I was raised as an Atheist and I'm converting to Islam but my family dont accept it neither they accept my husband but my faith is stronger Inshallah everything will be fine 📿🧕
Alhamdulillah sister. but revert is the best word instead of convert :) my advice as a fellow muslim to you is try to be a better daughter to your parent than you already are and you've ever been. may Allah gives your family guidance as well sister. “But if they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.” (Quran 31:15) Being dutiful to parents, obeying them and treating them with kindness is embedded in the teachings of Islam, however obedience to God is always the first and foremost duty in Islam.
Sue Ellen. Good things happen to those who wait. Believe me! And if you get fed up with waiting, why not get a 'man' with four legs and a tail? You can teach him to obey, do tricks, get your newspaper, warm your bed, etc. I am talking from experience, believe me!
Inshaallah you will get you a fine one. He gave another lecture on 5 steps to a happy marriage here - ruclips.net/video/m2qbDQTtGFY/видео.html This has really worked well for me and my wife Aisha.
@@nelsonking wow mashallah, ur wifes name is aisha, i want my daughters name to be aisha fatima and khadija inshallah. i hope to have a wife that aspires to be like aisha fatima and khadija :p inshallah, am still very young and my dad told me to focus on my career so i can provide for my family aswell
I’m really enjoying listening to your wise words. Ive been raised a Christian but I’m very curious about Islam the more find out the more I want to know.
I was born an atheist, I met a neighbour of mine (he just moved in) so I happen to speak with him one day and that very day we got together and he is pakistani, I never knew much about Allah but since when I met my now partner and to be husband everything changed, Allah is now very very close in my heart and always will be.( BISMILLAH ir-rahman Ir-rahim ) anyway tomorrow I am getting married with my to be husband and I will be converting to Islam at the same time, I love my to be husband but most importantly I love Allah the most, pray for each other brothers and sisters, care for each other, be happy, smile but STAY CLOSE TO ALLAH. Alhamdulilah, Allah is the greatest, say thanks to Allah for every blessing you receive whether that it just waking up in the morning, whether u eat, drink etc etc always thanks Allah because soon when you'll die you'll be sent to Jannah but if not... you will be sent to HELLFIRE so brothers and sisters, aunties and uncles please always pray and never EVER go against my ALLAH ameen Edit: we got married ALHAMDULILLAH 🇵🇰❤ I forgot to say that I also converted to Islam🥰
Jazakallah for your beautiful message I pray that you have a happy healthy and prosperous marriage and Allah swt blesses you with pious children ameen❤️
He is so real in his preaching that he got me crying 😭 these are the things so many women faced in society by thier mother in laws. May Allah give make me to marry in a good family who can act accordingly to his preaching 🙏
He gave another lecture on 5 steps to a happy marriage here - ruclips.net/video/m2qbDQTtGFY/видео.html This has really worked well for me and my wife Aisha.
I needed this getting married to a Muslim man I converted to Islam a sacrifice I willingly made without any hesitance so I can better understand him may Allah bless this marriage
ddootzles But he IS very happy. And I love the fire in his eyes. I am sure he can make any woman have plenty of orgasms in quick succession. I mean, those eyes! Mesmerizing! And condition of course that the lucky lady wants to be mesmerized.
My future husband (not official but almost 4 years of friendship until Allah made us see we should be more) has never met my mom because she's on the other side of the country so I had them talk on the phone and I almost got a little worried she'd like him more but I immediately pushed the thought out and praised Allah because my siblings are married to people she's not fans of. Even though she is not a Muslim like he and I, she still treats him like she's known him as long as I have. Having my mother get along with him will help our relationship because I could easily spend 4 hours on the phone with her and I am glad Allah brought me someone that won't feel left out.
Assalam o Alaikum i want to marry with any poor needy RELIGIOUS OR ALIMA lady OR ATLEAST WHO LOVE TO FOllOW LAWS OF ISLAM, no jahaz or etc required with thanks, belong from KARACHI, my real year of birth is 1986 and having good job and also starting new business plz pray, if there is any in your link plz contact 00923312318189 whatsapp RELIGIOUS widowed or divorced also excepted preference given to educated and needy lady
I am 22years working in Saudi Arabia as a maid I want go back to my country and get married but my mother always discourages me from getting married I swear I can no longer control my feelings I can't do zinah pray me ummah Muslim
May Allah grant your mother the wisdom to get you married soon. Stay strong sister, I can relate. The urge is really strong sometimes. Satan tries and pushes you to Zinah. As a guy I've been controlling myself and I'm getting married soon, Alhamdulillah. I pray Allah makes you meet your spouse too.
