Georgiou Music - Unappreciated Queens Lyric Video (Narcissist Song)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • This is my new song to help raise awareness for abusive relationships.
    I know this situation so well, I hope it helps.
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    Credits -
    Mixed and Mastered by Marchant Music
    Beat by Sleepless beats
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    (Lyrics)
    She bent over backwards to try and move forwards she should of just left you behind
    Cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time
    She believed you loved her but you turned her blind
    You slept with others and told her lies
    She ignored the signs of a narcissist and lost herself for a guy
    Why do you only love her when it suits you?
    cos thats something she got used to
    She don't wanna say the wrong thing or make the wrong move but she lost herself trying to keep you
    She don't want no part time love hearts too big for some half assed love and her past too dark to keep starting again
    She gave you one hundred percent but it weren't enough
    She's way too genuine for this generation of gentleman
    Little bit hood but she's ever so elegant, damaged and delicate
    Hearts so pure its like she was heaven sent
    She's soul medicine, never had anything only the negative searching for something outside of a sedative
    You messed her up and she's lost in her head again
    She bent over backwards to try and move forwards she should of just left you behind
    Cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time
    She believed you loved her but you turned her blind
    You slept with others and turned her blind
    She ignored the signs of a narcissist and lost herself for a guy
    She bent over backwards to try and move forwards she should of just left you behind
    Cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time
    She believed you loved her but you turned her blind
    You slept with others and turned her blind
    She ignored the signs of a narcissist and lost herself for a guy
    She knows what it's like when you fall for the type of person that gaslights
    That conditional love, always raising the bar then knocking her down on your bad nights
    Every row just feels like a land slide
    Somehow she's always the bad guy
    Thats mental abuse, you broke inside sometimes she would fear for her life
    And you took every ounce of her happiness and she blamed herself for your damages
    Her heart is surrounded by daggers and barriers ready to charge at your arrogance
    Her fear of abandonment ever so adamant
    She fell so hard but you left like her daddy did
    Half hearted love left her anxious and panicking
    Shell of a girl like a mannequin
    Should of love herself with the love she gave.
    She would always give and you would always take
    Your still in her heart what a waste of a space
    Just look at the mess that you made
    Cos you loaned her love she invested too much
    Soul was in debt didn't feel like enough
    Your ego inflated when she opened up
    Cos you tried to control the person she was
    She bent over backwards to try and move forwards she should of just left you behind
    Cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time
    She believed you loved her but you turned her blind
    You slept with others and turned her blind
    She ignored the signs of a narcissist and lost herself for a guy
    She bent over backwards to try and move forwards she should of just left you behind.
    Cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time.
    She believed you loved her but you turned her blind
    You slept with others and turned her blind
    She ignored the signs of a narcissist and lost herself for a guy
    People forget mental health isn't visible
    People forget some abuse isn't physical
    People forget that awareness is critical
    People forget what we hide on our digitals
    If you need support
    If you need advice
    Send me a message i'll try to reply
    Raising awareness one song at a time
    GEORGIOU MUSIC I'm fighting our fight

Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @GEORGIOUMUSIC
    @GEORGIOUMUSIC  2 года назад +4743

    If you're reading this and you're in a negative relationship or difficult situation, you're strong, you're powerful and the trauma was not your fault. You deserve so much more than your current circumstance and I pray you find the strength to break free. My inbox is open to anybody who needs me, thank you for allowing me to do what I love. I cant believe the family we have created here, almost 100,000 strong, I don't deserve you lot

  • @yorkshirelass777
    @yorkshirelass777 Год назад +394

    You are a rare breed … there’s not many men that can step up and speak truth .. thank you for the blessing you are brother ❤️🙏🏽❤️

    • @RossKemp-kj3ns
      @RossKemp-kj3ns Год назад +13

      So true most guys think that you have to do what everyone else does and flex and lie about a life they don’t live lol this guy is one of a kind rare breed 💯

    • @skinnykatie
      @skinnykatie 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, Amen!! God bless you with your mission! 🫶 Its wild out there! It all makes you stronger But you only See it later And The middle Part, building new is hard.. But Then Its all winning later if you have God. Cause He just uses everything to build you strong..

    • @KATOGOJIRA7223
      @KATOGOJIRA7223 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's what i needed to hear your awesome 👍
      I was really scared to expose my x narc on RUclips ❤
      Thank you for that special comment

    • @elizabethhendrickson1607
      @elizabethhendrickson1607 3 месяца назад +2

      ❤️‍🔥🙌👏100%

    • @septemberdawnluketz
      @septemberdawnluketz Месяц назад

      This one HIT HARD. (Harder than he hit me) But it’s a good thing I’m still here and thankful that there are real men out there like yourself who actually know what it means to be a man 😢

  • @Kusinkusinsju
    @Kusinkusinsju 2 года назад +67

    “she went over backwards to try and move forwards she should’ve just left you behind, cos you tried to make out that the problem was her but the problem was you the whole time” this part is so relatable. this song came to me when i needed it, i did everything to keep us together and he only manipulated me in every argument and made me the problem. I got out of this narcissist relationship recently, it’s hard but ima keep fighting.

  • @alexcarter7813
    @alexcarter7813 Год назад +27

    "She knows what it's like when you fall for the type of person that gaslights. That conditional love, always raising the bar and then knocking her down on your bad nights."
    This verse hit me hard. So relatable.
    You can't call out a gaslighter... They'll just gaslight you harder. I've actually been to the point where I questioned my own sanity. Y'all stay safe!

