Hey man, I don't know if this matters to you and I don't know what your circumstances are, but I feel what you're saying and I hope things start turning out better for you.
@@mlongpre100 Yeah that`s bullshit, hardwork and sheer will force will not pay for inflated prices on rent and food especially when the minimum wage has`nt increased for years to match inflation.
This is how I feel. I pretty much died 3 years ago. Since then I can't keep a job, I haven't worked in 2 years. I can't get myself out of this depression paralysis state. I'm pretty sure I'm so desperate to cling onto something that I've bordered on delusion. I have a document on my phone mapping out how I wished my life could have gone, it's like a hundred pages long, and I've started comforting myself by saying when I finally succeed at ending it, maybe I'll get lucky and get to live the life I feel I was owed. Because none of us deserve the external struggle we're forced through. I didn't do anything to deserve the pains in life I can't control. So it's nice to maladaptively daydream the life I wished I could have and lie to myself that I'll eventually get it despite external forces making it impossible, all while my family berates me calling me a lazy piece of shit, selfish loser. I don't even interact with them. I keep to myself, I stay out of their way and I help when they ask me to. But they only ever call me a lazy loser and make me feel so much worse. They act as it they understand depression but they literally tell me getting a job or just getting up and making my bed will fix it. It won't. I've had a job, I made my bed. Those things didn't suddenly cure my suicidal ideation or make my regrets disappear. They think depression is just short term sadness and an excuse to watch TV. I can't even pay attention to my own life anymore, my own self. Every second I'm living through the same regrets on repeat like an endless looping footage reel in my brain. I dissociate and space out and what feels like 5 minutes of internal suffering, regret and embarrassment ended up being 5 hours straight and it went by like that. They act like they understand and act like they're willing to understand, but any time I try to explain, they just yell at me and talk down to me. I'm just a loser piece of shit, they have all the answers, and the second I get a dead-end job, every bad thing that's ever happened to me will suddenly disappear according to them, even though the last 2 times I had a job, none of that went away. Life for me is torture. I never got a normal childhood, and all the people with great lives just tell you "its in the past just move on" but the past directly effects the now, and whether you realize it consciously, or it's subconscious, the past absolutely positively directs your future as well, even if you directly try to push against that. So how can I not be disappointed in my past? How can I live a normal adult life when I had a peculiar and depressing childhood? Even "successful" people with shitty childhoods still end up somewhat unhappy and it effects the rest of their lives. Look at Charles Dickens- one of the most famous and accomplished authors in world history. He grew up with an abusive, absent alcoholic father, and spent half his childhood in an orphanage. What are basically *all* of his books about? Kids being abused by their guardians and ending up in boarding schools and/or orphanages. How did he treat his children and wife? Supposedly like complete shit. It's not nature vs nurture vs environment. It's all 3. Your environment determines what you seek for, your nurturement determines how you seek it, and your nature determines how you emotionally respond to such events. I'm fucking alone, and hurting, and completely unaware of and lacking answers. And instead of getting attempts for answer, I get bullied by my own family. I've been in such a spiral that I've lost 80lbs, gained 120lbs, and then lost 65lbs all in the last 3.5 years. I don't know what to do. Or at least that's what's easier to say, but whats in my head is that I *do* know what to do, and it's the only genuine answer to all of this, all other answers are DNE, the only real answer is just to end it and pray that there is a God that will give me that rest button without half of the bad things I've been faced with that are uncontrollable. But that's delusion. So the only real answer is just to accept fate, accept oblivion, or hope God forgives me. Either outcome is better than continuing on in "life".
Worry only about what's under your control. Nothing else. Quit scrolling and be active phisically or mentally. Inactivity generates depression. Wash yourself, bursh your teeth. Smeel good. Put on clothes that you like and accomplish something in your day even if it's the smallest thing. These will boost your self-esteem and confidence. Laugh, eat healthier, go walking or jogging, receive sun and talk to people. Stop overthinking and be shameless. Don't allow yourself to care about what other people will say. Appreciate the things you have and ignore those you don't. Do things that are greater than yourself. The best example is helping other people. Everyone can beat depression. You have the power. I believe in you. In all of you.
By the way, these are things you MUST remember throughout the day, all your days. Write all of these down and keep remembering them frequently. Have no problem sharing your problems. If you'd like to, we could chat, but by all means, don't keep things for yourself
Poetry, this is just empty, vain poetry. You want to do good but it's just puny virtue signaling. You don't want depression? Set yourself a goal and accomplish it. You won't be having no depressive thoughts when you chase that goal let me tell you. Depression surges when you don't have a goal. When you just live the days with no idea of what to do of it, where to head. When you finish high school you end up finishing your basic goal of finishing high school, and then you need to set yourself another goal. Because if you don't, you get depression. Set a goal, and get it the best way possible. And once you got to that goal, make another one and keep going until you die. To not have goals is to play a game with no way of winning. Like playing tetris with no bricks or playing pacman with no ghosts, and no dots either. And you're a human. Do you even know how much every animal on earth envies the privilege you got from just being human?
It’s amazing how we give god credit for the little happiness we get and call his name when death is near. Amazing to me how it makes no difference in the world to have faith, makes one think that god does not have a heart like we do. He’s just an entity that we worship not knowing why even though I do believe that we just need something better us to follow and respect like an omnipotent figure… or just parent.
the only thing really holding me back is knowing the pain i’ll cause to those around me. thats it. i’m not even alive currently because i want to live, but for the sale of others. it doesn’t feel like i’m living at all if that makes sense. i have no direction in this life. i just stumble my way through it tired and alone
Just remember that there are people doing terrible things out there and you have to try and find them and stop them. Even if you don't think you're capable of really living there are things you can do with the life that you've been given. Keep your eyes up bro 💪
Don't Feel Alone!! I Think a Lot of People Live This Way!! Live One day at a Time!! My Friend likes to Pretend Everyday is her last Day!! She likes to have some fun and she likes to do good things for people or for little animals!! 🤷🙋🌻💜🙏
Esa frase deja de ser bonita si ya caiste demasiado. Pero mantengo la esperanza en mi mismo y poder sentirme feliz conmigo mismo y conseguír más amigos. Total que ya estoy acá, mucho no puedo hacer.