Waridah Obizuyo marriage is halaal dear ukthi you should without her consent and continue to practice your Islam,most parents make their children do wrong things and Allah ta 'ala will judge them accordingly,go and get marry insha Allah
Thank you thank you thank you! I’m getting married soon alhamdillah and I feel as if everyone wants me to change myself to appeal to my fiancé. I’ve lived 22 years I can’t just change myself in such a short amount of time. I keep telling them that we need to understand each other and compromise
GIRLL YOU ARE PERFECT! DON'T LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE. I bet you they want you to change feautures to appeal to the social standard of beauty- skinny, lighter skin etc. ALLAH MADE YOU! There is absolutely no one more beautiful than you, we are all equally beautiful to our true soulmate and you can never ever change enough to please other people trust me so don't even join that train, it will lead to never ending self hate. LOVE YOURSELF! Stay happy, healthy (not to lose weight) and if your husband doesn't want you to change, BELIEVE HIM. If he doesn't... please do istikhara cause that will be a downward spiral. LOVE YOUUU XXX
@@fifia4618whatever u said is really vry good...but i m really fat and want to lose weight...i am not able to love myself the way i am coz my fiance also wants me to get slimmer...and people will also make fun of me...so what should i do
Please self love is the best love. Remember you should appreciate what ever you have. However, your appearance has nothing to do with if there is love between you guys and even age for instance. Please love yourself first because, there is someone out there praying for your body size, praying for everything you have. Not even one person in particular people in general. You can give a try on exercise every morning at least 10 minutes. Thank you God bless you and have mercy on you. Amen
n k I had a very difficult time during the process but Alhamdillah I had the courage to tell my family and I ended everything. It’s all about self-love. I felt like I was being controlled by someone who didn’t ‘try’ to get to know me and I felt lost because I felt like my world was crumbling but Alhamdillah, allah (swt) had a plan for me and I’m much happier now
I had a haram realationship with a girl and thats now over. I am crying and praying to Allah for forgivnes for the haram relationship. And now i am praying 5 times a Day, crying and making dua to do it all halal with nikah. I hope you all can make dua for me that she Comes back so i can married her and make a place in jannat with her. Ameen 🤲
Masha Allah everyone in the background is enjoying and liking the way he puts humor into his lectures. May Allah grant us all similar positive brightness in our natures during our dealings and have smiles on our faces at all times. Ameen.
jazakallah khair ! this is the pure truth subhanallah. may Allah keep us on the right track, make us amongst the righteous and be just with our spouses. allahumma ameen.
MashAllah, this is such an informative and beneficial video for those who are planning to tie the knot soon. May Allah bless Mufti Menk for his efforts in spreading knowledge.
That's true I am not even getting marry any time soon but my friends already made up my mind that sister in law and mother in law are ur enemies but now it is cleared
Brother how can I forgive my ex when he and his family abused me for 20 years They stole my inheritance, killed my unborn 5 month old baby Blamed me for everything went wrong and all sorts of black magic for confusing me, anxiety, depression, blocking me to work or earn money they destroyed everything and he refuses to pay back my money they built their houses and business from it But still refuse to pay back and refuses to divorce me
Your pain is valid. And although forgiveness is a virtue in Islam, it's not an obligation. You don't HAVE to forgive them. I pray that for your own peace that you find it in you to carry your life with grace and overcome the trauma.
Amin yarab. May Allah protect us and guide us and bless us. They don't know sheikh they use to talk bad thing many people harm me.may Allah forgive them Amin
If mary ur mary with her family and his family ur parents is her parents and instead.. Everything u hv ur husband too and instead.. Bcause ur one.. And every ur husband difficult ur like his angel to accompany him wit duaa.. Ur husband work for us.. For happiness us.. Many things about couple.. Just read in surah an nisa..
