Story 1: That was so funny and cute, but hilarious the ex fiancée thought he was doing something telling OP "Your sister is better anyway" like the sister really gonna be with him now or for much longer since his use is no more.
First story; NTA. Your new partner probably has had a thing for you for a long time. Focus on the rest of your lives after you cut the toxic cancer from your life.
I’m sorry but if your anxiety is so bad you think someone can override having their tubes tied just to hurt you, you cannot get married. You need to go back to People school and finish learning how people work.
@@gostavoadolfos2023 but he did say FREE THE BLACKS right or did someone not hear what he said properly like was it BEAT THE BLACKS but he was so loud they thought he said FREE.
The turds will probably be like :" you made that up those texts are fake" .. op just needs to cut ties with the turds and just move on and not look back....
You do have proof that your sister is trash. One you get her ex best friend to tell her parents what she did and two whoever it was that told you that your ex was at her house. She needs to come talk to your parents also. Also show them the train ticket of you going to to visit your sister's ex. There's a date stamped on that ticket to prove that you weren't messing around with him until after you caught your sister next.
None of that matters in this situation. It is obvious her parents in particular her mom does not want to believe her. She could have a video of them f****** and the parents would say that it was fake or it doesn't matter. Snowpoint putting in that much effort for people who obviously would never take her side. There was a Reddit story where someone did have photographic proof that her sister was f****** her fiance. After the parents saw it they just said well they're in love so you have to be more accepting there's nothing we can do about it
Story 2: How the hell did she get her tubes tied without having a single kid? In some countries it is against the law. Other countries, good luck finding a surgeon that would do it.
It’s still hard in some countries to get sterilized but it’s a possibility. It’s tough for child free people to get permanent BC because the hypothetical “future partner that wants kids” or “what if you change your mind” is sadly pushed onto them
In Canada, a woman who understands that getting her tubes tied is a permanent solution can get her tubes tied. Body autonomy. Some other countries also have the same policies put in place. Also, in countries where bodily autonomy is against the damn law for women, if she's got a health condition where it is an absolute must that she gets a hysterectomy or get her tubes tied, doctors have to do it.
Fr, it’s not OP’s fault their mother cheated and tricked their stepfather into raising another man’s child. If OP’s mother and half-brother want money, maybe they should get in contact with Sam’s real father
That second story idk what I was reading with how crazy everyone was quick to jump on everyone's throat here. So apparently saying some women will baby trap men in some instances is sexist, if you know someone who's like this cut them off immediately as you know they're likely to end up in that situation themselves and will try to leech off of everyone in the future when it does happen to them. Plus more than likely the kinds of women these people associate with are some of the most toxic people that ironically enough tend to be incredibly sexist towards men. Its obvious the Uncle has some regret over his own life that his own issues to work towards. Now OP's fiancé was worried about the possibility of OP later on changing her mind in the future when it came to wanting kids, which I don't see how anyone is pissed at OP for thinking this as its a common occurrence for one partner to later on change their mind in wanting children, heck I recall another story with OP's background almost being identical however she decided to not tell her husband about her change in mind months afterwards and tried to have a kid without OP's knowledge. He didn't want kids and they broke up, however this could've ended disastrously. Her tubes being tied doesn't change the fact that she could just reverse the procedure if she again decided to change her mind in the future. As for the fiancé like everyone else said if he's that concerned about the situation happening he could literally just get vasectomy for his own peace of mind, so its confusing why he's even concerned about that scenario happening if he literally has the power to prevent it from happening. Honestly this story is the definition of a story that is stupid and everyone around here seems to be an idiot, all it would've taken is OP telling her fiancé that if she did change she would communicate to him and not try to pull something underhanded like that like that's all it would've taken, but no everyone decides to act like children and blow this entire thing out of proportion. People also saying that OP's fiancé didn't communicate until he "forced" her are the biggest idiots here because he could've literally just said nothing and kept all of this to himself. Its also incredibly ironic on how people want to call out the fiancé for not talking to OP, when literally as he talks to her about it this happens. If she seriously is getting pissed at something she kept probing at him for and doesn't like what he says that's her fault 100%, if he's keeping it from you there's a good reason why and she should've been prepared for something that like that or worse. The people who commented on that post really got a lot of self-reflection and growing up to do if they're telling OP's fiancé to communicate and not communicate when its something bad or serious. If people seriously only want communication when its positive and not communicate about any potentially negative things to work on they should not be in a relationship, and most of all not even be giving relationship advice if they're selfish and idiotic.
