Your Lipstick is Too Much - Mufti Menk
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- Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024
- Question: How can we respectfully tell our female colleagues that the make up they are wearing is too much? Can Muslim Woman Wear Make-up?
Answer by Sheikh Mufti Menk - Your Lipstick is Too Much - Blessed Home Series
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I'm not a Muslim but I actually liked the video very much. It is very well done and talks in a very good way. Thanks for educating Muslim and non- Muslim people like myself.
Rita .Sassatelli your comment made our day. Very happy to read it. :) stay blessed.
Ragiona con la tua testa.
It is beatiful☺.
Yes, this was exactly what mentioned in Quran. A man need to lower his gaze when he sees something could be sexy in the eyes of a man not by blaming the female, in assure so that one day the female hopefully will do her part as well. That's how worth the women are :)
@Sultana Yasemin did you even watch the video? smh
When I converted to Islam 6 years ago, I didn’t understand very well the meaning of hijab, so for me, as long as I was covering my hair and wearing clothes that hide my skin, I was dressed according to what is expected from a muslim woman. I used to wear very tight clothes but I thought it was ok because I was wearing a headscarf, and many brothers and sisters came to me in a very rude manner to say “you’re dressed but you’re still naked!” And other words like that. I didn’t understand what they meant, I just felt offended and my reaction would be block them or not talk to them anymore, but alhamdulillah, some brothers and sisters had the patience and kindness to explain to me the real meaning of modesty. So what I would like to ask whoever is reading this comment, would you listen to the advice of someone who’s speaking to you in such an aggressive way? If you want to help someone to be a better muslim, so speak to them in a nice way, otherwise if you’re speaking to them in a rude way, you’re just being arrogant and judgmental and probably you’re going to push people away from something good. May Allah guide us all!
Amirah Siddique mash Allah Allah give you a big ajar in jinnah
Asalam o Alaikum! I feel inspired by your story and thank you for sharing! :D Jazak Allah Talah. I hope you've gotten over how those people treated you before.
Amirah First of all Huge Congratulations to you , that mashahAllah you got the righteous path and you are bleseed with the most beautiful thing ie. Imaan.
Totally Agree with your point we must have patience and sweetness in our talks moreover if we go through the life of Prophet SAW we see that He was much focused on that area that our Akhlaq must be the best.
Amirah Siddique so true sister...most of the people incorrect themselves although they had a good intention but their words just reflect the message...the true way to talk should be of ikhlas...
Beatiful☺
I'm non muslim but all this is very beautiful 😊 .
may ALLAH guide you 💙
زمن الغربله amen
Omg thanks for 3 likes😄
@Time to change inshallah !
@@rainbow7135 yes islam is the right path dont live like animels
live for a reason that is do what allah soubhanhou w taaala want you to do
قال الله تعالى
و لا تمش في الأرض مرحا
صدق الله العظيم
dont walk on earth just for fun
and may allah guide you to the right path inshallah
ان شاء الله
Subhanallah
My mom’s best friend converted to Islam because she didn’t understand her old culture. Her mother still hasn’t talked to her her now 30 years later. She lost her family’s love and started a new life in Islam. God Bless All
Soo sad...like her bad
May allah strengthen her💖
Aameen god bless her
moon “her bad”?
Tell your friend that I feel bad for her loosing her family, tell her that she has a bigger and loving family now :) every Muslim is family. Stay safe everyone
A lot people think that most girls wear makeup to attract men or wear certain types of clothing to attract men (maybe some do but not all) when they are just doing it, to boost their own confidence and increase their self love.
*when I said they might wear certain type of clothing I didn’t mean to say like wear clothes that are revealing as long as your covered it’s fine what you wear, in my opinion. Tbh I wear makeup because I love to draw and paint my face, I personally do it because it’s fun. Not everything is always about wearing it because you feel insecure about yourself or Islam, I mean I do agree I kind of did word it slightly it wrong off, but hey we are in world where nobody is satisfied with anything.
Exactly, what I found quite ironic was that an Army was agreeing with his message yet had Jimin as their pfp. Like... BTS wear makeup and maybe some have undergone plastic surgery yet she is arguing women should be modest to avoid attracting the opposite sex? Big hit will literally market their looks to get more popularity so I just found it ironic..
@@manarchihi2148 I agree, I don't have a problem with you personally not wearing makeup, I just don't like others judging others for wearing makeup. You misunderstood my comment 😅.
@Maria Muhebzada Regardless I don't care if BTS have had plastic surgery but it is undeniable that plastic surgery is common amongst Korean idols and we will never certainly know if they have had any procedures. Many Koreans feel self conscious about themselves when plastic surgery adverts are constantly shown to them, it is unhealthy for young people to see so often.
@@ZS-iq8cj oh no no I absolutely understand and by saying 'i wear whatever I like ...' I ment clothes not make up.... I mean it's quit uncommon because of my relegion ... sorry for the misunderstanding .
@Maria Muhebzada Pardon? Sorry I don't quite understand what you're trying to say
Edit: I think I understand now, plastic surgery/cosmetic procedures are meant to be discrete and must celebrities undergo them. Since South Korea is the capital for plastic surgery and it is displayed constantly through advertisements there, it is likely that the members have had cosmetic procedures. As they age it is increasingly likely they will have procedures like botox to keep a youthful look. Believe it or not, most celebrities (BTS included) create unrealistic beauty standards which the average person cannot achieve without surgery. Also, their looks will not stay the same forever and they will age since they're human so you never know some may get procedures done in the future. However, they aren't going to gloat if they have had procedures or decide to have a procedure.
