PPJ: Genuine Pretending: Authenticity in the age of Social media

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @MrsTindi
    @MrsTindi 3 месяца назад +10

    Its like a group of friends having authentic conversations, having each other.. Its so rich, it reasonates with most of us i believe. Kudos PPJ

  • @rhodamusiima7327
    @rhodamusiima7327 3 месяца назад +16

    Favourite show in Uganda right now. The value added is unmatched.
    Thank you for the insights you selflessly share mazima.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      Thank you darling

    • @jdm3762
      @jdm3762 3 месяца назад +1

      Right, they are so rich and diverse in thought! My favourites from home ❤️

  • @muyanjaangel3950
    @muyanjaangel3950 3 месяца назад +5

    The vocabulary I keep learning from you people😁😁😁….Am here for it.

  • @runnert6012
    @runnert6012 3 месяца назад +12

    Just subscribed because of Pumla. I missed her research based inputs during discussions when she was on Bump Love. I also like Primah's vibe and she appears to be open minded person who can easily interact with people who have different beliefs even though she identifies as a devoted christian. Joel, also enjoy to see that you're confident/comfortable being around 2 strong & smart Afro queens ❤ Can't wait to see where you guys will take this show.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      We love that you're here ❤

    • @malamachimfwembe312
      @malamachimfwembe312 3 месяца назад

      Even me😂😂😂 I told myself that all pumla's friends are my friends 😂😂. And I miss you responding to my comments 😅😅

  • @nuwahweraalvin
    @nuwahweraalvin 3 месяца назад +4

    Pr. Primah I really appreciate your wisdom. Id watch your podcast religiously. You are such a detailed thinker.

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine 3 месяца назад +24

    Wama thanks Primah for looking out for us the general peers in the audience and explaining the meta rules and other words that might go over our heads 🤣

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +1

      Hahahahaaaa! And yet you're in the smart crowd who knows the words 😅

    • @drcissyatwine
      @drcissyatwine 3 месяца назад

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 thanks for the episode..as a content creator as well i related alot with your points.. eg i also share alot of videos about what i have been through so it helps someone else have it easier 🙂

    • @fyonaingabire6479
      @fyonaingabire6479 11 дней назад

      But what was that ka word ...petricide...pestcide...!?😅 coz I'm just seeing death of parents🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @alokayamariug2929
    @alokayamariug2929 3 месяца назад +4

    Ehh...... PPJ these conversations are so rich, so much depth but also deeply authentic. Thank you so much for being intentional about this. I'm officially hooked. This is an everyday battle with the everyday me and the social media me...... The impact of our communication online is something we really gotta be mindful about. IT HIT HOME for me. Enough of these spontaneous random postings. THANKS PPJ

  • @leahoginga
    @leahoginga 3 месяца назад +6

    Congratulations on being among the top podcasts in Uganda! Listening from Kenyaa!!

  • @FaithKyazike
    @FaithKyazike 3 месяца назад +12

    I love you guys
    Every PPJ episode for me is an opportunity to learn a thing or two

  • @swabrahgyagenda
    @swabrahgyagenda 3 месяца назад +2

    Minute 30 when Joel starts to talk about the 3 character thingies has me on choke hold. Loved every bit of this episode!❤It has done so much for me, you have no idea...

    • @natashal17
      @natashal17 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m glad I hooked you up guuurrrllll 😂😂😂 now it’s you that sends me episodes reminders to watch 😅😅

    • @swabrahgyagenda
      @swabrahgyagenda 2 месяца назад

      @@natashal17 Beyonce, I want to thank you 😂😂😂❤️

  • @anyayomartha2431
    @anyayomartha2431 3 месяца назад +8

    I love PPJ episodes. Even before watching, I am excited to listen and learn.

  • @miriambuhule1
    @miriambuhule1 3 месяца назад +3

    This group of friends gel so perfectly together. I love me a healthy educative conversation with different opinions and yet mutual respect.

