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  • @ruriohama
    @ruriohama  Год назад +62

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    • @whitedark1811
      @whitedark1811 Год назад +1

      I love you rur

    • @whitedark1811
      @whitedark1811 Год назад +1

      I couldn't find the ring

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад +1

      👍👍❤❤

    • @fufica
      @fufica Год назад +1

      🤩

    • @krishnaaneja148
      @krishnaaneja148 Год назад +1

      Minimalist is a free app. That changes your background. Gives you a timer ,asks you how much time do you want to use it, allows you to block apps and rename them, makes them appear just as text not icons, hide apps, you can block apps so that you can't open them. Turns off notifications

  • @aakashailajan
    @aakashailajan Год назад +64

    “A man who wastes several hours with no regrets has not yet discovered his purpose.”

  • @elifnazotu3801
    @elifnazotu3801 Год назад +184

    literally i need this. i feel so guilty for spending my time on social media this much. thank you for sharing your opinions about this ruri.💗

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад +4

      Me too, my friend. She is really great person

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Год назад +4

      Same actually. I hate how much time I keep wasting on these apps 🫤

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад +2

      @@khalilahd. True, my friend. I hope we can overcome this problem easily

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад +2

      @@khalilahd. By the way, your videos are excellent, my friend. You are so succesful and talent person. I hope I can be succesful in my channel like you ❤❤

    • @maishashaaa
      @maishashaaa Год назад

      i can relate too. the guilt eats me from inside in a very unhealthy way when i waste time.

  • @dave_di
    @dave_di Год назад +5

    It sucks when you're not even being social on social media.

  • @italico2792
    @italico2792 Год назад +94

    I spend a lot of time on IG because it feels like a way to not be alone even though it's a false impression. Another toxic element of social media is the comparison I always do with other people. I see people I wanna be more alike with but at the same time watching them everyday living a life you would accomplish yourself, it makes you feel less worth it and makes hate your life. Great video Ruri!

    • @carlosartavia7908
      @carlosartavia7908 Год назад

      YOU ARE DEFENITELY GAY, WTF IS THAT SHIT YOU FEELING LESS WORTH BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIVING THEIR LIFE TO THE FULLEST?

  • @aakashailajan
    @aakashailajan Год назад +20

    Start your day with a to do list, and then keep your phone out of sight. Do your tasks for the day, and use your phone for specific duration as break time. I’ve set a focus mode on my phone which doesn’t allow me to use the app more than 5 mins, unless I can choose to be in break. Max break possible is 30 mins. After 10 pm I’m free to do what I want and unwind.

  • @govorit
    @govorit Год назад +11

    Nice video, i watched early today your video about motivation and procrastination and subscribed. You are the one i need listen to. Btw.. your english is so cool for my ears. ❤️ Thank you so much for your content

  • @kk_2753
    @kk_2753 Год назад +8

    You always make great points in a considered, logical and palatable manner. Thanks, Ruri. You're always appreciated!

  • @fayz-dayz
    @fayz-dayz Год назад +10

    The timing on this video is perfect! I waste so many hours on social media and I hate it!

  • @kentosalazar
    @kentosalazar Год назад +3

    makes me feel better to know that even you waste your time on social media. thanks for sharing

  • @Surgelax
    @Surgelax Год назад +8

    You have a way of communicating with the viewer that is captivating. No wonder so many people like listening to you. Thanks for the advice Ruri - chan.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Год назад +16

    This is so true because I created time in the morning and afternoon to study Japanese but sometimes I find myself wasting time on social media apps. I’ll definitely try these tips, especially the app you were talking about 🙏🏽

    • @lizz9896
      @lizz9896 Год назад +1

      @@LudGenstein13 one sec

  • @willowshade7799
    @willowshade7799 Год назад +6

    Great Video! Getting stuck scrolling saps time. I catch myself doing this a lot. I have changed my habits. Awareness of how we spend our time and how to promote chasing our goals and not scrolls is a great thing.

  • @balasubramanianp.g6970
    @balasubramanianp.g6970 Год назад +26

    I really needed this video, What I really like about your content is that, you give practical solutions that people (Me in particular) can utilise and relate to. Keep up the awesome job!