I am not Muslim, but I am interested in learning about it
Yeasty the Penguin In Shaa Allah. may Allah increase you in knowledge so that you can differentiate the right from the wrong. 😊
Yeasty the Penguin so happy to read your comment :)
Ben Faerber may i ask how does it go now brother?
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May Allah guide u to right path Aameen.
I'm not Muslim but the way it was explained was really thoughtful and beautiful imo :)
Thx
May Allah guide u towards the right path
Spontenuoes btw
May Allah swt guide you to the light of islam
why watch if not muslim
I remember there was a time a boarded a taxi I had applied perfume and this gentleman wen we reached he came up to me and greeted me and then ask for my permission if he could say something and I let him and them to my surprise he said sister I'm sorry if this will bother you but your perfume is too strong and gave me a HADITH. I WAS SO PLEASED AND HUMBLED BY HIS CONCERN and since then I never wore any perfume if I'm to go out.
is it bad to smell good? i dont know. but too strong, i get it.
No its not but there is a rule btn a woman and a man, for a man its OK but for a woman it is forbidden especially when the scent is too strong.
Fatma Said interesting.. I just wear perfume bc I like to smell good. But I don’t want it to be tooo strong.
@@onemillionpercent this is the point you can put perfume put if it's so strong better do not put perfume
cool man true
I'm Christian, and I believe this is gold
@@shivanshi1084 thanks, I surely will
@@luyando. the person above you tho..... typical troll. Reminds of ppl under Muslim videos saying "watch CP"
"Watch David Wood" "Watch blah blah"
why watch if not muslim
@@Kingfalconeye why not?
@@luyando. ok i just ask it not bad ok to watch as cristan
is it just me or do the characters have the 'hamza' letter as their eyes
I saw it too~
Yes because drawing eyes is haram, so on the day of judgment whatever you drew with eyes well come alive. But it's not too late to make dua to Allah fro forgiveness
@@laylaachmat5990 only eyes? Or is it haram to draw any living being?
i thought it was 'ain for eyes bcs in arabic, 'ain means eyes 😅
lily roze ع
I love Islam and have no prejudice towards any nationality, but unfortunately this mentality was of strict and impolite treatment is something I suffered in Saudi Arabia big time. May Allah guide them and reform their behaviour.
Shaytaan targets the Muslims the most so if the Muslim is mu’min then it’s harder for the Shaytaan to make your thoughts negative even though you think your doing something right.
T oh dear I'm sorry you went through that... I'm sure they meant well but didn't find a nice way to convey their feelings..maybe they didn't see a kind example ..anyhow thank you for not not prejudicing ♥
Saudi isn't much Islamic then other countries they fall behind in many islamic ways
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All of them treated you with disrespect? Because I've gotta say, I'm not even Arab and I've been to Saudi Arabia and all I received there was the utmost respect.
Animation though👌
“You wear too much lipstick at work, and it’s haram as it is lipstick is red and the color of jahanam if also red” 🤣💀
Chanyeol’s red hair lmaooooo your name made it even funnier “chanyeol’s red hair “😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ayyyy fellow exo-l hello!!
Aishah Uddin oh hi beautiful 💕
Actually it is black.
Lmao and ur username🤣🤣 Chanyeol's jahaman colored hair lmaooo
This is the story that made me a fan of Mufti Menk! I cracked up so much and never knew a religious person can teach with such humbleness, wisdom and humor! May Allah protect him and his loved ones! ❤️🤲🏼
My god i don't know why i started laughing hard till the end of this video, good to see muslim community making such beautiful animations to educate people. Lovely work done there. Har Har Mahadev. Love from INDIA
Thanks :)
For them being non muslim is also bad ....
I m not arguing at who is right or not ...
But,
I think it should be individual choice to wear anything they wish to ,if u want wife or gf who is not vulgar then u should change urself u should start loving non vulgar girls..
God gave u life ,he gave u brain ,u should think and follow the right path...
Women is not the mistake we are the mistake .. Don't let divert ur brain instead of blaming girls...
There is a natural beauty in hijab if a girl starting wearing hizab it's her own choice she covers her face some people giving them label as paindo type but in reality she is more beautiful than those women and girl who wears a lot of make up
@@voyagerx2133 agree
This channel is helping me to become a good muslimah, :) jazakallahukhair keep it up ❤
The reason why i appreciate soooooo much mufti menk !!!!
As a muslim artist I'm impressed twice
First the actual lecture is wonderful
And the animation is just so perfect ✨
So art isn't haram? I'm just asking because I'm really confused and pretty scared about that. I sometimes draw too (animated things), but I feel guilty doing it
@@mathteacher5690 look at the eyes
@@mathteacher5690 Usually classifying things as haram or halal goes this way according to my knowledge and God knows better..
If it is mentioned in Quran first we go according to that, if it isn't mentioned in Quran we go to Hadiths.. if it isn't mentioned there we ask the people of knowledge (people who have studied this matter such as a sheikh or scientist/doctor in some other cases)
If it is not mentioned in Quran or Hadith, while it is best to ask someone who knows about the subject if we're hesitant, but Allah gave us the ability to think and process 'al hamdu liLah', so this is how I process something that I am not sure if it is permissible or not:
1) Considered as shirk? (A belief in another creator, power or God than Allah)
2) Does it stop you or someone else from worshipping Allah?
3) Does it harm you or others?
4) Does it LEAD to something that is haram?
5) Do you think it could cause any problem? (whether in enviroment, society or for a specific person)
As for Art, I personally love art myself and I don't believe it is haram.. but of course some forms of art could become haram, such as those who draw something that now we call NSFW, or create a song about the devil like we saw with Lil Nas X and such.