Allah guide and helps me alla give me a good way,allah thank you so much Allah love us Allah bless all,In everythings give thanks for this is the will of allah
Askm mufti I'm in a big difficulty concerning my relationship wiz my hubby.. I nid some help n advice It will be glad if u can keep in touch wide me.. thank u
I have been divorced since 8 years now. I married very young and get divorced after a very short time. I am sick an tiered of waiting for a new love. I have given my whole trust to god but nothing is happening. I am a very young woman who has also desire to fulfill. I don't want to do haram and sleep around with men only to full fill my desire. But I can't wait anymore and I will going to very soon things who are not accepted. I don't need my destiny to come at 40! Or never . I am very sad that I am thinking to do the haram way but what shall I do ? My desire to love someone is killing me inside.
S Ky sister please I advice you to find theright person and when having these thoughts to distract yourself and keep busy yourself so you don’t think about it too much. yeah your desire can be fulfilled by people that are not right for you but you have respect yourself and your body.Do the right thing and get married. In most cases love comes after marriage if you find someone with basic principles Islamic knowledge. Good luck sister and stay focused. I’m single as well but alhamdulillah I pray for all of as be people who never regret their actions which displeased by Allah swa 💖 Sorry my English There are some videos you can find RUclips on how to control yourself.
Salaam Alaikum sheikh, please I ve been married for the past five years,my husband is a Muslim he live and work in Germany while I stay back home I Ghana.recently I came to Germany when I came I found out my husband doesn't pray,he only pray when he is in Ghana.i ve talked to him times without number but to no avail.he forbids me from wearing hijab because he says they are racist,what do I do.
Alhumdullilah for your lectures. In my marriage as a second wife parents had no effect on my failed marriage the first wife had the effect and my husband could not sacrifice for our marriage not even one year later we got divorced and am living in agony.....
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran.“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.(Im only warning you because this is happening to alot of Muslim and none Muslim women nòw what happened to me, (don't trust Muslim men) My husband is Muslim and I loved him so much, I was so loyal to him and never cheated on him. He destroyed my life also my love for him by cheating, lying and polygamy marriage only for sex with different women! When i found out i cry so much it was so horrible for me. He had many wives and still going after other women for sex online! My husband dont want to provide for women but only use them. The women didn't know he was married so dont trust people just because they look good in you're face! My husbands family didn't know he had secret wives and girlfriends only for sex!!! I'm only warning you. (Please please please don't trust people online because their married with children) the other wives and girlfriends dont know he has other women. I'm blessed to find out the truth! I'm mentality, emotionally destroyed because of my husband I cant stop crying, I'm hurting so bad, becarfulwhen it come to polygamy because when it all goes wrong no one will support you, you will be left alone to suffer and noone will care about you sisters, you will be destroyed, theres no justice in this world for us Muslim sisters... please don't trust people just because their being so nice and kind to you!!!.. ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html ...ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html...then marry such women as is good to you, two, three, four, (Literally: in twos and threes and fours) then, in case you fear that you will not do justice, then one (only)
Quran dont push for polygamy marriages sister. Second wives ate being used and abused so never be second wife! These Muslim brothers dont respect women SubhanAllaah.
Always remember this spouse might end up being the parent to your children! Could end up with an abusive vile spouse that Make ur kids suffer and lose faith all because your choose looks over deen
Jazakallah khairan friends... I got it... Actually i have a problem to understand the language. That's why I ask you like that... Anyhow thank you so much friends... May Allah bless you all...
I was raised as an Atheist and I'm converting to Islam but my family dont accept it neither they accept my husband but my faith is stronger Inshallah everything will be fine 📿🧕
Alhamdulillah sister. but revert is the best word instead of convert :) my advice as a fellow muslim to you is try to be a better daughter to your parent than you already are and you've ever been. may Allah gives your family guidance as well sister.
“But if they (both) strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not, but behave with them in the world kindly, and follow the path of him who turns to Me in repentance and in obedience. Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do.” (Quran 31:15)
Being dutiful to parents, obeying them and treating them with kindness is embedded in the teachings of Islam, however obedience to God is always the first and foremost duty in Islam.
