5 Ways Your Daily Outfit Choices *CHANGE* Your Future Life
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- Опубликовано: 1 янв 2022
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Today I'm sharing why you should DRESS FOR THE LIFE YOU WANT, and 5 ways your daily outfit choices shape your FUTURE!
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1:02 // Your Daily Outfits determine: who you attract or offend in your life
4:17 // Your Daily Outfits determine: how seriously you take yourself
7:04 // Your Daily Outfits determine: how you will carry yourself
9:23 // Your Daily Outfits determine: how you envision your future lifestyle to be
10:54 // Your Daily Outfits determine: what you want to remember about your past
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At the start of the pandemic, teachers had to go remote. I loved that I did not have to get ready or commute every morning. My day began at 7:30 and never really ended since we were providing emotional support from kids. At the beginning,I would shower and that was it. I would throw on a tee and my bottoms were stretchy pants. I got through my day, but I was so depressed. I had a student who could not get out of bed, so I promised to send her a selfie everyday of me dressed and even if she could not come to class she would send me a selfie of herself dressed. Everyday I got up and started to wear my dresses. I love dresses but found them hard to wear to teach. We teachers have no control over the temperature in our rooms. But at home I had control and I got into the new freedom of dressing for my own joy. I had started it for my student but it really made me more present while teaching remotely. My students began to look forward to my outfits. I inspired a couple to get out of their bed and even show up to remote class. I was also more productive. It’s true that getting ready for yourself is an act of self care. I experimented with bold lips and fun earrings. My student never made it to class but I got her to get dressed on most days.
loved reading this, you are such an inspiration ❤️
That was so touching- thanks for sharing!
This is beautiful, thanks for sharing❤
You are a great teacher 👍🏼🌟
This touched me deeply! You're amazing
"You're allowed to take up space" 🥺 This really struck a cord with me and made me tear up. In wanting to be seen as low maintenance I have really been sending a message that I am not valuable and unworthy of taking up space. I want to change that this year. I love your videos and your style. Thank you for this message it helped me see myself from a different perspective.💙
This is a vital belief that unfortunately fashion designers and labels refute....
Grown women are influenced to shrink and diminish into size 0, 00 or small and extra small.
I hope clothing brands come out with more adaptable / accessible items or lines so those who are disabled or have a medical condition (like a need for a port) can have more options than the few available.
@@emilyrose728 That’s so awesome! I would love to read that.
@Kendra Clendineng There's a Singaporean fashion label called Will & Well that aims to improve lives through their accessible clothing. You can take a look at their website or instagram :)
Tommy Hilfiger has a line like this. I hope this helps.
Louder for the people in the back 🙌🏻
I do face lots of struggle for my shoe...as I have medical condition
As a women of 46, life experience has taught me exactly what Bethany is sharing. The way you dress can make or break you. Its just the way it is in the world.
When you said “you’re allowed to take up space” it stopped me in my tracks. I needed to hear that and more importantly, to remember it. Thank you.
Absolutely. I always try to dress elevated no matter where i go. It helps me try to be the best me. My problem is the outfits aren't always the most comfortable so I end up wearing pjs until i go somewhere lol
It’s tricky
SAME sis
There's a quote by Coco Channel that i think applies:
"Luxury must be comfortable; otherwise it is not luxury."
my solution is to get luxury pajamas. most people who have seen me in them (family, friends at sleepovers) haven’t thought they were pajamas until i tell them.
i don’t really leave the house in them, but it makes me feel better about wearing them until i go somewhere haha
@@tiredprincess451 could you please share the link or brand which you like? I have been on a hunt for few days but in vain. Thanks !!! ❤️
What a lovely video! Thank you for articulating why appearance is important. I’ve often been frustrated by the mind set of people who downplay dressing well. Years ago I was working as a tutor. One of the other tutors came and asked me to help her go shopping as she had no idea what to wear. She was a beautiful woman but dressed in a very unbecoming way. We found some beautiful things for her, and it changed her life. The children totally changed their reactions to her. It was eye opening for both her and I. Don’t underestimate the effect you create on others, good or bad. Clothes can make a huge difference.