I like to draw sometimes myself, but of course this is only my thought process, I advise you to ask someone who knows better, jazak Allah khair brother
@@0bada905 thank you very much, you have helped me a lot (just a little thing, I’m a sister not brother) thank you.
I am a Hindu, and I didn't know your culture earlier. But trust me, this video really touched me. 😊 🫂
It's Muslim culture
@@glitterrocks3628 It’s not a culture at all. It’s Islam (religion)
Our Islam also touch your heart InShaAllah
Thank you! this is a religion not a culture
why watch if not muslim
Im an Hindu but the content in the speech is fantastic and showing right path to both muslim and non muslims. Thankyou
MashaAllah! I started wearing hijab 11 years ago. When I went to a islamic store to look for something. I i realised the salesman wasn’t even looking at me while he was looking at other women covered their skin. At that point it clicked on my mind so hard that I told my husband that I should start covering my head and body. May Allah bless that man who showed me the right way to dress without even uttering a word.
I didn't expect Mufti to be given the speech in this vid and he looks so fined in animation! 😄 Masha Allah such beautiful reminders , and very cute animation 😍 May Allah bless you all, thank you so much! Now I know the best way to remind my sisters in Malaysia 🇲🇾(and all around the world Inshaa Allah). Thank you so much Jazakallah!! 😊
thank you so much I 'm a muslim girl and I agree with the sheikh it's harsh and direspectful to say to a woman you are dressing like... and you are doing that ... those judgements make you hated by women for me I dress for my self not to attract people but to feel clean and organized .
I hope a lot more muslims can learn to be a bit gentler when correcting a person's mistake. Sometimes I get so irritated when I get scolded harshly for something that I wasn't even aware of.
@@Oreo-vh7rk i am not even muslim but i had this muslim girl in my highschool practically start a war against me over the lenght of my skirt once ( mind you, i wore a pair of jean shorts under it and i wore the skirt short , no underwear on sight, and it was winter so thick blue tights and knee lenght boots) , it was the school uniform but it was an uniform imposed in a public school out of necesity to tell who was a student with one look due to problems with bands , so as far as we wore dark gray bottoms, white top and blue jacket/jumper, they didn't care what exact pieces of clothes in that colors or how we wore them. this girl even told the teachers they needed to do something about it because it was no appropiate ( which the teachers ignored) and ended up telling me that i was being indicent and i told her that i wasn't even muslim so how was it your problem and she went and said that it was wrong to according to my god ( completely assuming that because we live in a country were catholicism is the main religion i should be catholic), i told her i did't had a god since i was an atheist and she went ballistic. like started yelling i was going to hell and that demons were gonna get me because they are everywhere. i swear some people( of every religion) just take religion top far.
@@nessyness5447 Big yikes, hope the girl learned that the world is bigger than only religion
@@Oreo-vh7rk you know the funniest thing? she was oh so extremist but i never saw her wear a hiyab. instead there was a girl who did wore hiyab and combined it very fashionably with her clothes( usually tight clothes) who was a super sweet girl and really funny to talk with.
@@nessyness5447 Huge yikes, no one likes a hypocrite
1:01 the editing at this point 😂😂😂
I'm so so happy I am Muslim and I am also very happy I got ur channel☺☺☺
I am a non-muslim person as well but I liked this video so much! It was well done and has some wisdom that anyone can apprechiate. I am from Germany and I made friends with a lot of muslims who come to Germany at the moment. I will subscribe and learn from you about Islam, to understand my new friends better! We habe to take care about each other
beautifully defined how to correct others
something minor* i guess. Ma-sha-allah very beautiful message. every muslim needs to learn this.
yeah so many typos in the email. good video nonetheless.
Humble words...💎
Alhamdulillah for islam ♥️
Life becomes easy when you stop trying to fit in.... Just dress to impress Allah... Speak to impress Allah... Be decent and conscious about you etiquettes... Allah loves that...
By your username I can guess r u Hindu, r u interested in Islam? Have u reverted? Dp u want any kind of help? I live in new delhi if u need any help then pls feel free to ask.
this is very true, but sometimes it is not about the trends, about fitting in.. dress to impress Allah SWT, but fashion and beauty is something interesting to me. a hobby, a creative outlet, i mean, our body is the only one we got. firstly the soul, the inside, is most important to be beautiful.. but for me, i dont know, i like to adorn my outside not to attract attention (although compliments from females are welcomed
@@onemillionpercent Peace be upon you♥️
Sister, modesty does not mean ugliness at all! Indeed, it is because we are queens and Allah honoured us with beauty that we should dress modest, our beauty is a jewel that no random non-mahram has any right to see.
But dressing beautiful, provided it is modest, is not a sin.
Allah knows best
I can't stop laughing at 1:01🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me too 😂😂
Mufti Menk always explains things in Funny way which makes easily to understand
I was surprised not gonna lie haha:)
True. That was very funny.
The video is amazing! Clearly, the point has been raised up neatly and nicely. To correct someone, it is important that we use the right and good words! It’s our duty to act and be concern with our fellow people. 🤗
Hi
Something I have been in search for quite sometime is a connection with somebody that goes beyond vanity. It's very hard to do in this day and age. People can be, somewhat very superficial.
On my quest to achieve this I have learnt a lot about human nature. It seems to me that those who are not given traits such as beauty or being wealthy are some of the nicest, kindest and generous people.
While the "gorgeous" and well off seem to be the most arrogant and greedy people out there. Of course that's not to say there aren't beautiful kind people out there.
I've been in the process of change for a while now and I have made some decent changes but don't you just hate it when people can't let go of your past mistakes.