In this cruel world, they have robbed us of our freedom: enslaved by our jobs, robbed of our health, deprived of our chance for love. Sometimes, it feels like the only real choice we have left is our exit 😢 The future appears so bleak and hopeless.
Sometimes we dont realize how much support we have, our depression makes us think they hate us but in reality they love us. But it doesnt matter , nothing but our selves can rid us of this feeling, either overcome or end it all, the ladder looks promising and less painful and agonizing everyday we wake up and I wish it was over. Worked so hard in life only to fall victim to my own mind, for what? For nothing? Fucking hell
I feel good actually. Since Covid I immensely suffered from panic attacks and heart rhythm issues, which prevented me from nearly all kind of enjoyable activities, however, now since a few months I have this under control and these attacks don’t dictate my life anymore. Although I’m a lot on my own and I still have problems socially connecting to others, but I’m so happy man, it’s unbelievable. When you are truly at the bottom, and you can’t even walk around the block or have s3x without having a bpm of 170 combined with a panic attack, you really appreciate a normal life, even if it’s a lonely normal life. Just be glad that you are alive guys and make the best of it.
covid was a hell of a time for me. I didn’t get vaccinated but it was the sickest I’d ever been and I didn’t feel right for a month. I’m grateful I didn’t have lingering effects. The turnaround for me was when I started taking nattoserra.
@@julianwarren__stopped taking benzodiazepines and all kind of other drugs, started going out as much as possible, being active and meet people. But I still suffer from them time to time with an elevated heart rate for hours. You need good psychotherapy and a stabile social environment to manage the anxiety
Thank god I got out of that slump... Brothers please dont give up. I know it can be hard at times, and tbvh i still suffer a bit from anxiety and overthinking makes it worse but i am at least doing better than i was doing a few months ago. Please dont give up on yourselves. Not for the world but for your own self. Don't do anything drastic... YOU are needed in this world❤
I'd recommend this to someone who is as depressed to the core and being lonely most of the times. Please take a walk for at least one hour before taking any major decision and have a full meal though its hard to have at this time. Though the problem might not get solved immediately yet we should try to ease the pain in some way.
This movie broke me. Especially since I was lead to believe it was one of those feel-good movies where something bad happens but the protagonist overcomes it all in the end. It was anything but, it was a realistic take on guilt and grief where the protagonist gains pretty much nothing except a much needed discussion with his ex-wife and the *better* understanding of his peers, but in the end he's literally incapable of moving on and ends up basically exactly where he started minus those 2 things. Realistic, great movie. But incredibly, incredibly sad, and nothing like what was advertised to me.
Been there too, helped a bit to remind myself really I didn’t do anything wrong there that’s on them. Won’t fix it but it is the truth, don’t go puttin’ someone else’s blame and wrong doing on yourself because you were lied to. You won’t forget how to see through this kinda shit after you know, won’t be a second time.
@@drecaine646 thank you, brother! They will one day see how wrong they were to use me, they will one day crawl back only for me to use them as a road tile like they used me.
I still remember my 8th grade in middle school, I was in such a deepressing state, I still recall the dreadfull feeling of drowing in sorrow, it was odd how much I enjoyed the feeling, it was like a drug and I longed for it. Eventually I just sucked it up and realized how close I was to letting go, now im 17 and hitting 18 and honestly sometimes when things dont go well the feeling comes back, not as strong but it makes want to just listen to music and lay in bed for hours. Im hoping that the military will allow me to just forget all of it and turn me into a different person because im still the same kid I was when I was 15 and I dont want to let my mom down again like I did back then.
Truly losing people you care about who's the hardest thing to go through. but there will always be people that understand and will be there for you. We are never truly alone I say this if you need to hear this you matter.
I've never attempted suicide, but sometimes I'll think about what would happen if I did go through with it. And then I think about how my parents would react, and how heartbroken they'd be. I guess what I'm trying to say here is, is that yeah life sucks, but I just gotta soldier through
To all those who are depressed pls do not be afraid to reach out to someone and talk about it you guys are not alone for Jesus is with you and if your thinking of doing it don’t it’s not worth it and I know this message will not instantly heal you but I just wanna say to all you guys are who is struggling with depression that everything will get better have a blessed day 🙏🏼🙏🏼 and always keep your head up❤❤
“Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus!..” No offends, dude, but why should I worry about some Jewish dude, if he loves me or not. This dude must be cruel if he like to see how millions op people die becomes of wars, hunger and etc, so why should people do not be afraid if Jesus with them
@@user-he5lc8mo6d ah yes, the classic argument of “if God exist why bad thing happen!!!” Wow, what an original perspective! No theologian has ever thought of an answer to this question before! As for what you said earlier, which despite saying “no offense” was completely contrasted with your callous comment, the reason you should care is because he died for you and you owe your life to him. Jesus was flayed down to the bone so YOU could have salvation. He endured unimaginable torment so YOU could reconcile with God. How could you not be grateful? How could you be so insulting to the greatest man in the world? You baffle me.
@@lookwhatyoudidtomyfish4453 I have never asked him to die for me. And why did you say that I offended him? Did he said to you that he was upset by my comment?