    • @wonrei
      @wonrei Год назад

      I study language. And i was like fvk everyone. This helps me

  • @purlball4366
    @purlball4366 Год назад

    Dear Ruri, thank you, you have no idea how big your help is.

  • @socialguarantee
    @socialguarantee Год назад +5

    I don't have any of my apps on my home screen anymore. I feel like it's the most reasonable way to stop using social media, without having to completely remove them out from your life (I tried it and it was unsustainable). This way I have to consciously go onto the social media with, rather than just as a reflex.
    Another thing to do is to just follow less people. I really only follow the people I know in real life, as it's what social media was intended for in the first place. Plus, the majority of public accounts seem to be fighting for your attention, so they use special tactics to do so.

  • @qwertypry6321
    @qwertypry6321 Год назад +2

    I miss ruri videos and ruri energies after a long day busy with my activities, ruri is helps me a lot!😭

  • @cami461
    @cami461 Год назад +8

    This is what i needed, thank you Ruri ❤️

  • @carmengomez9935
    @carmengomez9935 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this Ruri!

  • @Itpedie
    @Itpedie Год назад +15

    Hey, lately I’ve become a fan. I’m learning English and your conversations in videos are really helping me

  • @Apathetic_98
    @Apathetic_98 Год назад +8

    I would recommend stay focused app it is one of the best app i have ever used and thank you for this video ruri youre also one of the best youtuber i've ever seen

  • @ordinarylife1444
    @ordinarylife1444 Год назад +6

    You're litteraly right in your opinions ,social media's a obstacle for us to make somethings done , it's really preventing me to fulfill my duties like studying productive and as u said before i'm asking myself what i've done today? And when i look back realizing that i've done almost nothing . Thxsm for this video i'll put your words into practice 💞

    • @deutschmitpurple2918
      @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад +1

      You are right, my friend. I am wasting my time with social media. I must find a solution for that

  • @cristianalanvillafrancoguz8521

    You got my heart ,your pieces of advice are valuable

  • @Christian-ve4bs
    @Christian-ve4bs Год назад +14

    I do love these type of videos. You make great content. Love you Ruri

  • @Felix-vd6vo
    @Felix-vd6vo Год назад +2

    Haven’t watched but you already know its gonna be fire

  • @Reem-xk6xj
    @Reem-xk6xj Год назад

    Thanks Ruri. Your content is really valuable.

  • @mikealsonalexander5162
    @mikealsonalexander5162 Год назад

    its been four days since RUclips algorithm gave me ur videos !! Thank you i m completly a fan!!

  • @aliciaocarisgutierrez7939
    @aliciaocarisgutierrez7939 Год назад +1

    Very practical video , I've been trying to quit using certain apps such as tiktok and ig because they made myself loss concentration in what actually I want to do, until now I lower my timing on those apps, I'm glad about it.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Год назад +8

    Thank you so so so much dear ruri for this video because its truly truly helpful to me and congratulations for 500K Subscribers 💖💫🎂🎊 i am so so so happy for you ☺️☺️

  • @theredflag3340
    @theredflag3340 Год назад

    Thank you, yours videos have helped me a lot to practice my english, mainly because you talk about constructive content in ours lives

  • @m053_annisadwi5
    @m053_annisadwi5 Год назад +4

    AAA FINALLY RURI UP VIDEO! i'm waiting for this time.. I'm college student too and I'm so inspired after watch all the videos of u bcs it's make me more productive every single day🤩 love from indonesia xoxo

  • @andre.souza15
    @andre.souza15 Год назад

    Love your videos, you are always really calming to listen to, and always offering useful content. Thanks

  • @hereisphil
    @hereisphil Год назад

    Friction! Love it! I'm going to try the free version of One Sec - but the deleting and downloading again is a great tip!!

  • @LuisGarcia-lr3ep
    @LuisGarcia-lr3ep Год назад

    Thanks for this video. I really needed it.

