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  • @lindalopez4888
    @lindalopez4888 2 года назад +2835

    Saying “If it weren’t for my wife and kid we’d have a chance” puts murder in that crazy broad’s head.

    • @shannonguider8206
      @shannonguider8206 2 года назад +156

      Yep instantly thought of the movie “obsessed”

    • @pmccray551
      @pmccray551 2 года назад +36

      Facts

    • @yezeniaolivera
      @yezeniaolivera 2 года назад +78

      THIS PART!!! DONT ADD MORE TO THE PROBLEM

    • @nyahjohnson7126
      @nyahjohnson7126 2 года назад +90

      That’s what I was thinking! Now she’d really be motivated to get the wife out of the picture … like you’re giving her a reason to tell or worse

    • @nodaysoff2005
      @nodaysoff2005 2 года назад +31

      Correct. You do not make it seem like his pregnant girl is in the way.

  • @QueenWhit
    @QueenWhit 2 года назад +3184

    The wife won’t ever be able to bounce back from this simply because she was pregnant. She’s got a whole life growing in her belly your heir. He couldn’t wait? Something that he had a part to play in (making a baby) n he couldn’t wait. No compassion, understanding or sympathy for something he started. Every action has consequences. Now he’s gotta reap what he’s sown.. well let’s hope we get what happened after with it all.

    • @estadje
      @estadje 2 года назад +105

      Exactly.

    • @ataretatewhata2151
      @ataretatewhata2151 2 года назад +276

      Yup I agree my fiancé did this to me whilst I was pregnant with our son who sadly passed away I found out a couple weeks after he passed to this day it still hurts and is hard to move on from..

    • @blus1028
      @blus1028 2 года назад +176

      @@ataretatewhata2151 I hope you mean ex. I'm so so sorry for your loss

    • @justincarter1217
      @justincarter1217 2 года назад +9

      Facto

    • @franziskaschlott3081
      @franziskaschlott3081 2 года назад +110

      And not even considering couples therapy or something. The next best thing is a side chick… wtf

  • @estadje
    @estadje 2 года назад +714

    He doesn't deserve his family. He didn't care enough to be loyal to the woman that was carrying his legacy. Yuck.

  • @JennaMellor164
    @JennaMellor164 2 года назад +1564

    As someone that this happened to 7 years ago, bar the fact I didn't withhold intimacy during pregnancy although I understand why the wife would, this is not something that you get over. The side chick in my situation went into graphic detail about her and my ex, and details of the conversations (she was one of his exes) and one sentence to this day stays in my head "he said he wishes I was the mother of his kids and not you". I have 2nd guessed every parenting decision I've ever made since then, and it still stings now. I hope this guy gets what's coming to him. Pregnancy is emotionally tough on a woman as it is without added bullshit like this. XxX

    • @jujutrini8412
      @jujutrini8412 2 года назад +156

      He was most likely lying when he said that to her to make her feel good. Even if he meant that when he said that to her that in no way reflects on your parenting skills as it would have been a reflection on how he viewed the relationship he had with her. Everytime negative thoughts like that come to you about the affair remember that HE was the one that did the wrong thing, not you!

    • @codedee
      @codedee 2 года назад +59

      Wow. I hope you continue to heal and that one day his careless words won’t have you second guessing yourself.
      LK

    • @Bblauu
      @Bblauu Год назад +44

      Enough second guessing, Jenna. You’ve got this ♥️

    • @smp6565
      @smp6565 Год назад +20

      Wow you are incredibly strong for making it through this🙏🏻I'm heartbroken for you experiencing this and hope that you find peace and healing❤️

    • @iwashere5956
      @iwashere5956 Год назад

      You should have chose better and kept your legs closed

  • @lashes231
    @lashes231 2 года назад +1231

    It's scary how WELL! James knows how to spin these lies to get out of cheating situations🤣 he has waaayyy too much experience!

  • @blus1028
    @blus1028 2 года назад +677

    Nah James. Youre telling him to play mind games with this chick - and to deprive his wife of the truth which she deserves. He can still parent his child even if they're not together and this is all HIS fault. He deserves his consequences

    • @yaboimatteo7706
      @yaboimatteo7706 2 года назад +25

      Nah the side chick knew what she was getting into and she's now playing mind games with him. He needs to do something
      Not excusing What he did to the wife cuz homie fucked up big time.
      Also that shit they're saying will never get rid of her

    • @celinemara565
      @celinemara565 2 года назад +85

      @@yaboimatteo7706 the side chick is not married to the wife ; he owes her loyalty not the side chick

    • @londonmccutcheon885
      @londonmccutcheon885 Год назад +26

      @@yaboimatteo7706 so you’re saying he has no wrong in this for cheating on his pregant wife because she she was pregnant ?💀

    • @curlykoala696
      @curlykoala696 Год назад +9

      @@londonmccutcheon885 it's like you missed the part where he said "not excusing what he did to the wife cuz homie fucked up big time".
      Idiot who cheated has two issues and the fact he cheated is just one of those issues (which is the only part of it ppl are focusing on and they're not wrong. Second issue is still unaddressed though).
      Cheater and affair partner can both be in the wrong, especially if AP knows cheater is married and has/expecting kids. Then AP pulls this stunt? Very sticky situation

    • @ajyearby2425
      @ajyearby2425 Год назад +1

      Exactly lol. It’s a show derived for men, and they’re trying to answer a question.