  • @Shafikwasswa
    @Shafikwasswa 2 месяца назад +2

    Hey PPJ,
    To be specific on the question of J, after P & P's submission at 16 mins on the video, I am authentically free to say that:
    You are indeed hidden treasures whose value may only be seen by a select few till a deep dig is done for the majority. To those who stay until the very end, driven by excitement and curiosity, I extend my heartfelt gratitude, to be honest.

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 3 месяца назад +5

    Yay! My Sunday just got elevated to being the best day of the week! That intro 🔥 😄

  • @olivia-kim-abba
    @olivia-kim-abba 3 месяца назад +2

    PPJ I am one of your fans. Your conversations are wholesome and absolutely relatable. Thank you for bringing us all this journey of life.

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for journeying with us. Glad you're here love ❤

  • @Jtinaable
    @Jtinaable 3 месяца назад +2

    This here is a life changer episode. Well done PPJ

  • @tinaford6619
    @tinaford6619 3 месяца назад +2

    PPJ is the best notification I get! The intro dance gave me so much joy! I haven’t even started

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @HannahStaceyBaluka
    @HannahStaceyBaluka 3 месяца назад +3

    Jokes aside, you guys make me smile at my laptop when I listen to you. You are really so smart in the brains.

  • @alokayamariug2929
    @alokayamariug2929 3 месяца назад +4

    Wabuuuuuuuuuuuuuula Joel and his english, next episode i'm definitely having my websters dictionary next to me as I watch. Consistency is the hobgoblin (NICE ONE) Very educative also ...

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      I also need a Webster for the pod

  • @florahrugina1541
    @florahrugina1541 3 месяца назад +1

    I enjoyed the grand opening of the dance... you people are so amazing
    With Love from Tz 255

  • @sonnet_artist1
    @sonnet_artist1 3 месяца назад +3

    When Joel starts to speaks for more than 3 minutes....😮😮😮😮the genuine pretence got me😏🙉

  • @alokayamariug2929
    @alokayamariug2929 3 месяца назад +1

    Great energy here, and y'all compliment each other so perfectly.

  • @lavendermind6883
    @lavendermind6883 3 месяца назад +1

    Without meaning to even when you take on different topics requiring your different experiences and mental sides..you still come off consistent, authentic genuine and that other word profil bla bla .that other word Joel said..I love your engagements and easy banter you keep us glued here....waiting for the next episode...I feel like you guys portray a side each one of us can relate to...I think I have a Prima and on another hand a Pumla in me.... ❤

    • @primahkyambadde6436
      @primahkyambadde6436 3 месяца назад +1

      Kwegamba thé profilicity is sincere and authentic😂 thank you for watching

  • @eyvonndua8162
    @eyvonndua8162 2 месяца назад

    Wooi !! allow each to finish,ya ll talking over each other.Love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @belindakatumba4849
    @belindakatumba4849 2 месяца назад

    I can totally relate with having highly contrasting parts of my personality coming out on different channels I use. Very interesting (and much needed) conversation.. obsessed with PPJ 🧡

  • @brendaasiimwe3383
    @brendaasiimwe3383 3 месяца назад +3

    It’s always great to hear PPJ’s diverse insights on things. I could resonate with many points, Prima being on the fence about fully launching her niche wisdom online, Pumla coming into her purpose, Joel for his unique insights infused with philosophy( takes me back to grad school😅).With that said, I checked and it appears you paused the posting of audio version of these episodes, uploads stopped in May, it would be nice to have these up to listen on the go. Thanks

  • @turyatungamartha1010
    @turyatungamartha1010 3 месяца назад

    Have enjoyed this discussion. Pumla I’m sure you and this show has had a big impact on many people, personally I like your way of reasoning and explaining things and is why I followed you here. The numbers(views/subscribers) is testament to the impact y’all are creating, there is so many shows and social media’s, so people choosing to invest their time and data to listen to you shows they value your content and learn from it

  • @muniramuhamed4542
    @muniramuhamed4542 3 месяца назад +2

    Hahahhaa always love being here…❤❤❤

  • @MariaGorretyNamubiru
    @MariaGorretyNamubiru 3 месяца назад

    I enjoy these conversations so much! 😂😂Can never miss any!❤

  • @nyakunipatricia3558
    @nyakunipatricia3558 3 месяца назад +2

    ...people will consume you thinking they know everything about you yet they only know bits of you....interestingly true!