Thank you very much for your kind words. Alhamdulillah and stay blessed
@@vanessalopes7091 Alhamdulillah. thank you too sister, you too stay blessed. may Allah keeps us all steadfast. Aameen
Inshallah❤️
congrats sister Allah bless you
May my future husband see this (Ameen)
Yea I'm watching 😁
@@ayyubshah655 hmmm good for you
😂😂😂
@@zarqamm6203 Okay you relax Zarq
@@zarqamm6203 my insta is ayyub.shxh add mee
"Being kind to parents, not to obey always. Obedience is to the God". An important point put up.
May Allah grant me a good husband inshaallah.. just be patient..
Ameen :) May Allah grant you a Very good husband
Sue Ellen. Good things happen to those who wait. Believe me! And if you get fed up with waiting, why not get a 'man' with four legs and a tail? You can teach him to obey, do tricks, get your newspaper, warm your bed, etc. I am talking from experience, believe me!
Inshaallah you will get you a fine one.
He gave another lecture on 5 steps to a happy marriage here - ruclips.net/video/m2qbDQTtGFY/видео.html
This has really worked well for me and my wife Aisha.
@@nelsonking wow mashallah, ur wifes name is aisha, i want my daughters name to be aisha fatima and khadija inshallah. i hope to have a wife that aspires to be like aisha fatima and khadija :p inshallah, am still very young and my dad told me to focus on my career so i can provide for my family aswell
@@nelsonking really?
I will be get married in three months time. Please make dua'a for our union to be blessed.
comment is 3 months ago👀
any updates?
May Allah bless ur marriage
May allah give you a happy life togther Inshallah
May Allah bless your union
@zara Zara , how is it going…
I’m really enjoying listening to your wise words. Ive been raised a Christian but I’m very curious about Islam the more find out the more I want to know.
These are teachings of Islam but muslims not following nowadays. So follow Islam, not muslims
You're more than welcome to study it. Respect back at you.
N K yes exactly! 🙌
Super Shadonic Thankyou!
@@libertiemeh8116 You're welcome.
His wife is so lucky I swear..🙂
Wives not wife
@@jasianoor6152 he has several wives?
@@driabaehyunwoo2338 someone commented that he has 3 wives but I am not sure
È vero hai ragione 👍
@@jasianoor6152 he's the type of husband who should do polygny, i wouldn't mind being one of them.
I was born an atheist, I met a neighbour of mine (he just moved in) so I happen to speak with him one day and that very day we got together and he is pakistani, I never knew much about Allah but since when I met my now partner and to be husband everything changed, Allah is now very very close in my heart and always will be.( BISMILLAH ir-rahman Ir-rahim ) anyway tomorrow I am getting married with my to be husband and I will be converting to Islam at the same time, I love my to be husband but most importantly I love Allah the most, pray for each other brothers and sisters, care for each other, be happy, smile but STAY CLOSE TO ALLAH. Alhamdulilah, Allah is the greatest, say thanks to Allah for every blessing you receive whether that it just waking up in the morning, whether u eat, drink etc etc always thanks Allah because soon when you'll die you'll be sent to Jannah but if not... you will be sent to HELLFIRE so brothers and sisters, aunties and uncles please always pray and never EVER go against my ALLAH ameen
Edit: we got married ALHAMDULILLAH 🇵🇰❤ I forgot to say that I also converted to Islam🥰
Masha Allah. May Allah bless u
@@ranazulqarnain4612 Jazakallah too
Jazakallah for your beautiful message I pray that you have a happy healthy and prosperous marriage and Allah swt blesses you with pious children ameen❤️
Stacey waheed Carter Mashallah sister Have a blessed and happy marriage.alots of love from spain
Anee Shah Shukriya, jazakallah ❤️😘
I love his smile, kind eyes, and compelling wisdom.
He is so real in his preaching that he got me crying 😭 these are the things so many women faced in society by thier mother in laws. May Allah give make me to marry in a good family who can act accordingly to his preaching 🙏
I'm a Christian and I agree with you I have been struggling with this for 10 years now I just ignore them
may Allah grant you happiness in your life & inner peace
Wow 10years! You are a very strong person....May God bless you!!!
