but clearly they don't want to be kicked out.
I feel so sorry for them both as they're wonderful people who are scared to be themselves and just scream from the rooftops that they're gay in case they get picked on and kicked out of their homes.
I wish people were more accepting, considering it's 2013 now, I mean Jesus Christ, not everyone is going to be straight.
I have at least 20 friends with different sexualites, and I don't look at them any different to my straight friends.
br ha It's is clear when you asked "Different sexualities...what are you talking about?" you don't know anything about human sexuality.Being gay is not a choice and just because it's not not normal doesn't automatically mean that it's "wrong",just different.Your deity and religion isn't the law of the land or anything that is scientifically based upon,it's just a belief,So your "God" doesn't apply to everyone."...to tell their friends the truth" Secondly truth is whatever you see to be true,so it's biased,not factual.Also are you trying to justify her being bullied because of her sexuality?
br ha Yoooou´re so fucked up. People have to "come out" because of people like YOU. People who are intolerant, people who are assholes, people who don´t care for others and their human rights (yes HUMAN RIGHTS), people who are homophobic assholes. There is NOTHING wrong about being gay/bisexual/pansexual/demisexual/...
Total sincerity. Love it!
way to go Pano..! enjoy your beautiful life...!
but.. did you get to go to skateboard camp?
yup, and for three consecutive summers after that haha
Good Lord, you're so pretty.
You're so lucky to have friends and family that love and support you no matter what. I know when I come out its not gonna be as easy and simple as your coming out story.
It feels like people forced you to tell your coming out story but I'm glad you did. It is more interesting and unique than you think. I liked how impulsive you were to blurt it out whenever asked and your retreat back in once the reality of it hit you. Great 'feel good' story. Thanks for sharing.
Aw this is awesome! I know you didn't really want to make this, but I think it is going to help A LOT of people! I also think the message is perfect! You don't have to make coming out a big deal if you don't want too! :)
Live your life to the fullest!! Congrats on graduation!!!
Love you Pano :)
Holy shit I really was surprised at this! But your story's pretty sweet. Good for you! :)
The world is changing and you are helping it change for the better!
Nice story. Could have done with some explosions but that's just me.Glad to hear it all worked out. Have a happy life and tidy your room.
Those eyes are soooooo beautiful...
I still can't believe I saw you at Pride! It totally made my day. I thought you lived in Canada? Keep making Videos Pano!
I would love to be one of your friends, Pano!!! You look like an amazing person!! Love your videos
wow i'm so happy for you! i wish things were that good for me too and for everyone else going through the same shit..but we're gonna get through it and we're gonna be happy! =D
I'm happy you had such a positive experience. Unfortunately for me it was not so easy and it's still not. It'll be 2 years this July and my father and I still haven't addressed it. My mother has come around more or less though she still has bad days. They told me I broke their heart when I first came out. I think it's good for people to see positive stories but I think it can sometimes make the person coming out naive to their own situation which can make the process worse.
Im a straight man i do not care you are gay black or purple you seem like a awesome cool dude to be around
@@bolly384 😆
I came out to my class through an essay speech today. I love coming out to new people most liberating feeling ever!!!!
YOU GOT ME HEHEHEHE HAPPY ALMOST JUNE FOOLS
You have a wonderful family and group of friends. I wish it were the same when I was your age. Great coming out story!
this made me smile :) even though ive heard this story before
Not everyone grows up in such a nuturing and loving atmosphere as you did, so it may not be as easy or everyone else to come out as you experienced. But I loved your story, and really enjoy your vids in general. You are very good looking-- get used to it. And don't let it go to your head because that ruins it 100%. :)
you know pano I don't wanna say you're "lucky" but you kinda. times are hella different now and it's a little easier. but you are an awesome kid and I enjoy watchin your vids. you make me smile. hey all the best to you sir. yea and I came at a young too, kinda. I was 16 and I'm 26 now so 10 years ago. alright sir enjoy college!
I'm glad you posted this Pano. I'm still pretty secretive about my sexual identity. Some of my close friends know that I'm bi, but it was never really a big issue to me. If I'm into someone then I just am. Plumbing was never a concern for me, and it's way more attractive if I have an emotional/intellectual attraction to someone. Of course, physical attraction is important as well, but it's not the primary characteristic I focus on. I'm a lot like you in that I tend to focus more on myself then on seeking out relationships. I had my first boyfriend when I was well into college, maybe my 3rd year? I have sought to find peace in myself and in the things that occupy my daily life, and I have been very successful. Yet, now I feel as if I'm missing something in my life.
I work in a male-dominated field, and so I have an image I have to maintain.