  • @kelly8973
    @kelly8973 3 месяца назад +3

    Pumla I have done so many things after learning from you.
    Prima i will never forget you didn't do sciences because you didn't want to ever feel how you felt when you were last.
    That shaped the way i want to raise my daughter

  • @jariatnakitende3393
    @jariatnakitende3393 3 месяца назад +2

    My Nabachwa.. I will always follow you❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520
    @NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520 2 месяца назад +2

    I saw Allan in Joel's glasses 😂 I type this as I am listening to Allan speak.

  • @sharonmuhire6407
    @sharonmuhire6407 3 месяца назад +1

    Really really enjoyed this episode. Thank you so much for your wisdom guys. So many take homes❤

  • @krystakizito7244
    @krystakizito7244 2 месяца назад

    I am here for the English 😂 and I find your conversations very insightful. I always leave with something to reflect on.

  • @justinenansimbe3341
    @justinenansimbe3341 3 месяца назад +2

    My favourite show on internet. Lwakuba maama mulumya. We have to wait for two months to have an episode. Please guyz make this weekly

    • @primahkyambadde6436
      @primahkyambadde6436 3 месяца назад +1

      Hahahaha let’s first enjoy this one. More are coming:)

  • @rachealayanga8235
    @rachealayanga8235 3 месяца назад +1

    @Prima, personally, I am waiting for the podcast..You spoke to me when you talked about career..However, the boldness to take the leap and leave little salo behind gives me drenching sweats.. Please do it soon.. ❤

  • @alokayamariug2929
    @alokayamariug2929 3 месяца назад

    Hahahahahaha..... Pumla you have a very unique way of communicating, tis a gift. And when the non-verbal twins with the verbal (Case in point 58:39) THE POINT HAS HIT HOME. I think when we constantly need to as ourselves the WHY question, and that will drive all our engagements online instead of sometimes letting pressure dictate what we do online

  • @hannahmugyenyi6309
    @hannahmugyenyi6309 2 месяца назад +1

    I really really enjoy this podcast

  • @alokayamariug2929
    @alokayamariug2929 3 месяца назад +2

    Really enjoyed this one.

  • @menyasandra811
    @menyasandra811 3 месяца назад +3

    Pumla my best gal, u are the best

  • @roseannuwe7126
    @roseannuwe7126 2 месяца назад

    Pumla I like the way you have created boundaries. Work office and your other life.

  • @namulindageorgette.m6243
    @namulindageorgette.m6243 3 месяца назад +3

    Apart from the content,I come to this page to also learn English. Joel has all the new words today

  • @fatumahkirabo1758
    @fatumahkirabo1758 3 месяца назад +4

    I always wait for you guys 😊😊😊 ,I love ppj ,it's so educative Wala very educative 😊😊😊, every time I see the notification 🤤I know, am gonna seek knowledge Love ❤️ you all 🤩

  • @judithnamawejje2619
    @judithnamawejje2619 3 месяца назад +3

    I like this topic ❤

  • @JanetNshimyeKasigazi
    @JanetNshimyeKasigazi 3 месяца назад

    Primah just inspired me to write an "I am excited" post on linkedin! I had to pause the episode and be bolder, thank you!

    • @primahkyambadde6436
      @primahkyambadde6436 3 месяца назад

      Exciting!!! Remain consistent and watch the magic happen

  • @petuamwesigwa4564
    @petuamwesigwa4564 3 месяца назад

    I love the wisdom in your shows. Keep going

  • @RosesandBliss6767
    @RosesandBliss6767 3 месяца назад

    Allan what are your handles me i follow you.
    But on a nother note you guys help to tickle the my dormant side of my brain since i don't have people many around me with brilliant minds such as yours and it's even harder to find them being am such an introvert who is not good with people. So please keep the PPJ going and thank you for sharing your time and intellect with us.❤

  • @stellapacuto3230
    @stellapacuto3230 2 месяца назад

    Just thinking if there is a co-relationship between social media engagement and attachment styles... surely it might reflect how we show up or not! other than that love PPJ as always @sister Prima we ready for the podcast!