  • @yellowswallowtail33
    @yellowswallowtail33 2 года назад +127

    Standing ovation! Thank you for joining the fight against narcissistic abuse! Let’s keep shining the light on them and smother it out! As a victim and advocate to stand up, educate and bring others back to the fold, I nominate this song to be the anthem sound for all those who have fallen victim to this horrific, soul stealing, brain altering epidemic. The more we speak up, the more we save.

    • @jackiemeredith1586
      @jackiemeredith1586 Год назад +4

      I second this nomination 👏👏👏 This song should be spread and well known. It’s a song showing there’s so many of us who feel the same way or who get caught in the same traps. Let it be shown! We are here and when we stand together we are POWERFUL ✨❤️ This song should definitely be an Anthem for all those struggling

    • @KimberlySalomon-gp9rd
      @KimberlySalomon-gp9rd Год назад

      Lucky no one's name is KIMBERLY ANN RYAN SALOMON. KIBITZ N BITZ WAS MINE AT THE END THERE WERE 27 USER CODES. EVERYTHING THAT I WORKED FOR MY WHOLE LIFE IS GONE. I WORKED FOR HIM 6 DAYS A WEEK,NO SALERY BUT I LOVED HIM..
      HUMILIATION WAS AN UNDERSTATEMENT !!!
      ITS BEEN 3 YRS NOW NO KISSING

    • @KimberlySalomon-gp9rd
      @KimberlySalomon-gp9rd Год назад

      No dating and he is still trying to hurt me.
      Loed to police= jail 4 times. I had an apartment. Cops wanted just his name. No I stayed in prison over Xmas. I could have gone home but i refused so i was frozen to death in the basement of palais de congrès. Thay took my warm coat and gave me a suit jacket in - 24 weather.
      I still went back. I'm completely broken so hope y'all don't stay as long as I did. I'm almost 60 now and a whole decade I allowed to be Robbed of.
      No garanty when this nitemare will be over.
      Good luck girl and lady's.

    • @Franklybeenhurt
      @Franklybeenhurt 7 месяцев назад

      I really dislike that you make it sound like narcissistic partners are all male I survived mine but barely I went to prison because I thought I needed to protect her and she hurt and gave away my daughter's while I was locked up the narcissistic partner can happen to anyone

    • @yellowswallowtail33
      @yellowswallowtail33 7 месяцев назад

      @@Franklybeenhurt this is my story. What was talked about was referring to men. Do we really have to say each time narcissistic abuse comes up when talking about men to make sure that the men don’t get offended by saying women are too, narcissistic. We all know this. Let that ego rest. Here is my apology. I am sorry. Here you go… women are narcissist too, and I have fought for men’s against narcissistic abuse as well. Much love🫶🏻

  • @dedreswart1333
    @dedreswart1333 2 года назад +163

    The song hit so hard the part where you said "You took every ounce of her happiness and she blamed herself for your damages" I felt that. You have a true gift in your music don't ever give it up please your music is amazing and so are you.

  • @_Ashleigh
    @_Ashleigh Год назад +91

    1:47 Wow this verse got me right in the chest.
    Shes way too genuine for this generation of gentlemen.
    Jesus the lyrics in this song is such a representation.

  • @ImmortalOrnaments
    @ImmortalOrnaments 2 года назад +24

    This is the best song I have ever heard or come across that describes accurately the damages caused by someone so insecure they can only lie and pretend as a means to manipulate and control someone who believes in them and is willing to literally sacrifice themselves - not for the fake love they receive but for the real genuine love they feel and give

  • @samanthahendry2705
    @samanthahendry2705 Год назад +52

    Honestly I've listened to this easy 100 times over the past couple days. I don't think this gets just enough credit , the lyrics are on fkn point. Like no joke though it's so well written but it's written from a soul trying to heal other souls and my god it helps. I just kept skipping back and skipping back over and over , shit I sent it to my ex and I'd do it again lol this genuinely moved me from such a low place and reminded me just who I am and honestly I don't know how I was ever so hurt over someone who couldn't see me for anything more than a supply. Pity them. They need women like me, like in this song , they need us because it's love like ours that moves emotion in the blackest of hearts... Watch me get under your skin only to be purged with the rest of the sickness within. Sometimes it's just a lesson , a chapter and that's ok. We grow. He sad but not for too long. Remember who you are and what you can do! I love you ❤️ all of you xxxx

    • @heathermorgan5976
      @heathermorgan5976 Год назад +2

      So absolutely well said!! It IS love like ours (not just women but heart on our sleeve, pure intension, all or nothing love from a human being) that does get under the skin of even the darkest, completely walled off of hearts. Often to their surprise which makes that realization all the more impactful and real. I am a firm believer that love can move mountains when it selfless, unconditional, and genuine. Pure of hearts can be easily taken for granted but don't ever let anyone dim your light!! Learn from it and just keep moving forward! Even the darkest of nights end with the sunrise! I appreciate your words here... And yes, these lyrics are so incredibly spot on! This gonna be on loop for a while me thinks lol.

    • @Weee6942Red
      @Weee6942Red Год назад +1

      Beautiful

  • @CherylSlack-s3z
    @CherylSlack-s3z 23 дня назад +1

    This song hit me so damn deep. It explained me as a teenager and as a woman today. You have such a talent of being able to speak to people through your music. It's beautiful and I love ALL of your songs. I can relate to them all.

    • @D.DOakes
      @D.DOakes 6 дней назад

      @@CherylSlack-s3z music lyrics speaks louder Wer words fail........my music explain and will tells you more about me than I'll ever say or tell ya xxx

  • @emmaseymour6980
    @emmaseymour6980 2 года назад +31

    I left my ex in May this year as he wanted my friend more than me. He threw away his family of 4 years for a married woman. Your music has spoke to me on so many levels. Thankyou.