10 years. May Allah grant you happiness and inner peace. Ameen
May Allah make it easier for you in this world and hereafter. Amen
He gave another lecture on 5 steps to a happy marriage here - ruclips.net/video/m2qbDQTtGFY/видео.html
This has really worked well for me and my wife Aisha.
I needed this getting married to a Muslim man I converted to Islam a sacrifice I willingly made without any hesitance so I can better understand him may Allah bless this marriage
Allah bless u and give u strength
Is it required to convert in order to marry a Muslim man?
@@liv24k for a Woman it is not required but recommended. A Muslim woman however is not allowed to marry a non Muslim man
@@liv24k I did for my own self mother in law preferred not required from my research some others don’t agree but mostly no
Aameen 🙏
My FUTURE HUSBAND maybe he lost somewhere 🤭 I'm still waiting for him in my REAL LIFE,may ALLAH guide him to find me😊 I'm a single mom, I have a son🙃
Where from you are?
From which country you belong
@@daudtariq4919 Indonesia is my country, Jakarta is my city
Salam alaikum
@@aprilapril4891 I m from karachi Pakistan
Very important things everyone guy and girl should know
Very true, Like & share :)
@@SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS I had this recommended to me - ruclips.net/video/m2qbDQTtGFY/видео.html
It complements your video really well.
@@nelsonking no sh*t given to u hahahah
Sadness: *Exists*
Mufti: *Uploads*
Me: :D
But really this man is a light on the darkness of the Earth may Allah give him happiness
Chloe Provost wallah so true wlalah 🥺🤷♂️
ddootzles But he IS very happy. And I love the fire in his eyes. I am sure he can make any woman have plenty of orgasms in quick succession. I mean, those eyes! Mesmerizing! And condition of course that the lucky lady wants to be mesmerized.
Ameen
My future husband (not official but almost 4 years of friendship until Allah made us see we should be more) has never met my mom because she's on the other side of the country so I had them talk on the phone and I almost got a little worried she'd like him more but I immediately pushed the thought out and praised Allah because my siblings are married to people she's not fans of. Even though she is not a Muslim like he and I, she still treats him like she's known him as long as I have. Having my mother get along with him will help our relationship because I could easily spend 4 hours on the phone with her and I am glad Allah brought me someone that won't feel left out.
Things to know before marriage- it's never easy and you have to work it out and give it time...
Assalam o Alaikum i want to marry with any poor needy RELIGIOUS OR ALIMA lady OR ATLEAST WHO LOVE TO FOllOW LAWS OF ISLAM, no jahaz or etc required with thanks, belong from KARACHI, my real year of birth is 1986 and having good job and also starting new business plz pray, if there is any in your link plz contact 00923312318189 whatsapp RELIGIOUS widowed or divorced also excepted preference given to educated and needy lady
@@daudtariq4919 walaikum assalam... So the criteria is "religious"?
@@daudtariq4919 you know it's very hard to find a girl who is educated AND poor...
@@zikrakhan503 yes criteria is religious plz pray
@@zikrakhan503 -AND religious. One or the other is always compromised.
I am 22years working in Saudi Arabia as a maid I want go back to my country and get married but my mother always discourages me from getting married I swear I can no longer control my feelings I can't do zinah pray me ummah Muslim
May Allah grant your mother the wisdom to get you married soon. Stay strong sister, I can relate. The urge is really strong sometimes. Satan tries and pushes you to Zinah.
As a guy I've been controlling myself and I'm getting married soon, Alhamdulillah. I pray Allah makes you meet your spouse too.