  • @janicemoreira5298
    @janicemoreira5298 2 года назад +469

    The way James said all that you know he was toxic lol

  • @pokemonlover7186
    @pokemonlover7186 2 года назад +726

    He deserves everything that’s coming to him I’m only gutted that I can’t sit and watch with some pop corn 😂 if he’s watching then we need a follow up 🤣

  • @sharie8729
    @sharie8729 Год назад +187

    Imagine being sick and your WIFE(not a GF or side ting) cheated! That's just how it sounds with roles reversed. He lacked self control basically and he's deep in it now.

  • @exclusivelyraven3515
    @exclusivelyraven3515 2 года назад +566

    This is tough to hear because when I was pregnant, I felt horrendous. Any movement I made I thought I was going to spend all day being sick….. it’s not that a girl loses her sex drive, in fact the hormones make you extra horny!! It’s just that the body feels so delicate.
    And these feelings are totally out of our control, so not waiting for a few months until your girl is ready is lower than low

    • @amybeelicious
      @amybeelicious 2 года назад +75

      I personally was told by my doc NOT to have sex during pregnancy because it was a very high risk pregnancy so it just wasn't allowed. Thank God my hubby was understanding tho and just yanked off in the bathroom like a normal person.

    • @tigizarts1105
      @tigizarts1105 Год назад +8

      9months is not few months mehn. That close to a whole year mehn. No excuse but let's be fair. Couples need to think and plan how to avoid such sexless periods, being pregnant does not mean he stopped being a man with dick.

    • @amybeelicious
      @amybeelicious Год назад +69

      @@tigizarts1105 no one is arguing that but that doesn't give people excuses to cheat or get others pregnant elsewhere. There's plenty of alternatives to that situation. Some women cannot for medical reasons have relations while pregnant. That's a fact. If men want to be for the streets or community just say that

    • @creativeink4407
      @creativeink4407 Год назад +100

      @@amybeelicious yall act like u didnt go years without sex before u had it..say u had it for the first time at 18...all of a sudden 9 months is too much..stop making excuses

    • @creativeink4407
      @creativeink4407 Год назад +32

      Pregnancies can be different....if she says she's not horrny..she's not horny.....why invalidate it

  • @sh33n.1
    @sh33n.1 2 года назад +234

    Noooo worst advice, do not tell a crazy girl that you'd be with her if things were different, this is how wives end up dead, with the side chick hoping she'll end up with him. Do you not watch the crime Channel. He needs to call her bluff with some harsh words and then be ready to tell his wife the truth, she's just had a baby, the last thing she'll want is a destroyed home. She may not forget but she may forgive if he puts the work in and shows her how much he knows he f'd up but wants to save his fam. But jeez what a d**k head.

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 Год назад +4

      I agree with you 💯 👍

    • @cecemimi101
      @cecemimi101 Год назад

      I think he has to call her like he wants to talk and then when he gets to her house beat her relentlessly like put her in the hospital break her arm and everything spit on her. And tell her if she says anything to his wife he’ll kill her. That way she’ll be absolutely petrified and she won’t even want him anymore to wanna break up his marriage anyways. But he has to beat her badly not just one punch or it won’t work she has to fear for her life.

    • @nickelpennybanks
      @nickelpennybanks Год назад +6

      Yep. My ex was lying to me and his live in gf who he just bought a house with and she just had his baby. and when I told her everything she yelled at him and then they stayed together anyway.. 🤷🏽‍♀️ some people would rather not do parenthood alone and face that “embarrassment”, even if their partner is a piece of garbage.

    • @cecemimi101
      @cecemimi101 Год назад +2

      @@nickelpennybanks how did u find out he had another girlfriend who he was living with no less

  • @saryntoews
    @saryntoews 2 года назад +913

    “I need help. I CHEATED ON MY PREGNANT WIFE.”
    First of all, you’d never need help if you’d sucked it up and maybe… idk… NOT CHEATED ON YOUR PREGANT WIFE?!! Is it THAT hard to stay loyal?

    • @TheIJP123
      @TheIJP123 2 года назад +80

      Fr!!! I hope he gets caught lol

    • @afluid5679
      @afluid5679 2 года назад +7

      Yes it is that hard to stay loyal when you gotta go so long without sex. As a male at least

    • @clarax4098
      @clarax4098 2 года назад

      @@afluid5679 BUT LIKE SHE WAS PREGNANT. Men like this DON’T deserve second chance even if he needed sex this bad

    • @miawestgate6784
      @miawestgate6784 2 года назад +84

      @@afluid5679 it’s not hard if you love her, bust one out on your ones!