I’ve never said this to anyone but. To everyone here. I’m 15 and Depressed, I have no emotion in me, feel hopeless, just pain, done bad things, sinned so much, and have had suicidal thoughts. If you’re reading this I want you to keep going. there’s always gonna be bad days. You have to have bad days to have good days. You can never feel good forever. But know matter What your going through. There’s Always Light at the end of the tunnel. Keep your head up💙
"It's not the first step, or the last step that's the hardest. It's the next step." Just focus on your next step. It will get easier. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. The thing is, you have to do it every day. Keep moving forward. I love you.
I don’t mean to sound rude bit it’s somewhat funny for a 15 yr old to be giving advice on depression. Some people have been in the hole for longer than you have existed, not that I want to discredit your experiences, it sucks either way. Give it another decade to two and see if your the same person then. I’m still pretty young myself, nearly 25 now, and I can somewhat relate to what you’re saying. I too feel like I am a sinner and I am to blame for all of my own misfortune. I’ve been feeling pretty numb lately, almost sociopathic really. My mother just had to get on oxygen, idk why but I don’t really care. Maybe I’ve been unconsciously preparing myself for this for a while; she’s brought up her mortality a handful of times in the last couple of years, but I can hardly withstand such heavy conversations. I think at some point I started seeing life as inconsequential in order to cope with feeling of helplessness. I’ve been trying to convince myself that there is merit in working towards goals, but there is a logical part of my mind that knows I am just sand on a beach.
@@orca1557Yes I understand. Even though I’m 15 years of age, i am not actually giving advice on depression. I’m simply telling people that coming from a person who has Suicidal thoughts, depression, etc, that know matter what they are going through, to keep there head up and they will make it even if they don’t believe it’s true. I can relate to how you talked about your mother being on oxygen aswell. My mom has been on oxygen for some time because of her terrible lungs from all of the things she’s allergic to. I don’t really understand how if I Was giving depression advice to people that would be funny? I guess Younger people with bad depression doesn’t matter as much and they can’t speak on it.
I have no friends at all. None. Zero. When I told my therapist he just looked at me stunned and couldn't believe it. And you know what? It sucks. I mean it really sucks. Constantly i see people on this subreddit talk about being depressed with the SO or hanging out with their friends and i just get so painfully jealous. When I go with my mom somewhere and see other people together just crushes me and I physically feel a pain in my chest. But then who would want to be with me? I have no interests and as an obese blob and I'm not very good at most physical activities. There are far better people to be friends with so naturally I'm left alone. At this point I'm too fucked up personality wise and I don't know how to be around people and am always on edge. Even around my family I'm on edge. And I just suck at being a human so I long for friends but am terrified around people. So is there actually any thing that can really help because the only thing that I can come up with involves rope. I should also add that I of course do not have a girlfriend. People my age are getting married I have not even been on a date. Jesus just typing that makes me want to cry. Damn I wish I was dead.
Today i had an anxiety attack and destroyed some places in my house because my cousin invited a couple and they started kissing in front of me,making me incredible jealous... I am an alone 28 years old virgin with -10000000 social skills. I dont know if this helps 🤷
@DantePizzaLover understand. For me it's better not to live with family or roommates. And if then only with people that are free like me. No rules. Everyone can do everything together. I 😊
I have a duty to my loved ones to live, just live enjoy the things life sends your way cut out the bad. Remember it really isn’t that long you just have to wait a little.
I stay alive mostly these days by reminding myself that I cannot die before my dad. That’s just not an option and I couldn’t bear to put him through that. I do however spend a lot of nights drinking. The symptoms I guess you could call them come at night. The drink helps but I know it will kill me. Sometimes I guess I feel lost. I hope and pray I make it. I know what I’m doing is bad but it has been hard to get out of this slump lately
Trust me guys, I recently visited my native village and everyone there was so happy and excited about everything, never looked like any kind of pain there. What i learned that all you need is good relationship with your people and all the problems will be faced with a smile❤😊
Bro ,never think what other people say because you got only one life to prove yourself better all you can do is just make it memorable that's how a strong man is done.
Well, I attempted suicide three times when I was 7 y.o. I was too smart for my age, at the time. I am continuing to live solely because my death wouldn't change anything. Yeah some people would be sad for a while, but they would move on. Live or die, it's the same for me. Because I don't matter. No one does when you look hard enough. And so I am only searching for an appropriate way to die. Because despite how meaningless the act is in the grand scheme: I wish I could die helping someone. One last futile act, that won't change anything, but perhaps someone will find a meaning in it, even if it is a lie. Even if it is superficial. Perhaps that person is going to help change something. And maybe my existence won't be a complete waste, like it is right now.
I hope you recover man, Don't try again as those 2 clowns above mentioned dude, your mother will miss your smile when she cooks your favorite food and your best friends would miss their other half and you'd never know if you were meant to be someone in life, if you reached your full pontential, if you lived full to its fullest, if you were to meet the one and start a family.
I can’t believe i thought life was bad when i was younger. If i could talk to my younger self id say enjoy where you are now because it’s about to get worse than you would’ve ever imagined.
Fuck, only F , in general those girls are trash , you are much better than them At least you are not some bald virgin in your parents basement donating to them Workout Read book for knowledge Learn skills Don't give up
You gotta think long term, those OF girls won't find much audiences when they get older, there are tons of competitions and they will have a hard time finding normal jobs due to their identity.
But you can change the world, you can find a way to make them pay. Sometimes, when the world is fucked up that nothing make sense and that the people are crushed, it is up to the honest and common citizen to apply justice. Prepare yourself brother, reach to like minded people and together across the world we will defend ourselves against this nonsense
"And I try to get up a little" "I want to look into her eyes" "Look into her eyes and burst into tears" "And never die, never die" "Never die" "Never die" "Never die, never die" You fr bro? Doesn't suit?
