Great video! Might I add: find yourself a GENEROUS partner, especially with his efforts, his care towards you, someone who actually listens to you, and focuses on your safety. There are some stable and/or rich men out there who are the stingiest, most nonchalant, careless, and rude people you will ever meet. I know girls whose men won't even walk them to the bus stop at night, or go with them to a doctor's appointment. They have to beg them for a single rose for years... or a whole decade. Meanwhile, one of my guyfriends from uni crossed towns at 2 a.m. by Uber, more than 12 km, to accompany his girl in the hospital because she was having a panic attack. I know it sounds like the bare minimum, and it is, but in a world where it has been normalized that we get treated like garbage, it's necessary emphasize these acts of care.
poeople are gonna try to be shady about her advice but usually its the person who has tried and failed the most who can tell you which pitfalls to avoid so yall might as well not even try to be funny in the comments. yeah yall might avoid a lot of the stuff shes been thru but we all wont avoid ALL of the issues. shes basically saying learn from her mistakes. thats a real mentor
If you read her comments, she NEVER has shady comments .. ever. Why are her subscribers so rude about the comment section? Genuine question cause I never see shady comments but I ALWAYS see people like this always trying to bring down other women regarding comments that’s not even there.
@@ajshealthwealth4yourself777 she has addressed shady comments in her videos before and even turned her comments OFF on some videos cuz people get reckless. You just wanted to talk to me 😘
Great video. I’m all about the no struggle life for black women & setting boundaries or walking away from friendships that no longer feel right. Also, PAY OFF THAT DEBT ASAP y’all.
Hello Maya always good to see you. Yes!!! I remember back when I was much younger, I wanted to gain weight, because I thought I was to skinny. What!!!! Girl I don’t know what I was thinking.🙄🤷🏽♀️ I’ve always been medium build, hips and butt, who never gain the weight. We just need to be comfortable with ourselves, eat right, exercise and just take care of ourselves, mentally as well as physically .🙏🏽❤️🤗physically. Have a blessed day.
The way you snapped on this video!!!! As a 43yo woman, I wholeheartedly concur. This is what I’m teaching my daughters (18 & 13) currently. Yes to all this!
Yes sis.....keep giving us the tea on different subjects. This came right on time for me today just went thur a break up a couple hours ago and I kept getting the feeling it wasn't for me but I tried to keep it going. He's a great person just not my person and that is ok. But I wanna just take the time to level me up this year and just be happy with me
Girl ever since I started watching you years ago we are ALWAYS literally in same seasons, mindsets etc at the same time. I spoke with my friend about these things just yesterday! Keep growing girl and letting God lead you and make you over! It's beautiful to witness!!🥰🥰💕💕
Hey Sis!! Great chat !! Listening to the Holy Spirit, loving yourself & your body, paying debt down, and doing you before you invest into marriage, kids, etc. you did your thing with this one. This is 30 minutes of gold.❤
Thank you, Maya. This is spot on, on all levels! Thank you for giving us some make up/girl chat content. I have always been petite and now since having breast cancer and now survivor I've gained some weight. When I reflect on my 20s,30s and the last few months of my 40s, I am not as hard on myself because, I've kept myself together. I could've easily let things ruin my confidence but, God. Sometimes you just need to get dolled up to go nowhere and sit and be pretty😁🥰.
I totally agree putting other people's needs over mine and thats why I have been single for past 3 years so I can accomplish my goal because I spent most of my 20s being stagnant while helping my partners grow. I agree when I look at my high school me I am like girl you was banging and I was so self conscious and now im working to get back to that. I am working on getting debt free myself.