    • @saryntoews
      @saryntoews 2 года назад

      @@afluid5679 sorry but you’re humanity’s weakest link. Your wife, is literally sacrifice her body image, her expectations for her future, and possibly her LIFE if things go wrong during delivery. The LEAST any man can do is stay loyal especially when they’re the one’s who nutted inside in the first place.
      Edit: it’s not her fault if her sex drive crashes during pregnancy. Its a tumultuous time for the brain and body working against each other. You should read into the details of what happens psychologically and physically to women during pregnancy.

  • @saralynch6472
    @saralynch6472 2 года назад +2413

    When these guys talk about women cheating they are so harsh, when its a boy, they are sooo sympathetic 😅

    • @mayarmagdy8126
      @mayarmagdy8126 2 года назад +763

      I like their podcast, But you're sooo right 😂 whenever it's a woman cheating they pearl clutch soooo hard and act like she committed murder and like that's the worst pain a man could eveeeer feel 😂 but when it's a man cheating they wanna play devil's advocate and act like it's a normal part of life that every man cheats and we should just get over it

    • @kielanwade5096
      @kielanwade5096 2 года назад +591

      Probably because they're wayyyyyy more misogynistic than they or their fans can admit

    • @celinemara565
      @celinemara565 2 года назад +333

      I have noticed this pattern in alot of men… they always sympathize with men when they cheat but they are so harsh on women who cheat. Not only do they feel bad for men who cheat they actually blame the “side chick” and call them names rather than calling the man out. He owes his wife loyalty its not the side chick. So many times i see men on youtube calling these women names and saying they are for the street as they excuse men when they cheat. The hypocrisy is real.

    • @S1onerS1oner
      @S1onerS1oner 2 года назад +128

      I think it's just bcz they put themselves in his (cheater) shoe , while it's harder for a man to put himself in a women shoe and imagine acting right , idk I haven't noticed what you saying

    • @celinemara565
      @celinemara565 2 года назад +48

      @@S1onerS1oner so why would they attack women for cheating too?

  • @maryamibrahim2574
    @maryamibrahim2574 2 года назад +304

    See how easily men lie to cover themselves 😂😂😂💀” you’re a good girl with morals”

    • @antonskor8127
      @antonskor8127 2 года назад

      We gotta keep it real, if this whole episode was with the woman cheating it would’ve been premeditated from start to finish.
      The only diff in women cheating is that usually they have it planned out and guys are more likely to not think it through yet still barge ahead.
      Dude is a scumbag for sure and deserves to get divorced on the spot.

    • @ceha9517
      @ceha9517 2 года назад +23

      Toxic

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 Год назад +4

      Legendary 😅😅😅😅🤣🤣😂

    • @thereader6371
      @thereader6371 Год назад

      It is not only the men, girls will do it as well.

    • @AveryB.0
      @AveryB.0 Месяц назад +1

      As she was having an affair lol

  • @rayhabnjoki9589
    @rayhabnjoki9589 2 года назад +114

    James has definitely had this conversation before 😂😂 That came out a little bit too smoothly 😂😂

  • @ThatAndreaLife
    @ThatAndreaLife 2 года назад +846

    As a pregnant wife, I’m telling you there’s 0 chance. None. Imma give you a child and you can’t wait 9 months Hell no 😂😂

    • @dartkid3666
      @dartkid3666 Год назад +22

      Sounds good till you in the mix

    • @reginamushi6582
      @reginamushi6582 Год назад +22

      It's funny most of you don't know that it is happening to you,...ppl cheat on their lunch break they are home straight from work! You think my man will never cheat! All the best

    • @miamimercenary9623
      @miamimercenary9623 Год назад +6

      i actually never viewed it from this perspective but the best thing any woman can do for a man is give him children. that’s absolutely worth suffering through 40+6 weeks

    • @Jahstice
      @Jahstice Год назад

      sounds like u r a terrible wife...

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb Год назад +5

      @@reginamushi6582 scary if you have so little hole in the people you date

  • @vineeta03
    @vineeta03 2 года назад +66

    omg im scared how fast James came up. with that speech to calm down the blackmailer.. it was so good

  • @JustineAngelaEstrada
    @JustineAngelaEstrada 2 года назад +157

    Just tell the truth and face the consequences. I hope the wife finds out. She deserves the know the true character of this man.

  • @AJ697
    @AJ697 2 года назад +604

    plot twist: the side ting is watching this

    • @nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181
      @nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181 2 года назад +13

      I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @colindash
      @colindash 2 года назад +16

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂… FINISHED!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @glowm28
      @glowm28 2 года назад +14

      Legit my thoughts 🤣🤣🤣

    • @vimog2834
      @vimog2834 2 года назад +20

      Plot plot twist the wife watches this in a couple years 😳

    • @cassandramuthleb2486
      @cassandramuthleb2486 2 года назад +16

      @@vimog2834 plot plot plot twist, wife is watching this now!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @LouisiannaInez
    @LouisiannaInez Год назад +108

    What sticks out the most in this mess, is that this supposed man's very first solution was a hitman. That says everything, he takes no responsibility for his actions, he doesn't love/respect his wife or the life they've created. If he acted like a man, owned his mess, made adequate apologies and changed his ways, then he may deserve a second chance. That being said, this is one of the most self-indulgent & unforgettable wrongs that you could inflict on a person. He will probably keep digging until he's got babies & mamas all over the place.