The worst thing about it is knowing that you don’t really want to end your life..deep down you know the only thing you want, is to end your pain and suffering.
“The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!” -Rocky Balboa Remember, you don’t have to be alone in this, sometimes you can’t just “snap out of it” or just “be a man” your way out of it. Get the help you need, you might be just a few sessions with a psychologist away from your best life, and you won’t know until you try it, if people tell you you’re weak for going to a professional, don’t listen to them, your mental health is more important than what other people think. May god be with you on your journey to your best life.
Every day the voices tell me to end it all, so I can get a bit of peace and quiet. And every day I live my life in hedonistic ways, to get even a bit of enjoyment out of it. But should things get worse, I don't think I could go on.
I never expected it would be like this when i grew up. I was promised so much as a kid, none of it mattered.
create the reality you want through hard work and force of will
I agree. It was all a lie.
Yeah same real world and society are dark
Hey man, I don't know if this matters to you and I don't know what your circumstances are, but I feel what you're saying and I hope things start turning out better for you.
@@mlongpre100 Yeah that`s bullshit, hardwork and sheer will force will not pay for inflated prices on rent and food especially when the minimum wage has`nt increased for years to match inflation.
"Surviving ain't living, brother."
yes it is
@@mlongpre100nah it isn’t
@@StuffedBearSus What about dem australians i've heard so much about
In this economy the only choice you have is survival.
@@mlongpre100 you dont get it. Look into this more deep.
Sometimes we all want to let go
But we won't give up
That’s right
Let go of things that you can't actually control and you'll be happy.
tyler durden
@@user-hm5ko7tt5i yes we will
“I don’t want to die, not really. I just want a restart button”
😢
I want my second chance too
yea sometimes it just feels like u messed up and u just want to make things better
Yeah agreed, but unfortunately that's how we learn and adapt
This is how I feel. I pretty much died 3 years ago. Since then I can't keep a job, I haven't worked in 2 years. I can't get myself out of this depression paralysis state. I'm pretty sure I'm so desperate to cling onto something that I've bordered on delusion. I have a document on my phone mapping out how I wished my life could have gone, it's like a hundred pages long, and I've started comforting myself by saying when I finally succeed at ending it, maybe I'll get lucky and get to live the life I feel I was owed. Because none of us deserve the external struggle we're forced through. I didn't do anything to deserve the pains in life I can't control. So it's nice to maladaptively daydream the life I wished I could have and lie to myself that I'll eventually get it despite external forces making it impossible, all while my family berates me calling me a lazy piece of shit, selfish loser. I don't even interact with them. I keep to myself, I stay out of their way and I help when they ask me to. But they only ever call me a lazy loser and make me feel so much worse. They act as it they understand depression but they literally tell me getting a job or just getting up and making my bed will fix it. It won't. I've had a job, I made my bed. Those things didn't suddenly cure my suicidal ideation or make my regrets disappear. They think depression is just short term sadness and an excuse to watch TV. I can't even pay attention to my own life anymore, my own self. Every second I'm living through the same regrets on repeat like an endless looping footage reel in my brain. I dissociate and space out and what feels like 5 minutes of internal suffering, regret and embarrassment ended up being 5 hours straight and it went by like that. They act like they understand and act like they're willing to understand, but any time I try to explain, they just yell at me and talk down to me. I'm just a loser piece of shit, they have all the answers, and the second I get a dead-end job, every bad thing that's ever happened to me will suddenly disappear according to them, even though the last 2 times I had a job, none of that went away. Life for me is torture. I never got a normal childhood, and all the people with great lives just tell you "its in the past just move on" but the past directly effects the now, and whether you realize it consciously, or it's subconscious, the past absolutely positively directs your future as well, even if you directly try to push against that. So how can I not be disappointed in my past? How can I live a normal adult life when I had a peculiar and depressing childhood? Even "successful" people with shitty childhoods still end up somewhat unhappy and it effects the rest of their lives. Look at Charles Dickens- one of the most famous and accomplished authors in world history. He grew up with an abusive, absent alcoholic father, and spent half his childhood in an orphanage. What are basically *all* of his books about? Kids being abused by their guardians and ending up in boarding schools and/or orphanages. How did he treat his children and wife? Supposedly like complete shit. It's not nature vs nurture vs environment. It's all 3. Your environment determines what you seek for, your nurturement determines how you seek it, and your nature determines how you emotionally respond to such events. I'm fucking alone, and hurting, and completely unaware of and lacking answers. And instead of getting attempts for answer, I get bullied by my own family. I've been in such a spiral that I've lost 80lbs, gained 120lbs, and then lost 65lbs all in the last 3.5 years. I don't know what to do. Or at least that's what's easier to say, but whats in my head is that I *do* know what to do, and it's the only genuine answer to all of this, all other answers are DNE, the only real answer is just to end it and pray that there is a God that will give me that rest button without half of the bad things I've been faced with that are uncontrollable. But that's delusion. So the only real answer is just to accept fate, accept oblivion, or hope God forgives me. Either outcome is better than continuing on in "life".
Worry only about what's under your control. Nothing else.
Quit scrolling and be active phisically or mentally. Inactivity generates depression.
Wash yourself, bursh your teeth. Smeel good. Put on clothes that you like and accomplish something in your day even if it's the smallest thing. These will boost your self-esteem and confidence.
Laugh, eat healthier, go walking or jogging, receive sun and talk to people.
Stop overthinking and be shameless. Don't allow yourself to care about what other people will say.