There is no way she could get that reversed without him knowing. That isn't just a quick trip to the obgyn. In a good number of cases the tubes are cut, tied and burned. Reversals come with a risk of atopic pregnancy.
@@reflex9238 She told him, she also suggested he gets a snip before the baby trapping nonsense started. Women who are trying to baby trap aren't recommending vasectomy.
@@mamasplayinhookie3131 odd because that’s irrelevant to what I was talking about, since this has nothing to do with the possibility of OP in the future changing her mind which is the thing that killed the cat for the fiancé, as he was worried about that happening in the future. It’s also hilarious because in my original comment I literally addressed this very thing and called out the fiancé for not getting a vasectomy to ease his mind as that seem there’d be close to no way for that to happen in the future.
@@reflex9238 She told him her tubes were tied at the start of their relationship, only a complete dumbass doesn't know what that is and thinks a woman can just change her mind without anyone being the wiser. And her suggestion of him getting snipped at the beginning of their relationship is relevant, it establishes the fact she has doubled down on the childfree lifestyle. Who knows, maybe his baby trap meltdown was actually about his side piece.
First story she should meet with the ex fiance and record it so she gets the evidence for her parents, then go NC anyway
Exactly
Story 1: That was so funny and cute, but hilarious the ex fiancée thought he was doing something telling OP "Your sister is better anyway" like the sister really gonna be with him now or for much longer since his use is no more.
She'll get bored with him eventually and cheat on him next.
@@LunaP1 Yup
First story; NTA. Your new partner probably has had a thing for you for a long time. Focus on the rest of your lives after you cut the toxic cancer from your life.
Best revenge ever.
Second story: NTA he's wants out but is blaming you
I’m sorry but if your anxiety is so bad you think someone can override having their tubes tied just to hurt you, you cannot get married. You need to go back to People school and finish learning how people work.
The low road can heal your soul. Abraham Lincoln
Yeah then he said FREE THE BLACKS
@@someguy-sq1kgoh!
@@someguy-sq1kg I like to make up quotes and attribute it to famous historical figures.
@@gostavoadolfos2023 but he did say FREE THE BLACKS right or did someone not hear what he said properly like was it BEAT THE BLACKS but he was so loud they thought he said FREE.
Why doesn't op from story one just show the texts from the ex fiance about him saying how her "sister" is so much better than her.
The turds will probably be like :" you made that up those texts are fake" .. op just needs to cut ties with the turds and just move on and not look back....
Because sister is the golden child and they'll find a new excuse to protect her.
You do have proof that your sister is trash. One you get her ex best friend to tell her parents what she did and two whoever it was that told you that your ex was at her house. She needs to come talk to your parents also. Also show them the train ticket of you going to to visit your sister's ex. There's a date stamped on that ticket to prove that you weren't messing around with him until after you caught your sister next.
None of that matters in this situation. It is obvious her parents in particular her mom does not want to believe her. She could have a video of them f****** and the parents would say that it was fake or it doesn't matter. Snowpoint putting in that much effort for people who obviously would never take her side. There was a Reddit story where someone did have photographic proof that her sister was f****** her fiance. After the parents saw it they just said well they're in love so you have to be more accepting there's nothing we can do about it
Second story; NTA.
“Marriage isn’t a trap, you can leave anytime.” That’s a damn lie.
Why didn't she show the text the sister and ex sent of him saying her sister his hotter
Probably wouldn't have changed anything. Especially if the sister is their precious golden child.
@@TiffWaffles true
Story 2: How the hell did she get her tubes tied without having a single kid? In some countries it is against the law. Other countries, good luck finding a surgeon that would do it.