  • @brittanierobles-green4512
    @brittanierobles-green4512 2 года назад +37

    I deal with narcissistic people in my family and the part about blaming herself for your damages and she fell so hard but you left like her daddy did brings me to tears every time. I’ve been sharing this song with so many people. I love your message and glad to support you in this fight

  • @abbyduke9367
    @abbyduke9367 2 года назад +98

    This song hit me so hard. All of your music does. I have been struggling with suicide and failed a few times in my attempts. I used to think everything was my fault. But the line "she lost herself trying to keep you," clicked everything together for me. I spiraled and lost any semblance of who I am outside of mother, daughter and wife. I absorbed everything and kept going until I couldn't. I found your music after my attempt. You make me and so many others feel heard. Thank you so much. I hope all is well with you and I deeply encourage you to keep it up. You are making a difference!

    • @gemmacarter9831
      @gemmacarter9831 2 года назад +3

      I know how you feeling

    • @abbyduke9367
      @abbyduke9367 2 года назад +4

      @Leeann thank you! I appreciate the reply. I'm taking baby steps right now. I'm hopeful again for the first time in a long time. I hope all is better with you!

    • @bcullen5417
      @bcullen5417 2 года назад +1

      I see what your saying

    • @cherish5232
      @cherish5232 2 года назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @YoSpooKy666
      @YoSpooKy666 11 месяцев назад

  • @gigglesgiggles2912
    @gigglesgiggles2912 8 месяцев назад +8

    was in an abusive relationship. I listened to this too many times to count. was to afraid to leave a few friends caught on and helped me. they supported me, were there for support, and helped me be brave enough to leave him. I am thankful for my friends and your music and now for my safe freedom.

  • @gameznotgames2435
    @gameznotgames2435 7 месяцев назад +1

    Just a small token of my appreciation for what you are doing here for so many. You speak truth to so many people's experiences that it's astonishing. I truly hope you're taking care of yourself in all of this. It's quite a heavy burden for one person to take on. Stay strong, my cosmic brother.

  • @soyam2075
    @soyam2075 2 года назад +21

    This is so relatable..
    The fact I was in my healing era when I got into one toxic relationship, where I had to go through SA. That broke me so bad.. I'm still not healed.
    Your songs contain so much of comfortness just thank you for existing.

  • @bonniehood455
    @bonniehood455 2 года назад +30

    I needed this song years ago to wake me up about what was happening to me regarding my ex. ❤ it’s now been 7 years since he threw me out of the house and expected me to come crawling back abut instead I crawled to safety and found my husband ❤ Georgiou music please keep writing these songs that say so much that so many of us struggle to say ourselves ❤❤

    • @Sandra-zz1yv
      @Sandra-zz1yv Год назад

      I know how you feel hun .I seen my ex son today he pulled up hood .it hit hard.

  • @laurahell
    @laurahell 2 года назад +10

    I just wanted to say Yhank You for "Unappreciated Queens"
    👸🏻👑♠️
    The message behind it is so incredibly beautiful, heartfelt & compassionate
    Music can help you heal & can ultimately help save someone's life in the end.

  • @miaanders4444
    @miaanders4444 Год назад +14

    This song is so beautiful and insightful. He will never hear it. Even if he heard it he'd never really HEAR IT. it's so good to know that people understand and we are not alone. I'm so proud of how far humanity has come in its awareness. ❤

    • @lucindamccugh5157
      @lucindamccugh5157 10 месяцев назад

      Omg... he will never hear it. You get me

    • @sumbl1ss
      @sumbl1ss 4 месяца назад

      Mine: he heard it. It rocked him.

  • @Laur24
    @Laur24 2 года назад +43

    After 7 years and 2 kids I finally left my mentally and emotionally abusive relationship, finding this song was a godsend thank you. I couldn’t articulate my words properly without feeling overwhelming guilt and severe anxiety but your song did it perfectly.

    • @crystalwaddoups8033
      @crystalwaddoups8033 2 года назад +1

      Lauren after listening to the song then reading over comments I came across yours I know I'm a complete stranger but just wanted to say I hope for you that your life is good and glad still hopeing your well , I'm pregnant now but away from him don't know how ill make it

    • @Laur24
      @Laur24 2 года назад +1

      @@crystalwaddoups8033 give yourself time, it’s okay to feel the emotions it’s okay to miss the person they were. I miss my best friend I miss the fun we had but in the end the bad outweighed the good. I hope he gets better but I also needed to get better and heal. I’m doing good and taking medication to help with my depression and anxiety. Just remember you are not crazy or wrong for asking to be treated right. I wish you all the love and luck in the world, you’ve a beautiful baby on the way who I promise will heal parts of you that you never knew needed to be healed❤️

    • @chelliemcfarland4963
      @chelliemcfarland4963 2 года назад +1

      how did you get the courage to leave?

    • @treacled11
      @treacled11 Год назад

      @@chelliemcfarland4963 inask that too 22 years and still cant fond the courage or strength 😭 maybe I just deserve this😭

    • @hollywiggins5685
      @hollywiggins5685 Год назад

      Me too how did you find the courage to do it without feeling like dying 😢

  • @cheriewairau6868
    @cheriewairau6868 2 года назад +231

    This song hit me so hard.... I've finally escaped my situation 🙌 for anyone who is fearful to leave ... trust me you can do this xo

    • @minkamariseiter1793
      @minkamariseiter1793 2 года назад +3

      Same here!!! God bless and protect and heal you ❣️💞🌞🙏🏻💜

    • @Sassyclassy93
      @Sassyclassy93 2 года назад +2

      I hope so im going through hard as ive known him from age 7 didnt see him for 10 years been together 2 been nothing but toxic 😪 violence and screwed my mental health worse than it already was 💔

    • @jenjones4121
      @jenjones4121 2 года назад +1

      i love u for this....