Appreciate the things you have and ignore those you don't.
Do things that are greater than yourself. The best example is helping other people.
Everyone can beat depression. You have the power.
I believe in you. In all of you.
By the way, these are things you MUST remember throughout the day, all your days.
Write all of these down and keep remembering them frequently.
Have no problem sharing your problems.
If you'd like to, we could chat, but by all means, don't keep things for yourself
@@gasparm2195none of the advice you gave helped me through depression. The only person that helped me was God.
And I only trust him to believe in me.
Poetry, this is just empty, vain poetry. You want to do good but it's just puny virtue signaling.
You don't want depression? Set yourself a goal and accomplish it. You won't be having no depressive thoughts when you chase that goal let me tell you.
Depression surges when you don't have a goal. When you just live the days with no idea of what to do of it, where to head. When you finish high school you end up finishing your basic goal of finishing high school, and then you need to set yourself another goal.
Because if you don't, you get depression.
Set a goal, and get it the best way possible. And once you got to that goal, make another one and keep going until you die.
To not have goals is to play a game with no way of winning. Like playing tetris with no bricks or playing pacman with no ghosts, and no dots either.
And you're a human. Do you even know how much every animal on earth envies the privilege you got from just being human?
U right man , We all can achieve greatness
@@gasparm2195your a real one i wish nothing but the best for you bud 💯💜
Man time really flies but god is still with me
Fucking based
Christ is the only one who never lets you down
It’s amazing how we give god credit for the little happiness we get and call his name when death is near. Amazing to me how it makes no difference in the world to have faith, makes one think that god does not have a heart like we do. He’s just an entity that we worship not knowing why even though I do believe that we just need something better us to follow and respect like an omnipotent figure… or just parent.
I have an imaginary friend too, his name is harvey, he's a 6 foot tall white rabbit
@@mlongpre100vah
the only thing really holding me back is knowing the pain i’ll cause to those around me. thats it. i’m not even alive currently because i want to live, but for the sale of others. it doesn’t feel like i’m living at all if that makes sense. i have no direction in this life. i just stumble my way through it tired and alone
So...like out of spite?
💯
Same here... I don't even know why.
Just remember that there are people doing terrible things out there and you have to try and find them and stop them. Even if you don't think you're capable of really living there are things you can do with the life that you've been given. Keep your eyes up bro 💪
Don't Feel Alone!! I Think a Lot of People Live This Way!! Live One day at a Time!! My Friend likes to Pretend Everyday is her last Day!! She likes to have some fun and she likes to do good things for people or for little animals!! 🤷🙋🌻💜🙏
That movie really hit home. If anyone ever asks how depression looks just show them this movie. If they went through it they will understand.
Whats the movie called?
Ye, whats the name of this film?
Film: Manchester by the sea
@@rsm389ofc hes british
@@rsm389thanks
“Your past is like pieces of a broken mirror. You try to pick them up, but you only end up cutting yourself” - Max Payne
your past is like a foreign country , people do strange things there - morpheus
"Caer esta permitido, levantarse es una obligación"
Esa frase deja de ser bonita si ya caiste demasiado.
Pero mantengo la esperanza en mi mismo y poder sentirme feliz conmigo mismo y conseguír más amigos. Total que ya estoy acá, mucho no puedo hacer.
You can't make me do anything
@@nightcrawler5409 Keep your head up, my friend, finish watching the movie before leaving the theater.
@@nightcrawler5409then you are weak
Quien sos vs para decir o obligar a hacer? O solo copiaste xq te parecía una frase "piola"?
Molchat doma really taking off
In this cruel world, they have robbed us of our freedom: enslaved by our jobs, robbed of our health, deprived of our chance for love.
Sometimes, it feels like the only real choice we have left is our exit 😢
The future appears so bleak and hopeless.
With that attitude "THEY" sure have
I Know Exactly What You Mean!! That Why We Feel like 💩 Sometimes!! I Understand!! I Get it!!
mhm, bc life outside of civilization is so free and clear of obligation and work… womp womp
@@U-PN-BI-IBW YOU Know Exactly What He Means!! 😠😠😠
@@LeticiaSarabia-yb8dm yeah and he’s being a silly billy
I wish I even had supportive people in my life. Dude's lucky.
Sometimes we dont realize how much support we have, our depression makes us think they hate us but in reality they love us. But it doesnt matter , nothing but our selves can rid us of this feeling, either overcome or end it all, the ladder looks promising and less painful and agonizing everyday we wake up and I wish it was over. Worked so hard in life only to fall victim to my own mind, for what? For nothing? Fucking hell
@@jwoz8517 I believe in you, homedawg. You aren't alone! ❤️❤️
@@jwoz8517 i feel the same way brother
Hold this L buddy
Come on bro man. Be your own Supporter
You, you , yes, you , hang in there bud , it'll be alright💖
me ?
@@mlongpre100yes 🫵🫶🤝
@@mlongpre100 You Too!! Let's See What 2025 brings!! 😎
I really hope so.
thank you i legitimately cried. Thank you so much
Manchester By The Sea. Great film.
When I was younger, I'd always being depressed and lonely was cool. Until I found its not and it hurts..
Edit: I'm not lonely anymore :D
Congrats
The good ending
pam and her five sister treating you right i hope🤞
You will be soon.
Glorified through social media as being different and “quirky” 🤷♂️ ironic seeing as a vast majority suffer from it
In the darkest times light can appear at any moment so don’t cut your life short just wait and let the road take you. A wise man.