    • @sphelele4918
      @sphelele4918 Год назад

      The crazy part is how common it is for people to go straight to murder when they feel backed into a corner by a side ting threatening to torpedo their entire life. True crime YT is full of such cases.

  • @himaiashantamala741
    @himaiashantamala741 2 года назад +84

    What' ironic is the men that complain that you stopped being a wife the moment you became a mom are also the men that are uninvolved dads. Getting jealous of the babies attention, doesn't stay up late, waits for the wife to finish up and tend to him next. It's just another level of entitlement. I hope I didn't raise a man like that with my son. Sometimes this comes from family dynamic and the roles of the men they see while growing up.

    • @crazydragy4233
      @crazydragy4233 Год назад

      Yup, they don't want a wife, they want a mommy and a warm hole. (Cuz you know that's the only intercourse to them that counts)

  • @Daniel88563
    @Daniel88563 2 года назад +457

    I hope he writes back in with the results. If we don't hear back he's hired Jason Statham...

  • @oliverbatchelor3326
    @oliverbatchelor3326 2 года назад +109

    Naaa James defo follows Hoodville with that answer 😂💀 I died when he said I’m gonna miss that 💀

    • @ashleyterchea1
      @ashleyterchea1 2 года назад +6

      Not Hoodville 🤣

    • @OG-Savage
      @OG-Savage 2 года назад +14

      Theory, James is the admin of Hoodville 👀😂

  • @desirelizguzman9128
    @desirelizguzman9128 2 года назад +60

    James speech is like he’s been in a situation like that😂😭💯

  • @Lovely-ry9do
    @Lovely-ry9do 2 года назад +262

    He deserves to loose his family because his tool is more important to him then his PREGNANT wife! He's selfish af and someone like that can never raise a child properly anyway.. some men are just animals it doesn't even make sense! 🙄 Just make a fist bro you have no idea what she's going through during a pregnancy!

    • @sikkenkille1594
      @sikkenkille1594 2 года назад

      Wowow nobody said he wasnt there with his wife during the pregnancy. Wanting to nut and being able to love is two different things. Dont mix that up.

    • @curlymami
      @curlymami Год назад +4

      @@sikkenkille1594does it matter? He betrayed her trust, all while she was pregnant. Do you know what women go through during pregnancy? It’s really hard on the woman’s body, hormones are raging. He doesn’t care about her or their baby and that’s a fact 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @sikkenkille1594
      @sikkenkille1594 Год назад

      @@curlymami youre missing the point. Fucking and loving/caring is two different things. Dont fact stamp this poor fella for being horny.

  • @amybrill1457
    @amybrill1457 2 года назад +55

    Not him sitting here watching this on repeat to learn your lies, line by line so he can say this to the side ting 😭😂

  • @staceychambers9784
    @staceychambers9784 2 года назад +179

    imagine tho.. you’re a big man, a married man and father and you’re writing to THESE TWO for advice? That in itself, fix up

    • @iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137
      @iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137 Год назад +2

      your man 100% cheats on you

    • @botanicalitus4194
      @botanicalitus4194 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137just becausw yourefor the streets big dawg doesnt mean all other guys are too.

    • @GmarSt1
      @GmarSt1 6 месяцев назад +2

      This show is for
      Entertainment purposes only.
      Why would a married guy ask advice from 2 NON MARRIED GUYS?
      He’s stupid to begin with for
      Cheating and asking these dudes for advice. 😝

  • @oliviamuomua2764
    @oliviamuomua2764 2 года назад +167

    “I know you’re a girl with morals” I’m DEAD 💀 honestly, wife is gonna find out. Cause why would she care about the wife or baby? She knew what it was going into it

    • @jamerican_bae
      @jamerican_bae 2 года назад +35

      Nah when he said morals I was crying🤣. If she and the guy had morals we wouldnt be here

    • @Dgordonyoursalesman
      @Dgordonyoursalesman 2 года назад +10

      Oh he is definitely caught red handed. Bluff her? Lmao. Pack your shit bro, it’s over

  • @rainah-allelujahwofford8148
    @rainah-allelujahwofford8148 2 года назад +176

    My father passed away today and I needed something to laugh at when I got home, thank you guys so much for doing what you do 🥲❤

    • @4usmydear
      @4usmydear 2 года назад +4

      i’m very sorry for ur loss, allow him to live forever in your memory and heart😕💔

    • @ijustwannabehappier-v4973
      @ijustwannabehappier-v4973 2 года назад +3

      Your dad dies and you're on youtube at the same damn? Damn... empathy has gone

    • @dafnenoel9825
      @dafnenoel9825 2 года назад +6

      Condolences 💐💐💐

    • @jujutrini8412
      @jujutrini8412 2 года назад +3

      @@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 You must have little experience of grief.