    • @halibrooks179
      @halibrooks179 2 года назад

      If you don't mind could I ask a question on how you did it my husband keeps saying if I leave he will take my kids... But for the last 2 years he has said he don't believe their his,but refuses to let me leave the house. Any advice

    • @cassiem771
      @cassiem771 2 года назад +1

      @Hali Brooks Do you have anybody you could take you abd your kids to? Like family or a friend of some sort.. get out of there before things get worse and remember at the end of the day him as a an individual can't take your kids away.. that's a decision made by a judge which takes time to get approved anyways

  • @1DeadMurphy
    @1DeadMurphy 2 года назад +102

    I'm ashamed to admit this, but I've done exactly this to my wife. I'm not proud of the child I was, and in some instances I still am. But hearing this song brings tears and heartache. I swear I am trying every day to be a better man than I was for her, who has stood by me, gently pushing me to be better. She makes me want to be better, she deserves a better man than I, but still... Morning after morning I wake up and she is still there.
    She left me once and came back. Why I don't know... But I am doing whatever it takes to turn the last 15 years into 30, 40, and beyond.
    I am TRULY sorry for the monster I was. And she forgives me every day. She is truly a queen of queens.

    • @michaelthacker7852
      @michaelthacker7852 Год назад +7

      You made a big step in admitting. You can and will change bro

    • @michaelthacker7852
      @michaelthacker7852 Год назад +2

      Props to you

    • @tiffanyhurst8305
      @tiffanyhurst8305 Год назад +9

      That takes a real man to admit your faults.. I pretend that this was words to me from my husband. I wish there is or was something I could do about my situation. I have no friends. My family only. That's fine with me. But over the last several months I feel like he is slowly slipping further away from me.. and all I can do Is bang my head against my thoughts of what I can do or should do. I'm so mentally exhausted. Physical drained.. emotionaly scarred.. so close to giving up.. I love him and our beautiful baby girl but now it's starting to make me feel like I'm going crazy. And that's the narcissist in him telling me I'm 😞crazy. He has his family all believe I'm paranoid schizophrenic.i have to walk away before I do lose the rest of my sanity

    • @1DeadMurphy
      @1DeadMurphy Год назад +5

      @@tiffanyhurst8305 I think the best thing you can do for yourself and especially your daughter is to do what YOU believe is the best. It is only with the drastic reality of the potential loss of the one person in my life who has always been in my corner did I start to see what a child I have been.
      It is said that a drastic situation begets drastic change. YOU can not make him see what he is doing to you. YOU can not control how he thinks or feels, YOU can only control and effect yourself and the safety and welfare of your child. I pray you find the wisdom and courage to do what is right for you and that little girl. Remember, a child is like a sponge for the first five years of their lives and will mimic their lessons learned during those 5 years for the rest of their lives...
      Dont give up on yourself, the best is yet to come.

    • @wanderingsoul2758
      @wanderingsoul2758 Год назад +3

      ​@@tiffanyhurst8305what's happened since you posted this

  • @Katarina155
    @Katarina155 Год назад +5

    I left a really abusive relationship to a narcissist. You're right, I gave him everything, and years later I'm just finally starting to give myself that love and compassion. This song really spoke to me, thank you

  • @nicolegraham2383
    @nicolegraham2383 Год назад +10

    I just opened my RUclips and found this song. It’s crazy how things happen the way they do. I’m honestly kind of speechless. Other than the fact I am bawling my eyeballs out right now. Every word of this song is my life. I just opened my RUclips and found this song. It’s crazy how things happen the way they do. I’m honestly kind of speechless. Other than the fact I am bawling my eyeballs out right now. Every word of this song is my life. People really don’t understand how I feel when I try to explain to them. All I can say is thank you

  • @kimberleyhollands
    @kimberleyhollands 2 года назад +15

    Another amazing song. You have no idea how many people you help find a way to release unspoken feelings, Your such an inspiration

  • @joyoflifebyalivia
    @joyoflifebyalivia 2 года назад +27

    Amazing song. 🔥
    I pray that everyone gets the strength to break out of such relationships. No one should ever feel that way.

  • @melindacoss7840
    @melindacoss7840 2 года назад +45

    Hits deep deep deep in that hole that lies in our hearts. Ladies we are enough and it's not us. I'm here right now. Love you all beautiful queens ❤️‍🔥

  • @TiffanyMartin-w1o
    @TiffanyMartin-w1o Год назад +3

    I have been listening to this song now for over a year. Thru the abuse the wanting to leave and finally finding a way out. It hasn’t been easy, one of the hardest things I have ever done. My therapist says I have what they call a trauma bond. Thank you for your songs not just this one but all of them.

  • @lyricsinnature1879
    @lyricsinnature1879 2 года назад +18

    Every single word in every single line of this Song is so damn TRUE!! I really appreciate the work done by this whole team.
    I have been saying this too “NOT EVERY ABUSE IS VISIBLE”!!!!!
    With this song a-lot of people will get awareness regarding Narcissism and hopefully it will save them in future by helping them to notice the red flags of a Narcissist.

  • @sierragodwin9524
    @sierragodwin9524 2 года назад +20

    This song is hitting me so hard right now, and I just got out of the hospital, from a mental break down. I love your music, it hits hard but cuz I’ve been through it, I feel it. Your music helps me, through it, and I’m fleeing narcissistic abuse because I realized I don’t need to put up with it anymore, and never did. So thank you!