I feel good actually. Since Covid I immensely suffered from panic attacks and heart rhythm issues, which prevented me from nearly all kind of enjoyable activities, however, now since a few months I have this under control and these attacks don’t dictate my life anymore. Although I’m a lot on my own and I still have problems socially connecting to others, but I’m so happy man, it’s unbelievable.
When you are truly at the bottom, and you can’t even walk around the block or have s3x without having a bpm of 170 combined with a panic attack, you really appreciate a normal life, even if it’s a lonely normal life. Just be glad that you are alive guys and make the best of it.
I'm happy for you. May I ask how you got your panic attacks under control?
I hope you didn't get the jab.
covid was a hell of a time for me. I didn’t get vaccinated but it was the sickest I’d ever been and I didn’t feel right for a month. I’m grateful I didn’t have lingering effects. The turnaround for me was when I started taking nattoserra.
@@julianwarren__stopped taking benzodiazepines and all kind of other drugs, started going out as much as possible, being active and meet people. But I still suffer from them time to time with an elevated heart rate for hours. You need good psychotherapy and a stabile social environment to manage the anxiety
@@YoungStoic45no, thanks to my trainer back then who said it wouldn’t be mandatory for my job
Thank god I got out of that slump... Brothers please dont give up. I know it can be hard at times, and tbvh i still suffer a bit from anxiety and overthinking makes it worse but i am at least doing better than i was doing a few months ago. Please dont give up on yourselves. Not for the world but for your own self. Don't do anything drastic... YOU are needed in this world❤
People get depressed when they realise that it doesn’t get better. It Never Gets Better.
Great edit! 👏 🥲
feel this every single day
Guys,be strong mentally, cause this is the key
We all don't wanna die we just want our problem to go away
I'd recommend this to someone who is as depressed to the core and being lonely most of the times. Please take a walk for at least one hour before taking any major decision and have a full meal though its hard to have at this time. Though the problem might not get solved immediately yet we should try to ease the pain in some way.
For anyone who wants the song it’s called Molchat doma - sudna
This movie broke me. Especially since I was lead to believe it was one of those feel-good movies where something bad happens but the protagonist overcomes it all in the end. It was anything but, it was a realistic take on guilt and grief where the protagonist gains pretty much nothing except a much needed discussion with his ex-wife and the *better* understanding of his peers, but in the end he's literally incapable of moving on and ends up basically exactly where he started minus those 2 things. Realistic, great movie. But incredibly, incredibly sad, and nothing like what was advertised to me.
One of the best lead performances in film in the past 24 years it’s a shame the actor is a real life c word.
C Word?
@@tofoo1 you can’t deduce what I mean?
@@OkIsAPerfectResponse no cause idk what the guy did in real life
@@tofoo1 some allegations about misconduct against women
Movie:- Manchester by the sea !!!
Songs name?
@@marlinboesak674Molchat Doma - Cyдно (Sudno)
@@marlinboesak674Sudno by Molchat Doma
I have been so kind, so supportive so ready to be there when they needed it, i was a tool to them
Been there too, helped a bit to remind myself really I didn’t do anything wrong there that’s on them. Won’t fix it but it is the truth, don’t go puttin’ someone else’s blame and wrong doing on yourself because you were lied to. You won’t forget how to see through this kinda shit after you know, won’t be a second time.
@@drecaine646 thank you, brother!
They will one day see how wrong they were to use me, they will one day crawl back only for me to use them as a road tile like they used me.
I still remember my 8th grade in middle school, I was in such a deepressing state, I still recall the dreadfull feeling of drowing in sorrow, it was odd how much I enjoyed the feeling, it was like a drug and I longed for it.
Eventually I just sucked it up and realized how close I was to letting go, now im 17 and hitting 18 and honestly sometimes when things dont go well the feeling comes back, not as strong but it makes want to just listen to music and lay in bed for hours. Im hoping that the military will allow me to just forget all of it and turn me into a different person because im still the same kid I was when I was 15 and I dont want to let my mom down again like I did back then.
fascinating
0:18 Skill issue
Truly losing people you care about who's the hardest thing to go through. but there will always be people that understand and will be there for you. We are never truly alone I say this if you need to hear this you matter.
Yeah I could only watch this once. A great movie just hits so close to home.
What’s it called?
I've never attempted suicide, but sometimes I'll think about what would happen if I did go through with it. And then I think about how my parents would react, and how heartbroken they'd be. I guess what I'm trying to say here is, is that yeah life sucks, but I just gotta soldier through
"Come to me all weary and heavy laden , l will give you rest" JESUS
and make sure my priests have a lot of kids to diddle
I want to feel jesus inside me ! come into me jesus fill me with your love !
Life is a game you play it to the end no matter the cards you are dealt 🔥
“sometimes i want to let go” - random 14 year old in the suburbs
To all those who are depressed pls do not be afraid to reach out to someone and talk about it you guys are not alone for Jesus is with you and if your thinking of doing it don’t it’s not worth it and I know this message will not instantly heal you but I just wanna say to all you guys are who is struggling with depression that everything will get better have a blessed day 🙏🏼🙏🏼 and always keep your head up❤❤
I’d never do it, cause I know exactly where I’d go if I did
“Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus!..” No offends, dude, but why should I worry about some Jewish dude, if he loves me or not. This dude must be cruel if he like to see how millions op people die becomes of wars, hunger and etc, so why should people do not be afraid if Jesus with them
Nice to see a genuine, heartfelt support comment that wasn’t riddled with “just don’t let things depress you” and the like.
@@user-he5lc8mo6d ah yes, the classic argument of “if God exist why bad thing happen!!!” Wow, what an original perspective! No theologian has ever thought of an answer to this question before! As for what you said earlier, which despite saying “no offense” was completely contrasted with your callous comment, the reason you should care is because he died for you and you owe your life to him. Jesus was flayed down to the bone so YOU could have salvation. He endured unimaginable torment so YOU could reconcile with God. How could you not be grateful? How could you be so insulting to the greatest man in the world? You baffle me.