    • @primahkyambadde6436
      @primahkyambadde6436 2 месяца назад

      Stelllaaaa:):) Wbaula we have connected things - now attachment and social media engagement- that should be really interesting!!

  • @olivia-kim-abba
    @olivia-kim-abba 3 месяца назад +4

    Prima thank you for always representing us who need an English dictionary to be able to converse with Joel😂😂😂😂

  • @Zahr-Jinda
    @Zahr-Jinda 3 месяца назад +7

    First hea today
    Like I tapped as soon as

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 3 месяца назад +1

    I like how Pumla and Primah out their hands on each other. So endearing. I really love that.

  • @namutebidorothyssozi67
    @namutebidorothyssozi67 3 месяца назад +2

    Give us more it's episodes pumla go save bump love,wherever u go we go

  • @malaikatabby
    @malaikatabby 3 месяца назад +1

    I really waited too long for this one!

  • @marinahtumwebaze9276
    @marinahtumwebaze9276 2 месяца назад +3

    Joel ayambadde obupale bwa Elijah Kitaka🤭🤭

  • @katek4724
    @katek4724 3 месяца назад

    Great episode and timely discussion. Social media has taken quite a turn and has the ability to shape society's views and culture. I am afraid for my toddler children...the information online is just so much, how do you sift through that. Like you guys I got a phone as an adult so I could self regulate but now what of our gen alpha kids?

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +1

      The younger kids will grow up regulated because this was part of their childhood. It will be normal. Don't worry

  • @annieassists
    @annieassists 3 месяца назад +2

    This notification makes me sooooooooooo happyLotsa love from Kenya

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +1

      Yaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy...I love me some +254 ❤

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 3 месяца назад +2

    Joel was given some good airtime today and he was able to complete his sentences and thoughts 😂

  • @semandarobert9051
    @semandarobert9051 3 месяца назад +1

    I love you guys 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 3 месяца назад +1

    There should be a part two. This conversation is hard

  • @irinatwepatienceblessed3752
    @irinatwepatienceblessed3752 3 месяца назад

    Naye Joel akazungu 🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️ we are trying to catch up with you ssebo

  • @rachealayanga8235
    @rachealayanga8235 3 месяца назад +1

    @Joel,wooow! Normalcy is truly relative: i totally agree.. You can imagine how it would raise eyebrows to read that in the victorian era and 10th century, high heels and make up were for men!

  • @rachealayanga8235
    @rachealayanga8235 3 месяца назад

    Pumla, you have made an outstanding statement that every mum needs to hear kubanga teenage years are upon us.'if your mum knew what you were doing, she would have judged herself as a mom! Woow!. Ama put that in a song🎉❤

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +1

      It's so true. My mom would have fasted my entire teenage decade had she known kubanga I wasn't a joke 😂.. All I needed was guidance. And I turned out okay 😊

    • @rachealayanga8235
      @rachealayanga8235 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@pumlanabachwa8668 lol @ fasting. But on another note, I am curious. If Teja was a girl, would you be tempted to look at her fon? I ask, because I think the girl would bring a different set of fears to you and because she is oblivious of certain outcomes, might you want to steer her boat a little?

  • @imacayebazibwe
    @imacayebazibwe 3 месяца назад +2

    Pumla, I love your careless laugh. You are like me

  • @nikoleochol1531
    @nikoleochol1531 21 день назад

    Really ppj .....mko wapi jamani ....where have gone😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😢😢😢😮😮😢

    • @whatthetheory
      @whatthetheory  21 день назад

      An end-of-year episode shall be dropping soon ☺

  • @atuhairweysamantha
    @atuhairweysamantha 3 месяца назад +1

    Lol at joel and his hoochie daddy shorts 😂..