    • @michaelthacker7852
      @michaelthacker7852 Год назад +1

      🙏

    • @michaelthacker7852
      @michaelthacker7852 Год назад +1

      Same 10 years I went thru this. ( woman on new man's account)
      So blessed but 1 man shouldn't have to pick up the pieces. I'm alive only because of him. -z

    • @Sandra-zz1yv
      @Sandra-zz1yv Год назад

      Your not alone .love sandy ❤❤

  • @taelorwetzel5517
    @taelorwetzel5517 2 года назад +17

    Just found this song have had it on repeat.. The words are so powerful... Sometimes in life we deal with things so breathtakingly sad it consumes us... This song hits home on so many levels.. Thanks for putting yourself into your music and sharing it with the world...

  • @HypeOnChocolate
    @HypeOnChocolate 2 года назад +8

    This song felt like it was telling my story word for word with my (thankfully) now ex fiance. I found your music at a really dark time in my life and slowly but surely the songs that you created have helped me to heal enough that I finally made it to 6 months without self harming without an attempt at suicide. Your music is saving people and I want to thank you for that so much.

  • @rochellehickman3192
    @rochellehickman3192 2 года назад +5

    Bad ass song.. love it. It hit me hard. I got out of a narcissistic relationship. Well I ran and never looked back. Everything you said in this song is true about that relationship. But every day I get better. Therapy and prayer have helped me so much.

  • @chrystalbolander5060
    @chrystalbolander5060 Год назад +5

    Just stumbled across your page, you're an amazing artist....I've never felt so lost, worthless, abandoned. I love your message, thank you

  • @StayWildStarSeedChild
    @StayWildStarSeedChild 2 года назад +6

    I'm crying. I've almost completed this toxic cycle and so grateful for the lesson. Made me more independent and self love self care self worth. Tried one last time hours ago and he ignored my warnings from what God told me. So I let it go finally after 15 years! I'm 30 now. That's half my life...wasted on this connection. I'm so done with it. He lost out on this opportunity, As did many others. I'm healing now and this song popped up. Must of been a sign 🤘 thank you. On repeat as I cry and heal.... liked and will share. Thank you again 💗 Angelia Gairdner

  • @deealbon653
    @deealbon653 2 года назад +68

    How many times have you heard ‘things happen for a reason’ I may never get to know all the reasons, but finding this song at this time, this one I do know, much needed, thank you ❤️‍🔥

    • @laurahell
      @laurahell 2 года назад +1

      I was just saying the same thing
      It definitely came at a moment I needed it the most

  • @jailove2765
    @jailove2765 2 года назад +12

    I love your music. Thank you for this song. I felt like I’ve had deep conversations about my situation listening to this. Not a single word was off.

  • @brieh5183
    @brieh5183 Год назад +3

    You deserve every like, view and subscriber you get. Every word of this song describes what I have been going through. He left a few days ago, after almost 2 years, saying I didn't give him anything. I gave him everything. I completely destroyed myself for this guy and it meant nothing to him. I appreciate your songs more than you know! You're surely my hero, my life saver at this moment.

  • @ashleighjohnson4854
    @ashleighjohnson4854 Год назад +5

    I cried the first time I heard this song which was today. Everything that was in the song was almost exactly what I went through....thank you for this song. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @silentshadow2957
    @silentshadow2957 2 года назад +7

    I can't relate to this song, but I have to say, I absolutely love how all your songs are written. The rhymes are so smooth and it flows really well. I write poems and occasionally songs, and I don't know how you do it. Lyrics are spot on.

  • @ashmazing88b26
    @ashmazing88b26 2 года назад +7

    This resonates with me right now ….ur words in ur songs are so real and feel every part of wat u say in the songs u write ❤

  • @amandabishop7833
    @amandabishop7833 2 года назад +5

    I discovered your music six months to a year ago. Concept of time is difficult for me. Thank you for your music, thank you for your words, thank you for your message, thank you for your kindness, your compassion, and your effort in awareness. Just listening helps me to calm, helps me to focus, and helps me to remember that I am not crazy, well maybe a little, and to know that I can recover. Helps me to stay strong most of the time and gives me hope for better things and better relationships in the future. It is a struggle for me daily, but feel I am learning to heal. I fight everyday for myself and to not give in to what I know tears me apart. Trying to learn to let go of needing answers and trying to make sense of what I know will never make sense. Again, Thank you.

  • @AshleyGabriel-x9h
    @AshleyGabriel-x9h Год назад +6

    I can really relate to this song, I just got out of a toxic relationship two months ago. Thank you for your support.

  • @jasperroth4644
    @jasperroth4644 2 года назад +1

    Oh! Oh, my!
    I’m 67 years old!
    You were “strumming my face with your beats”
    “Singing my life with your words”
    Killing me softly with your song…yes - I’m from back in the day - but love all kinds of music…you are amazing!
    After 41 years with a narcissist I jumped pout a window of the room he locked me in. A home I personally bought - worth a cool million - I’ve never looked back - gone back - or spoken to him again….
    Peace is more important to me than that “stuff” I left behind. Spent 4 years homeless on the streets and just finally got all his debts (in my name) paid off and an in a tiny, one bedroom apartment.
    Peace.
    Blessed peace.

  • @rue_333
    @rue_333 2 года назад +57

    I’ve just came out of an abusive and manipulative relationship……this song sleeks you me in a different level 🥹❤️

    • @lexiebennett422
      @lexiebennett422 2 года назад +1

      Same. For over a year i thought they loved me and it was my responsibility to look after them and get nothing in return. Every little fight turned into a full blown war.