  • @Lentrail
    @Lentrail Год назад +4

    I just unfollowed everyone, something most people don’t have the balls to do , I only get on to post and get off , and my life has gotten slot better , feels good to be detached from followers and story views , not I’m focused on reading books

  • @LinLin-zy5cf
    @LinLin-zy5cf Год назад +1

    I always forget about the time passing whenever I watch your videos on youtube.

  • @Felix-vd6vo
    @Felix-vd6vo Год назад +6

    Ruriii one more extra good tip is using grayscale mode, it works wonders and can be setup as a shortcut 🥰

  • @jaelee2523
    @jaelee2523 Год назад +1

    Ty Ruri

  • @zoltanfabiansk5795
    @zoltanfabiansk5795 Год назад +1

    Wow. You made a huge progress! Congrats! 🌹

  • @olivenamoon3733
    @olivenamoon3733 Год назад

    Thank you Ruri ❤🇧🇩

  • @juanvivasp
    @juanvivasp Год назад +1

    I was losing too much time on social media, but i didn't turn off notifications, i uninstalled them, since then, i feel so happy.

  • @shifatharanum909
    @shifatharanum909 Год назад +3

    I love your videos ❤️ it's make me happy i feel very comfortable i feel very calm 🙏❤️

  • @nick-illcityreppin-sknk
    @nick-illcityreppin-sknk Год назад

    I LOVE YOU RURI!!!

  • @shadiyars.mahmood830
    @shadiyars.mahmood830 Год назад

    Thanks for you advice dear ruri.

  • @patrickt.5827
    @patrickt.5827 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the video and tips. Congratulations on hitting 500k subscribers, on to 1 million! Take care.

  • @generic-channel
    @generic-channel Год назад +1

    And here I am, watching you on social media. You are gorgeous!

  • @Blbbbb
    @Blbbbb 11 месяцев назад

    Spot on Ruri 👍👌

  • @laikeo5437
    @laikeo5437 6 месяцев назад

    thank for great advise. love the way you are speaking

  • @tuattrananh
    @tuattrananh Год назад +1

    I love your voice and the way you talk 💯

  • @ryanbutler2346
    @ryanbutler2346 Год назад +1

    i like you alot. you are very brave and honest. Those are the best attributes. I also like Adler, and I hate Skinner, even though behaviourism also kind of makes sense. Your video on ADD was really nice too. Thanks. I am going through a Ruri phase atm, watching all your videos. I feel like your potential is limitless.

  • @nhat9862
    @nhat9862 Год назад +1

    My second dinner with your video :) Really enjoy ^^

  • @onewierdman2253
    @onewierdman2253 Год назад +1

    Thanks for the video...right vid for the right time

  • @benimiste929
    @benimiste929 Год назад

    Hi Ruhi I'm From Turkey🇹🇷🇹🇷 as your fan .your videos have helped me to Learn English . ILYSM❤️❤️

  • @ackerman3325
    @ackerman3325 Год назад +1

    Yayayay new videosssss!!!❤❤❤❤😄

  • @user-gz4io9zy7c
    @user-gz4io9zy7c Год назад +1

    I have final exam tomorrow and just I open youtube and Ruri 💕 uploaded this video ✨ I will return to study right now 😆✨

  • @fufica
    @fufica Год назад +1

    very useful video thank you med student 😃

  • @safayaman9052
    @safayaman9052 Год назад

    Changing mindset is the best way to stop social media

  • @sumitroy102
    @sumitroy102 Год назад +20

    Hi Ruri
    I am from India 🇮🇳
    This vedio is really beneficial for me
    Because I somuch use social media
    And lots of time my waste in social media
    I knew that past time doesn't come again so I decided that I only use social media when I was really need
    Thanks RURI

    • @RajKumar-tm5pd
      @RajKumar-tm5pd Год назад +1

      Bro video hota hai. Vedio nahi. I so much use galat hai. I use social media a lot correct hai. Uske Baad ka sentence hai I waste a lot of my time in social media. When I was really need bhi galat hai.

    • @kdot7211
      @kdot7211 Год назад

      @@RajKumar-tm5pd this is effin' annoying bruh stop it
      Ain't nobody cares about your opinions here on internet

  • @jamilthdelcarmengonzalezre3806

    Me encantan tus videos! Eres una persona admirable!!!