We live in a society where if you don’t wear yoga pants or jeans and a t shirt to the grocery store you look like you’re trying too hard. It’s even worse among moms at the playground, the pressure to be extremely casual and basic. There’s nothing wrong with athletic clothing but I feel my loveliest in a dress or skirt and I feel self conscious in exercise clothing like everyone can see my goodies lol so this video helped me feel more confident in my chosen style and to just go for it 💜 I love you Bethany!
‘You are allowed to take up space’ I loved that
I LOVED this video! ♥️ I’m 28 and I feel like I still dress as I did when I was 24. I always feel like my life hasn’t progressed much and now it makes sense. My style hasn’t changed therefore I feel like my life hasn’t changed. I literally have things from when I was 22! So glad I found your channel.
I’ve been feeling this a lot lately; clothing as an extension of my identity and self. I love how you pulled these amazing quotes that bring legitimacy to and materialize exactly how I’ve been feeling for a while~ thank u Bethany
This was very informative without being judgemental. More curiosity in the psychology, than set rules. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this video! I begin my days working out, taking a shower and dressing up nicely and yes... my mood changes immediately! Still, I'd always recommend dressing up chic and comfortable as much as possible when you need to be productive. I hate when I wear tight clothes or "bad" fabrics and I'm sitting at my desk thinking how uncomfortable I'm feeling. 😅
I agree 100%
This really put in words so many thoughts I have but have never been able to articulate. So thank you! I’m definitely watching it at least once more. And sharing with those in my life who have the same love for fashion that I do.
So so good 😊
This honestly means so much! Thank you, friend 🤗
I believe that I wouldn't be the first nor the last to say that your voice is sooooo soothing, addicting, and calming 🥰🥰.
That’s totally correct!
I feel like a lot of people use this logic to try to convince everyone to dress more classy/elegant when in reality that doesn’t make everyone happy. I like to be a bit outlandish in my style and I feel like people try to tell me that reflects poorly on me but I don’t care. I know what I like and if it’s a hat shaped like a cloud instead of a pair of black dress pants and a grey sweater it will be fine. I still have the ability to be professional and capable.
I enjoy each and every video of yours. But this one, by far fabulous and the most inspiring❤❤❤❤
I completely agree with the points made in this video; I love fashion so I get it. I wish more people did though- a lot of women don't know how to dress well. I don't have any "fashiony" friends and I wish I did
Brilliant presentation, Bethany! The quotes you've chosen to share and discuss validate the focus on dressing how and who you need and/or want to be, i.e., to guide and frame the outward image and messages you're sending to family, friends, self, colleagues and, of course, strangers. Thank you!!! Do I want more? Yes, please. Here's wishing you a happy, healthy and successful 2022!!!
Love the honesty in the video… all with the aim to teach ladies whom you don’t know ❤
God bless you 😘
Love from India
YOU ARE JUST AMAZING. I USED TO DRESS UP VERY BADLY. PEOPLE USED TO MAKE FUN OF MY DRESSING SENSE. BUT, NOW AFTER WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS I HAVE IMPROVED A LOT AND I WILL KEEP IMPROVING MYSELF. NOW EVERYONE LOVES THE WAY I DRESS FOR EVERYDAY, EVEN SOMETIMES TRY TO COPY MY DRESSING. THANKS TO YOU.
So happy for you, Jesmina!
I love this idea of bringing memories into your future with fashion. I see this a lot with wedding attire but it makes sense to bring those special moments into your everyday life. Wonderful!
I really believe that our cloth does influence our way of having day.
I took the master classes and I was happy to finally have more clarity. Before I used to feel a bit of a mess, I believe mainly because I found out I am triádic. Now, I know much better how to manage who I am, who I need to be, and express myself with more confidence. Thanks Dearly Bethany!