  • @LovinJesus8310
    @LovinJesus8310 2 года назад +5

    POWERFUL! THAT'S THE WORD THAT COMES TO MIND! You put this into a song and where millions of us couldn't express not only to ourselves but to others!! TODAY I NEEDED THAT SONG! I THANK YOU AND I THANK GOD!💯❤️💯❤️💯❤️💯

  • @faith4580
    @faith4580 Год назад +4

    Thank you for this song! i had this issue and never saw the signs, i never realized that that is not love. i was raised with abuse and stuff so i thought that is how someone loves you. i made a new friend and they told me that is was not and explained that what i went through was abuse and not okay. i got out with there help, i wish that my mom showed me what love really was because i went through so much and thinking it all was love.

  • @Sarah-e9v1m
    @Sarah-e9v1m Год назад +1

    OMG! You just described my marriage! After 32 years of being with a narcissist, I am learning to stand on my own for the 1st time in my life. Your lyrics seem to be taken straight from my head! Thank you for bringing awareness to mental health!

  • @chilltarts
    @chilltarts 3 месяца назад

    You will never know how much I needed this… I don’t want to get into the details, but two days ago my heart was shredded. My trust was smashed. My reality became a joke and now I’m trying to work through the shock, anger, and grief of it all. Thank you for providing those of us with a voice after we have lost so much we can’t even form a coherent thought to express the deep pain that seers through our souls.

  • @christalabarrett3099
    @christalabarrett3099 Год назад +6

    I'm so blessed to have found this song, music is my therapy and this one hits deep. Thank you so much from someone who's trying to heal not only from childhood trauma but adulthood trauma too... It's so bloody hard but I know I have to keep going even in my own mist of dark fears ❤

    • @MaryOdom3492
      @MaryOdom3492 Год назад +1

      🦋 I lost my self for a man for years before I got strong enough to let one guy in after I was separated from him for two years. The first guy gave my trust was someone I went elementary School the school and high school. I thought God was giving me him as a blessing but instead he was a lesson that I didn't see coming I probably should have looking back now it hurt when you find out you didn't mean what they meant to you. It break you even harder because you let that guard down

  • @kazza-n7e
    @kazza-n7e 2 года назад +4

    Just discovered your music, I feel like I've related to every single lyric and it's made me feel positive, that I aren't alone in my own head, and there is people out there who truly understand. New fan here, I can assure, keep up your amazing work, a true lyricist 💯👏🏻

  • @Iloveinternet727
    @Iloveinternet727 2 года назад +9

    I love how he write all these lyrics that's all about women ❤ 💙 💕....he's a real gem .and I believe he will surely understand if I talk about my problems with him..

  • @laneyhulsey4453
    @laneyhulsey4453 Год назад +1

    I've currently listened to this song like 50 times in the past hour. Thank you for speaking the truth and making me realize the relationship i'm in is truly toxic.

  • @michellericketts8538
    @michellericketts8538 4 месяца назад

    Wow…it’s like you reached into my mind,heart ,& soul and put it to music. Made me cry. You’re the first man I’ve seen who seems to get what some of us have been through-and will never stop going through.

  • @Brokensoul1974
    @Brokensoul1974 2 года назад +30

    The words in this song are real a complete masterpiece.I went through it for 13 years mental physical verbal.Abuse name calling put downs him cheating telling so many lies.The list goes on I was stupid I took him back he got in my head he told me who would look at the likes of you who would want you.I wouldnt survive without him.I needed him Male or female whoever reads this.Dont be like me get out stay out please Before it's too late.❤️

  • @margaretwilkie3203
    @margaretwilkie3203 2 года назад +4

    I've just plucked up the courage to listen to this, it's so relatable. It made me cry but I now know I was strong enough to break free from that narcissist it all makes so much sense now. Thank you for your music. It helps me so much its my go to therapy rather than SH I can't wait to hear more .. I'll always be forever grateful to you xx 🙏💕

  • @Enyabx
    @Enyabx 2 года назад +14

    Most relatable song for me as my relationship isn't going well. Thank you for your music

    • @emmaseymour6980
      @emmaseymour6980 2 года назад +2

      If you ever need a chat you can message me . I know the feeling very well. It gets better xx

    • @Enyabx
      @Enyabx 2 года назад

      @@emmaseymour6980 thank you I'm still searching for the better but I'm trying.

  • @deekay6291
    @deekay6291 Год назад +1

    I'm on my 11th time listening to this consecutively. And I'm pretty sure that I have no tears left in my body, I know I have no more energy. I know I have no more hope, no trust. But to find a song that puts into words what I can not atleast shows me I'm not alone.

  • @Ashiierose
    @Ashiierose Год назад +2

    Heard this song on tik tok, and fell in love, this song hits home for me 😢 6 months ive been free of my abuser, yet i still feel the effects of what i was made to go through

  • @justmecrazygirl
    @justmecrazygirl 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for making this song, i'm still searching and find myself again...

  • @Whoami-e4r
    @Whoami-e4r Год назад +3

    This artist is an absolute legend spreading awareness ❤

  • @amberh3514
    @amberh3514 2 месяца назад +3

    I escaped the narcissist 3 years ago. This hits hard. And now I'm living the best life and I glowed up.