Not going to lie my husband was the one who told me that you should always have a pros and cons list and this is quite satisfying you're saying the same thing he has always said that to me with him family members friend everybody
Totally agree with the hard on yourself segment. My cousin and I looked back on old photos and we had to laugh about the fad diets we engaged in. Thinking that we were overweight. Gurllll Pleeeeze, if I had those 20 year old perky boobs and snatched waistline again I would be dangerous!!!! Maybe… it’s best that I don’t 😂😂😂
Yesss sis ❤this spoke to me sis I said this to my self or at thought to myself much younger self I wish I would’ve known what I know now lol . But you give great advice you look fabulous as always sis keep shining ❤ I think this would definitely be a great series on this topic as well other topics ❤
Listen close ladies you are not Bob The Builder, you are not the one that should built him, he needs to seek therapy if his momma didn't do a good job raising him.
Im so glad you divorce i knew he was very selfish when he bought water for the kids and himself you guys were at starbucks he bit your sandwich when you ask him not too you just were not yourself.glad your back to your old self!!
Hey Sis, I’m watching you on my Kitchen Tv cooking at you don’t need all that foundation. Your skin is beautiful. I know you want the minimal look so just need to light up on all the foundation. Maybe just something around the eyes. (Concealer )
Good content. That’s for sharing your experiences and how you have learned. Maybe you are shy or nervous but if you did not do that giggle laugh every 3 sentences your content would be a level up.
The way I refresh my RUclips on Sunday 😂❤
Lol we’re back this Sunday!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Sis me too😂😂❤
Whattttttttt like I mean every second I’m like where is my gworrlll 😂😂
@@nthabimakhubedu girl that my channel was broke lol 😂, I clock today so fast 💨 like girlllll where you act !!
😂😂😂😂 HAAAAAAA I think we all did LOL
Great video! Might I add: find yourself a GENEROUS partner, especially with his efforts, his care towards you, someone who actually listens to you, and focuses on your safety.
There are some stable and/or rich men out there who are the stingiest, most nonchalant, careless, and rude people you will ever meet.
I know girls whose men won't even walk them to the bus stop at night, or go with them to a doctor's appointment. They have to beg them for a single rose for years... or a whole decade.
Meanwhile, one of my guyfriends from uni crossed towns at 2 a.m. by Uber, more than 12 km, to accompany his girl in the hospital because she was having a panic attack. I know it sounds like the bare minimum, and it is, but in a world where it has been normalized that we get treated like garbage, it's necessary emphasize these acts of care.
poeople are gonna try to be shady about her advice but usually its the person who has tried and failed the most who can tell you which pitfalls to avoid so yall might as well not even try to be funny in the comments. yeah yall might avoid a lot of the stuff shes been thru but we all wont avoid ALL of the issues. shes basically saying learn from her mistakes. thats a real mentor
If you read her comments, she NEVER has shady comments .. ever. Why are her subscribers so rude about the comment section? Genuine question cause I never see shady comments but I ALWAYS see people like this always trying to bring down other women regarding comments that’s not even there.
@@ajshealthwealth4yourself777 she has addressed shady comments in her videos before and even turned her comments OFF on some videos cuz people get reckless. You just wanted to talk to me 😘
Coming from a bot 🤖
@@angelaharris7118 😂😂😂 my point exactly.
Heavy on let’s unnormalize the struggle life for black women! 8:33
Great video. I’m all about the no struggle life for black women & setting boundaries or walking away from friendships that no longer feel right. Also, PAY OFF THAT DEBT ASAP y’all.
Not Maya bringing back the OG intro!! 😍
This is so relatable I swear us as woman live the same life thank you Mya for always being transparent
Hello Maya always good to see you. Yes!!! I remember back when I was much younger, I wanted to gain weight, because I thought I was to skinny. What!!!! Girl I don’t know what I was thinking.🙄🤷🏽♀️ I’ve always been medium build, hips and butt, who never gain the weight. We just need to be comfortable with ourselves, eat right, exercise and just take care of ourselves, mentally as well as physically .🙏🏽❤️🤗physically. Have a blessed day.
Yesss 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Great chit chat, im old enough to be ure mom, and women my age are still making those mistakes, keep shining ✨️
The way you snapped on this video!!!! As a 43yo woman, I wholeheartedly concur. This is what I’m teaching my daughters (18 & 13) currently. Yes to all this!