Love this, Cintia! So happy the course gave you more clarity on your style journey! Congrats! 💕
So modest and descent dear Bethany I really love ur fashion.
Have a great year ahead Bethany thank you so much for helping me this past year 💓 you made me feel more confident and that was a great feeling ❤️
Thanks for sharing that with me, it means the world and I’m so happy for your success with confidence!
2 years later and your videos are still my favourite. You have definitely helped me be more intentional with my style choices and walk into a new and more confident version of myself. Thank you for all the help and the lovely and genuine way in which you do it.
This means the world, Fran! Seriously, I can't thank you enough and I'm so happy for your style wins 💕🤗
Thank you, Bethany. As always, you offer practical fashion advice!
I’ve decided to make a career change this year and hadn’t even considered how clothes play into that. Thanks for making me think!
Congrats on the new chapter, friend!
Thank you so much for this video. This is so well thought out and shows how much maturity with your style and self-expression. You definitely inspired me to take myself and fashion more seriously and leave behind what people might think or say about me. Please do more videos like this ✨
Thank you for helping me this year. I am really more intentional about my style. I have also rid myself of clothing that no longer suits me. I am getting there! Happy New Year and thank you!
Me too! Well said Maura
Happy new year, Maura! Love this! xx
woow, this is by far the best and the most inspiring and awakening video of yours "for me". I appreciate your precious time and precious effort. Please, keep doing these kind of videos. I'm looking forward to them 🥰🥰😍😍
Thank you for this! I am currently have this in mind and then I saw your video. ❤️ Perfect for a new year!
Reminds me that this interchange of language is a lot like being an actress, which is definate Art! Owning the pieces that you wear will ultimately transform your life... ♥️
This video feels very spiritual to me, recently purchased a red knitted wool quarter zip and I fell harder in love than I thought I would, when I opened the package and put it in it felt like my inner child was uplifted, for some reason it reminds me of Winnie the Pooh and I was raised on winnie as a young girl, it feels nostalgic, comforting and reminds me of my grandfather.
Can’t wait to see my closet evolve over the years
Thank you for this eye opening perspective especially about how clothing manages your mood. I definitely saw this connection with my work space as well, if it's organized and aesthetically pleasing, I feel like I do my best work, vs when it's cluttered.
So happy it was helpful, Rena! 100% agree on a tidy and beautiful work space 🙌
Happy New Year Bethany! I’ve been thinking about all these themes so much currently as a new mom who’s also breastfeeding. My body’s changed and my needs are suddenly different. I know for sure if I don’t change out of my pjs in the morning I’ll never leave the house with baby. Merging my new and old life. Clothes really have impact.
Congrats Mullica! So happy for you and your new little one 🤗💕
I agree with all you've said here. To some people, if you're into fashion you are superficial, self-absorbed and ostentatious, which is unfortunate because this is far from reality. I have been working as a nurse for more than a decade which means I am in scrubs day in and day out. Recently, I got a new job in clinical research and will be starting in February. This would mean office attire and I felt lost! I believe I have always dressed relatively well since I was young, though. I was one who did not want to just put on something and dress like everyone else in the street. But I felt I lost that since I started working as a nurse. I've just recently been watching youtube vids to search for clothes I need to buy. I am so glad I have stumbled upon your channel! You've helped me rediscover myself, Bethany. Thank you for being a big part of my 2022. Happy new year to you! ♥
Oh thank you lovely! And thanks for telling me your background and what style has meant to you ❤️✨
Love this video so much! Thank you, Bethany! I cant wait to sign up for your personal style course!
So happy to hear!
Thank you for the inspo, DB ❤️
This was so helpful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic xx
Just finished the Masterclass and have been itching for new content. Will try and sit down and type up a review of it from the male perspective as I imagine there won't be too many of those.
Thanks Zeo!
Thanks! I've by trying to explain to my sons that how they present themselves affects everyone around them and their own sense of self, sometimes it gets lost in translation...