  • @CuteCollegeGirl-s3z
    @CuteCollegeGirl-s3z 3 месяца назад +1

    I missed you guys😂😊

  • @terrynamagga7964
    @terrynamagga7964 3 месяца назад

    Well done Joel and team

  • @elizabethnakayiza8276
    @elizabethnakayiza8276 3 месяца назад +3

    Wabula the J in PPJ is bright eeehhh. Bambi Primah now I know the caliber of women you are looking for for him😅

  • @imacayebazibwe
    @imacayebazibwe 3 месяца назад +2

    Ok, Prima's behind 😂

  • @christinenakazzi280
    @christinenakazzi280 3 месяца назад +2

    Before you have a conversation with Joel, you need google 😂😂.Prima thankyou for simplifying things,Pumla ❤.

  • @ShineProssy
    @ShineProssy 3 месяца назад +1

    Auchiiii you're here 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @kaberaangel
    @kaberaangel 3 месяца назад +1

    You had me at the title 😂😂

  • @effect9180
    @effect9180 3 месяца назад +1

    One day i went to cnooc...as i was signing in the entrace book, i saw the previous name was Pumla Nabacwa...guess what? I wanted to sit and wait till i see her naye it was working hrs

  • @StellaNabatyanga
    @StellaNabatyanga 3 месяца назад +1

    Pumla wont we be star struck in peace....Anyways i am not an intern though 😀😀😀.I guess i would be star struck if i met you. But i can agree it can be overwhelming if we are all looking for you. But you are very intelligent and admirable. And effortlessly beautiful

  • @mubiruhussein7541
    @mubiruhussein7541 3 месяца назад +2

    When joel said his legs are fantastic; and pumla says “are they though “😂😂😂

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 3 месяца назад +1

    Joel's Kitaka shorts. It should be noted that that is the only acceptable length of shorts.

  • @quinent6578
    @quinent6578 2 месяца назад +1

    Kuddos its cool

  • @vivianneabwooli4909
    @vivianneabwooli4909 3 месяца назад +2

    Oh Pumla u hv just made me feel that ts ok that ma teenage daughter’s phone is hers… and not for me to invade….atleast i know another mother to a teenager feels like me… thx P

  • @horohelen1084
    @horohelen1084 3 месяца назад +1

    I agree with Prima, those scripture posts perplex me.

  • @A_S_Obwoya
    @A_S_Obwoya 2 месяца назад

    Prima.... 'Works for the people '
    😅😅

  • @AinamaaniTweheyo
    @AinamaaniTweheyo 3 месяца назад +1

    1:13:42 I knew from a young age that I was meant for greatness!!! Word…..

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +1

      We are all meant for greatness.
      Thank you for this reminder ❤

  • @musiimentarosemary2851
    @musiimentarosemary2851 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @brendadawa4165
    @brendadawa4165 3 месяца назад +2

    But PPJ, I remember your previous episode left us on the hook. I thought you were to continue with the relationships conversation

  • @hamidahnantege8572
    @hamidahnantege8572 3 месяца назад

    Love

  • @juliataboko1093
    @juliataboko1093 3 месяца назад +1

    Prima is so playful 😂😂😂

  • @patemoshelashawelaka3289
    @patemoshelashawelaka3289 2 месяца назад +1

    I missed Pumla😢

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow 3 месяца назад +2

    Hey ppj ❤
    Hey, pumla 😻

  • @RichardKusiima
    @RichardKusiima 3 месяца назад +3

    Two words summarize Pumla's engagement today, "Cognitive Dissonance"! She starts off by emphasizing her view on followers, likes etcetera and ends up disassociating herself from the engagement or reactions she doesn't like from these very followers who probably are genuinely expressing what they feel about the content or ideas she volunteers to put out there before them; typically a bias exhibited by a majority of folks that, whether out of ignorance or willful blindness, are the very thing they do not like or appreciate from the audiences they constantly and deliberately dress up, show up and perform for, voluntarily, every single time. That they will be happy when their ideas are liked or appreciated but get switched off at the slightest challenge, unable to deal with or appreciate entropy!
    Being on social media or putting yourself out there is, to put it well, you choosing to lay your bed of roses, if that makes sense!