    • @EBB505
      @EBB505 2 года назад +10

      ​@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 literally, you do know people grieve differently. Personally watching something distracts me from mad emotions! I could end up doing something crazy if I don't

  • @TheAedee
    @TheAedee Год назад +90

    James actually sounded like he was for real😂😂. Deep down, he's just another Yorùbá Demon named Femi😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sadunicorn3863
      @sadunicorn3863 Год назад +8

      BRUH!!! I’ve been saying the same! Honestly he’s a Yoruba demon

    • @namupolo1100
      @namupolo1100 Год назад +8

      Named Femi 😂😭😭

  • @kikinatrone
    @kikinatrone Год назад +66

    Why didn't he talk about the lack of intimacy during the pregnancy with her. She probably would have agreed to something to help you out. Husbands talk to your wives, they love you and want the best for you.

    • @jt19933
      @jt19933 Год назад +4

      Not all wives love their husbands and vice versa.

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb Год назад +14

      @@jt19933 then he should leave ffs

  • @pocketz2202
    @pocketz2202 2 года назад +456

    Hahaha, the bro code have men in such a chokehold they are racking their brains helping a person get a way with breaking another person's trust. Yikes.
    I pray for you bois!

    • @Rubik_Bee
      @Rubik_Bee 2 года назад +74

      Precisely, the way they thought an explicit excuse for him to give for his side chick gets to show that men will always be men making them self conceded and selfish. I just hope his wife will get to find out about this and lead a life with clarity of her husband's asshole ways.

    • @sphaleriteme
      @sphaleriteme 2 года назад +65

      Exactly they do not hold each other accountable for anything...very sad. Praying for all women to be protected for men like that

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc 2 года назад +30

      Agreed! No accountability! What about he is a fukboy for cheating on your pregnant wife.

    • @jujutrini8412
      @jujutrini8412 2 года назад +10

      That stuff they was saying isn’t going to work anyway. They know it and the guy knows it. He knows he’ll have to confess.

    • @chetansanghani6284
      @chetansanghani6284 Год назад

      @@Rubik_Bee that's pretty sexist...

  • @ssw5188
    @ssw5188 2 года назад +58

    Look at how easily the lies just came 😂😂😂

  • @jaskaur173
    @jaskaur173 2 года назад +46

    This guy needs to get in the 🗑 for getting into a situation like that. Literally just be honest with your wife man

  • @smp6565
    @smp6565 Год назад +334

    Until now I LOVED ALL your content. I'm absolutely in shock at your reaction to him destroying his wife's life, self esteem and everything she dreamed of WHILE CARRYING HIS CHILD! Its heartbreaking that you are sympathetic to a narcissist who disrespected and broke his vows to his partner because he "just needed a hole". He's an animal, he doesn't have a ounce of love or respect for his wife or child at this point. The only "right" thing he can do now is come clean, give her the choice and opportunity to heal and find someone who actually loves/respects her, while doing his best at being a good father. End of

    • @_iz90
      @_iz90 Год назад +56

      Couldn't have said it any better.

    • @regantuapawa
      @regantuapawa Год назад +46

      My thoughts exactly this video was the first ick I ever felt watching their videos

    • @argggg7091
      @argggg7091 Год назад +15

      Exactly, wouldve wanted honesty when it happend to me. Totally broke me..and still is since you wanna do right by your kid and be co parents..

    • @katherineanderson721
      @katherineanderson721 Год назад

      I agree, l felt really yuck about this. This husband never loved his wife, he's a spineless fucker and these guys are laughing about it. She's carrying his child and he's a whore, simple. Men are fucking animals. This women's child is better off without this arsehole

    • @x340x
      @x340x Год назад +45

      bruv...its entertainment podcast aimed mostly at guys. what are they supposed to do? they said they dont condone it and obviously think its wrong, but they try to answer the question and come up with advice because thats the segment, you think anyone would watch it if they just sit there for 10 minuts saying "wow thats so horrible" or what? wtf are you people on...

  • @katiemitchell3956
    @katiemitchell3956 2 года назад +97

    If we don't hear back from this guy- either the side chick has killed him, or the Mrs has...

  • @jademartin3366
    @jademartin3366 2 года назад +117

    Shes crazy... nothing will stop her 🤣 telling her that if things were different you would be together is NOT the one! Too funny.

    • @camronmoheng1157
      @camronmoheng1157 2 года назад +13

      Crazy as she is she'll take out the whole family.

    • @jademartin3366
      @jademartin3366 2 года назад +12

      @@camronmoheng1157 oh without a doubt, she thinks she has the rights now. 😏 sneaky links never stay sneaky!

  • @amrcngrlintheuk25
    @amrcngrlintheuk25 2 года назад +106

    He's gotta just tell his wife the truth. He HAS to. If she finds out any other way He's screwed. Tbh, he owes his wife the honesty and he should just accept that he has single handedly ruined his chance for a happy family for some strange.

    • @jt19933
      @jt19933 Год назад +1

      Well a happy family here, but he can always start over with another woman.