My husband stopped a meeting in progress with his attire. Old stylists will keep tweaking everything around them.
I love your content! Me being 4'9" your tips and info have been very helpful.
Thanks lovely! 🤗
@@bethanyleonardo Hi love how are you today my love your friendship and WhatsApp plz 🌹🥀🌻🌺🌼🌹 specially for you
One of my favorite Bethany videos. ❤️☺️
Clothes have so much power🔥 You make me love fashion more.
Yes they do!
I am so so grateful for this content. I have been following you for sometime because I am someone who never dresses up but get affected when I encounter situations where people don't take me seriously. I have started this year with the thought of working on my wardrobe and actually putting in a little effort towards what I wear and present myself in .
Love this, Samy!
I've always loved this background for your videos. 💕
One of your best videos in my opnion! You are doing a great job:)
Probably my most favorite fashion video ever!!
Had me feel, contemplate, & desire my clothing in a completely different way!
Love this, Kristy!
How wonderful to find you on my feed. Thank you. "Self care is one of the greatest loves. - Gwen Wade."
Arrived at perfect time. Thankyou for giving this perspective ❤
Thank you for this sweet video! I’m going to try to dress to feel more put together this week. Also I’m loving the backdrop!
Thank you Bethany A lot of inspiration ideas!💖 This new year I hope to create my dream capsule wardrobe, only clothing that go with my lifestyle and my personal style. Have a great week!
Great goal, Ana!
This was an amazing video!!! I absolutely loved this and it resonated so much with me and who I want to be. This is a fantastic instrument to be used on a daily basis
Hi Bethany! I really enjoyed this video. It reinforces some of my thoughts around clothing and how I choose to present myself to the world around me.
The point you made that struck me the most was the one where you said that I am allowed to take up space. I don’t mean to get too personal, but I am a trans woman and struggle a lot with the feeling that I am not allowed to take up space in today’s society, like I am not allowed to exist at all. I think this is also reflected in how I decide to dress day-to-day. I love fashion and it’s one of few things I feel like I have actual control over in my life. Anyways, Sorry for the ramble and thanking for making these kind of insightful videos ❤️
Bethany thank you so much for the incredible content over the past year! I always look forward to seeing what you’re doing and posting next ☺️ Happy New Year! ❤️
Thanks so much, friend! Happy new year! ❤️
Very informative as usual. Loved the quotes.
I will love a list of your favourite fashion books
Thanks friend, love the idea!
Yesssssssssss
Amazing video! Thank you!
I love it💖🥰 one of my goals this year is connect and show my authenticity, so I could see how important is to choose the clothes which vibe with me. Thanks for your advices🧡
That is an amazing goal, Claudia! Happy new year!
Wonderful advice Bethany, especially the psychological influence clothing has on us. I would love it if you also visually showed examples of how you would approach each example. I always love looking at your ensembles as well.
You can take space! I love it
I started watching your videos like 2 years ago. I stopped after a year or so. I changed my style etc. I knew that I enjoyed your content so I tried watching a new video of yours (august or July) but I didn’t really got the points and couldn’t really connect with it. Now I tried it again (because I loooove your videos) and here we are totally enjoying it and understanding what you mean on a deep level. I wasn’t ready for it. I was like a chick that needed to grow up to understand what your words really mean. I’m so grateful that I tried to watch your videos again :))) best decision
Omg, this is my first time watching your video and I subbed 2 mins into the video. Sending lots of blessings and love to you Bethany. Thank you. Keep being stunning and show the world, how we can be awesome.
Very helpful and a way I had never looked at clothes. Thank you.
Loving your channel! Great presentation!!
Thank you so much for such a great info!
Love your personality and energy, very confident, calm and composed, and of course stylish.
Aw thanks Nishtha! 🤗
Hi Bethany! Happy New Year! I'm on the waiting list and I'm really excited for the ride...so happy to see you back..Love!!