I saw your profile and it intrigued me. I wanted to learn more about who you are and what type of path you would like on in life. Can we talk?
I don't wear makeup for men, i do it because i like to feel pretty for myself. I even always wear makeup at home because i like the way i look, i don't care about men
Peace be upon you sister and may Allah guide and bless you♥️
I know your comment is from 4 months ago but I wanted to point out that in Islam women should be modest because their beauty is a private thing. There is no harm to have make up on in private or with mahrams just to feel pretty, it is doing it in public with non mahrams around that is sinful.
That being said, may Allah forgive us all and keep us from sin. Allah knows best.
of course modesty is for men too but Allah dignified and honored women with beauty and with haya, so the awra of women is more extensive than man's.
Hello hyunjin^^
this is all perfectly fine! as long as it doesn't result in Tabarruj, which literally means excessive flaunt, tabarruj usually ends up objectifying women for the sake of the male gaze and would undermine the true value of beauty/ self respect and reduce the woman to a laughing stock or the object of satisfying the perverted and depraved needs of unhealthy individuals. if you wear some light and natural makeup to boost up your confidence a little bit , there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. however, one shouldn't go overboard when it comes to caring about their looks and beautifying themselves ( for example wearing overly heavy makeup that would make you look like a clown or putting on flashy and overly revealing outfits ) for it will cause qoroor(vanity and ignorance) and of cource tabarruj, hope that was helpful.
@@yasmineed-daoudi6023 yea... Islam is bad 😁
1:02 It happened to me once. I was wearing tight jeans and my shirt wasn't long enough and a man who looked like the caricature walked past me and said with an aggressive tone : "COVER YOURSELF". Seen the way he said it, I had to take look at what I was wearing to confirm that I'm not naked.
Mala Mala if you listen carefully to the video Mufti Menk never said that wearing make up is permissible but the way to advise people is very very important. Even Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala said to his messenger in surat An-nahl ayah 125 “Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best. Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who has strayed from His way, and He is most knowing of who is [rightly] guided”. Sister, I know that what I was wearing isn’t the right that’s why I described it, but at that time I was only a student and Hijab clothes in my country are quite expensive, I knew it wasn’t a reason to dress like that but Allah yahdina, I now try my best to dress as modest as possible. But the way that man “attacked me” isn’t good either because A : We are stranger to each other, B : why screaming in the middle of the street humiliating me like that ? C : Nobody’s perfect he probably does sins too and no one is correcting him like he did.
@@kniz are you from morocco ?
@@oussamaqouiyd9818 Yes sir
@@kniz me too nice to meet you do you have a facebook or instagram just regular talk don't worry
1:02 i’m dying 😂😂
Me too😂😂😭
Me 3😂
@@wissowisso9648 😂😂😅where is 4🌚
me 5
me 6
Assuming women only wear makeup to please men is so stupid and small minded. I wear makeup to feel good, because I like wearing it and because I think it's an art. I dont want men to tell me to remove my lipstick because they think they have this sacred mission or whatever. Religion, and how people practice it, is something extremely personel and unique for each person. You cant generalise it
Ni then men should be educated enough to stay away. It's time westart teaching boys to be respectful instead of forcing girls to change
The only two reasons people wear makeup publicly is insecurity or trying to look pretty for someone to get approval. Why do you cover that zit? Why do you actively try to erase "imperfections"? All this reduces down to you see yourself as a thing to be judged by humans.This is very sad. Stop lying to yourself.
I'm very sorry but i don't think the creators of this video intended that kind of message. Based on my limited knowledge, Islam tries to prevent people from being attracted to others outside of marriage with these guidelines. The overall goal it portrays for both genders, is to go unnoticed in public. Men and women alike aren't supposed to wear flashy clothing that would make them stand out or change their appearance in any other way that makes them better to look at.
All of this of course doesn't matter when you are at home. Many Muslim women I know, enjoy fashion and wear the clothes they like. If the clothes emphasize their body or make them stand out, they wear some kind of outer garment above it when they leave their house.
Now makeup is a bit tricky because it's not like a nice dress or cute underwear that you can wear under your coat/clothing and no one gets to see. Even if you do it only for yourself, the point why many Muslims think that wearing it is not advised in Islam, is because it makes you look prettier - therefore making it easier to accidentally create attention.
Yes, for you it is art, for you its an expression of yourself and you enjoy it.
Yes, Muslim men aren't even supposed to look at you so they shouldn't notice you are wearing it.
But, truth is people aren't perfect and, even if you don't want it, a man that looks at you is more likely to keep looking if you look nice, that's how we humans are.
Islam is about prevention. A person should avoid things that could end up attracting the other gender and at the same time avoid looking at other's to not become attracted themselves.
Surely you might say that this seems very focused on women, and there is truth in that, but the reason for this is more culture than islam. In fact, I would say that islam also doesn't recommend a man to 'style' his beard. A shorter, well groomed beard might be what he likes best, but it also makes a man more attractive. In it's ideals, this way of thinking shouldn't discriminate against a gender but count for both equally.
I hope I didn't offend you and I don't expect you to agree with this way of thought...but maybe you can see the ideals behind it. The creators of this video didn't want to suggest that all women have this intention, they talked about something that can have a (in their view) negative effect on society, even if that wasn't the intention.
I am also aware that Muslims are, just like any other, a very diverse group and that of course not everyone follows these ideas or supports them. Therefore I am happy this video exists because it reminds people to be polite if they feel they should express a personal concern regarding the religion and how it's practiced. If we don't like the advice someone gives us because we don't agree, we can just ignore it - and the whole scenario in general is just much more pleasant if people address us politely.
Nope. Makeup is personal. It fixes flaws therefore people get easily insecure without it.