lets get married sister
May Allah make it easy for you
May Almighty Allah calm your mother and make things easy for you sister
Waridah Obizuyo marriage is halaal dear ukthi you should without her consent and continue to practice your Islam,most parents make their children do wrong things and Allah ta 'ala will judge them accordingly,go and get marry insha Allah
Not only Muslims but everyone should watch this video m going to forward this to everyone..such a wise person
Thank you thank you thank you! I’m getting married soon alhamdillah and I feel as if everyone wants me to change myself to appeal to my fiancé. I’ve lived 22 years I can’t just change myself in such a short amount of time. I keep telling them that we need to understand each other and compromise
GIRLL YOU ARE PERFECT! DON'T LISTEN TO THESE PEOPLE. I bet you they want you to change feautures to appeal to the social standard of beauty- skinny, lighter skin etc. ALLAH MADE YOU! There is absolutely no one more beautiful than you, we are all equally beautiful to our true soulmate and you can never ever change enough to please other people trust me so don't even join that train, it will lead to never ending self hate. LOVE YOURSELF! Stay happy, healthy (not to lose weight) and if your husband doesn't want you to change, BELIEVE HIM. If he doesn't... please do istikhara cause that will be a downward spiral. LOVE YOUUU XXX
@@fifia4618whatever u said is really vry good...but i m really fat and want to lose weight...i am not able to love myself the way i am coz my fiance also wants me to get slimmer...and people will also make fun of me...so what should i do
Please self love is the best love. Remember you should appreciate what ever you have. However, your appearance has nothing to do with if there is love between you guys and even age for instance. Please love yourself first because, there is someone out there praying for your body size, praying for everything you have. Not even one person in particular people in general. You can give a try on exercise every morning at least 10 minutes. Thank you
God bless you and have mercy on you. Amen
Hi how is your marriage going? Please give us an insight so it can help all of us.
n k I had a very difficult time during the process but Alhamdillah I had the courage to tell my family and I ended everything. It’s all about self-love. I felt like I was being controlled by someone who didn’t ‘try’ to get to know me and I felt lost because I felt like my world was crumbling but Alhamdillah, allah (swt) had a plan for me and I’m much happier now
A beautiful example of the love and wisdom that I've found since opening my heart and mind to God's word in the Al'Qur'an!
Words of wisdom that everyone needs to hear.
Hope the ummah can listen to this, may Allah grant you what you deserve
Thank you so much Muft Menk for enlightening a topic hidden by many, May Allah keep you
'Stopping an oppression is a worship ', well pointed.
I had a haram realationship with a girl and thats now over. I am crying and praying to Allah for forgivnes for the haram relationship. And now i am praying 5 times a Day, crying and making dua to do it all halal with nikah. I hope you all can make dua for me that she Comes back so i can married her and make a place in jannat with her. Ameen 🤲
I am not a muslim but sir u have said it for all of us women that cant speak for ourselves. U are speaking and hitting on all the points. Thank you.
I wish my Husband be like him May Allah guide every men these ritious rules
🥰Meried end man love end prayer!!!!
From Allah swt!!!
He’s so right. My husband with the help of his family ruined me and my marriage
😞😞😞 that is sad u well find a better marriage inshallah
Converted last year , getting married today >
Zero dislikes MashaAllah. Well deserved for a video that slaps us the reality of today's world.
There actually 40😔
Now they're 45.
Masha Allah everyone in the background is enjoying and liking the way he puts humor into his lectures.
May Allah grant us all similar positive brightness in our natures during our dealings and have smiles on our faces at all times. Ameen.
May Allah grant me a God fearing husband
Ameen
Ameen
Exactly always fear Allah and u will see everything is getting fine
My sincere prayers to almighty Allah that every girl gets a good and respectful husband.
Aameen 🙏
jazakallah khair !
this is the pure truth subhanallah.
may Allah keep us on the right track, make us amongst the righteous and be just with our spouses.
allahumma ameen.
My insta is @ayyub.shxh. let me know if you're interested 😁
Alhamdulillah I was looking some answer like that.... May Allah bless you and all the Muslims around the world... Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
May Allah grant me too such an understanding husband...
A man of wisdom, May Allah bless you
Ameen
Alhamdulillah Truth keep Speaking Truth Ameen Allahu Akbar.
MashAllah, this is such an informative and beneficial video for those who are planning to tie the knot soon. May Allah bless Mufti Menk for his efforts in spreading knowledge.
May Allah grant us the best of husbands who are really responsible
Your patience has been rewarded for i am here 😍
May Allah give you everything you want
Every girl should get a gd husband Ameen hasbiyallah
Vice versa
Such an important lecture.
May Allah SWT grant us righteous spouses and make us of the righteous also.