It’s still hard in some countries to get sterilized but it’s a possibility. It’s tough for child free people to get permanent BC because the hypothetical “future partner that wants kids” or “what if you change your mind” is sadly pushed onto them
In Canada, a woman who understands that getting her tubes tied is a permanent solution can get her tubes tied. Body autonomy. Some other countries also have the same policies put in place. Also, in countries where bodily autonomy is against the damn law for women, if she's got a health condition where it is an absolute must that she gets a hysterectomy or get her tubes tied, doctors have to do it.
Third story; NTA
Fr, it’s not OP’s fault their mother cheated and tricked their stepfather into raising another man’s child. If OP’s mother and half-brother want money, maybe they should get in contact with Sam’s real father
Yoo no way DRG flares in minecraft
That second story idk what I was reading with how crazy everyone was quick to jump on everyone's throat here. So apparently saying some women will baby trap men in some instances is sexist, if you know someone who's like this cut them off immediately as you know they're likely to end up in that situation themselves and will try to leech off of everyone in the future when it does happen to them. Plus more than likely the kinds of women these people associate with are some of the most toxic people that ironically enough tend to be incredibly sexist towards men. Its obvious the Uncle has some regret over his own life that his own issues to work towards.
Now OP's fiancé was worried about the possibility of OP later on changing her mind in the future when it came to wanting kids, which I don't see how anyone is pissed at OP for thinking this as its a common occurrence for one partner to later on change their mind in wanting children, heck I recall another story with OP's background almost being identical however she decided to not tell her husband about her change in mind months afterwards and tried to have a kid without OP's knowledge. He didn't want kids and they broke up, however this could've ended disastrously. Her tubes being tied doesn't change the fact that she could just reverse the procedure if she again decided to change her mind in the future. As for the fiancé like everyone else said if he's that concerned about the situation happening he could literally just get vasectomy for his own peace of mind, so its confusing why he's even concerned about that scenario happening if he literally has the power to prevent it from happening.
Honestly this story is the definition of a story that is stupid and everyone around here seems to be an idiot, all it would've taken is OP telling her fiancé that if she did change she would communicate to him and not try to pull something underhanded like that like that's all it would've taken, but no everyone decides to act like children and blow this entire thing out of proportion. People also saying that OP's fiancé didn't communicate until he "forced" her are the biggest idiots here because he could've literally just said nothing and kept all of this to himself. Its also incredibly ironic on how people want to call out the fiancé for not talking to OP, when literally as he talks to her about it this happens. If she seriously is getting pissed at something she kept probing at him for and doesn't like what he says that's her fault 100%, if he's keeping it from you there's a good reason why and she should've been prepared for something that like that or worse. The people who commented on that post really got a lot of self-reflection and growing up to do if they're telling OP's fiancé to communicate and not communicate when its something bad or serious. If people seriously only want communication when its positive and not communicate about any potentially negative things to work on they should not be in a relationship, and most of all not even be giving relationship advice if they're selfish and idiotic.
There is no way she could get that reversed without him knowing. That isn't just a quick trip to the obgyn. In a good number of cases the tubes are cut, tied and burned. Reversals come with a risk of atopic pregnancy.
@@mamasplayinhookie3131 There's no way for the fiancée to have known the type of procedure that she got, unless he's looking at her medical records.
@@reflex9238 She told him, she also suggested he gets a snip before the baby trapping nonsense started. Women who are trying to baby trap aren't recommending vasectomy.
@@mamasplayinhookie3131 odd because that’s irrelevant to what I was talking about, since this has nothing to do with the possibility of OP in the future changing her mind which is the thing that killed the cat for the fiancé, as he was worried about that happening in the future. It’s also hilarious because in my original comment I literally addressed this very thing and called out the fiancé for not getting a vasectomy to ease his mind as that seem there’d be close to no way for that to happen in the future.
@@reflex9238 She told him her tubes were tied at the start of their relationship, only a complete dumbass doesn't know what that is and thinks a woman can just change her mind without anyone being the wiser. And her suggestion of him getting snipped at the beginning of their relationship is relevant, it establishes the fact she has doubled down on the childfree lifestyle.
Who knows, maybe his baby trap meltdown was actually about his side piece.
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