@@lookwhatyoudidtomyfish4453 I have never asked him to die for me. And why did you say that I offended him? Did he said to you that he was upset by my comment?
Don't give up please. Life can be better, just give it a chance.
Fuck it.
I feel this everyday.
Manchester by the sea is such a great movie
Is what it is, just.. Keep going..
This movie really said 🗣️:-Let go
What is it
@@tower-eu6wn let go bro😂🤝
The most unrealistic thing here is that the cops actually tried to help him when he grabbed the gun and didn't just load him up with ammunition
That part where he tried to end it with the cops gun…. That hit…. In a spot I didn’t know existed until now
And just how he says "Please" despite it not being in the script.
I’ve never said this to anyone but. To everyone here. I’m 15 and Depressed, I have no emotion in me, feel hopeless, just pain, done bad things, sinned so much, and have had suicidal thoughts. If you’re reading this I want you to keep going. there’s always gonna be bad days. You have to have bad days to have good days. You can never feel good forever. But know matter What your going through. There’s Always Light at the end of the tunnel. Keep your head up💙
"It's not the first step, or the last step that's the hardest. It's the next step." Just focus on your next step. It will get easier. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. The thing is, you have to do it every day. Keep moving forward. I love you.
I don’t mean to sound rude bit it’s somewhat funny for a 15 yr old to be giving advice on depression. Some people have been in the hole for longer than you have existed, not that I want to discredit your experiences, it sucks either way. Give it another decade to two and see if your the same person then. I’m still pretty young myself, nearly 25 now, and I can somewhat relate to what you’re saying. I too feel like I am a sinner and I am to blame for all of my own misfortune. I’ve been feeling pretty numb lately, almost sociopathic really. My mother just had to get on oxygen, idk why but I don’t really care. Maybe I’ve been unconsciously preparing myself for this for a while; she’s brought up her mortality a handful of times in the last couple of years, but I can hardly withstand such heavy conversations. I think at some point I started seeing life as inconsequential in order to cope with feeling of helplessness. I’ve been trying to convince myself that there is merit in working towards goals, but there is a logical part of my mind that knows I am just sand on a beach.
@@orca1557Yes I understand. Even though I’m 15 years of age, i am not actually giving advice on depression. I’m simply telling people that coming from a person who has Suicidal thoughts, depression, etc, that know matter what they are going through, to keep there head up and they will make it even if they don’t believe it’s true. I can relate to how you talked about your mother being on oxygen aswell. My mom has been on oxygen for some time because of her terrible lungs from all of the things she’s allergic to. I don’t really understand how if I Was giving depression advice to people that would be funny? I guess Younger people with bad depression doesn’t matter as much and they can’t speak on it.
@@kaylatapley2094Thank you. 💙
@@Caseohsbellyrolllint sorry man, I was a few beers in and ranting. Best of luck in your future endeavors.
Jesus!
This is life, constantly being balanced between too alive and too dead inside
I’m 12 and sometimes I have times like these, what really calms me down is music like 90s hits or 50s.
Not to be rude kid, but you dont know shit
me 5 year old and me like itsy bitsy spider it calms me down
И никогда не умереть..
Как фильм называется?
@@Artemkass45 Манчестер у моря
I'm so done with my life......
“ Although you might be going through something, the bravest thing that you can do is love yourself.” - A Wise Man
This is nothing but reality
Omg he’s literally me…
wait hold up
I have no friends at all. None. Zero. When I told my therapist he just looked at me stunned and couldn't believe it. And you know what? It sucks. I mean it really sucks. Constantly i see people on this subreddit talk about being depressed with the SO or hanging out with their friends and i just get so painfully jealous. When I go with my mom somewhere and see other people together just crushes me and I physically feel a pain in my chest. But then who would want to be with me? I have no interests and as an obese blob and I'm not very good at most physical activities. There are far better people to be friends with so naturally I'm left alone. At this point I'm too fucked up personality wise and I don't know how to be around people and am always on edge. Even around my family I'm on edge. And I just suck at being a human so I long for friends but am terrified around people. So is there actually any thing that can really help because the only thing that I can come up with involves rope.
I should also add that I of course do not have a girlfriend. People my age are getting married I have not even been on a date. Jesus just typing that makes me want to cry. Damn I wish I was dead.
Are you on Instagram?
Today i had an anxiety attack and destroyed some places in my house because my cousin invited a couple and they started kissing in front of me,making me incredible jealous...
I am an alone 28 years old virgin with -10000000 social skills.
I dont know if this helps 🤷
@DantePizzaLover understand. For me it's better not to live with family or roommates. And if then only with people that are free like me. No rules. Everyone can do everything together. I 😊
E This film is so beautiful and so tragic, how the characters deal with grief is so real
What's the movie
@@tower-eu6wn Manchester by The Sea
I definitely recommend watching it, but it's a Drama film... if you're sensitive, think before watching it then
I have a duty to my loved ones to live, just live enjoy the things life sends your way cut out the bad. Remember it really isn’t that long you just have to wait a little.
Im dating someone for two years and im more lonely than ever
tell her to toss your salad, it will put a smile on your face
Don’t take your life, take other’s
a suicide is an introverted murder
based
@@amongusy3 ,,based? Based on what” jk
Revenge ig
I stay alive mostly these days by reminding myself that I cannot die before my dad. That’s just not an option and I couldn’t bear to put him through that. I do however spend a lot of nights drinking. The symptoms I guess you could call them come at night. The drink helps but I know it will kill me. Sometimes I guess I feel lost. I hope and pray I make it. I know what I’m doing is bad but it has been hard to get out of this slump lately
Manchester by the Sea such a good movie
When I was younger I used to smile
I was told the world is beautiful, now im serving Russia in the front of Ukraine, Chesiv Yar as a volunteer.