Girl! I feel the same in clubs & I hate having to pretend I’m having a good time.
Not the old opening line returning!!!???!!😂😂😂 ❤❤❤
Yes sis.....keep giving us the tea on different subjects. This came right on time for me today just went thur a break up a couple hours ago and I kept getting the feeling it wasn't for me but I tried to keep it going. He's a great person just not my person and that is ok. But I wanna just take the time to level me up this year and just be happy with me
Sorry about your break up sis but it sounds like it’s for the best 🙌🏾 work on being the best you that you can be, the right one will come 🫶🏾
@@MayaGalore thank you sis
So good! We can’t lose ourselves 💕
We sure can’t!!!
Girl ever since I started watching you years ago we are ALWAYS literally in same seasons, mindsets etc at the same time. I spoke with my friend about these things just yesterday! Keep growing girl and letting God lead you and make you over! It's beautiful to witness!!🥰🥰💕💕
Hey Sis!! Great chat !! Listening to the Holy Spirit, loving yourself & your body, paying debt down, and doing you before you invest into marriage, kids, etc. you did your thing with this one. This is 30 minutes of gold.❤
Bring on series sis, your channel has helped me so much im about to find me a therapist
Grown Women you have to set boundaries. Always have standards and requirements💗💗
Maya, we so missed you Sunday and know the approvals took a bit. So grateful to see this up😂❤
This is so good Maya, i am learning to listen to my Spirit! And yes a series on this will be cool
Thank you, Maya. This is spot on, on all levels! Thank you for giving us some make up/girl chat content. I have always been petite and now since having breast cancer and now survivor I've gained some weight. When I reflect on my 20s,30s and the last few months of my 40s, I am not as hard on myself because, I've kept myself together. I could've easily let things ruin my confidence but, God. Sometimes you just need to get dolled up to go nowhere and sit and be pretty😁🥰.
Anyone at any age can learn from someone who's been through more than another person.
A growth mindset is a wonderful thing.
I totally agree putting other people's needs over mine and thats why I have been single for past 3 years so I can accomplish my goal because I spent most of my 20s being stagnant while helping my partners grow. I agree when I look at my high school me I am like girl you was banging and I was so self conscious and now im working to get back to that. I am working on getting debt free myself.
Hey! Keep healing and going to therapy. Learn from your mistakes. Listen for that inner voice!❤
We missed you Sunday! Appreciate this upload today. About to pour up and dive in!
It's good you know now & sharing it. Keep up the good work. Be True To You.
Loved the look. I enjoyed the chit-chat. Look forward to more.
What a lovely video you give such great advice Maya ❤
Please give us more in different categories focusing on the main categories like relationships, work life balance and spirituality.
Missed you sis…so glad you uploaded today ❤️❤️❤️
Makeup always looks great. Wanted Dior to make an appearance.
I almost picked her up. She was actually right next to me in her playpen lol
Maya I said f my student loans a long time ago and went about my business
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Made a mistake and hit the thumbs down so I had to comment to say…..same sis same 😂
It’s actually ironic you asked if you should do these more. This is actually how I started watching your vids. Do it sis!
Hey Maya Gurl always good to see you Sis!😊
What a treat!
Happy Wednesday to you baby girl and lil Dior❤️
OKURRR! LOVING THE "NEW" MAYA! POSITIVE GROWTH IN 2024! : )
Not going to lie my husband was the one who told me that you should always have a pros and cons list and this is quite satisfying you're saying the same thing he has always said that to me with him family members friend everybody
Sis we need more makeup videos, I’ve been trying so hard to get my shadow like that and I can’t ❤
girl you hit the nail on the head with the advice 💗💗
Finally !!!! Waiting for your vlog since Sunday 😅🤣🤣
god led me to your channel today, didn’t realize how much i needed to see this video, thank you sm for this 💕
Amazing! Happy you enjoyed babe! 🙏🏾🫶🏾
Excellent advice! 5 stars! More please.