  • @yolandacolby
    @yolandacolby Год назад

    You brought tears to my eye. This hits on so many levels. 💋

  • @Amishathakur_
    @Amishathakur_ 2 года назад +4

    I saw your post on insta yesterday about you dealing with something. I really hope you get better and seek help if needed.
    Thank you for these songs! i came across your song 3 days back and i can't believe i didn't heard it before , i know it's not " okay " of me to relate to your lyrics but i do and I'm thankful that someone can actually put it so beautifully into words.
    Please keep writing & never stop! i and everyone else is here for you. Sending you love and strength, like you send us through your music 💌🤍

  • @jackiemeredith1586
    @jackiemeredith1586 Год назад +4

    After hearing this song I can’t believe how powerful it is and how it can bring memories and feelings into focus. Keep shining bro because you giving light to everyone who needs it fr. Your messages are inspirational and it helps pick some of us up off the ground we settled upon. This beat is bangin, the lyrics hit even deeper and the way you spit and had it flow together was insanely perfect. ❤️✨❤️✨❤️

  • @miss_ronja7778
    @miss_ronja7778 2 года назад +27

    Sending this to my ex !
    The lyrics says everything I never dare to say 😢
    Thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @AlwaysThaBaby
    @AlwaysThaBaby Год назад

    I feel like you watched the history of my relationships and then wrote this about every lame excuse for a "man" I've ever been with. Don't keep silent, keep speaking for us. Please message me, I'd love to share my story and give you some inspiration, motivation, and insight. Sending love and light to you

  • @desereevoisin762
    @desereevoisin762 Месяц назад

    Honestly from artist to artist this is more than music! Stay safe and spread the love properly 🙏💖

  • @dawnbamm1050
    @dawnbamm1050 Год назад +3

    This song I relate to 100% & one my play list & listen to it even more when I'm up in my thoughts over thinking & feelings. It's hard to get yourself back after going thru mental emotional & physical abuse. I can say if it wasn't for songs like this I wouldn't be here today. Much love ❤❤❤

  • @foreverloyal420
    @foreverloyal420 2 года назад +8

    I can relate to this song a lot
    I got out of a bad situation that I feel this song was made about.
    Thank you for making this ♥️

  • @theEllhere
    @theEllhere 2 года назад +5

    This is literally the song I've always needed

  • @jdeangelio
    @jdeangelio 8 месяцев назад

    Everytime I listen to this it hits home in a big way. Most of my life i've fell for this sort of person.. No matter how hard i'd try it always turned out the same. I can't thank you enough for this song.. I listen to it often just to remind myself i'm not alone

  • @Amey-xs4lx
    @Amey-xs4lx Год назад

    You're saving me and described exactly...exactly every point on what I'm going through...I'm trying to run away from this pain . I can't shake it

  • @mrsMeggles2011
    @mrsMeggles2011 2 года назад +4

    I say this from the bottom of my heart I love your music you have helped me through extremely difficult times in my life and so many of your lyrics hit home on different levels and even if just as a fan I appreciate your words more than you will ever know ❤

  • @tasneemjabari4257
    @tasneemjabari4257 2 года назад +15

    This world needs more men like u ...

  • @jenjen7589
    @jenjen7589 2 года назад +6

    THIS SONG SPEAKS VOLUMES HURT PPL HURT PPL MENTAL & EMOTIONAL ABUSE IS REAL..... THANKS FOR MAKING THIS SONG🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻💯

  • @ambercresswell4785
    @ambercresswell4785 Год назад

    Ur music is so rare and hits home for me so much. 31yrs of trauma and now I have to heal from 31 years of it

  • @Melanie-w3h9l
    @Melanie-w3h9l Год назад +1

    I know i am new to you. But i have to let you know the strength this song gave me. I was in a very very soul crushing relationship not even aware at first. So he was sleeping and i listened to you over and over. He yelled shut that fucking shit off. See if i find anything that brought joy or gave me strength it was taken away. So as soon as he went up town to get his black velvet, i tried to decide how do i get out because he had me so scared that there is always someone watching. I was to the point of being scared to leave the house. But after listening to your song over and over when he fell asleep i quietly called the sheriff and i went to the clinic and i am in a beautiful shelter and i do mean a safe safe shelter. I couldn't do it with out your song. I did alot of praying and asking my anscentors for help. But your song helped me get and leave. I am a great person. And i am not loosing my mind. All the things he took from me he can have just not my soul or my soft side. (Never become bitter)! YOU GOT THIS GIRLS)...

  • @ciannamorris
    @ciannamorris 2 года назад +14

    You deserve more recognition, every song has such an important message to all ❤ keep doin you, you’re amazing 💜 and an inspiration to all 🤍

  • @nayaramartins5034
    @nayaramartins5034 2 года назад +4

    your music is so amazing. so inspirational truly helped my sister through so many dark places im so grateful for your music. thank you for sharing your beautiful words! never listen to any of them horrible words your so much better than any of them people

  • @boostedbeautyphotography
    @boostedbeautyphotography 2 года назад +4

    Damn I can relate😔 I struggle everyday but still put a fake smile to keep others happy but yet no one seems to see or understand that I just need them to listen but they don't. Love your music it definitely helps me

  • @LMeadey7
    @LMeadey7 11 месяцев назад +1

    Only a kid but this music is too relatable 😢. I have been listening to you for a few months now and I’ve liked every video and added every song to my playlist. No one knows the pain I’m in right now and I feel like I can’t tell anyone. This music is the thing that is keeping me alive. So thank you for this amazing music

  • @Vixen86ed46
    @Vixen86ed46 Год назад

    Thank you for giving the survivors of narcissistic abuse a voice! God Bless You!