That’s awesome Maria! Excited to have you in the course
Dearly Bethany, I hope you and your family are safe and healthy! Thank you for sharing your recommendations and helpful guidance for dressing. especially for the petites. Do you have a video about wearing the newest fashions well, as a petite, that addresses the puffy sleeves, large prints, and wide collars? I appreciate YOU! Take care!
Hi Bethany
This is your best video to date. Thanks for the content 😍
I missed your videos soooo much. You are my biggest style inspiration 😊 thank you for making these videos💕
Thanks Jeanne! Have plans for MANY videos this year 🤗💕
This makes so much sense and helps me understand why I'm so drawn to certain pieces. I'm a homesteading wife and mom, so I usually feel the best when i dress like my grandmother's cousin who was born in the 1920s and had a cow ranch, or a pioneer woman (no i don't use the brand LOL). Your thoughts will help me hone in on this concept!
Love this so much! I can’t wait to see what you come up with this year 😊I always enjoy watching your videos. They are so helpful!
Thanks Katina! Happy new year!
@@bethanyleonardo Thanks Bethany! :) Happy New Year to you too!
Great video ! ❤️
Dear Bethany! This was just excellent! I will say that after your styling course, even in the coldest of days I have made it my priority to layer!l Before I would wear a sweater over jeans ..with thermals but now I add a shirt so I can see the cuffs and maybe I change out the boots I wear,; add accessories even if I am working from home! These may seem like small changes but they have a huge impact because it looks like i took time to create an outfit.🎉In 2022 I want to wear vintage fur as it is so cold -- and why waste an item and dishonour an animal again if you have a fur from a family member? Makes no sense to have it in a landfill. Erin Cara from Toronto 🇨🇦does an excellent vintage fur styling video. At -30 to -40 Celsius warmth is the most important thing! Thank you so much! I am so glad to have taken your course!!!!!!
Xoxo Joanne
Very good information 🥰. I have learned so much from you. Thank you!💐
Excellent loved it! ❤️Happy New Year!
great information Bethany, I would love to see more of your thoughts on this topic as you evolve. I love that you say clothes build memories.
Thanks Faye xx
I love this set! I know it doesn’t have to do with fashion but I would love if you did a house tour video one day.
great video!! so so so true. hit the nail on the head with every point.
Thanks Erica!
Awesome video! I would love to here more about any books and readings about fashion that you liked and that forged the way you see clothing :)
Thank you Bethany! I really learned a lot. Lots of love from the other part of the world ❤
This is deep❤️
Amaaaaaaaaazing and mind blowing!!
Again, thank you for being real.
❤️ thank you so much!
a lot of gems in this one ❤️ perfect for going into a new year of meetings
Thanks Katie! Happy new year ❤️
I love this video, and I love the idea of it. And for the most part, I agree that dressing/putting on your style of clothing is a conscious act of self care that can set the tone of the day. However, with the pandemic, most of us, including me are staying at home - and I can't imagine dressing up, only to change again to do some messy and hot house chores. I don't have a specific day to do house chores because I believe in breaking them up into manageable portions throughout the whole week - but this means there's a chore almost every day. Perhaps it means I should buy more shorts. Stylish ones, of course. :)
Happy New year Dear ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved this video! 👍🙂
Beautiful and impactful message. Eloquently presented ☺️
Thanks Alisa!
Thank you, Bethany❤️
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Trank you very much for this video!!!
As always, a worthy automatic thumbs up
Happy new year. Could you please do a video about the books you read or add a list of the books you have spoken in this video?
Thank You! 💞💓🌺🌍
Thank you for this video, really inspiring 💕🥰
Thanks Jacqueline! 💕
Hi Bethany, HAPPY NEW YEAR 2022.
I wanna tell you that you look very pretty all the time...thanks for sharing your thoughts and being so helpful.
Aw thanks Dina!
Hey Bethany! I would love if you could make a video on how to style chelsea boots when you have short or thick legs!