The longer you wear makeup the more it's going to affect your self-confidence without it. Deny it all you want but this isn't the exception, it's the rule.
I'm a catholic girl but recently after interacting with my dear islam fellow mates I started to learn in depth about islam and started to grab all the good teachings. Allahu akbar(GLORY TO THE CREATOR) this word striked my heart alot.
Wow sister your profile picture… did you convert by any chance? May Allah bless you either way and guide you ❤, Ameen
@@hellosouuu officially I haven't but still belief wise I have converted and believe in Allah (SWT)
@@JesusJoy07 Okay Inshallah Allah makes it easy for you to take that push, by officially do you mean declaring your Shahada/Testimonial of belief In Allah as one and His messenger?
Congratulations for understanding the subtleties involved in faith and formal rules; and spreading the message.👏👏 The community needs more work in this direction.
I'm Catholic but this is amazing advice.
You should watch more videos on this channel
may allah guide u ❤
As a muslim female, I would be confused, if I get such an E-mail like that.
Maybe I like the color red, or maybe I was just in the mood to wear this color. It's just a color and nobody should take it so serious.
If I would get this E-mail, I would immediately E-mail him:
Dear brother,
why are you so driven to tell me that I could possibly change it? Only because you are used to see this color on women who want to stand out doesn't mean that this color is their trademark.
Just chill. It's just a color and it doesn't say anything about my character, behavior, intention, ... .
I wouldn’t even respond... one would have to have a really pathetic life to focus on other people instead of themselves and their lives. It’s quite sad really
@shield&sword peace
Why would you even care about other peoples life and about how they dress, talk, ....
In the recommended E-mail he carefully critized the way how the sister wears her make up.
As a muslim female, who likes to wear make up: Personally, it doesn't make no sense to me when someone make the effort and write an E-mail to somebody in a ''very polite'' way and accpect her to thank him and stop doing the thing which considered as bad.
We live in 21 century and make up isn't anymore a thing of attraction. From my experience men like women with little to no make up. Most women don't even wear make up or dress in a certain way to attract the opposite gender. They do it because they want to express their creativeness and don't want to have a boring live.
In Islam there is not a lot of ways to express yourself as an induviduall. There is always rules and expections of the Muslim community that a Muslim have to fulfill. You always have to adapt to the people in you environment.
Trying to correct someone , focusing on others is wrong, because maybe the things which are considered as bad from your perspective is ok to someone else.
That's why I don't think that this is a good idea to critize someones behavoir, because the curtural practice of being a Muslim is worldwide different. So you shouldn't except that all Muslims behaive one way.
@@kiyanaak3269 I understand when you say we girls don't dress or do make up to attract man, the sad thing is it still does attract man, even when you wear a big trash bag. Seriously, this mail isn't about something that may be wrong with you, it is just a nice reminder that when u walk outdoors with red lip stick, sadly there are still man who get super attracted or think stupid stuff about you, maybe call things to u that u wouldn't like or do even worse stuff. That is literally the world we live in.
We are humans after all and would love a compliment every here and there but sometimes we have to stop doing stuff to be on the right path , wear makeup just don’t over do it . Thats it , thats the point
Message to all women in the world: if a man tells you that you are wearing too much make up, tell him to mind his own business!!
Lic51 OMG THANK YOU. I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO THOUGHT THIS!!!!
And you must shut yourself up, nobody asked you.
Remember Islam says lower your gase and says if your eyes cause you to sin pluck them out
Christianity says
Makeup isn’t for attracting men I dress for myself it makes me feel like myself
ولا يبدين زينتهن
It’s ok to put make up on, just dont put red lipstick because it is the colour of jahanam
@@smartsloth3688 lol dont invent stuff please. Make up in public should be avoided as it beautifies and attracts attention. The point of hijab is to cover.
Me too im a Muslim girl and wear makeup almost everyday but I don't go out with it ike if I want to see myself pretty I can dress up at home
Same 😌
As long as the makeup is not basically covering your face in color and plastic... It's good, it makes you feel presentable and gets rid of some people's inscecurities, just please don't ruin your face putting on loads of products to literally change your face shape.
I like how the speaker talks.. It's so graceful and respectful
Sir You are a gem💎 of person..May Allah bless you for teaching us Islam and portraying it in such a simple, understandable & beautiful way ♥️
I'm trying to convince myself tht this is right but voice in my head tell's me IT'S NOT YOUR BUSINESS TO TELL SOMEONE WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR OWN BODY !!
I agree woth your inner voice! It's none of their business if a woman wears too much makeup.. It's not affecting anyone else or at least it shouldn't
Same.
The thing is, if you do something that you should not do in the context of religion, a person does have the right to politely suggest you to reconsider, or to you advise you against it, even when you do it on your own body. But it has to be done with the right timing, with utmost respect in a polite manner, with the understanding of the person who is doing the suggestion that he/she himself/ herself may have a lot of mistakes within him/her that others can advise to correct.
In Islam we believe, that our body, our wealth and everything that we "own" are not ours but of Allah's and he owns everything.
But if you think that that you can do whatever you want with your own body, even when its self harmful and no one has the right to say anything about your actions (even as a polite suggestion) unless you are directly harming someone else then that's an entirely different belief system. For you to understand this video you atleast have to have that precondition of belief as I aforementioned.