    • @naturallytajy973
      @naturallytajy973 Год назад

      @@jt19933 you sayin it like this is a f*ckn game? This is a child about to be brought into the world and if it doesn’t work out just find another woman?? F*ckn pathetic

  • @raybows
    @raybows 2 года назад +23

    He doesn't deserve this family, I hope his wife found out cause that'll probably be better for her in the future.

  • @ItsMe-qd4gy
    @ItsMe-qd4gy Год назад +25

    That whole speech will never work 😂
    "I have this commitment" she says " you should have thought of that before " "I actually want to be with you" her response-great let's be together then, even more reason to tell . "you have good moral character" her response- "that's a piss take, we've both been doing the wrong thing and imma make it right by spilling the beans " lmao

  • @Lydia-st3of
    @Lydia-st3of 2 года назад +43

    Trust me, his wife already knows.

    • @feecm
      @feecm 2 года назад +6

      This one!!!! She knows.

  • @takumugwagwa2772
    @takumugwagwa2772 2 года назад +13

    "I will miss that!" I cracked the fuck up!

  • @TemptressTeelia
    @TemptressTeelia Год назад +84

    I just knew James was toxic, and his answer confirms it!

  • @Amerelo1991
    @Amerelo1991 2 года назад +27

    Plot twist: side chick watches your podcast and he repeats what you said word for word 🤣

  • @gabi.genova
    @gabi.genova 2 года назад +51

    He needs to tell the truth. Id hate to hear it form the girl he cheated with. Clearly he has a different definition of a relationship and what commitment looks like to him, stop playing with people you call your "family" and reflect. The least the mother and your child deserve is honesty. Everyone makes choices and he made his. This is a nightmare situation, yes but be honest and just go from there. Try to co parent and be the father you can be to your child. You can still support the mother by being an active father in the childs life, she will heal from your betrayal and it will be best for the future of the baby mama, the child and the father. ps. He clearly needs to be in a poly relationship or something, monogamy is not for him ...

  • @asiabest27
    @asiabest27 2 года назад +17

    Tell a psycho that “it would be you if I wasn’t in the commitment I am already in” just makes her want to get the wife out the way more. Great try though.

  • @cj.9050
    @cj.9050 2 года назад +20

    I mean, tell your wife so she can leave you. But a funny option no one has considered yet: set her up with someone else, once she's in love with someone else hopefully she'll forget about you!

  • @indiashante1560
    @indiashante1560 2 года назад +12

    Any man that can cheat on his pregnant lady as a damn devil. My cousin went through this and I do been begging for her to come back ever since.

  • @Anfal-v1k
    @Anfal-v1k 2 года назад +24

    I wish the wife finds out. She deserves to know the truth so just tell her. If anything she’ll respect him abit more if he owned up to her because she will find out one way or another.

  • @aquasqua
    @aquasqua 2 года назад +19

    Woooorst advice 😂😂 you're just giving her hope that one day she'll be with you or that the situation can continue 😂😩

  • @siyamthandamatakane
    @siyamthandamatakane 2 года назад +5

    “You are good woman with amazing morals” 🤣😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Alphacharlie6
    @Alphacharlie6 2 года назад +20

    Bruh! never tell a crazy person that if it wasn't for the wife you'd like to be with her. They will do everything to "phase out" your partner. It WILL get messy. I don't think he told side piece he was married. This reaction is not from someone who knew the score. Methinks, he played "knight in shining armour" then only told side piece he was married to get rid of her. There is a disconnect here.

  • @summer-rose2873
    @summer-rose2873 2 года назад +29

    Serves him right 🤷🏻‍♀️ Suck it up buttercup

  • @kwhisper1960
    @kwhisper1960 Год назад +2

    Don’t ever go with the “oh in a different life” 😂 she gon kill everybody 🤣

  • @congratulationsyouplayedyo8907
    @congratulationsyouplayedyo8907 2 года назад +8

    Say you told your wife already and she’s going to leave you then block her on everything 😂

  • @faithmambo
    @faithmambo 2 года назад +5

    Plot twist: "DAMN! RIGHT! You made a mistake and you SHOULD PAY for your SINS.."

  • @jn9056
    @jn9056 2 года назад +6

    James was speaking from past life experience 😂😂😂

  • @Lxrd_Jay101
    @Lxrd_Jay101 2 года назад +38

    James is a mastermind😂

  • @iamcharane
    @iamcharane 2 года назад +6

    James is way too good at giving that speech 🤣

  • @nodaysoff2005
    @nodaysoff2005 2 года назад +6

    YOU NEVER END IT! EVER! Slowly ghost her and turn her off and LET HER MAKE THE DECISION TO END IT!