It's never really been an issue for me until now. If I lose that dominant image and people begin to view me as effeminate, I feel like I will be ostracized and that many people will not respect me, nor the position I have striven so hard to attain. I love my job, it's my passion in life. And yet, I feel as if my "other life" is being neglected, that I might have more luck in the dating world if I were more open about my sexual self. I've been so effective about shielding myself for so long, it's hard for me to even think about how I would go about opening myself up.
I am a very private person, and I rarely if ever talk about my love life to anyone. I don't even know why I typed all of this, and no one is probably even going to read this, but it feels nice to write all of it out anyway. I watched your video on facebook poking and I guess you galvanized me to release some thoughts that have been floating around in my mind for some time. I think you're pretty cute too so that might have something to do with it. ;)
Any thoughts or advice you have would be much appreciated. You seem like a really sweet guy and I'd like to have you opinion.
Pano, I'm so glad you had such a positive experience with coming out! Granted, like "flarles" above, I agree with him when he says how much you perceive coming out as being a non-issue. It's not a non-issue for lots of young, scared people unsure what their next step is. I guess I'm considered "old" by your standards (47) but I came out to my whole family at 17 to ridicule and intolerance, which in the end made me a lot stronger. I sincerely wish everyone could have your good fortune.
You look handsome man! Happy you come out 🌈🌈👍👍👍💪💪💪🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊💗💗💗💗🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
that smileee
To be completely honest, these are the most important coming out videos online - the boring uninteresting ones where everyone accepts it and it's not at all a big deal to anyone.
Awwww!!! Little Pano!!!!!
Pano. Yours is a great story. You have to be a cool guy. Hugs to you, and stay as sweet as you look.
OMG!!! First of all you're so cute and funny and I love your family and friends because they accept you for who you are. Just keep going and please don't stop doing videos you're awesome!!!! :) Btw I love your "coming out story"
I love this video. Thanks for taking the time to do this. We are so lucky to have you lol
This is the most times I've heard "didn't give a shit" in one sitting XD
THIS WAS SO BEAUTIFUL! c':
You are an inspiring young man with a beautiful smile and an incredible personality. Please keep making your videos. I'm sure that your videos have helped many LGBTQ folks of all ages.
Wow-you handled that very well Pano-on your own terms in your own time. Want to email you my story-I had all these preconceived ideas that had good motives, but turned out to be a disaster. Just started reading your blogs and think you are one great guy. Adorable as well (wink-wink!) Happy holidays!
You're coming out was a dream. Great best friend and great parents. Wish everyone could have this. I think it helps that you had confidence in yourself. People will follow anyone who shows confidence in the direction.
Awesome that everyone reacted well to you coming out. I'm planning to do it soon so I hope I have about the same reactions like you had :)
Aaaaaaaah, this is great. I luv u.
It was very interesting to hear your story. Wishing you the greatest of success in your life,
Thank your wonderful parents!
Good for you dude. :) It takes a lot to come out.
Aww omg, I love your coming out story! :D Love perfect stories like yours! You have awesome parents! Lucky you! x)
You're the luckiest person. I've not issues for myself for a while now however when I told my parents it's been rough-ish. My extended family does NOT know mainly because I know it would make my parents uncomfortable. MY BROTHER DOES'T EVEN KNOW because of them. That's a great story from a world too distant to most. Thanks for sharing and please do more serious videos (regardless of the topic, clearly being gay is not all of you).
Thanks for the video. That was a nice coming out of the closet story. Looking at the background of your video I can see you still have a lot of "Toys" and "Games" in your closet...
I love that you made this video in front of a closet!
i jumped, with the 'aha!' moment. hahaha i knew when i was 6. sending you good energy.
It's not a big deal for you that didn't felt pain or something like that and didn't had someone to hate you. You can say nothing about coming out because you didn't gone through tough things and IS tough for most part of people.
Good video sir. I know people do need positive stories like yours to help them to cope with being themselves which this video speaks volumes to that.
Thanks for sharing your story!
AW you're so sweet! And adorable 3
Your smile is awesome
YES. and I went for three consecutive years after that
awwww your so cute Pano!
I am 19. I am from Mexico; and in the place where I live the homosexuality is so criticized; so, I feel so alone because I don't have any friend to tell that I'm gay. My parents and while family always show their hatred for homosexuals in the news or TV programmes and I don't want to be alone without my family.
It's so hard and I don't know what to do now. But, I fell that it takes better and that one day, the young girls and boys will can be themselves, without fear or shame. Thanks.
feel the same way. I'm also from mexico and although my family is not against gays they often make jokes about them and Idk how I'm going to tell them all ik is that I'm not ready
+GAMEplayer355 si, y ellos no san que te dañas con eso comentarios. si, también me pasa.
+Roberto Peace haha yeah but be strong everything will eventually come out
+GAMEplayer355 thanks
+Roberto Peace Sorry that things are so tough. Don't give up, someone out there is willing to listen to you.