Enjoining good and forbidding evil is a religious duty
@@aslbpo9010 well said
Once a man, he was I think 25 saw me, a girl with a boy that was my age, I knew it was wrong and I was already willing to cut him out of my life. But I saw this man looking at me very furiously so I became really afraid. After 10 minutes I wanted to go home because I felt so uncomfortable because of this previous mentioned man, but when I stood up to go he and to other men showed up and surrounded us and looked very aggressive. My heart started pumping so fast and I was soo scared. They confronted me why I was with someone who was the opposite sex and one of them wanted to start a physical fight with that boy. When I calmed them down I saw that the person who was the most aggressive was smoking, what a joke I thought. 2 years passed and I am still scared to go outside and see those men. This situation was a traumatic experience for me and thank Allah I can seperate people who think interfering in someone‘s life and threatening them is right from how Islam really is. But I can say for sure, if I wouldn’t know about Islam that much, I would have started hating religious people.
Subhanallah, such an interactive yet distinctly delivered lecture by Mufti Menk. I admired the way he balanced out between having an egotistical opinion and the right way to address someone without hurting one's dignity. Being a youth on Twitter, often times I witnessed the horrific threads of arguments among the Muslim brothers and sisters reprimanding each other openly. Recently, a Facebook post was brought up in a thread about a sister dress code and the comments were full of (naudzubillah) appalling "Muslim" men wishing "rape" upon the sister. La illaha illallah it was one of the worst thing I could ever witnessed (astaghfirullah) although both parties were at fault. Rebuking others just because they sin openly and differently from you does not make you one step closer to Almighty or being the "right one". Ya Muslim brothers and sisters, learn to reflect your words and the way you think. Take this video as an example to set on others. Alhamdulillah tabarakallah thank you for educating me further with this video.
Thank you so much I'm studying Islam and your channel is helping me a lot to get deeper in this religion understand what true Islam is. Islam is beautiful men and women who judge everyone don't have to take you away from God and understand what is right
It’s our duty to correct each other but on social media many people say not to judge others and it’s between the other person and Allah and it’s none of someone else’s business so it’s good to be reminded we have a duty to one another.
In my society *cough* Malaysia, I felt like I'm stuck in the middle. Because the society mainly the Muslim influencers and older generation, tends to always put the fault to the culture around us for the fall of the Muslim People. They say that like, 'This music genre is influencing the youngs with their culture' , 'That culture is bad, don't listen to them' , 'That person is in a bad organisation' , ' That is iluminati, that is a Christian logo, That is bad, this is bad' , 'if you don't follow us you are a bad Muslim'. And sometimes the older generation, follow whatever the social media said about a culture, and remind us youths in terrible way like, scolding us and isn't open for a further discussion about the topic. And sometimes we(teenagers) ask why we need to do this, they would just say, just do it. Without any explanation at all. Its tiring.
I mean yes, probably there are some cultures or people that are bad, though there are some people that are non muslim that influence us in a good way and inspires us, but those influencers shut it down and say they are not Muslim, therefore they are bad people ,but its the way they send the reminder to the Muslims are just terrible, and in this specific society has a lot of culture in it. They made the other cultures look down towards us Muslims, they didn't give an impression that Islam is a good religion instead they made us look like people who are ignorant and crazy for power. They always put the fault on others but they themselves are mostly selling the religion's name for to rule the country or to just have followers. I hate it, and to be honest, it made me doubt Islam for a quite a while. I am a teenager, lots of things can influence me, that I understand, but I strongly believe that us Muslims, regardless of age or gender, we need to work together and be smart and professional. Do they need a growing teenager to teach that to those grown old men?
But Alhamdulillah, Allah has given me the mind to process this situation. I realize that I, myself need to be a good Muslim. I need to strengthen my own faith to Allah and have passion towards my religion. Almost just like other things in life, if you focus on this one thing, nothing can stop you from parsuieng it. And InsyaAllah, Allah will protect me from getting influence by those real bad people.
Thank you to all of you that read all of this. It really means a lot to me, I had a hard time to processing this situation because it's a sensitive and a personal matter to me and i did felt alone, and I'm only just a teenager. I didn't have the power to study everything about Islam, but I do know and actually understand things that is important to secure my faith to Allah. MasyAllah, please du'a for me.
I felt that, really. I too started to doubt islam at one point with all the "do it and don't ask questions" it felt fishy, and all the islamophobes "liberals" started to point out some cultural stuff that had nothing to do with islam and said "that's bad, this is bad that's sexist and that's homophobic" and I started to believe them...when everything was fake, be it the sources those Islamophobes gave me or the "this is haram" stuff I heard my whole life. I feel like, separating culture and religion would be a huge first step. I myself started looking at things differently and asking myself, why would allah order such a thing? Why would Allah allow this thing? Looking us ahadith, verses, explanations, anything that could help me understand. We all are starting to realize how islam is being used these days, it's sad really to see such a beautiful faith being used for some concerning purposes. Congratulations for being one of those who actually ask questions and don't just follow blindly
@Subarashii Ningen mashaallah, that's a very clever thing to do, I actually never thought about it this way, it might help me in the future. Thank you and may Allah bless you for this
hello sister, I am an international student studying in malaysia. I have realized that in this country the muslims do talk about islam but i feel really very very bad when i see my sorrounding muslim sisters wearing hijab with such tight clothes where the body is revealed bt only the skin and hair is hidden. I wish i could change the mind of people of malaysia and let them rethink the way they are wearing the clothes in name of islam. I really feel bad that they r potraying islam in such way to other locals (chinesse and south indians). Malaysia do need to change themselves first. In my country I will say we dnt wear hijab like tht but our clothes are lose but yes my country also do so many mistakes may allah give us hedayet.
MashaAllah what a nice way to teach us things that we consider little and often overlook or miscommunicate.
Allah says in the Quran Surah 24 An-Noor
Verse 30-31. Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with what they do. "And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O you Believers! You turn all together towards Allah, that you may attain bliss.