  • @KelvinShowTV_
    @KelvinShowTV_ Год назад

    Good tips!!!! Greetings from Dominican Republic 🇩🇴!!!!!

  • @shin5302
    @shin5302 Год назад

    Thank you for your tips. It really helps me.

  • @SM-gq2oo
    @SM-gq2oo Год назад

    Your videos make me happier i'm obsessed with your personality and I'm sure that if I work hard like you did I will be successful one day
    I really love you with all my heart
    Sorry for my bad English I hope you understand my feelings

  • @sabeen182
    @sabeen182 Год назад +4

    I hopefully learned a lot from this video and how to benefit from the social media thank you for sharing useful things ruri!

  • @FaishalNrRhmn
    @FaishalNrRhmn Год назад

    Hi Ruri
    I am from Indonesia
    This video is really helpful for me
    Because i already bored to open everyday my social media
    And it's lots waste of time in my life
    I knew that past time doesn't come again,so I decided that I only use social media when I was really need and decrease loss time consume social media
    Thanks RURI

  • @pancattack3681
    @pancattack3681 Год назад

    i love ur videos !!!❤

  • @nick-illcityreppin-sknk
    @nick-illcityreppin-sknk Год назад

    I been living without a phone for 2months now and it's been great. I only have a text pad non-smart phone .. damn I love you RURI!

  • @so145
    @so145 Год назад

    Like your hair. It goes very beautifully with your eyes

  • @vinsonesteban1250
    @vinsonesteban1250 Год назад +2

    If social media is not required/part of your job or something, delete it. Deleted mine last april and I'm more happier. No more random toxic, toxic positivity, fake news, and drama posts in my phone lol.

  • @juliosandi9690
    @juliosandi9690 Год назад

    I was so addicted to Facebook and Instagram and one app that helped me was "app usage" (the orange one) for android, this app tracks your time screen and how many times you consult your phone. But, the difficult part of all this, is that I get obsessed with the phone consults and the time, from one side to another, the anxiety about not using my phone was getting worse. In the end, I get used to it, and I found the balance between not using my phone that much, and don't blame for using it. thanks for the extra pro tips to focus and more :)

  • @kennethbrent3810
    @kennethbrent3810 Год назад

    Thank you Ruri😊

  • @C1NESOMN1A
    @C1NESOMN1A Год назад +3

    今社会人しながら来年の大学院留学を目標に勉強してて、忙しくてしんどいけれど、Ruriちゃん見てモチベ上げてます🔥リスニングの練習にも使ってます笑 いつも良い動画をありがとう!

    • @anncor6683
      @anncor6683 9 месяцев назад

      Hope your dreams come true 😊

  • @iconsworld9
    @iconsworld9 Год назад

    Awesome life has lots to offer, so shall live it to the best!

  • @jesuslovesyou7130
    @jesuslovesyou7130 Год назад

    This video was helpful thank you

  • @deutschmitpurple2918
    @deutschmitpurple2918 Год назад

    What a beautiful video. You always inspire myself. I am so happy to watch your videos. By the way, you have 500k subscribers. Congrulations for that. You are so succesful person. I hope I can be succesful like you. You are my idol ❤❤

  • @ken-1202
    @ken-1202 Год назад +1

    Thanks, btw you look beautiful ❤️

  • @ryuzakisimms1019
    @ryuzakisimms1019 Год назад +6

    Great advice Ruri. いいね、thank you and have a good morning and good evening.

  • @knomii9746
    @knomii9746 Год назад

    I just started like your videos. 🥳😊

  • @TutsyWorld
    @TutsyWorld Год назад

    just seeing you makes my day

  • @nandenayo3_catsandraw
    @nandenayo3_catsandraw Год назад +2

    I am not wasting my time on social media but i never do something on purpose cuz always thinking my virtual friends.. i feel like if I'm not answer them they won't be friend with me anymore.. it's kind of true.. but i lost in that chaos

  • @MYTENGRIWAY
    @MYTENGRIWAY Год назад

    TENGRI BLESSING YOU!✌🇰🇿🇰🇿

  • @alphaarsenic8323
    @alphaarsenic8323 Год назад +25

    Hey, I like your podcasts! It'd be helpful if you could make a video on how to move on from relationship heartbreak (self esteem issues and all that) and focus on being productive again.