  • @BrwnSknHney
    @BrwnSknHney 2 года назад +19

    Nah you guys are FUNNY! If a woman is madly in love with you to the point of blackmail, complimenting her and selling her sweet nothings is NOT going to help you. I agree you have to call her bluff, but doing it by being all sweet is gonna backfire. She'll become more drastic, she'll feel played, and it's gonna make her angrier. Man I wish I was a spy. I want to see the conclusion 🤣🤣🤣

  • @brie-annewhite9781
    @brie-annewhite9781 2 года назад +9

    If your spouse goes through your phone, it's not usually because they don't trust you. It's usually because they have an insecurity in themselves. They are checking to see if your cheating because they are insecure with themselves or have been in bad relationships and haven't gotten through the trauma yet. If you have nothing to hide then your spouse looking through your phone should never be a trust issue.

    • @mknight7209
      @mknight7209 Год назад +2

      They need to deal with their trauma and not just carry it on to the next relationship.

    • @TheManley3
      @TheManley3 Год назад +1

      We should never have to pay for the mistakes of others. If you’re insecure, fix the issue before beginning another relationship.

    • @brie-annewhite9781
      @brie-annewhite9781 Год назад

      I completely agree. You need to work on yourself before jumping into another relationship.

  • @reginafromrio
    @reginafromrio Год назад +5

    I'm legally blind and I have to say you guys are the most fun to listen to thank you

  • @tcopeland2234
    @tcopeland2234 Год назад +12

    I would’ve told her I told my wife already knows and we are separated for the time being but we are working on our marriage I’m sorry for dragging you in this 😂

  • @ginsu_pd
    @ginsu_pd 2 года назад +24

    The wife can't find out. That's so damaging! Nah. He's got to sort it out without her knowing, even if it's a breakup without knowing what happened. Rather that than her finding out that. Fam, DAMAGE that's beyond repair.

  • @AndrewJShirley
    @AndrewJShirley 2 года назад +6

    Imagine she said all of this..... and she says "Yeah, I saw the same episode of Shxts N Gigs"

  • @milenatekle5265
    @milenatekle5265 2 года назад +24

    Moral of the story never believe a man

  • @tamaragilbert2270
    @tamaragilbert2270 2 года назад +8

    he doesn't deserve his family smh I hope she finds out everything he is sick smh

  • @kylangwenya3099
    @kylangwenya3099 2 года назад +5

    not them suggesting he gaslights her "really thats what you wanna do , you wanna ruin my familys life "
    "YOURE A GOOD GIRL WITH MORALES " - you gotta make sure you , you sell her the person that wants to be lolll

  • @barbsamaa9895
    @barbsamaa9895 2 года назад +4

    😳😳😳😨😨😨James!!!😰😰😰 the way you patterned out that “dream”, although it wasn’t you, is deadly.

  • @Shawnti_RN
    @Shawnti_RN Год назад +9

    Another option (with worse repercussions if things get found out): call the bluff AND tell the wife about the chick… BUT tell the wife that this chick is crazy and has manifested this entire relationship in her mind and the chick is now after you, trying to make it her reality. He can say he crossed paths with this chick at the grocery store or at the gym or something simple AND somehow she’s turned it into a whole relationship… he can even go as far as saying this chick is trying to blackmail him into a real relationship with her…etc. cuz crazies will photoshop text messages😵
    (SN: I’d never do this. I don’t have the gall. Also, I lack the capacity it’d take to keep track of that much bs and on top of that the amount of energy needed to deal with it all, I refuse.)

    • @xexkansichi
      @xexkansichi 10 месяцев назад

      If the chick is making the threat, then she has receipts for days. You can claim photoshop on a screenshot or 2. But this chick has probably saved every message, pic, text, cashapp since they met 🤣. Once wifey starts cross referencing dates and transactions its over.

  • @marlenecalderon8745
    @marlenecalderon8745 2 года назад +7

    Frame her for a crime and get her LOCKED UP 💀

  • @Ms.Shortcake2008
    @Ms.Shortcake2008 2 года назад +4

    Honesty is the best policy.
    You did it, hold your hands up and be accountable. Tell your wife. Just be honest. There is no way of getting out of this betrayal, sooner or later she will find out which will be 100% worse.
    On reflection, don’t cheat in the first place. What an amazing concept that is.

  • @jwbradley2
    @jwbradley2 Год назад +2

    “ if you think I should be punished for the mistakes, I’ve made in my life like falling for you…” mmmmm the gaslighting is great with this one 👌🏾😂

  • @n8watt
    @n8watt 2 года назад +4

    09:55 this monologue is sensational 🤣👏

  • @nakeditumi1236
    @nakeditumi1236 2 года назад +8

    "He just needed a hole"
    I died 😂😂🤣

  • @laurengarnett3682
    @laurengarnett3682 2 года назад +25

    Be a god dam man and tell your mrs the truth. What she does w it is up to her. Let her go and find someone who actually fuxking loves her properly, then you be a dad and help in every way with the kid.

  • @tashanastanton7919
    @tashanastanton7919 Год назад

    Bro gave homie a whole Emmy nominated speech for best actors 🤣👏🏾 it was to smooth for me then the lil slap at the end had me weak lol that'll definitely crack a smile in them cheeks ! 🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾

  • @miamohamed8496
    @miamohamed8496 2 года назад +20

    Relocation needs to be on the cards for sure lmao but perhaps if he keeps it real with his wife like James stated things could come together. It's tortureous the leverage this girl is holding over his head forEVER. Man needs to pray on this one.