Allah’s words are truly beautiful
So respectfull and great speech ...jazakom allahu khairan sheikh menk and all workers in this great channel
You brother from jordan middle east
*I really like the animation and how their heads float*
:)
Lol they only did that cause in Islam Ur not allowed to draw people so if they draw it with out a neck then it won't be a person anymore itl just be a head and a body
@@aesthetictazzie4377 what? I don't think that's true...
Jimin's gray hair I mean if they did it with the neck then it would technically be a person and drawing people is haram what do u think is not true?
@@aesthetictazzie4377 because it's not true. On Al-An'aam 6:199, drawing animate objects is fine. It's only Haram when you draw Allah or the prophet. That's why when you see a children story book about prophets, they do draw people but not the prophet.
Because if you draw a prophet, people will pray to him instead of Allah itself and we're only allowed to pray to one god, which is Allah.
Edit: Some people also say that taking pictures is haram but the one haram is taking pictures of the prophet. Why? Because in the mecca mosque, there was once a picture of how prophet mohammad looked and because of that, people prayed to his picture instead of Allah. Because of that, the picture got taken and is haram.
@@pinkdandelions3982 drawing prophet is Haram but drawing normal people Is Haram to I might be wrong cuz I'm 11 but I've heard from a lot of Islamic people? Idk what there called but search "are u allowed to draw people in islam" now I'm saying like art and stuff not like educational things for kids or cartoon that's all right but drawing a person(with eyes) just becuz u want to is like imitating Allah saying u can make life like he can and on the day of judgment he will use it drawing against you
I heard this from my Quran teacher I asked if it was perrmisibe
Books and cartoons for learning are fine tho
What if we just treat everyone with respect and don't objectify each other?
If only
I think the point of the video is not just about wearing makeup but mostly about correcting someone respectfully :)
1:00 Laughed my head off!!!!!!!!!
I played it again and again and again!
I appreciate how you didn't write the a word👍
@@videoawesomeness5234 Same! very funny :D 🤣
That’s how my brother is when he sees me doing something wrong which is okay- dw he is only 9 lol (i am actually doing something right and he thinks it is wrong)
@@smartsloth3688 😂😂😂
This is a reminder for people who wear to much makeup. your beautiful. You don't have to change your looks. thank you for highlighting my comment! 💗
Amazing
What a beautiful explanation
May Allah bless mufti menk.
1:32 It’s the opposite actually
I hate when men stare at me it’s really uncomfortable
And I love it when no one looks at me
Tho i still wanna wear whatever i want (not to attract anyone but to love myself and be comfortable and confident) but men are so disrespectful
True
they are not being disrespectful when staring at beautiful faces of women they're just being "Men''
@@struggle9394 no it's disrespectful. Stop with the boys being boys thing
Me too and that's why sometimes I try to make myself look ugly just to avoid some idiots on the street!
Treat sons and boys to respect woman. If you see something you don't like, lower your gaze brothers
This man is changing my life
Yes, that is right
I'm Muslim from Libya 🇱🇾
Thank you so much for the video, I'm so grateful that I've come across it. This made me realise how many times my make up has offended others even though it has nothing to do with them. Honestly, I applaud and respect you so much for this. It's funny, I always thought there was something wrong with how humans treat the world and its people. There are so many issues. Hunger, orphans, war, poverty, homelessness. And to add to that, so many horrible horrible people killing others and making their lives terrible because they have different ways of life. Real, true issues. Actual offensive things like racism, homophobia, and shaming. And people wearing lipstick. Thank you so much for being so useful and bringing light to these problems...may Allah S.W.A bless you.
Mashallah you explained it very beautifully unlike others who speak very harshly while talking about ladies and pardah 🙂
His first mistake was assuming that women wear makeup to attract the opposite sex. It's a very easy mistake to make but a huge one.
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Not all but either way the answer is same
@@ibniloveitmushtaq6925 until men learn that clothes or make up are not consent and that women are not objects for their pleasure, women will get unwanted male attention no matter if they walk around in a bikini or covered head to toe. so there is no point in worrying so much about what women wear or what makeup they use, for men who don't know what respect is and already decided that a women is provoking them because she looked their way , that won't make a difference.
Thank you so much for this video. It has helped me realize many things and that I should definitely try to be nicer and gentler to people.
Women don’t wear makeup to please men but to please themselves
Mufti menk is the most mature and realistic man
Once I heard the voice, I knew, it’s mufti menk, one of the best speaker I know. Alhamdulillah!!!
you should get more than 10 million subscribers because u deserve for it
I will spread this video to every one of my friends and family members and everyone because u changed my life and u change so many peoples life
thank u so much
In Sha Allah, u will go in heaven
may we all go in heaven and may Allah protect us from the hellfire
ur videos are the best and life-changing :)
I barely wear make up but if i do i do it for myself ❤
I really like the eyes that look like hamza 😂😂 الهمزة "ء"حبيت والله 😂❤
Huhuhuhuuu....
Well done 👏
You are encouraging people to return back to Islam...☪️
Good going may Allah provide you success
جزاكم الله كل خير على المحتوى المفيد وجعله الله في ميزان حسناتكم يارب العالمين
He is very kind and funny may god give peace to this man
I didn't grow up in a very tight Islamic background but that doesn't mean i am not a believer. I cover my head and skin fine. But a religious male friend of mine told me "IF A STRAND OF YOUR HAIR WAS VISIBLE OUTSIDE YOU WILL NEVER EVEN BE ABLE TO SMELL THE GARDENS OF HEAVEN BUT ONLY HELL" It really hurt me, the way he told that.