Ma shaa Allah I learn alot from this dawaah alhamdulillah
i'm not a Muslim but I absolutely love this Islamic scholar and his teachings
ALLAH IS GREAT
MASHALLAH 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Allah gives me subbir inshallah 🙏 ❤
In this society Zina is easy marriage is difficult for us....Ya Allah help us
I'm here because of you babe. ❣️
JazakAllahu Kheyran 🤍 may Allah subhana wa ta’ala accept our duas in the best way 🤍 Allahumma Ameen Ya Rabb Al Alamin🤲🏼
Thanks sir please pray for me, i wish Allah make my husband thinking like as you😰😢😥
It was very interesting..... thank you
Alhamdulilah
That's true I am not even getting marry any time soon but my friends already made up my mind that sister in law and mother in law are ur enemies but now it is cleared
I'm debating whether I should share this with my fiance or not 😂
Misbah Kiran oh please don’t, I shared it with mine worst mistake... “I was told I’m being manipulative” 🙄
@@tasneemrabin1303 typical men
@@misbahkiran6554 go for it inshallah and gl
Do it. That's wen u Kno if that guy is right for you ,before u get married to samone who won't listen to advice
Do it. Tell them it's a part of what you view as pre marriage counseling!
Not being able to find a suitable match but still watching this video 🤣 God how i wish i could he a teenager again
Still waiting for my FUTURE HUSBAND 😅
Insaallah 😊
I'm here, my insta is @ayyub.shxh
Ayyub Shah bro I seen you in like 20 comments 😂😂😂🤣💀 chill Inshallah the right one will come to you my brother
Ayyub Shah DUDE! Stop it
@@ayyubshah655 chill
Brother how can I forgive my ex when he and his family abused me for 20 years
They stole my inheritance, killed my unborn 5 month old baby
Blamed me for everything went wrong and all sorts of black magic for confusing me, anxiety, depression, blocking me to work or earn money they destroyed everything and he refuses to pay back my money they built their houses and business from it
But still refuse to pay back and refuses to divorce me
Your pain is valid. And although forgiveness is a virtue in Islam, it's not an obligation. You don't HAVE to forgive them. I pray that for your own peace that you find it in you to carry your life with grace and overcome the trauma.
Agree with khuda unko vark karay
ALLAHU AKBAR....LA IL LAHE IL ALLAHU.....LA HAVLE VE LA KUVVETE ILLA BILLAHIL ALLIL AZIM!!!!!!
adorable mufti ❤️barakallahufiq
Jazaka Allahu kheyran
My loving Allah Great me with the World best husband ever inshallah ❤️
Dear, can I know where are you from
Amin yarab. May Allah protect us and guide us and bless us. They don't know sheikh they use to talk bad thing many people harm me.may Allah forgive them Amin
Very eye soothing.jazakallah
JazakAllah khair very good advice u been giving about marriage
Barak Allah feek
If mary ur mary with her family and his family ur parents is her parents and instead.. Everything u hv ur husband too and instead.. Bcause ur one.. And every ur husband difficult ur like his angel to accompany him wit duaa.. Ur husband work for us.. For happiness us.. Many things about couple.. Just read in surah an nisa..
I love the points he gave on suppression
JazakAllahu khayran
May my future husband must be like you sheikh 🙏
There are two sides to each story. Some mother in-laws are bad, some daughter in-laws are also bad.
this is really what crushing families there are some mans who are saying mother she is always right ,
Thank you so much ☝️
I am 20 years old .well i want to get married but muslim women are difficult in kenya its really hard
Come to 🇬🇭
MASHA ALLAH......JAAZAKA ALLAH KHAR 💗💗💗🤝.
Allah guide and helps me alla give me a good way,allah thank you so much Allah love us Allah bless all,In everythings give thanks for this is the will of allah
Askm mufti
I'm in a big difficulty concerning my relationship wiz my hubby..
I nid some help n advice
It will be glad if u can keep in touch wide me.. thank u
salam oh alaikum🙏 i really love ur vlog 😘
zero dislikes Mashallah 😊
Macha'allah so nice talk
Masha Allah Mufti
MashaaAllah tabarakaallah I love following
I wish this was in Urdu so that Pakistanis can understand.