  • @mommylani9822
    @mommylani9822 2 года назад +21

    I finally left him… I’m having his child… he will never see my little girl… he lost me and her because he couldn’t control his anger. He preyed on me. He knew I was hurt. He just made everything worse. The only good thing that came out of him was my little angel. She doesn’t know she’s already been through hell. I need to keep her from what he’s done.

    • @Khloe-sn8ef
      @Khloe-sn8ef 9 месяцев назад +1

      Good on you, I understand that I might me very hard to leave. This may not mean much but I am so proud of you for finding the strength to leave him and creating a new future for you and your daughter

  • @bakugouisthebest2225
    @bakugouisthebest2225 2 года назад +8

    I love your music. You've helped me so much. Thank you

  • @aliyahnz85kxx
    @aliyahnz85kxx 2 года назад +5

    Oh my god! I litrelly love your music if you had a concert I would deffo go!! You talk about how people feel just in your amazing music I love you so much and your music keep up the good talent x ❤🎉

  • @kim_8377
    @kim_8377 Год назад

    I just came upon you today and boy thank you for the way you have written these words to this song…when your happy you enjoy the music when your sad/broken you understand the lyrics…I guess we’re really never alone even though it feels that way…brilliant mind thank you

  • @merlenahills3792
    @merlenahills3792 Год назад +1

    Spoken truth! Word for word! Very heart wrenching to watch 💔 give thanks for your awareness and your talent 🙌🏽

  • @sirdustin16
    @sirdustin16 Год назад +9

    My mother was married to a narcissist for 30 years. She divorced him and thought, she would never find love again bc he made her believe she wasnt worth it, especially at her age. Now she is in a happy relationship with a man who treats her like a queen. It is never too late to dump that narcissist and start all over again.

  • @DaysByTheSea
    @DaysByTheSea 2 года назад +4

    You show absolute understanding for all types of MH and abuse.
    Each and everyone of us you make us feel heard, feel believed and not insane
    We can all relate and identify parts of ourselves in your music, like this one.
    The lyrics are always bang on in each, voice is hypnotically soothing, the tune is incredibly therapeutically calming.
    You leave us all feeling, heard, calmer, understood and most importantly not feeling so alone.
    A simple 'Thank you,' doesn't seem enough but it's all I got to give for now, and making others aware of this channel as there are so many people out there who need your tunes.
    In short, 'You're appreciated by us all, thank you.'
    Shivers.

  • @angieeyeler8127
    @angieeyeler8127 2 года назад +4

    I wish I heard this a long time ago I almost losty life in the relationship I was in and now I have to fix myself for what thean did to me Georgiou your music saves me God bless

  • @michellepangelinan371
    @michellepangelinan371 Год назад

    I’ve listened to this different times when things get rough. It helps me keep strong as I try and get out of a toxic relationship. It helps me remember it’s not normal to be treated that way.

  • @katelopez7233
    @katelopez7233 Год назад

    Music has a way of finding the people that need to hear it. I definitely felt this song in every fiber of my being. The hardest thing to do is to leave someone you love so much.

  • @christelvarnon832
    @christelvarnon832 2 года назад +31

    Why the hell are so many of us in the same situations???? 😭

    • @darcylyon1870
      @darcylyon1870 8 месяцев назад +2

      Because the end is coming very soon. When the hearts of many grow cold and people worship themselves...

    • @melodieholmes8808
      @melodieholmes8808 8 месяцев назад +4

      Because even though there's so many of us, we are still trapped and feel alone

    • @ashtyncastle7618
      @ashtyncastle7618 7 месяцев назад

      Right leaves less room

    • @johnnymontes5963
      @johnnymontes5963 7 месяцев назад

      ,💔

    • @jadeboland-bb9uj
      @jadeboland-bb9uj 7 месяцев назад +3

      Coz people can’t be loyal to the ones they say they love xx

  • @valeriewillis7092
    @valeriewillis7092 2 года назад +4

    Love the song, very helpful. Just not quite too sure about the dad part ❤️‍🩹

  • @Lookingforaditi
    @Lookingforaditi Год назад +1

    In a world filled with many wonderful people, please never forget that you are one of them. It is normal to feel small, insignificant even, when you meet new people. It is easy to recognise how amazing, beautiful and talented others are and to forget about your own strengths. I just want to remind you that even if there are 7.9 billion people in this world, you are still one of a kind. You still matter. And your existence is important. The voices in your head might be saying that your life is pointless, because you are not as special as others; that's a lie, my love. You are so special. It is time to finally recognise your worth.

  • @jordibowen2866
    @jordibowen2866 Год назад

    I hope you realize everyday how impactful you are in the best way for giving us a voice when we have no idea how to speak on what’s going on or are able to say what’s happening I listened to this and it just helped me through tonight a bit that someone is being there

  • @AbiDunn-xj5qx
    @AbiDunn-xj5qx Год назад +3

    It’s not even a romantic relationship, it’s my dad

  • @delulululululululu
    @delulululululululu 8 месяцев назад

    You sound like a man who has gone through a lot yourself because there's no way you write lyrics so deep without pain in your heart. I think you might have witnessed your mum or sister in abusive relationships.Your pain and wisdom is evident in your lyrics. I hope all your dreams come true and I hope your loved ones stay blessed ❤

  • @Kat-ju8ro
    @Kat-ju8ro 7 месяцев назад

    As one who's written my own songs on this dynamic (being the female in the situation you so perfectly express), I can't find the words adequate enough to tell you how powerful it is to hear you, a man, take a stand and raise awareness for us, to stand up against the men who've brought us arguably the most painful (and most meaningful) lessons of our lives. Thank you for your passion, your dedication, and putting yourself out here to artistically speak our truth. ❤