  • @dxzn_boylifestyle3299
    @dxzn_boylifestyle3299 Год назад

    Thnku mam we will cross 1million soon....❤️lots of love to u from india

  • @alekcgarne5732
    @alekcgarne5732 Год назад +2

    Is good to know that there is people who are dealing with same issues that I have, that motivates and makes not feeling so guilty about my mistakes. Greetings from Mexico Ruri, I enjoy your videos become you say smart things.

  • @pruthvirajkhade71
    @pruthvirajkhade71 Год назад +1

    I like the Friends Trick 😄

  • @susilawatichannel3448
    @susilawatichannel3448 Год назад

    I often scroll tiktok until goes on without me realizing it . 😭😭 thanks you for your opinion about this 🥰

  • @Spy-hp8ki
    @Spy-hp8ki Год назад

    I'll switch off my notifications right now. It's stressing my life .... but I'll need to check out tomorrow morning if you have any new videos on de-stressing!

  • @pasangchhutisherpa3079
    @pasangchhutisherpa3079 Год назад

    Thanks for this video 🙏

  • @_NoName7
    @_NoName7 Год назад +1

    It was really helpful advices.

  • @Ashley-jr8oe
    @Ashley-jr8oe Год назад

    Thanks for sharing! Digital minimalism is another book that helped me to rethink about relationship to social media. インスタアカウントも本当に必要な情報のアカウントしかフォローしなくなった。最近はインフルエンサー広告ばっかりですよね。

  • @n.hemavathi3451
    @n.hemavathi3451 Год назад

    I am using social media to learn the English language. Sometimes, l do waste time on social media.
    I always think about how to social media keeping only the learning process.
    You are saying tips are great.
    First, l do off all the notifications on social media.

  • @Janisurai
    @Janisurai Год назад

    Thanks!

  • @peachysparkles
    @peachysparkles Год назад

    You look like an Asian Arwen. Super magical! ✨😮✨
    For me, to turn my mind away from social media I took some time to write down what my actual goals were for Instagram and Facebook. Facebook was literally nothing, I just felt obligated to use it because of some relatives (bc they're all on it) but I decided to just do what I wanted and delete it. For Instagram, I realized it was nothing too, but I thought it was something bc I used to have goals there and I got so used to being in the frame of mind to work for those things that I didn't even register when i had let those things go. So at that point, it became easy to just delete it. Also keeping up with mutuals felt strange bc we never really talk and most of them didn't even know when I posted or give attention when I did and it feels kind of sad and lame to post just for no one to care. Now, I dont use either at all and I do feel much happier. I have more productive hobbies now.

  • @RealJoy-boy
    @RealJoy-boy Год назад +1

    Any advice on how to get the first 1000 subs as a starter Ruri?

  • @ugurbilaltabakci9960
    @ugurbilaltabakci9960 Год назад

    I have to do a lot of things in a day, such as studying languages, reading books, doing exercise, but I mostly end up on Instagram or watching some RUclips videos. Social media is totally stealing my time, but I can't stop it.

  • @petruthegod
    @petruthegod Год назад

    great video, thanks!

  • @seinkie
    @seinkie Год назад

    Yuri meditating :) pause social media , meditate and draw on midjourney! its fun a new change

  • @EtinosaOsayi
    @EtinosaOsayi Год назад

    Love this

  • @Pinoy_Eats
    @Pinoy_Eats Год назад +1

    Social media can also destroy relationships, trust me.

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 11 месяцев назад +1

      ik and so many people are using it these days

  • @dougfredricks2017
    @dougfredricks2017 Год назад

    Recently got fed up with Facebook nonsense Reels and even cleared profile of fake friends. Social media is toxic. Communication was better with dial up modems... 😲

  • @huayulan631
    @huayulan631 Год назад +1

    How does the data knows me that I need this video?Haha ,I spend 3 hours or even more hours on phone during the summer break. Thanks for the useful suggestions and I will start to control the time of using phone tomorrow. Hopefully i can do it.