Nikha is the solution for everything 💙
Jazak Allah sir.
Fear Allah always
I have been divorced since 8 years now. I married very young and get divorced after a very short time. I am sick an tiered of waiting for a new love.
I have given my whole trust to god but nothing is happening. I am a very young woman who has also desire to fulfill. I don't want to do haram and sleep around with men only to full fill my desire. But I can't wait anymore and I will going to very soon things who are not accepted. I don't need my destiny to come at 40! Or never .
I am very sad that I am thinking to do the haram way but what shall I do ? My desire to love someone is killing me inside.
S Ky sister please I advice you to find theright person and when having these thoughts to distract yourself and keep busy yourself so you don’t think about it too much. yeah your desire can be fulfilled by people that are not right for you but you have respect yourself and your body.Do the right thing and get married. In most cases love comes after marriage if you find someone with basic principles Islamic knowledge. Good luck sister and stay focused. I’m single as well but alhamdulillah I pray for all of as be people who never regret their actions which displeased by Allah swa 💖
Sorry my English
There are some videos you can find RUclips on how to control yourself.
Salaam Alaikum sheikh, please I ve been married for the past five years,my husband is a Muslim he live and work in Germany while I stay back home I Ghana.recently I came to Germany when I came I found out my husband doesn't pray,he only pray when he is in Ghana.i ve talked to him times without number but to no avail.he forbids me from wearing hijab because he says they are racist,what do I do.
Alhumdullilah for your lectures. In my marriage as a second wife parents had no effect on my failed marriage the first wife had the effect and my husband could not sacrifice for our marriage not even one year later we got divorced and am living in agony.....
And you will never be able to be equal just between wives, even if you should strive [to do so]. From quran.“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.(Im only warning you because this is happening to alot of Muslim and none Muslim women nòw what happened to me, (don't trust Muslim men) My husband is Muslim and I loved him so much, I was so loyal to him and never cheated on him. He destroyed my life also my love for him by cheating, lying and polygamy marriage only for sex with different women! When i found out i cry so much it was so horrible for me. He had many wives and still going after other women for sex online! My husband dont want to provide for women but only use them. The women didn't know he was married so dont trust people just because they look good in you're face! My husbands family didn't know he had secret wives and girlfriends only for sex!!! I'm only warning you. (Please please please don't trust people online because their married with children) the other wives and girlfriends dont know he has other women. I'm blessed to find out the truth! I'm mentality, emotionally destroyed because of my husband I cant stop crying, I'm hurting so bad, becarfulwhen it come to polygamy because when it all goes wrong no one will support you, you will be left alone to suffer and noone will care about you sisters, you will be destroyed, theres no justice in this world for us Muslim sisters... please don't trust people just because their being so nice and kind to you!!!.. ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html ...ruclips.net/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/видео.html...then marry such women as is good to you, two, three, four, (Literally: in twos and threes and fours) then, in case you fear that you will not do justice, then one (only)
Quran dont push for polygamy marriages sister. Second wives ate being used and abused so never be second wife! These Muslim brothers dont respect women SubhanAllaah.
I don't trust Muslim brothers nomore!!!
I'm also waiting for my future husband 🙏
Its your lucky day and the wait is over 😍
@@mustafa8988 ur a clown
My Bible says the 2 shall leave their parents & Become 1 . The Ring is a circle that Both Spouses should Not let anyone penetrate into.
May Allah bless us
Mufti should come to Pakistan and knock some sense into the inlaws in our society
Including Bangladesh and India as well.
I love you allah so much
Always remember this spouse might end up being the parent to your children!
Could end up with an abusive vile spouse that Make ur kids suffer and lose faith all because your choose looks over deen
Shukran jazakallahkhair
Please put subtitles to understand clearly... It's my request ...
Just turn the captions on
It's audible and clear
There are 3 little points on the top of the screen on the video, press them & then press the word “captions”
Jazakallah khairan friends... I got it... Actually i have a problem to understand the language. That's why I ask you like that... Anyhow thank you so much friends... May Allah bless you all...
Thank you allah so much
PREACH!!!!
You must be equal to your wife as well to your mother... Should not be falling only on one side and hurr the other...