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +2

      This inaccuracy emphasizes my points about social media. People will form conclusions about you & your life based entirely on the 8% you give them. And that's fine because well...human nature. Anyone who says I get switched off by a challenge has no clue what they are talking about because there is nothing I like or indulge in more 😂.
      This analysis, while faulty is appreciated. Joel would love your big words.

    • @RichardKusiima
      @RichardKusiima 3 месяца назад

      @@pumlanabachwa8668
      My comment was in regards to your conversations in this particular video, things you actually expressed and not anything one is percieving or has an opinion about - again, to my point, two words, 'Cognitive Dissonance'.
      What I aporeciate, and I believe would be the same for most of the folks that follow tge PPJ conversations, is the unique personalities you have brought together to have engagement on issues or topics each of you have extremely varying opinions or feelings about and still keep it together as PPJ. The beauty, however, would be if this same brand is avle to extend beyond the three main characters and allow the entropy that comes with engaging on social platforms such as these. Many we see fail to make it beyond the core unit they are missing out on the power that comes with having a brand or identity or even culture that now extends to an audience greater than the self.
      True, I am sure Joel, whowould sail in the space as you have indicated I happen to find very interesting from a very long time ago and someone whose conversations and thinking I constantly follow, would find a good challenge something to deliberate upon.
      That said, PPJ is an amazing mission, in my opinion, and the converaations you all bring wouldn't be the same without thw three of you at it regardless of how a single individual such as myself would feel.
      So keep doing what y'all do and dont let me kill your vibe.

  • @swabrahM
    @swabrahM 3 месяца назад +1

    Pumla has said X is a dust bin.... I haven't recovered... Kyoka i follow her thea

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @claudiaakot2270
    @claudiaakot2270 3 месяца назад +3

    probably the second one here🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @Viola_ug
    @Viola_ug 3 месяца назад +3

    Respectfully, Joel needs to be okay with the fame coming his way. He needs to find hamony with the social persona. 😊

  • @ChamilaNagujja
    @ChamilaNagujja 3 месяца назад +3

    Didn't buy data but now i have to😊

  • @LisaHernandez-b4g
    @LisaHernandez-b4g 2 месяца назад +1

    Gerhold Isle

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama 3 месяца назад +1

    Am also team ppj,I can't miss you guys

  • @KamaranziBarungi
    @KamaranziBarungi 3 месяца назад +1

    Joel puts words to those nagging thoughts that you have but just can’t explain 😂

  • @mariannanakabuye3832
    @mariannanakabuye3832 3 месяца назад +1

    The English ba dear

  • @sharonmuhire6407
    @sharonmuhire6407 3 месяца назад

  • @marthamasiko8862
    @marthamasiko8862 3 месяца назад +1

    Bambi its true… I met Pumla at Cjs Victoria mall with Teja❤️
    She allowed to hear my ka opinion…(she had said on Bump love something touchy about us primary boarding school people)
    And we went on for like 5 minutes kubanga the ka episode (stereotype) pained me 😂

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад

      Hahahahaaa! I remember you love. Thank you for stopping and saying hello ❤

  • @jeremiah08kush
    @jeremiah08kush 3 месяца назад +1

    @Pumla you slid in the house manager situation. Please, one of these days bring us up to speed on how this is working for you. Is it a he? Does he take care of outside work only? Is he an askari? Does he cook for himself? Please teach a sister because I am looking at taking this route now that my babies are grown

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 3 месяца назад +2

      Oh! Yes...I will speak on it more. But briefly to answer your questions, yes he is a he who takes care of the outside (cleaning & security) and the inside - cleaning, washing & ironing. He cooks for himself in an outside kitchen. I cook for myself & child inside.
      We have a boundary - to preserve privacy, he doesn't enter the main house when I am home unless I make a request for something like washing dishes after I've cooked or to help with an activity that requires extra hands.

    • @jeremiah08kush
      @jeremiah08kush 3 месяца назад

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 thank you for this