But i'll tell a funny thing- This guy who said that to me HAS A GIRLFRIEND...(I dont think girlfriend-boyfriend is allowed as well)
So please, if your going to advise someone on religious matters on whats haram and halal make sure you are not engaged or supporting any of that sort. For example this guy mentioned above had a "girlfriend"
Yeah lol people who are always so judgy tend to be the biggest snners
I'm a muslim, this channel makes my heart feel calm down than other
This is such beautiful video .
The most unfortunate aspect is that most Muslim women do not understand the fact that why wearing too much makeup isn’t advised in Islam .
I have read reviews where people are sort of arguing that why someone should tell me about my lipstick .
I personally love makeup and has recently started wearing hijab but more I am learning about Islam (born Muslim but not knowledgable ) the more I understand how little little things in life we do are complete opposite of what Islam has allowed or advised .
I am praying may Allah gives me and all other Muslims to understand true Islam and gives us strength to follow it
Thank you for translating into Arabic my beloved brother, may God bless you and reward you with all the best ❤️❤️
I love this animation and style, keep it going
Wow I loved this was very useful I'm defo going to share!
I know i am late, but can i tell y'all a story? I am a married muslim woman. And i am working at a customer service. I always wear the same black dress at work, bcoz it's simple and comfortable. I don't need to think a lot in the morning what to wear. (And make up is also very simple and natural) My husband is coming every day to my work, so that we can eat together. (1 hour)
Last time he said to me: sanam, you are always wearing the same. you have sooo many dresses, why you always wear this one?
I replied: bcoz it is simple and comfortable and i don't want to wear the beautiful dresses at work...
and he said: plz make yourself beautiful for me, when i visit you at work.
What i am supposed to do now? Hahaha 😂😂😂
if u strive for simplicity in public then that’s great! when you’re at home you don’t need to dress modestly or simple and you actually get reward for pleasing ur husband in the way you dress so to compromise you can dress nicely at home, you should keep up the simplicity in public, it’s a really good quality that InShaAllah I can also obtain.
Show him the best at home. For work, try find similar ( black if that's what you feel modest in) new dresses for a change.
Hiç Türk yokmu bu videolar benim için çok yararlı oluyor hem İngilizcem gelişiyor hemde çok yararlı bilgiler alıyorum İslam hakkında,Allah (cc) razı olsun gerçekten çok güzel bilgiler var ve Hadisi şerifleri ezberlemem de de çok yardımcı oluyor ezberlediğim Hadisi şerifleri anlıyorum
Ben hintliyim...Türk değilim, ama Türkçe öğreniyorum... Senin yorum görünce sevindim😁😍
Mufti menk is the best love from India 🙂🙂
I am Muslim. Every one is beautiful in their own way
Still listening. I wish he would correct some folks that think everything is the West fault. I'm from the West and I wish life had been more peaceful thereby allowing Westerners an opportunity to experience life in middle eastern countries. One commenter blames the west for makeup. Make-up is global. Such conclusions r really a sign of ignorant. This video I believe is more about tact than Islam. With the exception of polygamy, I'm interested in the spiritual aspects of Islam.
That makes sense actually, makeup is global, I supposed the message perhaps is that makeup should be applied in moderation. I think more than that, though, the video addresses how many of us Muslims have forgotten how to speak respectfully. And I wish you the best if you wish to explore the more spitirual aspects of Islam. I'd recommend you look into the stories of Sufis such as Hazrat Rumi, Hazrat Shams, Bibi Rabia Basri, Hazrat Nizamuddin, the Naqshbandia muraaqbas, and a book called Embattled Saints. Such sufi practices are an optional part of Islam, and focus on meditation, focusing upon various power points of the body (similar to chakras but not quite) like the Zikr at the Qalb/Heart, and the balancing of the four elements at the Qaalibi point at the crown of the head. Allah's name is recited, silently or out loud upon such Lata'if/points but they must be done under the supervision of a teacher/Murshid/Shaikh (same word different languages) best of luck xx
Many many westerners are living happily and peacefully in the Middle East.
Read Quran and authentic hadith. Dont look at what muslims are doing
Kohl have been around for centuries and mainly worn by middle eastern women.
agreed
This is why we love Mufti Menk✋😂👌
thank you for doing this video. I'm 2 years late but late is better than never. and thank you for making a very well made video that makes listening to tazkirah is joyful and more understandable
Oh ALLAH plz accept all my good deeds and bless all muslim ummah with hidayath.aameen
Mashallah (i really respect muftimenk)😁
I feel bad for those people who somehow didn't manage to find anything of use from this amazing video and complain in the comments.
Mohamed Nawaz Sherief easy for you to say, as a privileged man. Lmao
So proud to be a part of this incredible religion♡
I’m a Muslim I loved this video
I'm a Christian and I actually enjoyed this video. There are levels to correct someone and I truly agree with this. Being respectful towards women and men and everyone is a beautiful thing. Great job!
Im greatful im a muslim 😇 may allah bless u all
I love this style of speaking (like mufti)
MashaAllah, thank you. I myself use make up, liptint to be exact. I feel good doing it, i feel beautiful. Thank you for reminding me... I still love using my liptint, but InshaAllah I will try to ditch it, when I'm ready.. pleaae pray for me 😊😊
*prays for u**
I have to say it. Absolutely loved the animation of this video. And MashaAllah Mufti Menk, as always, explaining things in the best and funny way. Jzk
MashaAllah ! Though I looked many of my sisters who do heavy make up but unable to explain them that they are wrong due to hesitation, but the way we can express them should be heart touching and we should never embarrass them that they are wrong instead we say them gently and with kindness .