Bye guys….I’m done with this shit…..hope I will be here again soon 🎉
Don't die mf
Yeah, I feel that too.
If the world has torn you...become good at helping others...very good.
Wat is that movie name?
“Manchester by the sea”
sound of music
what is the name of the movie
godzilla vs king kong
@@mlongpre100 Actually it's Avengers: Endgame
This movie... ❤🩹
Hello if you don't mind mate , what is the name of the movie?
@@Justegg3 minions 2
Manchester by the sea
Dam this is real deep bro
Said like a true normGOD
Movie?
earth vs the flying saucers
Suicide is for the weak. Tackle what makes you suffer and let it turn you into something more
Trust me guys, I recently visited my native village and everyone there was so happy and excited about everything, never looked like any kind of pain there. What i learned that all you need is good relationship with your people and all the problems will be faced with a smile❤😊
*"Я никогда не хочу умирать."*
Oh yeah feeling motivated
Никогда не умереть...
I have the most severe depression you can imagine (clinical depression) because I attempted suicide once…
then you should try again😃😃😃
Try again bro, you failed your mission
Bro ,never think what other people say because you got only one life to prove yourself better all you can do is just make it memorable that's how a strong man is done.
Well, I attempted suicide three times when I was 7 y.o.
I was too smart for my age, at the time.
I am continuing to live solely because my death wouldn't change anything. Yeah some people would be sad for a while, but they would move on.
Live or die, it's the same for me.
Because I don't matter. No one does when you look hard enough.
And so I am only searching for an appropriate way to die. Because despite how meaningless the act is in the grand scheme: I wish I could die helping someone.
One last futile act, that won't change anything, but perhaps someone will find a meaning in it, even if it is a lie. Even if it is superficial. Perhaps that person is going to help change something. And maybe my existence won't be a complete waste, like it is right now.
I hope you recover man, Don't try again as those 2 clowns above mentioned dude, your mother will miss your smile when she cooks your favorite food and your best friends would miss their other half and you'd never know if you were meant to be someone in life, if you reached your full pontential, if you lived full to its fullest, if you were to meet the one and start a family.
I can’t believe i thought life was bad when i was younger. If i could talk to my younger self id say enjoy where you are now because it’s about to get worse than you would’ve ever imagined.
Peaky Blinders fans when they realize ptsd doesn’t automatically make you a badass:
what's the point in continuing work or life if OF girls can make more money in a day than I do a year? the world is too far gone to keep living in it
Thats what I think every day
And I get jealous like all the time . But i can't change them . However I can change my fate .
Fuck, only F , in general those girls are trash , you are much better than them
At least you are not some bald virgin in your parents basement donating to them
Workout
Read book for knowledge
Learn skills
Don't give up
gay porn an option xD
You gotta think long term, those OF girls won't find much audiences when they get older, there are tons of competitions and they will have a hard time finding normal jobs due to their identity.
But you can change the world, you can find a way to make them pay. Sometimes, when the world is fucked up that nothing make sense and that the people are crushed, it is up to the honest and common citizen to apply justice.
Prepare yourself brother, reach to like minded people and together across the world we will defend ourselves against this nonsense
I farted and it stinks so badly
As vezes esquecer de tudo é bom para a nossa mente
"Никагда не умереть"
"Never die"
Jesus loves you all, and He's here for you!!
The music doesnt suit this edit at all
maybe learn the lyrics and the origin, then come back
Идеально подходит!
Как русский, который знает перевод и смысл песни, могу заявить, что текст будто создан для этого видео. Очень даже подходит.
"And I try to get up a little"
"I want to look into her eyes"
"Look into her eyes and burst into tears"
"And never die, never die"
"Never die"
"Never die"
"Never die, never die"
You fr bro? Doesn't suit?
Once, I thought ignorance is stuipd.
Now I know ignorance is bliss.
The worst thing about it is knowing that you don’t really want to end your life..deep down you know the only thing you want, is to end your pain and suffering.
To anyone out there I hope you will find happiness. I care about you and the world is better with you in it.
No Darkness Lasts Forever 🖤
I Wish You All The Very Best On Your Adventures In Life
When you feel to let go,just let go your toughts and be free live old❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Not for success but for yourself
it's something we never let go of,it's just something we keep suppressed from running amok
Brothers, we must stop being weak. Our situation is the way it is because of OURSELVES and only WE can change that.
“The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard you hit; it’s about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done. Now, if you know what you’re worth, then go out and get what you’re worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!” -Rocky Balboa
Remember, you don’t have to be alone in this, sometimes you can’t just “snap out of it” or just “be a man” your way out of it. Get the help you need, you might be just a few sessions with a psychologist away from your best life, and you won’t know until you try it, if people tell you you’re weak for going to a professional, don’t listen to them, your mental health is more important than what other people think. May god be with you on your journey to your best life.
Remember brother and sister if you life can be bad it also can be good❤
Cant take it anymore
Hang in there brother
I say this every morning , then laugh cause I said it all before
Every day the voices tell me to end it all, so I can get a bit of peace and quiet. And every day I live my life in hedonistic ways, to get even a bit of enjoyment out of it. But should things get worse, I don't think I could go on.
Mens mental health month ♥️
That was best movie i ever seen
Name plz?
@@user-sd4je4wk7i Manchester by the Sea
@@user-sd4je4wk7i edward scisorhands