I enjoyed this video, thanks for the advice big sis!❤
You inspire a lot of us 🥰🥰
This was awesome advice and i really needed to hear it!❤
Thank you for the advice 👏👏
So happy to see you Sis 😊 🥰
Loved it! More advice videos🙏🏾
21:12 yes, please to the series!❤
Omg! I just kept in saying, 'is it that Maya doesn't want to post a vlog or what?' And now this 💃🏽
Totally agree with the hard on yourself segment. My cousin and I looked back on old photos and we had to laugh about the fad diets we engaged in. Thinking that we were overweight. Gurllll Pleeeeze, if I had those 20 year old perky boobs and snatched waistline again I would be dangerous!!!! Maybe… it’s best that I don’t 😂😂😂
We definitely want more of these videos with different topics. Thanks sis 😊
Happy Wednesday Maya I Hope you are having a wonderful blessed Prosperous Day❤😍
I missed you on Sunday glad you posted today❤❤
Thanks sis!! Hope you’re have a great day as well 🫶🏾
@MayaGalore Thank you, sis❤
The nails are everything!
Thank youuuu 🫶🏾
Was in IG run 🏃🏾♀️ to come here 🎉🎉❤❤
A series would be fantastic
I say keep moving forwards no need to dwell on what has happened. We can only make better choices in the future.
Thank you big sis for the free game💕
My fav thing to do is a pro and con list too
Category specific vids please sis!
Like my good sis K. Michelle said 🗣️YOU CAN’T RAISE A MAN… and baby she didn’t tell one lie when she said it
Not a lie told 🙌🏾
This video was a treat. Thank you!
Lots of gems here. Enjoyed the video Maya.❤️
This was so good and helpful!
This was a good heart to heart convo! As I say bought lessons...
Ok I like how you brought back the old intro music 💜💜
Yesss sis ❤this spoke to me sis I said this to my self or at thought to myself much younger self I wish I would’ve known what I know now lol . But you give great advice you look fabulous as always sis keep shining ❤ I think this would definitely be a great series on this topic as well other topics ❤
Great advice Maya.
Absolutely loved it!
Omg this was so good I hope you do more videos like this ❤👍🏾👏🏾🤗
Thanks for sharing sis
Glad to see your face! I was worried lol
Bbes u did us dirty Sunday 😢 good to see you today ❤❤❤
I’m sorryyyyy 😭 sponsorship was approved too late. But I’ll be back this Sunday!!
Hey sis h happy new year so glad to see you beck on the tube ❤
Thanks sweet sis. for sharing with us we also learning as well. Thanks gorgeous ❤❤
Hey girl, Hey Hey everyone 🎉❤
Thanks Maya💜💜
I missed the old intro!!!❤❤
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Nice chit-chat
YAYYY!!!!
I enjoyed the video!!!
Great advice. Girl you better preach! LOL. 😂
Chiiilleeee, the "I thought I was fat back then" part🥴🥴. Because girlll.... a sista tryna to work it out neeoowww😥
Beautiful ❤
Listen close ladies you are not Bob The Builder, you are not the one that should built him, he needs to seek therapy if his momma didn't do a good job raising him.
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Very good video, and the face is really pretty 😍
I miss that intro tho😂,advice taken
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Did she get married? Im trying to catch up?
Yayy ☺
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Im so glad you divorce i knew he was very selfish when he bought water for the kids and himself you guys were at starbucks he bit your sandwich when you ask him not too you just were not yourself.glad your back to your old self!!
You spoke Lil Sis……
Hey Sis,
I’m watching you on my Kitchen Tv cooking at you don’t need all that foundation. Your skin is beautiful. I know you want the minimal look so just need to light up on all the foundation. Maybe just something around the eyes. (Concealer )
We can’t go back so let’s move on and focus on the now. Making no sense at all we have all been hurt by someone it starting to show up got played 😂😂
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Good content. That’s for sharing your experiences and how you have learned. Maybe you are shy or nervous but if you did not do that giggle laugh every 3 sentences your content would be a level up.
Lol sorry it’s naturally who i am