    • @miamohamed8496
      @miamohamed8496 2 года назад +3

      @Sumaya Omar exactlyyyyyy 😩 he should just tell her

    • @sikkenkille1594
      @sikkenkille1594 2 года назад

      Cant relocate, we just bought a place 3 months ago and laws in sweden atleast days u gotta wait s whole year before selling again.

    • @entropy3615
      @entropy3615 2 года назад +1

      @@sikkenkille1594 Wait a minute, are you the husband? Haha smh

  • @faheems22
    @faheems22 2 года назад +2

    James.......sounds like you've done this before🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ATeamFan007
    @ATeamFan007 2 года назад +11

    Try to reason with her, like "Listen I TOLD you that this was going to happen and this wasn't long term so you knew this was coming. don't act like you're surprised!" Perhaps buy her silence with some gifts or jewelry and carry on. Hopefully man gave her a fake name so she can't track him/family down lol

    • @sikkenkille1594
      @sikkenkille1594 2 года назад +9

      At that point spend the money on the contract killer...

  • @leejohnson6800
    @leejohnson6800 Год назад

    "Sell her the dream"😂😂😂 Nah don't do that! That'll unlock a new level of crazy!

  • @chrissyconnolly
    @chrissyconnolly 2 года назад +3

    He 1000% did not tell that girl that she was only maternity cover

  • @viablue2958
    @viablue2958 Год назад

    If condensed milk could speak. That's definitely James 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm going to miss that 🤣🤣🤣🤣 cho man

  • @danad.5217
    @danad.5217 2 года назад +6

    This is why I will never believe what a man says 😐

  • @anngreen7913
    @anngreen7913 Год назад +1

    ".. until she gets cancer or somefing"
    I am DEAD 💀

  • @tahearalatif126
    @tahearalatif126 2 года назад +4

    Surely the logical advice should ALWAYS be, tell her thr truth? Better coming from you then some side ting.
    Men need to think about whether this was their mum, sister, daughter and what they would want for them.

    • @michellekk1941
      @michellekk1941 2 года назад +1

      Men don't care😂😂😂

    • @rbee4821
      @rbee4821 Год назад +1

      @@michellekk1941 But somehow for their daughters, they develop common sense...sometimes

  • @tracypeebles9362
    @tracypeebles9362 2 года назад +1

    Hire a contract killer omg I can’t even wrap my head around this 😂

  • @nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181
    @nokuthuladelightmuranganwa3181 2 года назад +3

    There is no coming back from this one guys😂😂

  • @LaureezyF
    @LaureezyF Год назад

    "You lied through your teetha nd it made sense..."🤣🤣🤣

  • @_bane
    @_bane 2 года назад +4

    He Has To Get Dirt On Her, So That She Does A Double Take Before THINKING About Telling - Mutually Assured Destruction!! However Make Sure What You Have On Her Is More Than What She Has On You, If There’s Nothing… SET. HER. UP!
    So Start The Conversation As James Said, Then If She’s Like “Nahh” (or you get the inkling that she will despite her words) Lay It On Her & Tell Her “I’m Not Going Down Alone.”
    So Call Her Bluff.. But Have Insurance!

  • @samoyslew6880
    @samoyslew6880 Год назад

    “You say there’s a small chance… WE KNOW THERE’S NO CHANCE” 😭😂

  • @U-Gozoo
    @U-Gozoo Год назад +5

    That first dude should just deal with it, play big boy games you win big boy prizes, he knew what he was doing and what stopped him from cold showers and private bathroom visits... 👌 That side piece is an issue, and at a certain point she is actually committing the crime of extortion... The wife however will still leave even if he settles it quietly, because he cheated while she was pregnant 👌 that is the lowest of low!!!

  • @Dbrooks0341
    @Dbrooks0341 День назад

    8:14 the speech was flawless. 😂

  • @ginsu_pd
    @ginsu_pd 2 года назад +45

    Wooooooow! This scenario was an additional reason on my list to birth no man children 💔

    • @davidmazuba5040
      @davidmazuba5040 2 года назад +1

      Maybe mines though, #shooting my shot

    • @vinsanityboug
      @vinsanityboug Год назад +1

      @@davidmazuba5040 damn no self respect

  • @mknight7209
    @mknight7209 Год назад +1

    He should say he's moving to Yemen.... 16 Yemen road, Yemen 🤣🤣🤣

    • @mknight7209
      @mknight7209 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 classic

  • @TheAngel24xx
    @TheAngel24xx 2 года назад +5

    Lol he shouldn’t get sidechick in first place.

  • @AlexanderBraden1
    @AlexanderBraden1 Год назад

    “It’s always an away game for him” 😂

  • @nadiabent7782
    @nadiabent7782 2 года назад +8

    James has to be a Jamaican man or he was trained by one. 🤷🤣🤦

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
    @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers Год назад +1

    Funny thing is I figured out how to get him out of it without wifey ever finding out. My lips are sealed 🤣